This is my first time here…. And the vlog opened up with a clip of you eating Cheerios out of a zip lock bag….. and i immediately felt at home …. Cause same sis … same🤣🤣🤣🤣
I know she in alot of pain making that noise i make noise like that when im hurtting really bad im not even pregnant i want a kid doe im glad you made this video do i can have idea of what i could possibly go through whenever god bless me with a baby
Congratulations momma! ✨✨ how were you able to get a whole black team? I live in Raleigh, NC and feel like I cannot find a black doctor. I found a doula but want a whole black team to assist with my delivery
hey mama , if youre comfortable & have instagram.. please dm me at @diyeezysdirection ! i lived in raleigh area for half of my pregnancy and i had trouble as well! but we can figure some things out for you!
yes! we were playing tug of war. she was obviously stronger than me at the moment, so my goal was to moreso not let her completely win or let go of the cloth! it helped me focus on pushing in the right area because i was completely numb in my whole pubic area. when birthing on your back, you basically do an intense crunch to push. i also didnt have the strength to hold my legs ❤️
@@keke-zy6hp sorry, didnt see your response. i barely felt it. im good with needles. have tattoos & have had several piercings so the contractions were felt waaaaaay more than the epidural.
@@jayj8513 it isn't in the clips but my doula was on the phone asking me when i felt i needed her. i didn't want her to come until i was sure because she had young children! however, she actually came twice. the first time she came, i decided to leave the hospital & go back home LOL
@@DiyeezysDirection oh ok. I’m a doula myself and sometimes firstime moms tells us to leave and we really shouldn’t because it’s so much work to do to get moms in a birthing a zone. Sometimes, by the time we get back to you, your birthplan has pivoted because of medical staff. Granted, we don’t tell moms what to do but most moms don’t understand why we should be there and how the outcome could change or could shorten your birth. I have to give it to you, you did that. Some ppl just give up.
@@jayj8513 thank you! luckily my doula and i had A LOT of conversations prior. we were on the same page and i had my birth-plan printed out. everyone that walked in my room knew and i was in very good hands. i was originally supposed to have an at home water birth but became highrisk. because of this i had already had in depth conversations with everyone who was on call. they even told me a workaround on how i could birth in water at the hospital but i chose not to. i aspire to be a doula because of my doula and my experience! i couldn't have done it without her.
yep. only once though. my partner opened a package of chocolate chip cookies. the scent IMMEDIATELY made me sick & i yelled for him to close it up. lol. that's the only time though & i didnt throw up but some do!
@@Worryfreelifestyle honestly, it doesnt work like that. because theyre actually just following protocol. a lot of them dont know your rights either. you either have a doula that's aware of your rights & can advocate for you. these things are best discussed well before delivery. i was going to have an at home birth but got transgender due to health concerns, however my chart was noted to keep my plan as close to at home as possible & because this was discussed in detail before i had no problem. you cant do better when you dont know better! so for what i didnt know, my doula did.
This is my first time here…. And the vlog opened up with a clip of you eating Cheerios out of a zip lock bag….. and i immediately felt at home …. Cause same sis … same🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOL, i love this for you. welcome ❤️ im authentically me over here!
I know she in alot of pain making that noise i make noise like that when im hurtting really bad im not even pregnant i want a kid doe im glad you made this video do i can have idea of what i could possibly go through whenever god bless me with a baby
lol i was but i was mostly making the noise because i have a habit of holding my breath & thats not good to do! so that was my way of combating it!
Btw, good job mom, dad, and doula. Y’all did so good.
Wow your nurses were so kind! This was a beautiful delivery!!! I’m literally Due tomorrow so I pray my son comes on time lol
thank you & congratulations mama🩷 i know its hard but enjoy your last days!
Congratulations momma! ✨✨ how were you able to get a whole black team? I live in Raleigh, NC and feel like I cannot find a black doctor. I found a doula but want a whole black team to assist with my delivery
hey mama , if youre comfortable & have instagram.. please dm me at @diyeezysdirection ! i lived in raleigh area for half of my pregnancy and i had trouble as well! but we can figure some things out for you!
I’m definitely interested can I dm you as well … I don’t give birth until May 😅
@@jaelrobinsoncongratulations 🎉❤️ I’m due in June
@@Lexibvby awww Gemini
Do you know the gender yet ?
@@jaelrobinsonwow. im sooo sorry. i never got this notification!! i wish you would have dm'd me 🥺
Thank you for sharing your birth journey
Head of hsir and a great set of lungs. Congratulations on your bundle of joy
Thank you 💕
were you pulling one side and she pulling the other and if so do you feel like that helped more than holding your legs
yes! we were playing tug of war. she was obviously stronger than me at the moment, so my goal was to moreso not let her completely win or let go of the cloth! it helped me focus on pushing in the right area because i was completely numb in my whole pubic area. when birthing on your back, you basically do an intense crunch to push. i also didnt have the strength to hold my legs ❤️
You're doing a great job mamas🤎🤎✨️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
At the beginning of the video you had me the weird things pregnant women's do lol 😂❤
eat dry cereal ? lol it was sooo good
Girl I be laid out all kind of ways trying to be comfortable my kids be looking at me like omgosh 😂❤
Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy 💙🌹🩵🌹💙
thank you 🩷
Beautiful ☺
Congrats ❤
Libra baby one day before my birthday which is the 20th of October 🎉❤
happy early birthday ❤️
aw my birthday is October 20th
How was the epidural . Can you rate the pain level and process
the process/pain of receiving it? like putting the needle in?
@@DiyeezysDirectionyes
? Yesssss
@@keke-zy6hp sorry, didnt see your response. i barely felt it. im good with needles. have tattoos & have had several piercings so the contractions were felt waaaaaay more than the epidural.
@@nessforbes7400 i responded now ❤️
When did your doula get there? You and your husband done most of the work though.
@@jayj8513 it isn't in the clips but my doula was on the phone asking me when i felt i needed her. i didn't want her to come until i was sure because she had young children! however, she actually came twice. the first time she came, i decided to leave the hospital & go back home LOL
@@DiyeezysDirection oh ok. I’m a doula myself and sometimes firstime moms tells us to leave and we really shouldn’t because it’s so much work to do to get moms in a birthing a zone. Sometimes, by the time we get back to you, your birthplan has pivoted because of medical staff. Granted, we don’t tell moms what to do but most moms don’t understand why we should be there and how the outcome could change or could shorten your birth. I have to give it to you, you did that. Some ppl just give up.
@@jayj8513 thank you! luckily my doula and i had A LOT of conversations prior. we were on the same page and i had my birth-plan printed out. everyone that walked in my room knew and i was in very good hands. i was originally supposed to have an at home water birth but became highrisk. because of this i had already had in depth conversations with everyone who was on call. they even told me a workaround on how i could birth in water at the hospital but i chose not to. i aspire to be a doula because of my doula and my experience! i couldn't have done it without her.
@@DiyeezysDirection yay!!!!! Let’s go! We need more doulas.
Congratulations
Congratulations 🎉😊
Did you feel nauseous at all during your L&D?
yep. only once though. my partner opened a package of chocolate chip cookies. the scent IMMEDIATELY made me sick & i yelled for him to close it up. lol. that's the only time though & i didnt throw up but some do!
How much did he weigh 💙
its in the video after the placenta i believe, he was 7 pounds and something 😂 i honestly can't remember!
❤🎉
I hate when then say wait for someone. Nope I can’t, this baby is coming on a Honda. You late, you miss it. Done!
What was in the labor tea
it was a blend i bought. im unsure but the two man ingredients were nettle & red raspberry
Congratulations on the 8th grade in this course
Thought she was having a girl
Why so? 💕
Almost at 1000 views keep it up gang 😅
So I always thought you couldn’t eat after getting an epidural
you'll be surprised how many things aren't actually true. i was the only L&D mama who ate while in labor. because i knew my rights ❤️
@@DiyeezysDirection yea I’ve been watching tons of videos how do you tell them that they work for you in the nicest way possible 😂😂😂😂 but no seriously
@@Worryfreelifestyle honestly, it doesnt work like that. because theyre actually just following protocol. a lot of them dont know your rights either. you either have a doula that's aware of your rights & can advocate for you. these things are best discussed well before delivery. i was going to have an at home birth but got transgender due to health concerns, however my chart was noted to keep my plan as close to at home as possible & because this was discussed in detail before i had no problem. you cant do better when you dont know better! so for what i didnt know, my doula did.