Is that worse than being a doctor and not being able to vocalize the difference between women. . How do they justify the animal kingdom and evolution? And when it comes to attraction heterosexuality and homosexuality where do pheromones come in to play? What about veterinarians? Can they tell us if there's a difference between a tomcat and a queen, male and female cat, or humans that aren't adult are called children or kidsike a tomcat impregnates a queen and they have kittens. We know this from male and female and kids. Words are words because they define something and when a word no longer has a definition (or the definition needs the word in it to define which is not possible) then it can no longer be a word. It's like an entire generation skipped all their English classes and don't understand grammar. I mean it really just comes down to the proper way to define a word. Still don't understand how every lesbian (minus the self conscious, insecure, shy ones that can be convinced dude with long hair and such can be her gf cause it's a feminine penis one whose only friends are in the cult)isn't in the streets tearing doors down with Riley and posie
My niece is far left, and every single one of her friends identifies as something. My niece has a masters in gender studies from a prestigious school, and yes, she is now a professor🤣. I love her, but we have to avoid far left topics because she thinks that having a masters degree means that she is right and everybody else is wrong.
My white female friend who I met as a lesbian but later married a true beta male is a gender studies professor at an HBCU. She bought a house for him 40 minutes away so he could be “closer to his job” (read: further from her. She has admitted to going to sex parties while they were “separated”). They were both hardcore into BLM as white allies. They even hand painted signs and gave them to friends. They were the ppl that introduced me to the word “woke”. Turns out they are just weak and corrupt people. I don’t know how this relates to the video but it does.
@tauruschorus It relates as it's the same people pushing the ideology in the video. They created the word woke, we simply used it to insult them, now they pretend it never had any meaning and they don't know what it means.
The "I have more education, therefore I'm right" are the most obnoxious and narcissistic (actually NAPD type of arrogance) people I've known. Hats off to you, I wouldn't have the patience 👏🏾
If I had still be on that non-binary train, I would have my boobs chop-up and I would be more miserable. I am a androgynous woman since forever and i did question my gender a million time and it took me to be in the waiting room for my top surgery that I understood that for me my breast was not the problem. The problem was the society. Once I accept I will never be an extreme feminine woman and that's okay and learn to take my place, my confusion and discomfort with my body ceased.
Just so Vee knows, I have a friend with a 17yo daughter who has been identifying as trans and I have watched her mother struggle with knowing what to do over the last few years. I showed them your interview and the kiddo had an appointment to go get on testosterone. That appointment has been cancelled and the conversation has shifted and this helped open up the teen to question why she wants to be a man so fingers crossed maybe a life has been saved. She's scheduled to go to therapy instead and not with a gender affirming therapist either. The mom doesn't want to post in fear of backlash at work, but asked that I pass on her thanks.❤
As a ftm I transitioned at 19, so should everybody else, and I'm glad the trans clinic in my area is only going to see people 19+, really takes hours of protesting off my back lmao I thought I was going to have to do that and everything
That’s great, I’m glad you shared that with them bc I’m sure it has to feel like a thankless job they’re doing at times. I have a 16 year old daughter, and I’m thankful that she hasn’t had any of this gender confusion herself, but several of her friends have. I feel like my sharing these videos with her has helped her keep a level head despite being surrounded by this, and she can even tell the difference between her guy friend who is gay, and a girl friend who thought she was “trans” for awhile (even having a male name at school). My kid keeping a level head about it has kept her “supportive”, but not indoctrinated into it, and her good friend who had the male name is now back to using her given name. It turns out this girl was having some family issues, and my daughter was able to say to her “do you feel like some of this is due to the relationship struggles you’re having with your mom?”, and the girl was able to work that out, and then address the real problems. Thankfully the mom was able to, as well. I think that too many of these kids are only surrounded by ppl who encourage this behavior instead of asking them, in a truly caring way, “what’s going on with you?”, and if SOMEONE just does that much, it makes them think a little more about it. This is anecdotal on my part, and I’m sure it wouldn’t work in every case, but I do feel it’s important that even if our own kids aren’t struggling with this, that we educate them for this reason. Hopefully more and more young ppl will see this for what it is and help each other stay away from hormones and surgery. I pray every day that will be the case.
“You are so much more than your gender” THANK YOU! I was born in 1956. There was such satisfaction in seeing improved fairness between the sexes and now I feel it’s being dismantled by those who seem to think nothing is quite as important as stereotyped gender identity. It enrages me sometimes, makes me feel despair at other times. People worked SO hard to stop gender from limiting our opportunities and now it’s being thrown away. It’s so very heartening to hear you two.
It was never about that. It was all meant to destroy the society and it's done its job over time. Go look at who was actually behind the genesis of "feminism". 11 Marxist men set it in motion, in order to destabilize the West.
@marymcfarlane5108 Your 10 years older than me..thanks for being here! Sometimes I feel so old on TH-cam...but nah we are all here and we all count. The kids need us because they aren't getting much history education in school. It AMAZES me what people in their 20's don't know!
Congratulations on finding your way back to reality Vee. Keep listening to people like Buck and you will continue back down the path to a good life quicker than you think. It's hard work but it's worth the battle. Buck, keep up the good work. We appreciate everything you do.
I went to school with two siblings who were raised nonbinary. It did not go well for them. One is sadly no longer with us, and the other is unable to fit into society. It sets you back. No matter how you get into it, nonbinary is a detriment, and complete self isolation from everyone else in the world.
I love you Buck. I love your guests. Yesterday (05/08/24) I got kicked out of a discord server. Someone asked the server what is a woman? We went off on it and I said “trans women are trans women. Trans men are trans men” and I got banned from the server after being called a TERF.
@@Liz-be1wq My friend had some words to help me feel better. “You find people where the facts are painful to them emotionally want to get rid of and silence those who say the truth. It happens in all fringe groups. From flat earthers to cult members to vaccines cause autism believers to the family vloggers who say they aren’t exploiting their children. Anyone who is indoctrinated to believe something that isn’t fact, they get upset when they are forced to come face to face with the truth and they deflect and don’t have any counter-points. They call you names and get rid of you instead of explaining their side.” She was trying to tell me that it is not just people coming at me. And it’s them. Not me. I didn’t do anything wrong. Facts and science don’t care about your feelings.
I consider any slurs that those small minded people call me a badge of honor. If all they can debate with is hateful name calling, you've already won the argument. I would rather be truthful and banned, than lie for acceptance.
"Keep questioning." As she said, that just good life advice in general. Question the crowd, question the labelling, question what is accepted as true. Truth will survive questiong, lies won't (over time).
I commented on another trans person’s video kind of about the non-binary phenomenon, and I said something about how the transsexuals I knew don’t consider non-binary to be the same as trans, and my comment got a reply from someone who wrote an eight paragraph diatribe about how transsexual was an offensive term and that gender dysphoria wasn’t necessary to be trans, and a whole bunch of other “talking points”. They also said I should look at the DSM-5 at the criteria for being trans, and that gender dysphoria isn’t one of the criteria. I didn’t bother to look, because we obviously didn’t agree about anything, but if that’s actually true, that’s scary.
When the DSM was being updated for version 5 about a decade ago, the LGBT activists lobbied the APA to change definitions, so it would fit more in line with what they were pushing. What was published was a compromise, so it was softened to be still covered by insurance. These groups still want it to be removed in version 6.
they have a massive problem with us transexual they keep telling us not to use the trem and its offensive etc whilst pushing and using queer- which is actually offensive and holds a lot of hurt to members of the lgbqt community. yes they push gender dysporia isnt needed to be trans and abuse and attack trans people that actually have it online whilst telling us what its like to be trans
I’m only minutes into this video and I’m crying, I also have BPD. This stuff scares me so unbelievably much, I’m 35 but if I was a teen… I’m 💯 certain someone would be pressuring me to be a woman. I would have been such an easy victim. I see you hun. I feel your struggle.
@@Visarealgirl I have BPD also and I grew up in the '90s. If there have been so much pressure to do the things they're wanting kids to do now back then I probably would have been in that group. Back when I was a teenager and in high school the rebellious thing to do was say that you were a lesbian or you were bi. At least in my area that was the equivalent to today's trans kids. It's about trying to find who you are, but never really knowing who you are. You get sucked into the groups that are kind of on the sidelines because you feel like you don't fit into the mainstream, so you must fit in with these outliers. It's a very difficult place to be in. Especially, as a young female. Your body already goes through so many changes that it's only natural to suffer from some type of body issue at some point during those years. It makes young females with mental health issues prime targets. Now, I've gotten some of my mental health trouble regulated and I have a family and a pretty normal life. I still of course have anxiety about a lot of things and some issues that I still deal with and I will always deal with, but they don't concern my body or who I am generally speaking. Once you get deep down to the who am I it can go a little wonky, but it's nowhere near like it used to be. I do have to stay on top of it though. It just makes me sad because I can see what these kids are going through and I can see them literally ruining their bodies and lives right before my eyes, but there's not A lot you can do because you're speaking to teenagers who know it all and think they know exactly who they are and what they are and they think that how they feel right now is how they will always feel. When you're a teenager it's very difficult to understand that things change and your ideals and feelings about life change. This is the first time in their life that they're really dealing with anything new and they don't understand what it's like to grow up yet. Unfortunately, that's something you can only understand by experiencing it. That's why adults need to put a stop to allowing young teenagers to make serious life-altering decisions.
I’m a 46 year old straight woman and your channel is very informative for me bc I’ve been told I am wrong bc I don’t believe in the indoctrination of young people into this system. It’s scary for me and abuse. Look if you are an adult and want to do the hormones and surgery then yes. I have had to have IVF and had to be on some of the meds you talk about not nearly as much but am familiar with them and how they make you feel. I support you all and want to understand the mindframe. Thank you!!!❤
As a professional dominatrix of 10 years that also stopped identifying as non binary when the conversation changed from being about androgyny or gender non conformity to taking up the trans space I dream of talking to you Buck! I’m so glad to see agp entering the chat as I had understood how much that would have an impact on what we’re seeing now because I had many clients like that before people were really talking about it. Once I did I got so much pushback and was dragged so hard personally and professionally. Thank you for the shining light that you are!
I just LOVE the sincerity and different connotations in Buck's voice during these conversations and the real/raw emotion you can see/hear/feel via the screen - plus, he calls everyone "friend" and I think that's the sweetest/most endearing thing ever. 💝
Only one point I'd like to make- Straight, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Pansexual or whatever else someone identifies as never means you will be willing to date all the people who meet your bare minimum criteria. There are alot of people I've told to kick rocks over the years because there were core issues we would never agree on. Especially with Bi and Pan there always seems to be a push that it must mean everyone is a possibility- and that's never been the case.
It hurts my heart to hear people be called all sorts of names for this reason. One of my good friends in high school was treated like crap by guys for similar reasons. They would force him to change in a bathroom stall for gym class because they didn't want him "checking them out." They honestly seemed to think his being gay meant he was attracted to all of them.
@@stephw1702 agreed, and unfortunately its much more an issue then people ever seem to talk about. Preferences and consent is important and I never understood how people even back in the 90s and what were so full of themselves that think that they are auto included. Like- I dont care if you are a Roman sculpture made flesh- that means nothing if you are out there kicking dogs or something. The recent trenders have definitely messed stuff up more in my book. They keep pushing that not accepting someone as a partner means you are a bad person- when the real bad person is the one trying to force you beyond your limit. No one owes anyone else their time, emotional effort, body, support- its cool if you get it, but if you don't learn to move on.
Off topic but pan sexual is not a thing. It‘s a cheap excuse for straight people to be part of the lgbtqbqkyl,q community without actually being attracted to the same gender at all
@@stephw1702 To be fair I think it's just shows how perverted most people are about their own sexuality. The way they see it, it's as if those straight guys were in a room full of naked women changing clothes. Of course, even straight guys aren't attracted to every female on planet earth but sexually they are attracted to females and even your average looking female being seen In a compromised state by a straight rather young guy is going to create a reaction from that guy. These guys treat gay guys like straight guys in a room full of average looking women getting undressed which is actually kind of a form of empathy and respect. They understand what it's like to be sexually attracted to something and having sexual urges and they transpose their own sexual urges but as if they were the ones that were gay. If they were sexually attracted to men and were constantly in an environment where men were getting undressed, what would they be able to contain themselves? Would they stare at the guys and look at them sexually? For the guys who did exclude the gay guy, the answer is they would look at the other guys sexually and not be able to contain themselves so they feel personally uncomfortable being in the same space that would look at them like they would look at naked girls. It's kinda why sex separate spaces exist because most straight people are like that. If they were in a room where the opposite sex was in a compromised position, they would stare and sexualize them. Men and women by the way. Plenty of women stare at men and their packages and judge the size of their parts just as much as men stare at women and their chests or kitties and judge their appearance. That's how people are. This also applies to straights who thinks Gay people can't just be friends with the same sex. These same straights find it difficult or impossible to the friends with the opposite sex because they are sexually attracted to the opposite sex and would take any opportunities to hook up with their "friends" of the opposite sex. Women and men do this as well. Women talk all the time of men they have on the hook on their phones that would hook up with them at a single call and guys talk about being friends with women but would be open to having those kinds of relations with those women if they asked. They empathize with gay people and treat them equal to themselves that just like they have problems having friends with the opposite sex, gay people likely experience the same problems with being friends with people of the same sex. Now of course these experiences aren't universal and largely come from a place of ignorance. But I think once we understand WHY people are doing what they are doing and actually work through their logic, you can properly educate them with our own empathy rather than shame them and cause them to further fall into a bigoted mindset.
@@stephw1702I don't blame them at all! He may not have been attached to all of them, but you can damned well bet he was into quite a few of them! I had a lesbian gym teacher who would put a chair in front of the girls showers, which had no curtains, and watch the girls shower, with her clipboard and pencil. I refused to shower and she turned me into the office. My mom came to the meeting, and I told them why I refused. They dropped it. They knew what was up and they didn't stop her. Imagine a straight male gym teacher doing that and what the ramifications would be. I'd imagine you wouldn't want a straight guy changing in the girls locker room? It's absolutely no different. Edit: I've known many, many gay men over the course of decades, due to my line of work. And in my experience, I've never known a gay man who was "picky" when it came to having sex. Pretty much, as long as they look clean, smell good and aren't morbidly obsese, they'll screw it. Maybe not be out in public with them, but in the park,public restroom, the hiking trail, the bar, etc., they're good to go.
Definitely a sweetheart of a person! Thanks for bringing her out to meet us. A very smart and special young lady whom I know will be helpful in preventing others from getting into a space that isn't right for them. I see a very bright future for her❤
Fantastic interview!! I wish Vee all the best. She articulated the truth so well and gives me hope that others I know who have fallen into the cult might wake up one day too.
It’s all so true. Seeing it happen with my partner’s 15 yr old sister. Her trans mtf friend who is several years older than her, asks her to bring more young males into their discord etc so he can turn them trans. She also changes her identity or mental health depending on what her friends tell her she is. Currently she’s NB. But though she was a he for a bit just cos she cut her hair and her friend said she looked like the friend’s brother. She also says most of her friends are autistic and they say she is too so she wants to do an autism test. She also now plays up on it talking about textures and tapping and stimming. Overdoing the tapping and what not. She also tells her friends she has an eating disorder and self harms. But tells a lot of different stories all the time. It’s so stressful. How do you even help someone like this?
I am a transgender guy, i have always been very passionate about lgbt history and as a pre-med student i want to work in gender affirming care, today i have been called everything from “homophobic” “transphobic” “panphobic” “zionist oppressor” by the community that (before covid) gave me the strength and will to live… I feel so USED . :(
I literally got emotional as you told her she’s the hero. Not them! It seems like it’s really hard for ppl her age to think for themselves so I love every time I see it!!
What a lovely young lady. ❤ Now that you've experienced"cultish", coercive, group think you'll never forget it and can safe guard yourself in the future. I grew up in a religious cult that I knew wasnt right and it takes years to undo the language and thinking. Its so freeing to critically think and take in information from all sources. Thank you Buck!
"This isn't the Sims!" - omigosh, that's exactly what I've been thinking about this crazy idea that you can pick and choose the body changes - I was thinking the exact same words! :D You can't use cheats to change your biology, this is real life. These people are living a delusion, purposely avoiding facts and actual research or statistics; it's like hiding your face and saying "you can't see me" - they are lying to themselves about how "there are no side effects," "you can change this or that etc," "it is all reversible," "you can become a biological man/woman," "your life will be easier," but the truth will never change. These people need some time off from the Internet 🤔😅
I’m from a medium sized college town in Alabama, and I know of 5 trans people. The ones who are the happiest are the ones who don’t make it their entire personalities. In fact, I didn’t know they were trans for a long time. They didn’t talk about it. They were just living and being accepted by people not in an echo chamber. P.S. I’m glad someone finally said something about lady Gaga’s post.
My thing was that I couldn't shave my legs. I haven't done it in 42 years. I'm not talking about someone who chooses not to do it. I just *couldn't* do it. I also couldn't make holes for earrings or anything like that. I always hated "feminine" clothes if they weren't comfortable. I couldn't wear uncomfortable shoes or a dress. I also couldn't wear make up. I never wanted to be a man... like, I would say stuff like: "I wish I was born a male and I didn't have to shave my legs." But I never dreamed that I woke up and I was a man, or had any desire to be a man. (no offence to men... ) I lived in a hot country where you can't hide it, and even when they screamed at me on the streets and really scared me, I couldn't do it. Olso, only at the age of 42 I could go to go to the gynecologist for the first time in my life. I was proud. It is probably clear that someone who is afraid to go for a medical examination will not put herself through surgery, so there was no such danger... And if we talk about the thought of pregnancy and birth, let's not get into that, and it's already too late anyway... Some of my friends call me he, or it, as a nickname - but it is important to clarify that there is a fundamental difference between what is done between friends and what you ask from everyone to do officially. I'd never ask something like that! I'm sure there are many of the women who say they are non-binary who are in a similar situation as me, When I see that even men can wear the uncomfortable clothes and make-up, and that they call themselves "women". I think that might also be another way of looking at it. (I don't really believe in "right" and "wrong", I think about it as "another way of looking at it"). So maybe really, if those wearing the social costume are "women" even if they aren't necessarily human females, I understand how someone like me could define herself as non-binary. I am not wearing those costumes. I am not a "she" and obviouslly not a "he", so I'm.... a third option? So why don't I do it? (everyone asks!!) Because I think I have the right not to shave my legs. It doesn't make me some alien or androgynous. That's my oppinion. I feel like taliking to women who claim to be non-binary who are 20 years younger than me........ I want to hear their point of view............ Sorry it came out long! Thank you if you read it!
Omg everything she said is me 100% i stop talking to old friend group in the New Years. i hated that I was walking on eggshells all the time. And we had to baby one person in the group all the time. They always say that everything they went through is worse then everyone else... But they were so lazy and most of the time they were in that point because they didnt want to help themselves.. but ya they were non binary as well and say they are lesbian but she dated men....also said they were trans but couldnt transition beacuse health issues. But ya i drop the full friend group and i got better to the point i didnt need therapist anymore.
Bisexual female here! Vee, you are so intelligent and kind. I stopped politely going on with the lie when trans identified males started demanding lesbians sleep with them. Thank you for everything Buck.
Love that she says her biology teacher said to keep questioning everything. True scientist. And i am soooo relieved to hear her speak about BPD and the unstable sense of self. Been thinking about how a lot of people who find the idea of a new identity appealing likely have BPD for years and i have a feeling theres gonna be more conversations about that coming out soon.
Buck, you find the most amazing guests. Vee, you are beautiful. Thank you so much for this video. I know someone who has mental health issues and SA in their past and really needs to see this.
I’m an old woman now, but I was young once upon a time. My parents thought I was beautiful but no-one else in the world did. When I met the man I would end up marrying (and we’ve now been together almost 40 years), he’d tell me I was beautiful. I didn’t believe him then and I don’t believe it now. But, decades ago, I agreed that I could accept being called a ‘handsome woman’. I’m not handsome, either, but it’s more credible to my ear than being called beautiful, which is a blatant lie.
Do you think you would have stayed married to a liar for 40 years? People always say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I believe it means, to some, the person who is beholding or watching gets to decide what is beautiful. Your husband says you are beautiful, and I choose to believe him sight unseen because he was worthy of 40 years of your life. Have a good day, Beautiful 😁
@@AshleighDanburry, I accept that he sees me as beautiful because he’s not like most people and can see beauty within, which I will also agree with. But, externally, I’m not what our society considers to be beautiful. This translates to girls being really bitchy and mean and guys are bitchy and mean in their own way. A mere four years before I met my quantumly entangled other part of me, I had consulted a family friend (who was a GP) about what was then known as SRS. I was 17. It didn’t take long for him to ask me why I wanted to think about it and I responded that I was a failure as a female, by modern, conventional standards. I’m a great gal, but no-one could see past what women were expected to do and be and I wasn’t it. I’m also as straight as you can get, but I figured I would still make a better man and be in a platonic relationship with a woman, if I needed to… but I also wanted to have kids. In less than half an hour he’d asked enough pertinent questions that I answered honestly, and it was obvious that it was a ridiculous idea and would have ruined my life. And, had I had the surgery, I would never have met and married the love of my life. On occasion I can now accept being called beautiful, but only about my soul, not my exterior 😉❤️ So, if you are implying that I am a kind, caring, compassionate, considerate, thoughtful, healing soul, then I shall take your final word as a true compliment. You, too, are a beautiful soul; I like you. May you be blessed with all good things 🙏🏼❤️
I've met people that were not considered good looking at all, but when i saw their inner beauty and soul i truely started to think they were beautiful, also on the outside. Beauty truely comes from within, and shines outwards. I also have seen people who won the genes lottery, but were so awful they were ugly. I bet your husband really means it when he calls you beautiful. This comes from someone who is considered ugly by society, by the way. I got burned for it many times and felt bad about it, but now i cant see it anymore
I watched the video of Blair at the texas PrIDe parade yesterday where she interviewed several people who just 'screamed' NO SENSE OF SELF through their answers. I thought the girl with the black umbrella was going to implode....so painful to watch. This is why I totally hear you guys....my intuition, my gut, MY WOMB feels the pain that is underneath all of this...I just can't deal with the cult indoctrination. I had to delete all my socials for peace and sanity ( I'm still recovering from a severe endometriosis surgery). Thanks for all you do Buck! It helps to keep connected and not lose respect all together (for those who are legit). I'm from the Netherlands by the way....the petri dish of all this crazy progressiveness. DEI is EVERYWHERE here....super exhausting, so that's why you see a major pull to the right in the entire EU.
As a survivor of human trafficking and SA when I was 3 and then again when I was 8, I grew up a major tomboy who wanted nothing more than to be man who would never be a victim again; someone strong enough to never be SA'd again. Over time, I realized men are victims of SA as well, and fundamentally changing who i am won't change what happened to me or make it go away. If all of this had been going on back then, I feel i would have been pressured to transition and naive enough to listen. Thank you so much for speaking up and showing others the real face of this cult. I hope it helps kids before it's too late.
Love you Vee!!! I really hope you heal and get a hold on your BPD.... It IS totally possible!!! You are a BEAUTIFUL intelligent charming young woman and you are an asset to the world! Young people need to listen to you because you have ... phew!.... you GOT it!!! You understand exactly whats going on!!!
Thank you as always Buck! Keep doing this, these are conversations we need to have, no matter how uncomfortable. Also I recently watched your interview with Charlie Kirk and it was so good! Nice to see people having a normal conversations with people on the same side with some things and not with others. Love you❤
im actually thankful too that ive found creators like you buck. i was almost brainwashed into this whole gender thing too because of tiktok and all the lgbt stuff thats been trending during the pandemic. that was truly a hard time for me and i had struggles about my appearance and my identity for quite a while. But because of your videos, i learned and truly realized that that stuff really messes with your head and your self image. Right now im slowly accepting to just be myself, not needing all these unnecessary labels about myself that really isnt logical at all
I don’t know shit about trans people or anything of the sort but I appreciate the genuine honesty from you Buck. You’re a good person, keep doing what you do
I don't wear makeup & "feminine" clothes most of the time. Don't identify as non-binary. Just want to be comfortable & not pay lots of money for clothes.
What an eye-opening discussion!! I never considered the possible link between BPD and trans identification, but it actually makes a lot of sense! Reminds me that I knew a young, 100% female-presenting "trans man" who convinced her whole friend group to be trans with her and sort of forced a nonbinary identity on her boyfriend against his will which he dropped as soon as they broke up. I have no idea if she was professionally diagnosed but she did talk quite frequently about suffering from BPD and having no sense of self. The last I heard from her she was on hormones and her voice was as deep as mine. Wonder if she's come to regret it.
it has nothing to do with BPD. just bunch of cheaters who want to gain privilege without working hard for it. they're not satisfied with their lame looks but too lazy to work on their body, hence they try to swap their identity to gain advantage, advertised by their buddies.
lol. Omg I love her! 😂 she’s so self aware and it’s hard to believe she was so easily manipulated into believing she was trans/non-binary. Glad she found herself and feels secure and happy with herself. Also so awesome about the 7 years of recovery! Lfg, Queen! ❤
Right TikTok is the absolutely worst… I’ve been there for 6months and got hit with a 7day ban for saying “my gay bestie.” So you absolutely cannot say the word gay. My gay bestie spelled the word gay… and got hit with a 7day ban. It’s absolutely insane. I’ve never seen anything like it. My 12 yo asked if he could be my mod when he’s older. I told him absolutely not lol because a) I doubt I’ll be there still. B) as long as he lives with me, he will not be spending time watching TikTok. It’s fucking mindless drivel, and everyone is so damn sensitive and stupid. Lol I’d rather him watch anything else.
@@mits619 thank you !! Sometimes I sit back and wonder how I got roped myself but they make you really believe this garbage ! 🥴🤨 appreciate the support ! ❤️❤️❤️🙂↕️
when I was a kid, my dad always used to joke about being a lesbian trapped in a man's body back in the mid 80's. much later on in life when I was a young adult my father decided to transition and we had a conversation about how I understood and supported the decision even to use she/her which I still do, at the same time I could never not see and not call her Dad because how she was when she raised me is something I can't ignore because I believe it made me a decent human being and what it means to have the responsibilities to society to be be a man. it was Avery ong and intense conversation that lasted hours. it's shame to have lost her to a heart attack caused by the HRT. she fought her comfort in her body 50 years of her life and then died for what she believed in and was also able to understand and respect my views as I still respect hers. what's happening isn't that conversation about mutual comfort levels and reasonable perceptions: Edit - This video is an important "OMFG! IM NIT THE ONLY ONE!" moment, you absolutely cannot be deplatformed!!
I saw Blaire in a jubilee video, and started watching her videos after. That video opened my eyes to how crazy things have gotten. I thought everybody was as normal acting as my friends in the community.
Literally what i was told so i believed this! Im not gay or trans but i was an ally to this agenda unfortunately. Then i had my kids and i started to educate myself and im so happy i did. I want my kids safe. I was called bigoted the other day because i dont want my kids around people who think children can consent to sex chamges, because if they think they can consent to that, what else do they think that a child can consent to? Love you Buck amd the things you speak about!!❤❤ (edit i also have bpd and depression and anxiety and stuff and im a victim of SA and people tried to tell me i was pan. I actually resonate with this girl a lot. Love that you had her on!)
I’ve told my friend to wait, to seek help, to understand their body dysmorphia and hating being sexualized in general as a woman isn’t the same as being trans. I’ve known him my whole life in cosplay as only female characters, in video games never making male characters, always loving strong female representation and all things that screamed he was a woman. I told him I was worried he was rushing into these changes thinking it would make all his internal struggles better. I told him he needed help. Genuine help. That these changes he wants to do are irreversible and he could end up in an even worse position. I would support him being trans, but only if done safely. Otherwise I’m watching my mentally ill friend do harm to themselves. I find it as a form of harming the self. Being that I’m autistic and have other mental issues, I’ve tried very hard to be keenly aware of potential manipulation and misleading things. This friend tried to tell me I was Trans too, because I also thought I didn’t really consider any gender for myself internally and have always fluctuated in ways of being more masculine and feminine. But I told him I wasn’t trans. Even thought he got me a button that said ‘she/they’. I felt a bit… odd. I took it and I wore cause it was from my friend. Now he’s moving into a college dorm and making even more big sudden changes in his life when he’s already struggling to keep everything together. I tried to tell him to not push himself too hard. He shouldn’t leave cause he’s struggling to work more than one day a week and keep up with classes. Adding dorm costs and more work hours is gonna debilitate him. He didn’t want to listen there either. We’ve been friends for over a decade. I only want what’s best for his health. It sucks watching him about to take a nose dive tail spin. But my concerns never matter. My advice when he asks is wrong. And I’ve had to wash my hands of it and let the person he is now make those choices.
As someone who’s recovered from BPD.. I know for a fact whenever I developed the disorder, I would experience blackouts probably from how intensely my brain was changing from the trauma. But the same year I started to hate being a female and thought it would empower me being a guy. I’ve always been a tomboy. I was only 15, the disorder really interrupted my ability to confidently explore being a girl and what girls do. PLEASE go get yourself checked for any potential diagnosis from someone who does dbt and knows personality disorders. BPD is a very common diagnosis. All of them have to do with DISASSOCIATING.
I'm leftist and I'm starting to have this conversation with my peers, because left has to do better. We may be a few of ours, but we are here. Amazing interview guys ❤
One of my friends became non-binary in the last couple years and I honestly hate it because I constantly feel the need to refer to *him as “they” in conversation. Last time we hung out I was about to speak but stopped multiple times because I realized that I needed to change my language to “they” and when that happened, I just decided to shut up instead of roll over. Actually going through the process of calling someone “they” is actually horrible because I felt like an obedient servant dog while I was doing it. I'm sorry, but I’m about to get “non-binary phobic” over here. These people need to stop it, especially because they just ruin their own lives and confuse people for nothing.
I feel you. My partner, who I always thought was a wonderful and smart woman, decided she was non-binary nearly 2 years ago. It’s been rough and I finally had the guts to tell her how I feel about it, and my opinion on it. Calling her they/them actually dehumanized her in my eye, because non-binary doesn’t mean ANYTHING. Being non-binary has no essence, it’s just another way to say you are non-gender conforming, but with more steps and bonus headaches, and they wear it like a label as if there whole life revolved around it. Suited for people who have no strong sense of self. We are still in a relationship but conversations are difficult, and I can‘t freely talk about topics anymore because I just have a different opinion, and this triggers her to no end. I love her, but I don’t think this makes sense, anymore. In fact, as the weeks go by, I feel myself respecting her less and less, because how can she be so stupid to fall for this ideology. She studies philosophy but never questions her own beliefs, doesn‘t like discussions, and claims to be a critical thinker but her arguments are riddled with logical fallacies and cognitive dissonance. I don’t know what to do, anymore, but I also don’t want to give up on her. She calls herself a non-binary lesbian- I laugh because it doesn’t make sense. And then I cry, because where is the woman I once held in such high regard- gone. Just gone. She is confusing herself, others, and I think her mental health will only worsen as she continues down this path.. because it will never be enough. Wearing a label as an identity is not personal growth.
@@maystrehmel4615 I would guess that your partner does not have any significant religious or spiritual belief system to hold themselves to. As a person who has now found a religion, it really seems like people are using this “non-binary” movement as a replacement for spiritual growth. Like in this video, the woman found a religion to be a part of and that probably helped so much. One telltale sign for me is that whenever they are asked to define non-binary, they pretty much sound the same as asking a person about their feelings around God. I for one believe in God, but because the divinity of God falls out of reach of knowledge, I am sometimes only going to be able to go off of my feelings and experiences. If I were asked how I know God exists, I might say some other things, but would come back to “this is how I feel” and that’s supposed to be okay because that’s how religion works. It doesn’t work to say that “non-binary is how you feel” because it’s not even based in anything or any established tradition or belief system. (This is probably why they make up their own history.) It’s also worse because they pretend that it’s objective reality and make all other people believe it. They have become the dogmatic religious people they once rebelled against. It’s a bit sad and difficult because people like this have basically gotten themselves into a religious beliefs system, while thinking it’s purely scientific and logical. At this point, the only way to understand it is that they are part of a cultural religion where they have replaced the concept of “God” with the concept of “gender identity”.
@@ryand1404 while I disagree that every individual needs a spiritual belief system or a religion to ground themselves, I do agree with your sentiment behind it. I don’t have a spiritual belief or a religion, but I have a strong sense of self- I suppose that equates to some spiritual belief :) Thank you for your reply. I feel less insane knowing I am not the only one.
@@maystrehmel4615 Oh I didn’t mean to infer you need a religious or spiritual beleif system to ground yourself. Only that everyone needs their own *individual belief system based off of our own observations of the world, (which could include religions in my opinion), otherwise we become susceptible to other belief systems. Perhaps if your partner works on their own core system of beliefs in whatever ways, then things might change for the better. I think it’s just that when we are unsure of ourselves as individuals, that we are more likely to listen to other people, even when they make little sense.
Soooo I'm a menopausal woman . I can't have babies ect..no monthly headache can I be non binary? Jk..I'm still a biological female lol I want to identify as menopausal and angry lol ..
I'm only 6 minutes into this one but this is one of your good videos, so far, IMO. There's absolutely no question that this stuff needs to be addressed. Addressing it isn't going to bring about "peace in the middle east", as the saying goes, but that doesn't mean it's not worth doing. I really do love your channel for what it is -- when you're not baited (by anybody) into biting off more than you (or any one person) can chew.
Straight up! I found the Jubilee debate with Blair and started to dig deeper and suddenly felt like I could breathe again when discussing social and political issues. From there I found you Buck, Marcus, Brad Polumbo, Amala Ekpunobi, Amir Odum. I also used to identify as pan but have since moved to just bisexual. A lot has changed in the last decade from where I used to stand.
Our mindset nowadays is ridiculous. My father was a lifelong Democrat and a homophobic. My father-in-law was a lifelong conservative and fine with gay folks. You have to look at people as individuals, not party members. Think about what is best for you.
I'm glad she brought up injecting in public, junkies don't even do that. The world really doesn't need to watch people glorifying shooting up. I'm surprised TH-cam and Tik Tok allow it.
Maybe I was lucky/unlucky and my body didn’t change much- very small chested and no body fat possibly due to being in sports and having high metabolism. But I didn’t feel very feminine for three or more decades. Now that perimenopausal symptoms have arrived, I am getting curvier. Being in a human body is weird! ❤
Awe this girl is such a sweetheart. I’m so glad she found her way out of that sea of lies. And girl, none of us feel any sense or direction… I’m 36 and I don’t know wtf is going on anymore lol. We’ll all find our way… hang in there. ❤
Great interview, what a lovely and engaging guest! And a very eye-opening inside view into the world of trans-activism! I'm not even trans or anything, just a regular 50 year old "cishet" married lady 🤣! But I was quit far into the "woke" mindset. I worried about everything, I wasn't this or that enough and I couldn't say this or that... I used to tell my (Israeli) husband off all the time, no you can't say this, you can't say that! It's such a relief to have found you and others, and to realize I don't have to censor myself and others all the time, and I don't have to be "woke" to be worthy. Thank you Buck 🧡
The whole non binary thing is such a fad. I understand people can feel androgenous or like they don't fit gender norms of masculine/feminine - but that doesnt mean you're some special "non binary" person. Just be yourself without needing a label and needing others to treat you like you're special.
It was a beautiful happy accident that brought me to Buck and Blair. I love both of you and I appreciate the content. You and Marcus and Blair have taught me so much about what the current ideology of trans movement. My sibling unfortunately falls into the trans trender and has become quite abusive with their transition.
Thank you for bringing up androgyny, what did happen to her?!?!? Non-Binary basically just sounds like androgyny, I'm not sure the need for this new term...
Thanks for the interview. She seems sweet and I live very close to Chicago so she's practically my neighbor. That said, I'd point out that being conservative isn't a bad thing. They are good people, who are often demonized with a lot of lies being pushed so nobody switches parties. Neither party represent the same people or ideas that they used to. We can no longer depend on what others tell us. It's time to really look deep into all of it.
Both of you are Heros. That give me Hope. I am not Gay and not Trans I am only a Woman that is Born as a Woman. When i was a Kid I think to that i whant to be a Boy . I am Happy that i am not a Boy. My Kids are never born when i am a boy. I have 3 Kids. Kids forget that they will never have Kids if they Change his Se*. They can Adopt Babys ok. But that Baby is from who?? Not from yourself. And when you Change your se* there is no Way back... Your se* is gone FOREVER!!! Think about it, if you can!
I was diagnosed with bpd at 15 and have taken many years to mature out of it as much as possible by self analysis constantly. It was a huge help to bring logic to my brain. I was addicted to heroin/fentanyl for a decade. I survived, thankfully. I've been sober for a few years and I'm so happy I wasn't young at this time now. I probably would have been sucked in because of my bdp. I think this idealogy targets the mentally ill. I'm glad you're here to try to change that Buck. It's very wrong what they are doing.
I think Dylan has one thing motivating him, and that is to make it big as a celebrity. He'll do anything to become famous, and he uses the trans thing as his springboard to fame.
I literally recently posted pictures of Boy George and David Bowie on X saying that it’s not getting more non-binary and queer than that and was actually mocked for it🤦🏻♀️
Thanks for sharing your experience. I want to share the video with someone, but I have to gauge where their feelings are as to not put them on the defensive.
Buck, I would love to come on your show. I am a man, but I lived as non binary for 3 years. I was indoctrinated by social media, and I have an interesting take on how social media is effecting the trans and LGB community.
Having a degree in gender studies - but not being able to define 'woman'? Just means you have a certification of being indoctrinable.
OMGGGG 😆😆😆😆😆
What‘s even the point of gender stuides in the first place…
You know what a degree in gender studies is good for. It's good to use when you run out of toilet paper
Shouldn't it be doctrinable?
Is that worse than being a doctor and not being able to vocalize the difference between women. . How do they justify the animal kingdom and evolution? And when it comes to attraction heterosexuality and homosexuality where do pheromones come in to play? What about veterinarians? Can they tell us if there's a difference between a tomcat and a queen, male and female cat, or humans that aren't adult are called children or kidsike a tomcat impregnates a queen and they have kittens. We know this from male and female and kids. Words are words because they define something and when a word no longer has a definition (or the definition needs the word in it to define which is not possible) then it can no longer be a word. It's like an entire generation skipped all their English classes and don't understand grammar. I mean it really just comes down to the proper way to define a word. Still don't understand how every lesbian (minus the self conscious, insecure, shy ones that can be convinced dude with long hair and such can be her gf cause it's a feminine penis one whose only friends are in the cult)isn't in the streets tearing doors down with Riley and posie
The first thing a cult does is to tell you to not trust your family and their are your family until you disagree with them
Jeffrey Marsh and his cult in a nutshell.
All of this indoctrination sound so much like religion isn’t frightening.
@@annieswatches fuckin preach
My niece is far left, and every single one of her friends identifies as something. My niece has a masters in gender studies from a prestigious school, and yes, she is now a professor🤣. I love her, but we have to avoid far left topics because she thinks that having a masters degree means that she is right and everybody else is wrong.
My white female friend who I met as a lesbian but later married a true beta male is a gender studies professor at an HBCU.
She bought a house for him 40 minutes away so he could be “closer to his job” (read: further from her. She has admitted to going to sex parties while they were “separated”).
They were both hardcore into BLM as white allies. They even hand painted signs and gave them to friends.
They were the ppl that introduced me to the word “woke”.
Turns out they are just weak and corrupt people.
I don’t know how this relates to the video but it does.
@tauruschorus It relates as it's the same people pushing the ideology in the video. They created the word woke, we simply used it to insult them, now they pretend it never had any meaning and they don't know what it means.
The "I have more education, therefore I'm right" are the most obnoxious and narcissistic (actually NAPD type of arrogance) people I've known. Hats off to you, I wouldn't have the patience 👏🏾
Pol Pot ... Suggest googling that
@@stacyyoust Google has hidden a LOT of stuff on Pol Pot.
If I had still be on that non-binary train, I would have my boobs chop-up and I would be more miserable. I am a androgynous woman since forever and i did question my gender a million time and it took me to be in the waiting room for my top surgery that I understood that for me my breast was not the problem. The problem was the society. Once I accept I will never be an extreme feminine woman and that's okay and learn to take my place, my confusion and discomfort with my body ceased.
Just so Vee knows, I have a friend with a 17yo daughter who has been identifying as trans and I have watched her mother struggle with knowing what to do over the last few years. I showed them your interview and the kiddo had an appointment to go get on testosterone. That appointment has been cancelled and the conversation has shifted and this helped open up the teen to question why she wants to be a man so fingers crossed maybe a life has been saved. She's scheduled to go to therapy instead and not with a gender affirming therapist either. The mom doesn't want to post in fear of backlash at work, but asked that I pass on her thanks.❤
I’m in tears ! Thank you for sharing ! I’m so happy I could help ! This means so much honestly ! Thank you ! 🙏🏻
That gave me chills! 🥲
As a ftm I transitioned at 19, so should everybody else, and I'm glad the trans clinic in my area is only going to see people 19+, really takes hours of protesting off my back lmao I thought I was going to have to do that and everything
you are a hero ❤
That’s great, I’m glad you shared that with them bc I’m sure it has to feel like a thankless job they’re doing at times. I have a 16 year old daughter, and I’m thankful that she hasn’t had any of this gender confusion herself, but several of her friends have. I feel like my sharing these videos with her has helped her keep a level head despite being surrounded by this, and she can even tell the difference between her guy friend who is gay, and a girl friend who thought she was “trans” for awhile (even having a male name at school). My kid keeping a level head about it has kept her “supportive”, but not indoctrinated into it, and her good friend who had the male name is now back to using her given name. It turns out this girl was having some family issues, and my daughter was able to say to her “do you feel like some of this is due to the relationship struggles you’re having with your mom?”, and the girl was able to work that out, and then address the real problems. Thankfully the mom was able to, as well. I think that too many of these kids are only surrounded by ppl who encourage this behavior instead of asking them, in a truly caring way, “what’s going on with you?”, and if SOMEONE just does that much, it makes them think a little more about it. This is anecdotal on my part, and I’m sure it wouldn’t work in every case, but I do feel it’s important that even if our own kids aren’t struggling with this, that we educate them for this reason. Hopefully more and more young ppl will see this for what it is and help each other stay away from hormones and surgery. I pray every day that will be the case.
“You are so much more than your gender” THANK YOU! I was born in 1956. There was such satisfaction in seeing improved fairness between the sexes and now I feel it’s being dismantled by those who seem to think nothing is quite as important as stereotyped gender identity. It enrages me sometimes, makes me feel despair at other times. People worked SO hard to stop gender from limiting our opportunities and now it’s being thrown away. It’s so very heartening to hear you two.
It was never about that. It was all meant to destroy the society and it's done its job over time.
Go look at who was actually behind the genesis of "feminism".
11 Marxist men set it in motion, in order to destabilize the West.
@marymcfarlane5108
Your 10 years older than me..thanks for being here!
Sometimes I feel so old on TH-cam...but nah we are all here and we all count.
The kids need us because they aren't getting much history education in school.
It AMAZES me what people in their 20's don't know!
I'm not conservative but this gender nonsense makes me feel like I would probably be labeled as one.
Welcome to the club friend ♥ 🐀
Yep I'm a Democrat. But consider myself a centrist Lol and this sh*t has gone way too far 😅
I remember when leftism was about living in a van and wearing rags and now it's about wearing a gown and living in a mansion and claiming to be a man
Just a slight disagreement and your labelled as right wing.
Same! I'd say I'm mid-left, and I have no clue what's going on anymore
Thanks for watching, friends! Leave a like or comment to let me know your thoughts, and leave some love for Vee! See you soon. Buck
Vee, well done on your sobriety! Your biology teacher was spot on, keep his voice in your mind always!
@@cherylmillard2067 thank you so much Cheryl! I appreciate you and your kind words of support!
Congratulations on finding your way back to reality Vee. Keep listening to people like Buck and you will continue back down the path to a good life quicker than you think. It's hard work but it's worth the battle.
Buck, keep up the good work. We appreciate everything you do.
@@Visarealgirl Absolutely!!! Critical thinking is always your best friend.
She FOUND herself ...4real ❤❤❤
I went to school with two siblings who were raised nonbinary. It did not go well for them. One is sadly no longer with us, and the other is unable to fit into society. It sets you back. No matter how you get into it, nonbinary is a detriment, and complete self isolation from everyone else in the world.
Interesting perspective
I love you Buck. I love your guests.
Yesterday (05/08/24) I got kicked out of a discord server. Someone asked the server what is a woman? We went off on it and I said “trans women are trans women. Trans men are trans men” and I got banned from the server after being called a TERF.
So disheartening when we are speaking truths….
Count your blessings- that channel sounds toxic. ❤
Keep speaking out. Eventually all those sheep will learn the truth and reality will win. It's just another religious movement looking to fail.
@@Liz-be1wq My friend had some words to help me feel better. “You find people where the facts are painful to them emotionally want to get rid of and silence those who say the truth. It happens in all fringe groups. From flat earthers to cult members to vaccines cause autism believers to the family vloggers who say they aren’t exploiting their children. Anyone who is indoctrinated to believe something that isn’t fact, they get upset when they are forced to come face to face with the truth and they deflect and don’t have any counter-points. They call you names and get rid of you instead of explaining their side.” She was trying to tell me that it is not just people coming at me. And it’s them. Not me. I didn’t do anything wrong. Facts and science don’t care about your feelings.
I consider any slurs that those small minded people call me a badge of honor.
If all they can debate with is hateful name calling, you've already won the argument.
I would rather be truthful and banned, than lie for acceptance.
We fought so hard to change the stereotypes of what a man or woman is supposed to be to come to this regressive ideology. 😢
Ikr! All the labels! In the 80's we fought to not be labeled
"Keep questioning."
As she said, that just good life advice in general. Question the crowd, question the labelling, question what is accepted as true. Truth will survive questiong, lies won't (over time).
I commented on another trans person’s video kind of about the non-binary phenomenon, and I said something about how the transsexuals I knew don’t consider non-binary to be the same as trans, and my comment got a reply from someone who wrote an eight paragraph diatribe about how transsexual was an offensive term and that gender dysphoria wasn’t necessary to be trans, and a whole bunch of other “talking points”. They also said I should look at the DSM-5 at the criteria for being trans, and that gender dysphoria isn’t one of the criteria. I didn’t bother to look, because we obviously didn’t agree about anything, but if that’s actually true, that’s scary.
Why people think they speak for the community, especially elders, is beyond me. They clearly don't know what they are talking about.
Be very afraid: under gender dysphoria in the DSM-5 every one of the now trendy labels is covered. Just looked it up... 😮
When the DSM was being updated for version 5 about a decade ago, the LGBT activists lobbied the APA to change definitions, so it would fit more in line with what they were pushing. What was published was a compromise, so it was softened to be still covered by insurance. These groups still want it to be removed in version 6.
they have a massive problem with us transexual they keep telling us not to use the trem and its offensive etc whilst pushing and using queer- which is actually offensive and holds a lot of hurt to members of the lgbqt community.
yes they push gender dysporia isnt needed to be trans and abuse and attack trans people that actually have it online whilst telling us what its like to be trans
I’m only minutes into this video and I’m crying, I also have BPD. This stuff scares me so unbelievably much, I’m 35 but if I was a teen… I’m 💯 certain someone would be pressuring me to be a woman. I would have been such an easy victim. I see you hun. I feel your struggle.
Thank you so much Notorious ! I appreciate your words ! And I send you healing hugs my friend we got this!! 💖💯
@@Visarealgirl I have BPD also and I grew up in the '90s. If there have been so much pressure to do the things they're wanting kids to do now back then I probably would have been in that group. Back when I was a teenager and in high school the rebellious thing to do was say that you were a lesbian or you were bi. At least in my area that was the equivalent to today's trans kids.
It's about trying to find who you are, but never really knowing who you are. You get sucked into the groups that are kind of on the sidelines because you feel like you don't fit into the mainstream, so you must fit in with these outliers.
It's a very difficult place to be in. Especially, as a young female. Your body already goes through so many changes that it's only natural to suffer from some type of body issue at some point during those years. It makes young females with mental health issues prime targets.
Now, I've gotten some of my mental health trouble regulated and I have a family and a pretty normal life. I still of course have anxiety about a lot of things and some issues that I still deal with and I will always deal with, but they don't concern my body or who I am generally speaking. Once you get deep down to the who am I it can go a little wonky, but it's nowhere near like it used to be. I do have to stay on top of it though.
It just makes me sad because I can see what these kids are going through and I can see them literally ruining their bodies and lives right before my eyes, but there's not A lot you can do because you're speaking to teenagers who know it all and think they know exactly who they are and what they are and they think that how they feel right now is how they will always feel. When you're a teenager it's very difficult to understand that things change and your ideals and feelings about life change.
This is the first time in their life that they're really dealing with anything new and they don't understand what it's like to grow up yet. Unfortunately, that's something you can only understand by experiencing it. That's why adults need to put a stop to allowing young teenagers to make serious life-altering decisions.
I’m a 46 year old straight woman and your channel is very informative for me bc I’ve been told I am wrong bc I don’t believe in the indoctrination of young people into this system. It’s scary for me and abuse. Look if you are an adult and want to do the hormones and surgery then yes. I have had to have IVF and had to be on some of the meds you talk about not nearly as much but am familiar with them and how they make you feel. I support you all and want to understand the mindframe. Thank you!!!❤
As a professional dominatrix of 10 years that also stopped identifying as non binary when the conversation changed from being about androgyny or gender non conformity to taking up the trans space I dream of talking to you Buck! I’m so glad to see agp entering the chat as I had understood how much that would have an impact on what we’re seeing now because I had many clients like that before people were really talking about it. Once I did I got so much pushback and was dragged so hard personally and professionally. Thank you for the shining light that you are!
Nobody wants to listen to the experts. Jill-asses. 🫏
I think Buck should definitely have you on. You have seen and experienced how AGPs behave and their mindset.
I just LOVE the sincerity and different connotations in Buck's voice during these conversations and the real/raw emotion you can see/hear/feel via the screen - plus, he calls everyone "friend" and I think that's the sweetest/most endearing thing ever. 💝
Only one point I'd like to make- Straight, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Pansexual or whatever else someone identifies as never means you will be willing to date all the people who meet your bare minimum criteria. There are alot of people I've told to kick rocks over the years because there were core issues we would never agree on. Especially with Bi and Pan there always seems to be a push that it must mean everyone is a possibility- and that's never been the case.
It hurts my heart to hear people be called all sorts of names for this reason. One of my good friends in high school was treated like crap by guys for similar reasons. They would force him to change in a bathroom stall for gym class because they didn't want him "checking them out." They honestly seemed to think his being gay meant he was attracted to all of them.
@@stephw1702 agreed, and unfortunately its much more an issue then people ever seem to talk about. Preferences and consent is important and I never understood how people even back in the 90s and what were so full of themselves that think that they are auto included. Like- I dont care if you are a Roman sculpture made flesh- that means nothing if you are out there kicking dogs or something.
The recent trenders have definitely messed stuff up more in my book. They keep pushing that not accepting someone as a partner means you are a bad person- when the real bad person is the one trying to force you beyond your limit. No one owes anyone else their time, emotional effort, body, support- its cool if you get it, but if you don't learn to move on.
Off topic but pan sexual is not a thing. It‘s a cheap excuse for straight people to be part of the lgbtqbqkyl,q community without actually being attracted to the same gender at all
@@stephw1702 To be fair I think it's just shows how perverted most people are about their own sexuality. The way they see it, it's as if those straight guys were in a room full of naked women changing clothes. Of course, even straight guys aren't attracted to every female on planet earth but sexually they are attracted to females and even your average looking female being seen In a compromised state by a straight rather young guy is going to create a reaction from that guy. These guys treat gay guys like straight guys in a room full of average looking women getting undressed which is actually kind of a form of empathy and respect. They understand what it's like to be sexually attracted to something and having sexual urges and they transpose their own sexual urges but as if they were the ones that were gay. If they were sexually attracted to men and were constantly in an environment where men were getting undressed, what would they be able to contain themselves? Would they stare at the guys and look at them sexually? For the guys who did exclude the gay guy, the answer is they would look at the other guys sexually and not be able to contain themselves so they feel personally uncomfortable being in the same space that would look at them like they would look at naked girls. It's kinda why sex separate spaces exist because most straight people are like that. If they were in a room where the opposite sex was in a compromised position, they would stare and sexualize them. Men and women by the way. Plenty of women stare at men and their packages and judge the size of their parts just as much as men stare at women and their chests or kitties and judge their appearance. That's how people are.
This also applies to straights who thinks Gay people can't just be friends with the same sex. These same straights find it difficult or impossible to the friends with the opposite sex because they are sexually attracted to the opposite sex and would take any opportunities to hook up with their "friends" of the opposite sex. Women and men do this as well. Women talk all the time of men they have on the hook on their phones that would hook up with them at a single call and guys talk about being friends with women but would be open to having those kinds of relations with those women if they asked. They empathize with gay people and treat them equal to themselves that just like they have problems having friends with the opposite sex, gay people likely experience the same problems with being friends with people of the same sex. Now of course these experiences aren't universal and largely come from a place of ignorance.
But I think once we understand WHY people are doing what they are doing and actually work through their logic, you can properly educate them with our own empathy rather than shame them and cause them to further fall into a bigoted mindset.
@@stephw1702I don't blame them at all! He may not have been attached to all of them, but you can damned well bet he was into quite a few of them!
I had a lesbian gym teacher who would put a chair in front of the girls showers, which had no curtains, and watch the girls shower, with her clipboard and pencil. I refused to shower and she turned me into the office.
My mom came to the meeting, and I told them why I refused. They dropped it. They knew what was up and they didn't stop her. Imagine a straight male gym teacher doing that and what the ramifications would be.
I'd imagine you wouldn't want a straight guy changing in the girls locker room? It's absolutely no different.
Edit: I've known many, many gay men over the course of decades, due to my line of work. And in my experience, I've never known a gay man who was "picky" when it came to having sex. Pretty much, as long as they look clean, smell good and aren't morbidly obsese, they'll screw it. Maybe not be out in public with them, but in the park,public restroom, the hiking trail, the bar, etc., they're good to go.
Definitely a sweetheart of a person! Thanks for bringing her out to meet us. A very smart and special young lady whom I know will be helpful in preventing others from getting into a space that isn't right for them. I see a very bright future for her❤
@@Dragonladyrvrr... thank you so much! 😊
Fantastic interview!! I wish Vee all the best. She articulated the truth so well and gives me hope that others I know who have fallen into the cult might wake up one day too.
You’re so kind thank you!!! I hope I can help others like me!!! 😌🙏🏻
It’s all so true. Seeing it happen with my partner’s 15 yr old sister. Her trans mtf friend who is several years older than her, asks her to bring more young males into their discord etc so he can turn them trans.
She also changes her identity or mental health depending on what her friends tell her she is. Currently she’s NB. But though she was a he for a bit just cos she cut her hair and her friend said she looked like the friend’s brother.
She also says most of her friends are autistic and they say she is too so she wants to do an autism test. She also now plays up on it talking about textures and tapping and stimming. Overdoing the tapping and what not.
She also tells her friends she has an eating disorder and self harms. But tells a lot of different stories all the time.
It’s so stressful. How do you even help someone like this?
I am a transgender guy, i have always been very passionate about lgbt history and as a pre-med student i want to work in gender affirming care, today i have been called everything from “homophobic” “transphobic” “panphobic” “zionist oppressor” by the community that (before covid) gave me the strength and will to live… I feel so USED . :(
Feels like we forgot about Tomboys. 😢
“The offended have to be punched in the face to feel alive”.
Sounds like emotional self cutting tbh… 😬
Buck included. She transed herself because she's gender non-conforming.
@@dbz7103 absolutely I am a Tom boy still :) proud biological woman ! I just like my jeans and shirts !
I literally got emotional as you told her she’s the hero. Not them! It seems like it’s really hard for ppl her age to think for themselves so I love every time I see it!!
What a lovely young lady. ❤ Now that you've experienced"cultish", coercive, group think you'll never forget it and can safe guard yourself in the future. I grew up in a religious cult that I knew wasnt right and it takes years to undo the language and thinking. Its so freeing to critically think and take in information from all sources. Thank you Buck!
"This isn't the Sims!" - omigosh, that's exactly what I've been thinking about this crazy idea that you can pick and choose the body changes - I was thinking the exact same words! :D
You can't use cheats to change your biology, this is real life. These people are living a delusion, purposely avoiding facts and actual research or statistics; it's like hiding your face and saying "you can't see me" - they are lying to themselves about how "there are no side effects," "you can change this or that etc," "it is all reversible," "you can become a biological man/woman," "your life will be easier," but the truth will never change.
These people need some time off from the Internet 🤔😅
@@claudia6808 Sulsul!!! thank you for getting my sims reference ! Haha 😆
I’m from a medium sized college town in Alabama, and I know of 5 trans people. The ones who are the happiest are the ones who don’t make it their entire personalities. In fact, I didn’t know they were trans for a long time. They didn’t talk about it. They were just living and being accepted by people not in an echo chamber.
P.S. I’m glad someone finally said something about lady Gaga’s post.
She is so right about people placing too much importance on words. They use words as weapons. Very aware young woman!
My thing was that I couldn't shave my legs. I haven't done it in 42 years.
I'm not talking about someone who chooses not to do it. I just *couldn't* do it. I also couldn't make holes for earrings or anything like that. I always hated "feminine" clothes if they weren't comfortable. I couldn't wear uncomfortable shoes or a dress. I also couldn't wear make up.
I never wanted to be a man... like, I would say stuff like: "I wish I was born a male and I didn't have to shave my legs." But I never dreamed that I woke up and I was a man, or had any desire to be a man. (no offence to men... )
I lived in a hot country where you can't hide it, and even when they screamed at me on the streets and really scared me, I couldn't do it.
Olso, only at the age of 42 I could go to go to the gynecologist for the first time in my life. I was proud.
It is probably clear that someone who is afraid to go for a medical examination will not put herself through surgery, so there was no such danger... And if we talk about the thought of pregnancy and birth, let's not get into that, and it's already too late anyway...
Some of my friends call me he, or it, as a nickname - but it is important to clarify that there is a fundamental difference between what is done between friends and what you ask from everyone to do officially. I'd never ask something like that!
I'm sure there are many of the women who say they are non-binary who are in a similar situation as me,
When I see that even men can wear the uncomfortable clothes and make-up, and that they call themselves "women". I think that might also be another way of looking at it. (I don't really believe in "right" and "wrong", I think about it as "another way of looking at it"). So maybe really, if those wearing the social costume are "women" even if they aren't necessarily human females, I understand how someone like me could define herself as non-binary. I am not wearing those costumes. I am not a "she" and obviouslly not a "he", so I'm.... a third option?
So why don't I do it? (everyone asks!!)
Because I think I have the right not to shave my legs. It doesn't make me some alien or androgynous. That's my oppinion.
I feel like taliking to women who claim to be non-binary who are 20 years younger than me........ I want to hear their point of view............
Sorry it came out long! Thank you if you read it!
Omg everything she said is me 100% i stop talking to old friend group in the New Years. i hated that I was walking on eggshells all the time. And we had to baby one person in the group all the time. They always say that everything they went through is worse then everyone else... But they were so lazy and most of the time they were in that point because they didnt want to help themselves.. but ya they were non binary as well and say they are lesbian but she dated men....also said they were trans but couldnt transition beacuse health issues. But ya i drop the full friend group and i got better to the point i didnt need therapist anymore.
Bisexual female here! Vee, you are so intelligent and kind. I stopped politely going on with the lie when trans identified males started demanding lesbians sleep with them. Thank you for everything Buck.
@@TOTITC thank you so much !! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻
Love that she says her biology teacher said to keep questioning everything. True scientist.
And i am soooo relieved to hear her speak about BPD and the unstable sense of self. Been thinking about how a lot of people who find the idea of a new identity appealing likely have BPD for years and i have a feeling theres gonna be more conversations about that coming out soon.
@@Abi-pd7be 💯 they offered me “new life” in reality not the case !
Buck, you find the most amazing guests. Vee, you are beautiful. Thank you so much for this video. I know someone who has mental health issues and SA in their past and really needs to see this.
This means so much to me. Thank you ! Healing to your friend! 🙏🏻💖 recovery is possible !
I’m an old woman now, but I was young once upon a time. My parents thought I was beautiful but no-one else in the world did. When I met the man I would end up marrying (and we’ve now been together almost 40 years), he’d tell me I was beautiful. I didn’t believe him then and I don’t believe it now. But, decades ago, I agreed that I could accept being called a ‘handsome woman’. I’m not handsome, either, but it’s more credible to my ear than being called beautiful, which is a blatant lie.
Do you think you would have stayed married to a liar for 40 years?
People always say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I believe it means, to some, the person who is beholding or watching gets to decide what is beautiful. Your husband says you are beautiful, and I choose to believe him sight unseen because he was worthy of 40 years of your life. Have a good day, Beautiful 😁
@@AshleighDanburry, I accept that he sees me as beautiful because he’s not like most people and can see beauty within, which I will also agree with. But, externally, I’m not what our society considers to be beautiful. This translates to girls being really bitchy and mean and guys are bitchy and mean in their own way.
A mere four years before I met my quantumly entangled other part of me, I had consulted a family friend (who was a GP) about what was then known as SRS. I was 17. It didn’t take long for him to ask me why I wanted to think about it and I responded that I was a failure as a female, by modern, conventional standards. I’m a great gal, but no-one could see past what women were expected to do and be and I wasn’t it.
I’m also as straight as you can get, but I figured I would still make a better man and be in a platonic relationship with a woman, if I needed to… but I also wanted to have kids.
In less than half an hour he’d asked enough pertinent questions that I answered honestly, and it was obvious that it was a ridiculous idea and would have ruined my life.
And, had I had the surgery, I would never have met and married the love of my life.
On occasion I can now accept being called beautiful, but only about my soul, not my exterior 😉❤️
So, if you are implying that I am a kind, caring, compassionate, considerate, thoughtful, healing soul, then I shall take your final word as a true compliment.
You, too, are a beautiful soul; I like you. May you be blessed with all good things 🙏🏼❤️
I've met people that were not considered good looking at all, but when i saw their inner beauty and soul i truely started to think they were beautiful, also on the outside. Beauty truely comes from within, and shines outwards. I also have seen people who won the genes lottery, but were so awful they were ugly. I bet your husband really means it when he calls you beautiful. This comes from someone who is considered ugly by society, by the way. I got burned for it many times and felt bad about it, but now i cant see it anymore
I watched the video of Blair at the texas PrIDe parade yesterday where she interviewed several people who just 'screamed' NO SENSE OF SELF through their answers. I thought the girl with the black umbrella was going to implode....so painful to watch. This is why I totally hear you guys....my intuition, my gut, MY WOMB feels the pain that is underneath all of this...I just can't deal with the cult indoctrination. I had to delete all my socials for peace and sanity ( I'm still recovering from a severe endometriosis surgery). Thanks for all you do Buck! It helps to keep connected and not lose respect all together (for those who are legit). I'm from the Netherlands by the way....the petri dish of all this crazy progressiveness. DEI is EVERYWHERE here....super exhausting, so that's why you see a major pull to the right in the entire EU.
As a survivor of human trafficking and SA when I was 3 and then again when I was 8, I grew up a major tomboy who wanted nothing more than to be man who would never be a victim again; someone strong enough to never be SA'd again. Over time, I realized men are victims of SA as well, and fundamentally changing who i am won't change what happened to me or make it go away.
If all of this had been going on back then, I feel i would have been pressured to transition and naive enough to listen. Thank you so much for speaking up and showing others the real face of this cult. I hope it helps kids before it's too late.
Love you Vee!!! I really hope you heal and get a hold on your BPD.... It IS totally possible!!! You are a BEAUTIFUL intelligent charming young woman and you are an asset to the world! Young people need to listen to you because you have ... phew!.... you GOT it!!! You understand exactly whats going on!!!
It’s a battle everyday but I’m trying! Thank you for your kind words of support!!!
@@Visarealgirl You’re amazing Vee! Thank you for sharing what you went through.
Thank you as always Buck! Keep doing this, these are conversations we need to have, no matter how uncomfortable. Also I recently watched your interview with Charlie Kirk and it was so good! Nice to see people having a normal conversations with people on the same side with some things and not with others. Love you❤
Great guest...loved her honesty.
More power to the free thinkers and the non-followers in the world.
I didn't understand how nonbinary was trans but now i totally get it. It's part of the trans-trender movement.
She FOUND herself....4real❤❤❤
im actually thankful too that ive found creators like you buck. i was almost brainwashed into this whole gender thing too because of tiktok and all the lgbt stuff thats been trending during the pandemic. that was truly a hard time for me and i had struggles about my appearance and my identity for quite a while. But because of your videos, i learned and truly realized that that stuff really messes with your head and your self image. Right now im slowly accepting to just be myself, not needing all these unnecessary labels about myself that really isnt logical at all
I don’t know shit about trans people or anything of the sort but I appreciate the genuine honesty from you Buck. You’re a good person, keep doing what you do
I don't wear makeup & "feminine" clothes most of the time. Don't identify as non-binary. Just want to be comfortable & not pay lots of money for clothes.
What an eye-opening discussion!! I never considered the possible link between BPD and trans identification, but it actually makes a lot of sense! Reminds me that I knew a young, 100% female-presenting "trans man" who convinced her whole friend group to be trans with her and sort of forced a nonbinary identity on her boyfriend against his will which he dropped as soon as they broke up. I have no idea if she was professionally diagnosed but she did talk quite frequently about suffering from BPD and having no sense of self. The last I heard from her she was on hormones and her voice was as deep as mine. Wonder if she's come to regret it.
it has nothing to do with BPD. just bunch of cheaters who want to gain privilege without working hard for it. they're not satisfied with their lame looks but too lazy to work on their body, hence they try to swap their identity to gain advantage, advertised by their buddies.
lol. Omg I love her! 😂 she’s so self aware and it’s hard to believe she was so easily manipulated into believing she was trans/non-binary. Glad she found herself and feels secure and happy with herself. Also so awesome about the 7 years of recovery! Lfg, Queen! ❤
Right TikTok is the absolutely worst… I’ve been there for 6months and got hit with a 7day ban for saying “my gay bestie.” So you absolutely cannot say the word gay. My gay bestie spelled the word gay… and got hit with a 7day ban. It’s absolutely insane. I’ve never seen anything like it. My 12 yo asked if he could be my mod when he’s older. I told him absolutely not lol because a) I doubt I’ll be there still. B) as long as he lives with me, he will not be spending time watching TikTok. It’s fucking mindless drivel, and everyone is so damn sensitive and stupid. Lol I’d rather him watch anything else.
@@mits619 thank you !! Sometimes I sit back and wonder how I got roped myself but they make you really believe this garbage ! 🥴🤨 appreciate the support ! ❤️❤️❤️🙂↕️
Vee is a total badass! much love to her! 💙
@@Olivereliocorcordium1983 thank you 🙏🏻 🥹
" I have a very shaky sense of self" sounds like that cld be the root to alot of people's problems..
when I was a kid, my dad always used to joke about being a lesbian trapped in a man's body back in the mid 80's. much later on in life when I was a young adult my father decided to transition and we had a conversation about how I understood and supported the decision even to use she/her which I still do, at the same time I could never not see and not call her Dad because how she was when she raised me is something I can't ignore because I believe it made me a decent human being and what it means to have the responsibilities to society to be be a man. it was Avery ong and intense conversation that lasted hours. it's shame to have lost her to a heart attack caused by the HRT. she fought her comfort in her body 50 years of her life and then died for what she believed in and was also able to understand and respect my views as I still respect hers. what's happening isn't that conversation about mutual comfort levels and reasonable perceptions: Edit - This video is an important "OMFG! IM NIT THE ONLY ONE!" moment, you absolutely cannot be deplatformed!!
A teenager had she /him pronouns on their hat at a fast food restaurant, and I'm like thinking what is that even?😂
Thank you V!! You are a hero- truly truly a hero! Exactly you have such integrity! The community is growing and truth does set you free!
"This is not the Sims!" Can we get that on a hoodie? So profound.
I saw Blaire in a jubilee video, and started watching her videos after. That video opened my eyes to how crazy things have gotten. I thought everybody was as normal acting as my friends in the community.
Literally what i was told so i believed this! Im not gay or trans but i was an ally to this agenda unfortunately. Then i had my kids and i started to educate myself and im so happy i did. I want my kids safe. I was called bigoted the other day because i dont want my kids around people who think children can consent to sex chamges, because if they think they can consent to that, what else do they think that a child can consent to? Love you Buck amd the things you speak about!!❤❤ (edit i also have bpd and depression and anxiety and stuff and im a victim of SA and people tried to tell me i was pan. I actually resonate with this girl a lot. Love that you had her on!)
You are so precious. Thank you Buck for bringing Vee on. So brilliant. I wish you all the best.
Vee, you are a beautiful person, but your spirit shines through even more. Thank you for telling your story and being honest!
@@shawnawhite3933 thank you so much 🥹❤️
I’ve told my friend to wait, to seek help, to understand their body dysmorphia and hating being sexualized in general as a woman isn’t the same as being trans. I’ve known him my whole life in cosplay as only female characters, in video games never making male characters, always loving strong female representation and all things that screamed he was a woman. I told him I was worried he was rushing into these changes thinking it would make all his internal struggles better. I told him he needed help. Genuine help. That these changes he wants to do are irreversible and he could end up in an even worse position. I would support him being trans, but only if done safely. Otherwise I’m watching my mentally ill friend do harm to themselves. I find it as a form of harming the self. Being that I’m autistic and have other mental issues, I’ve tried very hard to be keenly aware of potential manipulation and misleading things.
This friend tried to tell me I was Trans too, because I also thought I didn’t really consider any gender for myself internally and have always fluctuated in ways of being more masculine and feminine. But I told him I wasn’t trans. Even thought he got me a button that said ‘she/they’. I felt a bit… odd. I took it and I wore cause it was from my friend.
Now he’s moving into a college dorm and making even more big sudden changes in his life when he’s already struggling to keep everything together.
I tried to tell him to not push himself too hard. He shouldn’t leave cause he’s struggling to work more than one day a week and keep up with classes. Adding dorm costs and more work hours is gonna debilitate him.
He didn’t want to listen there either. We’ve been friends for over a decade. I only want what’s best for his health. It sucks watching him about to take a nose dive tail spin. But my concerns never matter. My advice when he asks is wrong. And I’ve had to wash my hands of it and let the person he is now make those choices.
As someone who’s recovered from BPD.. I know for a fact whenever I developed the disorder, I would experience blackouts probably from how intensely my brain was changing from the trauma. But the same year I started to hate being a female and thought it would empower me being a guy. I’ve always been a tomboy. I was only 15, the disorder really interrupted my ability to confidently explore being a girl and what girls do.
PLEASE go get yourself checked for any potential diagnosis from someone who does dbt and knows personality disorders. BPD is a very common diagnosis. All of them have to do with DISASSOCIATING.
Vee is a sweet young lady. Loved this show. Glad both of you are speaking out. God bless! ❤
I'm leftist and I'm starting to have this conversation with my peers, because left has to do better. We may be a few of ours, but we are here.
Amazing interview guys ❤
One of my friends became non-binary in the last couple years and I honestly hate it because I constantly feel the need to refer to *him as “they” in conversation. Last time we hung out I was about to speak but stopped multiple times because I realized that I needed to change my language to “they” and when that happened, I just decided to shut up instead of roll over. Actually going through the process of calling someone “they” is actually horrible because I felt like an obedient servant dog while I was doing it. I'm sorry, but I’m about to get “non-binary phobic” over here. These people need to stop it, especially because they just ruin their own lives and confuse people for nothing.
I feel you. My partner, who I always thought was a wonderful and smart woman, decided she was non-binary nearly 2 years ago.
It’s been rough and I finally had the guts to tell her how I feel about it, and my opinion on it. Calling her they/them actually dehumanized her in my eye, because non-binary doesn’t mean ANYTHING. Being non-binary has no essence, it’s just another way to say you are non-gender conforming, but with more steps and bonus headaches, and they wear it like a label as if there whole life revolved around it. Suited for people who have no strong sense of self.
We are still in a relationship but conversations are difficult, and I can‘t freely talk about topics anymore because I just have a different opinion, and this triggers her to no end.
I love her, but I don’t think this makes sense, anymore. In fact, as the weeks go by, I feel myself respecting her less and less, because how can she be so stupid to fall for this ideology. She studies philosophy but never questions her own beliefs, doesn‘t like discussions, and claims to be a critical thinker but her arguments are riddled with logical fallacies and cognitive dissonance. I don’t know what to do, anymore, but I also don’t want to give up on her. She calls herself a non-binary lesbian- I laugh because it doesn’t make sense. And then I cry, because where is the woman I once held in such high regard- gone. Just gone.
She is confusing herself, others, and I think her mental health will only worsen as she continues down this path.. because it will never be enough. Wearing a label as an identity is not personal growth.
@@maystrehmel4615 I would guess that your partner does not have any significant religious or spiritual belief system to hold themselves to. As a person who has now found a religion, it really seems like people are using this “non-binary” movement as a replacement for spiritual growth. Like in this video, the woman found a religion to be a part of and that probably helped so much. One telltale sign for me is that whenever they are asked to define non-binary, they pretty much sound the same as asking a person about their feelings around God. I for one believe in God, but because the divinity of God falls out of reach of knowledge, I am sometimes only going to be able to go off of my feelings and experiences. If I were asked how I know God exists, I might say some other things, but would come back to “this is how I feel” and that’s supposed to be okay because that’s how religion works.
It doesn’t work to say that “non-binary is how you feel” because it’s not even based in anything or any established tradition or belief system. (This is probably why they make up their own history.) It’s also worse because they pretend that it’s objective reality and make all other people believe it. They have become the dogmatic religious people they once rebelled against.
It’s a bit sad and difficult because people like this have basically gotten themselves into a religious beliefs system, while thinking it’s purely scientific and logical. At this point, the only way to understand it is that they are part of a cultural religion where they have replaced the concept of “God” with the concept of “gender identity”.
@@ryand1404 while I disagree that every individual needs a spiritual belief system or a religion to ground themselves, I do agree with your sentiment behind it.
I don’t have a spiritual belief or a religion, but I have a strong sense of self- I suppose that equates to some spiritual belief :)
Thank you for your reply. I feel less insane knowing I am not the only one.
@@maystrehmel4615 Oh I didn’t mean to infer you need a religious or spiritual beleif system to ground yourself. Only that everyone needs their own *individual belief system based off of our own observations of the world, (which could include religions in my opinion), otherwise we become susceptible to other belief systems. Perhaps if your partner works on their own core system of beliefs in whatever ways, then things might change for the better. I think it’s just that when we are unsure of ourselves as individuals, that we are more likely to listen to other people, even when they make little sense.
7 year!!!! Hell ya!!!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
It will be the big 8 June 5 🎉🎉🎉
@@Visarealgirl You go gurl!!!!! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Celebrating your strength and story 💥💥💥
Soooo I'm a menopausal woman .
I can't have babies ect..no monthly headache can I be non binary? Jk..I'm still a biological female lol I want to identify as menopausal and angry lol ..
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I'm only 6 minutes into this one but this is one of your good videos, so far, IMO. There's absolutely no question that this stuff needs to be addressed. Addressing it isn't going to bring about "peace in the middle east", as the saying goes, but that doesn't mean it's not worth doing. I really do love your channel for what it is -- when you're not baited (by anybody) into biting off more than you (or any one person) can chew.
What a refreshing conversation! Thank you @Visarealgirl !
Straight up! I found the Jubilee debate with Blair and started to dig deeper and suddenly felt like I could breathe again when discussing social and political issues. From there I found you Buck, Marcus, Brad Polumbo, Amala Ekpunobi, Amir Odum. I also used to identify as pan but have since moved to just bisexual. A lot has changed in the last decade from where I used to stand.
Vee is really amazingly smart!
Being able to speak so fluidly and quickly straight from one's thoughts is a gift.
Ohh the English professor who dismantles the language - Kathleen Stock! So good!!
@@chigirlali yes! I think I posted the link in my pinned comment ! If not I’ll will post it again for those who want to watch!
Our mindset nowadays is ridiculous. My father was a lifelong Democrat and a homophobic. My father-in-law was a lifelong conservative and fine with gay folks. You have to look at people as individuals, not party members. Think about what is best for you.
I'm glad she brought up injecting in public, junkies don't even do that. The world really doesn't need to watch people glorifying shooting up. I'm surprised TH-cam and Tik Tok allow it.
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Hey Buck! Hope you and your family are doing well! Also sending Vee some love as well! ❤️❤️❤️
Love from Washington State! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you :) 🙏🏻 love to you as well !!
Maybe I was lucky/unlucky and my body didn’t change much- very small chested and no body fat possibly due to being in sports and having high metabolism. But I didn’t feel very feminine for three or more decades. Now that perimenopausal symptoms have arrived, I am getting curvier. Being in a human body is weird! ❤
Those headphones are adorable 🥰
@@neowolf09 they are all I had to use for the interview 😂😊 I love them too they light up haha
Having a lot of talking points doesn't make you 'smart'; listening does. Glad you listened.
Awe this girl is such a sweetheart. I’m so glad she found her way out of that sea of lies. And girl, none of us feel any sense or direction… I’m 36 and I don’t know wtf is going on anymore lol. We’ll all find our way… hang in there. ❤
Thank you so much Lainey !
I hope you have her on again sometime, she seems very sweet, I love her personality!
Great interview, what a lovely and engaging guest! And a very eye-opening inside view into the world of trans-activism! I'm not even trans or anything, just a regular 50 year old "cishet" married lady 🤣! But I was quit far into the "woke" mindset. I worried about everything, I wasn't this or that enough and I couldn't say this or that... I used to tell my (Israeli) husband off all the time, no you can't say this, you can't say that! It's such a relief to have found you and others, and to realize I don't have to censor myself and others all the time, and I don't have to be "woke" to be worthy. Thank you Buck 🧡
I really love your channel and I think you are so wise and caring! I love your guests too! God bless you all!
The whole non binary thing is such a fad. I understand people can feel androgenous or like they don't fit gender norms of masculine/feminine - but that doesnt mean you're some special "non binary" person. Just be yourself without needing a label and needing others to treat you like you're special.
It was a beautiful happy accident that brought me to Buck and Blair. I love both of you and I appreciate the content. You and Marcus and Blair have taught me so much about what the current ideology of trans movement. My sibling unfortunately falls into the trans trender and has become quite abusive with their transition.
Thank you for bringing up androgyny, what did happen to her?!?!? Non-Binary basically just sounds like androgyny, I'm not sure the need for this new term...
@@TyneeBubbles YES 💯
Thank you ❤ both of you are helping me beleive that there is a hope in this crazy world for the kids.
Thanks for the interview. She seems sweet and I live very close to Chicago so she's practically my neighbor. That said, I'd point out that being conservative isn't a bad thing. They are good people, who are often demonized with a lot of lies being pushed so nobody switches parties. Neither party represent the same people or ideas that they used to. We can no longer depend on what others tell us. It's time to really look deep into all of it.
Both of you are Heros.
That give me Hope. I am not Gay and not Trans I am only a Woman that is Born as a Woman. When i was a Kid I think to that i whant to be a Boy . I am Happy that i am not a Boy. My Kids are never born when i am a boy. I have 3 Kids.
Kids forget that they will never have Kids if they Change his Se*. They can Adopt Babys ok. But that Baby is from who?? Not from yourself. And when you Change your se* there is no Way back... Your se* is gone FOREVER!!!
Think about it, if you can!
I was diagnosed with bpd at 15 and have taken many years to mature out of it as much as possible by self analysis constantly. It was a huge help to bring logic to my brain.
I was addicted to heroin/fentanyl for a decade. I survived, thankfully.
I've been sober for a few years and I'm so happy I wasn't young at this time now. I probably would have been sucked in because of my bdp. I think this idealogy targets the mentally ill.
I'm glad you're here to try to change that Buck. It's very wrong what they are doing.
Great video and great guest,
Ive just got the DSM-5 Book Going to start reading it when the videos finished ✌🏻
exhibiting an amalgamation of harsh and exaggerated male + female physical attributes is the last thing i think of when i imagine a sexless entity.
We've definitely got to hit like, subscribe and comment to get Buck out there for more people to see. Let's push him to the algorithm!
@@PrickedByThorns 🥳
I think Dylan has one thing motivating him, and that is to make it big as a celebrity. He'll do anything to become famous, and he uses the trans thing as his springboard to fame.
I literally recently posted pictures of Boy George and David Bowie on X saying that it’s not getting more non-binary and queer than that and was actually mocked for it🤦🏻♀️
Buck, U RULE!
"Non-Binary" in a system with two parts is meaningless....
Vee your so smart, beautiful and very knowledgeable... you like Buck are saving and going to save many many children and teens
I just love her! What a sweetheart! Soooo glad as she got out of the dangerous nonsense!
Thanks for sharing your experience. I want to share the video with someone, but I have to gauge where their feelings are as to not put them on the defensive.
She is sooo cute and has such a lovely personality. What an engaging and honest conversation. 👍
@@heartovfire thank you so much ! ☺️ 🥹❤️
Thank you, Vee and Buck! ❤
Buck, I would love to come on your show. I am a man, but I lived as non binary for 3 years. I was indoctrinated by social media, and I have an interesting take on how social media is effecting the trans and LGB community.
I suspect Dylan didn’t even physically transition. The voice hasn’t changed in all this time.