I put my character of a “modern monarch” into chatGPT and asked for a typical day and it set me up. I asked what kind of books monarchs read and downloaded a ton of audiobooks - they deal with other countries a lot so I listened to a ton of audiobooks on diplomacy, protocol, and etiquette 💡💡 yur idea of finding a character is million dollar advice 🙌🏽🙌🏽
I agree that it is never too late! I made my 40’s (because I’ve done life backwards) into my new 20’s and it’s been my best decade so far. Now I’m nearing 50 and I am amped to see where life goes from here. This video totally inspired me.
"You are not meant to be in survival mode. You are meant to thrive." Realest words I've heard in a good little minute! Whew, great video on how to reinvent yourself! Keep 'em coming please 🙌🏽
I'm in nursing school, at the age of 45, just got out of a toxic/abusive relationship, still love him, but no contact, his family loves me and still reaches out...found out alot of things about him, and I feel very dumb, and ashamed of how I handled things, and not leaving...my glow up will be my revenue, I'm praying going to therapy, and working through it
Hi I'm in nursing school and I'm 48. Don't feel dumb. Everything is in divine order and lessons. Had you not experienced this, you wouldn't be aware of areas that need healing. When I got out a toxic relationship I realized I didn't love him because I didn't love myself. When you know your worth you won't settle. Maintain healthy boundaries with the family. I was caught up with the family as well after I left, looking back I realized I continued to entertain the family because it gave me some sort of validation and acceptance however it did not help in my healing. I had to detach, dissect myself to understand the parts of me that were broken. It stemmed from childhood.... Those feelings of rejection, fear of abandonment, low self esteem, pure trauma caused me to be a people pleaser, perfectionist, negative thinking. Healing is a life long process and you have taken an amazing step. Hope this helps. Congratulations for investing in you.
im having a huge life change. i finished my masters and am starting two year supervised hours before getting my independent license (LCSW). My salary has increased a lot, I will be making 100k+. I am getting a house built. I am with a man who I trust and feel completely connected to. Its been almost two years since I have been with him and I feel like it is overall great. All of these wonderful things are scary because I am not used to good things. And I am setting boundaries w my mother. My life may never be the same again. ☺️
Truly magic! My theme right now is new horizons. I am reinventing myself and I am 48. Feeling the most comfortable in my skin now. Thanks for motivating me! ❤
I started only working three days a week so I can focus more on myself. And I told God the money is going to have to work for me period. Although things are crazy I know it’s me shifting, this video was so good I’m going to watch it a second time. I feel so inspired.
@@glokolkay lol I was working five to six days a week. I was so burnt out. House was a mess all the time, I looked a mess all the while. Because I had no time or energy to do anything. I’m now starting a business and even met a nice man. I pray we all get to our dream life and we will with faith and repetition.
@@Antwenettacongratulations!! I am so proud of you and I was where you were very recently and had to cut back my work schedule too. I felt it in my spirit that I needed to cut hours at work and I immediately felt the difference now I’m going to keep my promise to God so he can keep his promise to me.
I am right there with you. God has us and it will all work out. I keep telling people that you have to make space so you can do what you really need to do. When any relationship is coming to an end there is space or a gap. You got this.
@@toyaamos thanks girl. Yes. Working five six days a week is draining I had no time to build my dream life. I’m rooting for you too abundance is our birth right. We are meant to have nice things and not live paycheck to paycheck.
7:18 I’m low key going through a lot. Single motherhood isn’t for the weak. And then I’ve got the nerve to have some ambition and want more out of life. Honey I’m exhausted, but there is always so much work to do. I’m transitioning from friendships, I was saved and accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and savior 7 months ago, and I’m trying to transition from my mindset of no self love. Been in therapy since 2018, and I still am so mean to little Jameka (that’s what we call it in therapy). I’m learning the power of my mind, and the negativity of my thoughts attracts things that are negative. Honey it’s rough. I just cried typing this. We’re all WIP’s right. Geez 🤦🏾♀️
I’ve just broken out of a toxic cycle that lasted about 4 years , it’s honestly left me very drained and lost. I’m trying to get back to myself and heal. It’s been real hard. I’m good at compartmentalizing my emotions but they are slowly beginning to become too much for me. I’m thankful to have found you . I’ll keep coming back to this video.
I recently took the bold decision to quit my corporate job as it was causing me unnecessary stress and hindering my focus. Although I was on the path to leadership, I felt unsupported by my mentor and decided to take matters into my own hands. My true passion lies in haircare, and I am now dedicating myself to building my hair brand. Thanks to my supportive husband, I have the flexibility to work from home and pursue my dreams. While this journey is a new and exciting one, I am confident in my abilities and eager to see where it takes me! But I'm so scared 🥺
"I'm going to live this life, even if it's just for a day". Yes sis, THIS! Because you truly don't know what you don't know and sometimes you just need to dip your toe in and give yourself a taste of "better" to realise that you actually do want and deserve BETTER ♥
I understand going to school and spending all that money and decide to go a different direction. I even worked in the field for two years and discovered it was everyones calling for me and not my own.
I'm 28, living day by day, and I feel like literally every aspect of my life is OUT of frequency. NOTHING aligns with me nor lights me up. Not my outfits, not my routines (or lack thereof), not my friends (or lack thereof). There's so much more I want for myself and my future but I get in my own way. This is me venting lol. Thank you Jaz I LOVE what you're doing and the community you've built. 💖
I turned 25 and it like a whole other person came to life, my mood changed, my behavior, much more calm and really really focused and i want more than I’ve ever wanted before. It’s crazy how calm and classy I’m turning but yet still my self I have so much plan and so much to do and I’m honestly grateful for it all and embracing it now it’s just next level conversation and next level reinvention!! 🎉🎉
Girl if this video is not right on time for me. I am 28 years old. In an unsatisfying relationship but we live together and I cant afford to move out. I have $61 in my bank account. I started my own business at 24 but for some reason I haven't been able to grow it past $200k revenue annually so I'm going back to the 9-5 and SO utterly lost. I've dealt with the most insane anxiety that at points I honestly did not know how I would make it through. I know the anxiety is because I'm approaching 30 and when I was younger I thought I would be married with kids and well on my way to being a millionaire by now. Lmao. I know there's a lesson to all this and I know I'll make it through. I wanna start creating content and sharing tips about business, ecommerce, travel (I have lived in 6 countries and was an English teacher in Vietnam, Thailand and Indonesia) and I know that God has a higher plan for me. But I have lost sight of it and lost faith. But this video was so impactful, thank you for sharing it and I hope to someday create similar content to help people through some of the challenges I've faced.
U don’t know how much this has helped me. I just watched the his on a Sunday and I have been breaking down everyday of this past weekend. I’ve been feeling so lonely and ignored. But for the next two week I’m transforming. I’m living in my world and blocking everyone else out. Thank you for the tips! I needed this.
I would also add on point of shadow work: face your traumas, limiting beliefs and do the things that you procrastinate, because they will be always in the back of your mind, you cannot sweep things under rug and pretend they don't exist - then replace an unhealthy pattern with a healthy one.
Hi Jaz thanks for sharing this great inspo I found your wisdom so inspirational! I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.
I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
I am reinvent myself at 60 Dear, no matter the age i see people like you inspire me because i never step back. I can not afford to be sorry about myself, i just need to keep going anf thank God for the good battle that makes me stronger and stronger. Also, because sometimes we are our own enemies! Kisses.
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 9 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,765 subs and > 1k hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
This video resonates so much with me, and so does your story at the beginning. I have been going back to routine living, for 2 months now. I feel like I have been pouring into my family and running myself dry. In this season I am tending to me because I am realizing I cannot pour from an empty cup. Thank you for this!! ❤
Wow! Your story is literally my story right now! I recently dropped out of law school because I was having major anxiety and it no longer fit who I wanted to be. I’m currently rediscovering my purpose. My hair is also falling out and things are just not the way I want them to be, but I’m slowly figuring it all out. Your video was so helpful. Thank you for sharing!
Partners is the best practice not very good up sometimes we need to do something when maybe going to therapy can help or finding ways and things they make you happy for your anxiety and find ways to better your situation or to improve it
Hey everyone! I am a senior in college, taking 22 credits and I have a goal to pursue my passions, but being at college I see so many people doing different things and I feel like I’m not like them. Or for example I always like waver between what I want or whatever someone else says for a career, I always try to envision a path for that career. ❤
So glad I came across this video! Definitely trying to reinvent myself for the new year - I’m starting college for digital marketing in January single mom of three autistic boys just trying to get my life back together I want to feel feminine again ❤️
This 30min video is better then any self help book I’ve ever read. Truly amazing. I also love how you talk about god, I’m not a religious person but I am spiritual so I immediately replaced the word with universe and it made so much sense to me as well.
The obstacles is the way! A WORD! I love everything about it . Coming out of isolation, with so much work done & im finally excited about future relationships/friendships ❤
Life has been super difficult lately, I must say. This video spoke to me and I will definitely implement this process into my life. Thank you Jaz for providing this info! I especially resonated with the part regarding building your life around one identity, and once that’s gone you are lost. As someone in professional school, it’s really easy to fall into that trap but when things aren’t going the way you imagine, it then feels like life is falling apart. But again, with some hard work and intention, things will make sense again ❤
i’m gonna be honest here, i’ve watched 3 of videos after being recommended one of them. i immediately subscribed after watching the first one because for years i always found it hard to love myself. i’ve went through some tough shit and it’s always been difficult to find a reason to even process the idea of putting my old self behind me and rebrand myself. the last 2 days i’ve been working on meditation and listening to affirmations to go to sleep, face masks, etc, then running into your video helped me. everybody always says to love yourself and i appreciate when you said that you weren’t going to tell me to believe in myself and that you were gonna teach me step by step on how to reinvent myself, i immediately subscribed. i never knew where to start and i’m at work rn, but i promise you the moment j get home, i’m writing everything i already listened to down because i needed that. i appreciate you making this kind of content to help somebody like me who’s been lost for years, and now genuinely wants to find the road to self love. thank you. i really appreciate it and you.
Yes, I agree I'm so tired of being in survival mode, trying to trust God. Lost my job, apartment and car again... dealing with custody issues and trying to figure out how to live. Feel like just another minority on the system smh so sad.
About to change my character again 2024 from 2019-2022 I was a siren 🚨 😅 ( hot girl / city girl ) while still accomplishing my goal I had a great time But now I'm going into a more classy upscale ( old money esthetic) while playing up my achievements in the education field & being a gym girl 🎉🎉🎉🎉 loving life ❤️
Girl! I just wrote down a day of my life as if it is already happening and it gave me an amazing feeling so I can’t imagine how I would feel when I actually do it!!!!
This is the video that made me set my mind late 2023 to glowing up and reinventing at age 41 and forgetting the Jan 1 ideal. I’m so glad I came across this video that helped me tap into a different mindset. It’s never too late to change. Like anything in life it’s not a straight line though. So today I’m going to your first video and working on watching all of them this month (Aug 2024) to get reinvigorated to keep going. 🖤
Randomly found your video and it really amazed me. Like everything u said was straight to the point, also cleared up some of my confusion while reinventing myself. Thanks for the advice big sis
I needed this! Thank you for this video! I love the idea of picking a character honestly, and I agree that life is really meant to be enjoyed and living the best way you want to. If you want to be someone else why not. To me that makes life even more fun and interesting!
So glad I found you. I am 56 years old and what you are speaking is resignation with me in such a big way. Thank you. Your chanel/ info will allow me to succeed this time. ❤.
Jaz, I am so happy I found your channel. I am no longer in my delusional stage. I had to come to reality of what I want to do next in my life, and just rest with that. I wanted to go to law school, at this later stage in my life but, I had to deal with reality. I too suffer from test anxiety, panic attacks, and just to name a few disorders. I've been going to therapy since I was a child but, I think going back to journaling is a good start for me. Thanks again.
Where I'm at right now - I feel unfulfilled in almost every aspect of my life: wardrobe, living space, finances, career (in the process of changing this but there's some growing pains but that's a whole separate rant), friendships, relationships, the list goes on. I decided to develop a closer relationship with God and I'd say I changed drastically almost instantly and then I realized the life I was living was in no way conducive to the woman I became. So I'm at a point where I feel somewhat frustrated. I feel I became a different woman in my head, almost overnight, but my reality doesn't reflect that (yet, I guess). I think it reflects the person I was. I guess it feels like my reality isn't changing fast enough (or at all sometimes). I'm glad I found your channel and I'm hoping your advice can help speed up the process
I love how you described what type of woman “character” you are creating. I LOVE LOVE the details so good you can follow it like a movie in your head but I am Her!
Great tips. I love the idea of creating a character and I love love love love love how you keep talking about the day in the life of your higher self and that life is so unserious. The brain doesn't know the difference of what we believe and what is is real that's why manifesting is real and creates our reality.
I love this. I did a similar thing almost 7 years ago and I literally live that life I wrote about. This really works. I'm about to reinvent now so this was a good reminder that these tools really work.
Thank you so much Jasmine! This video is honestly the reason I subscribe to your channel. I have been following you on TikTok for the longest but I never got around to seeing your TH-cam channel. I'm so glad you are girls girl, and that you were willing to literally put a on game. You are much appreciated bookie!!💕
Your psychological/law background mixed with a spiritual but yet realistic view of life makes this video so well balanced and very well done! I love the imaginative touch. It's a trait we are slowly forgetting about with so many fast paced advice and quick easy help videos. Thanks for this video. New Sub! :)
New subscriber here 👋🏾. Great video!!! I feel like this was the perfect timing to come across this video. I just turned 35 and I’ve been in the process of reinventing myself. I am a career single mom of 2 and I am currently in a beautiful place of my healing journey from heartache and divorce. This video is really helpful ❤
Two mins in and I really love your vibe and from the comments I know it’s going to be a great video ! New subscriber ! I’m a mother of a two year old but I still feel like a new mother and haven’t re found / reinvented myself yet. Trying to finish my phd also. It’s hard and I’m happy to be on your channel ❤
This really means a lot!!! Thank you for joining the family, and you are doing AMAZING already!!! Please let me know what videos you want to see to help you on your journey💗
@@jazturner16thank you jaz ❤ honestly there’s too much to list that I love about your video and the way you stand out from others with content but to name a few I love what you said about devising your character and then asking yourself what would they do/ their routine be / dress etc! I love this because I’m 29, recently a mother bit just feeling lost with my identity and style and I always look at others like “ I could never be like that/ dress like that” but I need to stop that negative mindset and realise I can develop my character too! Honestly I would watch anything you upload but I defineitky love self improvement videos with the steps like you’re doing , journal ideas , morning routines / night routines etc , maybe life lessons you’ve learned until this point , any advice for women entering womanhood if that makes sense. I’m 29 but I feel I’m only entering my feminine side more now so maybe some advice on that! Don’t get me wrong I always wear make up and dressss etc but sometimes I just feel like I’m in abit more of a masculine energy but I wanna go into the feminine more. And maybe some fashion ideas / staples in your wardrobe and jewellery ! Thank you ❤❤
Really needed to stumble across this video, I never share how I feel or what I'm going through because life will always be life. I have been trying to reinvent myself, but it always feels like a dark force is in the way. Trying to start my day at the right time, creating a routine finding a safe stable Job. I just want to boss up and be an Unpolegetic Queer Woman of Color, but I deal with so much misogyny in my home. I don't know what the future holds for me but If anything happens to me good or bad at least someone new my truth.
You really read me to shreds. I’m definitely sick of my own shit. I’m 24 years old, struggled with college, didn’t know if it was for me but it was all that I knew. I changed my majors, I even had to change schools, went through evictions and homelessness. Family deaths and still had to show up with a smile. I felt unmotivated, unaccomplished. It was more of me feeling bad for myself and letting everything come down on top of me. Not any more! This season is my soft girl era, my boss girl era, the era where God blesses me soo much that it spills over to my family gives them the motivation to get pushing cause it can happen. No matter what our background is our what the current situation is. We are worthy of change, peace, and happiness. This last week your videos have pulled me out of a sinking depression ( I’ve been in for about 4-5 years and no one noticed). Thank you mama!
I didn’t realize I was in survival mode until some asked me what did I do when I was wondering if I had baby blues of postpartum depression. I told them nothing. I eventually pushed those feelings back and ignored them. I’m not even the same person that I was a few years ago. I’ve gained so much weight out of depression. My hair’s health suffered due to it. I procrastinate more. I don’t do things I enjoy anymore. I just want to back to the old me. A new reinvented , revised version of me.
I just realized that my sound creepy & definitelyyyyy not my intention lol I just had followed you on IG since high school and I love seeing your success 😌
I don't think it sounds creepy it's good to know that you can give someone their flowers/props some folks know people from High school or the passed and just ignore them or their success due to insecurity, envy and Jealousy. I love seeing people succeed it's inspiring.
Loved this video! When you spoke on leaving law school and detaching yourself from that identity and working through the root emotion…I literally just experienced this and had so much anxiety/worry surrounding my move from Cali to Maryland with my newborn and detaching myself from what I thought was my purpose, devastating…now I’m working on my reinvention, physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually and financially and living in my “delu-lu” doing whatever works for me!
I don’t think you’re aware of how you were basically preaching here!! This is a very important message that will still be watched years from now and will still be as powerful. ❤
I had a breakdown while journaling about lately I haven’t been happy I turned 28 last month and I still have childish ways I haven’t entered my grown woman era and I noticed that I want to reinvent myself just to feel good and do a drastic change.
Im SO frustrated with life. Im 24, have spent the last 6 years trying and failing to move out of my dads house. So i joined massage school. Im a month out from graduation and I already know I do NOT want to do this full-time. But I have to because of some grant stipulations. Also even if I do work full time its not guaranteed that Ill make enough to move out. Not to mention I dont have any friends who want to do spontaneous things with me and I dont have a frickin car. Man Ive been working on myself and shit for YEARS now and everything I hear is "itll happen when you least expect it" or "just trust that youll be okay". Like no I need freedom and stability, but I feel like I cant have both. Im about 2 seconds away from selling all my shit and traveling out of a backpack. Thank you for the video and for letting me vent about life here ❤
Wow! Just WOW!!! I absolutely love this video!! I have thought about the things you've mentioned but I didn't put things into a perspective. Your advice has truly motivated me to truly re-invent myself. The character I chose is a Confident, Classy Corporate Baddie! I am already an Educator for Mental Health. Now, I need to continue to believe who I want to be...the character I choose to be. This is fun and and very healthy for me!! Thank you Jaz! xoxo
I’m so happy I found your channel. I just went through a traumatic breakup, that has messed with my confidence. I’m coming back with vengeance! I’m bossing up baby and moving on to much better things!
I'm a mom that's experienced loss. I'm now engaged and feel lost in life. I use to be sheria the fit chic, but my body isn't as fit, and I've put working out and eating right on the back burner. I'm ready for a reinvention.
Im loving you Jaz. Will watch again as many times as i need ! Getting ready for 2024...You just helped me tremendously...thank you for your transparency
I honestly can not thank you enough, my journey throughout college has been a miserable one and I honestly lost all sense of who I was and who I wanted to be. This has given me the confidence to be able to be my own person and become the multi million pound business owner I have always dreamed of being. That is something I can never thank you enough for!
I hate the way people use me to benefit themselves. So I’m changing my mindset so that doesn’t happen again because people only do what you allow them to do. People should not feel comfortable messing with me. Because I’m might to do great things in the world.
I’ve watched a few videos over the past two days because seasonal depression has hit and I feel like I’ve lost myself. I felt like everyone was being short or beating around the bush, but this video did it for me. This video did everything for me. Thank you.
Hi all, I just want to extend empathy to everyone who is watching this and going through something SERIOUS 😬that doesn't feel like a game at all! or at least not a fun one. We can certainly find helpful influencers (people: at the end of the day they are people like everyone else) to encourage you, give you tips and advice and let you know what worked for them and that's good! It's good. Take the information and try it! See what works for you. Give it time. For everything there is a season. Sometimes our seasons last longer than we'd like (hello 😶 when it rains it pours 😑) but keep looking forward. And UP! Turn to God. Don't give up faith that things will get better. I'm happy for the young lady that can say with ease that life is not serious, but let's keep in mind that there are people that go through VERY serious things. If that is you and you are searching for hope and trying to do the work on yourself to help things turn around, KEEP GOING! Seek God and His instruction. I'm routing for you 🥰
Im SOOOO glad you ended up creating these videos instead of law school!!! sometimes people who think they want to go into "LAW"..... formed through all these rules that arent even healthy or dont even make snese to them... this is much better way to create "justice" in our journeys... by speaking and living our truth
I put my character of a “modern monarch” into chatGPT and asked for a typical day and it set me up. I asked what kind of books monarchs read and downloaded a ton of audiobooks - they deal with other countries a lot so I listened to a ton of audiobooks on diplomacy, protocol, and etiquette 💡💡 yur idea of finding a character is million dollar advice 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Thanks you for sharing! Doing this today.
I love this so much!
This was so helpful thank you for sharing this !
Wow thanks ! Never thought of using AI for self care activities, ill def being taking advantage of it :D
We are artificial intelligence 👀
“Do it for the plot” is going to be my mantra for the rest of my life
Thank you for this video may god bless you
Mom of 4, 30 years old and about to reinvent myself. Thank you so much❤
Mom of 2 @ 30. I feel you 🙌🏾 we can do this. ❤️
How’s it going? YOU GOT THIS
Mom of 2 , 27 we got this ladies 💪🏽
I’m 52 and have been feeling like it’s too late for me. Thanks for the encouragement and the ideas. Maybe it’s not too late.
Never too late. You know all the twenty year olds will be your age in minutes. That is why life is short. Age doesn’t matter and you are not 82!!
I agree that it is never too late! I made my 40’s (because I’ve done life backwards) into my new 20’s and it’s been my best decade so far. Now I’m nearing 50 and I am amped to see where life goes from here. This video totally inspired me.
It’s never too late! It’s an amazing time to reinvent ourselves and we can have fun with it! 😊Hope you feel empowered to do it! ❤
It's not too late. Go for it!
Girl, I’m 49 and was thinking the same thing. But we can do it!! Transformation loading…🙌
"You are not meant to be in survival mode. You are meant to thrive." Realest words I've heard in a good little minute! Whew, great video on how to reinvent yourself! Keep 'em coming please 🙌🏽
I'm in nursing school, at the age of 45, just got out of a toxic/abusive relationship, still love him, but no contact, his family loves me and still reaches out...found out alot of things about him, and I feel very dumb, and ashamed of how I handled things, and not leaving...my glow up will be my revenue, I'm praying going to therapy, and working through it
Continue your healing journey ✨️ 💛 no matter what
Hi I'm in nursing school and I'm 48. Don't feel dumb. Everything is in divine order and lessons. Had you not experienced this, you wouldn't be aware of areas that need healing. When I got out a toxic relationship I realized I didn't love him because I didn't love myself. When you know your worth you won't settle. Maintain healthy boundaries with the family. I was caught up with the family as well after I left, looking back I realized I continued to entertain the family because it gave me some sort of validation and acceptance however it did not help in my healing. I had to detach, dissect myself to understand the parts of me that were broken. It stemmed from childhood.... Those feelings of rejection, fear of abandonment, low self esteem, pure trauma caused me to be a people pleaser, perfectionist, negative thinking. Healing is a life long process and you have taken an amazing step. Hope this helps. Congratulations for investing in you.
im having a huge life change. i finished my masters and am starting two year supervised hours before getting my independent license (LCSW). My salary has increased a lot, I will be making 100k+. I am getting a house built. I am with a man who I trust and feel completely connected to. Its been almost two years since I have been with him and I feel like it is overall great. All of these wonderful things are scary because I am not used to good things. And I am setting boundaries w my mother.
My life may never be the same again. ☺️
Truly magic! My theme right now is new horizons. I am reinventing myself and I am 48. Feeling the most comfortable in my skin now. Thanks for motivating me! ❤
I’m 46, your comment made me feel seen❤
Gi for it mama ❤ there is no age to reinvent yourself
Just turned 44 and why not reinvent myself. The rest of my life will be the best of my life🎉
I’m 43 and look forward to my next act of my life. Glad to know I’m not alone
In my 40s too, thanks for the motivation ladies ❣️
I started only working three days a week so I can focus more on myself. And I told God the money is going to have to work for me period. Although things are crazy I know it’s me shifting, this video was so good I’m going to watch it a second time. I feel so inspired.
This!!🙌🏾🙌🏾
@@glokolkay lol I was working five to six days a week. I was so burnt out. House was a mess all the time, I looked a mess all the while. Because I had no time or energy to do anything. I’m now starting a business and even met a nice man. I pray we all get to our dream life and we will with faith and repetition.
@@Antwenettacongratulations!! I am so proud of you and I was where you were very recently and had to cut back my work schedule too. I felt it in my spirit that I needed to cut hours at work and I immediately felt the difference now I’m going to keep my promise to God so he can keep his promise to me.
I am right there with you. God has us and it will all work out. I keep telling people that you have to make space so you can do what you really need to do. When any relationship is coming to an end there is space or a gap. You got this.
@@toyaamos thanks girl. Yes. Working five six days a week is draining I had no time to build my dream life. I’m rooting for you too abundance is our birth right. We are meant to have nice things and not live paycheck to paycheck.
7:18 I’m low key going through a lot. Single motherhood isn’t for the weak. And then I’ve got the nerve to have some ambition and want more out of life. Honey I’m exhausted, but there is always so much work to do. I’m transitioning from friendships, I was saved and accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and savior 7 months ago, and I’m trying to transition from my mindset of no self love. Been in therapy since 2018, and I still am so mean to little Jameka (that’s what we call it in therapy). I’m learning the power of my mind, and the negativity of my thoughts attracts things that are negative. Honey it’s rough. I just cried typing this. We’re all WIP’s right. Geez 🤦🏾♀️
I’ve just broken out of a toxic cycle that lasted about 4 years , it’s honestly left me very drained and lost. I’m trying to get back to myself and heal. It’s been real hard. I’m good at compartmentalizing my emotions but they are slowly beginning to become too much for me. I’m thankful to have found you . I’ll keep coming back to this video.
I recently took the bold decision to quit my corporate job as it was causing me unnecessary stress and hindering my focus. Although I was on the path to leadership, I felt unsupported by my mentor and decided to take matters into my own hands.
My true passion lies in haircare, and I am now dedicating myself to building my hair brand. Thanks to my supportive husband, I have the flexibility to work from home and pursue my dreams.
While this journey is a new and exciting one, I am confident in my abilities and eager to see where it takes me!
But I'm so scared 🥺
You got it, give it to God.
"Do it for the plot" sounds good. This video is very helpful for me, thank you so much.
This is so tmely. Can I just say... I have watched hundreds of creators discuss this topic but you are the smartest one I have come across!
WOW this really really means a lot beautiful!!! Thank you so much 💗
"I'm going to live this life, even if it's just for a day". Yes sis, THIS! Because you truly don't know what you don't know and sometimes you just need to dip your toe in and give yourself a taste of "better" to realise that you actually do want and deserve BETTER ♥
I understand going to school and spending all that money and decide to go a different direction. I even worked in the field for two years and discovered it was everyones calling for me and not my own.
That discovery was so important though! I'm proud of you for choosing you💗
I sent this video to my friend. She texted me and said, but she pretty.😂 People need to stop judging the messenger and listen to the message.🤨😂💚💚💚
I'm 28, living day by day, and I feel like literally every aspect of my life is OUT of frequency. NOTHING aligns with me nor lights me up. Not my outfits, not my routines (or lack thereof), not my friends (or lack thereof). There's so much more I want for myself and my future but I get in my own way. This is me venting lol. Thank you Jaz I LOVE what you're doing and the community you've built. 💖
I turned 25 and it like a whole other person came to life, my mood changed, my behavior, much more calm and really really focused and i want more than I’ve ever wanted before. It’s crazy how calm and classy I’m turning but yet still my self I have so much plan and so much to do and I’m honestly grateful for it all and embracing it now it’s just next level conversation and next level reinvention!! 🎉🎉
Girl if this video is not right on time for me. I am 28 years old. In an unsatisfying relationship but we live together and I cant afford to move out. I have $61 in my bank account. I started my own business at 24 but for some reason I haven't been able to grow it past $200k revenue annually so I'm going back to the 9-5 and SO utterly lost. I've dealt with the most insane anxiety that at points I honestly did not know how I would make it through. I know the anxiety is because I'm approaching 30 and when I was younger I thought I would be married with kids and well on my way to being a millionaire by now. Lmao. I know there's a lesson to all this and I know I'll make it through. I wanna start creating content and sharing tips about business, ecommerce, travel (I have lived in 6 countries and was an English teacher in Vietnam, Thailand and Indonesia) and I know that God has a higher plan for me. But I have lost sight of it and lost faith. But this video was so impactful, thank you for sharing it and I hope to someday create similar content to help people through some of the challenges I've faced.
I’m obsessed with your content! You’re definitely in a lane of your own and I’m grateful ❤
This just made my day 😭 Thank you beautiful!💗
So true! So authentic 🎉
U don’t know how much this has helped me. I just watched the his on a Sunday and I have been breaking down everyday of this past weekend. I’ve been feeling so lonely and ignored. But for the next two week I’m transforming. I’m living in my world and blocking everyone else out. Thank you for the tips! I needed this.
You got this!
Yesss you can do it gorgeous ❤️
You’re so real for giving us a free Shadow Work Journal love you ❤
Of course sis! I got you💗
I would also add on point of shadow work: face your traumas, limiting beliefs and do the things that you procrastinate, because they will be always in the back of your mind, you cannot sweep things under rug and pretend they don't exist - then replace an unhealthy pattern with a healthy one.
This is where I’m at the reinvention of myself. I’ve done the shadow work and everything now it’s time for me to become that woman.❤
Hi Jaz thanks for sharing this great inspo I found your wisdom so inspirational! I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it!
I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too
Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on...
I hope it is useful to you.
How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.
Congratulations to you that's a great accomplishment keep it going 👏
I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
I am reinvent myself at 60 Dear, no matter the age i see people like you inspire me because i never step back. I can not afford to be sorry about myself, i just need to keep going anf thank God for the good battle that makes me stronger and stronger. Also, because sometimes we are our own enemies! Kisses.
I love the idea of having a different "character"/ focus each quarter. You are what you tell yourself 😍
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 9 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,765 subs and > 1k hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
This video resonates so much with me, and so does your story at the beginning. I have been going back to routine living, for 2 months now. I feel like I have been pouring into my family and running myself dry. In this season I am tending to me because I am realizing I cannot pour from an empty cup. Thank you for this!! ❤
Wow! Your story is literally my story right now! I recently dropped out of law school because I was having major anxiety and it no longer fit who I wanted to be. I’m currently rediscovering my purpose. My hair is also falling out and things are just not the way I want them to be, but I’m slowly figuring it all out. Your video was so helpful. Thank you for sharing!
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Partners is the best practice not very good up sometimes we need to do something when maybe going to therapy can help or finding ways and things they make you happy for your anxiety and find ways to better your situation or to improve it
Hey everyone! I am a senior in college, taking 22 credits and I have a goal to pursue my passions, but being at college I see so many people doing different things and I feel like I’m not like them. Or for example I always like waver between what I want or whatever someone else says for a career, I always try to envision a path for that career. ❤
The fact that you are THIS aware, is such a big step in the right direction!! You are doing amazing already :) Choose what you want, always💗
@@jazturner16 thank you! i promised myself that this time everything will be different! and it will! ♥️
So glad I came across this video! Definitely trying to reinvent myself for the new year - I’m starting college for digital marketing in January single mom of three autistic boys just trying to get my life back together I want to feel feminine again ❤️
This 30min video is better then any self help book I’ve ever read. Truly amazing. I also love how you talk about god, I’m not a religious person but I am spiritual so I immediately replaced the word with universe and it made so much sense to me as well.
The obstacles is the way! A WORD! I love everything about it . Coming out of isolation, with so much work done & im finally excited about future relationships/friendships ❤
Life has been super difficult lately, I must say. This video spoke to me and I will definitely implement this process into my life. Thank you Jaz for providing this info! I especially resonated with the part regarding building your life around one identity, and once that’s gone you are lost. As someone in professional school, it’s really easy to fall into that trap but when things aren’t going the way you imagine, it then feels like life is falling apart. But again, with some hard work and intention, things will make sense again ❤
"The obstacle is the Way." Such a great message, Jaz. Thank you!
Marcus Aurelius
Yep, Stoicism
i’m gonna be honest here, i’ve watched 3 of videos after being recommended one of them. i immediately subscribed after watching the first one because for years i always found it hard to love myself. i’ve went through some tough shit and it’s always been difficult to find a reason to even process the idea of putting my old self behind me and rebrand myself. the last 2 days i’ve been working on meditation and listening to affirmations to go to sleep, face masks, etc, then running into your video helped me. everybody always says to love yourself and i appreciate when you said that you weren’t going to tell me to believe in myself and that you were gonna teach me step by step on how to reinvent myself, i immediately subscribed. i never knew where to start and i’m at work rn, but i promise you the moment j get home, i’m writing everything i already listened to down because i needed that. i appreciate you making this kind of content to help somebody like me who’s been lost for years, and now genuinely wants to find the road to self love. thank you. i really appreciate it and you.
We need more of these videos, especially for Single moms and moms in general.
Ooh yes new mother here and trying to find a community of similar ladies ❤
Yes, I agree
I'm so tired of being in survival mode, trying to trust God. Lost my job, apartment and car again... dealing with custody issues and trying to figure out how to live. Feel like just another minority on the system smh so sad.
Class is in session… ladies listen up ✨💋
About to change my character again 2024 from 2019-2022 I was a siren 🚨 😅 ( hot girl / city girl ) while still accomplishing my goal I had a great time
But now I'm going into a more classy upscale ( old money esthetic) while playing up my achievements in the education field & being a gym girl 🎉🎉🎉🎉 loving life ❤️
Girl! I just wrote down a day of my life as if it is already happening and it gave me an amazing feeling so I can’t imagine how I would feel when I actually do it!!!!
This is the video that made me set my mind late 2023 to glowing up and reinventing at age 41 and forgetting the Jan 1 ideal. I’m so glad I came across this video that helped me tap into a different mindset. It’s never too late to change. Like anything in life it’s not a straight line though. So today I’m going to your first video and working on watching all of them this month (Aug 2024) to get reinvigorated to keep going. 🖤
This was good. Thank you for your wisdom and insights. Helping make the world a better place.
Wow! Talk about right on time! Thank you for this video!!! ❤
yessss sis! im so glad you found it helpful!💗
The way I’m about to journal tonight, thanks girl. This was much needed today✨
I actually really enjoyed all 33 minutes of this! I was TUNED IN! Thank you for sharing
Randomly found your video and it really amazed me. Like everything u said was straight to the point, also cleared up some of my confusion while reinventing myself. Thanks for the advice big sis
This means the WORLD sis!!!! I'm so glad what I was saying made sense💗
I needed this! Thank you for this video! I love the idea of picking a character honestly, and I agree that life is really meant to be enjoyed and living the best way you want to. If you want to be someone else why not. To me that makes life even more fun and interesting!
So glad I found you. I am 56 years old and what you are speaking is resignation with me in such a big way. Thank you. Your chanel/ info will allow me to succeed this time. ❤.
Jaz, I am so happy I found your channel. I am no longer in my delusional stage. I had to come to reality of what I want to do next in my life, and just rest with that. I wanted to go to law school, at this later stage in my life but, I had to deal with reality. I too suffer from test anxiety, panic attacks, and just to name a few disorders. I've been going to therapy since I was a child but, I think going back to journaling is a good start for me. Thanks again.
Where I'm at right now - I feel unfulfilled in almost every aspect of my life: wardrobe, living space, finances, career (in the process of changing this but there's some growing pains but that's a whole separate rant), friendships, relationships, the list goes on. I decided to develop a closer relationship with God and I'd say I changed drastically almost instantly and then I realized the life I was living was in no way conducive to the woman I became. So I'm at a point where I feel somewhat frustrated. I feel I became a different woman in my head, almost overnight, but my reality doesn't reflect that (yet, I guess). I think it reflects the person I was. I guess it feels like my reality isn't changing fast enough (or at all sometimes). I'm glad I found your channel and I'm hoping your advice can help speed up the process
Treat yourself like someone you love. I saw this quote on Pinterest. And I love it.
I love how you described what type of woman “character” you are creating. I LOVE LOVE the details so good you can follow it like a movie in your head but I am Her!
Great tips. I love the idea of creating a character and I love love love love love how you keep talking about the day in the life of your higher self and that life is so unserious. The brain doesn't know the difference of what we believe and what is is real that's why manifesting is real and creates our reality.
I love this. I did a similar thing almost 7 years ago and I literally live that life I wrote about. This really works. I'm about to reinvent now so this was a good reminder that these tools really work.
Thank you so much Jasmine! This video is honestly the reason I subscribe to your channel. I have been following you on TikTok for the longest but I never got around to seeing your TH-cam channel. I'm so glad you are girls girl, and that you were willing to literally put a on game. You are much appreciated bookie!!💕
Your psychological/law background mixed with a spiritual but yet realistic view of life makes this video so well balanced and very well done! I love the imaginative touch. It's a trait we are slowly forgetting about with so many fast paced advice and quick easy help videos. Thanks for this video. New Sub! :)
Can u show ur perfume collection! And a grwm for a date and then another video girls night out to shower getting ready etc
New subscriber here 👋🏾. Great video!!! I feel like this was the perfect timing to come across this video. I just turned 35 and I’ve been in the process of reinventing myself. I am a career single mom of 2 and I am currently in a beautiful place of my healing journey from heartache and divorce. This video is really helpful ❤
Giirrl!!! I needed this so much! Thank you!!!
Two mins in and I really love your vibe and from the comments I know it’s going to be a great video ! New subscriber ! I’m a mother of a two year old but I still feel like a new mother and haven’t re found / reinvented myself yet. Trying to finish my phd also. It’s hard and I’m happy to be on your channel ❤
This really means a lot!!! Thank you for joining the family, and you are doing AMAZING already!!! Please let me know what videos you want to see to help you on your journey💗
@@jazturner16thank you jaz ❤ honestly there’s too much to list that I love about your video and the way you stand out from others with content but to name a few I love what you said about devising your character and then asking yourself what would they do/ their routine be / dress etc! I love this because I’m 29, recently a mother bit just feeling lost with my identity and style and I always look at others like “ I could never be like that/ dress like that” but I need to stop that negative mindset and realise I can develop my character too! Honestly I would watch anything you upload but I defineitky love self improvement videos with the steps like you’re doing , journal ideas , morning routines / night routines etc , maybe life lessons you’ve learned until this point , any advice for women entering womanhood if that makes sense. I’m 29 but I feel I’m only entering my feminine side more now so maybe some advice on that! Don’t get me wrong I always wear make up and dressss etc but sometimes I just feel like I’m in abit more of a masculine energy but I wanna go into the feminine more. And maybe some fashion ideas / staples in your wardrobe and jewellery ! Thank you ❤❤
Thank you so much for making these types of videos. You are truly a inspiration for women to become their best self. 💗
Really needed to stumble across this video, I never share how I feel or what I'm going through because life will always be life. I have been trying to reinvent myself, but it always feels like a dark force is in the way. Trying to start my day at the right time, creating a routine finding a safe stable Job. I just want to boss up and be an Unpolegetic Queer Woman of Color, but I deal with so much misogyny in my home. I don't know what the future holds for me but If anything happens to me good or bad at least someone new my truth.
You really read me to shreds. I’m definitely sick of my own shit. I’m 24 years old, struggled with college, didn’t know if it was for me but it was all that I knew. I changed my majors, I even had to change schools, went through evictions and homelessness. Family deaths and still had to show up with a smile. I felt unmotivated, unaccomplished. It was more of me feeling bad for myself and letting everything come down on top of me. Not any more! This season is my soft girl era, my boss girl era, the era where God blesses me soo much that it spills over to my family gives them the motivation to get pushing cause it can happen. No matter what our background is our what the current situation is. We are worthy of change, peace, and happiness. This last week your videos have pulled me out of a sinking depression ( I’ve been in for about 4-5 years and no one noticed). Thank you mama!
I really appreciate this video...very motivating ❤
Thank you so much beautiful!! I am so glad you found it helpful!!
I didn’t realize I was in survival mode until some asked me what did I do when I was wondering if I had baby blues of postpartum depression.
I told them nothing. I eventually pushed those feelings back and ignored them. I’m not even the same person that I was a few years ago.
I’ve gained so much weight out of depression. My hair’s health suffered due to it. I procrastinate more. I don’t do things I enjoy anymore.
I just want to back to the old me. A new reinvented , revised version of me.
We actually went to the same High school and I love seeing you out here killing it & confident girl💞
I just realized that my sound creepy & definitelyyyyy not my intention lol I just had followed you on IG since high school and I love seeing your success 😌
I don't think it sounds creepy it's good to know that you can give someone their flowers/props some folks know people from High school or the passed and just ignore them or their success due to insecurity, envy and Jealousy. I love seeing people succeed it's inspiring.
Wow!! This was a great video and right on time for me. I'm living 75% of my dream life but want to turn it to 100%❤
Loved this video! When you spoke on leaving law school and detaching yourself from that identity and working through the root emotion…I literally just experienced this and had so much anxiety/worry surrounding my move from Cali to Maryland with my newborn and detaching myself from what I thought was my purpose, devastating…now I’m working on my reinvention, physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually and financially and living in my “delu-lu” doing whatever works for me!
I don’t think you’re aware of how you were basically preaching here!! This is a very important message that will still be watched years from now and will still be as powerful. ❤
I had a breakdown while journaling about lately I haven’t been happy I turned 28 last month and I still have childish ways I haven’t entered my grown woman era and I noticed that I want to reinvent myself just to feel good and do a drastic change.
The word was WORDINGG!!! Thank you so much Jaz for living in your purpose!
Thank you so much sis!!!💗
Im SO frustrated with life. Im 24, have spent the last 6 years trying and failing to move out of my dads house. So i joined massage school. Im a month out from graduation and I already know I do NOT want to do this full-time. But I have to because of some grant stipulations. Also even if I do work full time its not guaranteed that Ill make enough to move out. Not to mention I dont have any friends who want to do spontaneous things with me and I dont have a frickin car. Man Ive been working on myself and shit for YEARS now and everything I hear is "itll happen when you least expect it" or "just trust that youll be okay". Like no I need freedom and stability, but I feel like I cant have both. Im about 2 seconds away from selling all my shit and traveling out of a backpack.
Thank you for the video and for letting me vent about life here ❤
Also Im makind less than 300 a week, so saving for a car or travel feels IMPOSSIBLE.
Wow! Just WOW!!! I absolutely love this video!! I have thought about the things you've mentioned but I didn't put things into a perspective. Your advice has truly motivated me to truly re-invent myself. The character I chose is a Confident, Classy Corporate Baddie! I am already an Educator for Mental Health. Now, I need to continue to believe who I want to be...the character I choose to be. This is fun and and very healthy for me!! Thank you Jaz! xoxo
I was watching your videos while cooking, and here you go posting another one!! 💖💖
OMGGG that just mad me so happy!! What are we making????😍
@jazturner16 I'm making macaroni pie for my family while they're at church.
Jaz you really drop GEMS on becoming your best self!! Like these videos are really the keys to doing so
Your content always make me crave for more! I go back binge old posts 😂❤
Omg this just made my day!!!💗💗💗
Love the idea of deciding to change and working towards living that life…before you live that life! ❤️
It’s never too late ❤❤
I’m so happy I found your channel. I just went through a traumatic breakup, that has messed with my confidence. I’m coming back with vengeance! I’m bossing up baby and moving on to much better things!
I'm a mom that's experienced loss. I'm now engaged and feel lost in life. I use to be sheria the fit chic, but my body isn't as fit, and I've put working out and eating right on the back burner. I'm ready for a reinvention.
"Life is so unserious, be delulu" shook me to my core. Thank you!
Jaz, the information you shared in this video was fantastic! Thank you! 🙏🏽
My character will be a “Dignified, Feminine Lady Boss”! ❤
Im loving you Jaz. Will watch again as many times as i need ! Getting ready for 2024...You just helped me tremendously...thank you for your transparency
I honestly can not thank you enough, my journey throughout college has been a miserable one and I honestly lost all sense of who I was and who I wanted to be. This has given me the confidence to be able to be my own person and become the multi million pound business owner I have always dreamed of being. That is something I can never thank you enough for!
I hate the way people use me to benefit themselves. So I’m changing my mindset so that doesn’t happen again because people only do what you allow them to do. People should not feel comfortable messing with me. Because I’m might to do great things in the world.
You’ve shared something so powerful! I don’t ever comment, this is my first time. I will continue to follow as you’re so inspiring. Thank you
I’m so glad that I found your channel! God’s timing is the only timing! Side note: Can you share the details of your lipstick & blush please ☺️!
I’ve watched a few videos over the past two days because seasonal depression has hit and I feel like I’ve lost myself. I felt like everyone was being short or beating around the bush, but this video did it for me. This video did everything for me. Thank you.
Hi all, I just want to extend empathy to everyone who is watching this and going through something SERIOUS 😬that doesn't feel like a game at all! or at least not a fun one. We can certainly find helpful influencers (people: at the end of the day they are people like everyone else) to encourage you, give you tips and advice and let you know what worked for them and that's good! It's good. Take the information and try it! See what works for you. Give it time. For everything there is a season. Sometimes our seasons last longer than we'd like (hello 😶 when it rains it pours 😑) but keep looking forward. And UP! Turn to God. Don't give up faith that things will get better. I'm happy for the young lady that can say with ease that life is not serious, but let's keep in mind that there are people that go through VERY serious things. If that is you and you are searching for hope and trying to do the work on yourself to help things turn around, KEEP GOING! Seek God and His instruction. I'm routing for you 🥰
Jaz is my virtual “therapist”!! 💕 love all of your advice!
this is high key a life changing video. just found your content, and you're definitely guiding me through my 2024 glow up.
Absolutely love this, and it came with a word! Thanks, Jaz 💕
Im SOOOO glad you ended up creating these videos instead of law school!!! sometimes people who think they want to go into "LAW"..... formed through all these rules that arent even healthy or dont even make snese to them... this is much better way to create "justice" in our journeys... by speaking and living our truth
You are an amazing trailblazer 😊. I'm excited about what's next for you.
I love this video, you really made me realize a lot of things, and really made me see things in a different way. Thank you for this detailed video!
Most practical tips I've come across on youtube.... I'll hit the subscribe button now ❤
Loved this! Esp the creating a character part. Never thought of that before!
Yesss sis!!! It really works ❤
plot and gamification and slowly but surely, things will become your second nature... Thanks for great summary, Jaz