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Jennifer, you are so right. It happened to me at Walmart. I was a cashier and a V.I.P. came through offering something better. I took that opportunity.
Another great video Jennifer: I can remember 30 or 35 year ago as a young man working on construction jobs along side with my father. He told me and my two younger brother this “ Son’s no matter what job you have Throughout your working career always be the best you can be at that job and someday you’ll be rewarded for your effort one day”. My father died 20 years ago and his words of wisdom ring true for me today. I went on to become a mechanical engineer in the aerospace industry and have a tremendous career.
That’s a great story, very happy for you!!
as and addendum to that if you do good work and take care of issues for the owner don't get any recognition after a good long while it's time to move on. essential crafts man channel did a good video on that. also don't break your back for 16 years at factory that will walk you out the doors with a smile on thier face either.
@@cdoublejj know your worth and explore your options, but never act in any job like it doesn’t matter. I agree.
@@BrianCave damn you summed up my ...book. in a sentence, talk about well spoken!!!!
The more you know the more you are worth
You are correct.
A man with no ambition will never be anything, but a man with a little ambition can be a super star with a good woman that supports and coaxes him to want to be his best.
And a man with a lot of ambition who fails the first few times (to be expected) risks losing a woman to a more successful guy. Women do not value ambition AT ALL. They wait at the finish line.
@@FFE-js2zp that’s not a good woman. There are a few good ones left to will take the journey with you.
@@kevinperry581
That’s a nice thought. Maybe unicorns exist. Somewhere. Possibly. If you spend your entire life looking for one. Or maybe they don’t.
@@FFE-js2zp maybe with that attitude, you’ll never find that right one. A lot do. It might have a lot to do with the women that you are picking. You can’t make poor choices and blame it on the women.
@@kevinperry581
I’ve been married 31 years. My experience is based on the shear number of “happily married” women hitting on me over the decades. All moderately successful men will tell you the same. If you think your wife is not perpetually attracted to more successful men than you, you’re in dream world. That goes for all levels of wealth, there is always someone wealthier and more attractive to a woman.
I try to act in a way that I am proud of regardless of how other people act.
Yup. When my husband and I were dating, I went in with the "what if he's the one" mentality and it allowed me to care more for how he was perceiving me. Which ultimately made me become more honest with him and myself. It wasn't a performance. It was genuine and from the heart, even though the worry of "if it doesn"t work out" was there, caring about what the relationship COULD be shed a positive light on the what ifs.
What if the guy turns out to be toxic? How can we stop ourselves from dismissing our intuition?
@@AR-kl7nv that is the point of dating. I didn't go in expecting it to work, but i didn't go in NOT caring for wjat might be
@@miffedcuttlefish6139 excellent attitude
This lady knows men better than men know men.
I agree wholeheartedly. I used to be that guy many, many years ago, since then I've packed on the muscles, started the business and things changed in ways I couldn't even imagine. 💪😎
I’m 71 years old, married for 47 years and I have come to the conclusion that your husband is a fortunate man. For one thing, you recognize that presenting a taut physique (and your tall stature) impresses men in general and you are wise and creative enough to apply it domestically. I’m sure that must be shallow, but hey, I’m just a guy.
I'm 4'8". My boyfriend is very lucky. As am I.
@@robynengel9536 right on, Robyn ! 😘💝👍
Your are spot on! I dated a woman for several years who was just content to "be" in her life, no aspirations, no goals, no drive ... broke up with her, started dating a woman with a career, a plan, a goal, and most of all a POSITIVE ATTITUDE about things... was married within a year.
Sage advice for anyone not applying their whole heart to their relationship.
You are 100% correct jennifer. Too many people dont give a shit anymore. Think positive and try to project positive and positive should come your way!
My wife and I met 38 years ago while we were both serving in the Marine Corps (We are both very proud of our service!). We were married two months later at 20 and 18 years old. We have a tremendous marriage and we both work hard at making each other happy. The harder each works at this, the more the other wants to work at this! It keeps getting better!
So, there are two (2) Stone Masons working side by side laying bricks. I go up to the first one and ask...what are you doing? He says i'm slapping bricks for $20 per hour. You go to the next one and ask...what are you doing? He says, i'm building a hospital that will provide hundreds of jobs, save thousands of life, heal sick people, reunite families and benifit the community and i'm grateful to be a part of it all! We all get to decide what our attitude will be each day. Theres a great message on this video and it is so simple! Much appreciated for the reminder~
Jennifer, you are so wonderfully animated! You remind me of many people I knew decades ago. Sadly, where have they all gone... Why is the world now filled with so many poker faced zombies.
Vaccines and public schools. The lower echelon of society fails to abscond.
Yes. Exactly. A lot of married women need to understand what you are saying. Women push good men away by trying to change them instead of working on themselves to be the best they can. Men do notice this and will respond in kind, but push, harp and nagg, and it,s going to become a mexican stand off. Thanks for your effort to put it out there, are people listening! Shalom.
i work with tons of 'zombie' employees that complain about work and don't improve to get promoted.
Very true observations, Jennifer. Best behavior naturally brings out the best in others. Another possibility is that the young man's lackadaisical attitude stems from the constant flow of negative narratives regarding men in America at present. My mother has always told me that woman was created to be man's cheerleader -- and I agree 100% When she is, everyone benefits.
I was offered what I thought would be a better paying job some years ago, by a man who had money. It was to be in construction, but I ended up being his personal servant. After a few weeks of this, I left, without a word, and did woodworking with a friend of mine. I also had "opportunities" doing online businesses, but those were scams. So, you see, the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence.
I love the way you describe the bagger. Some are not like that, but unfortunately most are. Its probably more about not enjoying what they are doing vs the pay.
I have learned long ago to do the best you can no matter what you are doing.
Never give up.
What is crazy is if modern kids give 100% the return is 10 fold.
This includes relationship s.
Even if you were a dude I would hug you right now.
Love your attitude 100%
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But of course… ❤️
How you do anything…is how you do everything!
I've tried to explain this to performing musicians. It's amazing how many narcissists expect the world to revolve around them
This is great! This is the Biblical concept of the talents. Those who are faithful with small things/responsibilities, will be rewarded with bigger responsibilities and blessings! This helped remind me to do better, thank you!
Whatever you do you should give it your all.
Giving is the cheat code!
Jennifer has it figured out, listen up ladies!
Another Grand Slam, Jennifer. I had to break it off, with a woman I was dating for 9 months. She was only marginally in, and her energy level, was like your reactions (ummmfff). Go all in, if that's what you want. You'll notice such a cataclysmic positivity in how everything is alive.
A serving attitude in all walks of life will reap rewards.
I've been the keto guy with the bag of potato chips have basically been building a "Family" of excellent people be incorporating this strategy. If nothing else "FAKE IT TILL' YOU MAKE IT"
Thank you
- Godspeed
A sense of humor goes a long way to being happy
With my divorce this was exactly her mentality. I got the vibe that I was temporary. Told me she could get a rich dude. Like 300k or higher. She always had to be right. I felt like she always wanted to compete with me on everything. She asked for divorce I gave it to her the next day.
Your worth to her was only as deep that your hand ✋ could reach into your pocket - nothing else mattered to her.. ?
You're better off alone..
Most of them marry the lifestyle. Not the man. Hence the monkey branching and trading up.
@@bobbyscalchi4013 the word your looking for is hypergamy.
@@GregMcMillanSr Yes very familiar with that word. Heres another word... Solipcism.
unfortunatley NOBODY treats each other with respect and kindness......people just suck these days
How's that old Zen saying go? "How you do anything is how you do everything."
This is one of your top 5 videos Jennifer. Everyone needs to see this. Men and women.
I really enjoyed this and it has tons of truth laced throughout. Thank you!
So true! I did this February of last year. I received the last straw, and that was it. I spent some time in reflection, and 18 months later I’m doing well with investments and looking forward to pursuing a career change I.e. following a passion instead of “it’s a job.”
Good to see you Jen! I'm sick right now so I'm pretty meh and zombie-like at the moment.
Your message is so true. I was working retail many years ago and was approached by an executive with the stock exchange who gave me an opportunity because of my attitude. needless to say good things happened. Thank you.
that made sense! your basically saying inspiring and empowering each other.
Finally. Another video filled with insight & wisdom.
so refreshing topic miss Moleski! totally agree with it.
I just watched the documentary "What Is a Woman" for the first time 😄I love the ending when he asked his wife what a woman was, it was beautiful.
The first thing I needed to do to decompress was come watch and listen to a woman 😁I thought of you! Ugh as always your the best.
Great message, Jennifer. I hope women are listening.
You are definitely one of my most favorite peoples! Always make these videos.
Hey 100k congrats
The last few relationships I've had i noticed a pattern of woman putting in the minimum effort, I try to put in maximum effort, but as soon as I see that minimum effort I end it. Spot on with this idea, I haven't been on TH-cam that much, glad to see you're still educating the masses!
Authenticity means being your best self all the time.
Excellent video, spot on.
"Unicorn Crossing".......lol......... "Why is the rum always gone "
Spot on!
Great video. It's true, if you hold people to higher standards they tend to rise to them.
We get mostly great People like you in our store, helps me get through those more difficult because We make their lives better, chapeau
You are absolutely correct. Always do your best in everything you do. I have taught my sons this and they are all doing great in life. I taught them as I was taught. My dad always said. "if you're the floor sweeper, be the best floor sweeper in the company. You won't be a floor sweeper for long"...
Great stuff Jennifer
Congrats on 100k subs. Well deserved.
Gold! Another great video! 😍 Agreed. Do the work. Be the change.
Be kind.
The bad customers ruin it for everyone. They arrive with attitudes, complain about everything, basically miserable, so the worker adjusts to survive the job.
Just great to hear common sense...
Love your videos Jennifer. I don't know how you understand how a man's brain works but each time I watch your videos, it makes me smile. I've shared your channel with all my women friends.
Great advice
I could look at Jen for hours. I think she's dreamy.
I blame parents for not making teenagers work at some kind of job. Those first crappy jobs are where people learn how to work and how to deal with customers and fellow workers.
Nah. Just bad parenting and lack of parental figures for one reason or another is the crux of it. By the looks of your comment, it appears you're one of them.
Jennifer Moleski congrats for 100K subscribers !
There is allot of work and fun sometimes not to mention cancel hunters . Torshaa channel barely geting 8.7k and JustPearlyThings 277K subscribers from same start . You can try to get with other females The Feminine Truth and RealFemSapien too. It will realy unite women who see men real value in our world . Win win . Just go for , join the club . Sisterhood to help men out.
Exactly. We all attract what we project, in a nutshell. If your low energy, low drive and low ambition that's what the universe will keep sending your way. All relationships and jobs will reflect what you put in to them. Life can be great to you, with you bringing and offering your very best!
Great Advice, cheers
I'm kind, thoughtful, and passionate. I give it my all and still, women always treat me like crap.
Yes you are most correct
That's OK. If they treat you like crap you don't need them in your life. Move on.
Thanks Jennifer for a positive message.
Unfortunately life is a lot more cruel than that - and having been in both positions for over a decade - there wasn't a happy ending in either case.
It's a dream. Nothing more.
Jennifer YOU are 100% correctamundo!
Nice Jen.
It amazes me, how a couple will sit at a table in a restaurant, and their both looking at their phones.
Most workers in the service industry don't give a dime because salaries are crap, working conditions are crap and most customers are crap. Minimum wage, minimum effort.
"Please", "Thank You", and "Your Welcome" go a long way in this world. Even if you are having a bad day, it doesn't help the world any to be grumpy towards everyone, and it doesn't help YOUR mood either! You can sit there and wallow in our own self pity, or you can do something positive for the world. Yesterday, after someone was carjacked at gunpoint, I called 911 and allowed him to use my phone to talk with the 911 dispatcher and stayed with him until the police showed up. I didn't have to stop to help the guy, but at least he knows that not everyone in this world is out to get him.
I appreciate what you say. I can't recall the particulars, but remember the life advice my Grandfather once offered his teenage grandson: "There is success to be found in failing by your very best efforts. Win or lose, do it first class!"
Although there are good reasons why some of us are unable to advance beyond "Duhhh", we are all equipped with the ability to be fully present. It just takes a little practice. So try this: answer a call with "how may I help you?" It establishes a positive frame of reference which can be built upon easily. Try it in your relationships. There's nothing better in life than to be of service to others.
...Yes....it does matter...!!!
This is the speech a parent should give a 12 year old. Adults don't even get this at 30 or 40.
Energy is important! Sup with your elbow, Jen?
thank you
THANKYOU SO MUCH Jennifer for helping me untangle my VERY deeply rooted biases. I have been SO brainwashed by feminism. It made me feel so full of hate, and this never ending need to be right. It was insane.
I have now been in my relationship for 8 years. I feel like I have so much more empathy and compassion, and now we just want to push eachother to be better... our life is just so much better.
Just... Thankyou so much.
Your hair looks great and compliments your elegant, lithe arms. Great video, of course.
My husband and I were just talking about this in regards to work. He recently reported a kid at the local big box store to a manager for hiding in an isle watching anime. I worked retail for 6 years though college and after. It certainly wasn't a well paying job but darn it I wanted it to have meaning so I worked hard a took pride in what I did and did a beautiful job. My managers always took note. They were kind to me and wanted to see me succeed. I worked with the types in your example, who felt better than the work they were doing, so they barely put in an effort. Want to take bets now who has that high paying respectable job and who is still grinding in retail?
About 3:50. Sounded correct Jennifer. The same example about “baggers” works with the genders reversed also.
Thanks for the awesome video Jennifer. The world is full of " DUH " baggers and they can't figure out why their life sucks!! Keep up the good work!!
Well, a lot of the " "DUH" baggers" have a lot of catching up to do in everything, thanks to the "beautiful" generation of parents born in 60's, 70's, 80's. Imagine your dad knowing a lot of DIY stuff, and teaching you ZERO of this throughout your whole childhood, due to: "No, you're gonna damage the tools", every single time a little boy was interested in being shown something new. It can absolutely kill curiousity, desire to learn and induce heavy anger towards older generation of people who were supposed to be our mentors. Many young people see the society as something worthless, because who wants to work for the retirement system, when there are all these people who dissapointed them? Revenge mechanism got triggered in many youngsters, because of very poor parenting. Sure, it's wise to be kind, polite and energetic towards people in shops etc., but the general idea is, that EVERYONE (not just young people) should practice such politeness. In my country (Poland), hoards of old people are rude and bitter, and always say "meh, youngsters these days". Well, when youngsters hear how bad they are everyday, well then guess what, they start growing rebellious towards society or just not giving a damn about it, not even mentioning marriages or efficient work.
Absolutely spot on. My expression is they suck so bad they don’t even know they suck. These people have no idea what the basic expectations are.
People do not improve their behavior when treated better than they deserve. They improve when faced with the consequences of their behavior. Fire the bagger.
man i had an experience at our local sonic, they refused to answer thier drive through speaker and were in the middle of the line of cars. we pulled out of line whent to a drive in spot and they refused to answer that one so we got back in line and drove up to the window. and they side we pulled in at a funny angle. when i worked a McDs back in 08 i could run the intercom with headset without it tripping/beeping first. the young teenager was kind of slightly passivley snide about it to.
So true.
You're talking about having sincerity Jennifer - unfortunately the world is a very selfish place 😒
I want to know where you got this idea from to address these topics on the internet, especially in these times when we don’t even know men different from women (and we don’t know if we are make or female 🤣)?
Anyway, I’m glad you did. You give me something interesting to listen to.
Agreed Jennifer
Customer service went down for two reasons covid brought about the six feet rule so it was no longer obligated for a sales person to approach you. The second is the way the laws are today. Fear of sexual harassment, episodes with Karen, and useless complaints. A simple “hi” or “can I help you” find something? Is deemed as sexual harassment today.
lol right..good point
I was a bagger at Food Lion in high school when I met my wife. I asked if I could carry her groceries to her car 3 times...the cashiers yelled, "She said No, Craig!" A year later I saw a girl at band try outs and started a conversation, we talked for 3 hours. We dated...during which, she realized - I was that bagger! We married within a couple years and have been married for 33 years now, 9 kids, 5 grandchildren later. Jennifer is dropping TRUTH BOMBS. I made an impression on her, as a bagger. It was validated later, while we were dating. She knew I was the one before I knew she was the one. Folks, you don't know who you are taking care of or talking to sometimes.
You are whatever you practice being.
This should always work. However in my relationships with the two women I was the most committed to (one married then divorced, the second engaged but never married), the more effort I put in, the more generous I was, the more I let her have her way, the more she lost respect for me and ended up leaving me for good. After all, if I was trying that hard it must mean I was a loser and not an alpha male. The first one, I was too nice. The second one, I was too sensitive. OK, I pursued two of the wrong women. (But I bet my experience was not unique either.) Still, maximum effort resulted in maximum failure. I maintained good jobs during both of these relationships as well and held up my own responsibilities as well as I could. I bet millions of men could tell you that the more effort they put in, the more they were disrespected for appearing to be so "desperate."
@@johnnemo4146🤡
"Needy" is the word that comes to mind with most women when they have guys, or see guys in other relationships that actually try. Heh... And women say men are toxic? GTFOOH!
Somewhat mirrors my 26 year marriage. Wife retorts, "not everyone can be perfect like you!"
It's a catch-22
That's why you dont put your all in on the relationship, that's her job. It's your job to put your all in on your career.
going all in DOES NOT mean become a lap dog. huge difference.
"Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being." -
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Spot on as always Jennifer. Btw, I sent you a DM on Instagram, could you please get back to me?
Off the bat, move east..
Spot on tho, treat em like ya want em
"You will own nothing and you will be happy." - Klaus Schwab (World Economic Forum)
I was playing this video listening to it and half watching it as I do something else. I thought she had a tic or another issue. Then I started watching. LOL.
In relationships, as in life. If you don't give you best where you are now, you'll not know how to give your best when you get where you want to be...TBH you'll never get to where you "want to be" .
today's society needs 500million more Jennifer Moleski women. how do we do that?
You would like Alison Armstrong. Incredible and refreshing insight on relationships/ understanding men and women.