Whoever complained in the comments about the youtube videos being too short, thank you 😂 now i can wash my dishes without having to change the video Edit: wtf thank you for the likes!!! It is my only life achievement
Everyone judged me as the “weirdo” because I was very quiet in school. I had and still sometimes have very bad anxiety in large groups of people including of course school. But in reality, I’m the complete opposite of quiet 😂 I honestly feel like people missed out on getting to know my true personality from judging me right off the bat. Their loss!
Their loss hunny! Ppl always wanna judge for no reason and we just can’t give power to those ppl and their nasty comments. It could’ve been different if they would’ve gotten to know us but since they didn’t it just goes back to them cuz they could’ve gotten to kno a beautiful, smart and humble girl.
I love the Middle Eastern people and the Muslim, I get so tired of people judging them, just because they have that scarf on their head or accent, it's so ridiculous.
IKR so happy tamar left she was too extra and everyone at the table felt anxious next to her she was a ticking time bomb ... now the show is full of love and positivity. I know Tamar would judge tamera a lot or try to over power the other girls
A lot of times when we judge others we are really judging ourselves because we are very unhappy with our own lives. So its like taking it out on someone else.
I was judged by teachers in highschool because I missed school so much. I was sick all the time and I had depression and severe anxiety- but I could just tell some teachers though I was a slacker. In reality I worked sooo hard and despite missing more than half a school year all the time I still got amazing grades. Now I’m homeschooled because I realized nobody helped me - I didn’t even know homebound was a thing.
I think your producers were judgmental when they moved two Muslim ladies wearing head scarves in your audience. They were told to sit in the back and out of view of the cameras due to studio policy. It's something that really annoys me because the hosts are doing amazing things for women of colour. They are 110% for equality and against racism. Yet this issue was never addressed publicly. Warner Bros issued a statement but I'd really like to hear from the hosts. Every single day I hear you ladies speaking out against racism, yet something in your own studio has been brushed under the carpet. I'm aware it's from a while ago now. But like I said it was never addressed publicly
I bet they were on drugs and that altered their judgement. Or at least I hope so otherwise they were in their right mind and wrote that note knowing full well how hurtful it was.
Yes, Adrienne. I experienced the same while in high school, girls can be so cruel. I agree with you Tam and I’ve been there too Jeanie. I was called everything because of how I carried myself and what I liked. Jealousy is a sickness but you all are beautiful and funny!
Yeah I’ve heard rumors of Adrienne but it’s outright jealousy and hate cuz she’s very beautiful and naturally sexy . She’s the type of woman that is effortlessly sexy she ain’t even got to try .
I do agree though. The first thing we do as humans is judge people based on what they’re wearing. For instance, if a guy is well put together, “he’s all about his looks and is a player”. If a girl is put together, “she’s a stuck up b and gets around the block”
That’s something that I’m learning. Not judging people based on what they wear or say. On Sunday, my pastor said to watch what comes out of your mouth. Your tongue has the power of blessings or curse.
I can completely relate to Adrienne! I never wore heels in high school but I loved fashion and always wanted to dress up and people assumed that I thought I was better than them! It was honestly an insecurity issue, dressing nice made me feel better about myself.
My whole problem is : people DO NOT know how to observe situations FIRST & instead they spew hate based off of THEIR personal assumptions without asking questions or anything ! It's COMPLETELY disrespectful & disgusting ! Until you hear something from the horse's mouth itself then don't say anything !
Yes Tam! People don't understand it actually takes more strength to he good to people. Most don't know the difference between kindness and weakness. It's so annoying cause if they do too much then you have to show them how weak you are not lol.
Wow synchronicity at its finest! I just started reading The Four Agreements, and Tam is so right! You dont have to agree to a persons opinion of you, family OR strangers, although its harder to ignore family's comments
Adrienne should have a podcast like Angela YEE has lip service I’m not sure ppl would watch a tv show w just her but she’s mad passionate and has a great voice and her own weekly podcast just talking answering letters or speaking on life would be something I’d listen to 😍😍
Yamamah marina she does but I’m thinking more of her doing her own version of QUEEN RADIO like more laidback and she just talks with her girlfriends and they tell stories and give advice
Omg Tamera!! I’m reading that book currently it’s the most amazing book and it really makes you reflect on how you think and how to speak to an individual.
I did once, and I was so wrong to do that. Felt bad at the end. But I learned from that and I try my best not to do it again. Nobody is perfect and everybody has a story to tell.
when i first met my now bff i didn't particularly like her, but thank god i gave myself a chance to get to know her and change my attitude. if i hadn't i would have missed out on the best friend i've ever had in my life! what she's been to me, what she's done for me is priceless. next to my mother she is second in whom i hold in high esteem💖
That is so true. I agree with tamera because I am very nice and people think I’m a pushover or easy to get or weak because I’m nice but that is not it at all because I can defend myself and others and still be kind.
I’m the least judgmental person I know. If I don’t know a person or their situation I ain’t saying anything.... plus, it ain’t my business half the time
What happened to miss Adrienne happened to me. Dressed up once or twice a week in HS, wore heels, knew how to walk in them, felt my most confident in them and was rumored to be "the mean girl" or a prep, that I was only dressing that way to show off, make guys notice me, etc. All of which I was not. The same people (almost always a group of girls) would watch me constantly, try to critique my every move but would then see me talk with everyone, always polite and kind, be the one joking around or start laughing at myself, be anyone's friend, make conversation, making sure everyone felt comfortable around me bc I knew how awful it felt to feel the opposite of that... once they'd see that, I'd be told by one or all of them that I was completely different than how they thought I'd be; that I wasn't stuck up, full of myself, bitchy or mean. I would always feel flattered that they saw my true colors but also so sad bc I never want anyone to see me and perceive me to be something I'm not. Really related to her story. So Adrienne, thanks mama, love you even more. Grew up wishing I could be like you as Chanel in the Cheetah Girls, dressed as your character with a group of my girlfriend's in middle school, looked up to you so so much. Thanks for always keeping it real💋💯👏👏👏
I relate soo much to Tamera and Jeannie. I was really nice and everyone knew that but they took my kindness for weakness and a lot ! Of girls tried to pick on me, but got checked quick ! But I started hating girls and hung out with boys and played sports and a lot of girls got jealous and tried to call me a hoe but they got checked quick! & I’m not talking about fighting I’m talking about being the mature one and saying “ just Bc I hang out with guys doesn’t mean I’m a hoe. They actually respect me more then they respect the rest of you& trust me hanging out with guys I know a lot of secrets about a few of you, so I would use my words wisely and treat people better” they all rolled they eyes and walked away and latter tried to be friends with me to get to boys 😑man I hated school 🙄
I have the same problem I’m 23 and I still get the “ stuck up” label especially from black girls ( I’m black too) if I want to have a beat face at work then I can and just Bc u choose to come to work with a bonnet on that’s u. It’s our JOB there’s no reason why u shouldn’t look put together .
I'm 46 and I've gotten the same hate too. Because I choose to dress up. I just like clothes and looking nice. Always have. Or here comes the jealousy or envy of my small size - my looks. Or because I'm concerned about doing my job well. Or because I'm introverted. If you can name it, I've been thru it over the years. The hate, jealousy, envy have come from all sides, extended family, my own husband & his son, work and "place of worship." I literally couldn't catch a break. I could write a book about my experiences. Over the years it started to get me down. Then I pray to God and move on. What other's think of me is none of my business.
But honestly I feel like they’re posting long OLD clips because they might think if they post the full CURRENT clips we’re not gonna watch because we’ll just tune in here which is FAKE NEWS!!! y’all we’ll watch on both!! Please bless!!
Tameri Harding that's not it either lol.... some countries aren't able to watch the full show or are either a few seasons behind & this is their way of catering to them
I'm with Adrian about the heels in school I used to wear heels to high school because I was so short I'm 5'2 and honestly my whole group of girlfriends did it.
Good clip. I appreciated all of their insights, particularly Loni' s. I too am an introvert and misperceptions, rumors, etc. are for the birds. What other people feel/assume regarding me has nothing to do with me and my happiness journey. It took a long time to get to that approach to living but I'm so glad I got there.
When people judges me, they only show me their own insecurities. People tend to judge what they don't understand. And often times people judge you because you are too comfortable in your own skin.
I'm a black mother with two black daughters...ages 3 and 8... I did this just last night. I have to put the 3yo in and out of her car seat because she can't do it herself. THATS ALL IT IS. I don't have yo check on the 8yo cuz she can do all that herself. She gets in and out by herself. I stopped doing that for her when she was 6 be cuz at that age I no longer feared her smashing a finger in the car door. To make that about race... Child, bye!
I'm judged by people for being 'rude' but the fact of the matter is I'm very rarely rude, I just tell it how it is and that shocks people because they aren't used to it. I'm not 'rude'
Love Adrienne's look today very fall and he hair is on point. Love loni's wig it's slayed. Not feeling jeannies look it's giving me season 1 vibes and that was a dark time for all of them lol. Anyways, this woman was out of line for this note she didn't know the situation and to judge like that is sadly normal but to write a note to these people was too much. We all need to give people the benefit of the doubt and stop jumping to conclusions.
Man I relate so much with Adrienne. kids in high school always wanted to tell me that I dressed up alot when in my opinion I was still comfortable. I mean to my knowledge no one thought that I was stuck up, but other girls did try to label me something else because I was respected by the guys that were "every where" you know, and the guys repected me because they said I wouldn't fall for any guy like I have standards and I guess the girls did not like how cool I was with them.
I realized as a mature adult that girls said mean things about me probably out of jealousy. I was also called a hoe when I hadn’t even had sex yet. Lots of rumors made up about me, it was so hurtful because I was nice to everyone and friendly. The worst betrayals always came from girls who I thought were my friends 🤷🏻♀️
i get that a lot.. most of my friends always say they thought i had a bad attitude when we first met till they got to know me and realized im just sweet
Oooh you ladies are talking real today! I actually wrote a poem about people mistaking my kindness for weakness and posted it live. You won't believe how many people out there can relate to it. I think it takes strength to be kind. Thank you for keeping it real ladies. Love you all.
Whoever complained in the comments about the youtube videos being too short, thank you 😂 now i can wash my dishes without having to change the video
Edit: wtf thank you for the likes!!! It is my only life achievement
Omg me toooooo🤣
Paris Roam omg I wash dishes while I listen to these too!!
looools #FACTS
Girl. I feel it! Lol
Guurrrlll! I do the same thing
people have always thought i was stuck up because im a quiet person
MEL ISSA 😎
THEY ARE IGNORANT!
I never understood why being quiet or shy equals stuck up. I think it just makes people feel uncomfortable.
Same here
Me tooooo omg but Im just very observant of people and I’m also shy lol
same here, I was always judge as that as well. I am just a quiet person.
I think we’re all a little unconsciously judgmental at times, it could be good or bad depending on the situation
So true
Soooooo true@@NellieKAdaba
Very true
So true
I agree!
"i was resistant" 😂😂 tam and jeanie are like "hesitant" 😂😂
Both words work
Not really.
Resistance suggest there is a force
Sonata Shinome there was
@@sportr_ but in her case she was hesistant
That's right tamera don't mistake sweetness for weakness
Adrienne lip stick is gorgeous....What color is that? OMG!
Keona Jordan Music & Tips I was thinking the same!!
Keona Jordan Music & Tips On her instagram she sometimes will post stories of her getting ready and she name drops everything she uses
Adrienne, I feel you on that school thing
Adrienne Please tell us what lipstick that is pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee
Kinda looks like nars train bleu?
Everyone judged me as the “weirdo” because I was very quiet in school. I had and still sometimes have very bad anxiety in large groups of people including of course school. But in reality, I’m the complete opposite of quiet 😂
I honestly feel like people missed out on getting to know my true personality from judging me right off the bat. Their loss!
Yolanda Reyes don’t feel bad I was treated that way and than I tried to fit in with others and ended up being physically hurt
Their loss hunny! Ppl always wanna judge for no reason and we just can’t give power to those ppl and their nasty comments. It could’ve been different if they would’ve gotten to know us but since they didn’t it just goes back to them cuz they could’ve gotten to kno a beautiful, smart and humble girl.
Ambria Hughes wow smh ppl are just mean so sorry u went through tht
im like this too, like with friends im outgoing and loud but by myself i feel so quiet and the opposite
Me too. It just takes a minute for me to warm up to people but once I do I can't stop talking. Lol. I can't stand being in a large crowd of people.
I love the Middle Eastern people and the Muslim, I get so tired of people judging them, just because they have that scarf on their head or accent, it's so ridiculous.
Cas Cret i like people who are good people. could care less about religion or race
Same here
It’s called a hijab not a scarf
@Maya Lanson same
Cas Cret the scarf means something tho. but i agree w you
You can tell they all get along and love each other
Yes! They definitely respect one another.
That's what they thought about sex and the city
IKR so happy tamar left she was too extra and everyone at the table felt anxious next to her she was a ticking time bomb ... now the show is full of love and positivity. I know Tamar would judge tamera a lot or try to over power the other girls
I used to think Adrienne was stuck up too but that was because my introduction to her was when she played the popular girl in That’s So Raven 😅
😂😂😂 Same tho
Jordan Harrington lol yes what her character name “Alana”
She will always be a cheetah girl to me!
Rusty Shackleford why did u think she was stuck up?
Lol Alana!
She whipped that chocked right out her pocket ! She was PREPARED 😂😂
I like what Tamara said. It truly does take more strength to be nice.
Red looks POPPING on Tamera and the slick ponytail is giving me liiiife.
The fact that Loni was so shocked about Jeannie being called a “hoe” in high school was so funny but also kinda endearing.
A lot of times when we judge others we are really judging ourselves because we are very unhappy with our own lives. So its like taking it out on someone else.
Well said and very insightful
Todd & Tasha Vlogs True. 💯
Amen!!!!
No some people are just really rude and deserve to be judged.
I was judged by teachers in highschool because I missed school so much. I was sick all the time and I had depression and severe anxiety- but I could just tell some teachers though I was a slacker. In reality I worked sooo hard and despite missing more than half a school year all the time I still got amazing grades. Now I’m homeschooled because I realized nobody helped me - I didn’t even know homebound was a thing.
I think your producers were judgmental when they moved two Muslim ladies wearing head scarves in your audience. They were told to sit in the back and out of view of the cameras due to studio policy. It's something that really annoys me because the hosts are doing amazing things for women of colour. They are 110% for equality and against racism. Yet this issue was never addressed publicly. Warner Bros issued a statement but I'd really like to hear from the hosts. Every single day I hear you ladies speaking out against racism, yet something in your own studio has been brushed under the carpet. I'm aware it's from a while ago now. But like I said it was never addressed publicly
I agree dear, I hope they discuss it one day... Will be waiting.
Wow! I didn’t know about that! That is so disappointing to hear..
Wtf this show should be all about diversity and poc woman and their audience is treated like that?! Shame. They better say something about this..
where did that happen and which video
I’m totally against it but we must remember it’s not their show. They don’t choose what they want to discuss.
I love how quick the other ladies were to defend Adrienne. Yessss!
They wholly turned the judgement topic around. It said do YOU judge people, not do you get judged. Lol
Right cause they don't wana talk about how they judged other ppl and they don't want look bad.
Same I'm watching the part with the rumours and still waiting. It's annoying that they are only talking about people judging them
What a nasty note. I don’t know how someone could bring themselves to write that.
Some people have no morals.
Confused me for a while with that picture i was like what is jknews doing here
When someone has nothing else to do
ShanForShort right what is wrong some ppl
I bet they were on drugs and that altered their judgement. Or at least I hope so otherwise they were in their right mind and wrote that note knowing full well how hurtful it was.
I love Adrienne's vest color
Same. Also, lip color is everything.
Yeah its bomb.
Maryline Happy yeah love her colors in this clip 👌✨
Maryline Happy A’s whole look was bomb😍
Tamera is so pretty! i love her!
So gorge! She gets prettier and prettier.
Red is her color!
The loveliest of all the panel members
Adrienne is so adorable. I love her.
Yep.
Yes! She's so cute.
I be judging people I’m not even gonna fake 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏾♀️.
metimez300 same!! I hella judgmental and I always have to check myself like wtf do I think I am?
Lil Durk same....
metimez300 love your honesty
I do too but I do it silently and I’m not mean to people. It’s still wrong but it’s better than confronting the person.
Yes, Adrienne. I experienced the same while in high school, girls can be so cruel. I agree with you Tam and I’ve been there too Jeanie. I was called everything because of how I carried myself and what I liked. Jealousy is a sickness but you all are beautiful and funny!
Tamera words about people using her kindness as advantage is so true!!!
Speak your truth Adrienne 👏🏾 So sad we live in a world that people have to defend themselves like that
Yeah I’ve heard rumors of Adrienne but it’s outright jealousy and hate cuz she’s very beautiful and naturally sexy . She’s the type of woman that is effortlessly sexy she ain’t even got to try .
I do agree though. The first thing we do as humans is judge people based on what they’re wearing. For instance, if a guy is well put together, “he’s all about his looks and is a player”. If a girl is put together, “she’s a stuck up b and gets around the block”
I agree.
That’s something that I’m learning. Not judging people based on what they wear or say.
On Sunday, my pastor said to watch what comes out of your mouth. Your tongue has the power of blessings or curse.
I can completely relate to Adrienne! I never wore heels in high school but I loved fashion and always wanted to dress up and people assumed that I thought I was better than them! It was honestly an insecurity issue, dressing nice made me feel better about myself.
My whole problem is : people DO NOT know how to observe situations FIRST & instead they spew hate based off of THEIR personal assumptions without asking questions or anything ! It's COMPLETELY disrespectful & disgusting ! Until you hear something from the horse's mouth itself then don't say anything !
I agree it's disgusting and disrespectful.
Side note the yellow shirt, the sleek hair & cute make up look sooo pretty on loni. Her whole look is so cute😍😍😍
Yes Tam! People don't understand it actually takes more strength to he good to people. Most don't know the difference between kindness and weakness. It's so annoying cause if they do too much then you have to show them how weak you are not lol.
Lolll I never knew they addressed the chokers. She really used to be wearing them allll the time 🤣🤣.
Wow synchronicity at its finest! I just started reading The Four Agreements, and Tam is so right! You dont have to agree to a persons opinion of you, family OR strangers, although its harder to ignore family's comments
Has anyone realized that all three husband had the last name that start with a H . Herbert , Houghton, Housley , Harties
How did you notice tho
So true people always try and take your niceness for a weakness. In actuality it takes sooo much strength and integrity to be kind then to be mean.
I'm not quick to judge people but man are they quick to judge me smh😟
Same here. Beautiful picture by the way.
@@TheRetroWoman80 thank u ma and I feel u💙 stay blessed beautiful 😘
Hey
yep, ppl have done me like they did Adrienne, not really for looking nice but for doing my own thing
Adrienne Houghton you are beautiful with an without the choker
Shes so beautiful!
She's fat
She talks too much! Lol
chinarace and you're miserable
chinarace and you’re ignorant
Referring to the rumor thing : I'm sorry but I got too much stuff going on in my life to be starting rumors about somebody else's personal life !!!
I am with you
LMFAO ikr
It's actually life draining.
Tamera is so sweet u can tell by the energy 🙏🏾
Adrienne should have a podcast like Angela YEE has lip service I’m not sure ppl would watch a tv show w just her but she’s mad passionate and has a great voice and her own weekly podcast just talking answering letters or speaking on life would be something I’d listen to 😍😍
Agree lol
She has a TH-cam channel where she does videos kind of like that
Yamamah marina she does but I’m thinking more of her doing her own version of QUEEN RADIO like more laidback and she just talks with her girlfriends and they tell stories and give advice
The Real should try and do a late night podcast and alternate the girls as host..I think it would be fun
Mac Lucasta that.........IS ACTUALLY A BOMB IDEA WTF
Omg Tamera!! I’m reading that book currently it’s the most amazing book and it really makes you reflect on how you think and how to speak to an individual.
i love that top on loni! The yellow is stunning. :)
SweetTits the whole crew was looking like bosses today!! Also, I love ur username.😂
I did once, and I was so wrong to do that. Felt bad at the end. But I learned from that and I try my best not to do it again. Nobody is perfect and everybody has a story to tell.
when i first met my now bff i didn't particularly like her, but thank god i gave myself a chance to get to know her and change my attitude. if i hadn't i would have missed out on the best friend i've ever had in my life! what she's been to me, what she's done for me is priceless. next to my mother she is second in whom i hold in high esteem💖
12:34 "I'm the one that's the hoe at the table". 😂😂😂😂 Long as you know, Loni.
Lmfao
@@ineedya123 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@ineedya123 nothing cute about thinking being negative is appropriate or okay
Adrienne's describing herself the way people would see her character, Alana from Thats So Raven, if she were real
At (0:14 seconds) Adrienne's hair & makeup looks sooo pretty!! 😍🖒💇
That is so true. I agree with tamera because I am very nice and people think I’m a pushover or easy to get or weak because I’m nice but that is not it at all because I can defend myself and others and still be kind.
I’m the least judgmental person I know. If I don’t know a person or their situation I ain’t saying anything.... plus, it ain’t my business half the time
If only more people were like that
What happened to miss Adrienne happened to me. Dressed up once or twice a week in HS, wore heels, knew how to walk in them, felt my most confident in them and was rumored to be "the mean girl" or a prep, that I was only dressing that way to show off, make guys notice me, etc. All of which I was not.
The same people (almost always a group of girls) would watch me constantly, try to critique my every move but would then see me talk with everyone, always polite and kind, be the one joking around or start laughing at myself, be anyone's friend, make conversation, making sure everyone felt comfortable around me bc I knew how awful it felt to feel the opposite of that... once they'd see that, I'd be told by one or all of them that I was completely different than how they thought I'd be; that I wasn't stuck up, full of myself, bitchy or mean. I would always feel flattered that they saw my true colors but also so sad bc I never want anyone to see me and perceive me to be something I'm not.
Really related to her story. So Adrienne, thanks mama, love you even more. Grew up wishing I could be like you as Chanel in the Cheetah Girls, dressed as your character with a group of my girlfriend's in middle school, looked up to you so so much. Thanks for always keeping it real💋💯👏👏👏
I went through the exact same thing you did Adrienne. It felt like you were telling my high school story. People are too quick to judge.
so true Adrienne, I know people in my life who don't like me just coz I like putting myself together, so they have a pre notion abt me.
“ I can’t breath in them” .....yeah Adrienne, that’s why it’s called a CHOKEr😂😂😂 I love her so much
I love how down to earth these ladies are.
Wtf is wrong with people who hell leaves a note like that
Klove 89 write like who really can sit and write a note
I haven’t been on The Real’s YT channel in a minute but I came back to FULL segments of girl chat 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I relate soo much to Tamera and Jeannie. I was really nice and everyone knew that but they took my kindness for weakness and a lot ! Of girls tried to pick on me, but got checked quick ! But I started hating girls and hung out with boys and played sports and a lot of girls got jealous and tried to call me a hoe but they got checked quick! & I’m not talking about fighting I’m talking about being the mature one and saying “ just Bc I hang out with guys doesn’t mean I’m a hoe. They actually respect me more then they respect the rest of you& trust me hanging out with guys I know a lot of secrets about a few of you, so I would use my words wisely and treat people better” they all rolled they eyes and walked away and latter tried to be friends with me to get to boys 😑man I hated school 🙄
daaaamn
8:26 I feel that! I went through the same thing at my work place. I was being nice and friendly to everyone and people thought I was being flirty.
I have the same problem I’m 23 and I still get the “ stuck up” label especially from black girls ( I’m black too) if I want to have a beat face at work then I can and just Bc u choose to come to work with a bonnet on that’s u. It’s our JOB there’s no reason why u shouldn’t look put together .
I'm 46 and I've gotten the same hate too. Because I choose to dress up. I just like clothes and looking nice. Always have. Or here comes the jealousy or envy of my small size - my looks. Or because I'm concerned about doing my job well. Or because I'm introverted. If you can name it, I've been thru it over the years. The hate, jealousy, envy have come from all sides, extended family, my own husband & his son, work and "place of worship." I literally couldn't catch a break. I could write a book about my experiences. Over the years it started to get me down. Then I pray to God and move on. What other's think of me is none of my business.
Thankgod for Loni!!! Yeah we all have to stop judging each other it is very important to do that.
I feel you Jeannie ... same happened to me. You can't have guy friends back at home cuz the girls would shame you but I got over it 🤣😂
I just love and adore the relationship Tam and Loni have with each other.
They really go a long way together🥹🥹😍😍I want that.
this from 2016??? cmon yall
It threw me off when Adrienne said she was 32. I was thinking y is she lying but now it makes sense bcuz she's 35 now.
They’ve been doing this for a minute tho
And Adrienne was engaged at this time...
Wow those years flew by.
i was just about to say that!
Yes the 4 agreements - don’t assume and don’t take things personally
But honestly I feel like they’re posting long OLD clips because they might think if they post the full CURRENT clips we’re not gonna watch because we’ll just tune in here which is FAKE NEWS!!! y’all we’ll watch on both!! Please bless!!
Tameri Harding that's not it either lol.... some countries aren't able to watch the full show or are either a few seasons behind & this is their way of catering to them
We all should be nice to one another and live peaceful nice lives.
I'm with Adrian about the heels in school I used to wear heels to high school because I was so short I'm 5'2 and honestly my whole group of girlfriends did it.
In a certain culture hate for someone because of their personality and their individual self is something I wish would stop. Let’s be kind instead.
Never felt more relatable to a loni comment like I do now with covid-19 (7:38) 🤣🤣
Good clip. I appreciated all of their insights, particularly Loni' s. I too am an introvert and misperceptions, rumors, etc. are for the birds. What other people feel/assume regarding me has nothing to do with me and my happiness journey. It took a long time to get to that approach to living but I'm so glad I got there.
THIS GIRL CHAT WAS EVERYTHINGGGGG
I hate rumors too.
All the ladies look lovely but Jeannie is looking extra glowing. I'm enjoying these conversations
"People see a smile and assume it means happiness. The pearly whites hide the darkness that hides inside."
Longer snippets...I like this
of segments from 2 years ago
When people judges me, they only show me their own insecurities. People tend to judge what they don't understand. And often times people judge you because you are too comfortable in your own skin.
I'm a black mother with two black daughters...ages 3 and 8... I did this just last night. I have to put the 3yo in and out of her car seat because she can't do it herself. THATS ALL IT IS. I don't have yo check on the 8yo cuz she can do all that herself. She gets in and out by herself. I stopped doing that for her when she was 6 be cuz at that age I no longer feared her smashing a finger in the car door. To make that about race... Child, bye!
I'm judged by people for being 'rude' but the fact of the matter is I'm very rarely rude, I just tell it how it is and that shocks people because they aren't used to it. I'm not 'rude'
I believe Adrienne. That rumor has been out there for the longest. Adrienne, you wanna know who started that rumor? Rob.
"don't be touchin on me if you don't know me playa!"
Hahah!!! The dime-speak just saved Adrienne’s life
lol
Love Adrienne's look today very fall and he hair is on point. Love loni's wig it's slayed. Not feeling jeannies look it's giving me season 1 vibes and that was a dark time for all of them lol. Anyways, this woman was out of line for this note she didn't know the situation and to judge like that is sadly normal but to write a note to these people was too much. We all need to give people the benefit of the doubt and stop jumping to conclusions.
Dang this is reality what Jennie and Adrienne went through been there.
A 12 minute and 47 second video?! A blessing.
Clicked IMMEDIATELTY when I saw 12 minutes...
(Edit) Oh... It’s old. meh! You get what you get and you don’t get upset 🤷🏾♀️
after the 3rd minute mark, I kept wondering why the video kept going. not fully used to these 10+ minute videos yet but I’m liking it
I'm sorry but whoever did Loni makeup they need to blend more fyi
Take your white privilege some where else. You need a good public resteraunt humiliation
It's an old episode. Her makeup is well blended now lol.
FACTS
Girl.... true.
I've beeen scrolling looking for this comment
“I’m single and I’m grown” 😂😂 Loni kills me 🙌🏽🙌🏽
People assume because I'm shy I'm stuck up. But if I try to come out of my shell and speak my mind they say I'm being a bitch or smart ass.
Man I relate so much with Adrienne. kids in high school always wanted to tell me that I dressed up alot when in my opinion I was still comfortable. I mean to my knowledge no one thought that I was stuck up, but other girls did try to label me something else because I was respected by the guys that were "every where" you know, and the guys repected me because they said I wouldn't fall for any guy like I have standards and I guess the girls did not like how cool I was with them.
I realized as a mature adult that girls said mean things about me probably out of jealousy. I was also called a hoe when I hadn’t even had sex yet. Lots of rumors made up about me, it was so hurtful because I was nice to everyone and friendly. The worst betrayals always came from girls who I thought were my friends 🤷🏻♀️
i get that a lot.. most of my friends always say they thought i had a bad attitude when we first met till they got to know me and realized im just sweet
12 minute clip?😩🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽. Thank you.
Happy for long clips even if it's old shows! I'm living in Asia, this is the only way I can watch 😅
BE.ondMidnite I'm in Chongqing. I feel ya
How was this segment so on point?! 💯
Oooh you ladies are talking real today! I actually wrote a poem about people mistaking my kindness for weakness and posted it live. You won't believe how many people out there can relate to it. I think it takes strength to be kind. Thank you for keeping it real ladies. Love you all.