Suffer the Little Children Podcast - Episode 95: Darisabel Baez
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ม.ค. 2022
- The day after her second birthday, Darisabel Baez was rushed to the hospital in York, Pennsylvania covered in so many bruises that her appearance was likened to “camouflage” by first responders. After Darisabel died from her injuries, her mother, Neida Baez, and Neida’s boyfriend, Harve Johnson, were arrested and ultimately charged with murder.
This is the story of another child whose life was cut short by her mother’s live-in boyfriend. It’s also the story of a little girl whose savage beating death by a video game controller and her own hiking boot must not be what we remember best about her or the reason her memory lives on.
This is the tragic story of Darisabel Baez.
Links discussed in this episode:
Carrying Darisabel documentary: • Carrying Darisabel
Darisabel… Gone But Not Forgotten on Facebook: / 135984945373
In Loving Memory of Darisabel Leanna Baez on Facebook: profile.php?...
Pastor Aaron J. Anderson’s website: www.aaronjanderson.com/
Episode 76: Dante Mullinix (Part 1): www.spreaker.com/episode/4632...
Episode 77: Dante Mullinix (Part 2): www.spreaker.com/episode/4640...
Episode 29: Brinley & Conner Snyder: www.spreaker.com/episode/4466...
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“Darisabel was forced to stand in the corner, which was her usual punishment when she woke up too early” She was a BABY! She had no control over when she wakes up. That’s when a loving parent would’ve scooped her up and brought her into their bed to snuggle together in hopes of getting a little bit more shut eye. Those were some of my favorite moments as a mom! These people are truly despicable!!
Right! This part made me sick. "As punishment for waking up too early" That poor little girl man. I just will never understand how a mother can stand idly by while her child is being beat by someone that the mother brought into the household. The mothers lawyer said she didn't do more because she was afraid that the boyfriend would turn on her and hurt her or ramp up Darisabels abuse even more. Um...I'm sorry but if I ever saw someone hurting my child I don't care what happens to me I am going head to head with the monster hurting my child. Most mothers would. I just do not and never will understand the evil...the cruelty these heartless monsters inflict on these innocent babies.
Yeah! I heard this and I was like WTF! who raised these losers! This little girl was so innocent that it's just so hard to listen to this situation. How can someone let others hurt their children, I'll never understand 😔 😢
@@rheannajohnson9827 yep. SORRY, but I cannot and WILL not ever understand a mother who is “too afraid” of the repercussions of defending their defenseless child(ren).
Right?! That’s what I do- my 4yo loves this
@@lorenakarim7257 a monster raised Harve. His mothers statement in court she said she used to beat her children with anything she could get her hands on. She said one year she spent their welfare check on heroin right before Christmas and locked Harve and his siblings in a room for 2 days so she wouldn't have to see her children no open up any gifts in Christmas. She was an abuser, who failed Harve.
This happened in the town I grew up in. I was in mid 20s and a mother of young baby girl at the time. I will never forget baby Darisabel. I followed her case very closely. It made me disgusted. There were complaints from neighbors prior to this about the treatment of this little girl. Nothing was done. I will also mention, although Harve was in "protective custody" at the local prison until his court hearings. He may have been in protective custody from other inmates, but not the guards. They let him know how they felt about him. That's all I can say about it. I wish nothing but the worst for Harve and Darisabel's mother. She let it happen.
I always look forward to your videos. As a victim of awful and systemic child abuse, I really admire you for the care and the work you put into these videos. We need more caring, empathetic and giving people like you. Your passion & love for these cases is admirable and it's much appreciated! Thank you 😊
Yes, your voice for the voiceless is precious.
I agree completely, the channel should be far larger
100000% agree. I just found this channel and I’m hooked. To Lara: I’m sorry you had to go through all that you have.
How could anyone stand by and watch a baby get beaten that way? Not just her mother, anyone. How??
"Like camouflage" sure gets the point across... This case is sick beyond words. The reactions of first responders are beyond moving.
This one was hard to get through. I had to pause several times, especially after hearing the injuries this little girl suffered. The birth giver and her BF clearly enjoyed torturing this child. How else would the missing nails be explained? Just horrendous.
Beyond comprehension. Sad.
You hear a story where a 10 year old jumps out a 2 story window to save her mom and then you hear this "I was scared he would hurt me" well her 2 year old gets beat to death in a whole nother room
This is so important. It’s so important to recognize and face that evil like this exists. That’s the only way to stop it. The best way to honor these little ones is to learn everything we can from it and do everything we can to prevent it.
(Edit she made a 2 parter 🥺 poor teggy)
Can you please talk about little 3-4 year old teghan skiba? Her story is so tragic, a nurse tried to strangle the man who brought her in and asked a police man for a gun "to do what needed to be done"
(yet another mothers boyfriend killing a helpless child)
Your delivery is so elequent and theres hardly any videos on her 🥺💔
Teghan is on my list for sure! I hope to tell her story soon! 💙
Making a child stand in the corner for getting up too early. Next thing you know it's 11 am? Jeez. Poor child. RIP Darisabel.
Beautiful little baby...She looked like a babydoll
I really appreciate your content, people really underestimate the brutality. People also really need information about the social services, and loopholes abusers find.
It is so disheartening how abuser end up walking free.. and breeding again and again to repeat beating and killing.
That child should be taken from her he is not SAFE!!!! WHAT a monster low life scum she beat Darisabelle with a belt A 2YR BABY !!! Her own child and listened to her screaming for her for at least an hour HOW the hell did she ever get out of prison never mind birth another child absolutely unbelievable despicable monsters
Bullshit social service sucks they do nothing
As a mother you soul purpose in life is to protect your child. The so called mothers need the death penalty along with whomever did the crime because they let it happen NO MORE EXCUSES HILD THEM ACCOUNTABLE!!
ABSOLUTELY....they are worse!!!
These disgusting ppl...my heart breaks for this little angel. The mother SHOULD have got the same....she is WORSE than the monster who killed this adorable little girl. RIP Darisabel 💔
I will definitely second that WE HAVE MISSED YOU Laine 😘hope you and your family had a good Christmas, New year and hope your all okay
I love this seen every episode. So sad . I was abused when I was little. Thank God I had a good mother. After she found out that was that. I remember her crying for weeks
If one is interested, you can do a Zillow tour of the murder house on 710 West Philadelphia Street. It sold fairly recently for a low price but the interesting architecture of the original 1900 building is lost to a terrible remodel. The adjacent attached unit is in rough shape but closer to original so better imo. I mean no disrespect it helps me connect to the victim.
I have missed you!
It seems like there is way more to this … the pinches.. the lack of nails, this was torture. He tortured this helpless baby for waking up in the morning like ALL kids do … I Have no doubt that this abuse was worse then we will ever know.
This poor child .. I hear this and brings memories of my own child ..my boyfriend started whipping him with a belt and if I hadn’t of stopped him by attacking him , fighting him taking the blows and abuse myself that my son would have been beat to death someday or my son would eventually get a gun and kill him!!!
Vengeance was Gods the guy died 2 years later right after his only son was born. God wasn’t going to let this happen to another child!! Or Mother!!
All glory to God for saving my sons life AMEN
Cathy, it sounds like you could write a book! You did it exactly right!
But glad you did just not stand there and watch and let God do it and he would have died. Remind people they have to take action not just wait for God.
Right! Cause that's what mothers do. They will gladly bear the brunt of the beating if it means protecting their child. Darisabels mother said she didn't intervene because she was afraid Harve would turn on her. Uh, good! At least he wouldn't be directing the abuse toward Darisabel. It just infuriates me. She worried about her own ass over her daughters and to top it off she was pregnant by this monster. Hopefully that child is somewhere in a loving safe environment.
Kudos to you for protecting your child as all mothers should.
God is good! ❤
This one made me cry... thank you for covering these grueling cases and take care of yourself. Wow.
I was with a man who thought he was going to discipline my daughter that I had from a previous relationship. That was not going to happen...I don't know if he would have beaten or just smacked ...but he had started yelling at and threatening to spank her. He told me he wouldn't really do it but wanted to scare her into listening to him...not sure why he thought that was ok either! Needless to say...we aren't together anymore. I'm staying single until all six of my kids are at least like 21.. Honestly, I'm totally fine with forever lol.
I feel that last sentence in my bones!!!
Good for you ❤ you got rid of that scumbag
Smart!
I would flip the fuck out if someone acted crazy like that with my child. It wouldn't happen twice! Isn't this man despicable?
"They bruise easily if I BITE them"
..... in what deluded universe can that possibly be stated as a reasonable defence?!!
🤬 I'm so tired of these killers killing people and once justice is served, they try so hard to avoid the death penalty. Sometimes I believe life in prison is good because they will live and remember what they have done. The regret will settle in. The killer will marinate in it for life.
Poor wee child, no child should be harmed, but we live in an evil selfish world where life is no longer sacred.
Thank you for the upload, Dear Laine 🙏🙏🙏🙏
What a tragic story. I never can understand how a mother can sit back and watch or hear their child get beat. I was once in an abusive relationship and stayed way too long but what convinced me that it was time to go is when I suffered a very rough beating that included a box cutter to my throat (allegedly bladeless box cutter -per the douchebag) in front of my then 8-year-old, and when he went to grab anything he could (one of a pair of crutches) to try to save his mom my douchebag ex turned around and took off towards him. Thank God our roommate, and my best friend at the time, was there and coming down to try to stop it and just happen to collide with him, unfortunately breaking her ankle, but luckily stopping him from getting to my child, who swiftly got away and called the police. But that was it for me. Just the thought of what COULD have happened shook me to my core and still bothers me to this day as I'm getting an anxiety attack just thinking about it.
Literally just THINKING about what COULD have happened.
And yet there's mothers out there like this beautiful child's excuse for a birth giver who stand by and watch their child get beaten to death, having not one care in the world. Not one ounce of anxiety. Not one panicked gasp of worry.
I like you hope she's a better parent to her son but in my eyes she'll always be a pathetic, worthless, waste of space.
I hope that karma truely brings her A-game to that woman...
Sarah, I’m so glad you got out of that situation! You did what we’re supposed to do as moms: you protected your baby above all else. I wish I could hug you!
@@SuffertheLittleChildrenPodcast ty! In hindsight I don't know why it took so long to leave but once I realized he might go after my child instead of just me.. IDK something clicked in my head. It's one thing to beat me I'm an adult but to go after an 8-year-old trying to defend their mom, you got to be a certain kind of crazy for that shit. But thank you for saying what you did I appreciate that. Sending virtual hug!
@@sarahhirshlee Believe me, if anyone understands staying longer than you should, it’s me… been there, done that… unfortunately!
I'm not being rude but you should have left long before that. Your child witnessing what they did will affect them more than any beating, I can tell you that. We need to stop choosing useless men. We need to have higher standards, long before we think about having kids.
@@Mandaxx25 No need to pile on. She regrets her decisions already. As someone who’s been there, it’s not as easy leaving an abusive relationship as those who’ve never experienced it tend to think it is. Believe me, I have my own regrets. What we need is more widespread education for our children about relationship red flags and recognizing the signs before getting essentially duped into relationships with narcissists and other abusers.
Welcome back, great video as always and I hope you had a wonderful break. I always look forward to your uploads.
This was a tough story! Thank you so much, for all that you do💚
It breaks my heart, her and I are only about a month or 2 apart in our birthdays. It just crushes me that she didn’t get to celebrate her 16th birthday. I hope she’s resting easy
It truly hurts my heart that there are kids living through this situation, today and every other day. I have a 4 year old and I just don’t understand what they could possibly do. Can they get on your nerves, sure but I just don’t get what hurting them is going to do. RIP little angel 👼
So sad and incomprehensible
@@melodeelewis462 it will never make sense to me. There is nothing anyone could ever tell me to make it make sense :(
Your disclaimer could never have prepared me to listen to this tragedy..2 yrs old😭😭😭 Darisabel honey I hope your wrapped in the arms of angels❤😢❤😢😢When I heard what was done to that lil baby & I started feeling dizzy..I realized I was holding my breathe & my heart was pounding..every thing that was done to this poor child some how I felt each blow each savage act, each bruise, each cruelty & when I exhaled & settled my heart I couldn't believe that was only the start of what this baby surfered..2 yrs old are to be wrapped in a soft blanket & be cuddled with love.❤ It only got worse ( like a horror story that hasn't reach the horror parts).. HOW COULD THEY!!😳😩😩😡😡😭😭😭 This tragedy will stay with me forever. I Felt like Dari could be my child & I'll never lose this feeling of such PURE EVIL.. I don't think I've every felt so outraged.. she was loved, she was sweet, she was beautiful, she was strong, she was with her mother😳). She didn't even get to be the sunshine she was meant to be😭😭😭😭.. May she know in heaven that she was LOVED & WANTED 🥰🤗🥰.. I would say may Nada & Harvey ROT IN HELL but I suspect even HELL wouldn't want them💀💀💀 I do have to tx you for bringing this to life so when I see abuse & recognize a child in danger I won't stay quiet & I won't let anyone become poor Dari❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢😇
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I love your channel just found you here thank you for telling her story this little baby💗RIP
"Don't interfere or it'll get worse" has to be one of the most often believed lies out there.
It might buy a short reprieve for a time - sometimes - but a coward who feels so powerless as to make such a threat to their supposed 'loved ones' IS GOING TO ESCALATE, with or without interference.
It's never about 'punishment' or 'discipline'. It's about the abusers' perceived lack of control - which ultimately has very little to do with their victim(s).
Obviously victims should be smart about how to escape / seek help, etc..... but relying on meeting every whim of the abuser & 'just keeping the peace' to prevent harm is supremely naiive.
- Not only because demands will probably escalate, but more importantly?
...because doing so is relying on the benevolence of a person who has already proven themselves to be malicious, to ensure your safety. Madness.
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This one made me cry😢
They made her stand in the corner as punishment for waking up early!?!? And made her stand there from 5:30 in the morning til whenever they woke up... which had to be hours 🤯 Guaranteed they made her go to bed at like 6 or 7pm to avoid watching her, then got mad when she inevitably woke up super early. Also, whipping a baby's torso with what's essentially an electric cord is not 'a spanking"
It makes me sick how often the abuser of the deceased child claims the child hurt themselves somehow. Then when it's clear that nobody is buying that they claim it was somebody else who did it. Then they say the child was naughty, so naughty they were forced to "punish" them. Like, stop being a cowardly POS & own up to what you did! The evidence is telling all your secrets to anybody who sees it. Especially those who have made it their lives works seeking justice for children like Darisabel.
You don't punish 2 year olds like that! For God's sake... You don't "discipline" ANY child like that. But, especially not a 2 year old. She was practically still a baby... poor baby... Rest in peace sweet girl... They didn't get away with it, we won't let them get away with it.
A 2 year old is still a baby...a toddler.
Can you please do Kiesha Weippart? It's about a little girl who was murdrred in Australia
How dare this so called mother say i didn't stop him from beating my BABY because i didn't want him to hit me! Are you freaking kidding me!!! I can't believe she has the audacity to call herself a mother and say something like that!! When you become a parent it is your job to protect your child at all costs i wouldn't let anyone hurt any child in front of me ever!! I don't care who i have to fight she is a monster!! She should never be able to have another child or even be near any child
It seems these monsters are fine at giving out punishment but when it comes to accepting theirs , well, that's another story.
I hope prison is as long and uncomfortable as possible.
I really like your videos very much. If I could make one criticism it would be only that I'm autistic and the rockabye baby mobile music really stays in my mind as echolalia because it's repeated. So I had to keep quickly turning it down every time it came on to try and lessen the effect of it staying and playing in my mind for days after.
wow. incredible. we have finally found The Worst Guy and his name is Harve Johnson. his hobbies include Halo and also *Punching An Actual Baby*
"my girlfriend bruises when i bite her and her kid bruises when i beat her with an xbox controller. i don't understand. why does this happen?"
Im pretty sure i pass this cemetary while traveling up from va to visit my family :(
I cringed when i heard her injuries my god heartbreaking such monsters
Thank you for your hard work.❤**Playing on the stair’s?!!!! PUT UP A GATE PSYCHO!!
Standing in the corner is therestandard punishment for waking up too early… You mean like having a two-year-old child?
Damn if you couldn’t protect her from this monster at least give her up to a loving family that will love and protect her! 🤬
I understand the pastor is just trying to help, but expecting something like that to fix sick, abusive, pedos/abusers is absolutely ridiculous. Especially considering many child abusers use religion to do so. The only thing that’s going to fix those people is either intensive therapy, or prison where they can’t harm anyone. This is why parenting classes are often useless when it comes to families like this involved with CPS. Almost anyone with a room temperature IQ and basic common sense *knows* how to treat a child, even if they were raised in an abusive home. The difference between those that improve and those that don’t (which is the majority) is whether they *choose* to treat the child well.
I mainly treat younger people with eating disorders, but I’ve had two patients who came to me on their own with thoughts of hurting children because I also specialize in OCD treatment. There are definitely people who have these thoughts, but understand that they’re wrong and want to get rid of them. One of them I still see weekly but has no more desire to harm children, and one still does but is actively considering chemical castration among other treatments to attempt to stop the thoughts, though their guilt over the thoughts themselves is so immense, I don’t believe they could actually do it without probably attempting to take their own life afterward. They have no access to kids nor have they ever harmed them, and they’re actively pursuing treatments and call me literally any time they have bad thoughts. These kind of people do exist, they know their thoughts are wrong and they’re desperate for help. But due to the nature of child physical/sexual abuse, most don’t get that. Religion can’t save those kinds of people, I’m sorry. No matter how hard you try.
Honestly, I couldn't agree more.
Unfortunately these pastors do more harm than good....the naiveté of that fool is beyond reasonable thinking. These child abusers are warped and twisted mainly due to generational abuse or control issues. Turning to God to save them is laughable....we have to keep our own counsel not rely on crutches.
Sad part the mom only did 5 yrs got out changed her name and living her life sad they did this lil angel baby so bad fly high baby🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️
What's really scary to me was hearing that she was pregnant! People like this shouldn't be allowed to procreate! If you have no patience, you shouldn't have children! If you put a man child before your own offspring, then you don't deserve to be a mother! If mentally and emotionally you are still very immature, or you're using drugs, then do not get pregnant!! Having a baby does not make you a grown up! I get so disgusted with these single mothers who cannot be alone so they have a boyfriend move in with them and allow them to abuse their child. The mother is just as guilty. I'm sure by now jailhouse justice has been served once they all found out what his crime was. May this beautiful little angel R.I.P. She is definitely in a better place than with these worthless scumbags.
Her mother is out and has another kid?!?! 😱
I don't care if a bear is going after my child. I be in there doing everything I can till I'm either dead or win. What heck is wrong with this woman to allow someone to beat her child and do nothing because she doesn't want hurt. Hell no
That disgusting monster who gave birth to her is out here having more children!!!!!How is she allowed???
1 know all future children should be taken from her she beat darisabel with a belt, how is she allowed to keep children she should be sterilised....unbelievable another child to torture she should have got life meaning life..... WHAT IS WRONG WITH THE CPS IN PHILLY THE MASSES SHOULD MARCH IN PROTEST TO GET THIS STOPPED IMMEDIATELY
Darisabel death should be considered a HATE CRIME.
I think women and men should be quote unquote fixed so they are unable to produce anymore. It always seems like it is a pattern and in this particular case absolutely she should have been in having surgery so she's unable to have any more children
“If I hit that kid, she bruises so easily.”
Uh, yeah? That’s kind of how that works?
Wt h why is she a mother to a son an she allowed her daughter to die she doesn't deserve ta be a mother and I pity son how can this be allowed
even if there’s lots of smiling pics and being sweet in Facebook videos etc.. it’s both victim and abuser basically overcompensating .. the child with love and hugs to the abuser so they don’t get hit again and the abuser overcompensates acting loving to the child on social media or in front of ppl
Crazy how many stories I've heard of parents saying their child fell down the stairs
Imagine he appealed the death sentence on the grounds it was a cruel and unusual punishment...what the hell did he think what he done to that little innocent angel was omg the suffering is incomprehensible how could the childs mother tell her daughter she loved her no way would i tell a daughter of mine i love u after doing such a heinous act. did she tell her little daughter that NO she watched him beat her to death she deserved the death sentence to
Not so… in Australia the cases of the pandemic got more numerous.
Her mother should have got far more time!!
Unbelievable
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I guarantee more than half the country would vote to make a death sentence mandatory for child murderers, so why isn't it? Why aren't those sentenced to death actually executed? They've been deemed by society to have revoked their life.
I also believe more than half would agree there needs to be harsher punishment for CAs. The only reason for not protecting the innocent that I can see is that most people in power are CAs themselves or sympathize with them. What else explains it?
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What's with all the Pennsylvania cases?
I guess they could have taken 2 seconds and grabbed a towel or blanky at least but I know they were panicking to get her help
Holy shit. My family and I just moved to pa. They live near York. I was there on Saturday and nearly witnessed a shooting. Fuck this gives me chills.
Edit: holy shit I go to Penn state. I know that hospital. Fuck man this feels so close to home.
Uh-oh... I have another one for you, then, and this one's even more recent. Here's part 1 of the 2-part story of Dante Mullinix: th-cam.com/video/Bq6eYB4nas0/w-d-xo.html
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There’s a documentary called “Carrying Darisabel,” and I highly recommend everyone go watch it. I have a lot more respect for law enforcement officers, first responders, nurses, and doctors. Trust me when I say this, but you will not have a dry eye watching it.
Yup, I talked about it quite a bit in the episode. It’s beautiful but heartbreaking.
This son of a demon…how? WHY?! Beating a child with a cord for one is not a “spanking”…
I didn’t hurt her. I beat her and then I stood her up?!?!
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I’m only 7:36 minutes into the video, and my blood is already starting to boil. Punishing Darisabel, by standing in the corner for hours, because she woke up early has to be the most ridiculous thing EVER!!
Young children, especially 2 year old children, wake up early, because they’re either hungry, wet, or they want to watch their favorite cartoon.
A loving parent would have either gotten up to feed their child, turned on the tv, changed their diaper, or brought them into their own bed to snuggle with. A loving mother would have NEVER allowed her new flavor of the month to lay a hand on their sweet little angel, or to dish out punishments. How could ANY mother, or father - for that matter, allow a grown man to put his hands on their small child?? Many laws, across America, were passed, in the late 80s, protecting children from being abused!! When I was growing up, during the 70s and 80s, there were no laws protecting children from abuse. None!!! It wasn’t a big deal seeing a parent whipping their child in a store, in a park, or wherever. People would just keep walking, but they continued to watch a child getting their ass beat. They didn’t say anything to the parent, and they certainly didn’t attempt to intervene.
Neighbors could hear a child screaming and crying from getting beaten, but they didn’t dare to call the police. The neighbor figured that the child must’ve done something to get beaten. I know that to be true because neighbors heard my younger sister and myself screaming and crying in pain, from getting our asses beaten with an homemade paddle, and they never called the police, or our paternal grandpa.
The neighbors knew that we were getting beaten because of something that my sister had said or done, because they’d hear the both of us get beaten; yet, they knew that I had said or done something wrong, because only I was beaten. I was blamed for many things that my sister had said and done, because I was able to take the beating.
My mom (RIP) didn’t have a choice. We lived with a male family member who brainwashed her into believing that if she went to go stay with another family member, then they’d hand us back over to my dad, and she was absolutely terrified of him. He made her believe that he’d love my sister and myself as though we were his own biological daughters. That went out the window 6 months later. He made sure that my mom had no other place to go by that time, and he knew that my mom didn’t have a high school diploma, a job, a car, money saved, and she was on public assistance. That’s when he told her that if she intervened with the discipline, she’d be kicked out, along with her daughters, and where would she go, who would take her in, how would she get somewhere, etc. She reluctantly agreed. She had NO idea that her agreeing to let him handle the discipline would result in abuse.
He didn’t only abuse us physically, but also mentally, emotionally and psychologically (mostly me than my sister).
We (my sister and myself) were made to believe that our paternal grandpa wanted nothing to do with us, and he went as far as to disown us. So, we didn’t contact him. If we had, our grandpa would have taken him on a one-way car ride.
I had forgiven him. I had to in order to move on, and not have that blacken my heart and soul, like my sister. The day before my mom passed away, she asked me for forgiveness for not protecting me from the abuse, and for placing blame on me for what my sister had done. I told her there wasn’t anything to forgive her for, because I was well-aware of the situation. Plus, she was the very best mom that any daughter could dream of having, could ever wish for, and could have had. I meant every single word.
My heart breaks when a child dies from being abused, tortured, neglected, starved, raped, and other deplorable things. I just want to grab them through my phone, and give them a huge hug and tell them that everything was going to be okay. I also want to spend 5 minutes alone with the abuser, and give them a dose of what they had done to that child. I couldn’t have any children of my own, but I’ll do whatever in my power to protect them. Children are a true gift from God, and they SHOULD be protected, loved, adored, cared for/about, have patience with, and to mold them into becoming a very productive person in society.
May Darisabel fly high with the other little cherubs in Heaven, and may she rest peacefully in her eternal slumber.
Can you please take this video down. As someone who is related to this family. It pains me to see this. And seeing the comments.
If you’d like to discuss the video, please send me an email at sufferthelittlechildren.pod@gmail.com.
Then don't watch. Bury your head in the sand, sounds like your family is good at that.
This has nothing to do with you.
This podcast is to raise awareness of what the disgraceful rate of widespread child abuse murder if u don't like it don't Watch IT and if her so called mother has another child it's imperative that people are made aware of this and report her if they witness any hint of neglect or abuse ..AT LEAST This child's life will have a chance of being saved.
Truth hurts, your family failed Darisabel, maybe having her story out there will keep it from happening to another innocent child. Hope your family is keeping a close eye on her POS mother and making sure she doesn't let another innocent child to die because she doesn't want to get hurt herself. I can't believe she was allowed to keep any children she had after allowing a man to beat her baby to death for waking up early.
I get qhat you mean but it always rubs me the wrong way when you say you want to dedicate yourself full time to making money off of the suffering of children. Ya know? Esp when half of the video is just you reading what everyone says and then playing the clip so it's very repetitive.
Wow.
As I’ve said (and, I believe, proven) in the past, I’m not looking to “profit” or get rich by telling these stories. Ideally, I want to continue giving these kids the respect they deserve while also feeding my own children, and I can’t do that if I have to go back to work full-time. That’s why for now, I’m living off my dwindling savings, humbly asking for support, and hoping for the best.
The clip in question was 5-6 minutes in total; I was up till 5:00am this morning editing it down to what I felt were the most powerful parts, which was agonizing, because the whole documentary is heart-wrenching. As for playing two brief clips from Harve’s police interview and then quoting it again, I wanted to give the general flavor of his tone, but it was next to impossible to understand what he actually said, hence my repeating it. (I learned my lesson after my Caliyah McNabb episodes, which left people wondering what her mush-mouth father was saying.)
The vast majority of the episode was my own wording using a dozen+ sources with some direct quotes interspersed, but it’s not my place to try to change your mind.
I just wish people would truly try to put themselves in others’ shoes before making unnecessarily snarky comments. Oh, well.
I haven’t heard of a majority of these cases and it’s very eye opening when we hear about judges giving a slap on the wrist for elongated torture/abuse of children.
You sound like you just don’t want these cases to have a voice , when these men and women are living their best lives and they should have been handed death or life sentences. “ItS tAbOo” it needs to be acknowledged!
Lol that's what content creators do; they tell story based off of research. You are jealous.
It would take a lot of your time and effort to go research all of the information she gives in every episode. And you most likely wouldn't do that and therefore wouldn't have so much info in regards to the cases. So she asks for donations to help feed her children for spending her time collecting facts to inform her listeners. Why even come listen to her episodes if you just want to complain about any part of it, publicly. You aren't forced to listen
It’s hard to reword facts. I started some content for my own channel and it’s really not easy at all. Also- I haven’t heard of most of these cases and surprisingly most are pretty close to where I live. She deserves to be paid for creating content you clearly listen to.