Why We ABSOLUTELY Love Retiring in India after 27 years in US?

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  • @DesiReturn
    @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Please join other desi returnees and be part of community to engage in relevant discussions by filling and following the instructions in the form (link below) docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfi6V6L4Ipg6Xze_Qm1IxYEPUPCfAPBc1DzFYnNv-j6KWxjrw/viewform

  • @pchander100
    @pchander100 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Probably the best episode in this channel. Very insightful. Thoughtful questions, well answered. After living in U.S for 40 years, I agree with all she said about aging in U.S. It is not bad mouthing, but it is the reality. One has to do what is in their best interest. She made the right call. Thank you for sharing your insights Dr. Alice. I am considering that move also.

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks a lot for great feedback and glad you liked the episode. All the best with your plans

  • @nand3576
    @nand3576 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    She is down to earth! In profession she nursed sick and in real life she fulfilled her wedding vows in health and sickness! ❤

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes!! Thanks for watching

  • @SI-fb3yr
    @SI-fb3yr 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    It was an interesting discussion .When you are living with a person who has a chronic illness and developes a new problem, it can be very challenging and can rock the boat. It propels you to take tough decisions, find right solutions.She felt she found the right place to settle in India ,after praying .It facilitated her chose to stay in a retirement home instead of having her own house ,that felt intuitive & heartwarming .🧡It is wonderful to meet a brave, versatile lady with a smile thankyou for a meaningful interview.

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Very well summarized. Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts

  • @tresathomas4259
    @tresathomas4259 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you for this episode and for Dr. Alice's participation. She is a very hard working and thoughtful individual. I used to ponder where and how I would ideally spend my retirement years, I gained some valuable insights from her.

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Great to hear that you find the episode valuable and some points to think about.

  • @whatup307
    @whatup307 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    I LOVE Alice Aunty’s whole Vibe!! Initially I thought she was kind of full of herself and a little annoying. But Wow!! That is a STRONG WOMAN who can not be stopped!! LOVE IT!! I would love for my in-laws to go stay in a place like the place she stays!! But I can just hear them worrying saying “oh no! What if this?! What if that?!” But of course they are worried about how they will live. They live in America with no social life, nothing. What is hard is that- especially in Kerala- all the young people are leaving, like aunty said, abroad. There are big beautiful homes that are empty and gated up and locked. Mostly older people are left there. When she said , “You can’t depend on your children.” Sad but true in America. That’s what all our parents said while we were growing up there. 😕 This is one of the best shows I have heard so far. Great one Avinash!! Well done!! 👍🏼👍🏼👏🏽

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Great. Glad you enjoyed the episode and feel free to share with others who can benefit from the content. Thanks

  • @Mahiskanna
    @Mahiskanna 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I completely agree with her. That might be my plan in the near future. Thanks for sharing your story. 🙏

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That’s great. All the best and thanks for watching

  • @meerapatankar7275
    @meerapatankar7275 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    27 years in USA but she is typical malayali in accent and mannerisms and speaking English! With exchange rate and having relatives in Kerala makes it easier.

    • @srin937
      @srin937 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      What has accent gotta do

    • @emailshe
      @emailshe 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@srin937 Some people are quite superficial, and can not see the real value and worth of anything so they pick on accent and looks

  • @jnanakshatriya668
    @jnanakshatriya668 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    As India develops, this is a good business opportunity. Very good retirement homes are difficult to find and India in 20-30 years will require lot of it.

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      True. Hard to find good retirement homes where service is high standards. We are planning to work on collating information and other aspects

  • @vikramjayanth2289
    @vikramjayanth2289 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She is a teacher and she explained very well on the rational decision and pragmatic view on returning back to India to retire.

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes. Very clear communicator and clarity in thought process.

  • @jessayyes3289
    @jessayyes3289 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Amazing lady and great interview!

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you liked it!!

  • @dipzdes2480
    @dipzdes2480 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Its very inspiring talk and i also hv same thought process going on in my mind and this video gives me a push that i m thinking right and i want to go back after living for 27 years here in canada....thnx so much for sharing❤

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wow. Nice to hear that! Glad you liked the episode. Please feel free to share with others who can benefit from the content

    • @dipzdes2480
      @dipzdes2480 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @DesiReturn definitely...

  • @SatishVorkady
    @SatishVorkady 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks, good information and practical approach

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you liked it

  • @soumendrabhattacharjee3414
    @soumendrabhattacharjee3414 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you love to know more is there any website ? for moving to India .

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Please send a note to info@ desireturn .com

  • @shobamoses6837
    @shobamoses6837 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Absolutely enjoyed this episode, she was so positive, hopeful and very informative about the whole process. Thank you for the detailed hour, Dr.Alice!
    Looks like she found a good place in Kerala, similar to an Independent living or Assisted living place back in US. Good to know such retirement facilities are available in India, especially something that is trustworthy. (And Medicare is not free, we pay into it all our working lives even during our H1B years. And Medicare does not pay for all treatments n procedures at 100%, your hospital days are precalculated, your therapy days are limited, Medicare pays 80% which means you have to have Medicaid or private insurance or out of pocket for the other 20%. Nothing is free.
    But what she advised was so important, planning the future, being realistic about urself n health, and carrying a positive attitude makes a big difference in quality of life.
    Again Thank you for this interview, it made a difference!!
    Wish her and her husband a healthy, joyful, peaceful and great retirement life!!

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Gald to you liked the episode and got value. Good luck with your plans!!

  • @SingaporeBuilds
    @SingaporeBuilds 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Wow. Completed education at an advance age. So inspirational!

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes PhD at age 60 is so inspirational!!

  • @user-dz2dc4qf1w
    @user-dz2dc4qf1w 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Brilliant podcast for retirees Avinash, HNY 2025 trying to catch up on videos.

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Happy New Year! Welcome back! Thanks as always!!

  • @Sri-Charan
    @Sri-Charan 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Whts the center name where she is staying

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Its St. Mathews Homes in Kallara Kerala. Thanks for watching. It was mentioned in the video

    • @Sri-Charan
      @Sri-Charan 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ missed it in the video then. Thanks

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No problem

  • @kishinjagwani5350
    @kishinjagwani5350 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Very informative video. I will appreciate if you can say something about taxation rules apply to you as an ordinary Indian resident where your all income from any country will be taxable in India- that includes your social security, withdrawal from retirement account 401K , any dividend or capital gain from your investment in stock market in USA.
    Many people USA citizens went back to USA after knowing the Indian tax laws. Please put some light on this matter. Thanks

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks a lot. Please check out our other videos in our channel, where we talked about 401k, SS benefits, financial FAQs etc., to help with the information you are looking for.

  • @India80z
    @India80z 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    how much enough to retire in India for couple?

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Depends on age, place to retire and life style

  • @srin937
    @srin937 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Avinash if you name is..very well said by you as well in the concluding comments

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks a lot!! Appreciate your feedback!! Glad you liked it.

  • @jayaramanpr8159
    @jayaramanpr8159 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What isgreat in India ?

    • @equantrnql
      @equantrnql 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

  • @jkfavs1
    @jkfavs1 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great episode, looks like she took driving license after moving back, especially at her age kudos to her!!

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you liked it!!

  • @Sribell-g7r
    @Sribell-g7r 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    You need US when you are young to make money and being in US for soo long one would already know how the retirement/old age will be. Now that one is past their prime and after taking all the benefits US has to offer, putting US (or any other country which is their Karma bhumi) in bad light shows double standards. So, please stop comparing saying one country is better than others based on your convenience.

    • @Kingdia97
      @Kingdia97 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly, now she’s using India because it’s cheap. She gave her best years to America and now has only come back to take benefit from India.

    • @mayankindian3750
      @mayankindian3750 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Us ke pass printing machine hai wo bhi batao 🤬😡😠

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      I don’t think its about putting a particular country in bad light. At each phase of life, different priorities and choose whats best for you and family. One will pay taxes in India when they live in India

    • @SUJAMUK
      @SUJAMUK 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      America didn't give her anything free. She worked hard to earn money. Everybody is free to live where they wish and what suits them. You don't know what you will do when you get old.
      Anyway this website is for the people who comes back to their own country after retirement . Why are you watching these videos and making comments.
      Qualified skilled people will earn money even if they don't go abroad.

    • @PriyaSankar-i2r
      @PriyaSankar-i2r 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So true,many people live abroad and left their heart in motherland for so many reason and they are waiting for the day to return to their motherland ,iam one among the people who is waiting to return bk to my India without knowing the day

  • @ShivamSrivastava05
    @ShivamSrivastava05 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It shows she was a teacher.

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes. Very clear thought process

  • @srin937
    @srin937 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Fantastic ma'am

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks a lot

  • @srin937
    @srin937 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    European Irish all have done this so please give her respect due to them she was a Nurse who was saving lives i have high regard for her

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you!!

  • @sonalvaishnav5182
    @sonalvaishnav5182 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Where have you landed? In India?

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Kotayam, Kerala

  • @RoshanPais-e1u
    @RoshanPais-e1u 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Use the west to make money. If you have enough then stay. But if you don't have enough then move back to India and use the advantage of beating inflation and getting Labour for cheap. You cna have a maid a cook a driver a nurse. Cheap helathcare and medication.

    • @khalsa3344
      @khalsa3344 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Simple explanation for all confusion. 🎉

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Its not always money. Some people want different social life when they get old. Everyone priorties are different.

    • @equantrnql
      @equantrnql 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      every plan has pros and cons. One has to decide for oneself about anticipated (and unanticipated) needs...

  • @sonalvaishnav5182
    @sonalvaishnav5182 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I believe I also think similarly.

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thats great!!

  • @sundarraj61
    @sundarraj61 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don't think increasingly cost of living considered

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Inflation is a key aspect to consider in the planning

  • @subhajitbhadra6082
    @subhajitbhadra6082 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Basically, India is becoming an old age home..

    • @susanthomas6940
      @susanthomas6940 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Not really. It will give opportunities for everybody. They need hospital, doctors, nurses, pharmacy, schools for the children, teachers, builders, electricians, plumbers, etc..etc...

  • @VidhyaSivakumar831
    @VidhyaSivakumar831 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Lots of great reasons we could relate to when my parents picked Nana Nani Cbe in 2015 and we bought ours at NN in prep for future retirement.

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for sharing your experience and plans

    • @shobamoses6837
      @shobamoses6837 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How do you like the Nana Nani retirement home? I'm in the process of gathering information about homes for myself. It will be helpful.

  • @bharatham6910
    @bharatham6910 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She is very lucky.

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for watching

    • @flushingnaturequeen
      @flushingnaturequeen 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      How old is she? Just curious

  • @bvssrsguntur6338
    @bvssrsguntur6338 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    32nd min....love it

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Awesome! Thank you!

  • @yashsha045
    @yashsha045 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    👍👍👍

  • @deveshmaheshwari6598
    @deveshmaheshwari6598 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Would u come back if you were fully fit ? U are coming back or praising because of cheap labour you get here

    • @shivap333
      @shivap333 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You can make this comment only if you have never bargained for a few bucks with the poor vegetable seller on the street while at the same time shamelessly paid exorbitant price for a hyped up movie of an already bloated film star.

    • @SUJAMUK
      @SUJAMUK 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @deveshmaheshwari6598 Who is stopping you from coming back.
      Anyway, this website is for the people who have come back or are thinking of coming back. Not for the people like you to make disrespectful comments. Please remember that most of these people are elderly and you should have some respect for them.
      I think you are jealous because she has done what you can't.

    • @jinodm4207
      @jinodm4207 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Says the guy who is jealous of her.

  • @sumitaluthria5376
    @sumitaluthria5376 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Is this home for only for Catholics ?

    • @vabarak
      @vabarak 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      There are similar centres in different cities in India irrespective of religion n caste.

    • @DesiReturn
      @DesiReturn  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes several centers in different cities irrespective of religion, etc., each center might have some specific rules

    • @jinodm4207
      @jinodm4207 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@vabarakno, its not