Episode 57 l Merry Christmas | 2024 Wrap up l Lessons learnt

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  • @CyaMatomela
    @CyaMatomela 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    A girl/woman facing the world with the confidence and security that "ndiyithandwa mna ekhaya" is a major thing. Big up Ta' Mzubela.

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🥲🥲🥲 this is beautiful 🤩 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @viwefutshie
    @viwefutshie 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Everytime kusithwa to those who’ve been there since day one, ingathi kuthethwa nam personally 😎

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Shout out to the Day 1s 😍😍😍 we love you loads V 💐

  • @ingodwetrust6900
    @ingodwetrust6900 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Guys you had me in tears the way you are complimenting each other, it’s so beautiful 😍 😢

  • @masixoleburu2799
    @masixoleburu2799 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    It's a wrap! Thank you guys for making us have something to look forward to every Friday. See you next year and take care.

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Couldn’t have done it without you 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 thank you for the love

    • @masixoleburu2799
      @masixoleburu2799 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @siblingthrivalry 🖤🖤🔥

  • @tandozzzl.o.v.e2113
    @tandozzzl.o.v.e2113 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Talitha I have learnt from you (from afar) to be confident and comfortable in your own skin. You are unapologetically you, and you know yourself. You don't seek validation.

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🥺🥺🥺 That’s so beautiful to hear - thank you for sharing this.

  • @MpumeleloMsomi
    @MpumeleloMsomi 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Yohh Talitha I love what you said about your brother setting the standard with the man you can date... I think good brothers are able to show you how good a man can get and that makes you as a girl to elevate your standard and not settle for less... I love you guys💓

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Much love 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @libhongomdimali4593
    @libhongomdimali4593 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Loooooooooove you both too much - would be blessed to have you as friends

  • @_naomikr
    @_naomikr 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thank you guys for this amazing podcast ❤🎉 What an incredible year of ST!

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 We are grateful for your support - thank you thank you

  • @ayandajudith3073
    @ayandajudith3073 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Started watching mid Nov 2024 and I've finally caught up with the episodes cause I cannot resist you guys🥺😂!
    Love love the growth which is sooo evident when watching back to back, i.e when uTa Mzubhela said he's realized that he can be impatient kwi siblingship but at the same time uyawazi amaqhosha kaDad'wabo naxa engaziva right, uyamcenga uMaDlamin'omhle ade anyibilike and that's so beautiful to watch. Also, seeing uTalita striving to articulate herself better than the last episodes, considering her artistic mind is top tier!
    Suzive unqwena to have a siblingship like this! Keep up the great work, stay authentic and intentional in everything you do❤

  • @bulelwamila1168
    @bulelwamila1168 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Love it here...I can relate to what Thalitha said Kula point yokuqala.
    I broke up with a boy in high school ngoba wandinyola and kept thinking bazothini obhuti bam xandinomntu onje..When you know you're are loved at home maarn it's the best feeling ever..❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely! Couldn’t agree more 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @ifubeats4063
    @ifubeats4063 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    03:41 Zuko's still salty that Tah didnt answer his texts 😂😂 its adorable. You guys are close trust me 🤞🏾

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Feel much much better - the efforts is definitely seen 🥲🥲🥲

  • @nosiphosikhakhane6082
    @nosiphosikhakhane6082 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I ABSOLUTELY !! 100% !! ADORE YOU GUYS😍❤.. I am so glad I found you when I did, shout out Tiktok. It's been such a wonderful ride and I cannot wait to see what 2025 has in store. Happy New Year 💥🍾, here's to more subscribers🥂 and I hope when you have a live show I can be there. #LoveEachOther

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      We appreciate you so much and love having you along for the ride! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @tshegofatsotsimane9997
    @tshegofatsotsimane9997 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This has definitely been my favourite episode ❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Love to hear it 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾💐

  • @vimbanincebakazi1440
    @vimbanincebakazi1440 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Oh sibamba ngazo zozibini bo Dlamini. Yhini ukusigcina,ukusonwabisa,ukusikhuthaza nokusihlekisa unyaka wonke. You made 2024 bearable yhini. UThixo anisikelele❤❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      🥺🥺🥺 ahh man- thank you for this message and thank you for being with us on this wild ride - we love and appreciate you🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @brendapeacock4197
    @brendapeacock4197 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I absolutely love you guys. I met you by chance a few weeks ago as a Xhosa girl raised in a colored community. I have learned so much. Subscribed and going back to watch all your episodes. Also introduced all my friends to the podcast ❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow that's amazing - love that you're connecting with the content! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 thank you for the love 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @prudancekgaladi9861
    @prudancekgaladi9861 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You guys are so beautiful. Your auras, smiles etc. So so beautiful🥺❤️

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for these words … we appreciate you 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @plee8686
    @plee8686 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for bringing us so much joy ❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for joining us on this journey - we appreciate you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @becomingmo_
    @becomingmo_ 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    thank YOU guys! literally have been the highlights of my weeks

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's so sweet! We're glad to be a part of your week 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @malakhiwegrootboom3706
    @malakhiwegrootboom3706 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Uuuhm ndiyakhala mos mna ngoku😭😭 You’ve come so far!❤️❤️ siyanibulela for bringing peace & wholesomeness to our Fridays😔🫂 MERRY HAPPY!!🎄🍾💃🏽💃🏽

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🥺 aaah man. Thank you so so much for making it year… for all the love and everything - we appreciate you 🫶🏾

  • @DoingBeingBecoming
    @DoingBeingBecoming 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Yoh, ndiyayazi ke la heartbreak of being told by your sibling that you aren't that close, that house wena bucing'ba nileqwa ngumgqomo😭🤣

    • @noxolondhlovu1115
      @noxolondhlovu1115 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      As for ‘heartbreak’ 😂😂😂😂

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Uyakwazi nokuleqwa ngumgqomo 🥲🥲🥲 broken hearts will be mended though 🫶🏾

  • @ziphotshapela5353
    @ziphotshapela5353 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Beautiful episode, thank you so much bethunani!

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We love you guys - thank you for joining us on this journey 🫶🏾

  • @thembakazisonwabe6769
    @thembakazisonwabe6769 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for carrying in 2024 🎉🎉 here's to a bigger and better 2025 ❤❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Let’s gooo! Thank you for the love 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @XoliPona
    @XoliPona 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you guys for making us laugh unyaka wonke 🤭🤣 kumnandi apha ♥️💃🏾

  • @viwefutshie
    @viwefutshie 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’m so gassed for this episode, I thought ni done for the year! I’m so excited!!! Enkosini 😘

  • @NoluthandoMadlala-hm6og
    @NoluthandoMadlala-hm6og 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks siblings for a great year❤ Happy New year everyone 🎉🎉🎉

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Right back at you! Happy New Year 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @vinolia_m6510
    @vinolia_m6510 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You guys are amazing! Thank you for sharing yourselves with us, thank you for giving us something different and awesome❤
    To a productive new year! 🎉❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for being here - love you guys! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 all the best to you 🫶🏾

  • @UnathiBianca-d1l
    @UnathiBianca-d1l 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you guys,i enjoyed all the episodes..hope the new year will be more🔥🔥love you guys❤❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And we sincerely hope the same for you - thank you for a phenomenal year. All love - all the time 🫶🏾

  • @philamtshizana2754
    @philamtshizana2754 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    To bigger and better things next year
    may more doors open for growth.. Ningene kakuhle kunyaka omtsha keep thriving ❤️❤️

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you Phila - right back at you - we appreciate you 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @makaziwemabona7658
    @makaziwemabona7658 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    We love you guys and we will be with you nakulonyaka umtsha uzayo and we'll bring the topics 🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @zimasambonelwa
    @zimasambonelwa 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    ahh man❤
    "I want to be wrong for as little as time as possible" I really hope to be this open to learning and open to having hard conversations, especially when I am wrong. Thanks a lot for conversations like this guys, I for one really have experienced growth from listening in and questioning myself from these chats.
    This episode felt a lot more personal, very similar to when you first started out on this platform. I hope that you both had Merry Christmas too.🫶🏽

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That means the world to us. 🫶🏾 thank you so much🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @sibongilezozo3112
    @sibongilezozo3112 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Enkosini guys for the laughs nemfundiso ❤we definitely had a great year nani
    Looking forward to the first episode of the new year

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for being with us on this journey - you truely have made it such a fulfilling one 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @amandancethezo8474
    @amandancethezo8474 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    First time here ❤❤❤I usually watch the short clips on Tiktok😅

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Welcome to the fam! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @usandandevu7653
    @usandandevu7653 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you so much guys, it's been great. To an even better 2025 🎉🥂

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right back at you! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 let’s gooo! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @oneilentlatleng5113
    @oneilentlatleng5113 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Going out with a bang, thank you ❤!

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Lots of love 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @msftmundi
    @msftmundi 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The Thriving Community ❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Let’s goooo 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @agoodday9247
    @agoodday9247 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Happy festive guys and nyakomtsha 🎉 Thank you for making this during ifestive season and all the best for the coming year. As for topics, inkulu nyani ke into yeproducing consitently, heres my 2 cents:
    ● January funds/Financial management post December
    ● Alcohol abuse in SA, particularly in Dezemba

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you thank you - into the books your suggestions will go. Thank you for a great year 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @all_things_busishozi1721
    @all_things_busishozi1721 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽😖😖😖even when I’m on vacation ke sana ❤it’s giving obsession ke bandla ❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Let’s get it!!! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 we appreciate you!

  • @faithfulcooks2965
    @faithfulcooks2965 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you guys for entertaining us throughout the year. ❤ Ndinithandaaaaa.

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      All love- thank you for joining us on this journey 🫶🏾

  • @kamvasitotomani593
    @kamvasitotomani593 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I saw uBrother at The Mall on Christmas Eve. Didn’t know you guys were from King

  • @tshoanelo_M
    @tshoanelo_M 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The fact that this is the last episode of the year makes me a bit sad but ke im looking forward to seeing all the great things that you guys will get up to next year & can’t wait for the channel to grow bigger and bigger!🥺💕ndinithanda dowwwn!❤

  • @paulinambutuma6600
    @paulinambutuma6600 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    More than anything, sibulela the consistency guys ❤❤❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Aaah man🥺 thank you for joining us 😂😂🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @0-Fs
    @0-Fs 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Argh beautiful episode🥺💜

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @sinelwa
    @sinelwa 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for entertaining us, guys. Looking forward to this years’ inserts. Great job, nibenonyaka oyokozela amathamsanqa odwa. ❤
    Topic idea, yintoni lento kulula kangaka for a couple to break up after pregnancy/children?

  • @sinegugu_zulu
    @sinegugu_zulu 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I had set an alarm for 12 so I can watch it as soon as ivela

  • @phethehomonaheng7587
    @phethehomonaheng7587 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤🎉

  • @vuyolwethuntabeni9262
    @vuyolwethuntabeni9262 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Only getting to watch this now because bendisezilalni 😂❤ Ohhh hayi mahn, I love you siblings!!🎉❤ It's always a pleasure to make time for this podcast.❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Happy you got to catch up on it - thanks for always checking in 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @nomvuzogantaa4565
    @nomvuzogantaa4565 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    How you describe "close" tells me uba there is noone I am close with. Worse ke its not that I dont wish to be close to anyone but sometimes you dont want to bother people, lol or to be bothered 😃

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      There are others that feel exactly like this … then there are people that are dying to be “bothered” because it does not feel like that to them… do think that it’s worth communicating what you want and avoiding misinterpretation 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @anxtra_mb4055
    @anxtra_mb4055 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Molweni. Have y’all ever done personality test? I think it would provide further insight.
    My definition of closeness is not about being able to talk to someone everyday, because ndiyafana no sis akekho umntu endithetha naye everyday and I’m pretty close to my brother and best friend. It’s just my personality cannot do everyday conversation. My definition then of closeness is being able to speak to someone about anything, the hard conversations, the easy ones, my joys and sadness. It’s knowing ba I have that safe place even if I don’t make use of it but that’s on me.

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      We’ve never done a personality test, something to be considered. Really like your definition of closeness! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 thank you 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

    • @anxtra_mb4055
      @anxtra_mb4055 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @ I’m putting my money on sis being an INFP or INFJ … can’t wait to watch an episode and see how right I am 🤭

    • @sivuyisiweolota5141
      @sivuyisiweolota5141 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@anxtra_mb4055 I’m with you and ta Mzubhela probably an ESTJ 🤔

    • @anxtra_mb4055
      @anxtra_mb4055 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ⁠@@sivuyisiweolota5141I see it it, although he swears he is introverted so probably IS__

  • @siwerea
    @siwerea 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    catching up, now that uphelile uDecember.

  • @musa.mgwenya_
    @musa.mgwenya_ 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I was waiting impatiently 😂❤

  • @enkosigxono6407
    @enkosigxono6407 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I think Ta Mzubhela wants you to be closer😅

  • @makaziwemabona7658
    @makaziwemabona7658 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hamba year end jive ka Thalitha 😂😂😂😂😂 I'm not sure if uzama ukikizela or whaaat

  • @amandancethezo8474
    @amandancethezo8474 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Car gaurd😂😂😂

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🙇🏽‍♂️🙇🏽‍♂️🙇🏽‍♂️

  • @MondekaziNtshele
    @MondekaziNtshele 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bendicinga nitya imigidi. Kanti niyasebenza😅🎉

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Akhonto ingenzekiyo - yimicimbi ngapha, nini ngapha 🫶🏾 we are honored to be able to do all

  • @vuyogqola
    @vuyogqola 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    😂😂I thought you guys were now on leave😂😂

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You rest you rust! 😂😂😂

  • @angelamotloung2895
    @angelamotloung2895 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤🎉

  • @preciousgama3149
    @preciousgama3149 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤🎉

  • @0-Fs
    @0-Fs 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    FIRST TO COMMMMEEEEEENTTTT😝🤟🏿

    • @0-Fs
      @0-Fs 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      And it's my burfday🤩

    • @talithatravels3832
      @talithatravels3832 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Happiest birthday daling❤🎉​@@0-Fs

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Happpyyy 💐🥳🥂wishing you everything of the best on your next trip around the sun 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @madimerge
    @madimerge 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1