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LOVE FEST! 100 Foot Wave's Garrett & Nicole McNamara on Knowing & Never Settling -Ep 85- Dear Shandy

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ส.ค. 2024
  • It's Love Fest time! 🎉 You may notice today's Love Fest is a little bit different! In honor of Andy's obsession with big waves, we're welcoming the stars of HBO's hit docuseries, 100-Foot Wave! This is the episode where you'll catch Andy in a very rare state of being starstruck.
    Garrett McNamara, 8-time Guinness World Record holder for largest wave ever surfed, is one of the biggest names in surfing. His wife, Nicole, is not only his manager but also a passionate environmentalist and teacher. They've been together for over 11 years and have two children with a third on the way.
    Garrett and Nicole share the unique story of how they met (for context, we circle back to this topic towards the end), how they complement each other, how they "knew", and how parenthood changed their relationship. Finally, a record-shattering Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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    0:00 - Introduction + Andy's Big Wave Obsession
    3:36 - How They Met
    10:10 - First Impressions
    14:04 - How They Complement Each Other
    17:33 - What Was An Early Hurdle In Their Relationship
    19:52 - What's Different About This Relationship Versus Past Ones
    25:30 - How They Navigate Working Together
    27:40 - How Nicole Handles Garrett Doing Such A Dangerous Sport
    34:14 - How They Fight
    40:48 - How Parenthood Has Changed Their Relationship
    48:38 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed Since They Met Each Other
    50:25 - How They "Knew"
    58:52 - Andy's Big Wave Surfing Questions
    1:02:49 - The Newlyweds Game
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  • @tonibrooks9719
    @tonibrooks9719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I have to say that this is one of my favorite interviews. I don’t really know if it’s even appropriate to label it as such because it feels more like an intimate and honest conversation with friends about their life. Nicole was spot on when discussing how you really feel after having a baby. I totally relate and I have always said this. It takes months to get to know this human you have brought in this world. You love them but you have no idea of who they are and have to get used to who you become. My husband also felt a loss of me and had to get to know a different version of me. I love the fact that she shared this.
    I have never heard of them but I’m totally fascinated and obsessed with their lifestyle. I will be searching for their show.

    • @dearshandy
      @dearshandy  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As someone without kids who has always felt skeptical of those who claimed a euphoric and instant bond, I too appreciated this honesty! (And I'm also fascinated by their lifestyle-sounds magical!)

    • @tonibrooks9719
      @tonibrooks9719 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dearshandy Yes! I couldn’t have said it any better. It does seem magical.❤️❤️

  • @Arbee1000
    @Arbee1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I was wondering if they were ever going to mention the fact that they were both married when they met. It is interesting that he never mentions the fact that he has 3 kids from his previous marriage, even while talking about not being ready to be a father when having kids with Nicole…? The only mention of their existence was when Nicole made the awkward comment about being a step-parent. Even in the HBO series, his other kids were barely mentioned one time in passing, whereas he seems devoted to his current wife and their kid.

    • @ericaawake9503
      @ericaawake9503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And she was married for 13 days only!! Very confusing..

  • @celesteland
    @celesteland 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wonderful! My favorite Love Fest interview so far. Very authentic and real people. These are folks I'd want to be friends with. Funny, insightful, not measuring what they say based on how it will be heard, just being the interesting, unusual, forthright people they are.

  • @marianarojas2167
    @marianarojas2167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m in owe. I can’t believe how much I enjoyed this episode, I literally had no idea about who these two were and avoided this episode because of it, until I finally gave in since I was extremely bored. I ended up loving it! What I’m trying to say is that I really love your podcast 😂

  • @audreyg1357
    @audreyg1357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was SO EXCITED when I saw this title! Loved them on 100 Foot Wave and even though their relationship was covered well on the show, I still always wanted more. Shandy to the rescue! Also, I agree with other commenters that their realness and honesty around parenting is so so refreshing.

  • @starlippman7087
    @starlippman7087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Omg!! I can’t believe you interviewed these two!! I’m obsessed with the series. Obsessed!! Thank you guys- I haven’t even watched yet and I’m so excited!

  • @barbarabryant6581
    @barbarabryant6581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I adored this wonderful story of Garret and his super wife. 100ft wave film was beautiful. Thank you Andy and Sharleen.

  • @Nerdbombshell
    @Nerdbombshell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved this interview! I found you through Garrett and Nicole’s Instagram posts. I appreciated Nicole’s response to her feelings after having Barrel. Everyone accepts that childbirth is the most painful thing a woman can go through but the expectation of having a euphoric motherly bond immediately can be false and misleading. Most people when they experience a physically painful life changing event it’s accepted that you feel traumatized to some degree. Nicole’s willingness to voice that feeling after childbirth is so honest and authentic. Awesome interview.

  • @haydeeluciano
    @haydeeluciano 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I didn’t know them before this and am fascinated with the interview and all of you together. I’ve listened twice and want more ❤️

  • @marid1207
    @marid1207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sharleen, quick thought.. I believe is fairer to say: "beside every great man is a great woman", not only generally, but especially with this two!. Loved this episode! Thank you

  • @lorispillman4328
    @lorispillman4328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish I knew about the ginger oil 19 years ago when my son was 2! LOL So happy for Andy living out one of his manifested dreams! As a budding therapist, I'm delighted to see a couple who works and dreams together in such an authentic and seemingly effortless way. I appreciate the use of writing down their future dreams together and in turn have manifested/are manifesting together. Seeing their vulnerability and strength as this power couple was awe inspiring. Thank you Sharleen and Andy for sharing this with us!

  • @Woodlyne00
    @Woodlyne00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One of my favorite Love Fest :)

  • @dawnnoel575
    @dawnnoel575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Loved this episode and how real they were…. Not trying to pretend that they have a perfect relationship or have it all figured out.

  • @AnushkaChowdhuri
    @AnushkaChowdhuri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    They were so sweet! I loved the honesty and the fact that they've been together so long and know each other really well! Honestly I feel like where the people are from ie. the bachelor etc is becoming more and more irrelevant in each episode in the sense that it's just nice to hear from a couple that has a loving relationship even if I didn't know them before!❤️

  • @yo8islate
    @yo8islate 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Really enjoyed Garrett and Nicole! What a fun interview and definitely looking forward to checking out 100 Foot Wave.

  • @harrylederman1679
    @harrylederman1679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Since watching this I've watched so many surfing videos and particularly Iof Garrett McNamara riding those massive waves... So very inspiring thank you !.great podcast !

  • @Woodlyne00
    @Woodlyne00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When I get famous and actually find a husband, can I be invited as a lovefest guest. Making this one of my life goals. I'm serious lol

  • @kateliness2
    @kateliness2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh cool!! Very excited for this one!

  • @rosy5728
    @rosy5728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    hey! I called this one back when andy was making surf comments in the last video 🤣

  • @Caitlinsowers
    @Caitlinsowers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I LOVE THEM SO MUCH. Perfect love fest, smiled all the way through!

    • @dearshandy
      @dearshandy  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad you enjoyed, Caitlin!

  • @brianscott5153
    @brianscott5153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ten sec in "Who is this old creep"... Yeah Sharleen said the same.. 😂. Hope you guys have a great day. Oh and Mcnamara is an amazing human. He tackles my nightmare for fun.

    • @alivianaomi9937
      @alivianaomi9937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And both couples met at a fundraising event that at lease one of the partners did not want to attend. I'm choked that wasn't brought up!

  • @heiditanner1406
    @heiditanner1406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Listened for a long time. How big is your age difference? Never realized there was a gap. You are so compatible.

  • @abbyabroad
    @abbyabroad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG TWO DAYS IN A ROW!! What a treat! 🥳

  • @sarahcroft7146
    @sarahcroft7146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love love loved this conversation. Garrett was hilarious!! Blaming you Andy for my new monster wave obsession!

  • @alicemckee5686
    @alicemckee5686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a fantastic podcast. I have no idea of who they were but still really enjoyed it. They are so in love that it melted my heart. Thank DearShandy ❤️❤️

  • @graceweng8762
    @graceweng8762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The way Sharleen effortlessly drops in “curmudgeonly” in a question 🤩

  • @m.lstern5616
    @m.lstern5616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hilariously funny episode!

  • @jareya
    @jareya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved this episode... definitely the most "you" Love Fest yet.

  • @ericaawake9503
    @ericaawake9503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why they didn’t mentioned they were both married when they met?

  • @lani0510
    @lani0510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow I JUST watched the documentary about them. Amazing timing

  • @rosarioochoa3734
    @rosarioochoa3734 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sharleen I totally got a glimpse on how hard you can be on yourself and so glad Andy balanced out that by reassuring you that the age gap question did not need to be asked. It’s definitely obvious too see how much both of you vibed with the real ness of this couple so it’s only natural that you wanted to continue asking all the questions! It was a fantastic interview, thank you! ❤️

  • @stacyjarvis8086
    @stacyjarvis8086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very Cool Couple. Wow!!!

  • @MrsPhoenix2020
    @MrsPhoenix2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you guys!!!!

  • @momentinthewind7220
    @momentinthewind7220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for this. I had no idea who the McNamaras were and their story took my breath away. I have always believed in '"the one" and while it has eluded me I had tears in my eyes knowing they found theirs. The connection is palpable. Love wins.

  • @cierralowery7096
    @cierralowery7096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Love wins" quote of the episode:D

  • @valm6795
    @valm6795 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a surfer, I was super excited about this episode! Who knew we had common interests. Andy, do you surf?

    • @machinelevine1
      @machinelevine1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have surfed twice in my life so to say I am a surfer would be hilarious. I love it mainly as a voyeur, but on becoming a legit surfer I can still dream 💭 🏄‍♂️

    • @valm6795
      @valm6795 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@machinelevine1 It's never too late to start!

  • @lg1603
    @lg1603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She looks so much like Jade Roper.

  • @mimishepard8298
    @mimishepard8298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What about the former spouses? They cannot be villains.

  • @eeg122
    @eeg122 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Luv-ly couple. I would assume to use ginger oil when trying to cut out the paci as well. Will def try.

  • @sassarific
    @sassarific ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been avoiding this particular love fest for awhile. I don't know this couple at all but they each look like other "celebrities." She looks like Jade, I agree, from the bachelor world but HE looks like Shawn of Shawn & Sara from Love After Lockup 😁

  • @sds9966-m4x
    @sds9966-m4x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another couple I had never heard of but I agree with a below statement that it's nice to hear from non Bachelor/reality TV couples as it feels more authentic (in the way that they aren't just trying to get more followers). I enjoyed their conversation and I have also always been honest about having a child- it definitely takes people by surprise when they expect you to say "Ohhhh I don't miss my old life at all! You should totally give up your freedom so someone can follow you to the bathroom and watch you pee for the next three years." :) Although I will say there were a few comments that I thought 'if you weren't a(n older) white man making that sexual comment it would never be acceptable.' I know it wasn't in malice but I cannot fathom my husband ever saying those things about me/us in a public setting. Great job to Sharleen and Andy again!

    • @jareya
      @jareya 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn't hear any sexual comments - glad I missed that part! Really enjoyed the interview.

    • @sds9966-m4x
      @sds9966-m4x 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jareya better not to re-listen for them!! :) It was really one that I thought 'I hope that laugh they are giving him is out of pure awkwardness because that was awful.' Everything else I enjoyed

  • @mimishepard8298
    @mimishepard8298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watch “The Endless Summer.”

  • @JamieMcgee518
    @JamieMcgee518 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was watching some footage of him, about to surf , his wife appears to be aware of the danger, but also supportive. ... If Philip Glass did the sound track for the HBO movie, it should be good. He did sound track for, The Illusionist with Edward Norton and Jennifer Beals and the Documentary, The Thin Blue Line.... ALSO.... Universal Health Care for all Americans, please.

  • @jazmineg.3325
    @jazmineg.3325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This episode is leaving a bad taste in my mouth. I mean, great that they found each other, I guess. However, it's so sad when people leave one family, create another, and seemingly forget about the other family that they created. This may not be the case but the decision to not discuss his other children seems like he no longer has a relationship with them. Also, why go on a relationship podcast and not discuss previous relationships/ marriages which are blatantly relevant to your story?

  • @teaando2278
    @teaando2278 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Depeche Mode 😂

  • @Nezc
    @Nezc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shandy should to come to PT and give me a call

  • @fizolovka
    @fizolovka 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The presenter kind of outed them about their past! Perhaps they want to preserve the privacy of the previous partners and families, which I can understand.