Talking To Retired Sergeant Major of The Army And New AER CEO "Tony" Grinston

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  • @mandatoryfunday
    @mandatoryfunday  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    I learned A TON about army emergency relief in this interview. Super insightful. I can’t wait for y’all to see it.

    • @TheRealPaul_Morphy
      @TheRealPaul_Morphy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You should turn these into a 3 hour format.

  • @robinbellamy
    @robinbellamy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I served in the US Army 1995-1998. The hardest part of my transition was my expectation that employers would want to hire me because I was a veteran. My dad served in WWII, and he told me that immediately after the war he could walk into a most any business, wearing his US Army Force uniform, and easiy get a job. It is not that way any longer.

    • @anthonykaiser974
      @anthonykaiser974 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Do you realize that 20% of the military age men in 1945 had served, and the women had taken their jobs in the interim. We had 10M men in uniform at the end of the war. Not wearing a "Ruptured Duck" was almost a mark of shame for guys.

  • @davidmanos619
    @davidmanos619 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    I have been in the National Guard for 15 years and this is the first time I have heard of AER.

    • @anthonykaiser974
      @anthonykaiser974 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not totally surprising. If you never spent more than 29 days on an active duty installation, you may have never been introduced to it. Part of my ADOS inprocessing and outprocessing in Germany was a stop at AER and ACS.

  • @jeffwyatt10
    @jeffwyatt10 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    This man understands how to market a program, whether it’s the Army, or programs that support soldiers. Thanks for all you do Tony!

  • @AuntJoey
    @AuntJoey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    I'm watching this wearing my crocs :). I'm glad Tony talks about "identity" we struggle hard with that as it is, it's nice having one of the guys at the top discuss that "role" change phenomenon.
    Tony is right about us not asking for help. If I understood how to ask for help I'd still have my career most likely. This seems to be more of a PSA - use your benefits boys and girls, they exist to make sure your families life doesn't implode after a major setback event that's out of your control in most cases.

  • @Jesse-i5p
    @Jesse-i5p 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    AER is a great tool for Soldiers in need. I used it twice over my career.

  • @jamesrochon2195
    @jamesrochon2195 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I used aer once in 22 years, and the person at acs talked down to me and tried to make me feel guilty for asking for help

    • @anthonykaiser974
      @anthonykaiser974 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      For future reference to anyone still serving: that warrants an ICE complaint at a minimum. Installation Commander would be interested in that info.

  • @WilliamFrazier-f3j
    @WilliamFrazier-f3j 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Great interview, He seems like he wants to do a lot of good. I hope they let him do the things he's wanting to do.

  • @calneigbauer7542
    @calneigbauer7542 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Tony is right one of the hardest things we do as service members and veterans is ask for help we have this I’m fine or a the next guy needs help more than me mentality. I also remember when I was in aer we were told was enlisted only

  • @funigui
    @funigui 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    HEY - one thing i`ll say is that AER is kind-of forced on lower enlisted - when I was in, they basically MADE you sign up as a E-1. AS an E-1 I didn't have an extra penny to be putting into the AER and I think that needs to change...

    • @lelandgaunt9985
      @lelandgaunt9985 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      No one goes home today until the entire unit has donated. 🙄

    • @funigui
      @funigui 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@lelandgaunt9985 EXACTLY THIS. i hope he can mention it to Grinstead and as a former SMA who's well respected he could make the change.

    • @lelandgaunt9985
      @lelandgaunt9985 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@funigui
      That’s how my first unit did us in Germany in 98 for absentee voting, then Lewis in 2001, when ArmyKnowledgeOnline came out.

    • @Shrider_180
      @Shrider_180 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I hated being forced to donate to AER...they made you feel like a pos if you didn't want to or couldn't

    • @AER1942
      @AER1942 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      We regret Soldiers have experienced this. We have our own regulation (AR 930-4) and the policy for fundraising activities are outlined in AR 1-10 (1-11: Prohibited fundraising activities). AER HQ and our AER officers at each Army installation strictly follow these policies.

  • @noearriaga-h2j
    @noearriaga-h2j 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is definitely amazing going to share it.

  • @lelandgaunt9985
    @lelandgaunt9985 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Easiest way to get an AER loan is to be irresponsible with your money first, if an emergency comes up example: legal issue, spend money on the lawyer first to get money to cover bills. AER is set that if you spend your money responsibly, you’re not going to get the much needed loan.

  • @dawnturner8735
    @dawnturner8735 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am so impressed by the interview and the supports that your military has available to them. I am not surprised that it’s hard to find out about the help available.
    Oh, you get extra points for matching the colour of your crocs with your shirt! Lol

  • @jamesonkennedy4604
    @jamesonkennedy4604 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I hope you keep doing these

  • @kellibaker8532
    @kellibaker8532 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks!

  • @Wpns175
    @Wpns175 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Very good work Mandi! Even as an Air Force guy I think this is a good message! LoL!

  • @JoanneStaples-z8p
    @JoanneStaples-z8p 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sounds like a very good service provided for service people they could use all the help that is offered to them

  • @monicadabney8471
    @monicadabney8471 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like how this man thinks. And your questions were very good.

  • @mattbeglin2091
    @mattbeglin2091 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s so refreshing that an AC leader looks after and wants to take care of ANG and USAR Soldiers!

  • @AudriaOdom-fr2zs
    @AudriaOdom-fr2zs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Respect💯🔥👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏More interviews, please. Thank you.🙏💯🔥

  • @jdhutchinson506
    @jdhutchinson506 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I used AER for one of my soldiers when I was a team lead SPC.

  • @alucarder
    @alucarder 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video

  • @MarcoPolo-zc6zo
    @MarcoPolo-zc6zo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I made it to MEPS where I was told I was an idiot because I didn't know what polynomials were. I decided not to join because a buddy who served 8 years reminded me of a major knee injury that I recently recovered from & didn't list. He convinced me that I'd most likely do my knee in for good if I joined. I ended up meeting my future wife shortly thereafter. I'll take a little being ragged on if it makes one vet laugh. That's the least we civilians could do.

  • @Darkforces817
    @Darkforces817 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I went to basic training with him lol Hey Grinston its me Owen! :-)

  • @KingD-Trix
    @KingD-Trix 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why does he look like a smooth version of Vince McMahon?

    • @dem9345
      @dem9345 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂😂

  • @saxoman1995
    @saxoman1995 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is what youtube is made for.

  • @Leftyotism
    @Leftyotism 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    GI Crocs would be olive I figure.
    Also great for the public shower / shared shower / group shower, or however it's called, since it is what it is. ☝🤓

  • @mooseinthefrontyard
    @mooseinthefrontyard 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Did a brigade run with him. Man, can he call cadence

  • @KailyKail
    @KailyKail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This sounds like the Army version of the Navy and Marine Corps relief society.

    • @AER1942
      @AER1942 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is! We are proud to stand alongside the NMCRS, Air Force Air Society and Coast Guard Mutual Assistance as the official military relief organizations! While we aren't all structured or operate the same, our missions are the same: provide financial assistance to service members and their Families.
      www.defense.gov/Resources/Military-Support-Organizations/

    • @Megadaxo
      @Megadaxo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s exactly what it is

  • @mrapguyify
    @mrapguyify 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so glad "Tony" went to AER as CEO instead of USAA!

  • @trentwhaley4169
    @trentwhaley4169 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Recruiting isnt the issue, Reputation of the government is at FAULT!

  • @davidmarsh7933
    @davidmarsh7933 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The service cap looks nice though.

  • @mr.garrison6947
    @mr.garrison6947 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Were you in starker gym yesterday 👀👀

  • @tledwards7914
    @tledwards7914 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Need to Goto fort Bliss and correct them !

  • @Heather-xm9ul
    @Heather-xm9ul 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Chandler and Grinston were the worst SMAs in the time that I was in.

  • @TinaMo4Sho
    @TinaMo4Sho 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don't touch my boats😅

  • @gardnert1
    @gardnert1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think the big problem with AER being successful at its mission is that asking for help thing. Maybe to get around that leaders could be responsible for periodically assessing their Soldiers' finances and ordering those who qualify for AER assistance to apply for it. I for one would not ask for help unless ordered to.

  • @NTATchannelNickTaylor
    @NTATchannelNickTaylor 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would be very uncomfortable calling the SMA "Tony" my dang self.

  • @WARGASIM_TTV
    @WARGASIM_TTV 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    CROCSSS RRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE stfu dudes enjoy the show

    • @SnickC13
      @SnickC13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      CROCCCCCSSSSSSSSS

  • @Leftyotism
    @Leftyotism 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you gotta wear boots all day it's nice to slip into some Crocs.

  • @aidanpysher2764
    @aidanpysher2764 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    CROCS REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

  • @commandosolo_193
    @commandosolo_193 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God, imagine calling him Tony...

  • @austinshannon4197
    @austinshannon4197 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’d love to join the U.S. Army if it wasn’t nearly impossible to get in. For the average American it’s really hard getting in. I was denied for something so stupid. Tell the decision makers to drop the nearly impossible standards to get in.

    • @craterinahole
      @craterinahole 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They will when they need to.

    • @calneigbauer7542
      @calneigbauer7542 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Go get a waiver you can get a waiver for almost anything. There is a pilot TH-camr c.w. Lemoine and he has this thing called make them tell you no. Basically keep trying and finding ways to get what you want when they say no to you find a way around find a way to make it a yes until you have tried every single option available make them tell you no make them work for you.

    • @lelandgaunt9985
      @lelandgaunt9985 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You trying to get back in I take it.😂

    • @austinshannon4197
      @austinshannon4197 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah. I am trying to get back in. I was in, got out for 8 months and miss it.

    • @lelandgaunt9985
      @lelandgaunt9985 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@austinshannon4197
      Be safe, okay.

  • @Kevin-pr1qw
    @Kevin-pr1qw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro stop buffering when I don't have service

  • @COmalley-gc8op
    @COmalley-gc8op 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Let him know his tattoo policy was fucking stupid

  • @DustyB
    @DustyB 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very very cool sir

  • @Mr_Zimm
    @Mr_Zimm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Grinston is such a turd. Someone gave him the only job in the DOD he couldn't mess up at because AER is already a racket.