Had a few people misunderstanding in the comments here so just to be clear - I do news videos and this obviously big news and suicide / mental health is something I’ve been impacted by so I’m very passionate about it, which made me want to speak out immediately and if you actually watch the video I have extreme compassion for Liam and anyone else who battles this as I have myself. Very gutted to think anyone would perceive any differently but this is the truth. If you think I did a video too quickly for money - I couldn’t give a shit what money this gets I just felt connected to what he went through 💙
This is what I have been SCREAMING since this has all happened!! Everyone keeps calling him an abuser and having zero empathy or sympathy for his death! Thank you for making this video! He was a HUMAN BEING who needed help and it looks to me he was the one being used and abused.
It’s been several days now and I have avoided commenting. A young man died in mental turmoil and a 7yr old child has had to be told he won’t ever be able to spend any more time with his daddy. THIS is the tragedy - everything else is white noise. I commend this podcast for being the only one that is publicising a confidential helpline, available 24hrs. So THANK YOU.
Sad to read hes been struggling for years, but he had more money then any of us, and could of helped himself by seeing a therapist to work through his issues.
Never seen your videos before, but you said exactly what I’ve been thinking, I’ve been so upset about this. The poor man was bullied, I’m gutted for him. This was a thoughtful video. I keep thinking if only they’d kept him downstairs or someone had blocked the door. Please make another video about this. It’s so shockingly sad what happened to him.
You are NOT thinking CLEARLY. It's the Same thing that happened to Cassie, everyone went Against her and did Not Believe her Simply because She is a Woman; then P. Diddy's Crimes EXPLODED and now people Are "SHOCKED" LOL, the Woman was telling the WORLD the MONSTER HE WAS, but the World did to Cassie the same thing they ALWAYS Do to Women when They Speak the TRUTH!!
Maya Henry is a spoiled, entitled, narcissistic little rich girl. Narcissists ALWAYS THINK THEY ARE SUPERIOR TO OTHERS AND MUST BE WORSHIPPED. THEY ALWAYS DRAMATICALLY PLAY THE VICTIM. They ALWAYS GASLIGHT THE OTHER PERSON. IF THE PERSON EVEN BLINKS AT THEM "THE WRONG WAY" THEY MAKE A FEDERAL CASE OUT OF IT AND SEEK REVENGE . THEY SPREAD LIES TO AS MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE. THEY ARE PATHOLOGICAL LIARS. THEY OFTEN PUT THE "OFFENDER'S" LIFE IN DANGER AND SOMETIMES KILL THE PERSON . ALL TRUE. LOOK IT UP. There's your poor little victim Maya. 😈
@@GlobalAINewsInsights878not true, only those red pill guys discredited Cassie. Even without her I could tell you diddy was dark. A lot of people believed her immediately because we all were witness of the diddlers sleazy character over the years. Liam was relentlessly bullied just for dancing or saying things that were misunderstood. Calling him irrelevant and cringe. Liam was used and abused. Cassie’s story was consistent and she provided proof and there were more witnesses to support her story. With maya all there is is her ever changing story, her tiktok rants and a grown woman who voluntarily send her pictures knowing he had a kid and who now has deleted her confession. Was asking for the pictures wrong yes, bad judgement on his part but let’s not act as if sending those type of pictures is uncommon for this generation, some enjoy it (for some strange reason)and then later regret it because of xyz reasons. I am all for justice but it has to be for everyone, men included. The truth has no gender.
I needed this video. So respectful, levelheaded and touching. As a long time One Direction fan, Liam’s sad passing has really hit me hard. You nailed this video.
This guy is anything but levelheaded, this video is horrific. He's just another clout chaser hoping to gain clicks off spouting misogynistic bullshit to gain clicks off Liam's death.
@@MissMusicForYou I don't see this video as misogynistic at all. Can we please remember that women sometimes do awful things as well as men? Drake's hot sauce incident and Jim Carrey's ex are just two that come to mind.
Hope no-one buys the book And his fans ain't gonna believe her I only heard of her and Kate though liam so now theyvwill do anything to stay relevant. They are just nobody's
I am so glad I found this video. It’s truthful, informative, sensitive and respectful. I had no idea Liam was going through so much. It shows that a child star doesn’t grow up “naturally learning” coping strategies. And it shows that people can only take so much. Regardless of wealth and fame, a mind that’s battling with itself, can be pushed over the edge by constant judgment and negative things occurring. He could have felt like he was in very choppy waters and drowning in his own success and he didn’t know how to get back to the calm waters of happiness, financial freedom and love from so many people he didn’t know - back to the calm waters he was once peacefully floating in when his fame was up and coming and even peaking. And he had the world at his feet. An very ordinary person can battle with their own mind, an ordinary life can busy peoples minds up so much that they cannot cope. Add millions of eyes on him and everyone having “their say” and he probably felt he was in a burning metal box that was continuously getting hotter and hotter and he didn’t know how to get out of it. And no matter where he travelled in the world, his world wide fame made certain that his problems would follow him. I imagine it all just becomes noise in the end, a messed up mind full of noise, noise that you dull with drugs, then once drugs stop dulling the noise, anger comes into play and you could do “anything” to stop the noise for good. Rest in Peace Liam Payne I am sorry you couldn’t cope with, or break free from the path you were on, I am sorry your mind was a mess and you were mentally hurting and weren’t equipped to know which way to turn. I hope you are in the most peaceful place now. You will be missed by so many. Sometimes dreams can turn into nightmares. His ex could have written a diary to heal. She didn’t need to make money to heal.
@@GlobalAINewsInsights878Such bull. She was out to destroy him ever since he refused to marry her because she was pregnant. It's an age old trick of women getting pregnant on purpose to force the man to marry her. But it didn't work for her She says he forced her to have an at home abortion. Really? Like did he hold her down or something? 😅 That was her choice.
You did a wonderful, fair, empathic, intelligent job on this. He has been truly ‘seen.’ Thank you so much. Such a change from all the horrible nasty stuff that is being spewed.
Jesus man you hit the nail on the head ,I wish he had someone like you to talk to I'm sure you could have put things into perspective for him , you sound like a great mate to have
Agreed. Many of us think his relationships were stunts. We've seen Liam when he's in a good place with the people around him. His Parents, his sister's, Louis and the boys, his friendships with other musicians. He was manipulated by the industry for half his life, his whole adult life. A split second of devastating frustration and he's gone. I hope that girls father pulls her and her mother in to line after all he's a big time lawyer that's how she knows how to get away with her narcissistic behaviour. She will never take the blame. It's time the made music industry stunts illegal maybe we'd have less young lives destroyed
@@MartinaDowney-ql9rz She doesn't Need Your Permission to Release her Book; thanks GOODNESS for that!! She has her FREEDOM to PUBLISH THAT BOOK, and I hope She Makes $$$$$$ Billions $$$$$$$$ and Sells many Copies of it!
I agree with what you said 100%. My daughter is a HUGE 1D fan and I took her twice to see them. She was 14yo and adored them. She is now 24yo & Last night I got a call with her sobbing & very drunk. I was not taking ANY chances, so I jumped in my car & drove there. It was a build up of things, alcohol, Liam’s death and a guy she is seeing, but all those things together had got too much for her. She normally goes to bed at 9:30pm but I ended up sitting with her, till 11:30pm, watching 1D videos, remembering the fun innocent days of when she was such a HUGE fan & how great the concerts were. She got all the crying out of her system, talked about all the struggles she is having with this 2nd big relationship & was able to leave her smiling and laughing! I have suffered severe depression and many suicide attempts, 2 of which were successful but was revived by medics, so I never ignore anyone who is reaching out for help, I instantly make myself available & take their suicidal thoughts VERY seriously! In that 1 moment it takes to carry out your thoughts, I know from personal experience, if you are able to reach out to the right person, someone to listen, understand its enough to stop you from following it through. 😢 R.I.P beautiful Liam 💔😢SO SO heartbreaking! 💔
24 and 2nd big relationship putting her in such a state? Hope you managed to get her to break up with this man, focus on herself and realise men are not everything especially at 24.
Imagine a man at a low point suffering from depression and drug addition with a toxic narcissist on your shoulder making you feel more miserable all while trying to destroy you from the inside out. Getting dropped from your record label and people who don't even know you hate on you for no reason. The bitter sweat feeling of being famous the double edged dagger. Honestly, watching more and more... she's manipulating and tried to silence him.
She was warned this book could have negative consequences but she choose to ignore that advice. In my experience those who keep talking about their ex relationships are the ones with the problem, a narcissist will do this.
@@TheMrsShephard life for people is not easy that’s why a life can become messy, I will not say anyone ever, has not experienced some kind of trauma in their life lives whether small or large.
The interesting thing about this is also a fact that her dad is a wealthy lawyer, so even with all the negative aspects about her that we see there's probably more too her behind close doors. I'm saying this as a lawyer's daughter myself, one thing we know is how to be calculative. So, she's probably way worse than you can ever imagine. He probably fell for the nice girl act, literally.
Brian, Never really comment on anything, but can I just say aside from the subject of the video, you have absolutely no idea how much what you have said about the struggles of drug abuse, and relationships has just related to my current situation. Your words have genuinely helped me. This isn’t your typical cry for a reply. I don’t even care if you acknowledge this. Just wanted to say please never stop being the creator you are because on god you can change a persons entire mindset. Love you bro
You doing OK bro? As hard as it is ain't gona fix until you drive the bus. Hard as fuck though been there dome that You seem like you're ready to change a few things so I wish you nothing but the best. Head down tell nobody and work on yourself on the good days but especially the bad days 👊
Thanks to you all ❤️ I’m doing okay, taking each day as it comes and celebrating sobriety at the end of each. Hopeful of rekindling old flames whenever she can see I’m changing myself for the better. Nice to see there are good souls out there, stay strong fellas ❤️
Your video was so tasteful and I can clearly tell that you care about mental health. As a mental health counselor is so beautiful to see you care. Even if you go to therapy, my hope that her therapist would help her to see the part that she played in the situation.
You are so right! My feelings exactly. That ex-girlfriend typifies today's young generation ... milk a situation for all its worth and ride roughshod over anyone who stands in your way in order to do it. It's sickening to me that you would get a book deal by profiting off a private situation that could cause so much harm to another person, regardless of how right you think you are. No empathy, no love, no respect. This girl disgusts me no end! Karma will come back to bite her, make no mistake. Her career will flop and her personal life, too, because she drove a man to unalive himself. That's just my opinion of this whole sorry story.
Brian you are the first person I’ve seen that has even mentioned the 2 way street of the Liam/ Maya situation. You’ve given balance instead of the pile on I’ve seen from others. Great job.
Cant agree more! What you've said here is spot on. Honestly no hate on anyone, and not taking sides, but her act of shortsighted toxic vengeance has killed a talented young man who was loved by many across the world. It's inhuman, she knew all about his mental instability all along, yet decided to publicize the very thing that would kill him. Those are sensitive details, why would anyone wanna publicly talk about such confidential details?! Clearly she never loved him and dated him for her own selfish gain... Anyway he's gone now, but there's so much to learn from this incident.
Thank you my brother, for putting out a quality video and message regarding Liam. Nothing but respect for you. You have put out a video that is well needed, with all the negative circulating around this young man's private (not so private) life. You are a kind soul and need more humans on this planet like you. Bless you and take care mate. 🙏👍✌️💙
@lindseyhaslam6286 I read that her dad has allegation also for some sexual things but I do not know if this is true. I know he is high profile attorney and like all rich people thinks he is a God and can everything.
He actually reached out to her... He at least talked to her person to person and did not put things in public. She is so bitter. You already knew he was suffering depression. You got no symphaty, a narcissistic and selfish.
what i really appreciate abou TG is his interpersonal intelligence, he really understands the human mind, how people feel in certain situations and how to put it in words and explain it to the audience.
Honestly, this is why I like you man. You speak from the heart and the truth, same thing goes for you True.. internet may say you've said the wrong things but none of us are freaking perfect. We are all human, we hurt and we either take it in or unleash it. Unfortunately for Liam, he probably took it in for so long until enough was enough. God knows I feel like that nowadays.
You're serving a great purpose on the internet dude! in helping us understand and navigate difficult to understand/controversial topics. i rarely find myself to disagree with you, i appreciate your videos. You bring value through your insights and you truly seem like a good guy and make the internet a better palce in my opinion 👍🏼
This has to be the most respectful and in-depth commentary on the death Liam Payne. May his young soul rest in eternal comfort and peace. I hope his stone-cold ex get’s all the backlash she deserves and zero sales from her money grabbing book, and this is coming from someone who witnessed severe domestic violence throughout my entire childhood 🙏🏽
You cannot blame his ex girlfriend who he abused. Victims deserve justice and she always even after their Split tried to get him to rehab. Two things can coexist; Liam Did not deserve to die and deserved help. Maya has a right to speak her truth for victims.
I bet you are right. He was contacting her to get her to stop ruining his career. He wasn;t a creepy stalker. This lady is the one who can't let him go. I hope she is satisfied with herself. She got her five minutes of fame. Our society needs to go by facts and evidence instead of always catering to the woman. Sometimes, women cry abuse, when nothing has happened.
@@leeannehudson7314 as someone who’s had to obtain a cease and desist, no it’s not. It’s issued by lawyers for defamation, he was issued a cease and desist for harassment which would have had to be heavily evidenced to be obtained by police and handed over by her lawyers. If he had moved on maybe he shouldn’t have continued to create new phone numbers and accounts in order to contact her after being blocked.
@@leeannehudson7314as someone who’s had to obtain a cease and desist in the past, no. a defamation cease and desist is issued by lawyers, the cease and desist against Liam was for harassment which would have had to be obtained by police and heavily evidenced in order to obtain it, then passed over by her lawyers. If he had moved on he shouldn’t have created multiple fake phone numbers and accounts to continuously harass her.
@@maricleo493 Why would she feel "Happy" according to You?? She ain't GUILTY of his Drug Problems, he was and all those who enabled him to become the MONSTER he became!! So, You too were part of HIS PROBLEMS, NOT his ex-girlfriend!
You are so right on every level about how vulnerable Liam was and how one individual, his ex, could think only if her own self aggrandisement Thank God someone has the humanity and courage to call a spade a spade in a world where social media and the pursuit of fame and money has created people with no moral compass regarding their power to destroy a other person. Thank you.
It’s been around 10 days and it still doesn’t feel real, many of my friends think it’s stupid that I’ve held on for this long. So thank you so much for this video, many people don’t realise his true story and just characterise him around those negatives which was really him struggling. The day one direction separated changed that man. I’m not in anyway justifying his actions, it’s just that he was under pressure to “fit it” since he was 14 and NEVER had a sustainable coping mechanism… this was the closure I needed, thank you man 🙏 rest easy liam 🕊️
No he didn't, it's an incel-level rant 💩 Sounds like he has stuff to hide himself, so he's raging against abuse victims speaking out. The fact that guys like this have a platform/naive men who follow them and parrot their ideas is sad AF, genuinely contributing to the male mental health crisis
Youre spot on. I didnt follow 1D but as a 63 year old woman who understands pain of this kind, just so shocked and affected by this. This should never have happened. Thank you for your passion and your genuine thoughts 🙏🏽 😢. X Tragic 😢😢😢😢😢😢
I reached out to an old work friend recently that I always found to be nice and above the fray at work unlike me. Turns out they are having mental health struggles and seeing someone about it. I was taken aback, I had absolutely no idea, they always seemed happy go lucky. Sometimes people hide their life struggles, just goes to show that you may never really know a person. In view of this sad Liam Payne situation I let them know if they need a friend for whatever reason I'm here for them and they shouldn't be afraid to reach out.
You absolutely delivered this the right way. I saw the podcast before you posted this and thought the exact same things, if it was that bad you go to court, I'm more frustrated at how dismissive she was, but the thing that would suck is a domino effect, it sucks, but I hope nobody piles the pressure on her, because living with this isn't going to be easy and I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy.
@@GlobalAINewsInsights878 If she was abused you go to the police.. I have no space to sympathise with an abuser, but from what I can tell of him he's not a bad guy - we all have lie detectors built in and in my opinion he was a surprisingly honest guy. She never went to the police, and so he's innocent. If she proves he did abuse her in court, and then decides to write a book about it. Then that's fair, go for it. But you can't try and outsmart the legal system by writing a book that is slanderous in the category of "fiction" whilst also point blank stating who the book is about. It's a contradiction, and a miss-guided interpretation of how the legal system works. It probably doesn't seem fair that you have to take someone to court and disrupt your own life even further because of what someone else did, but that's society, it's the best way to solve problems that's been refined over thousands of years, even in society's that treated women equally like Vikings. If you want to broadcast someone as evil, you need to prove it first.. I think we've all seen that there are evil men and evil women.. you can't simply just "trust" people are telling the truth when there's monetary gain from saying what they're saying.
@@jtr549 Let me See here - FAMOUS WHITE GUY - The police would've LAUGHED at her and treated her the SAME WAY you and the Guy who made this Video are treating her - - Like a Liar!! It would've been a LOST battle from the very beginning. Writing a Book is therapy for her and HOPEFULLY she will make tons of MONEY Selling it!!
@@jtr549 The Book is a better Option. The Police were going to treat her like a "Crazy fan" or the "Rejected Crazy Girlfriend" and everyone, including You, would've laughed at her!! The Book is a much better option.
@@jtr549 He did tell other Women that he knew his FANS would believe anything he said and that he knew he could Get away with "it". He was a full-blown Narcissist and Played with other Women.
This young lady never cared about this young man. He was a ticket to fame and wealth. Sad that Liam never got the love and help he so desperately needed.
Thank you for handling this subject with such compassion. I've seen people making a mockery of Liam for years, unfortunately. He was subjected to enormous amount of scrutiny and hate, especially during his solo career. It seemed like no matter what he said or did - he always was heavily criticized over it. We're all just human beings at the end of the day. I can only imagine the terror he felt when his ex-fiance plunged her own knife into his back by writing a book. The fact that Liam's friend reached out to her and pleaded for her not to release it, because Liam wasn't doing well, and her just being straight up flippant about it and dismissing it? "I don't play with death", she says, then proceeds to release a book aimed at destroying a person's life at that person's LOWEST. If this is her definition of love, then I have no words.
@@yugeno I'm simply calling out her behaviour, as in my opinion it deserves to be criticized. She could have handled this situation with more dignity and consideration for both of them by filing a police report and moving it to a court setting. Writing a book was part of her healing process? Fair enough, why necessarily make it public though? It just comes off as insincere and vengeful and puts into doubt her true intentions. People should learn how to keep things private and that not everything needs public attention. Were you part of their relationship? Do you know what was happening behind closed doors? He might have abused her, but what if she was the one to abuse him? What if they both abused each other? What if there was no abuse at all? Treating evidenceless allegations as proven facts and passing immediate judgement is harmful. You can choose to not take sides and not speak about something instead of taking everything you read and hear at face value.
@@soustournesol Let's say she really was abused by Liam - you want her to have 'consideration' for her abuser? Seriously? Also, Maya did actually file a lawsuit against Liam. Furthermore, I literally know a person who published a book about her abuser. There's nothing wrong with it. People write about their life experiences all the time. And I know for a fact if you knew someone in real life who published a book about their abuser, you would have no problem with it, but because Maya published a book about her abuse from a famous pop star, you think it's wrong. Also, it's extremely hard to prove abuse, which is why I don't expect Maya to provide 'evidence'.
The mother of Liam’s child is classy, not a word from her to thrash him. She understood him and how vulnerable he was. Maya should have just kept quiet and handled whatever issues they had legally, not via media social
@@marianafrancisco7551 it was a fictional book. and she passed it off as 'real'. she never made any police complaints for getting chased by an AXE? i would. any normal person would.
@@marianafrancisco7551Other exes were throwing shade on TikTok gassing Maya on, but now are saying they had a lovely relationship and kept in communication, after he is dead and no one can confirm. He knew how to choose them.
Maybe it's time to start seeing and hearing those who cry and ask us to save them. May Liam's death not be in vain!!!! There are so many people suffering, especially young people. A Liam's foundation could be established to fight addiction and depression.
@@gillymac9363 just making reels of him doing anything, literally anything, and editing it to make him look bad. I dont like the guy but its that kinda thing that kills people and then they just hide away despite causing it
Wednesday morning I watched a saw a video of a guy commentating on all of “Liam Payne’s cringiest moments”. After I heard the news I went back to see if it was still there and the video was deleted. Big surprise
Well said . She said she didn't want contact yet clearly didn't change her phone number . That alone says it all . Surly any legal case would be thrown out on that very obvious safeguard she didn't bother to do. She wanted the contact to do her book
@@tarawells1553 you totally missed the point. She shouldn't have to change her number but if phone number blocking wasn't working for her then it's simply the next method of defense. By choosing not to take such action she leaves herself open to criticism. There is blame on both sides here...
@@tarawells1553 no. if you are harrassed like she says he did, first instinct wud be to change my number. expecially wen its a five year relationship. you seem to not understand the depth of the situation. who hurts someone who is already going thru hell?
@@ThePedroDByou lot always make excuses and ask why the woman couldn’t have done more. It’s getting boring. Why the hell should her AND her mother have to change their numbers because of how he was harassing them? None of them should of had to do that anyways. She’d also then have to change her email. And her social media’s. Onwards onwards.. he was at fault here and should not be harassing someone who has made it clear they want nothing to do with them.
@@timelyferrymaybe you should just understand no means no. She didn’t want to communicate.. under no circumstances should someone be forced to hide or change personal details to avoid someone. Just because he was going through a hard time is not an excuse. If he truly did what she says, and chased her around with an axe and emotionally abused her.. she’s well within her right to leave and should not have to stick around because he’s “going through a bad time”
thank you for your words . I love you for this . Maya was poisson for him and Kate only loved herself and tiktok . He treated him like a puppy and Made Show off . She left him alone in the Hotel instedt to care for him and fly back together . She should know his inside and his feelings . He hates to be alone . He needed a true Person on his side .
OH, he is NOT being "brilliant" here and NO honesty here either, HE IS JUST PISSED OFF that is a WOMAN TALKING. It would be a MAN BOY like him and he would be OK with it!!
I understand how people feel sad, sorry or wish they could have done something to help Liam, each time some one suicides we forget to celebrate a life once lived and be happy you made it this far, every day is a gift, try to live it the fullest you can and be kind to those who are in need, it does not cost you anything.
Imagine one of your exes telling the world every mistake you made from their point of view while claiming they're a victim of utter abuse. That's got to mess with your head.
Exactly this.I don't have mental health issues but when I was unmarried and if an ex did this to me I would have 100 % taken my own life.I feel so sorry for him
My ex husband isolated me n premptied his ghosting by slagging me off to all and sundry. Destroyed my son's life and mine. I no longer trust anyone to get close to me and I will accept loneliness over the risk of abuse from another person.
@@englishmadcow7461Oh, I agree with you on that! I have zero - and I mean absolutely zero - interest in having another relationship after the things my ex-husband did to me. It's a miracle I'm even here writing this after the level of abuse he perpetrated, all whilst I was already suicidal to begin with just from being around him. I'm sorry you have also gone through a terrible experience. I've been on my own now for over 7 years, so I really mean what I say about not risking another relationship, lol. 😀 Occasionally it can be lonely, as I'm sure you already know, but in those moments just think how much better a bit of loneliness is compared to how your ex treated you. That's my strategy anyway. Best wishes to you. ❤
He slammed an axe into the bed where she was laying! Read the book and then see what you’re defending! She has solid proof too! Liams death is tragic but it doesn’t erase the fact that he abused her and she has every right to tell her side of the story! These aren’t his mistakes! It’s abuse!! He has also been accused of grooming fans!
@user-yj4se9ht5e she is a daughter of a billionaire with access to the best legal representation in the world . Why didn't she call the cops? No instead she cries about it in a book years later. Give me a break
If she kills herself now because of the hate she's getting from clowns like you, are you gonna say you're also an example of "everything that's wrong with the young people of today"? We have been working for years trying to create a safe environment for people to denounce their abusers, especially if they're going up against someone powerful or famous, and people like you are doing everything they can to set us back once again. EVERYONE is gonna die, should no victims be allowed to speak up on the odd chance that their abuser is depressed or dies unexpectedly?
Thank you for saying out loud what was going through any logical person's mind. I'm not a 1d fan, never followed Liam's career, only saw glimpses of him here and there. But this broke my heart how tremendously unkind the world can be to young men going through addiction and mental health crisis. And he definitely was immature, dating all these vain vapid women trying to exploit his name. Tragic. I hope he is finally at peace now.
Finally somebody who’s talking about this crazy society ! Thanks for this video man ! I hope a lot of people will see it and also open their f****** eyes about people nowadays.. 🙏🏻
Yeah didn't take note of him or his fame,he comes from around the same region in UK as me, didn't know how his ex was treating him and his struggles.Saw his last video talking about his love of his dog and the nick names, saying to his girlfriend we have to get back to our dog,she replied horribly"no your dog! ,He looked so tired,needed a soul mate to understand him,yet he dated the wrong types that hurt him
I saw a video with him at a table looking at his present girlfriend with such a sad lonely expression in his eyes . She posted a message saying she couldn’t visit to get back as she had stayed way too long n o thought to myself doesn’t sound like she was in love with him cause wouldn’t you say I’m looking forward to going home but I’m gonna miss my boyfriend or that I hate that I have to leave . But that post struck me as odd maybe they weren’t getting along or she wanted to break up with him sadly will never know She has since posted that she loved him and always will 👀👀
@@Joyful756 do you think we come to the world to play around, drink and eat sleep as we wish and then we die and “sleep”. Your Lord sees everything and you shall return to him and be accounted for everything you did. There is no sleeping in the grave. The prophet Muhammad saws said he was shown the sight of the grave of someone who has died and said he’s never seen torment of that of the grave.
Finally someone that states that she is part of the problem. All I’ve seen is people defending her. Yes she doesn’t control his actions, but she has a part to play in them. It’s just awful.
People won't learn. All the fake arse holes crawling out of the woodwork now. The fake news, from fake people makes me sick. My heart breaks for this poor man and those who truly loved him. Yours is the only honest content I've seen on this sad situation.
My gosh, I just found your channel and you mirror my thoughts and feelings. Guess only people who have been struggling with mental health can truly empathize with others who might have gone through similiar experiences... I feel...so...so... sorry for how Liam had to leave this world... it's a terrible way to go.. with so much self-hatred, hopelessness and despair....no one deserves this.... and Liam, out of all people, would probably not wish this on anyone. I watched his latest commentary video on his channel and he voiced everything out so clearly.. he knows he's not himself but he's trying to become a better person .. and he indirectly begged for people to be kind... cause no one is ever 'thick-skinned', every single hateful comment GETS to you. We are all only flawed humans and so fragile with everyone just trying to do their best every day. And when you're already struggling with self-confidence and self-worth.. words can truly kill you. Don't know whether you saw this but about a week earlier, apparently a 45-minute video about Liam Payne with a disgusting title was also trending and reached a million views... and the content of the video was so clear: ridicule. 45 minutes of blatant mocking of his persona and appearance with selective clips, framing an already broken person with VOCAL mental health issues and suicidal thoughts as a loser and a failure, things he had already internalized himself. Videos like this, probably accompanied by increased harassment, also majorly played a part in the decline of his mental health IMO. The mob is ruthless. It also sickened me to my stomach, having to read so many nasty comments seconds after his death while his body was probably still laying warm on the pavement. I nearly vomitted from their lack of respect for death, the scariest thing each one of us has to go through one day and you are LUCKY if you get to fall asleep peacefully at an old age. You seem to be such a great guy who cares about folks... it would be lovely if you could make a video addressing toxic cancel-culture and cyber-bullying every now and then...because I think it's so important...T___T...social media is such a plague....I will also try to do my part and call out any blatant hate I see directed towards someone which is not constructive criticism. I'm sad I couldn't do anything for Liam, be the nice comment among the million hateful ones... I'm no one direction fan and unfortunately never looked them up... And again, no one here is saying that Liam didn't do any mistakes or that you shouldn't take Maya's claims seriously, but for truly vile accusations 'innocent until proven guilty' should always apply and it's not for the public to be discussing this, who have no evidence, but for the authorities and the court to determine whether there's any substance to it and obviously, Liam should have and would have gotten fair punishment then, no question. But sadly the man is not able to defend himself against these accusations anymore and this story will forever remain one-sided and people will have to make up their own beliefs now. One thing is certain, nothing is ever pure black and white, good and evil, he was a broken but kind man, who asked for help and yearned to get better but people didn't care enough while he was alive. We all have to do better.
If he had asked 4 help he didn't though, he said in Steve Barrett interview he is still not happy how much he has or wat fame he had. He said he doesn't think he has hit rock bottom enough yet, so in other rock bottom to kill him self, I agree with some of this but he didn't want the help, even if there was someone there in the hotel to stop him and help him, he would of found to do it another time, he also said his band mates reach out to him every now and again. I read when he was acting erratic in the hotel, someone there went into the room with him to try and help him and they said he opened up an email and what ever was in that email he read, that's when he lost it more and busted his laptop up, I know also his record artist dropped him, think 2 or 3 days b4 his death so I think it was just a mixture of different things that drove his head worse and with drugs and drink mixed in the mist of it all, didnt do liam any justice.
@@Drinze b.s women always getting the benefit of a doubt. if he done that to her he would be dragged and pusshed to the edge. she is literally getting compassion. she tortured the guy
One Direction was a bit after my time. However, a couple of days before Liam's death I saw - in real time - how the Internet collectively CAME for him. It was like tidal wave. A public crucifixion. It bothered me so bloody much. Thank you for giving a more balanced and empathetic take.
I had never seen him on X ever but like you , in the week before his death it was get Liam week. It caught my eye for some reason as well. Strange that was.
@@rascal9628 being scorched by all on social media can have devastating effects on people who's public image means everything to them. I feel like in a way, this "Let's hate Liam" wavelength proved to be the first "cancellation" that lead to the death of a supercelebrity. It's almost like unlocking a new level of wickedness. Look how they got him. And who's next? I'm just saying what I saw was weird man.
it's crazy how people these days can be so gullible and just believe everything they read. Maya Henry has never shown any evidence to back up her claim. she wrote a book so she can make money off of his fame instead of just writing a blog or speak in public normally or going to the authorities in the first place. Flexing that she already has money so she doesn't care about making more is also weird. She fictionalised the book so that she can make up stuff and not be held accountable. She took his plea of suicide as a joke(and we know what happened) even after his friends whom she knows well were asking her to postpone the release as he was not doing well. All she talks about is how horrible he is and she's always the victim. On tiktok and podcast etc...Constantly non-stop! Even dismissing his plea of taking his own life as manipulation. He obviously called her to ask her to stop talking about him non-stop and making money off of him in public, to stop trashing him and dishing out private informations he shared with her... yet she makes it sound like he is harassing her or wanting to get back with her when he obviously was already in a new relationship. She has less evidence than Amber Heard(not saying Depp was a saint either). Seems like a very toxic person. So yeah, maybe Liam Payne did some of the things she said and maybe he was horrible(allegedly) but she's no saint. And you know what, Liam Payne donated to lots of charities, like Trussel who ended feeding starving kids 360,000 meals and at least that fact is proven unlike the allegations against him.
Something my Mum and Dad wisely taught me when I was a teen. Never make a permanent solution for a temporary problem. I am just so angry that this young man couldn't get the help he desperately needed, when his solution just needed time and space to sort out. This happens far too often and hurts the loved ones left behind to process.
THANK YOU!!! I am so tired people saying she isn't to blame for his mental state, first, yes she was, she knew and kept egging it on, and you will never convince me she did to help people! He may be responsible for his own actions, but she didn't help by continued jabs. Thank you for saying this!
@@user-xq1eo6wi9r She egged on fans by hearting and replying to their Tiktok comments, etc. We simply don't know if he kept trying to contact her, or if so, what the substance of that was - there's no actual evidence as yet.
I was in a toxic relationship for a few years and dealt with similar experiences with my ex, but I never once went for vengeance because I had learned and accounted for my role in the relationship cycle. You hit that point spot on about her podcast, you can just see in her tone and body language that she has barely any empathy outside of herself. My ex did some terrible things, but I did the work to actually heal and I had learned not only to forgive the other person but myself as well. It's truly sad because I feel like men are believed less and dehumanized more in today's society. I don't know she just rubs me the wrong way and reminds me a lot of Amber Heard.
I was in a very toxic damaging relationship and I would never even THINK about blasting all of his dirty laundry to the world because I knew he was already in such a dark place, and I knew I had a hand in the toxicity as well. Just blows my mind what this girl did.
I have experienced that if you tell people that you feel alone and sad , all of a sudden they run away from you , cause you are this negative, depressed person ...... instead of trying to help. 😢 I have also felt like just ending everything.....cause people turn their backs on you when you give out negative energy .....so sad!!! Then afterwards they will always say..... " If only I did more for that person" but then usually it is too late. Unfortunately it is what it is !!!
Monetizing someones mental distress, someone who came to you in desperation, is the utmost cruelty and one of most despicable actions a human could commit against another human.
there's Three sides to every story, her story, his story, and the truth. we already heard her side of the story, unfortunately we never got to hear his side, and hopefully the true story will unravel.
I dont know much about her, but saw her social media and its very vacuous, narcissistic, probably quite dismissive of his feelings, and if he was already having a bad time / using drugs, anything could have triggered his response.
Remember, she was warned by a friend "not to publish the book because Liam was unwell, and if something happens, she will not only blame herself but the whole world will blame her."
A law should be established requiring that anyone labeling someone as "abusive" or "predatory" must have a police report to support the accusation. Too often, individuals are being accused without receiving the presumption of innocence. If there is a police report confirming the claim, it can be shared on social media. However, if no such report exists and the accusation is still posted on social media, it should be considered a criminal offense.
Nah that'd too far, Joseph Fritzels daughter didn't have a police report, it still happened and not believing her would massively negatively affect her mental health. Plenty of actual victims are far too legitimately scared to do to the police, some heal broken boned at home. However the media and the public shouldn't just believe anyone making claims of abuse, especially from women. And they should be more open to considering abusive women and male victims, as well as mutually abusive relationships.
@@NotAnotherKuromi If you’re brave enough to go spout off on social media and even write a book and do podcasts, you can go to the police. And btw Joseph Fritzl is currently in prison so yes there is a police report! I don’t even know what you were trying to say there.
Accusations and claims like that has nothing to do on social media to begin with, but since that's how it's become I don't think having a law requiring a police report is the answer. I think we need much stricter laws against false claims. I really think the punishment should match their accusation. For instance, a false claim of abuse should lead to the same sentence as the falsely accused would've gotten.
Seriously why couldn’t this all be done behind closed doors. What was the need for her to make it all so public and write a tell all book about it especially when he was clearly suicidal.
@@klickingkayasmr7585she was ciberbullyied for dating younger boys and she killed herself at the end. So sad! Harshly criticized for all her relationships because she was on TV and they were popular, like Harry Styles
The last message I sent him (i dont personally know him just a fan yes I message my fav artists knowing they prob won’t see it) I sent him “I love you hope your doing alright” when he was getting hate which was sent 5 days before he passed bc even if there was a really small chance he would see it I hoped if he did it would help him realise that people do still care about him. He saved my life I feel bad I couldn’t save his.
Mr.Payne lost a contract because of Maya Henry badmouthing him.she destroyed his reputation just like what Amber Heard did to Johnny Depp.if i'm Mr.Liam Payne's sister,it'll be my mission in life to clear the name and reputation of my brother so he can totally rest in peace
and here you are badmouthing her....we don´t know anything from behind closed doors, stop blaming people for an action of an adult person.He was not doing ok in the last months with or without her book (look at the video of him and Harry on Nial´s gig and compare it ).It´s a tragedy that happened he was not taking care of his mental health as he should :( ...They doesn´t need to clear his name and reputiation they know what kind of a person he was. And this should be enough for you too...In this tragedy please stop spreading hate towards and ex girlfriend. We don´t know the truth and they don´t owe us any explanation.
Really appreciate this video. Been in this position myself. I hadn’t realised the extent of his troubles and your video has hit me on so many levels. Absolutely gutted for the fella & can empathise completely. You’re a legend anyway but this video has went above and beyond. A lot of other videos will just stop at Liams behaviour but you’ve gave a different perspective on it for people to think about. It’s great to know we have people like yourself who will say it for what it is. Fellow Geordie, loving your work. Keep it up.
Or narcissistic, immature and totally ill-equipped to deal with a difficult relationship and personal responsibility. Her father is a grim sort of character and I don't think her upbringing would result in a well-adjusted person.
Awful awful woman. He's screaming please don't do this and she like fk you, I'm doing it anyway. It's about money and getting your own back. Awful girl, not woman. Cause a woman would have grown out of this behaviour. Yiu did this so I'm doing this. 😡
100 percent she’s too self absorbed and wrapped up in her being a victim. Her making out she cared about Liam is laughable. The guy was on his knees telling her he was going to commit suicide. She continued to go public trying to monetise the whole situation. It’s sickening
@@El-ri5cr do you know her personally? i mean it seems you take her word verbatim. she said he gaslighted her by using death. well she is wrong, cos he did jump
Whether it was s**cide or not, the drinking of alcohol and taking of drugs, prescription or not shows he wasn't in a good place and had relapse as he had been to rehab a number of times due to his addictions. As far as I know he was suppose to be cleaned. And then the irrational and erratic behaviour with the smashing up of his laptop as well as his room. Does that sound like a person with a clear and healthy mind and attitude. No ones asking you to feel any sympathy for his passing if you never or didn't like him but I'm perplex that you are trying to make out that he wasn't having major issues with his life when all the evidence points to it especially with how the hotel staff was saying how he was acting and the worry for him with the balcony which literally then happened.
I think you were spot on bro!! Its not just fame though, a lot of people with severe mental health struggles put on a front and people are so shocked when these things happen. I know I'm going to get grief for this but I do think he jumped-my opinion, from just rage, pain, despair, and he made a split second decision. I don't think he would have done it if he was sober or if he wasn't alone. I know this cus I've done the same at times of complete despair. I'm so glad I wasn't successful. I felt like i really didn't want to be here but maybe deep down if I really was serious I would've been successful. I still suffer but I have kids and they need me. I'm better than I was but I'll always struggle to some degree. I wish he'd have reached out, it really can get better!!
Totally agree with you hun, she was a nobody before she was in a relationship with poor Liam. This pathetic narcissist of a little girl will get her karma. Horrible, horrible person.
Having an ex come after you like that, is like constantly having someone shut down everything you do in life as a job. At one point it becomes unliveable to deal with.
I have a feeling his current gf will in years to come, talk about their experience. For some reason she left two days before and her video doesn't really explain why she left him other than she missed traveling and got sick of South America. I reckon they had a fight
@@anthonypaull2228good point but at the same time, it's not one of the 10 commandments. Like we have broken them laws. Who's to say what God forgives, who knows
Had a few people misunderstanding in the comments here so just to be clear - I do news videos and this obviously big news and suicide / mental health is something I’ve been impacted by so I’m very passionate about it, which made me want to speak out immediately and if you actually watch the video I have extreme compassion for Liam and anyone else who battles this as I have myself. Very gutted to think anyone would perceive any differently but this is the truth. If you think I did a video too quickly for money - I couldn’t give a shit what money this gets I just felt connected to what he went through 💙
Love you TG, think it’s just the thumbnail mate it doesn’t come across great. The video was great though
Cheers Bryan for providing some context 👍
Cheers mate everyone needs to stop assuming you only care about cash.
U conducted uresel fine
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This is what I have been SCREAMING since this has all happened!! Everyone keeps calling him an abuser and having zero empathy or sympathy for his death! Thank you for making this video! He was a HUMAN BEING who needed help and it looks to me he was the one being used and abused.
Right
its cos he's a guy, was a different story with Caroline flack, thought ppl had learned but clearly not
He batters women and threatens to top himself if they leave him.
This was a him problem
Everyone at some time does drugs and then you grow up
You're very right
It’s been several days now and I have avoided commenting. A young man died in mental turmoil and a 7yr old child has had to be told he won’t ever be able to spend any more time with his daddy. THIS is the tragedy - everything else is white noise.
I commend this podcast for being the only one that is publicising a confidential helpline, available 24hrs. So THANK YOU.
His girlfriend is just a girl that probably want a new life and didn't csre
Thank u for speaking up for this man and I don't think it's one or thee other they both probably and some woman can play mind games with a man
Thank you for this. He’s been struggling for years and needing help. He never should have been left alone in his state.
Sad to read hes been struggling for years, but he had more money then any of us, and could of helped himself by seeing a therapist to work through his issues.
@@danielle5980he was. He was supposed to go back to rehab once he returned to the US. He was supposed to fly back on Friday.
I read someone reported she was supposedly staying at the same hotel, a floor above Liam - is this true? If so why on Earth was she there?
Too many making money off of him. His "team" and the ex, and she will still make money off of the book. It's sick.
Gail are you under 35?
Never seen your videos before, but you said exactly what I’ve been thinking, I’ve been so upset about this. The poor man was bullied, I’m gutted for him. This was a thoughtful video. I keep thinking if only they’d kept him downstairs or someone had blocked the door. Please make another video about this. It’s so shockingly sad what happened to him.
You are NOT thinking CLEARLY. It's the Same thing that happened to Cassie, everyone went Against her and did Not Believe her Simply because She is a Woman; then P. Diddy's Crimes EXPLODED and now people Are "SHOCKED" LOL, the Woman was telling the WORLD the MONSTER HE WAS, but the World did to Cassie the same thing they ALWAYS Do to Women when They Speak the TRUTH!!
You feel nothing for tge women HE BULLIED tho?
Why do men love men who abuse women?
Tf is wrong with you all?
He was told to stay in the room. Go and watch the channeling of him by kandis starr
Maya Henry is a spoiled, entitled, narcissistic little rich girl. Narcissists ALWAYS THINK THEY ARE SUPERIOR TO OTHERS AND MUST BE WORSHIPPED. THEY ALWAYS DRAMATICALLY PLAY THE VICTIM. They ALWAYS GASLIGHT THE OTHER PERSON. IF THE PERSON EVEN BLINKS AT THEM "THE WRONG WAY" THEY MAKE A FEDERAL CASE OUT OF IT AND SEEK REVENGE . THEY SPREAD LIES TO AS MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE. THEY ARE PATHOLOGICAL LIARS. THEY OFTEN PUT THE "OFFENDER'S" LIFE IN DANGER AND SOMETIMES KILL THE PERSON . ALL TRUE. LOOK IT UP. There's your poor little victim Maya. 😈
@@GlobalAINewsInsights878not true, only those red pill guys discredited Cassie. Even without her I could tell you diddy was dark. A lot of people believed her immediately because we all were witness of the diddlers sleazy character over the years. Liam was relentlessly bullied just for dancing or saying things that were misunderstood. Calling him irrelevant and cringe. Liam was used and abused. Cassie’s story was consistent and she provided proof and there were more witnesses to support her story. With maya all there is is her ever changing story, her tiktok rants and a grown woman who voluntarily send her pictures knowing he had a kid and who now has deleted her confession. Was asking for the pictures wrong yes, bad judgement on his part but let’s not act as if sending those type of pictures is uncommon for this generation, some enjoy it (for some strange reason)and then later regret it because of xyz reasons. I am all for justice but it has to be for everyone, men included. The truth has no gender.
Truly respect what you are doing on TH-cam mate. This hits home.
I needed this video. So respectful, levelheaded and touching. As a long time One Direction fan, Liam’s sad passing has really hit me hard. You nailed this video.
Completely agree. First time watching this bloke but I’m already a fan of him
This guy is anything but levelheaded, this video is horrific. He's just another clout chaser hoping to gain clicks off spouting misogynistic bullshit to gain clicks off Liam's death.
@@MissMusicForYouoh shut up
@@MissMusicForYou I don't see this video as misogynistic at all. Can we please remember that women sometimes do awful things as well as men? Drake's hot sauce incident and Jim Carrey's ex are just two that come to mind.
she’s his poison !!! 🥵
THANK YOU for speaking up about Maya's toxicity!!
Are
Hope she doesnt get his money
@EstherJackson-l4l Are?
Hope no-one buys the book
And his fans ain't gonna believe her
I only heard of her and Kate though liam so now theyvwill do anything to stay relevant. They are just nobody's
I am so glad I found this video. It’s truthful, informative, sensitive and respectful. I had no idea Liam was going through so much.
It shows that a child star doesn’t grow up “naturally learning” coping strategies. And it shows that people can only take so much. Regardless of wealth and fame, a mind that’s battling with itself, can be pushed over the edge by constant judgment and negative things occurring.
He could have felt like he was in very choppy waters and drowning in his own success and he didn’t know how to get back to the calm waters of happiness, financial freedom and love from so many people he didn’t know - back to the calm waters he was once peacefully floating in when his fame was up and coming and even peaking. And he had the world at his feet.
An very ordinary person can battle with their own mind, an ordinary life can busy peoples minds up so much that they cannot cope. Add millions of eyes on him and everyone having “their say” and he probably felt he was in a burning metal box that was continuously getting hotter and hotter and he didn’t know how to get out of it. And no matter where he travelled in the world, his world wide fame made certain that his problems would follow him. I imagine it all just becomes noise in the end, a messed up mind full of noise, noise that you dull with drugs, then once drugs stop dulling the noise, anger comes into play and you could do “anything” to stop the noise for good.
Rest in Peace Liam Payne
I am sorry you couldn’t cope with, or break free from the path you were on, I am sorry your mind was a mess and you were mentally hurting and weren’t equipped to know which way to turn. I hope you are in the most peaceful place now. You will be missed by so many.
Sometimes dreams can turn into nightmares.
His ex could have written a diary to heal.
She didn’t need to make money to heal.
LIAM was A true Narcissist and knew how to PLAY with his fan's Emotions!!!
@@GlobalAINewsInsights878Such bull. She was out to destroy him ever since he refused to marry her because she was pregnant. It's an age old trick of women getting pregnant on purpose to force the man to marry her. But it didn't work for her She says he forced her to have an at home abortion. Really? Like did he hold her down or something? 😅 That was her choice.
You did a wonderful, fair, empathic, intelligent job on this. He has been truly ‘seen.’ Thank you so much.
Such a change from all the horrible nasty stuff that is being spewed.
Jesus man you hit the nail on the head ,I wish he had someone like you to talk to I'm sure you could have put things into perspective for him , you sound like a great mate to have
Yes he has explained well ppl with mental probs the feel hunted from predators in the mind but u don't release a book her parents should bo x her ears
Agreed. Many of us think his relationships were stunts. We've seen Liam when he's in a good place with the people around him. His Parents, his sister's, Louis and the boys, his friendships with other musicians. He was manipulated by the industry for half his life, his whole adult life. A split second of devastating frustration and he's gone. I hope that girls father pulls her and her mother in to line after all he's a big time lawyer that's how she knows how to get away with her narcissistic behaviour. She will never take the blame. It's time the made music industry stunts illegal maybe we'd have less young lives destroyed
He was a NARCISSIST!! And this guy who made this Video would've probably made Good match with him, I have No doubt about that!
@@MartinaDowney-ql9rz She doesn't Need Your Permission to Release her Book; thanks GOODNESS for that!! She has her FREEDOM to PUBLISH THAT BOOK, and I hope She Makes $$$$$$ Billions $$$$$$$$ and Sells many Copies of it!
She won't be writing that book lol
Wow!!!!! The best, without doubt, commentary I’ve read & listened to in the last few days. Bravo ❤
I agree with what you said 100%. My daughter is a HUGE 1D fan and I took her twice to see them. She was 14yo and adored them.
She is now 24yo & Last night I got a call with her sobbing & very drunk. I was not taking ANY chances, so I jumped in my car & drove there.
It was a build up of things, alcohol, Liam’s death and a guy she is seeing, but all those things together had got too much for her.
She normally goes to bed at 9:30pm but I ended up sitting with her, till 11:30pm, watching 1D videos, remembering the fun innocent days of when she was such a HUGE fan & how great the concerts were. She got all the crying out of her system, talked about all the struggles she is having with this 2nd big relationship & was able to leave her smiling and laughing!
I have suffered severe depression and many suicide attempts, 2 of which were successful but was revived by medics, so I never ignore anyone who is reaching out for help, I instantly make myself available & take their suicidal thoughts VERY seriously! In that 1 moment it takes to carry out your thoughts, I know from personal experience, if you are able to reach out to the right person, someone to listen, understand its enough to stop you from following it through.
😢 R.I.P beautiful Liam 💔😢SO SO heartbreaking! 💔
A beautiful heartfelt story. Thank you for sharing! ❤
Mental health isn't taboo like they make it out to be. Always be there for your loved ones
From one mum to another, kudos to you for recognising that she needed you 💗 so glad you were able to get her through that 💗
24 and 2nd big relationship putting her in such a state? Hope you managed to get her to break up with this man, focus on herself and realise men are not everything especially at 24.
❤❤❤
Imagine a man at a low point suffering from depression and drug addition with a toxic narcissist on your shoulder making you feel more miserable all while trying to destroy you from the inside out. Getting dropped from your record label and people who don't even know you hate on you for no reason. The bitter sweat feeling of being famous the double edged dagger.
Honestly, watching more and more... she's manipulating and tried to silence him.
“Would you want someone to release a book about them?” Nailed it right there 👍
She was warned this book could have negative consequences but she choose to ignore that advice. In my experience those who keep talking about their ex relationships are the ones with the problem, a narcissist will do this.
Tipped him over the edge cow that mia
...and so will victims whi are still trying to process with the trauma and shock of what they've experienced.
Oh booohoo. As a grown adult you have to handle the consequences of your actions. If you don't want your mess to be aired, maybe don't be messy?
@@TheMrsShephard life for people is not easy that’s why a life can become messy, I will not say anyone ever, has not experienced some kind of trauma in their life lives whether small or large.
@@pppp67567 that’s not how victims act nice try
The interesting thing about this is also a fact that her dad is a wealthy lawyer, so even with all the negative aspects about her that we see there's probably more too her behind close doors.
I'm saying this as a lawyer's daughter myself, one thing we know is how to be calculative. So, she's probably way worse than you can ever imagine.
He probably fell for the nice girl act, literally.
Brian,
Never really comment on anything, but can I just say aside from the subject of the video, you have absolutely no idea how much what you have said about the struggles of drug abuse, and relationships has just related to my current situation. Your words have genuinely helped me. This isn’t your typical cry for a reply. I don’t even care if you acknowledge this. Just wanted to say please never stop being the creator you are because on god you can change a persons entire mindset.
Love you bro
That was a really nice comment.
I hope things get SO much better for you, man 💯
@@she_sings_delightful_thingsso do I mate ❤
You doing OK bro?
As hard as it is ain't gona fix until you drive the bus. Hard as fuck though been there dome that
You seem like you're ready to change a few things so I wish you nothing but the best. Head down tell nobody and work on yourself on the good days but especially the bad days 👊
Keep moving forward ❤
Thanks to you all ❤️ I’m doing okay, taking each day as it comes and celebrating sobriety at the end of each. Hopeful of rekindling old flames whenever she can see I’m changing myself for the better.
Nice to see there are good souls out there, stay strong fellas ❤️
Your video was so tasteful and I can clearly tell that you care about mental health. As a mental health counselor is so beautiful to see you care. Even if you go to therapy, my hope that her therapist would help her to see the part that she played in the situation.
You are so right! My feelings exactly. That ex-girlfriend typifies today's young generation ... milk a situation for all its worth and ride roughshod over anyone who stands in your way in order to do it. It's sickening to me that you would get a book deal by profiting off a private situation that could cause so much harm to another person, regardless of how right you think you are. No empathy, no love, no respect. This girl disgusts me no end! Karma will come back to bite her, make no mistake. Her career will flop and her personal life, too, because she drove a man to unalive himself. That's just my opinion of this whole sorry story.
Brian you are the first person I’ve seen that has even mentioned the 2 way street of the Liam/ Maya situation. You’ve given balance instead of the pile on I’ve seen from others. Great job.
Good on you for handling this news compassionately. No matter what was going on in his life, he was obviously suffering immensely. Bless his soul 💙🦋🕊️
She sounds worse than hezbolla
One of the best vids Geordie’s ever made, always nice to see when he talks about mental health 💯
Cant agree more! What you've said here is spot on. Honestly no hate on anyone, and not taking sides, but her act of shortsighted toxic vengeance has killed a talented young man who was loved by many across the world. It's inhuman, she knew all about his mental instability all along, yet decided to publicize the very thing that would kill him. Those are sensitive details, why would anyone wanna publicly talk about such confidential details?! Clearly she never loved him and dated him for her own selfish gain... Anyway he's gone now, but there's so much to learn from this incident.
Thank you my brother, for putting out a quality video and message regarding Liam. Nothing but respect for you.
You have put out a video that is well needed, with all the negative circulating around this young man's private (not so private) life.
You are a kind soul and need more humans on this planet like you.
Bless you and take care mate.
🙏👍✌️💙
This book is like beating someone who is already on the ground.
They could sort this in court, not in public.
Well, her dad owns a law firm so shouldn’t be hard
Agree well said.
Right 😢
Yeah but she wants MONEY, ATTENTION, FAME. Can't get that from a private court case silly .
@lindseyhaslam6286 I read that her dad has allegation also for some sexual things but I do not know if this is true. I know he is high profile attorney and like all rich people thinks he is a God and can everything.
He actually reached out to her... He at least talked to her person to person and did not put things in public. She is so bitter. You already knew he was suffering depression. You got no symphaty, a narcissistic and selfish.
what i really appreciate abou TG is his interpersonal intelligence, he really understands the human mind, how people feel in certain situations and how to put it in words and explain it to the audience.
Exactly and that's why I like TG. Well spoken, has his opinions and respects all of your thoughts too.. keep it up lad 💯
I agree
Zip it up when you're done bro
Yeah I can appreciate this comment...Good lad he is TG
I agree! He did a phenomenal job!
Honestly, this is why I like you man. You speak from the heart and the truth, same thing goes for you True.. internet may say you've said the wrong things but none of us are freaking perfect. We are all human, we hurt and we either take it in or unleash it. Unfortunately for Liam, he probably took it in for so long until enough was enough. God knows I feel like that nowadays.
You're serving a great purpose on the internet dude! in helping us understand and navigate difficult to understand/controversial topics.
i rarely find myself to disagree with you, i appreciate your videos. You bring value through your insights and you truly seem like a good guy and make the internet a better palce in my opinion 👍🏼
She will get her’s.. karma. She can’t be that great of a model if she had all this time to write a book to make money on a so call modeling career
She is a glam airhead
I agree 100%
This has to be the most respectful and in-depth commentary on the death Liam Payne. May his young soul rest in eternal comfort and peace. I hope his stone-cold ex get’s all the backlash she deserves and zero sales from her money grabbing book, and this is coming from someone who witnessed severe domestic violence throughout my entire childhood 🙏🏽
100% agree
👍🏻 agree
You cannot blame his ex girlfriend who he abused. Victims deserve justice and she always even after their Split tried to get him to rehab.
Two things can coexist; Liam
Did not deserve to die and deserved help. Maya has a right to speak her truth for victims.
100% agree
@ellelouise9625 ofc its her right, but then go to the police, don't write a book and earn a money from it
I bet you are right. He was contacting her to get her to stop ruining his career. He wasn;t a creepy stalker. This lady is the one who can't let him go. I hope she is satisfied with herself. She got her five minutes of fame. Our society needs to go by facts and evidence instead of always catering to the woman. Sometimes, women cry abuse, when nothing has happened.
Maybe you should just shut up. You don't know the facts and evidence either.
The only reason she wrote a book about him was for the money she's nothing more than a thot...
@@El-ri5cr Cease and desist is normally from a lawyer.Her dads a lawyer.Appears he moved on with his girlfriend of 2 years . Did Maya?
@@leeannehudson7314 as someone who’s had to obtain a cease and desist, no it’s not. It’s issued by lawyers for defamation, he was issued a cease and desist for harassment which would have had to be heavily evidenced to be obtained by police and handed over by her lawyers. If he had moved on maybe he shouldn’t have continued to create new phone numbers and accounts in order to contact her after being blocked.
@@leeannehudson7314as someone who’s had to obtain a cease and desist in the past, no. a defamation cease and desist is issued by lawyers, the cease and desist against Liam was for harassment which would have had to be obtained by police and heavily evidenced in order to obtain it, then passed over by her lawyers. If he had moved on he shouldn’t have created multiple fake phone numbers and accounts to continuously harass her.
Absolutely everything you say in this interview is bang on! I also hope all the people who bullied him are happy with themselves now x
I didn't like his previous ex girlfriend that wrote a book!!!! Now she must feel happy!!!!
Amber Heard 2.0
NOBODY Bullied him, but HE BULLIED MANY!! So Quick Victimizing him.
@@maricleo493 Why would she feel "Happy" according to You?? She ain't GUILTY of his Drug Problems, he was and all those who enabled him to become the MONSTER he became!! So, You too were part of HIS PROBLEMS, NOT his ex-girlfriend!
You are so right on every level about how vulnerable Liam was and how one individual, his ex, could think only if her own self aggrandisement
Thank God someone has the humanity and courage to call a spade a spade in a world where social media and the pursuit of fame and money has created people with no moral compass regarding their power to destroy a other person. Thank you.
Thank you True Geordie for your integrity and humanity.
💯😢
It’s been around 10 days and it still doesn’t feel real, many of my friends think it’s stupid that I’ve held on for this long. So thank you so much for this video, many people don’t realise his true story and just characterise him around those negatives which was really him struggling. The day one direction separated changed that man. I’m not in anyway justifying his actions, it’s just that he was under pressure to “fit it” since he was 14 and NEVER had a sustainable coping mechanism… this was the closure I needed, thank you man 🙏 rest easy liam 🕊️
You nailed this take
take? you don't know either. sad.
comment thread is butt hurt for literally no reason at all.
No he didn't, it's an incel-level rant 💩
Sounds like he has stuff to hide himself, so he's raging against abuse victims speaking out. The fact that guys like this have a platform/naive men who follow them and parrot their ideas is sad AF, genuinely contributing to the male mental health crisis
@@REAPERLIFE-ky6xsNeither do you, you complete moron
@@Jonontoastshe picked him up
Youre spot on. I didnt follow 1D but as a 63 year old woman who understands pain of this kind, just so shocked and affected by this. This should never have happened. Thank you for your passion and your genuine thoughts 🙏🏽 😢. X
Tragic 😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@rosequartz7841 👏..well said
This is a very honest and well done piece. Mental health is so important.
I reached out to an old work friend recently that I always found to be nice and above the fray at work unlike me. Turns out they are having mental health struggles and seeing someone about it. I was taken aback, I had absolutely no idea, they always seemed happy go lucky. Sometimes people hide their life struggles, just goes to show that you may never really know a person. In view of this sad Liam Payne situation I let them know if they need a friend for whatever reason I'm here for them and they shouldn't be afraid to reach out.
@@terrytepelena5128 Whatever you’re smoking is pretty lethal.
You absolutely delivered this the right way. I saw the podcast before you posted this and thought the exact same things, if it was that bad you go to court, I'm more frustrated at how dismissive she was, but the thing that would suck is a domino effect, it sucks, but I hope nobody piles the pressure on her, because living with this isn't going to be easy and I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy.
Living with What Exactly?? Living with EXPOSING an Abuser?? I say that's A Good thing!
@@GlobalAINewsInsights878 If she was abused you go to the police.. I have no space to sympathise with an abuser, but from what I can tell of him he's not a bad guy - we all have lie detectors built in and in my opinion he was a surprisingly honest guy. She never went to the police, and so he's innocent. If she proves he did abuse her in court, and then decides to write a book about it. Then that's fair, go for it. But you can't try and outsmart the legal system by writing a book that is slanderous in the category of "fiction" whilst also point blank stating who the book is about. It's a contradiction, and a miss-guided interpretation of how the legal system works.
It probably doesn't seem fair that you have to take someone to court and disrupt your own life even further because of what someone else did, but that's society, it's the best way to solve problems that's been refined over thousands of years, even in society's that treated women equally like Vikings. If you want to broadcast someone as evil, you need to prove it first.. I think we've all seen that there are evil men and evil women.. you can't simply just "trust" people are telling the truth when there's monetary gain from saying what they're saying.
@@jtr549 Let me See here - FAMOUS WHITE GUY - The police would've LAUGHED at her and treated her the SAME WAY you and the Guy who made this Video are treating her - - Like a Liar!! It would've been a LOST battle from the very beginning. Writing a Book is therapy for her and HOPEFULLY she will make tons of MONEY Selling it!!
@@jtr549 The Book is a better Option. The Police were going to treat her like a "Crazy fan" or the "Rejected Crazy Girlfriend" and everyone, including You, would've laughed at her!! The Book is a much better option.
@@jtr549 He did tell other Women that he knew his FANS would believe anything he said and that he knew he could Get away with "it". He was a full-blown Narcissist and Played with other Women.
This young lady never cared about this young man.
He was a ticket to fame and wealth. Sad that Liam never got the love and help he so desperately needed.
Thank you for handling this subject with such compassion. I've seen people making a mockery of Liam for years, unfortunately. He was subjected to enormous amount of scrutiny and hate, especially during his solo career. It seemed like no matter what he said or did - he always was heavily criticized over it. We're all just human beings at the end of the day. I can only imagine the terror he felt when his ex-fiance plunged her own knife into his back by writing a book. The fact that Liam's friend reached out to her and pleaded for her not to release it, because Liam wasn't doing well, and her just being straight up flippant about it and dismissing it? "I don't play with death", she says, then proceeds to release a book aimed at destroying a person's life at that person's LOWEST. If this is her definition of love, then I have no words.
This girl is wicked and heartless and she feels frustrated Liam didn’t marry her. Watch your back. Liam’s fan will come after ……..
Very well said!
I don't agree with all the mockery of Liam either, but how are you attacking Maya? She was literally abused by Liam.
@@yugeno I'm simply calling out her behaviour, as in my opinion it deserves to be criticized. She could have handled this situation with more dignity and consideration for both of them by filing a police report and moving it to a court setting. Writing a book was part of her healing process? Fair enough, why necessarily make it public though? It just comes off as insincere and vengeful and puts into doubt her true intentions. People should learn how to keep things private and that not everything needs public attention. Were you part of their relationship? Do you know what was happening behind closed doors? He might have abused her, but what if she was the one to abuse him? What if they both abused each other? What if there was no abuse at all? Treating evidenceless allegations as proven facts and passing immediate judgement is harmful. You can choose to not take sides and not speak about something instead of taking everything you read and hear at face value.
@@soustournesol Let's say she really was abused by Liam - you want her to have 'consideration' for her abuser? Seriously? Also, Maya did actually file a lawsuit against Liam. Furthermore, I literally know a person who published a book about her abuser. There's nothing wrong with it. People write about their life experiences all the time. And I know for a fact if you knew someone in real life who published a book about their abuser, you would have no problem with it, but because Maya published a book about her abuse from a famous pop star, you think it's wrong. Also, it's extremely hard to prove abuse, which is why I don't expect Maya to provide 'evidence'.
Touched on this so respectfully, so much better than any news channel
The mother of Liam’s child is classy, not a word from her to thrash him. She understood him and how vulnerable he was. Maya should have just kept quiet and handled whatever issues they had legally, not via media social
yes or a book
Cause probably its all a lie, if he was such a monster why is she the only one trashing out Liam ?
@@marianafrancisco7551 it was a fictional book. and she passed it off as 'real'. she never made any police complaints for getting chased by an AXE? i would. any normal person would.
So classy! Cheryl put her eyes on him when she was 24 and he was 14 years old. He broke that man! The boy didn’t stand a chance!
@@marianafrancisco7551Other exes were throwing shade on TikTok gassing Maya on, but now are saying they had a lovely relationship and kept in communication, after he is dead and no one can confirm. He knew how to choose them.
Really balanced and empathetic take on this tragic set of circumstances.
Maybe it's time to start seeing and hearing those who cry and ask us to save them. May Liam's death not be in vain!!!! There are so many people suffering, especially young people. A Liam's foundation could be established to fight addiction and depression.
i bet all the people who were bullying him on tiktok/reels will delete all their evidence. Spineless.
Bullying him for what?(genuinely no idea)
@@gillymac9363 just making reels of him doing anything, literally anything, and editing it to make him look bad. I dont like the guy but its that kinda thing that kills people and then they just hide away despite causing it
Wednesday morning I watched a saw a video of a guy commentating on all of “Liam Payne’s cringiest moments”. After I heard the news I went back to see if it was still there and the video was deleted. Big surprise
stephen tries...
They were also piling on cuz of his connection with diddy
Well said . She said she didn't want contact yet clearly didn't change her phone number . That alone says it all . Surly any legal case would be thrown out on that very obvious safeguard she didn't bother to do. She wanted the contact to do her book
Why should she have to change her phone number? Those people will always find a way to
@@tarawells1553 you totally missed the point. She shouldn't have to change her number but if phone number blocking wasn't working for her then it's simply the next method of defense. By choosing not to take such action she leaves herself open to criticism. There is blame on both sides here...
@@tarawells1553 no. if you are harrassed like she says he did, first instinct wud be to change my number. expecially wen its a five year relationship. you seem to not understand the depth of the situation. who hurts someone who is already going thru hell?
@@ThePedroDByou lot always make excuses and ask why the woman couldn’t have done more. It’s getting boring. Why the hell should her AND her mother have to change their numbers because of how he was harassing them? None of them should of had to do that anyways. She’d also then have to change her email. And her social media’s. Onwards onwards.. he was at fault here and should not be harassing someone who has made it clear they want nothing to do with them.
@@timelyferrymaybe you should just understand no means no. She didn’t want to communicate.. under no circumstances should someone be forced to hide or change personal details to avoid someone. Just because he was going through a hard time is not an excuse. If he truly did what she says, and chased her around with an axe and emotionally abused her.. she’s well within her right to leave and should not have to stick around because he’s “going through a bad time”
Making money from a relationship without any concern for how it will affect the person you once loved is evil.
She probably never loved him social climber I’ve never heard of this girl
She a schumbummmmmm
I don’t think you’d do this to someone you actually loved!! She’s just another TRASH gold digger!!
Agree
Are we going to blame Taylor Swift if someone from her songs kills themselves
Maya needs to be investigated. If she made lies online and he ended up taking his life there should be consequences on her end.
Yes, she could be culpable to a degree.
Love your honesty Geordie. This is the most brilliant commentary I've heard since Liam died. Thank you so much.
thank you for your words . I love you for this . Maya was poisson for him and Kate only loved herself and tiktok . He treated him like a puppy and Made Show off . She left him alone in the Hotel instedt to care for him and fly back together . She should know his inside and his feelings . He hates to be alone . He needed a true Person on his side .
OH, he is NOT being "brilliant" here and NO honesty here either, HE IS JUST PISSED OFF that is a WOMAN TALKING. It would be a MAN BOY like him and he would be OK with it!!
@@dagmarzoepke6960; It was the Other Way Around; the TRUE POISON was LIAM. STOP idolizing him; he was an ABUSER. Wake Up from your Celebrity Sleep.
31 is so young, man. So sad. May he rest in peace.
He didn’t deserve what he went through
@@Hsvjkk100%, the people with no sympathy are clear psychopaths
jimi hendrix, amy winhouse , kurt 27
but yes i miss all of them
I understand how people feel sad, sorry or wish they could have done something to help Liam, each time some one suicides we forget to celebrate a life once lived and be happy you made it this far, every day is a gift, try to live it the fullest you can and be kind to those who are in need, it does not cost you anything.
blablabla💩🤡
Imagine one of your exes telling the world every mistake you made from their point of view while claiming they're a victim of utter abuse. That's got to mess with your head.
Exactly this.I don't have mental health issues but when I was unmarried and if an ex did this to me I would have 100 % taken my own life.I feel so sorry for him
My ex husband isolated me n premptied his ghosting by slagging me off to all and sundry. Destroyed my son's life and mine. I no longer trust anyone to get close to me and I will accept loneliness over the risk of abuse from another person.
@@englishmadcow7461Oh, I agree with you on that! I have zero - and I mean absolutely zero - interest in having another relationship after the things my ex-husband did to me. It's a miracle I'm even here writing this after the level of abuse he perpetrated, all whilst I was already suicidal to begin with just from being around him. I'm sorry you have also gone through a terrible experience. I've been on my own now for over 7 years, so I really mean what I say about not risking another relationship, lol. 😀 Occasionally it can be lonely, as I'm sure you already know, but in those moments just think how much better a bit of loneliness is compared to how your ex treated you. That's my strategy anyway. Best wishes to you. ❤
He slammed an axe into the bed where she was laying! Read the book and then see what you’re defending! She has solid proof too! Liams death is tragic but it doesn’t erase the fact that he abused her and she has every right to tell her side of the story! These aren’t his mistakes! It’s abuse!!
He has also been accused of grooming fans!
@user-yj4se9ht5e she is a daughter of a billionaire with access to the best legal representation in the world . Why didn't she call the cops? No instead she cries about it in a book years later. Give me a break
She is everything that’s wrong with the young people of today. Destroying someone else’s success and trust for personal gain
100% bro
She's a spoilt brat,worse thing he ever did was get involved with her kind
He destroyed himself
@@tarawells1553 she has blood on her hands
If she kills herself now because of the hate she's getting from clowns like you, are you gonna say you're also an example of "everything that's wrong with the young people of today"? We have been working for years trying to create a safe environment for people to denounce their abusers, especially if they're going up against someone powerful or famous, and people like you are doing everything they can to set us back once again. EVERYONE is gonna die, should no victims be allowed to speak up on the odd chance that their abuser is depressed or dies unexpectedly?
Thank you for saying out loud what was going through any logical person's mind. I'm not a 1d fan, never followed Liam's career, only saw glimpses of him here and there. But this broke my heart how tremendously unkind the world can be to young men going through addiction and mental health crisis. And he definitely was immature, dating all these vain vapid women trying to exploit his name. Tragic. I hope he is finally at peace now.
Finally somebody who’s talking about this crazy society ! Thanks for this video man ! I hope a lot of people will see it and also open their f****** eyes about people nowadays.. 🙏🏻
I wasn't even a "fan" but he seemed like such a kind soul - it's heartbreaking. It's not fair for him to go this young.
Yeah didn't take note of him or his fame,he comes from around the same region in UK as me, didn't know how his ex was treating him and his struggles.Saw his last video talking about his love of his dog and the nick names, saying to his girlfriend we have to get back to our dog,she replied horribly"no your dog! ,He looked so tired,needed a soul mate to understand him,yet he dated the wrong types that hurt him
the best people gon the sickest stay, welcome in the fcked up inhuman world which worships money
I saw a video with him at a table looking at his present girlfriend with such a sad lonely expression in his eyes . She posted a message saying she couldn’t visit to get back as she had stayed way too long n o thought to myself doesn’t sound like she was in love with him cause wouldn’t you say I’m looking forward to going home but I’m gonna miss my boyfriend or that I hate that I have to leave . But that post struck me as odd maybe they weren’t getting along or she wanted to break up with him sadly will never know
She has since posted that she loved him and always will 👀👀
Same mate... Same ❤
Nailed it geordie couldn’t agree more man this society is messed up
Sleep tight Liam 🕊️
No one can hurt you now 💙 xx
There’s no sleeping now. What happens in the grave is severe.
@@JustMyOpinion05 such a pointless comment
@@Joyful756 do you think we come to the world to play around, drink and eat sleep as we wish and then we die and “sleep”. Your Lord sees everything and you shall return to him and be accounted for everything you did.
There is no sleeping in the grave. The prophet Muhammad saws said he was shown the sight of the grave of someone who has died and said he’s never seen torment of that of the grave.
@@JustMyOpinion05Not everyone believes in your imaginary friend.
@@sunshineravens so how do you think we got here? By chance 🤣
Finally someone that states that she is part of the problem. All I’ve seen is people defending her. Yes she doesn’t control his actions, but she has a part to play in them. It’s just awful.
If he was so bad why didn't she go after a week instead of hanging around long enough to write a book
People won't learn. All the fake arse holes crawling out of the woodwork now. The fake news, from fake people makes me sick. My heart breaks for this poor man and those who truly loved him. Yours is the only honest content I've seen on this sad situation.
DON'T buy Maya's book.
You shouldn't say that woman's name & even further tell people that support this stuff how it is
May as lovely lass
Trust me, i won't be buying this pathetic book being written out of pure spite because he left her
Just bought it. Thanks. It's fucking riveting 🙄
People will still buy it, even the ones who say they wont because their lives crave drama as their own lives are pitiful
My gosh, I just found your channel and you mirror my thoughts and feelings. Guess only people who have been struggling with mental health can truly empathize with others who might have gone through similiar experiences... I feel...so...so... sorry for how Liam had to leave this world... it's a terrible way to go.. with so much self-hatred, hopelessness and despair....no one deserves this.... and Liam, out of all people, would probably not wish this on anyone. I watched his latest commentary video on his channel and he voiced everything out so clearly.. he knows he's not himself but he's trying to become a better person .. and he indirectly begged for people to be kind... cause no one is ever 'thick-skinned', every single hateful comment GETS to you. We are all only flawed humans and so fragile with everyone just trying to do their best every day. And when you're already struggling with self-confidence and self-worth.. words can truly kill you.
Don't know whether you saw this but about a week earlier, apparently a 45-minute video about Liam Payne with a disgusting title was also trending and reached a million views... and the content of the video was so clear: ridicule. 45 minutes of blatant mocking of his persona and appearance with selective clips, framing an already broken person with VOCAL mental health issues and suicidal thoughts as a loser and a failure, things he had already internalized himself. Videos like this, probably accompanied by increased harassment, also majorly played a part in the decline of his mental health IMO. The mob is ruthless. It also sickened me to my stomach, having to read so many nasty comments seconds after his death while his body was probably still laying warm on the pavement. I nearly vomitted from their lack of respect for death, the scariest thing each one of us has to go through one day and you are LUCKY if you get to fall asleep peacefully at an old age. You seem to be such a great guy who cares about folks... it would be lovely if you could make a video addressing toxic cancel-culture and cyber-bullying every now and then...because I think it's so important...T___T...social media is such a plague....I will also try to do my part and call out any blatant hate I see directed towards someone which is not constructive criticism. I'm sad I couldn't do anything for Liam, be the nice comment among the million hateful ones... I'm no one direction fan and unfortunately never looked them up...
And again, no one here is saying that Liam didn't do any mistakes or that you shouldn't take Maya's claims seriously, but for truly vile accusations 'innocent until proven guilty' should always apply and it's not for the public to be discussing this, who have no evidence, but for the authorities and the court to determine whether there's any substance to it and obviously, Liam should have and would have gotten fair punishment then, no question. But sadly the man is not able to defend himself against these accusations anymore and this story will forever remain one-sided and people will have to make up their own beliefs now.
One thing is certain, nothing is ever pure black and white, good and evil, he was a broken but kind man, who asked for help and yearned to get better but people didn't care enough while he was alive. We all have to do better.
If he had asked 4 help he didn't though, he said in Steve Barrett interview he is still not happy how much he has or wat fame he had. He said he doesn't think he has hit rock bottom enough yet, so in other rock bottom to kill him self, I agree with some of this but he didn't want the help, even if there was someone there in the hotel to stop him and help him, he would of found to do it another time, he also said his band mates reach out to him every now and again. I read when he was acting erratic in the hotel, someone there went into the room with him to try and help him and they said he opened up an email and what ever was in that email he read, that's when he lost it more and busted his laptop up, I know also his record artist dropped him, think 2 or 3 days b4 his death so I think it was just a mixture of different things that drove his head worse and with drugs and drink mixed in the mist of it all, didnt do liam any justice.
Mam dziewczyna winna nie zasługiwała na taką osbe
Ona tylko lansowała się.u jego boku była dla niego niedobra falszywa
I love your emotional intelligence on this. And genuine caring attitude towards his situation. X
This Guy has the LEAST Emotional intelligence that I have Seen.
He's On The SIDE of A male ABUSER, that's NOT the meaning of "Emotional intelligence"
Excellent commentary done with compassion and respect.
I’m so glad you’re bringing light to this. This is actual mental health consideration and not just virtue signalling like most people. Thank you!
This is why I love true Geordie man just speak to his mind and doesn’t care about who gets offended
She honestly wasnt a good person. Look i’m not saying she’s at fault but people need to start having some empathy
@@Drinze b.s women always getting the benefit of a doubt. if he done that to her he would be dragged and pusshed to the edge. she is literally getting compassion. she tortured the guy
@@Drinzevery easy to say after seeing him commit.Cant really have an opinion without knowing what he did
@@EA-hz9mgexactly. Yet people diminished his character after hearing only one side of the story.
One Direction was a bit after my time. However, a couple of days before Liam's death I saw - in real time - how the Internet collectively CAME for him. It was like tidal wave. A public crucifixion. It bothered me so bloody much. Thank you for giving a more balanced and empathetic take.
I've seen so much on Twitter and it just makes me angry. Liam's death reminds me a lot of Chester Bennington. Was just so sudden
I've seen so much on Twitter and it just makes me angry. Liam's death reminds me a lot of Chester Bennington. Was just so sudden
I had never seen him on X ever but like you , in the week before his death it was get Liam week. It caught my eye for some reason as well. Strange that was.
@@rascal9628 being scorched by all on social media can have devastating effects on people who's public image means everything to them. I feel like in a way, this "Let's hate Liam" wavelength proved to be the first "cancellation" that lead to the death of a supercelebrity. It's almost like unlocking a new level of wickedness. Look how they got him. And who's next? I'm just saying what I saw was weird man.
it was a wizard hunt, honestly
it's crazy how people these days can be so gullible and just believe everything they read. Maya Henry has never shown any evidence to back up her claim. she wrote a book so she can make money off of his fame instead of just writing a blog or speak in public normally or going to the authorities in the first place. Flexing that she already has money so she doesn't care about making more is also weird. She fictionalised the book so that she can make up stuff and not be held accountable. She took his plea of suicide as a joke(and we know what happened) even after his friends whom she knows well were asking her to postpone the release as he was not doing well. All she talks about is how horrible he is and she's always the victim. On tiktok and podcast etc...Constantly non-stop! Even dismissing his plea of taking his own life as manipulation. He obviously called her to ask her to stop talking about him non-stop and making money off of him in public, to stop trashing him and dishing out private informations he shared with her... yet she makes it sound like he is harassing her or wanting to get back with her when he obviously was already in a new relationship. She has less evidence than Amber Heard(not saying Depp was a saint either). Seems like a very toxic person. So yeah, maybe Liam Payne did some of the things she said and maybe he was horrible(allegedly) but she's no saint. And you know what, Liam Payne donated to lots of charities, like Trussel who ended feeding starving kids 360,000 meals and at least that fact is proven unlike the allegations against him.
Something my Mum and Dad wisely taught me when I was a teen. Never make a permanent solution for a temporary problem. I am just so angry that this young man couldn't get the help he desperately needed, when his solution just needed time and space to sort out. This happens far too often and hurts the loved ones left behind to process.
That’s good that.. ima write that down!! Thanks your mama and dad!
he was addicted to cocaine. he was hallucinating while he jumped off. maybe he thought he cud fly
THANK YOU!!! I am so tired people saying she isn't to blame for his mental state, first, yes she was, she knew and kept egging it on, and you will never convince me she did to help people! He may be responsible for his own actions, but she didn't help by continued jabs. Thank you for saying this!
How did she egg it on?
Egging it on is leading him on if she's not interested in him.
She ignored him & he stalked her
@@user-xq1eo6wi9r She egged on fans by hearting and replying to their Tiktok comments, etc. We simply don't know if he kept trying to contact her, or if so, what the substance of that was - there's no actual evidence as yet.
This video gripped me, you have got it spot on, Tragic and so sad 💔
I was in a toxic relationship for a few years and dealt with similar experiences with my ex, but I never once went for vengeance because I had learned and accounted for my role in the relationship cycle. You hit that point spot on about her podcast, you can just see in her tone and body language that she has barely any empathy outside of herself. My ex did some terrible things, but I did the work to actually heal and I had learned not only to forgive the other person but myself as well. It's truly sad because I feel like men are believed less and dehumanized more in today's society. I don't know she just rubs me the wrong way and reminds me a lot of Amber Heard.
Yeah same here
I was in a very toxic damaging relationship and I would never even THINK about blasting all of his dirty laundry to the world because I knew he was already in such a dark place, and I knew I had a hand in the toxicity as well. Just blows my mind what this girl did.
Yes she does give off the vibes of an Amber Heard, I hope she can live with the karma.
Yep! Another Amber Herd. Narcissism at its finest.
She definitely has a serious personality disorder and tortured him to death.
I have experienced that if you tell people that you feel alone and sad , all of a sudden they run away from you , cause you are this negative, depressed person ...... instead of trying to help. 😢 I have also felt like just ending everything.....cause people turn their backs on you when you give out negative energy .....so sad!!! Then afterwards they will always say..... " If only I did more for that person" but then usually it is too late. Unfortunately it is what it is !!!
When you laugh the world laughs with you, when you cry, you cry alone.
Monetizing someones mental distress, someone who came to you in desperation, is the utmost cruelty and one of most despicable actions a human could commit against another human.
there's Three sides to every story, her story, his story, and the truth. we already heard her side of the story, unfortunately we never got to hear his side, and hopefully the true story will unravel.
Man, thank you! You are so levelheaded and on point about the whole thing. A lot of true wisdom! Thank you for this video.
Very honest.
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I dont know much about her, but saw her social media and its very vacuous, narcissistic, probably quite dismissive of his feelings, and if he was already having a bad time / using drugs, anything could have triggered his response.
Remember, she was warned by a friend "not to publish the book because Liam was unwell, and if something happens, she will not only blame herself but the whole world will blame her."
This is one of the most powerful podcasts ive watched in a while, Brian. Im sure it struck a chord with many, me included.
A law should be established requiring that anyone labeling someone as "abusive" or "predatory" must have a police report to support the accusation. Too often, individuals are being accused without receiving the presumption of innocence. If there is a police report confirming the claim, it can be shared on social media. However, if no such report exists and the accusation is still posted on social media, it should be considered a criminal offense.
Nah that'd too far, Joseph Fritzels daughter didn't have a police report, it still happened and not believing her would massively negatively affect her mental health. Plenty of actual victims are far too legitimately scared to do to the police, some heal broken boned at home. However the media and the public shouldn't just believe anyone making claims of abuse, especially from women. And they should be more open to considering abusive women and male victims, as well as mutually abusive relationships.
@@NotAnotherKuromi If you’re brave enough to go spout off on social media and even write a book and do podcasts, you can go to the police. And btw Joseph Fritzl is currently in prison so yes there is a police report! I don’t even know what you were trying to say there.
Accusations and claims like that has nothing to do on social media to begin with, but since that's how it's become I don't think having a law requiring a police report is the answer. I think we need much stricter laws against false claims. I really think the punishment should match their accusation. For instance, a false claim of abuse should lead to the same sentence as the falsely accused would've gotten.
Or you kmow n it's all NONE OF OUR FUCKING BUSINESS and should be kept private.
Seriously why couldn’t this all be done behind closed doors. What was the need for her to make it all so public and write a tell all book about it especially when he was clearly suicidal.
It’s Caroline flack all over again when will this society learn
She was an abuser herself. It was proven.
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I’ll google it, but what happened with Caroline Flack?? (You can probably sum it up much better than I can research)
@@klickingkayasmr7585she was ciberbullyied for dating younger boys and she killed herself at the end. So sad! Harshly criticized for all her relationships because she was on TV and they were popular, like Harry Styles
@@edwinahartzer ohh 🫢🫢 I’m sorry to hear that. Thanks for the response!
Much respect by the way u brought the whole story. May he Rest In Peace! 🙏🏽
A brilliant response. Measured, mature and correct.
The last message I sent him (i dont personally know him just a fan yes I message my fav artists knowing they prob won’t see it) I sent him “I love you hope your doing alright” when he was getting hate which was sent 5 days before he passed bc even if there was a really small chance he would see it I hoped if he did it would help him realise that people do still care about him. He saved my life I feel bad I couldn’t save his.
Mr.Payne lost a contract because of Maya Henry badmouthing him.she destroyed his reputation just like what Amber Heard did to Johnny Depp.if i'm Mr.Liam Payne's sister,it'll be my mission in life to clear the name and reputation of my brother so he can totally rest in peace
and here you are badmouthing her....we don´t know anything from behind closed doors, stop blaming people for an action of an adult person.He was not doing ok in the last months with or without her book (look at the video of him and Harry on Nial´s gig and compare it ).It´s a tragedy that happened he was not taking care of his mental health as he should :( ...They doesn´t need to clear his name and reputiation they know what kind of a person he was. And this should be enough for you too...In this tragedy please stop spreading hate towards and ex girlfriend. We don´t know the truth and they don´t owe us any explanation.
Insensitive and insane
@@barborab9343can't you clearly see her narcissistic behavior... Even a child can notice... Please open ur eyes
@@barborab9343stop being toxic.
@@emmanuel7182 how am I being toxic here?
Really appreciate this video. Been in this position myself. I hadn’t realised the extent of his troubles and your video has hit me on so many levels.
Absolutely gutted for the fella & can empathise completely.
You’re a legend anyway but this video has went above and beyond. A lot of other videos will just stop at Liams behaviour but you’ve gave a different perspective on it for people to think about.
It’s great to know we have people like yourself who will say it for what it is.
Fellow Geordie, loving your work. Keep it up.
This girl is pure toxic evil .....
Or narcissistic, immature and totally ill-equipped to deal with a difficult relationship and personal responsibility. Her father is a grim sort of character and I don't think her upbringing would result in a well-adjusted person.
Thank you for this, my heart had been broken for him long before he passed. You did a wonderful job on this. ❤
I love how you show empathy and explain fame everyone young now wants fame and it's not all it's made out to be 😢
that girl is evil
Yep, to the core 😈 Very self centred and nasty also....
Yes very nasty person.
Awful awful woman. He's screaming please don't do this and she like fk you, I'm doing it anyway. It's about money and getting your own back. Awful girl, not woman. Cause a woman would have grown out of this behaviour. Yiu did this so I'm doing this. 😡
Goes to show you cant trust anyone if your famous
You are SO right, I totally agree with you. Thank you.
I think it pushed him over the edge.Addiction is a horrible disease. We will always love you Liam💔😪🪽💔
I think the ex-gf is too shallow to feel any permanent guilt or sorrow over Liam’s death.
100 percent she’s too self absorbed and wrapped up in her being a victim. Her making out she cared about Liam is laughable. The guy was on his knees telling her he was going to commit suicide. She continued to go public trying to monetise the whole situation. It’s sickening
@@El-ri5cr do you know her personally? i mean it seems you take her word verbatim. she said he gaslighted her by using death. well she is wrong, cos he did jump
Whether it was s**cide or not, the drinking of alcohol and taking of drugs, prescription or not shows he wasn't in a good place and had relapse as he had been to rehab a number of times due to his addictions. As far as I know he was suppose to be cleaned.
And then the irrational and erratic behaviour with the smashing up of his laptop as well as his room. Does that sound like a person with a clear and healthy mind and attitude.
No ones asking you to feel any sympathy for his passing if you never or didn't like him but I'm perplex that you are trying to make out that he wasn't having major issues with his life when all the evidence points to it especially with how the hotel staff was saying how he was acting and the worry for him with the balcony which literally then happened.
It’s amazing a guy of Liams status can still end up with a horrible woman like her
@@jaybee4288 Lol like Cheryl Cole groomed him when he was only 14? At least the guys ex was an adult. And a very slatternly adult Lmao
Don’t buy the book . His Ex comes across as cold as ice .
I think you were spot on bro!! Its not just fame though, a lot of people with severe mental health struggles put on a front and people are so shocked when these things happen. I know I'm going to get grief for this but I do think he jumped-my opinion, from just rage, pain, despair, and he made a split second decision. I don't think he would have done it if he was sober or if he wasn't alone. I know this cus I've done the same at times of complete despair. I'm so glad I wasn't successful. I felt like i really didn't want to be here but maybe deep down if I really was serious I would've been successful. I still suffer but I have kids and they need me. I'm better than I was but I'll always struggle to some degree. I wish he'd have reached out, it really can get better!!
Good for you stating the truth. Hope she gets what she deserves for bad mouthing so disgracefully, self centred 🤬
@@Cristobal_2012 what kind of question is that? You get what you deserve in life, simple. I look forward to seeing her reap what she has sown ….
Totally agree with you hun, she was a nobody before she was in a relationship with poor Liam. This pathetic narcissist of a little girl will get her karma. Horrible, horrible person.
Having an ex come after you like that, is like constantly having someone shut down everything you do in life as a job. At one point it becomes unliveable to deal with.
I have a feeling his current gf will in years to come, talk about their experience. For some reason she left two days before and her video doesn't really explain why she left him other than she missed traveling and got sick of South America. I reckon they had a fight
I get you're sympathising but don't speak for others and label a situation as unliveable. Normalising suicide is not right.
@@nathanhirmiz5792 I don’t think for one minute @Skyvigour was normalising suicide.
@nathanhirmiz5792
Has it actually been confirmed it was suicide?
@@sallyyeomans3456 nah but that comment implies it
JUST FUCKING SAD MAN,REST IN PEACE BROTHER
Self terminators don’t rest … they go to the other place. Rules are rules.
@@anthonypaull2228good point but at the same time, it's not one of the 10 commandments. Like we have broken them laws. Who's to say what God forgives, who knows
Thank you for handling this topic with such care! Best video about him on the internet so far❤
Great listening to True geordie, You say your no psychologist but your analysis of situations and people are bang on.