the reaction to finding out they don’t have the gay flag in the sims is so real 😭😭 especially when you find out they put the lipstick lesbian flag (a transphobic flag) in the game instead
@@Mello-208 I just looked it up, it says it's because the person who made it is transphobic and racist. But I was confused because I've seen people use the flag but not with those beliefs (I've always used the sunset flag)
@Marieta2.0 I thought It was always just a fem4fem flag. Thanks for letting me know. In the past, when I was trying to figure out what each of them meant, I only read that the lipstick flag excludes masc/butch lesbians and was used by fem lesbians who prefer other fems. Ive always used the sunset flag so I didn't look any more into it
I can just imagine the cute family that lives here: two moms and all the kids they've adopted, or had through surrogacy, or however. Or maybe they foster! Anyway, super cute build!
My 'gay awakening' was in college, a girl asked for my number and when I clearly looked confused she asked if I was straight, and little old me thought 'AM I?!?!'. That girl was my first girlfriend. Fast forward 4 years, got into the Mortal Instruments series and Magus Bane made me realise I was, in fact, bi. Coz apparently my dumb ass forgot that was an option 😂 💖💜💙
Similar thing happened to me in middle school. That was my first girlfriend. Didn’t really like women after that crazy experience tho. Now I’m just confused cuz Im also ace and have trouble differentiating between romantic attraction and platonic attraction. I do have the most perfect partner rn tho and we’ve been together for 4 years so currently my identity doesn’t matter because he’s all I love 🤷♂️
@Kiran-dz6ou I would literally freak out if I liked her of Billie Eilish because Abby bominable has the same name as my sister, and Billie looks like my sister. It always just weirded me out, lol
The sexuality talk was so comforting, thanks for sharing your experiences! No one can determine your validity based on how well they think you fit in society's boxes. Have fun in being the way you are, everybody
so proud of u and speaking about taking back your femininity and being comfortable dressing however you feel :) also love this video sm ur building is always so good idk why u doubt yourself!!!
i'm transmasc but only "masc" in the sense of my gender! i love being super feminine and i honestly dont care about passing as a girl or not. i love skirts and i love being comfortable
*sighs in neurodivergent who probably knows too much about the Ice Age movies* It was Ice Age 4: Continental Drift (also, understandable lol. Shira really did have that Kovu effect)
Really fast rant. I have one thing I HATE about aromantic and asexual: NO ONE KNOWS THEY'RE DIFFERENT! My friend told me and my other friend that he's trans, aromantic, and pan. My friend then was like "You can't be pan AND aromantic! Aromantic means you don't like people!" I then had to explain to my entire friend group (Because the friend that just came out to us has social anxiety) that asexual means you aren't sexually attracted to people, aromantic means you aren't romantically attracted to people, and aro/ace means you aren't physically or romantically attracted to people. That means you can be pan and aromantic. It just is so frustrating that even the LGBTQ+ community has misinformation on stuff like this. I don't blame anyone. I blame social media. It's just annoying I guess. Sorry for the rant =)
Oh and sorry to chime in but its not flat out none all the time actually. Its little to no so it might be none but it could be very little as well because its a small spectrum.
@@Addy_8423 aromantism and asexuality are spectrums. So the definition of both is that you experience little to no (romantic/sexual) attraction. So you can be, for example, aromantic and panromantic, because you only experience romantic attraction SOME of the time. It's also worth mentioning that some people label their tertiary attraction (queerplatonic, alterous, sensual, etc) with typical sexuality labels (like bisexual, lesbian, etc). So someone could for example be bisexual and aroace, while experiencing no romantic or sexual attraction, but experiencing queerplatonic attraction.
oh my god the reaction i just had to hearing someone with an accent from where i’m from in the uk doing well on social media/publicly is CRAZYY. not many of us round here get exposure on the internet so i was so shocked 😭😭 i love this vid and UR ROOM HELLO???
13:30 dude i so relate to the dan and phil-isms infesting my everyday vocabulary 😭 for me it's like an echolalia thing, i just replay audio clips in my brain constantly- also i love long form content like this!!
TIPS FOR OCCULT SERIES: for pufferfish, if you go into build mode and put the food into your household inventory, it won't spoil and no one will eat it (I like to use this trick to reuse the same birthday cake in my 100 baby challenge). Also, I've noticed sometimes sims don't die the first time they eat the pufferfish but if they continue to keep eating they eventually will die. Hope you see this and I hope it helps!
I love this idea and definitely inspires me to do the same but with a Victorian style house and cottage core mix.! Btw I love your pericing and style a lot.and I love watching your videos honestly
I love how the idea is that a lesbian couple adopted all these queer children to show them that family is who you choose fills my heart with so much warmth!
I'm only a couple rooms in, and I love the eclectic building style that still has cohesive color palettes, considering the range of colors of the Sims 4 items.
my gay awakening was when i was like 9-10, when i started hearing my classmates and female friends having a crush on this new guy, i didn't really understand why, but i faked having a crush on him too, and when he started giving me attention i didn't feel special or even happy, when i imagined kissing him or just grabbing his hand i felt really weird, but when i imagined grabbing the hand of my "love rival" i felt more happy about it, but i didn't think much of it, almost a year later, a boy confesed to me and it felt so weirrrd, but at that time had a female friend that treated me like we were a couple, and i started to search about how i felt about girls, at first i tought i was pansexual, but i realize that in fact i didn't like boys, so now, almost 5 years later, i'm a proud lesbian, with a girlfriend-to-be, and a very supportive family 🩷 (also, sorry for the grammar, english isn't my first lenguaje)
So when i was a kid like around the age of 5-6 my crushes were always girl in everything that i watched and then i had a crush on a girl in my school, the year later a girl in my class said that she was bisexual and explain me what it means and i was like "Oop i think i'm that" and i reserch sexualities and i thought i was a lesbian but i'm actually bisexual and i'm proud!!! Love yourself b❤❤
Personally, I really like your building style. Looks very lived in and even though this style of video is different from your CAS videos, it is still equally enjoyable 🥰
ahhh itsqwertyluvs posted!! i found you during my summer holidays and i was watching the occult series. it was very entertaining and wanted to let you know that your work pays off :-) so thank you for posting, youve became one of my favourite sims creators!
Using this chance to drop how kid me watched Mulan, got very uncomfortable about her returning to live as a woman, and yet took a few more years to realise that I’m a guy. Apparently my cousin knew though, thanks for not telling me???
In the kitchen you probably could have taken another counter, sized it down and shoved it in the middle, but i still think you did a really good job on the kitchen !!!
I can relate to finding the bi flag colors hard to use lol. You have to commit to the bright colors or pastelize it. Or you use it in a nightclub scene😂
I realized I was asexual when I read a romance book with a spicy scene, and all I could think was “couldn’t be me.” And then I thought. “Wait. Couldn’t be me?” And a lot of turmoil later, I came to the conclusion that I was ace. I found out I was aromantic when I realized that I’ve never wanted to kiss any of my “crushes,” and that you don’t really just choose who is the most convenient person to be romantically interested in as your “crush”. I’ve always loved romantic stories, but for some reason I became extremely uncomfortable when I imagined myself within those stories. A lot of turmoil later, I came to the conclusion I was aro.
The MLM flag is super recent , more than when they added the flag to the game. Could they have added it in a patch? Maybe. People still discourse over it, but they also have the old Lesbian flag so it's odd.
This is the first video of yours i’ve seen, I literally love that we have the same amount of energy. We are both professional yappers and im so excited
My gay awakening per say was in 2020 where I got into twitch and TikTok and learned abt the LGBTQ+ community! For the longest time I thought I was Bi or Omni but I watched JaidenAnimation’s video on what it’s like being AroAce and was like “wait…THAT’S ME?!?!” And ever since I’ve been a lot happier with who I am lol
did i come from the video of you the inside out characters? yes. have i been watching you all day? well ... yed. am i obsessed with your videos now? absolutely. i love them all so much 🙂↕️💜
You guys know that feeling when you're watching a really good tv show (usually animated. Like, Spongebob, We Bear Bears, Teen Titans [Go], etc.) and you're so into it that you zone out everything around you and only focus on the tv show. You're just stuck in bed/on the couch and don't look away from your device because you're so intrigued?? That's how I feel watching this channel.
I didn't even realize this was a new video until I saw the vibro-bed 😂 On theme story time! I was at the gas station with my 6 year old to buy a slushie after school today and the cashier was a stunning nonbinary human. I was going to ask their pronouns, but it just didn't fit easily into conversation and I'm awkward so 🤷♀️ maybe next time, right? As we stepped out the door, my sweet child said "I can't tell if the worker is a he or a she" so I said "perhaps a 'they'" and then we talked about pronouns and identities and it was just such a heartwarming moment.
As a trans masc person on the more genderfluid side of things I really relate to the little gender side rant, I've had a lot of people ask why I wear skirts or makeup etc if I tried so hard to make it so that I wasn't a woman, and it's because,, I'm still not, no matter what I wear lmao. I just wear whatever I'm most comfortable with at any given time! Sometimes you just wanna dress up, no matter what your gender is
Also it's hilarious that my flag (mlm) ended up as the bathroom colour because the whole time I was thinking "ah that mint toothpaste palette would be perfect for the bathrooms"
45:53 NOOOO THAT BED IS THE EXACT PERFECT LESBIAN FLAG!!!!! u should have used it for the master bedroom! I still adore the rest of the house though, and the witchy front hallway is AMAZING 🤩🤩😍
As a genderfluid person, the wheel picking genderfluid for your first room is TOUGH. I struggle to put together a genderfluid themed outfit for pride. The shades of colours that were picked for that flag are not easy on my eyes, and it always ends up looking like you're doing a bisexual thing, which I'm not 🥲
My 'gay awakening' was when I first started getting involved in fandom spaces and developing an interest in ships etc, and obviously there are a lot of queer ships in fandom spaces (mainly mlm) and even though I was like, aware that people could be gay, it never really crossed my mind as something people could be (even though I knew multiple queer people in my life, but it was my parents' friends so I never really minded them). And for a while I was really jealous of queer people cause I was like "I want to love girls too, that's not fair ugh, girls are really nice and pretty" (bit oblivious if you ask me) and then I started thinking things like "I wish I could love boys but in a gay way like being a boy and loving a boy, but also I don't want to be a boy, but also I don't like being a girl, but I also want to love girls in a girl way" which- very confusing for 12 years old me if I'm being honest. Eventually I did a lot of research on different labels etc (and the obligatory 'am I gay' quizz) and after trying many, many, many different labels and pronouns, I've landed on non-binary (any pronouns) and queer I decided that I did not want to use more precise labels to give myself room for evolution (even though I'm pretty sure I'm somewhere on the aroace spectrum as well) and I prefer it that way. I also had a lot of realisations when I figured out I was queer, like the fact that I had had multiple crushes on girls when I was young and just never realised it and thought it was just a 'special friendship', or that I liked some female characters maybe more than I was supposed to, but y'know that's life
As an anorexic asexual I found it ironic that the asexual colors were set in the dining room. ..also girl, shut up. You're so talented at BOTH the interior AND the exterior.
1:02:13 waittt I also figured out I was ace from that Anthony Padilla video LMAO ofc I was in denial for a couple months after but that video is absolutely what triggered the initial “oh” moment
I first heard about gay people when i was 8, and my mom was saying she didn't like one of my sister's friends because she's bi. I was like, "What's bi?" And she said,'It means she likes girls and boys,' and I was just like, "Oh, cool :D" and she was like, "No i mean romatically likes them" and I was like, "... okay?" Lol, my parents could NOT get my autistic ass to be homophobic. (My mom isn't homophobic anymore she's actually out as bi and demisexual now lmao) (my dad is though they be divorced)
My awakening for liking women was seeing a nymphadora Tonks edit and it made my jaw DROP. also this edit was kinda bad quality which is how I knew😭 With my asexuality, I was never interested in sexual stuff but I thought everyone else only did it for babies and I thought I was like everyone else and just not at all interested
@@Iilianalove-py5pw I'm 1. Aroace 2. Orchidsexual 3. Aroflux 4. Abrosexual 5. Genderqueer 6. Genderfluid 7. Polyamorous 8. Trans 9. Nonbinary 10. Xeogender (Now this is just an extended version since technically I don't need to use half of them but just my gender is weird in a way it fluctuates where I have a more dominant gender angle Like I'm genderfluid but I also identify as nonbinary and that automatically makes me trans- But that's when I'm being specific When I'm telling people all my self identities without wanting to cause confusion I just tell them I'm a nonbinary heavy genderluid I'm abrosexual And aroace Also poly (I may expand on how I'm aroace if asked via aroflux and orchidsexual) But I'm just a lil autistic guy with a complicated gender if I wanna get really detailed about it
How I found out I was trans, I was playing a roleplay game and rping as a trans oc and at some point a switch just flipped in my head and I was like "Wait, am I trans???" and yes. Yes, I am.
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“I’m not good at exteriors” builds the prettiest cottage I’ve ever seen
real
thank youu :’))
@@itsqwertyluvs Yw! I love ur vids, they got me back into Sims lolll
Real
Ya it slayed
the reaction to finding out they don’t have the gay flag in the sims is so real 😭😭 especially when you find out they put the lipstick lesbian flag (a transphobic flag) in the game instead
@@victoriaelce-spratt1480 i think the creator is transphobic? but i might be wrong
@@Mello-208 I just looked it up, it says it's because the person who made it is transphobic and racist. But I was confused because I've seen people use the flag but not with those beliefs (I've always used the sunset flag)
@@victoriaelce-spratt1480 the flag excludes trans people implying they can't be lesbians and the creator is an awful person
I don’t know what the lipstick flag is… I always just thought that there was just different variations, didn’t realize they had different meanings.
@Marieta2.0 I thought It was always just a fem4fem flag. Thanks for letting me know. In the past, when I was trying to figure out what each of them meant, I only read that the lipstick flag excludes masc/butch lesbians and was used by fem lesbians who prefer other fems. Ive always used the sunset flag so I didn't look any more into it
Jelly is made using fruit juice, while jam is made using whole fruits that have been smashed or crushed
Huh cool
I did not know that woah
Jam is also made by boiling sugar and the whole fruit !
And water
Peanut butter and jelly sandwiches literally taste like dessert!!
I can just imagine the cute family that lives here: two moms and all the kids they've adopted, or had through surrogacy, or however. Or maybe they foster! Anyway, super cute build!
or 2 moms and 2 dads in a platonic co-parenting situation
@@Reverend_Salem I love this idea
EGG CHAIR FOR THE TRANS FLAG ROOM IS HILARIOUS AND PERFECT
Omg I didn't catch that you're s9 right
Fr (I was an egg once)
My 'gay awakening' was in college, a girl asked for my number and when I clearly looked confused she asked if I was straight, and little old me thought 'AM I?!?!'. That girl was my first girlfriend. Fast forward 4 years, got into the Mortal Instruments series and Magus Bane made me realise I was, in fact, bi. Coz apparently my dumb ass forgot that was an option 😂 💖💜💙
Similar thing happened to me in middle school. That was my first girlfriend. Didn’t really like women after that crazy experience tho. Now I’m just confused cuz Im also ace and have trouble differentiating between romantic attraction and platonic attraction. I do have the most perfect partner rn tho and we’ve been together for 4 years so currently my identity doesn’t matter because he’s all I love 🤷♂️
Dude i dont even know, 4th grade i was like “i moght be bi” i very much am lol, and gender-fluid
My 'gay awakening' was just Jessica rabbit from who framed Roger rabbit 😂😂😂
My gay awakening was Abbey bominable from the monster high TV show
@Kiran-dz6ou I would literally freak out if I liked her of Billie Eilish because Abby bominable has the same name as my sister, and Billie looks like my sister. It always just weirded me out, lol
The sexuality talk was so comforting, thanks for sharing your experiences! No one can determine your validity based on how well they think you fit in society's boxes. Have fun in being the way you are, everybody
so proud of u and speaking about taking back your femininity and being comfortable dressing however you feel :) also love this video sm ur building is always so good idk why u doubt yourself!!!
Yes! It’s smth I (transmasc) struggle with too so it’s nice to know that it’s not an isolated issue, like we’re all human and that’s okay
i'm transmasc but only "masc" in the sense of my gender! i love being super feminine and i honestly dont care about passing as a girl or not. i love skirts and i love being comfortable
@@cuddIepup that's awesome!!!
@@sketchyghost_yt
If Qwerty did live in this house and fell down the stairs, I guess you could say that they're gender-fluids would be covering the staircase...
my bi awakening was that pirate girl saber tooth tiger that was Diego's love interest in some part of Ice Age I don't remember which one💀
*sighs in neurodivergent who probably knows too much about the Ice Age movies* It was Ice Age 4: Continental Drift (also, understandable lol. Shira really did have that Kovu effect)
@@danyboithing thank you lol
Really fast rant.
I have one thing I HATE about aromantic and asexual: NO ONE KNOWS THEY'RE DIFFERENT! My friend told me and my other friend that he's trans, aromantic, and pan. My friend then was like "You can't be pan AND aromantic! Aromantic means you don't like people!" I then had to explain to my entire friend group (Because the friend that just came out to us has social anxiety) that asexual means you aren't sexually attracted to people, aromantic means you aren't romantically attracted to people, and aro/ace means you aren't physically or romantically attracted to people. That means you can be pan and aromantic. It just is so frustrating that even the LGBTQ+ community has misinformation on stuff like this. I don't blame anyone. I blame social media. It's just annoying I guess.
Sorry for the rant =)
Oh and sorry to chime in but its not flat out none all the time actually. Its little to no so it might be none but it could be very little as well because its a small spectrum.
@FıNÐ I don't fully understand what you mean, so is there any way you could re explain for my dumb dumb brain? I don't wanna take it the wrong way.
@@Addy_8423 i cant tell if you are being sarcastic. Im sorry if i explained it in a condescending way
@FıNÐ Sorry, I am being serious, just suck with tone lmao.
@@Addy_8423 aromantism and asexuality are spectrums. So the definition of both is that you experience little to no (romantic/sexual) attraction. So you can be, for example, aromantic and panromantic, because you only experience romantic attraction SOME of the time.
It's also worth mentioning that some people label their tertiary attraction (queerplatonic, alterous, sensual, etc) with typical sexuality labels (like bisexual, lesbian, etc). So someone could for example be bisexual and aroace, while experiencing no romantic or sexual attraction, but experiencing queerplatonic attraction.
oh my god the reaction i just had to hearing someone with an accent from where i’m from in the uk doing well on social media/publicly is CRAZYY. not many of us round here get exposure on the internet so i was so shocked 😭😭 i love this vid and UR ROOM HELLO???
13:30 dude i so relate to the dan and phil-isms infesting my everyday vocabulary 😭 for me it's like an echolalia thing, i just replay audio clips in my brain constantly- also i love long form content like this!!
TIPS FOR OCCULT SERIES: for pufferfish, if you go into build mode and put the food into your household inventory, it won't spoil and no one will eat it (I like to use this trick to reuse the same birthday cake in my 100 baby challenge). Also, I've noticed sometimes sims don't die the first time they eat the pufferfish but if they continue to keep eating they eventually will die. Hope you see this and I hope it helps!
such a comfort channel for me
- What's the gayest house?
- Me, confidently: haunted victorian house! 😃
- a cottage
-Me: 😟
(Maybe it's just us gay goths 😔)
It’s both 🙏🙏
The only two correct options hehe
@@itzbel4081
- both?
- both!
- both is good! (El dorado reference)
Depends on what flavor of gay you are 😂😂
Honestly I thought of a frog so a haunted victorian house sounds good
2:54 the word you're looking for is either cohesive or coherent
you talking about experience being enby and ace during the lesbian segment felt special to me lol. i'm enby ace and lesbian
I love this idea and definitely inspires me to do the same but with a Victorian style house and cottage core mix.! Btw I love your pericing and style a lot.and I love watching your videos honestly
WAKE UP Y'ALL, QWERTY POSTED
I AM AWAKE
"I'm not great at exteriors" casually reveals the most gorgeous, lush cottage in the world
I love how the idea is that a lesbian couple adopted all these queer children to show them that family is who you choose fills my heart with so much warmth!
29:38 I actually do love doing laundry. It used to be my job at an old folks home just laundry. It's so callming to me.
Your commentary is all over the place and I’m so here for it!! I love the design and decor in this build
I'm only a couple rooms in, and I love the eclectic building style that still has cohesive color palettes, considering the range of colors of the Sims 4 items.
my gay awakening was when i was like 9-10, when i started hearing my classmates and female friends having a crush on this new guy, i didn't really understand why, but i faked having a crush on him too, and when he started giving me attention i didn't feel special or even happy, when i imagined kissing him or just grabbing his hand i felt really weird, but when i imagined grabbing the hand of my "love rival" i felt more happy about it, but i didn't think much of it, almost a year later, a boy confesed to me and it felt so weirrrd, but at that time had a female friend that treated me like we were a couple, and i started to search about how i felt about girls, at first i tought i was pansexual, but i realize that in fact i didn't like boys, so now, almost 5 years later, i'm a proud lesbian, with a girlfriend-to-be, and a very supportive family 🩷 (also, sorry for the grammar, english isn't my first lenguaje)
CUTEE
This just popped up on my fyp and now I have a new favourite person.
the cottage is so cute i’m def gonna use it in my game!!
nvm it’s not on the gallery 💔
So when i was a kid like around the age of 5-6 my crushes were always girl in everything that i watched and then i had a crush on a girl in my school, the year later a girl in my class said that she was bisexual and explain me what it means and i was like "Oop i think i'm that" and i reserch sexualities and i thought i was a lesbian but i'm actually bisexual and i'm proud!!! Love yourself b❤❤
THE LESBIAN ROOM!!! i love it you did my flag justice hehehe
Personally, I really like your building style. Looks very lived in and even though this style of video is different from your CAS videos, it is still equally enjoyable 🥰
ahhh itsqwertyluvs posted!! i found you during my summer holidays and i was watching the occult series. it was very entertaining and wanted to let you know that your work pays off :-) so thank you for posting, youve became one of my favourite sims creators!
36:01 is it bad that I wasn't expecting that and kinda burst out laughing
This came up on my recommendations and I'm very happy it did
33:30 dw you’re representing us perfectly lmao
Using this chance to drop how kid me watched Mulan, got very uncomfortable about her returning to live as a woman, and yet took a few more years to realise that I’m a guy. Apparently my cousin knew though, thanks for not telling me???
I love when they make build vids :333
In the kitchen you probably could have taken another counter, sized it down and shoved it in the middle, but i still think you did a really good job on the kitchen !!!
3:30 actually your right except the pastel pink would be magenta kinda hot pink and no black nor white
I genuinely love your unfiltered thought flow
why does every single sims 4 player that i like to watch like pergolas..??? not complaining tho i love them too.
DUDE your hair looks so cool in this!
0:32 “does it get better than that? neuuuu neu it doesn’t”
I cant tell if this is hate or it’s actually funny
@ not hate I can assure you :)
Genderfluid being the hallway is so unintentionally funny.
1:20 IF THAT HOUSE WAS POOFED INTO IRL IM BUYING IT RN
I can relate to finding the bi flag colors hard to use lol. You have to commit to the bright colors or pastelize it. Or you use it in a nightclub scene😂
I’m genderfluid and it being the first one made me soooooo happy 😊
I realized I was asexual when I read a romance book with a spicy scene, and all I could think was “couldn’t be me.” And then I thought. “Wait. Couldn’t be me?” And a lot of turmoil later, I came to the conclusion that I was ace.
I found out I was aromantic when I realized that I’ve never wanted to kiss any of my “crushes,” and that you don’t really just choose who is the most convenient person to be romantically interested in as your “crush”. I’ve always loved romantic stories, but for some reason I became extremely uncomfortable when I imagined myself within those stories.
A lot of turmoil later, I came to the conclusion I was aro.
Im not going to lie but i maybe should. You put me to sleep while i was waiting for a friend for dinner. Your voice is very soothing 😅
46:05 “It was a two for one.” That was brilliant Qwerty lol😂😂
You talk really fast… which I love!!! Normally I don’t like TH-camrs who talk fast but your voice is so like relaxing??? If that makes sense
The MLM flag is super recent , more than when they added the flag to the game. Could they have added it in a patch? Maybe. People still discourse over it, but they also have the old Lesbian flag so it's odd.
you absolutely need to make more of building vids!! i love your building style
This is the first video of yours i’ve seen, I literally love that we have the same amount of energy. We are both professional yappers and im so excited
these videos are so fun to watch because i suck at building lol... keep making them when you're feeling up to it!
I’m bi ace too, I haven’t seen someone the same like ever, and the house looks amazing
My gay awakening per say was in 2020 where I got into twitch and TikTok and learned abt the LGBTQ+ community! For the longest time I thought I was Bi or Omni but I watched JaidenAnimation’s video on what it’s like being AroAce and was like “wait…THAT’S ME?!?!” And ever since I’ve been a lot happier with who I am lol
the shader is so pretty!
WOOOOOOOO the bedrooms are fire
did i come from the video of you the inside out characters? yes. have i been watching you all day? well ... yed. am i obsessed with your videos now? absolutely. i love them all so much 🙂↕️💜
this is the first vid of urs that ive ever seen and u seem like such a vibe i feel very safe here
i watch ur videos so much i’ve started saying “nouhhh” the same as u
CHILLI ON BREAD(chilli is pracracly beans)
You guys know that feeling when you're watching a really good tv show (usually animated. Like, Spongebob, We Bear Bears, Teen Titans [Go], etc.) and you're so into it that you zone out everything around you and only focus on the tv show. You're just stuck in bed/on the couch and don't look away from your device because you're so intrigued??
That's how I feel watching this channel.
I didn't even realize this was a new video until I saw the vibro-bed 😂
On theme story time! I was at the gas station with my 6 year old to buy a slushie after school today and the cashier was a stunning nonbinary human. I was going to ask their pronouns, but it just didn't fit easily into conversation and I'm awkward so 🤷♀️ maybe next time, right? As we stepped out the door, my sweet child said "I can't tell if the worker is a he or a she" so I said "perhaps a 'they'" and then we talked about pronouns and identities and it was just such a heartwarming moment.
As a trans masc person on the more genderfluid side of things I really relate to the little gender side rant, I've had a lot of people ask why I wear skirts or makeup etc if I tried so hard to make it so that I wasn't a woman, and it's because,, I'm still not, no matter what I wear lmao. I just wear whatever I'm most comfortable with at any given time! Sometimes you just wanna dress up, no matter what your gender is
Also it's hilarious that my flag (mlm) ended up as the bathroom colour because the whole time I was thinking "ah that mint toothpaste palette would be perfect for the bathrooms"
Alana: I'm subtle
Also alana: oh that's a bit bland
i saw the title, looked at you and thought "oh yeah they know their prideflag stuff" (in the best way possible)
this house is so amethyst coded
Words cant describe how much I feel this video with the random thoughts and the fast talking and the unhinged theories 😭😭
This is the first video I'm seeing of her and, I love her accent! ❤😂
It's my first time watching them and they seem cool! :)
45:53 NOOOO THAT BED IS THE EXACT PERFECT LESBIAN FLAG!!!!! u should have used it for the master bedroom! I still adore the rest of the house though, and the witchy front hallway is AMAZING 🤩🤩😍
As a genderfluid person, the wheel picking genderfluid for your first room is TOUGH. I struggle to put together a genderfluid themed outfit for pride. The shades of colours that were picked for that flag are not easy on my eyes, and it always ends up looking like you're doing a bisexual thing, which I'm not 🥲
My 'gay awakening' was when I first started getting involved in fandom spaces and developing an interest in ships etc, and obviously there are a lot of queer ships in fandom spaces (mainly mlm) and even though I was like, aware that people could be gay, it never really crossed my mind as something people could be (even though I knew multiple queer people in my life, but it was my parents' friends so I never really minded them). And for a while I was really jealous of queer people cause I was like "I want to love girls too, that's not fair ugh, girls are really nice and pretty" (bit oblivious if you ask me) and then I started thinking things like "I wish I could love boys but in a gay way like being a boy and loving a boy, but also I don't want to be a boy, but also I don't like being a girl, but I also want to love girls in a girl way" which- very confusing for 12 years old me if I'm being honest.
Eventually I did a lot of research on different labels etc (and the obligatory 'am I gay' quizz) and after trying many, many, many different labels and pronouns, I've landed on non-binary (any pronouns) and queer
I decided that I did not want to use more precise labels to give myself room for evolution (even though I'm pretty sure I'm somewhere on the aroace spectrum as well) and I prefer it that way.
I also had a lot of realisations when I figured out I was queer, like the fact that I had had multiple crushes on girls when I was young and just never realised it and thought it was just a 'special friendship', or that I liked some female characters maybe more than I was supposed to, but y'know that's life
As an anorexic asexual I found it ironic that the asexual colors were set in the dining room.
..also girl, shut up. You're so talented at BOTH the interior AND the exterior.
I've only started watching you a couple days ago, and I already love ur videos. Keep going! ❤️
YASSS as a pansexual love my flag and room‼️💞
We’re chaotic so it fits!! (Well I am and all the other pansexual people I know are chaotic 🙈)
also pan Yessss it’s so cute
5:45 fr reminded me of ldshadow here 🙏
1:02:13 waittt I also figured out I was ace from that Anthony Padilla video LMAO ofc I was in denial for a couple months after but that video is absolutely what triggered the initial “oh” moment
1. Pretty sure i had a similar realization from that video iirc
2. I didn't realize the video was over an hour long omg 😭
As a pansexual I do indeed LOVE the pansexual play room
I first heard about gay people when i was 8, and my mom was saying she didn't like one of my sister's friends because she's bi. I was like, "What's bi?" And she said,'It means she likes girls and boys,' and I was just like, "Oh, cool :D" and she was like, "No i mean romatically likes them" and I was like, "... okay?" Lol, my parents could NOT get my autistic ass to be homophobic. (My mom isn't homophobic anymore she's actually out as bi and demisexual now lmao) (my dad is though they be divorced)
My awakening for liking women was seeing a nymphadora Tonks edit and it made my jaw DROP. also this edit was kinda bad quality which is how I knew😭
With my asexuality, I was never interested in sexual stuff but I thought everyone else only did it for babies and I thought I was like everyone else and just not at all interested
2:33 OMG SAME
“Too many flags” *laughs in 10 identities*
How lol
@@Iilianalove-py5pw I'm a complicated person (also I got that tism so I like being really specific with labelling mysel)
@@Iilianalove-py5pw I'm
1. Aroace
2. Orchidsexual
3. Aroflux
4. Abrosexual
5. Genderqueer
6. Genderfluid
7. Polyamorous
8. Trans
9. Nonbinary
10. Xeogender
(Now this is just an extended version since technically I don't need to use half of them but just my gender is weird in a way it fluctuates where I have a more dominant gender angle
Like I'm genderfluid but I also identify as nonbinary and that automatically makes me trans-
But that's when I'm being specific
When I'm telling people all my self identities without wanting to cause confusion I just tell them
I'm a nonbinary heavy genderluid
I'm abrosexual
And aroace
Also poly
(I may expand on how I'm aroace if asked via aroflux and orchidsexual)
But I'm just a lil autistic guy with a complicated gender if I wanna get really detailed about it
I was in the hospital Saturday and this is a treat Ty qwerty
How I found out I was trans, I was playing a roleplay game and rping as a trans oc and at some point a switch just flipped in my head and I was like "Wait, am I trans???" and yes. Yes, I am.
"✨ThE gAyNeSs✨"
Pls do a demigirl one next! 🖤🩶🩷🤍🩷🩶🖤
This is the kind of sims 4 video I've been looking for lol
Gay awakening was Buffy from Buffy the vampire slayer
Finally a full house with proper flags !!!
Love this video ❤
I love this video!! I would recommend maybe every room is a different eastetic?? Or maybe every room is a different pack? I'd love to see more
the intersex inclusion made me feel so happy and seen
Getting stims from Phil Lester is so real! Also the lil songs you make up are very DnP
The straight ally flag being in the game but not the gay flag drives me insane
I have tried both PB&J sandwich , but allso here in Mexico we have a dish called Molletes, which are toast with beans and cheese on top.
I love that my favourite sims youtuber also watches dan and phil :D
Oml I can’t believe I missed this video at first 😢
That build would take me 20 days
I just found do on my recommendations and u are now my fav person love the vids have an amazing day🏳️🌈