Ah! 🤭I can relate, ekhaya. I'm married, my elder sister (divorcee), no kids and is taking good care of the family homestead, and unenhlanhla ye mali. Our house is beautiful. My eldest sister is having 2 boys, not married, carry maternal surname. Thank you BABA for clarity🙏 We DON'T even learn this in Psychology. I'm enlightened, Thokoza Gogo👏👏
That’s not what I heard but rather in certain instances it is ancestrally crafted not to say it’s not taboo it still is and cause ancestral sickness on the child
Ancestral sickness?? It may not be a taboo but but Ancestral sickness is taking it too far ... it becomes an Ancestral sickness when the rightful rituals are not done for the child and when they don't remain with their mothers family.
It’s not too far, no ancestor encourages a child to be born ekhaya. If kwenzeka lokho kuletha ukugcola nokudeleleka ekhaya, kuvusa icala in the fathers family and brings ukungcola kubo futhi. All of that is ancestral sickness. The rituals you speak of are to correct a wrong they are not natural to child birth which must be under the agreement of both ancestors. In the end what DR Mkhize is talking to is when the girls ancestors agree with the fathers family to receive a sperm donation for which the fathers family will have no claim over the child and no mbango is to arise due to long standing agreements between those families which is totally outside of ukuzalela ekhaya per the norm. It’s an exception that can’t be extrapolated to justify what we know causes ancestral sickness.
'Sithe uma singena enkululekweni, yonke into sayiphendula yayipolitiki. Akusekho lutho uMkhize engakukhuluma objectively kungathiwa eyi akashawe uMkhize. Uthi... Ngoba inkulumo yami ilinkwa nepolitiki. Yonke into isiyipolitiki namhlanje. Yingakho-ke nje, sihlukumeza abantu besifazane nezingane; ngoba asisatsheliwa ukuthi umuntu wesifazane uyini.' - Presented the same point in a broader perspective of how poor activism has hurt us as a nation. Great hearing it in a narrrower (more specific) perspective.
'Yonke into siyithathe ngokwepolitiki, sayithatha ngokomnotho, sangabheka ukuthi to we as africans: what is a woman (in the african context)? Everything is westernized. Kuthiwa women empowerment... Bakwethu, umuntu wesifazane vele unama powers akhe aziwayo ngokwesintu, kuphela ayehlonishwa.'
It would be great Siyabonga if we could have a platform where ubaba speaks about different topics in relation to our culture or rather our way of life before colonisation. I understand that he is a very busy man but choosing one topic a month for him to cover for like an hour would be great and will help teach many of the younger generation. We are hungry for learning about our life and history as a group of people and I feel like most channels focus on Izigubhu nokuthwala which won’t really help us in getting our people to the glory we used to be know for.
Thokoza mkhulu syabonga ngokusikhulisa esintwin sakithi uMvelinqangi asigcinele wena 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Washaya Khabazela yiyo leyo oyishoyo yonke akubusise amathongo akini nawakwaZulu wonkana ngokuwamela ukhulume iqiniso ungesabi okwakho akukhona ukwenza imali wenza umsebenzi wakho futhi uyawenzisisa ngokulalela bona abangasekho nabo bayakusiza usho konke khula ungayeki kuze kufike izinsuku zakho zokuhamba emhlabeni ❤
Syabonga mkhulu safa inhlupheko sesizenzile izinto
Ngyaythanda lobaba, ngingamlalela usuku lonke 🤗🤗❤ siyabonga.
Ah! 🤭I can relate, ekhaya. I'm married, my elder sister (divorcee), no kids and is taking good care of the family homestead, and unenhlanhla ye mali. Our house is beautiful. My eldest sister is having 2 boys, not married, carry maternal surname. Thank you BABA for clarity🙏 We DON'T even learn this in Psychology. I'm enlightened, Thokoza Gogo👏👏
Babu Mkhize ngiyabonga ngolwazi olunamandla olungivula amehlo lingiphe nokuhlakanipha nokuqonda ukuthi kuyini ukuba ngumuntu ompisholo.💯👋👋🙌🙌
Siyabonga baba uMkhize ngokusivula amehlo, yazi ukhuluma ngodaba oluyisilonda kimina nakulabo abesifazane abanabantwana abangahlawulwanga kodwa uthole ukuthi yonke into ibheke wena ekhaya, minake abafowethu azange baphile. Uthole ukuthi ubaba wengane usabathe uyahlanganisa ukuze avele ekhaya kodwa kuvele kungenzeki uzibuze ukuthi kanti kwenzekani. 🙏
Ndiya bulela Tata. Wandikhumnuza utata ondizalayo zonke ozithetha apha wayesifundisa kanje. Ndimbonile Namhlanje isiZulu nesi Xhosa asahlukanga 🙏🙏🙏
Aaah you are a treasure of wisdom Tata, a breathe of fresh air. Camagu nduna
First time I hear this explanation about the three types of women.
I hope women understand that ukuzalela ekhaya is not a Taboo ke
You can say that again
That’s not what I heard but rather in certain instances it is ancestrally crafted not to say it’s not taboo it still is and cause ancestral sickness on the child
Ancestral sickness?? It may not be a taboo but but Ancestral sickness is taking it too far ... it becomes an Ancestral sickness when the rightful rituals are not done for the child and when they don't remain with their mothers family.
It’s not too far, no ancestor encourages a child to be born ekhaya. If kwenzeka lokho kuletha ukugcola nokudeleleka ekhaya, kuvusa icala in the fathers family and brings ukungcola kubo futhi. All of that is ancestral sickness. The rituals you speak of are to correct a wrong they are not natural to child birth which must be under the agreement of both ancestors.
In the end what DR Mkhize is talking to is when the girls ancestors agree with the fathers family to receive a sperm donation for which the fathers family will have no claim over the child and no mbango is to arise due to long standing agreements between those families which is totally outside of ukuzalela ekhaya per the norm.
It’s an exception that can’t be extrapolated to justify what we know causes ancestral sickness.
Syabulela baba
Baba you are an icon for this country and I wish izinyanya zakini zibe nawe kufikela ekugcineni kwempilo yakho Khabazela.
Siyabonga mkhulu ukusakha
'Sithe uma singena enkululekweni, yonke into sayiphendula yayipolitiki. Akusekho lutho uMkhize engakukhuluma objectively kungathiwa eyi akashawe uMkhize. Uthi... Ngoba inkulumo yami ilinkwa nepolitiki. Yonke into isiyipolitiki namhlanje. Yingakho-ke nje, sihlukumeza abantu besifazane nezingane; ngoba asisatsheliwa ukuthi umuntu wesifazane uyini.'
- Presented the same point in a broader perspective of how poor activism has hurt us as a nation. Great hearing it in a narrrower (more specific) perspective.
'Yonke into siyithathe ngokwepolitiki, sayithatha ngokomnotho, sangabheka ukuthi to we as africans: what is a woman (in the african context)? Everything is westernized. Kuthiwa women empowerment... Bakwethu, umuntu wesifazane vele unama powers akhe aziwayo ngokwesintu, kuphela ayehlonishwa.'
It would be great Siyabonga if we could have a platform where ubaba speaks about different topics in relation to our culture or rather our way of life before colonisation.
I understand that he is a very busy man but choosing one topic a month for him to cover for like an hour would be great and will help teach many of the younger generation.
We are hungry for learning about our life and history as a group of people and I feel like most channels focus on Izigubhu nokuthwala which won’t really help us in getting our people to the glory we used to be know for.
Ngiyabonga Ngiyabonga kakhulu sisi kunzima sisi wami unjani
Siyabonga Baba Khabazela, You are our Treasure.
Ngicela ukubuza uma umuntu eboniswa ukuthi akaqhoke Ibhayi engathwasi kodwa enedlozi eliphuzulu kumele yini aliqhoke
Syabonga mkhulu
Ngyabonga Baba ukusihlaziyela lodaba lomuntu wesfazane ngoba amadoda awakuzwisisi ukuthi umuntu wesfazane unamandla
Baba wami, ngingumuntu ngawe. Izinto zami ziyacaca manje. Ngibonga angiqedi Khabazela, Mavovo, wena waseMbo
Wakusiza kanjani
Ngicela kufika Baba kuwe i always listen to u on ukhozi fm
Tholakala kanjani baba
Syabonga kakhulu Baba Khabazela.
Thokoza Mkhulu
Sicela usilungisele umsindo wama video ukhalela phansi kakhulu.
Syathokozq
Siyabonnga khabazela izimfundiso zakho akwande kodwa bengicela baba ukuthi ungicazele ngendaba yehlahla lomuntu ongasekho lenziwa njani lisa ekhaya noma uhamba nalo uma lize lasala emathuneni kwenziwa njani uma esekhushulwa bengicela mawunga khona uluphinde ohlelweni lukadudu khoza ngoba ngoSeptember ngizo kwenza umsebenzi wokukhuphila ngiyabonga Khabazela
Ngiyabonga baba ngolwazi Uma unethongo kumele yini uthwase or uphahla nje kuphel
AMEN 🙏uyashaya mkhulu siyaphila eMlambomunye,wena waseMbo
Njengami babAmkhize angiganile ngihleli ekhaya ngibiza isibongo salapho kwakushade khona Waze wahamba emhlabeni engahlukanisile umfana ubiza esasekhabo mama nezingane zakhe zibiza isibongo sakubo kama wami mina ke anginayo ingane kusho ukuthi soze sakhulA isibongo sasemsjadweni kamama
I wish ubungu Tata wam,ngoba ngihluphekile emphefumlweni
Same here. I think I would be a very different person. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Baba Mkhize.💪💪💪💪💪✊✊✊✊✊✊✊
Syabonga Baba 🙌
Baba, Khabazela.Nansi impicabadala,Ugogo akashadanga wazala intombazane,nayo ayangashada. Yazala umfana yambiza ngesibongo seshende not uyise womfana.Umkhulu uthi- ke Ingane ezalwa intombazane ayiyibize ngesibongo sayise wayo njengoba sekukude kanje.Umfana ashade agcagcelwe esibongweni seshende lamama engazi.Nakhu sekufa,kugula izingane kumakoti kuthiwe izingane zabizwa ngesibongo ongeyiso sayise,noyise useyahlanya.Manje nazi izingane zasemshadweni kuthiwe azilungise umsamo ngoba useyaziwea umkhulu wazo.Zingene esibongweni sayise ngoba useye wahlWula umkbulu kababa ogcagcelwe.Khabazele chaza baba kunzima.Inkinga lomsamo usuhlule abaningi sekushoniwe emhlabeni.Sekuphele zimali ilomsamo.
Wise words baba, siyabonga kakhulu👏👏
Kubuhlungu engikubona kwenziwa yisizwe sakithi sokulandela ukwenza kwabezizwe zabase ntshonalanga sabhekela phansi ubuzwe bethu
Mholo tatazala ndiyaqala ukumamela, ndiyakuthanda, ndifunda lukhulu. Ndiyazithanda iimfundiso ngesintu, I always say olu lwazi lwakho kufuneka Iufakwe kwi school curriculum. Hayi lomgquba ofundwayo. Abanye balahlekile tata, bayahleka abazazi nokuba baya emva or phambili baswelwe ulwazi. Yizanazo.
Impela banamandla abo emvelo nje awubabuke nje noma kuhlatshiwe isfuba sidliwa yibo, iqolo ,cishe inkomo idliwa yibo yonke thina sidla inhloko nenyawo nje
yoh siyabonga Mkhize, asibheke konke in a african context
Came back with the drone shots now😭😭👌
Wayibeka indaba babu Mkhize.Sengathi uhulumeni ubengathatha lenkulumo ibe yisikhangiso sakho kuyoyonke indawo la akhangisa khona.Sibonge ukusifaka endleleni baba ngoba sidukile thina,ikakhulukazi thina bantu abasebasha okusafanele sivuse imizi yokhokhobethu.
Syabonga Wena wasembo
Siyabonga Khabazela! 💪
Yhoh bab'uMkhize konke loku okukhulume la kwenzeka la kimina ❤ ngiyabonga ngale nkulumo neemfundiso zakho
Mhlonishwa ngicela ukubuza uma kusele umama ekhaya unelungelo lokushisa iphepha na?
Khabazela🙌
Ngakhula ke namhlanje Khabazela, ngiyabonga kakhulu.
Siyafunda siyabonga
Good evening. Can someone translate what Mkhulu is saying 🙏🏽
Angibingelele baba! Baba umntu ofuna ukuhlangana nawe wenza kanjani? Camagu!!
Mmm kunjalo bashonja lo
🙏❤️💯💕✨
Owesfazane ofika ezogana Bese uyathakatha ingabe naye isuke elethwe ithonga?
Kungenzeka kuti kusuke kukhona umoya wobuthakathi la eganele khona kanti nakubo ukhona,so eminye imimoya iyalandana
Cela number yase mlambomunye
Gcwabe kaMavovo, yamnandi lencazelo siyabonga Gubhela.
Cela number yase Mlambomunye
Décolonisation to go back to our originality