@@Killua_Zoldyck3407good question, and I see nobody answered. My childhood was the same. If you stay and survive, and finally leave, you will need to detox. Until then, remain calm, do not exacerbate the situation, and pray to the most high for for help. Remember YOU are not the problem. Retribution comes in strange ways and at strange times, but You will be vindicated. Remain at peace…❤
I need your help I want someone to share my problem I'm being threat very much please tell me what should I do there is no any rule of law I can't even get protection form god
Very wise. If you have ever been verbally abused, let them finish. Then say nothing. If they ask why you say nothing, then you say " If an offer comes and itf it is not accepted , to whom does it belong?" Then they might say " I didn't offer you anything ." Then you say " You have been offering me whatever you have been offering" ( It means their opinion ). Then, they realize they have been offering nothing but verbal abuse. Then if I do not accept what you've been offering ( the verbal abuse), then it returns back to who offered it. It probably lost a little bit in the translation, but I tried to explain it in English, and I understand it in my heart. Good one. Thanks. I will try this. It makes sense.
Yes, this is true, theres a mantra that goes like this "return back to the sender". It is one of the method used by the empaths when assaulted by negative energy that doesnt belong to them.
@@lenakrupinski6303 - Yes it is a great spiritual lesson. One that we all need to think about before the next time that one person we know acts up and triggers old emotions in us. I used this principle today, and it helped me when my own sister acted typically and instead I kept my calm. She walked out of my house and later texted me to apologize! She wanted to come back over. I told her to come back over and have dinner with us, and that I had no idea what had happened. She seemed calm and we all had a good dinner together and it would not have happened if her verbal abuse to me had triggered me. I did not accept it and she knew it. It belonged to her, not me. It worked.
@@ririzamel285 - Thank you for telling me about the "return to sender" mantra. I appreciate it. I understand it now. We all need to think about before the next time that one person we know acts up and triggers old emotions in us.
I mostly do that, of not hitting back those who hurt me, but sometimes I do regret it of not slapping my words back what they deserve, sometime people do take so granted and look down, and I need to hit them back with my harsh attitude of not treating me bad next time
Just recently It happened to me. I was treated badly and never spoke for quite sometime to them but a perfect time has come and calmly I talked to them not angry but citing what have happened and did to me and I thanked them for making me stronger.
This is very good food for thought and words of wisdom that are spoken by the wise man. A word to the wise is sufficient to follow the example of what he is saying. When people treat you badly, karma will come back to them. What goes around, comes around. We must all treat one another with respect and dignity. For this is the golden rule that we all learn from our childhood.
Never drop down to their level... Excellent! This is a big lesson for all of us, it is not to listen to her, but think for what he needed..and then action. Beautiful!!
Walking away is the best way to respond not react..Wish them luck happiness and peace. I feel the way others treat us is their Sanskar not ours...If they do not respect it's how they are not how we are.
Jesus taught as written in scriptures - But , love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you. Mathew 5:44
God also taught: put them away from your midst... What happens to animals who are attacked in nature, when they don't protect themselves? They die. When you don't protect yourself, you will develop trauma and cause a psychic and emotional death. You also allowing the one who hurt you, that this person Will hurt you again and again and again. Be yourself and protect yourself. Always.
Yah.its true 💞 the more u treated badly or wrong to u ..the more u walking away no need to explain it .. especially ur true love 💕 and one day, it's ecognized mistakes for u ..Amen God 🙏
If some one treat me badly I confront them direct. It’s the best way and truth will set you free and open up doors. Namaste love and light. We can’t force respect or growth or change but we can do serenity prayer and again people do what they want in this life. I try nit to judge
After I wrote I went back and zip lip and just listened to video Remain calm. Walk away. Silence is golden but nit always easy to do lol I am a natural hot head. But I promise. In life bring out the best in me. Namaste love and light for peace. People in life to have better communication understanding peace begin wth a few simple words face to face. Namaste love and LIght
We must act rationally, but speaking thoughtfully irrational gets the point across without escalating the confrontation. It works when you are always ' rational '. See my STORY in this thread.
Wonderful words! Most of the problems an individual faces is because of reaction to the outer environment. Sometimes it may be healthy and at times it may be to set you off. Reaction to such events will cause more harm and people who try to bring positivity will attract positivity and people who try bringing in harm, will attract harm. Inculcating the habit of not reacting to external stimuli is the best option in life.
Hope everyone read this .only some get to read this.to be kind and a smile will cost nothing but....it doesn't come easily.in return we may get a blessing which is valuable in someway.
I've always ben a happy person anyone do me wrong I speak good extended about them so my blessings will keep on praise god goodness that he brought me from❤🙏
And dont forget to pass on compassion from GOD(from the spiritually forfunate )even to the most wicked person( to the spiritually unfortunate) in your life cos it contain knowledge(mercy) for that person to see and help his wicked to be turn to good. All wicked gets it roots from good intention gone bad without knowledge. I really like Dr Abdul Kalam cos just listening with my eyes makes my brain humbled with tenderness pleasure. May God bless his soul with lights to lighten his grave , herefrom to Paradise.Ameen. Thanks for the upload. Peace.
Sir taking the things positively is really the best. But sir as in the it changed the woman in our practical life if this happens sir trust me i will be the luckiest person. Always considering all things positively may help to think other people we are foolish.
I think you are also one of the greatest fan of kalam sir like me. Thank you And before leaving this is for you one good book is equal to thousand good friends but one good friend is equal to a library
Thank you so much for all your life advice 🌻 It was happened to me yesterday and i successfully did all these things on my new job. All the guards are rude, the trainer and also my new colleagues are rude so it's true that there's a poor company. Because of this advice it gives me hope.
Ezekiel 36:26 Jesus says come to Me and I will take your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh,I will put My Holy Spirit within you and make you a new creation. ----------------Go to God the creator not the deluded created!Be blessed!
@@lelev.5758 The Lord, the King of Israel said: “I am the first and I am the last; and beside Me there is no God.” (Isaiah 44:6) Christ Jesus said: “I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end, the first and the last.” (Revelation 22:13)
@@lelev.5758 You just blew my mind you know nothing. I guess I was meant to read this is blasphemy of God our father and his one and only son Jesus Christ. God is everything, every where. God is the word and the word is God. His son is the light and he sent his son to man so that man can be saved. Jesus was sacrificed for us. He came into this world to set a fire inside of every one. He is God's son but he was born of a virgin who was overshadowed by the Holy Spirit. He is Holy but his flesh was human. He taught people in parables so they would become enlightened. In the Garden before his crucifixion he prayed to God to remove his cup (crucifixion) then he said his spirit was willing but his flesh was weak. He knew what was going to happen to him. He sacrificed his self for mankind. All they have to do is believe. The Kingdom of Heaven is already here but you can not see it. It is inside of you and outside of you. Be careful with your words you will become what you believe and say. Keep seeking and everything will be revealed to you. Read the book of Thomas
Moral of the story: Leave them alone and let God sort them out. He is the just judge.
Remain calm , stay strong, and walk away🙏🙏👍
What if you can't walk away when you live with abusive parents?
@@Killua_Zoldyck3407good question, and I see nobody answered. My childhood was the same. If you stay and survive, and finally leave, you will need to detox. Until then, remain calm, do not exacerbate the situation, and pray to the most high for for help. Remember YOU are not the problem. Retribution comes in strange ways and at strange times, but You will be vindicated. Remain at peace…❤
Stay calm...they will destroy their self...just go away...
I need your help I want someone to share my problem I'm being threat very much please tell me what should I do there is no any rule of law I can't even get protection form god
Your right but some people think that their scared of us they just sit simply whatever We say they think like that too
Very wise. If you have ever been verbally abused, let them finish. Then say nothing. If they ask why you say nothing, then you say " If an offer comes and itf it is not accepted , to whom does it belong?" Then they might say " I didn't offer you anything ." Then you say " You have been offering me whatever you have been offering" ( It means their opinion ). Then, they realize they have been offering nothing but verbal abuse. Then if I do not accept what you've been offering ( the verbal abuse), then it returns back to who offered it. It probably lost a little bit in the translation, but I tried to explain it in English, and I understand it in my heart. Good one. Thanks. I will try this. It makes sense.
You make a choice not to accept their toxic energy,it goes back to them like a boomerang,great spiritual lesson.💚💚💚💚🙏🙏🙏💙💙💙
Yes, this is true, theres a mantra that goes like this "return back to the sender". It is one of the method used by the empaths when assaulted by negative energy that doesnt belong to them.
@@lenakrupinski6303 - Yes it is a great spiritual lesson. One that we all need to think about before the next time that one person we know acts up and triggers old emotions in us. I used this principle today, and it helped me when my own sister acted typically and instead I kept my calm. She walked out of my house and later texted me to apologize! She wanted to come back over. I told her to come back over and have dinner with us, and that I had no idea what had happened. She seemed calm and we all had a good dinner together and it would not have happened if her verbal abuse to me had triggered me. I did not accept it and she knew it. It belonged to her, not me. It worked.
@@ririzamel285 - Thank you for telling me about the "return to sender" mantra. I appreciate it. I understand it now. We all need to think about before the next time that one person we know acts up and triggers old emotions in us.
@@Wise-Lady-La-Aura no worries, you are most welcome and sorry for the redundancy. haha! return and back! im having a brain fog lately.
I mostly do that, of not hitting back those who hurt me, but sometimes I do regret it of not slapping my words back what they deserve, sometime people do take so granted and look down, and I need to hit them back with my harsh attitude of not treating me bad next time
Yes ,it happened with me too, people are cruel
Self-control and self-discipline are necessary to have a good and happy life. Thank you for this reminder.
Just recently It happened to me. I was treated badly and never spoke for quite sometime to them but a perfect time has come and calmly I talked to them not angry but citing what have happened and did to me and I thanked them for making me stronger.
Brave 🕊️
Same with me, dear friend. I haven’t seen the person, but when I do, I too, will tell the person “thank you,” for “toughening my skin.”
Wonderful,People REAP what they SOW.To God be the Glory.👏👏👏
This is very good food for thought and words of wisdom that are spoken by the wise man. A word to the wise is sufficient to follow the example of what he is saying. When people treat you badly, karma will come back to them. What goes around, comes around. We must all treat one another with respect and dignity. For this is the golden rule that we all learn from our childhood.
@a frog The Bible says, "All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God."
Jesus forgives us for our sins. The world is coming to Jesus who is the Light.
Very true.
Never drop down to their level... Excellent! This is a big lesson for all of us, it is not to listen to her, but think for what he needed..and then action. Beautiful!!
It's really good example to control anger. I will remember always this valuable quote. I'll apply when I faced such situation. Thank you.
I can't think of a better way to spread positivity within yourself, within the world.
I agree to a certain amount. If someone breaks your trust life gets worse. Especially when they are jealous of your life and confidence in God
Walking away is the best way to respond not react..Wish them luck happiness and peace. I feel the way others treat us is their Sanskar not ours...If they do not respect it's how they are not how we are.
Jesus taught as written in scriptures - But , love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you. Mathew 5:44
Love...
Very true.
I love jesus 😌❤
God also taught: put them away from your midst...
What happens to animals who are attacked in nature, when they don't protect themselves? They die.
When you don't protect yourself, you will develop trauma and cause a psychic and emotional death. You also allowing the one who hurt you, that this person Will hurt you again and again and again.
Be yourself and protect yourself. Always.
Yah.its true 💞 the more u treated badly or wrong to u ..the more u walking away no need to explain it .. especially ur true love 💕 and one day, it's ecognized mistakes for u ..Amen God 🙏
I am definitely a believer of you reap what you sow!!!
Thank you for inspiring words of wisdom.I learned to be calm always when I will encounter harsh people.God bless you always.
Your videos has a huge impacts on our lives in a better way
Thank you soo much
Simply humbling and inspiring at the same time. Wisdom at its best.
Always feels good to have such thoughts before hitting bed.👍
If some one treat me badly I confront them direct. It’s the best way and truth will set you free and open up doors. Namaste love and light. We can’t force respect or growth or change but we can do serenity prayer and again people do what they want in this life. I try nit to judge
Jedyny co mnie zainteresował , mówi niesamowicie, blisko Prawd, Najwyższego,
After I wrote I went back and zip lip and just listened to video Remain calm. Walk away. Silence is golden but nit always easy to do lol I am a natural hot head. But I promise. In life bring out the best in me. Namaste love and light for peace. People in life to have better communication understanding peace begin wth a few simple words face to face. Namaste love and LIght
This is the story of Gautama Buddha, Nicely Explained, Thanks 😊
th-cam.com/video/t83bQc2oDX0/w-d-xo.html yes. You are correct. I also watch this channel also. But I think this channel is new one. But inspired me
We must act rationally, but speaking thoughtfully irrational gets the point across without escalating the confrontation. It works when you are always ' rational '. See my STORY in this thread.
God is in control to destroy the work of the enemy 🙏🏻 God bless you all this morning 🌄 🙏🏻
Wonderful words! Most of the problems an individual faces is because of reaction to the outer environment. Sometimes it may be healthy and at times it may be to set you off. Reaction to such events will cause more harm and people who try to bring positivity will attract positivity and people who try bringing in harm, will attract harm. Inculcating the habit of not reacting to external stimuli is the best option in life.
Thanks a million. Everyday in the morning before I start the day I watch your videos those are very important to me.
Thanks a lot 🤗🥰
Makes me think of beloved Christ Jesus. King of Kings and Lord of Lords. ❤️🙏🏼🕊
Hope everyone read this .only some get to read this.to be kind and a smile will cost nothing but....it doesn't come easily.in return we may get a blessing which is valuable in someway.
I've always ben a happy person anyone do me wrong I speak good extended about them so my blessings will keep on praise god goodness that he brought me from❤🙏
That's one of the most beautiful things I've ever read.
words are right but following the words in life is little bit tough
And dont forget to pass on compassion from GOD(from the spiritually forfunate )even to the most wicked person( to the spiritually unfortunate) in your life cos it contain knowledge(mercy) for that person to see and help his wicked to be turn to good. All wicked gets it roots from good intention gone bad without knowledge. I really like Dr Abdul Kalam cos just listening with my eyes makes my brain humbled with tenderness pleasure. May God bless his soul with lights to lighten his grave , herefrom to Paradise.Ameen. Thanks for the upload. Peace.
Thank you doctor for your wise thoughts I will put them into practise Ella in dronfield derbys
Sir taking the things positively is really the best. But sir as in the it changed the woman in our practical life if this happens sir trust me i will be the luckiest person.
Always considering all things positively may help to think other people we are foolish.
Our silent God will help us he more powerful than others i love you honey in jesus name ...Amen
I think you are also one of the greatest fan of kalam sir like me. Thank you
And before leaving this is for you one good book is equal to thousand good friends but one good friend is equal to a library
Thank you God’s for this message for us. Amen
Thank you! Wish I had seen this sooner…
Just Beautiful….!!!
This is amazing story thanks
Thank you for good motivation 🙏😀😀😀
Letting go thou not easy is d best option
I’ll always make time to Explain I pray the rght ones learn to forgive too.
Thank you so much I needed that
Soo profound really food for thought. 🙏🔱🙏🔱🙏🔱🙏🔱🙏
It's hard to remain calm at times.bbut yes this is a nice way to avoid many problems. Very nice message and very soothing background music...
I always say you reap what you so! 🙏
Sow! Lol
Thank you Sir🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️
It's all are true 😊😊😊😊
Very nice story,
Nice post
Thanks
Thank you so much for all your life advice 🌻 It was happened to me yesterday and i successfully did all these things on my new job. All the guards are rude, the trainer and also my new colleagues are rude so it's true that there's a poor company. Because of this advice it gives me hope.
Thanks for watching 💥
What a good msgs sir.,too good to be true
Words words words...There is no such creature as a wise man...we all have wise moments...
Wise one.I am inspired
Whatever you have..👏👏
Thank you sir
Very good and powerful thanks
Thanks lot😃
Food for thought. Good message.👌👌❤️👍👍
❤❤
I don't have mistake, so no need worry for myself , from other people
good or not good . I don't care.
Insyaallah may almighty gave me strength to do it😌
Prophet Muhammad had said,"Join ties with those who cut off ties with you, give those who deprive you, and forgive those who oppress you”
hlw sir
I am first. Today
No I was first to like and to comment
Thanks you
Ezekiel 36:26 Jesus says come to Me and I will take your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh,I will put My Holy Spirit within you and make you a new creation. ----------------Go to God the creator not the deluded created!Be blessed!
@@lelev.5758 Read Bible then you should tell about Jesus
@@lelev.5758 The Lord, the King of Israel said:
“I am the first and I am the last; and beside Me there is no God.”
(Isaiah 44:6)
Christ Jesus said:
“I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end, the first and the last.”
(Revelation 22:13)
God bless you my sister.
@@lelev.5758 You just blew my mind you know nothing. I guess I was meant to read this is blasphemy of God our father and his one and only son Jesus Christ. God is everything, every where. God is the word and the word is God. His son is the light and he sent his son to man so that man can be saved. Jesus was sacrificed for us. He came into this world to set a fire inside of every one. He is God's son but he was born of a virgin who was overshadowed by the Holy Spirit. He is Holy but his flesh was human. He taught people in parables so they would become enlightened. In the Garden before his crucifixion he prayed to God to remove his cup (crucifixion) then he said his spirit was willing but his flesh was weak. He knew what was going to happen to him. He sacrificed his self for mankind. All they have to do is believe. The Kingdom of Heaven is already here but you can not see it. It is inside of you and outside of you. Be careful with your words you will become what you believe and say. Keep seeking and everything will be revealed to you. Read the book of Thomas
Ok James brown lesley
Only God can sort out Toxic people
Understood!! Thank you
Great story it's true
May God help us all 🙏
Thank u for the advice
Felt nice❤
I love life and Universe never give up next day will be better for sure!!!🙂😇🥰💜💙💚💛🧡❤🤎❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎❤🧡💛💚💙💜💙💚💛🤎
Lord buddas teaching 🙏
Thank you💞
Right 💞❣️✌️✨
Very sad we should always help other people to are in need, eventhough they are not welcome , but be strong and brave in Jesus Mighty name Amen
Great relief❤
Am truly enjoying this channel, it's so nice❤️🙏God bless you always
Really nice advice. Thanks
On the format... the music was disturbing me so I just turned the volume off, then I could appreciate the wise content.
SO TRUE !💯💜 very moving beautifull quotes and wisdom
about real life !......
👑💜AMEN ! 💜 👑
THANK YOU ! Shalom ! 💜
Thank you
Sometimes words do hurt but do not add flames to the fire it gets worse
Super from now I will never get anger super
Morality....😍😍
Awesome 🔥
Wise!
i wish to meet you in person sir you are really a great man may God continue showering you with his blessings@ MALIBILA MERCY FROM ZAMBIA
Good advice
Excellent content
Human history have everyone.
Such a difficult story.
Super bro 👌👌👌👌👌👌
Nice video..I like all your videos you make me feel strong and motivated❤do more videos about relationship..SP the best🔥😫💫👀
Hahaha thanks a lot😄👍
Excellent👍
👌👌👌nice one
Sooo true
I love this ❤️
Nice video always
Nice message