I broke up with my ex a couple months ago, and I don’t want her back. I know this isn’t a great thing to want, but I want her to know how much she hurt me, and I want her to feel emotional pain. Will doing this help me? In hindsight, I don’t feel as though I told her the real reasons I no longer wanted to be with her, and it’s playing on my mind.
I was sharing how I felt and kept getting the "move on get over me” just yesterday my ex invited me out for dinner after being out the house for a month now. she was trying the weekend before but I was working and she wouldn’t actually tell me she was just asking what I was doing during the day.. is that a good sign?
My ex broke up with me 5 weeks ago. Went into No contact after some begging and pleading during the break up. Broke it a few days ago, nothing emotional or klingy, just a simple “how have you been”. She replied and said she was doing fine. I then asked her if we could meet up and talk. She responded saying she was down but needed more time and wasn’t really sure what more she could say. Was I wrong for breaking No contact? Have all my chances of getting her back gone away?
So I've been doing NC for the past 2 months. We broke up in December last year and I went straight in to NC, after a little bit of pleading and begging. After a month I approached her and we even got out on a date. However, things didn't work out, so we waved goodbye to each other for good at the end of February. That was a psychological trick in order to see how she was going to react. Unfortunately though, there hasn't been any sort of contact since then and I highly doubt that there will ever be.
Hi Clay! I got a question so my ex said to me she wants to be friends after our breakup 5 months ago and now she said she doesn´t want to do anything with me because she don´t want to give me hope What should i do now?
So I have a question me and my ex just talked Friday and everything was going good and at the end of it I didn’t hesitate and I gave her a hug and she gave me a hug back. I feel like that’s like that’s the first getting back together. The next time I see her I’m gonna tell here because at the end of the day I got enough to lose one and we get back together and I’m happy again or two I just know we’re not meant to be and I find me somebody else. What should I do? Should I talk to her or not?
Don't put pressure on him to decide right then and there, build the connection and trust so that he feels more equipped to make the choice. Pretty much follow this video: th-cam.com/video/pOPiamJV_Mo/w-d-xo.html
Hi clay. Thank you for your reply. I should have mentioned that we have been separated for 11 years. I have never given up. He will talk to me but he still says no. I don't know what else to do. Thank you for taking the time to my dilemma.
Here's how to create the right dynamic so you can share your feelings freely with your ex: th-cam.com/video/pOPiamJV_Mo/w-d-xo.html
I broke up with my ex a couple months ago, and I don’t want her back. I know this isn’t a great thing to want, but I want her to know how much she hurt me, and I want her to feel emotional pain. Will doing this help me? In hindsight, I don’t feel as though I told her the real reasons I no longer wanted to be with her, and it’s playing on my mind.
I was sharing how I felt and kept getting the "move on get over me” just yesterday my ex invited me out for dinner after being out the house for a month now. she was trying the weekend before but I was working and she wouldn’t actually tell me she was just asking what I was doing during the day.. is that a good sign?
Yeah, sounds good to me. Just make sure to keep romantic pressure low.
Update?
My ex broke up with me 5 weeks ago. Went into No contact after some begging and pleading during the break up. Broke it a few days ago, nothing emotional or klingy, just a simple “how have you been”. She replied and said she was doing fine. I then asked her if we could meet up and talk. She responded saying she was down but needed more time and wasn’t really sure what more she could say. Was I wrong for breaking No contact? Have all my chances of getting her back gone away?
Update?
So I've been doing NC for the past 2 months. We broke up in December last year and I went straight in to NC, after a little bit of pleading and begging. After a month I approached her and we even got out on a date. However, things didn't work out, so we waved goodbye to each other for good at the end of February. That was a psychological trick in order to see how she was going to react. Unfortunately though, there hasn't been any sort of contact since then and I highly doubt that there will ever be.
Hi Clay!
I got a question so my ex said to me she wants to be friends after our breakup 5 months ago and now she said she doesn´t want to do anything with me because she don´t want to give me hope
What should i do now?
Me seeing this after begging him and telling him how I feel for the past 4 months
Clay, I’m really curious to know more about one-way spikes. Do you have videos on this or is it only available in your effortless connection course?
No contact really is the only way, this nonsense is just asking for disrespect
So I have a question me and my ex just talked Friday and everything was going good and at the end of it I didn’t hesitate and I gave her a hug and she gave me a hug back. I feel like that’s like that’s the first getting back together. The next time I see her I’m gonna tell here because at the end of the day I got enough to lose one and we get back together and I’m happy again or two I just know we’re not meant to be and I find me somebody else. What should I do? Should I talk to her or not?
Not really understanding... but it sounds like talking and connecting are a good choice instead of jumping to any conclusion. Hope this helps.
Should you tell your ex how you feel? I did but it didn't make any difference he doesn't want me back. He will talk to me tho.
Don't put pressure on him to decide right then and there, build the connection and trust so that he feels more equipped to make the choice. Pretty much follow this video: th-cam.com/video/pOPiamJV_Mo/w-d-xo.html
Hi clay. Thank you for your reply. I should have mentioned that we have been separated for 11 years. I have never given up. He will talk to me but he still says no. I don't know what else to do. Thank you for taking the time to my dilemma.
Hell no
...haha, my thoughts exactly !
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No. She's your x for a reason. Move on.
If that works for you, brother, then good for you.