"I'm Culturally Japanese ..." (Black in Japan) | MFiles

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  • In this episode of The Melanated Files (MFiles) we introduce Tiffany, an American citizen who was born and raised in Japan. Not only is Tiffany culturally Japanese, but her native language is also Japanese. Watch as she shares her experience living in Japan without knowing she was black and the identity crisis she faced when she moved to America for six years. Watch to hear her story.
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  • @TheBlackExJp
    @TheBlackExJp  5 ปีที่แล้ว +854

    Thanks for watching! Stay tuned for weekly videos on the black experience from across the globe.

    • @sherrilewis5137
      @sherrilewis5137 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I think that you would have a very interesting conversation with another TH-camr. Her name is Maryjane Byarm. While she was not born and raised in Japan. She has lived there for many years and looks to be perhaps you age.

    • @oludummo4593
      @oludummo4593 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You are african.nippon.or.afroasian.but.you.are.african.bantu..period

    • @salihmorta4172
      @salihmorta4172 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      man i really feel bad for this girl, america confused her so much knowing history is one thing but the whole im more black than you thats just Hate mentality its shameful

    • @salihmorta4172
      @salihmorta4172 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      chill bro she's human the rest is up to her @@oludummo4593

    • @brendahobbs4486
      @brendahobbs4486 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Glad you are able to enjoy your life . American's are racist which is very very sad.

  • @hisaparistokyo
    @hisaparistokyo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2562

    You're Japanese Tiffany. Just like me and all of us "Japanese nationals". The passport and the colour don't define you, if you speak fluently Japanese, understand the culture and think you're Japanese, you are Japanese. We are very proud of having you here.

    • @yukoyamada1958
      @yukoyamada1958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @selamselam1756
      @selamselam1756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      I can’t wait to Japan and Korea. This world needs people like you.

    • @REE-er2wd
      @REE-er2wd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This!

    • @Truhandle91
      @Truhandle91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      That's how we see it in Russia too

    • @arrowsaurus7561
      @arrowsaurus7561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Well imma study some Japanese cause I need to join you bois

  • @mrs.k9785
    @mrs.k9785 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1295

    I could watch her talk all day. She's so naturally beautiful.

    • @brendan1675
      @brendan1675 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hasn't been brainwashed by the left

    • @vuyaniphindani3179
      @vuyaniphindani3179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh yes,she is 😘

    • @leafster1337
      @leafster1337 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tia Bear its a joke on how radical left women are ugly

    • @dare_challenge_a_god1536
      @dare_challenge_a_god1536 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Tia Bear Cause TRUMPTARDS DONT SELL THEMSELVES NOWADAYS!!

    • @leafster1337
      @leafster1337 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tia Bear no he meant uglies steer left bc they feel victimized which is very slightly true but not by much

  • @antunesmiguel3785
    @antunesmiguel3785 4 ปีที่แล้ว +884

    Don't get the dislikes, It's so rare to find such and interesting Interview.

    • @xeno4693
      @xeno4693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Every video has dislikes no matter what. It’s either bots or racist people.

    • @saturnargentavis1901
      @saturnargentavis1901 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@xeno4693 so just because she is black and someone downvotes they are automatically racist? Wonder why this type of talk ONLY comes up in black videos. Maybe ppl just didnt like the video

    • @lexibrowning7447
      @lexibrowning7447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Saturn Argentavis I mean can you think of any other reason. This interview was amazing and really eye-opening.

    • @dee3489
      @dee3489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Her experience is different from the Japanese half black half Japanese guy he said they told him he was not Japanese you can look him up 2 on youtube

    • @giselabauer4439
      @giselabauer4439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Jealous envy and ignorance

  • @dusk5956
    @dusk5956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +532

    I am a Japanese-American. She is culturally more Japanese than I am, and I am okay with that. Love to see people finding their place in life!

    • @yukoyamada1958
      @yukoyamada1958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ❤️

    • @Wenkyplays
      @Wenkyplays 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Your just American.

    • @jdamourep
      @jdamourep 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@Wenkyplays no they are both. They said what they said. I'm Jamaican-American. Because, it refers to my ethnicity and my parent's place of origin. All my family originate there.

    • @TheSamuelbest12
      @TheSamuelbest12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Saturn sweetie, you're just unitedstadian, not japanese at all, you have japanese ancestry and that's okay

    • @DanieB322
      @DanieB322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Samuel bum you don’t know her/ him. And you have no right to tell someone who they are. Maybe he/she is from Japan and grew up in America. It’s okay to be both.

  • @CookieFridays
    @CookieFridays 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6426

    I honestly think Americans need to remember that not every black person around the world identifies with black American culture or the struggles that people face in America. Even black Canadians may have a different experience despite also being in North America. I'm afro-latina and I only realized all these concepts about cultural appropriation etc. because of the internet when I was like in my mid-20's. Sometimes I feel like the african-American experience is the one speaking for us all because of the media that's being exported all around the world, when in fact, black people have so many different cultures depending where we were born in the world. Even worse are the stereotypes portrayed by the media.

    • @gorryumbul9031
      @gorryumbul9031 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Facts 💯

    • @monimuppet6132
      @monimuppet6132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +469

      Careful with that. Every Black American doesn't have the same experience either. If you run too far with the idea that America is the center for racial identity issues, you may be ignoring the feelings of someone right next to you. Racism didn't start in the U.S. and it certainly hasn't been cured in every country that isn't the U.S.

    • @ckuo3325
      @ckuo3325 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Thank you. Even the fact that "black" is used so carelessly when it denotes internalized colonialism...

    • @wekselbaum
      @wekselbaum 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Shantel Caynes There are Canadians who wouldn't limit racism to a solely American experience. Honestly some of y'all just have obvious self hate issues.

    • @LindaTinahTV
      @LindaTinahTV 5 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      True. Even black Africans don't relate to so many black American struggles when we are expected to as fellow black people.

  • @roderickmontgomery2673
    @roderickmontgomery2673 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1062

    Wow that says so much ."I feel more free in Japan than America."

    • @forgottenpalace4472
      @forgottenpalace4472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I even feel more free here in the UK than the US where I grew up.

    • @julliusblackwell6239
      @julliusblackwell6239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's not because of the white people

    • @xMista93x
      @xMista93x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@julliusblackwell6239 no but it's part of it.
      It has to do with authority. I wonder if this lady has ever been arrested before. I heard the criminal justice system is worse in Japan. And that's saying something when comparing to America

    • @pervysage4934
      @pervysage4934 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      it's because Japan has no history of oppressing black people, that's always going to weigh on Americans

    • @candicemassey7365
      @candicemassey7365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      As an adult I feel more safe in Asia. My kids are safe. I never have to worry about my daughter, my son or my husband leaving the house and coming back safely.

  • @moanaandmaui405
    @moanaandmaui405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +627

    "I saw color but I didn't see race"
    Powerful ✊

    • @ahalpert
      @ahalpert 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Bc race is a construct, it's not real

    • @timmusoni6960
      @timmusoni6960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ahalpert um race is real, and relavant but i appreciate the interveiw

    • @BettyCollins88
      @BettyCollins88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@timmusoni6960 "There is no subgroup between the immediate breeding population and the species" said Adolphe Reed. "Race is not real, it is a tool to demean people or achieve some end" said Toni Morrison. If race is real, then define it. You'll see that it has had different definitions over the last couple hundred years as defined by whoever the ruling class was at the time. A popular example, the Irish were considered a different race by Anglo-Saxons, now they are considered part of the same race in America. Germans sought to define Jews as a different race and history shows us how wrong that was and what their real cruel intent was. If race is skin color than Indians and Africans are of the same race. If it is hair texture then Indians and Europeans are the same race. But race is a fantasy, a particular technology of hierarchy and oppression. It has no basis in biology or culture or reproduction. It exists bc wealthy and powerful people, at certain points in time, have said it exists and spent a lot of energy convincing the masses for personal gain. A lot of money and power rests on the historical supposition of race. Read Orientalism by Edward Said. He explains the historical construction of the so-called "Orient" by prominent Europeans. Just as people before us believed fantasies we cannot begin to comprehend, like witchcraft, our epoch is defined by a belief in the completely fictitious concept of race. We are no more enlightened despite all our science. In fact science is often limited by the erroneous conclusion that some biological issues are somehow attributable to so-called race. The US is the only country that does not take socio-economic data into account when dealing with public health. In its stead is that ever nebulous "race." So follows the narrative that Native Americans and black Americans die earlier than white Americans because of race or culture instead of the harsh reality of their/our socio-economic situations. You can see how the concept does more harm than good. Where does one race start and the other stop? What about black Americans is inherent to all black Americans such that we could be called a different race? It is a lie to conceal the very real intermixing of various ethnic groups, both black and white and other, that actually occured here, in tragedy and otherwise. Race was solidified as a construction during Jim Crow and during the Neoliberal period to justify economic oppression and social stratification. Are North Africans and Arabs a black race or white? The mental gymnastics you have to jump through to maintain the ideology of race is unfortunately all that is real here.

    • @SuperKamiGuruu
      @SuperKamiGuruu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BettyCollins88makes you think

    • @shanevan1
      @shanevan1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@timmusoni6960 Well, the way used for humans doesn't make sense. It is predicated on the idea that a few minor differences make an entire different race...(this is actually used to say that black people are a lesser life form back in the day.) But as noted in scientific american: "Racial categories are weak proxies for genetic diversity and need to be phased out".
      Different bone structure, melanin etc. don't make a different race. That's like saying a bulldog and a German shepherd is not of the dog race, cause of the differences. There is simply the human race and variation within that kind.

  • @sinclair657
    @sinclair657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1854

    My dear you are Japanese, don't get drawn into the racial divide of the West.

    • @khanoms.4576
      @khanoms.4576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      She's Japanese, but the way that she speaks and her mannerisms are very Black American, not Black-Japanese.

    • @josepha-michalwalker1261
      @josepha-michalwalker1261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Or the racial divide of Japan either. Very vain people who want to try to say who is Japanese.

    • @khanoms.4576
      @khanoms.4576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      The former Miss Japan, who is 1/2 Black has experienced many racial issues and many in her country did not want her to represent them, because they felt like she wasn't Japanese enough. Also, many Koreans experience prejudice there.

    • @khanoms.4576
      @khanoms.4576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Also, how can skin color not matter in a place that is obsessed w/ pale skin and bleaching?

    • @josepha-michalwalker1261
      @josepha-michalwalker1261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @Anthony Torres she defines herself no one else. If you're born in a country you're a native of the country. But some countries legally build institutional racism in to their policy.

  • @ORGANICsoulJAZZ
    @ORGANICsoulJAZZ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2376

    "I saw color, but I never saw race" wow.

    • @cooliipie
      @cooliipie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Same

    • @michellehubbard8865
      @michellehubbard8865 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      I wish all humans were like that.

    • @Cazarace
      @Cazarace 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Japanese people are very polite if there are cameras but do not be fooled by these images. They are still very racist. Much much more so than White people.

    • @ORGANICsoulJAZZ
      @ORGANICsoulJAZZ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      @@Cazarace i get that they are racist, but really... more than white people.... bit of a stretch there...

    • @povyi9394
      @povyi9394 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Japanese is not as racist as Chinese in China

  • @Staceymojo
    @Staceymojo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +820

    Her smile is sooo infectious. Her intellect is amazing. Her beauty is admirable. That’s it I’m moving to Japan. I’m from the islands and never came across racism til I visit the States.

    • @pinktaco646
      @pinktaco646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      which country?

    • @wilsonjilala8402
      @wilsonjilala8402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome home! Tanzania is your nice home

    • @TonkaGoldman-xd5iw
      @TonkaGoldman-xd5iw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Good choice. You will be treated as a second class citizen unless your father makes them.lots of money.

    • @caribbeangirl7876
      @caribbeangirl7876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      From the Caribbean, we only dealt with light skinned and black. We accepted everybody. There was NO prejudice.

    • @swordis45
      @swordis45 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@caribbeangirl7876 according to which island, there is prejudice in Trinidad

  • @MultiWhit3
    @MultiWhit3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    Wow! I love this girl!! She said "in Japan we see color not race" why is that so hard for americans to understand???
    You are beautiful and I love your story ♡ thank you for sharing.

    • @Ajcruz913
      @Ajcruz913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's shoved in our faces constantly by institutions that benefit from the division

    • @LJE3
      @LJE3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      This country (USA) was FOUNDED on a race hierarchy.
      Americans will NEVER "understand" that.

    • @auraaudrii7272
      @auraaudrii7272 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Because this is America the land of lies 🤣🤣🤣

    • @tamekahiggins6460
      @tamekahiggins6460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don’t fully agree with that , i lived in Japan for three years and it’s sad but that was the first place I encountered racism 🥴

    • @MultiWhit3
      @MultiWhit3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tamekahiggins6460 its sad that racism is everywhere. And you are right. I mean just looking at how Asians make sure they don't tan to keep their skin as close to white as possible, is the the perfect example of racism there. I cant imagine how the possibly are with those of darker complexion. But, to my comment, I really like that she was treated as one of their own, without judgment. Or the how she said that they didn't associate her complexion with race. That is something I pray we can engrave in the hearts of the future generations, bc i have little faith for the previous one (not everyone of course).

  • @abibie12
    @abibie12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    She has a priceless set of teeth. I wish we had heard or read the questions

    • @ArlynSolorzano
      @ArlynSolorzano 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I noticed the same

    • @whi2gan
      @whi2gan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I thought that the entire vid...must've been those Ibaraki vegetables🥬🍆🍅🤣👌

    • @mdgarner1
      @mdgarner1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was definitely thinking this same thing. Without the questions to put things into context, it made it seem like she rambled on and on and on for nearly an hour.

    • @stewartrv
      @stewartrv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! Even if they had them as captions on the screen as she answered it would have made more sense...

  • @miaodekat5918
    @miaodekat5918 5 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    A very bright girl that talks and thinks with depth, and most importantly no superficial statements...

    • @user-xx7pg3vw9k
      @user-xx7pg3vw9k 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Miao De Kat This is part of Japanese education. They actually WANT their people tombe thoughtful.

  • @agirlcanmack
    @agirlcanmack 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2259

    She’s giving me some serious Kelly Rowland vibes (circa early Destiny’s Child days)

    • @teerich2011
      @teerich2011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes I'm seeing it too, especially when I paused video ar 7:44!

    • @raiethefantibae
      @raiethefantibae 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!

    • @rlee1231
      @rlee1231 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      agirlcanmack I do see it!! Wow!!

    • @loridori
      @loridori 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Definitely Kelly's little sister that she hasn't met 😂

    • @EbonyJoneskuye
      @EbonyJoneskuye 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because they got to pretend.

  • @ejiroubas3920
    @ejiroubas3920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    She's so pretty, cute and smart. Daughter goals.

  • @caitlinbrown884
    @caitlinbrown884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    when I started watching this video, I was like 42 minutes are too long ugh, but I just finished watching the whole thing!! Her experience was very fascinating and I did enjoy listening to her sharing her story!! She is wonderful!

    • @jacinthberyl5817
      @jacinthberyl5817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I didn't notice it was 42 mins till I read your comment

  • @Chalize
    @Chalize 5 ปีที่แล้ว +536

    Her experience in Japan is really positive. You can tell how much she loves the country. I am glad she is back in Japan and I hope her experience stay positive.

    • @yahelfinsterwald8550
      @yahelfinsterwald8550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I was told the way Japanese people see it, if you are raised and know how act and follow Japanese social rules, you are Japanese, no matter the color . You will be treated with the same respect as everyone else. However, if you move to Japan, even if you look Japanese but have not been raised by American parents for example, and thus you do not know how to follow their social rules, they will avoid you like the pest and will not consider you to be Japanese at all. So for the Japanese, it is not about how you look, it is the socialization , manners and language that matter to them.

    • @williamsbaffour6746
      @williamsbaffour6746 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is a disgrace to enter black race

    • @Chalize
      @Chalize 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@williamsbaffour6746 hater

    • @williamsbaffour6746
      @williamsbaffour6746 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Chalize evridy black we get a lost cheald and that's great concern for aware enter black race

    • @monohina1997
      @monohina1997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      PokeMe don’t even respond they comment negative stuff under every commenter this person is just bitter and jealous of this girl

  • @user-tl4xg5cj6j
    @user-tl4xg5cj6j 5 ปีที่แล้ว +568

    As a japanese,i'm so glad to hear her opinion.
    Go for it, as a japanese citizen with us😉

    • @NellieKAdaba
      @NellieKAdaba 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ばかーんいやーん 👍 wonderful

    • @bobbyclemente21
      @bobbyclemente21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah, some of us would like Jpnse citizenship. Start with haafu and Nikkei who live and work in Japan and who love Japan. :)

    • @ololusername
      @ololusername 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @OneAboveAll that isn't reality at all

    • @bobbyclemente21
      @bobbyclemente21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @OneAboveAll There's still racism. Don't be naive.

    • @dare_challenge_a_god1536
      @dare_challenge_a_god1536 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like anime

  • @TeliahSwint
    @TeliahSwint 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    My proudest accomplishment “surviving America” ✊🏽😣 that’s deep. I love this young lady! I’m headed to Japan myself and she managed to soothe some of my anxiety. Thank you Tiffany!

  • @chronocross85
    @chronocross85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    My cousin was born in Jamaica and he look straight up like Jackie Chan but with a Jamaican accent lol

    • @MrLawalker
      @MrLawalker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That is awesome!!

    • @SSDevin
      @SSDevin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🤣😂🤣

    • @loismorgan1603
      @loismorgan1603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      There are a lot of Jamaicans who look like that hun. There is just not a large concentration of them who migrate. Hence why it is so rare to you.

    • @techdiva4cybersecurity
      @techdiva4cybersecurity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      We have people from all over Asia in Jamaica. They are Jamaican.

    • @AuntieSenSen
      @AuntieSenSen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lois Morgan Facts! It’s not strange for us 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

  • @tooserious70
    @tooserious70 5 ปีที่แล้ว +851

    "I saw color but i didn't see race" that's deep

    • @algonzalez6853
      @algonzalez6853 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      color defines your race, she was just not informed

    • @HeyYouLaLa125
      @HeyYouLaLa125 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@algonzalez6853 MMmm... I wouldn't say that. I think the word you're looking for is ethnicity. the concept of race divides based solely on skin color, based on which skin color is the best (which is dumb) but Ethnicity connotes shared cultural traits and shared group history. You can have tons of ethnic groups in one country (think tribes) Not every tribe shares the same culture and experiences. Try to define someone solely on their skin color is unfair and doesn't make any sense, because skin color is a physical characteristic only. It's similar to saying someone with a tan is better than a pale person, and no one would be able to give a comprehensive answer of why that is.

    • @algonzalez6853
      @algonzalez6853 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@HeyYouLaLa125 she will never actually be japanese, period.

    • @algonzalez6853
      @algonzalez6853 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Cant_Touch_This blah blah

    • @rijiriju
      @rijiriju 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yes, skin deep. race goes beyond skin tone

  • @Devinediva111
    @Devinediva111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +715

    It's a beautiful thing when a black person doesn't know what racism is. I love Japan! 💓

    • @ryker3508
      @ryker3508 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      They made her feel like a foreigner cause they never accepted her as a Japanese. That's typical of a person of colors experience in Japan.

    • @tanniquezenobia8690
      @tanniquezenobia8690 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I could say the same thing, leaving Jamaica and coming to England at 14 years old, it was the first time i knew that racism exist, cause for me coming up in jamaica all i see was a next individual as myself. it is so sad really.

    • @springgarden1
      @springgarden1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tanniquezenobia8690 is when my Spanish supervisor call police on me I experience racism 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲 Jamaica I say everyday🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲.

    • @luvcherry
      @luvcherry 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      many people like her experience alienation and bullying though Japan still has racist stereotypes about black folks I'm glad this girl had a good experience but that's not the standard

    • @myhome354
      @myhome354 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I learn from the killing of Dr King.

  • @clythgoe1
    @clythgoe1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Black is not a nationality. By default, she’s Japanese.

    • @deborahfuller2990
      @deborahfuller2990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Her race is black and her nationality is Japanese. She’s a black Japanese beautiful young woman

    • @tiannabobo1170
      @tiannabobo1170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Japanese is a nationality and race???

    • @princejaxisblack8789
      @princejaxisblack8789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tiannabobo1170 Japanese isnt a race, its an ethnicity and nationality tho. But from observing Japanese people it seems like if you are culturally and nationally Japanese then your ethnicity doesn't matter at that point, they consider you Japanese

    • @watarikeito
      @watarikeito 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No her nationality is not Japanese. She never received a Japanese passport

    • @KrabbyPattySecretForumla
      @KrabbyPattySecretForumla 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tiannabobo1170 The race for Japanese is Asian

  • @shorty63136
    @shorty63136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’m a 36 year old Black American woman & it made me sad for myself that she has the feeling of safety & internal confidence that I’m struggling to find. When she said she felt like she had to get out of the states or she’d be stuck there, I felt that. I’m so glad she left for herself.

    • @missflorencek8569
      @missflorencek8569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You can leave too. America is the worst place for us. So many places will embrace you and your humanity.

  • @HerAvenueCo
    @HerAvenueCo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +311

    I absolutely love living in Japan. I agree with Tiffany when she says she felt more like a foreigner than being "black".

    • @ryker3508
      @ryker3508 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah, like feeling like an outsider is a great thing..
      That's a testament to Japanese society's aversion towards non-Japanese.

    • @AAA-be6wk
      @AAA-be6wk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are what we call a want to be want to be anything but who you really are.. another negative illusion

    • @HerAvenueCo
      @HerAvenueCo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aamil Azim I’m not sure if your referring to Tiffany, Ryker or myself?🤔

    • @zeahbank4073
      @zeahbank4073 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wanna move there so bad is it easy to get residence ?

    • @AAA-be6wk
      @AAA-be6wk 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      How does it feel to be black is that some kind of feeling.

  • @vedac.9288
    @vedac.9288 5 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    Your teacher was really cool to take the time to find a match for your skin color so that you felt included. ♥♥♥

    • @lql1094
      @lql1094 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well if color/race is not really an issue there, and it was simply a class assignment (striving for accuracy) why would the teacher not try to find the right color?
      I think you guys are reading too much noble thoughts into a simple school assignment.

    • @Covers-and-Commentary
      @Covers-and-Commentary 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      LQL why take this comment so seriously its a good thing the teacher made it a point to do that 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @Tapiokapuddin
      @Tapiokapuddin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They shouldn't call the fucking crayon "skin color" in the first place, actually.

    • @whatsgood8452
      @whatsgood8452 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      IM WEAK

    • @allgoo1964
      @allgoo1964 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Tapiokapuddin says:
      "They shouldn't call the fucking crayon "skin color" in the first place, actually."
      ==
      Why not, if it works for over 90% of people.?

  • @alanathebespectacled
    @alanathebespectacled 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I hope this girl starts a TH-cam channel! I would love to see vlogs of her life in Japan

  • @melanieanne2066
    @melanieanne2066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I was born/raised in Japan, too. A lot of culture shock for me when I permanently moved the states when I was 17.

  • @cliffdoggchc4244
    @cliffdoggchc4244 5 ปีที่แล้ว +590

    wow, what a great kid, parents should be proud.

    • @theberrby6836
      @theberrby6836 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Totally.

    • @brownb6
      @brownb6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shon Gee I completely agree. I am happy to have experienced different cultures and to travel to other countries. Where do you live now?

    • @williamsbaffour6746
      @williamsbaffour6746 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is a disgrace to enter black race

    • @mejustbeingme1207
      @mejustbeingme1207 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shon Gee you've gone places lol. I've never felt so strange until i came here to america from living in Belgium for 9yrs. Even when i left Africa to Europe life was just transition because i had to learn french and sharpen my english as a young African child but that was it. They knew me as african and those french folks calling my native name was so funny but thats it. Color was never imposed on me or on other foriegners and we never were segregated. I also visited England twice because of family there and Paris just once then here i now live in America. My son will be leaving to Africa next month with me for the second time. My friend in Antwerp is inviting me next year but i let her know my 14 year old son will be there with me so she better deal with it lol. Reason why is because i want to instill it in his mind. Its unfortunate his dad is just like your family. He doesnt think he needs to travel out of Houston(only Louisiana) and i cant risk my son growing with that sort of mentality. Its my responsibility to make sur my son does not stigmatize himself. So my dear some people are just stock mentally but aslong as they are not in a blackgang war zone then you cant waste too much time trying to get them to see life. As for you fly and live life to the fullest. If you have kids sacrifice extra money and take them with you. I know Its expensive but as a father dont leave them behind so when they get older they'll have a mind just like yours. 💓

  • @urbangardenproject
    @urbangardenproject 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1807

    I worked for the Japanese Government for 8 years and by far I faced less discrimination than I ever did working for American companies. I had a very difficult time trying to transition to American corporate culture. I ended up leaving and working for myself. I couldn't adjust.

    • @Locopueblo
      @Locopueblo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      so based on your name and comment, i can assume you're back in Japan?

    • @urbangardenproject
      @urbangardenproject 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      No I'm in the states.

    • @ingenueblue8914
      @ingenueblue8914 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Do you speak Japanese fluently? That is great you worked for the government. Why did you leave?

    • @monsterkis
      @monsterkis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh word you can work in their government even as a foreigner that’s great! I was always worried that I couldn’t

    • @leod1510
      @leod1510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      I agree white corporate America has added stress in my life. Thankfully I work for an international company.

  • @sunnynyc_
    @sunnynyc_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    she’s a black, japanese woman. just as anyone can be a black latina. a black american. a black european. having a different ethnicity doesn’t affect your nationality. or race. ethnically she’s japanese. racially she’ll always be black. the world isn’t that small... and finally.... *black does not mean african-american*

    • @ryensolar4000
      @ryensolar4000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly!! "Black" isn't even our original name of our race. I am Aborigine. The original man. I am Indigenous to the planet, not just a continent.

    • @bwalto21
      @bwalto21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup

    • @kay6480
      @kay6480 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      👏👏👏

  • @ThrowDaLobHun23
    @ThrowDaLobHun23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Japanese culture is something i’ve always admired. Clean cities, clean streets, peaceful, respectful citizens.

  • @eleanorj563
    @eleanorj563 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1253

    I gave birth to my daughter in Japan and she was raised there for a few years. When she tells her American friends that she is from Japan, they look lost.

    • @LRey85
      @LRey85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Is she half Japanese? or did she grew up there? My brother was born in Italy, but he doesn't have Italian ancestry...although for his birth year he does qualify for citizenship if he performs community service for a certain amount of time. But if he says he's from Italy....we would just laugh. Does Japan offer the same as Italy for claiming citizenship? I lived in Japan and loved it, but I'm Latina and just enjoyed my life there....minus all the earthquakes

    • @Femmefatale32000
      @Femmefatale32000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂😂😂😂

    • @timefeatherstorm
      @timefeatherstorm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      they look lost because they are lost, they don't get it

    • @rijiriju
      @rijiriju 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      cause se is not from japan

    • @suckapunch565
      @suckapunch565 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      demonking I mean if that’s true, then how do you explain what is and isn’t American?
      Ethnically, 90% of the population isn’t American nationality-wise, but either European, African, Islander, Mexican, Indian, Chinese, Japanese, or Korean. (Some Arabic people there too) we only have a small amount of people who are ethnically American.
      And That’s why I particularly disagree there. We’ve had people of different races and ethnicities represent us.
      Nationality and citizenship are the same thing. What you are talking about is Race/Ethnicity. In America, if you are born in our country, you are of our nationality, meaning you are a citizen of the land. It may be a perspective thing, but it comes to show how that works even in other countries where they took in different races through colonization, slavery, etc.
      And the fact America won’t accept this girl as a US citizen means that she either is a Japanese citizen or she has no home to go to.

  • @HybridKoy
    @HybridKoy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    I love this human. Wise beyond her years. Thank you for sharing.

    • @vuyaniphindani3179
      @vuyaniphindani3179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I like her too

    • @homodeus8713
      @homodeus8713 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      HybridKoy She's a beautiful human being

    • @colistusgustave8664
      @colistusgustave8664 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      HybridKoy I love this human. That's a first. How do you know that she's human? She might be an extraterrestrial.

  • @TheRanaro
    @TheRanaro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Fascinating. She's a very lovely, well-rounded, well-cultured young lady.

  • @artcyshutes9834
    @artcyshutes9834 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    She's a black Japanese woman! PeriodT

  • @jawandalee3344
    @jawandalee3344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +910

    She called America a dark time & she made it through living here. Damn man 😂 I gotta get out of here!! 😂😂😂😂 I’m thinking about moving to Japan 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

    • @kemishana5158
      @kemishana5158 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Japan is BEAUTIFUL! I miss it so much 😩

    • @jeffdaman6969
      @jeffdaman6969 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Don’t believe the hype. Every country has its issues.
      My Friend moved to japan last year and hates it there.

    • @TT-hd2qt
      @TT-hd2qt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      JEFFREY yeah I hated japan so much (I lived in Osaka), it’s not what it’s made out to be.
      edit: And yes I’m aware that everyone has a different experience but please be aware that japan isn’t some amusement park, fantasyland that some of y’all make it out to be.

    • @Coffeeandcoffee
      @Coffeeandcoffee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

    • @crillz9660
      @crillz9660 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      shiiiiiit im going to japan to live at the U.A academy with midoriya and bakuguo

  • @cookiebaby27
    @cookiebaby27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Beautiful young Lady, hair and All. Don't change anything. Black is Beautiful!

  • @tmt66336
    @tmt66336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I agree with her totally, I've traveled all over the world and now I live in central Europe and I never feel discomfort until I get to America.

  • @Brittany-Powers
    @Brittany-Powers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    When she speaks Japanese she looks happier ❤️ I've been trying to learn Japanese 🙋 my family would discourage me wanting to learn other languages and thought I shouldn't want to like anywhere else or shouldn't want to move or visit anywhere else but now I'm on my own and finally able to try (: I love how fluent Tiffany is in both languages I hope to be like that one day

    • @Great_Lake_Surfer
      @Great_Lake_Surfer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Keep studying, I know you can become fluent !

    • @fayeinwonderland
      @fayeinwonderland 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep studying! DO what you love don't listen to those negative influences. I'm 30 years old and started studying Japanese just a couple weeks ago! I moved to the US from Italy 5 years ago, learned English in months, my family was very supportive emotionally but even if it was the other way around no one would have stopped me! Keep doing what you're doing!

    • @diyfreediver
      @diyfreediver 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Void Kim You’ll be fine. There are narrow-minded idiots in all countries, but they are outnumbered by good-hearted people. The biggest danger, in my opinion, is how Hollywood has traditionally depicted blacks/African Americans (actually all people of color). It’s changed for the better recently, but decades of that garbage has tainted how people have been introduced to people of color. But no worries, most people over here are going to treat you as an individual and not a stereotype. If you’re cool to them, they’re more than happy to be cool with you.

  • @ameenahsf
    @ameenahsf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +600

    Her speech pattern is very Japanese even when speaking in english. Shes beautiful , bright and seems very down to earth.

    • @Locopueblo
      @Locopueblo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      i thought the same thing but shewed away the thought. I thought it was a odd thing to say.

    • @indiejo7994
      @indiejo7994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I agree however her speech pattern makes it hard to follow her at times.

    • @tetsuyauezato5536
      @tetsuyauezato5536 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Miss Mena lets hear you speak
      Her speech pattern is normal. Shes trying to tell a concise and articulate story like any other young adult.

    • @monsterkis
      @monsterkis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      tetsuya uezato bro it wasn’t an insult get your insecure ass out of here

    • @ameenahsf
      @ameenahsf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@tetsuyauezato5536 I speak very well, thank you. You need a hug? Seem a little uptight there buddy. Nothing I said was an insult lol. I've studied colloquial dialects, speech as well as music (to which there are similarities), and just pointed out that her speaking rhythm is still in line with her native tongue (Japanese) even when speaking English. Yes she was also concise in her explanation but that's not what I was pointing out, now was it...

  • @andreajohnson.8021
    @andreajohnson.8021 5 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    I had to watch this video a few times because I'm mesmerized by this young lady's beauty. She's a breath of fresh air..So articulate and her smile is very welcoming.

    • @elizabethd.7662
      @elizabethd.7662 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Andrea Johnson . Yes she's amazing!

    • @TeaPips
      @TeaPips 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      What is it with people being so amazed by a black person being "so articulate"?

    • @brandonbrown6918
      @brandonbrown6918 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Have to agree with tea.... Its cool how genuine her expressions and how you can see how she is herself. Yet its weird, that you kind of single out that her speech is articulated...kinda sound like what tea is saying.

    • @andreajohnson.8021
      @andreajohnson.8021 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@brandonbrown6918Sometimes when a person is not articulate, it can be very difficult to comprehend what they are actually saying. It was singled out based on her life experinces in Japan and the United States, not her skin color. I'm a Jamaican female who watched the video without stereotypes.

    • @chrisokonkwo6313
      @chrisokonkwo6313 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's Kelly's sister maybe

  • @princesscake70
    @princesscake70 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    She is precious. What strikes me as interesting is that she is courteous the way Japanese people are....underscoring her belief that she is from Japanese culture.

    • @tiannabobo1170
      @tiannabobo1170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What? So to be courteous is a trait exclusive to Japan? She acts like many African Americans. Remember her parents are American so don’t do that.

    • @princesscake70
      @princesscake70 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tiannabobo1170 I've taught many Japanese students in ESL so I like to think I have some exposure to it. Her courtesy reminded me of the courtesy my students demonstrated. That's why I included the sentence "the way Japanese people are." That certainly doesn't mean she isn't courteous despite that and I do think Americans can be courteous for sure. I can't know for sure why she's courteous but does it really matter why? It's nice that she feels at home in that culture. Good for her. And not for nothing, but I wish people would wait on the defensiveness until they get more information or clarification. It makes for a nicer interaction.

    • @user-uu5jf3jo3o
      @user-uu5jf3jo3o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Be careful, many Japanese people are racist ... In the 90s, they used to kill their Black kids born from their African lovers .... Some Chinese and Korean people have a very hard time in Japan. One of my class mate’s graduating address at uni in China, was about that racism she faced. Because she was half Japanese and half-Chinese. Which the Chinese, despite the hundred-thousands deaths and tortures of the Chinese by the Japanese soldiers in the 30s (Cf. Nankin/南京), did not reject her for. Wake up. This young girl’s experience is “her” experience. Her fond heart attracks her alike. When you have a serene, harmonious and peaceful mind, our Creator goes ahead and prepares a perfect path for you. This is sth I often observed in life. Some have the same upbringing, same family, are even brothers and sisters and have totally different life experiences. While some people said they were experiencing racism in China, I was happily living with local people. We were 9, I was the only non-Chinese.

    • @princesscake70
      @princesscake70 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@user-uu5jf3jo3oIt's uncanny you commented. I was telling my husband how blacks feel at home in Japan, that the Japanese seems accepting and he said, they THINK that but they're fooling themselves. Japanese have a history of racism towards blacks. I was like, what? Then I researched it and even Japanese people say there is a lot of racism still. Perhaps the youtuber has been sheltered from it to some degree, or maybe she has found a way to ignore it. I like what you say about the serene, harmonious, peaceful mind. Perhaps she has manifested her own sense of calm and acceptance by thinking in a positive, loving way. I like that.

    • @user-uu5jf3jo3o
      @user-uu5jf3jo3o 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@princesscake70 Thank you for your comment! Yes, it is very difficult to know what is in a Japanese person’s mind. They are very pressurized in their society and respect so many codes, that you could say that in Japan:,« true » is just a shade of « false ». Spontaneity can be seen as a failure, or as gross. And yes, I think that just as me, she attracted people who are like her. As being born in Japan, I think that she can recognize hypocrisy when she meets it. As for China, after witnessing love affairs between Black people and Chinese people, and the pride of the Chinese elderly for their mixed kids, I know that racism is not deeply rooted in them. Although of course, some Chinese people can be very racist. But none showed me that side of China. But I also saw rude and violent behavior from Russian and African people (some Africans being my friends) towards the locals, that the Chinese see as racist and even mirrors the dark times of European colonialism, when they were looked down upon and treated as inferior. I just conclude that you have good and bad everywhere. The same scene experienced by me ended up being a happy experience and by a my African friends, just racism. All that because they copy-pasted their cultural references and lack of self-confidence on the Chinese, instead of just saying: « I do not understand, can you explain, please? ». One thing in China, they love having a foreign friend. Arab, Mixed, Black, Indian, White, all make them happy. So, in the streets, people often come to take a picture with you. No do not have a feeling of rejection as a Black person in China, unless it shows on your face that you hate or do not trust Chinese people. Personally, I often had complete strangers, of all age or sex telling me: I love you! They were happy to use the little English they new. But some guys were not that innocent. Chinese men cheat a lot. Wish you well, cheers!

  • @aquaruis99
    @aquaruis99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    So basically Usa has an issue with labels, they love to label people based off of race and when others fight those labels, they are then labeled as self haters.

    • @arrowsaurus7561
      @arrowsaurus7561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aquaruis99 you have 69 likes and the comment above has 690

    • @LeahAlexis1242
      @LeahAlexis1242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The problem enters when you glorify certain parts of "racial" features that are not inherently yours which define a standard of beauty (of which can be influenced where you are situated). For instance (in America), perming your hair so that you can fit a typical Caucasian standard when your hair isn't naturally that way because ___ "insert reasoning here"___. Another example would be to bleach your skin to fit a standard or " make yourself feel better about yourself" or any other justifications one could come up with. A concise way to say this is: to change oneself to fit a standard which does not come "naturally" to oneself based upon or steeped another's race. A better way to say this is: you are labeled as a self-hater when you outright reject things on the bases of race and stereotypes, whilst glorifying other racial facets. You aren't fighting a label by rejecting it, you are reinforcing said label and becoming "one of the good ones". You fight the label by forgetting the label exists and being you, completely you, without changing anything about yourself, because when you change something about yourself to "fight those labels", you become a part of the problem.

    • @lorettaknoelk3475
      @lorettaknoelk3475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very!! White people want to talk about YOUR race, but when you guess exactly which cross streets they are from due to thier speech, they get SUPER uncomfortable

    • @Jocelyn_Jade
      @Jocelyn_Jade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, labels don’t do anything in the end but further the divide. Labels create an “us vs them” mentality, labels are superficial and our ego attaches itself to anything to identify with. Our true identity is in ourselves and is untouchable, no matter what.

    • @themmmfamily7130
      @themmmfamily7130 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Solemn Solace predominantly America

  • @jaetok
    @jaetok 5 ปีที่แล้ว +664

    Further proof that being “Black” in the states is as American as Apple Pie. American Black is rooted in struggle and had to struggle to become individuals. Now imagine being Black but in the safest place ever. You truly saw color and was interested and did not see race and was uncomfortable. Thats a different kind of freedom as a Black person. I’m glad she got some perspective though. For me, travel is my break from my comfort zone. I hope to see Japan 🇯🇵 one day.

    • @Cazarace
      @Cazarace 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      You are fooled by these propaganda videos. Japanese don't even like White people being in Japan and never recognizes them as part of their nation. So imagine a Black person. You are not going to integrate well. It's great to visit and travel there, but living is another thing, just warning you.

    • @jaetok
      @jaetok 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@Cazarace I hope to SEE Japan. Not live. Even if I do want to live, I will at least see if it's possible none the less. I am very aware of how the Japanese view non-Japanese people. Everyone's story is different I know there are things she is not telling us but from what I hear, she has embraced that fact and made the most out of her reality.

    • @maryjosef1222
      @maryjosef1222 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @jeff c excuse me, do you by chance watch serpentza videos?

    • @maryjosef1222
      @maryjosef1222 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @jeff c jeff c Lol I like all parts actually. I introduced my Mother to him as well and she surprisingly enjoys his content. I have to say though my favorite thing is how he lays out little facts here and then so subtly that I could've never imagined is the normal way of living...For example did you know in china you won't find cold water? That's so crazy lol but anyways I'm surprised to know that you've heard of him haha that word you used to (gaijin) foreigner seemed familiar that's why I asked , I heard him use it.

    • @maryjosef1222
      @maryjosef1222 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @jeff c have a good day!

  • @angelastephens6315
    @angelastephens6315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I love her story! I lived in Japan as a child and loved it, it really changed me and my brothers. I'd love to go back!

  • @mcanna5115
    @mcanna5115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    As a half mexican half italian, that part of the USA that everybody needed to fit in a definition, it frustrated me a lot too! I'm me, why I can't be both italian and mexican?

    • @zakrowe1301
      @zakrowe1301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Why do you have to be either of those things and not just American. I'm British and I hate on forks that you have to put race- british. It shouldn't matter the colour of your skin or families ethnic history. Your nationality is where you're born, nothing else.

    • @jjay6432
      @jjay6432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Race and nationality are not the same thing, you can't choose your race.

    • @keller109
      @keller109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I couldn't care less so long as you bring the tacos AND the pasta! 😍

    • @charlesthomson1992
      @charlesthomson1992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      zak rowe Yes man. Fucking hell. It’s so simple to us Europeans (another Brit here) Americans always trying to be from somewhere else. Yes it’s boring. But you’re American. Not Italian. How many times do you hear Americans call themselves Italian?

    • @fayeinwonderland
      @fayeinwonderland 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@charlesthomson1992 THANK YOU. I had a discussion with my collegue just a couple days ago regarding this fact! He keeps saying he's Native American, Irish, Mexican, just because he had ancestors who were from those countries. He was born and raised in California, doesn't speak any language other than english, doesn't have a direct connection to those countries but keeps saying he's from bla bla bla. JESUS, you're just not! xD It's weird! I was born and raised in Italy from Italian parents and grandparents and I can say I'm 100% from Italy, if my grandparents were from America I wouldn't say I am American. WHY they can't understand??? This same situation happens every time with many people.

  • @lateshachanel
    @lateshachanel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    She makes me want to go to Japan even more now 💕

    • @artistxx8222
      @artistxx8222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The woman are hot!

    • @-_--_---
      @-_--_--- 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Latesha S. Hollinshed You'll probably just act and talk ghetto and not respect the people at all. Stay away from Japan nobody wants to deal with that type of energy.
      Your brain is probably not even advance enough to learn the Japanese language. "Latesha" and "Hollinshed" what a gross and ghetto name...

    • @pluto_luto
      @pluto_luto 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@-_--_---
      Must your criticism based on steortypes, go as far as insulting a person's intelligence?

    • @user-lz1rl5ek9i
      @user-lz1rl5ek9i 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yess please visit my country!

    • @cassmiller565
      @cassmiller565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Ken Kaneki I am half Japanese and speak it as well. I visit Japan every summer and I love it there. I love that foreigners from other countries get to visit beautiful Japan and experience their beautiful cultures. You’ve probably never been to Japan so I don’t know why you’re talking, but they’re so so welcoming to foreigners. I absolutely love visiting every year and Japan is definitely one the most open minded countries that I’ve visited when it comes to race/ethnicities. Japan is always spreading positivity and I honestly don’t know who you are trying to be some racist “gatekeeper” that’s probably never been to Japan anyways. Stay away from good people no one wants to deal with that type of energy.

  • @JOHNOII
    @JOHNOII 5 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    Her perspective and life are quite interesting to see someone who didn't grow up knowing what the western ideas of what a black person is, and not being affected by the stereotypes and expected norms of being black are is quite refreshing.

    • @Chalize
      @Chalize 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ikr. I envy her mindset. I used to think like her as well until I moved to Europe and someone called me the N word in high school =.='''. I couldn't imagine living in America. Race issues are always a hot topic...

    • @JOHNOII
      @JOHNOII 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @PokeMe : I live in London England , I travel to USA sometimes and England race issue are there but they are subtle compare to USA. I agree with you

    • @Chalize
      @Chalize 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True. Is really rare that people are racist to my face in UK. That's was the only incident I could recall.

    • @danielwhyatt3278
      @danielwhyatt3278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PokeMe That’s a relief to here.

    • @LilethioMamo
      @LilethioMamo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Her perspective is normal. In Ethiopia that’s how most people are raised.

  • @eastdallas36
    @eastdallas36 5 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    I love that she feels safe in Japan and not discriminated against.

    • @toastedtarts4044
      @toastedtarts4044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Terrenie Walton i love that too

    • @kushitefromrome5830
      @kushitefromrome5830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yet, I hear different. Btw.

    • @frenchchicken2799
      @frenchchicken2799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kushite FromRome China you mean? If you’re black in Japan and speak the language you should be fine

    • @kushitefromrome5830
      @kushitefromrome5830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No thank you. I really wouldn't want yo ecperience anything there. After I heard what a friend of mine experienced, had got merried and leaved there for a couple of years. He now hates them, because of rasicm.

    • @homersimpson4379
      @homersimpson4379 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      French Chicken Same for some other Asian countries.

  • @Me-ub2nj
    @Me-ub2nj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    What a beautiful articulate young lady! I lived in Japan for 3 years as an Air Force member. My youngest son was born in Misawa, it was a great experience. Thank you for sharing this beautiful story.

  • @antunesmiguel3785
    @antunesmiguel3785 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    People really can't see gold when they only looking for stones.If I ever had the opportunity to meet someone with such a rich and Unique mixture I would try to learn as much possible from her.

  • @marglenn3152
    @marglenn3152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    Tiffany I really think we as Black people need to stop allowing people to put "Black" in a box. Of course you're Black, that does not change no matter what country or language you speak. If you were in Russia, Greece, or Japan (as you are) your Blackness is not decreased. You don't need to answer certain questions, or have the same experiences as other Blacks, to be Black. You are Black and it doesn't matter if you can relate or not to other Black people. This never comes up with Whites. They can come from America, France, Germany, London, South Africa etc... at the end of the day they are white. I understand Blackness has been made complicated by racism, but we need to reject that! Again you are Black and it doesn't mean we need to have the same experiences, speak the same langauge or eat the same food. Black people are diverse!

    • @beautifulirawo1900
      @beautifulirawo1900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly

    • @noelsonkwa
      @noelsonkwa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks!

    • @Me-ub2nj
      @Me-ub2nj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you! Very well said! ❤

    • @samueljackson5232
      @samueljackson5232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      People don't understand the differences between black and African american. All African Americans are black, but not all black people are African American

    • @childfreechick2980
      @childfreechick2980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@samueljackson5232 true, some of us don't see the term "African American" as being exclusive to being black and American. I see it as a term that applies to the collective of immigrants born in a country in Africa, living in America. I don't refer to myself as African American, I use the term Black- American. After having my ancestors build this country and be here for hundreds of years, I'm not gonna let anyone detach me from my county of birth. I don't see anyone calling white Americans "Caucus- Americans" lol.

  • @nxamusic3601
    @nxamusic3601 5 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    she is so delightful and charming

    • @user-xx7pg3vw9k
      @user-xx7pg3vw9k 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ninoxka Music and gorgeous...

    • @nxamusic3601
      @nxamusic3601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@user-xx7pg3vw9k Beautiful!

  • @MbandiComposer
    @MbandiComposer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    In America, everything is about race and the cultural attributes that are supposed to come with it. I was born and raised in Africa and when I came here I could not fit into black culture because I didn't talk, dress like, or listen to the same music as most African Americans. I also obviously wasn't white and it was obvious that white people were very aware of the fact that I was black and some would ask me if they can touch my hair or if it was ok for them to say "black"; just generally walking on egg shells around me. Obviously this this didn't apply to everyone and it was 26 years ago in a small college in Pennsylvania so maybe things are different now. That left me in a position where I felt most comfortable hanging out with the other international students from Africa, Asia, Europe, Middle East, etc. Our connection had nothing to do with our skin color but simply the fact that we looked past that and saw each other for the person within. Our different cultures fueled our relationships because we could exist in a social universe were we truly celebrated each other's differences but more importantly did not use these difference as reason for segregation. Today I have friends from all over the world including black and white Americans. Once you get out of college and small town America, you meet more mature and enlightened people. People who have traveled the globe and understand that the world does not revolve around the US. As great a country as it is, there are other wonderful places in this world that are better at some things. Obviously I am American not and I absolutely love this country but loving that which is part of you without the capacity for introspection with an objective mindset, leads to arrogance and an ill-informed superiority complex.

    • @MbangaMan237
      @MbangaMan237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am from Africa , and never been in America before ..
      But i can say in the USA every thing is about Race and Culture and not America as a whole?
      am i wrong?

    • @neekyboo77
      @neekyboo77 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And you shouldn't have to. Thats sad.

    • @ndawon1
      @ndawon1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you go to Penn State?

    • @ChrisCypher
      @ChrisCypher 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      As an American, I feel that's one of our biggest issues, this thought of American "exceptionalism." We aren't the exception and we'd be much better off to objectively look at what other countries do well (instead of just what they do wrong) and learn from that instead of always feeling like "that works for them, but here in America we do THIS" even when a little humility would actually allow us to propel our country far forward.....but then again, to go along with the theme, ethnocentricism is also not unique to America.

  • @RiamsWorld
    @RiamsWorld 4 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    "Being black in America is knowing these things, having these things..." It's interesting because when I was growing up, I watched Fresh Prince of Bel Air, and for the longest time, I never understood why Will kept saying he was more black than Carlton because all I noticed was that Carlton was darker skinned than him, so it seemed weird that Will would claim greater "blackness". I didn't realize until I was older there was this cultural component of being black he was referencing.
    It's sort of funny how "blackness" she mentioned sort of excludes "Africanness" because the cultural things she mentions like Tupac are American, and I've had friends from Nigeria or have parents from Eritrea, and them being able to make Jollof rice and injera didn't really count towards them "being black" in America in the sense she mentioned and some of them really struggled to assimilate to "black culture" in America.
    Granted, she had American parents, so that may be a bit different from her perspective, but it's gotta be weird to come from Africa and be questioned on your blackness because you don't know enough American cultural references.

    • @ladylove34
      @ladylove34 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS!!!

    • @samueljackson5232
      @samueljackson5232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah that "blackness" is honestly "African Americaness." In American black and African American are used interchangeably even though they aren't the same thing.

    • @ify8584
      @ify8584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      This is so so true. African Americans sort of monopolise blackness. But then again, I think the social/cultural concept of 'blackness' exists in relation to racial relations. In Africa (black African countries, that is) there's no need to define oneself as black because that's really what everyone around is. We identify along tribal/religious lines rather than racial lines.
      The African American perspective tends to be a very limited view of the world though, because there are all these expectations they have of other black people, without realising that these 'prerequisites' are peculiar to America and American culture and don't represent the state of all black people around the world.

    • @mlzoppetti
      @mlzoppetti 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed. Also - I LOVE Jollof rice!!!!

    • @RoyalNykki
      @RoyalNykki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ify8584 When I was a kid, I was always told that I'm a white girl and I don't act black. When Americans say "I'm blacker than you" or "you don't act black" they are not speaking or referencing the whole world. They just mean you don't have any American black culture in you. It's just American slang that blacks use in America. For instance if I pick up a fork to eat a slice a pizza, a black American would say " Girl, pick that up with your hand and stop acting so white", and laugh .....

  • @taf9656
    @taf9656 5 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I didn't understand what she said because of my english but I like watching how she talk with smile and happiness.

    • @Noname-ni8qm
      @Noname-ni8qm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahahha u speak english ,also she speak with very good diction and not specific accent ,perfect interview to improve your skills

  • @I_am_milan
    @I_am_milan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +656

    She's so well-spoken & seems well-rounded.

    • @belindapierre-paul4637
      @belindapierre-paul4637 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That has nothing to do with what she's talking about all I here is black people hiding who they are in another race

    • @tedtalk882
      @tedtalk882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She is well spoken. Very uncommon for a darkskin female.

    • @slushymatis
      @slushymatis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@tedtalk882 You're obviously trying to troll.

    • @tedtalk882
      @tedtalk882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@slushymatis No troll here. Lol. It's just refreshing to see a darkskin female who speaks like she has sense and not wearing a lace front wig for a change.

    • @callalilly7xh
      @callalilly7xh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She speaks well and she's not crying and whining about being dark skinned. Dark skinned american women are all about their self-proclaimed victim status. Now that's refreshing!

  • @CandicePoe
    @CandicePoe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I can’t even imagine what it would feel like to not be seen as my race first, not to live my life as an “other”. It must feel so good.

    • @missflorencek8569
      @missflorencek8569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh sorry to hear. Come to Africa. You are just human here.

    • @LimKaamen
      @LimKaamen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You will experience that in anywhere in Africa right away.

  • @lunzhishitian8039
    @lunzhishitian8039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    l was quite shocked when Americans were talking about race of anime’s character . We never cared of it.
    And I agree with her that Japanese needs more conversation.

    • @brandydinsmore8214
      @brandydinsmore8214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you think the concept of politeness helps or hurts conversation? I took a very Japanese/Okinowan (Yoshukai) martial arts for three or four years till first black belt that really focused on Japanese culture more than just the acquisition of belts. And although it was a southern town, when you bowed and walked onto the dojo floor , you were not a color, you were measured by your zeal to learn and your following of the rules of courtesy. The Sensei said to the young people “do not come in this dojo and follow my directions and bow to me and then walk off the floor and disrespect your mom or dad.” But also, when we were on the floor, if something was hard or someone was tired of doing a certain exercise, if they said that out loud, everyone in the room cringed because they knew someone was going to do sit ups or be kind of put back in their place. And we all were going to have some extra exercise as well. The Sensei was a nice man but he was also very responsive to teaching correct action, correct words and correct intention or motivation etc.

    • @rebelife922
      @rebelife922 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      “Race of anime character ?”.....huh???

  • @dupremeweems4437
    @dupremeweems4437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +407

    The bit where she talked about they didn't speak on her brothers race when they saw a lost child... made me realize that just how obsessed with race american culture is. Immediately thought about cop profiles when that's the first thing you hear, and other casual situation where people ask you if youre mixed because you speak well or whatever... Damn... this was very eye opening...

    • @Theoanno7
      @Theoanno7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Right? That part was very revealing to me.

    • @ct5951
      @ct5951 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why would they speak on his race? It's Japan. It wouldn't be hard to find a Black child in a sea of Asian people.

    • @dupremeweems4437
      @dupremeweems4437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@ct5951 You're missing the forest for the trees here bruv.

    • @povelvieregg165
      @povelvieregg165 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @kayemen415 Are you sure any other western country would have immediately said it was a black child? I am Norwegian and I cannot say I've ever heard anyone being referred to by color in public in that way. Perhaps one of the best proofs of that is that I wouldn't really know what word to use for "black" in Norwegian, because I never really hear anybody say it.
      We refer to people by nationality. We may say Somali, Eritrean, Pakistani or Iraqi. We don't really talk about skin very much. We may say somebody is dark, but that is quite generic. It could mean a Pakistani, Iraqi or Somali person.
      If there is some crime, the police may refer to somebody speaking poorly Norwegian our sounding foreign. In some cases they may take it one step up and say the person looked middle eastern. The don't write skin color.

    • @childofGodsKingdom
      @childofGodsKingdom 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ct5951 please READ AGAIN!...Smh or please be quiet!

  • @shmayisraelhomez8160
    @shmayisraelhomez8160 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    How beautiful a world without stereotypes.

    • @web-angel
      @web-angel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      There are. They just aren't the same as in America.

    • @shmayisraelhomez8160
      @shmayisraelhomez8160 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @unidee617 Oh I know! I just mean in the world she lives in. It's an expression.

  • @clydecarter8411
    @clydecarter8411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Young Lady, I want to thank you for your honesty and your intellect. I am now a senior man from the island of Barbados, and this is the first time that I had such an honest presentation on the issue of culture and racial stereotyping. To me you have just successfully defended a dissertation on cultural anthropology. Keep your focus and don’t allow anyone to pollute your mind with the pandemic of racial ignorance, thanks for sharing your innocence with me.

  • @vanessa9046
    @vanessa9046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Couldn't relate more! Born and raised in Japan. Japanese is my first language, spanish my second, English my third. Moved to the states when I was 17..rude awakening lol

    • @butterflyluvr9967
      @butterflyluvr9967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A story I'd like to hear

    • @OLCtv
      @OLCtv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😳3 languages...sheesh, trilingual.

  • @DalhouseFitness
    @DalhouseFitness 5 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    i didn’t think about my skin color or identity until i came to america. This is very true.

    • @warizoh
      @warizoh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I hadn't thought about the way I spoke until an American came to my country and commented on it like there was something wrong. Like, Americans need to learn to mind their business tbh

    • @jilljackson3995
      @jilljackson3995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only if a black person is delusional💆

    • @moninaalphonse6209
      @moninaalphonse6209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Neither did I until I came to America.

    • @simonewright1120
      @simonewright1120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same and I'm from Jamaica.

    • @swishywishy3490
      @swishywishy3490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      when you live in a white controlled world, they make sure to remind YOU,
      that you are different and in a negative way.

  • @seayrossyaya28
    @seayrossyaya28 5 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    That’s my best FRIEND TIFFANY!!!

    • @veroniquendambo3242
      @veroniquendambo3242 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I visited Japan in a few years ago but my skin color was no issue and neither was I a curiosity. In fact, I felt welcomed the way I am.

  • @mirikaku5811
    @mirikaku5811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Tiffany is a proof that racism is a learned condition. I also grew up in another culture different from my ethnicity but never experienced being different except for positive attention I’ve got. I still feel that base is strongly there though traveling and living in many other countries I realized that racism does exist more or less by societies who makes it an issue...
    Tiffany is luckily that she has a base of knowing that Racism is not an obvious thing as she experienced growing up without presence of it. This, she will carry as her strength and security (security and peace has to come from within)
    That is why we need to protect our children so that they will have a good start in their lives and can grow up being safe and secure in their own skin and in person.
    Tiffany you are a cosmopolitan being and you have the choice to always choose the best of two worlds, always choose the best one for you and stick with it. Lucky girl 💕

  • @Gus.Galvao
    @Gus.Galvao 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I really cannot understand these people who come here and press the dislike button when there is such a huge topic in discussion and such an amazing person talking about such a valid experience. Very well done love, you are doing amazing! Thank you the channel for this amazing videos. I am black latino myself and I share the very same feeling here in Japan. I am completely in love with this country. I have grown so much in here as a person and human being. I am very proud of the person I am becoming just for being exposed to the culture. I LOVE Japanese people.

  • @christopherfunakoshi1272
    @christopherfunakoshi1272 5 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    As a Japanese man raised in a very sheltered (white wash) environment I can relate to this interview in so many different ways.

    • @Matryyooshka
      @Matryyooshka 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi there! Would you mind to share your experience?

    • @hisup7972
      @hisup7972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same I would like to hear you bro

    • @eli30013
      @eli30013 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes me too. 😊

  • @adiahtaylor7173
    @adiahtaylor7173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +338

    What people don't understand is that you can't fit blackness in a box. It's really cool that she is sharing her experiences because we all have different experiences. It is frustrating that people feel you aren't black unless you act or behave in a certain way. I'm really glad that she is confident in herself and is finding her identity.

    • @siramike2654
      @siramike2654 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i'm black but behave more like citizen of entire universe. you only talk race because you certainly do not know anything about life on earth, universe and fundamentals that govern universe. one thing i do know for certain is that your skin color isn't gonna stop you from aging and dying at certain stage.

    • @flaffycheez6899
      @flaffycheez6899 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I feel like the concept is that African American culture does not equate African decendants. People tend to assume that African American culture is something all people with African decent relate to, which is just not true. There is clearly an American next to this because it needs to be more clear to that effect. Usually people take the cliche pop knowledge of African American culture and equate it to all who are African decent which is a side effect of pop culture itself.

    • @flaffycheez6899
      @flaffycheez6899 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Noble Wolf yes the African in African American only specifies where our ancestors came from not who we are. Two different things. Also African Americans know African American culture which is not the same as American Culture. You have White American Culture, Asian American Culture, Indian American Culture and many more each is different in their own right. People who are not americans just see it all as American Culture because we share similarities in our cultures and live in the same country which is ignorant but they do it. Just the same as some ignorant people will group all african countries and their cultures into one which is also ignorant but all people generalize and its not only americans. This is the world we live in, there is so much diversity and the easiest way to get across without having to go into every single detail is to generalize.

    • @thereats3778
      @thereats3778 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!

    • @burlhorse61
      @burlhorse61 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Noble Wolf i'm an african who grew up in africa-why should an african american know african culture when they were not raised in africa??they are aware that their ancestors are from africa obviously.That does not make any more or less black.

  • @oralbrilliance3988
    @oralbrilliance3988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    What a Beautiful black Young Japanese girl,wow

  • @LoveRemains
    @LoveRemains 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This girl is very bright and has a wonderful head on her shoulders. She’s very good at articulating her thoughts and explaining things so people can understand. This interview was an absolute delight to watch. This girl will change the world for the better just by existing and talking, even if it is only the world of the people around her, it’s a start. 🌎❤️

  • @NinjaJerky
    @NinjaJerky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I love her voice.

  • @zenairzulu1378
    @zenairzulu1378 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    She is soooo real. So often we forget that culture we observe is made of people. She has found her way, navigating the strange waters of race and culture. I think her parents must have worked so had to provide her a stable childhood and a balanced identity and should be so proud.

  • @TradeandTour
    @TradeandTour 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    She is pretty

    • @MkurugenziMwenyekiti
      @MkurugenziMwenyekiti 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ...pretty smart.

    • @fjskajfjjvjas9289
      @fjskajfjjvjas9289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Mkurugenzi Mkuu shes pretty in general. Don’t be rude.

    • @MkurugenziMwenyekiti
      @MkurugenziMwenyekiti 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@fjskajfjjvjas9289 My apologies, I just commented on what's beyond the superficial.

  • @robonkenhout7965
    @robonkenhout7965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    When people ask “what you are”, tell them you’re a person. That’s all you need to know.

    • @boundariessetinstone5893
      @boundariessetinstone5893 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m Mexican, native Indian and Irish so f tired of that question.

    • @artistxx8222
      @artistxx8222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "What do I look like?"

    • @janaec5149
      @janaec5149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Great answer Rob. Sometimes I tell folks I’m an alien..😂🥰

    • @5hanti
      @5hanti 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I personally don't get offended by this question. I think a lot of the time it's just genuine curiosity rather than disdain, so I am usually happy to tell people what I am.

    • @zendytrendy9950
      @zendytrendy9950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@janaec5149 we are floating in space lol

  • @orangecat999
    @orangecat999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Young sis really touched me! What a smart, well spoken, thoughtful young lady. It makes me happy for her and yet sad to see how living in American dims the light of so many black girls.

  • @RhodeToDiscovery
    @RhodeToDiscovery 5 ปีที่แล้ว +820

    I agree with her. I was born and raised in the islands and we are all our nationality.. not black or white or red or whatever. I only learned of “race” when I moved to America. I never saw myself as “black” before nor thought of my friends as white, yellow, etc.. They were human first and then either French, Haitian, Saint Martinois, Jamaican and so forth.. Never saw them as JUST a color!

    • @finallyanaccount
      @finallyanaccount 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I didn't really realize I was black either sis! Like technically I knew it but didn't fully get it until I moved to North America.

    • @springgarden1
      @springgarden1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Is when my Spanish supervisor call the police on me I experience it.🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲 Jamaican everyone day.

    • @helloNicosia
      @helloNicosia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Rhode Travels This is so true. In the Caribbean we don’t see colour. We are all one, our nationality.

    • @missshannonsunshine
      @missshannonsunshine 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Exactlyyyyyy. When we’re here, all of a sudden we aren’t REALLY “ black “ I was teased when I had a strong accent and it’s even worse now that I “ lost” it. I still speak Patois though.
      I have never been so stressed, disgusted, and victimized before. It’s honestly crazy. I cried so much when I learned about the history and that a lot of those things still happen. I know that there was still slavery in Jamaica, but the racism is wild here. I didn’t know that racism or colorism was a thing at all.

    • @liyanibernier5720
      @liyanibernier5720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Rhode Travels how can you not see yourself as a black women!
      😂 seriously this is insane 😂

  • @victoriahaynes1321
    @victoriahaynes1321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This interview is refreshing

  • @ParadiseBiker
    @ParadiseBiker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    So YouTUbe decided to place this in my recommended at such a time in life eh

  • @commenterperson4481
    @commenterperson4481 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The background, your shirt/blouse, the ambient sound, your voice, ..., all in harmony.

  • @crazyramus
    @crazyramus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    It's interesting how as soon as she came to the states she was labeled. While before she was just her

    • @leafster1337
      @leafster1337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lucy Towey older generations worldwide usually are. in a more connected and enlightened world newer generations are less prejudice
      ps:typo

    • @kesuya
      @kesuya 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Believe me, she was labeled in Japan. She was just never confronted about it.

    • @user-dg1pp3he5y
      @user-dg1pp3he5y 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      浅野弥助
      それは日本では差別に気づかない程度の差別しか無いって事だよ。
      アメリカでは身の危険を感じるって彼女も言ってるでしょ

    • @moonamigi
      @moonamigi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kesuya exactly. I'm pretty sure many people in Japan labeled her as black stereotypes and never asked her abt it bc they just assumed it

  • @cmichaelsamson5990
    @cmichaelsamson5990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    So refreshing to hear from her. The fact that she didn't grow up with race, and feels 'finding an identity' is not important, perhaps suggests that a world without racism can only happen when people stop thinking about or giving importance to race.

    • @mkw3980
      @mkw3980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's all about character. Skin color is irrelevant.

  • @zziggy808
    @zziggy808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She’s so cool and her mixed cultured experiences are so cool to have. Keep doing you. Hopefully the world will learn from more people like you

  • @prissieke
    @prissieke 5 ปีที่แล้ว +668

    Third culture kids. Very common, identity crisis for them. Deep stuff, she saw colour but not race. She noticed how shallow America was. Great video

    • @condorb7756
      @condorb7756 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How is it shallow?

    • @rickyturner.
      @rickyturner. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@condorb7756 It's superficial

    • @condorb7756
      @condorb7756 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@rickyturner. I mean to a degree. But America is a huge country with millions of people boiling it down to shallow/superficial feels wrong.

    • @c.powell8472
      @c.powell8472 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@condorb7756 being pedantic to negate a point feels wrong

    • @condorb7756
      @condorb7756 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@c.powell8472 To each their own. It's not even like i fully refute the point i even agree to it to an extent. But cant make everyone happy there's always that one guy.

  • @GreenOrchid9
    @GreenOrchid9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +700

    Her parents did not spend their time editorializing her skin to her as a child so she's full of Self esteem and self worth🦁

    • @Locopueblo
      @Locopueblo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I have confidence both as my own personable identity and as a black person. Black people are unique. Our skin is unique and our hair is unique. My culture is a work of art and it's beautiful so I gladly identify as both. Her parents are actually not in the right for not teaching her about her culture. She has two cultures and shouldn't just be exposed to one.

    • @curtisalex456
      @curtisalex456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@Locopueblo I beg to differ. She was born and spent her childhood in a environment where she did not have to experience anything related to being "black". I believe it is hard to understand a culture if you can't related to it. Being taught about a culture is not the same as living in that culture.

    • @JusLivinAXA
      @JusLivinAXA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      i guess there wasn't a need to as she was not threatened in Japan!

    • @sedsa097
      @sedsa097 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@Locopueblo Culture is food, dance, music and ethics. Not stereotypes.

    • @nnekaokonkwo8271
      @nnekaokonkwo8271 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Green Orchid: I was born in the US and I had no concept of race or my skin color until a White girl in my kindergarten class pointed it out. In fact, she refused to play with me because I was black. I don't think you really know what you are talking about.

  • @Aoi-D369
    @Aoi-D369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm Japanese, and I understand why she is so popular in Japan by hearing her fabulous statement.

  • @riserika
    @riserika 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was a wonderful interview. Very thought-provoking and insightful. Cheers to Tiffany -- a beautiful, smart, and genuine woman!

  • @lcm0112
    @lcm0112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    It's nice to be able to speak two languages this fluent.

  • @virtueeric8218
    @virtueeric8218 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    She's just beautiful

  • @jurisgirl4479
    @jurisgirl4479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I lived in Japan (Honshu) for two years. I did NOT want to return to the USA...it was such a magical experience for me! I love Japan and always will and hope to return!

  • @louisubebe9011
    @louisubebe9011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The best interview I have watched on TH-cam, had to share with my kids. You definitely have got greatness in you.

  • @DadePomsouvan
    @DadePomsouvan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    You are a bright young lady and very articulate and mature for your age. You have nothing to prove to anyone but yourself. You were born and raised in Japan, so it would be natural for you to feel at home in Japan and you seem so much happier there. The reason you were never asked about your culture is because the Japanese people have accepted you as one of their own and you know very well it would be very rude for anyone to ask a stranger a very personal question in that culture. You also stated that Japanese people are too busy minding their own businesses. Your perception of yourself is more Japanese than American and you are well accepted there. You don't have to justify to anyone what makes you happy, just follow your heart!

    • @sharonenabaasa7670
      @sharonenabaasa7670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True...

    • @mxd-1990asn
      @mxd-1990asn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hmm i wouldnt say that they accepted her as theyr own (a lot of asians woldnt tell you ,if they dont) , most biracial half asian people are not even accepted as one of them (depending on where the asian parent is from) so someone whos zero one of them ethnically , it wont be the case either. I know only very few half asians who are accepted (even though they speak the language fluently, were born in that certain country in asia etc etc). None of the actual ethnic half japanese people i know were ever seen as japanese in japan.
      i know several black race women ( not mixed at all ) who were born and raised in Thailand, Japan, Malaysia and Hong Kong and none of them was REALLY seen as one the people ( in those countries, depending on each person ,where they were born and raised in ) , the people will accept you (as a human being) but i wouldnt say they really accept you as ,lets say in this case a japanese citizen (culturally).
      If they like you , they simply wont talk about it , cause they dont think about it as much as people do in the US and they dont really care. Doesnt mean they see you as one of theyr people though.
      Maybe they do in her case, but me as a biracial half asian ( who knows MANY other half asians , and people who were born and raised in a country where they are not from ethnically ) , i only know VERY FEW people out of so many who are actually accepted in that kind of way.

    • @Rose-el6on
      @Rose-el6on 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree!

    • @monicapearson2264
      @monicapearson2264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It seems to me she just identifies culturally more with Japanese culture. I agree with Dade she just seems happier there (I’m very American and extremely pro-black but I’m not blind, I think she’s going to marry Japanese and stay in Japan 🇯🇵).

    • @mastakrafsta
      @mastakrafsta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mxd-1990asn damn.

  • @GodofLovers
    @GodofLovers 5 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    The Japanese get it more than we do. They didn't factor in his skin color, because it's irrelevant. Keep that attitude. Don't adopt the one we have over here. You are who you are. You are your personality, your culture, and your character. Please please please don't let skin color limit your identity.

    • @polisigh216
      @polisigh216 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      CORY INJAPAN the Japanese didn’t enslave black people or build their economy on the backs of those slaves. They also didn’t need to enforce supremacy on another group.

    • @treeman_mj
      @treeman_mj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chant Bagby learn your history. The Japanese today are relatively benevolent but were extremely brutal and ruthless oppressors in the past and definitely enforced their supremacy on other people.

    • @user-cl8cl6qc5t
      @user-cl8cl6qc5t 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@treeman_mj that was the past. they were like the germans before. but most of them are dead nowadays

  • @RedeemingFeatures
    @RedeemingFeatures 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I didn't get to live or be schooled in Japan till I was 17 years old. But even then the acceptance, non judgemental love and affection and respect that permeated the society impressed me so much. I returned to Australia and then continued my studies and taught Japanese at high school in Australia, travelling back to Japan with groups of students to ensure I was spreading the respect of a society that can work so well. I love the way the Japanese do things in general.

  • @wendellbatts2477
    @wendellbatts2477 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This guy is an astonishingly good interviewer. What an awesome interview. Absolutely great content. This young lady is amazing.

  • @Musashi-ry3tg
    @Musashi-ry3tg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Future ambassador of Japan 🇯🇵:)

    • @AshleyMadisonsRight
      @AshleyMadisonsRight 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love your sarcasm

    • @ryker3508
      @ryker3508 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Remember what happened when a black-Japanese became Miss Japan?

  • @phillyjawn_lolo386
    @phillyjawn_lolo386 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Wow. I don't know how I stumbled onto this video, but I'm glad. This is so eye opening.

  • @sakim5695
    @sakim5695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m from 茨城ibaraki too! Thank you for sharing your experience. You sound so intelligent and genuine, and i love your smile🥰