I low key feel like Lisa was saying You do to Syleena and Viv! Because if you notice she looks at two different directions each time she says she do and you do. Idk but obviously syleena and Viv knows more!
Right ....that was some messy shit they did....they knew they were having issues hell I knew and I heard it thru the grapevine you can't tell me they didn't know!!!!
Me too. Thought I was the only one who felt that way. Especially with the way she didn't respond when LisaRaye was speaking and held her head down like she dissappointed her.
Absolutely... I felt bad for Her; You can hear her holding back tears even before she went off, thanking the Ladies for allowing her to come on the show ♥️
That was so sad hearing the tears in brat's voice. I've been in a place of having people criticize and come down hard on you in front of other people. I don't think to this degree though. But still, I hope that they mend their relationship and communication with each other.
She needs some anger management, healing, she is as Vivica said" mean" . Her attitude is not cute at all. Nothing classy, mature or graceful about her. I'm not a fan of this behavior. Black women calling themselves queens should behave as such.
London Peach Sis, I understand what your saying, but you’ve also have to understand the pain hat LisaRae is experiencing. I know for a fact that I would be hurt and upset that I have to hear about my sister’s personal information from watching social media or hearing it in the blogs. Lisa is speaking from a place of hurt, not to mention her sisters appearance was out of the blue after avoiding her for months. As queens, sometimes our crowns get a little rattled, but it will never fall. LisaRae needed to get it out. It’s just unfortunate that it happened live and in front of all to see. I really pray that they will reconcile without cameras or extra eyes and ears around. ❤️
London Peach They can say whatever they want LisaRaye is the authority over her life and she’s not about to let people run a muck in her life and I don’t blame her. Nobody is thinking about being “cute” she is honoring her emotions and not suppressing them or trying to impress none of y’all. And you don’t know what she needs. You are not a doctor to be trying to diagnose people. Y’all talk too much, like LisaRaye said “y’all don’t know shit” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Those fake respectability politics are stupid. Y’all love screaming “black women” Like we aren’t entitled to be angry. Y’all can be worst than white supremacy with that suppressing bullshit. Move around girl!
Does anyone know how they are even sisters? I mean obviously they don’t share the same mom, but I have never heard Da Brat speak of their dad in terms of how Lisa Raye talked about him being murdered. Da Brat has never mentioned anything like that so how are they sisters?
Lisa Belcher oh ok; I have just never heard Da Brat. Speak about him or even in the same way that Lisa Raye does. I’m thinking that maybe the brat wasn’t as close to her father as Lisa Raye was
Brat walked into that one. She was probably hoping that her sister wouldn't "act a fool" on her birthday and on TV but she didn't anticipate the smoke 🤣🤣
exactly, especially when she KNEW how her sister who she has known her whole life would act, which is to NOT act fraud becuz they're on tv but to keep it 100. So that's why Da Brat was talking nervous and apologetic from the get go.
I dont know who needs to hear this but Call your family...go to dinner, plan sunday dinner, send them a text, pick up the phone....do something today to FIX IT! Love is LOVE
TheImagine91 Exactly. Trauma is Trauma and it does not equal love. I had to cut off my entire family and change my name. That’s how toxic they were. People that preach that “family over everything” bullcrap are insensitive to the things people have been through. If I was Lisa I would’ve cussed all of them out. This was NOT their place.
Please, this ish was ghetto and inappropriate. This should have been a private conversation. Now, she could have called her out real quick and short and then went on with the segment in a celebratory mood, then chew her out later in private.
The Brat needed a buffer because anyone can see Lisa is hard, judge-mental and critical. You don’t have to agree with everything your baby sister do, but she should definitely know you love her and will always be her safe landing.
I have so much respect for DaBrat! Not only does she speak well and knowledgeable on the Ricky Smiley show but now seeing how she let her sister vent and express her anger without getting angry back that’s some love and respect right there!
This and TI step daughter revealing her pregnancy live some stuff should be shared personally thru family ties before gossip and media that’s hurtful asf
THEY SHOULD SPEAK IN PRIVATE BUT I TRULY RESPECT DABRAT FOR DOING THAT NO MATTER WHAT ITS A START AND I KNOW TOO THAT LISARAYE LOVES HER BUT SHE HAS BEEN HURT FOR SO LONG 😥❤🙏🙏🙏
@invincible spiritEXACTLY what I was thinking! The description the Brat gave of her sister made her distance make sense. Everybody must of muted her when she said "judgemental". I've never got good vibes from L.Rye, something is off about her and she always feels like she has to play tough and/or mention how strong she is. Like why🙄
invincible spirit wrong sorry! Deal with the real raw emotion instead of suppressing it and one will heal quicker! Too many people fake the funk making an apology to easy and over common! If the person who has done wrong by you doesn’t feel something during the healing process there’s nothing stopping them from doing it again! When they move past it they would have truly dealt with the REAL emotions and not that fake “I’m good” folk like doing meanwhile just holding it all in until it’s time to explode!! So mamas I have a clue and degrees you should grab a notebook 👀🤷🏽♀️
It does. I’m the oldest girl out of my sisters and they have a different dad than me but the way my heart set up is fu&fked up because I love all my sisters dearly but when things get heated i disappear cuz I don’t wanna be hurt and I don’t wanna hurt no feelings so I just keep it cute
Here is the flip side. As a younger sister, sometimes older sisters can be judgmental when all you want is an ear, a shoulder to lean on and a hug first.
@@seasonedsofisticate1901 True.....as the younger sister though, I used to be very protective over my big sister. But, then started to feel like Lisa (being left out). Everybody else and the world came before me, so had to re-shift my focus.
My thing is keep your relationship to your own self because people want judge you and brats are grown when she tried to tell nobody about her relationship and people will judge you no matter the your sister your mother or your neighbor they will judge you keep your relationship to yourself you don't owe nobody no explanation should I wish I had a sister
One of FAVORITE Sister Sibling Duos. I didn't even know they didn't share a mother becaose of how close they were. Brat talking about her fondest memories she had no reason to be afraid, so get WHY LRaye was is so hurt...she probably feels like Brat should've felt comfortable no matter the situation tho. Hope they come back together 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🌹🌹🤞🏽👑👑
LisaRaye went from crying to cussing everyone out in less than 15 minutes. She’s definitely from Chicago. 😂. Selena went from being very pretty and classy to talking about “fuck it.” 😂 Selena Johnson is definitely Chicago south suburban.
I said the same thing I'm very familiar with the Chi energy...I was like that's her Chicago...I get it cause I'm from Detroit and our energy is similar. 🤝🏾
Da Brat was holding in tears at the end. 😔 There’s a disconnect between the sisters and Da Brat is attempting to set boundaries with her sister and clearly has not been 100% transparent about that. Lisa Raye is struggling to accept the unspoken boundaries that Brat is setting by keeping her at a distance. Communication needs to happen here.
Sometimes ppl need just love without the tough. I dont do well with super strong, argumentative and unrelenting personalities....sister or not...i wouldn't have called her either
🥴 it’s the embarrassment for me. Tough love or not, don’t disrespect me in public like that. Tough love works in situations when it’s called for. Don’t curse the cast mates out for trying to smooth over the situation when she aired it out. What happened to keeping family business behind closed doors? Brat is a real one for enduring that disrespect sheesh 🤦🏾♀️.
She is hurt that she wasn’t included. And I’ve been where Brat is too. You let so much time go by that you’re scared to reach out and before you know it it’s been a year.
You can’t be so much of a coward that you let too much time past by with people you actually love, respect, and want in your life. Hard conversations are needed sometimes. Boundaries are needed sometimes. You can’t let FEAR control you. Obviously Da Brat struggles with letting fear control her, because If she didn’t she wouldn’t have hid her identity for so long.
Scared? For what ....thats a sad ass EXCUSE for not reaching out to people you "claim" to love...and GOD FORBID SOMETHING SHOULD HAPPEN AND THE PERSON PASS ON...THEN YOU WOULD BE SINGING YOUR SHOULD OF ..COULD OF ..WOULD OF'S ....IM DEALING WITH A SIMILAR ISSUE...THAT IF I PASS ON ..NOBODY WOULD KNOW...BECAUSE THEY ARE SELFISH... I'VE TRIED REACHING OUT BUT I GUESS THEY DONT CONSIDER ME FAMILY ANYMORE BECAUSE ION GET NO RETURNS...SO YES LISA RAYE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO FEEL AND SAY EVERYTHING SHE DID AND DA BRAT NEED TO HUMBLE HERSELF AND MAKE THAT CALL OR BETTER YET GO SEE HER SISTER AND DO IT IN PERSON..YES SHE IS GOING TO GET CUSSED OUT BUT SHE GON HAVE TO SWALLOW HER PRIDE AND FIGHT FOR HER SISTER BECAUSE LISA RAYE MENT EVERYTHING SHE SAID!
@Jacqui The great - I understood what you were saying and I don't know why these self righteous assholes are talking to you like that. Sometimes you unconsciously let things go by and when you think about it, you know you deserve to get cussed out and you ain't ready to hear it yet so you don't reach out until you feel you are ready. I've been on both sides of that equation before and we learn from it and move on. I think it's way more productive to encourage each other to face these things head on, and not let time go by because distance can become permanent and you end up with regrets. I don't know why these miserable hoes are calling you a coward or typing in all caps like you did something to they ass.🙄 They need to direct all that energy to whoever hurt them. Some women believe in growth through honesty and vulnerability, other women try to use your honesty and vulnerability to attack you.
Mahogany Squeeze and you need to direct what you’re saying to who you’re talking to. Nobody is calling HER a coward. I said you can’t be THAT MUCH of a coward that you allow months to past. That doesn’t mean she is a coward, the behavior is just cowardly. I’m not angry at anyone either, it’s just a conversation. It’s not the deep. Relax.
i dont feel bad for her she got everybody cussed out all cuz she cant confront issues like a grown woman.... vivica in the cut looking wounded meanwhile it aint even about you smh drama queens im with Lisa she never played fake
Da Brat being silent letting LisaRaye express herself without interruption reminded me of me and my big sister. 😒And it's kinda why I exclude her from a lot of my personal life, she's too opinionated and feels entitled. But that's my hero and I love her dearly. ❤ That sisterly love is deep.
@eros420 Nah big sister or not both are adults and boundaries should be set. You can be a protective big sister without being overbearing. The younger sibling should not be afraid to live thier own life in fear of what family might say. SOME people's family (even though they love you) love comes across as controlling and judgmental depending on the dynamic.
That means u completely missed the point. Lisa supported Brat through ALL of her ups and MANY downs. So to be left in the dark when shit starts looking good for Brat is a no no. That's not entitlement. If anything that's lack of respect for ur family on Brats part. Clearly Lisa gives a grown woman her space but if I'm constantly calling and texting u and u can't even give me a few seconds of ur time then BOOM appear on on social media platform to say hello, that's disrespectful and out of order. I can see kids in their 20s and younger behaving this way but not grown ass ppl. Now i also know lisa is a feisty one as was her cousin which is why we aren't friends any longer but as a sister she could have returned a phone call.
Its December 2023 and im here revisiting this digital gold 😂😂😂 LisaRaye over there crying and rubbing her hands together just waiting to light her ass up 💀💀😭😂😭💀
Actually, Within a few seconds, I knew something was wrong, and when DaBrat began to speak, it confirmed what I was feeling. But Lisa I believe took it to far on air. Hurt people, Hurt people....This is much deeper than we even see.....
@@bea3130 YES, and Thank you for seeing that. It broke her spirit at that moment. She honestly thought she was in spite of their differences, coming on to say Happy Birthday and to keep folks out of their personal business, which NO ONE knew. DaBrat actually owned up to why Lisa was acting shock.
Syleena's contribution to this panel is so important. She has a genuine sisterly quality & she always brings things into perspective. She's a great mediator & always helps everyone see the bigger picture.
Vivica was needed in this too though!!! Cause she tough too! I liked her responses! Vivica’s facial expressions when Lisaraye said “Yall dont know shi**....” 😂
I'm a grown a** woman and LisaRaye scares me. She has that stern motherly expression and vibe about herself and I know her daughter probably catches hell. Kinda like Claire Huxtable whose facial expression spoke volumes. As tough as DaBrat is, she has mad respect for her big sister as I have never seen her so humbling. She chose not to go toe to toe for whatever reason with LisaRaye which literally brought me to tears. With that being said LisaRaye said: ph*k all of y'all!! Hopefully they will work it out.
Lisa was not with the shits at all. If I was Brat I would be scared too. It was heartbreaking to watch. Brat looked hurt that she hurt her sister. Everybody go thru things differently and she may have needed a min before discussing everything with her. Hopefully they work it out and be close again.
🤭🤭🤭🤭 lisa's I feel you. Being real sometimes, make a fool of ourselves. Hum.. they knew what was done when they did it. We can't fall off. Stay Strong, & still love., REAL love is True'(se). Family is our 'example' to the REAL, world. Blessing to you all' & America ~
With me and my sisters, because I love hard and we've been through so damn much. If I call you and no response and zero effort for months. I'm crushed to the core. I'm the youngest of 8 sisters 3 brothers.
Da brat knows her sister is over protected about her. I truly believe Lisa told her Judy isn't the one to come out for. Anytime you have a mate and you lose contact with family members,that means that mate isn't for you. Judy is going to hurt da brat real bad and Lisa knows it. Judy is really using da brat and Lisa knows it's coming. Lisa don't want to see her little sister hurt
@@aderlinejohnson8566 thank you i just said this to someone.. i truly believe that it's the Judy part. I don't even live down south and for years heard a bunch of negative stories about Judy. (They don't have to be true) but I doubt they are all lies. Lisaray should've called her sister back in March when we all saw the information. Could've been a scam for the public, but since one of the rumors about Judy was/is that she is a scammer it makes so much sense that she would've called her sister.
I haven't really seen my mother and over for 4 months and after I talk to her I felt like the brat like you damned if you do and your damned if you don't I wish I had a biological sister Lisa needs to lighten up I felt like she was sad about something at on vacation with grown and sexy I'm going to put it out there it seemed like she was sad about something even she was covering it up
Wow ..Lisa just being mean.. She has to forgive so she wont be so harsh and bitter.. Hell my feelings are hurt 😢..Da Brat lace your boot straps up and keep moving forward positively... Keep walking with your head held high show your beautiful smile and continue to be graceful...💞
As an older sibling I felt Lisa Raye all day long. It’s not just a family member, this her sister who chose not to speak to her for months and suddenly appears on tv fronting like they were good. Then these cohosts adding their two cents about their situation like they knew what was up. I’d be pissed too and probably would’ve went off too.
Yep I have a little sister and I don't treat her like that and I changed her diapers and helped take care of her too. I think hurt is one thing and I guess hey Lisa felt she needed to display it in this way I just don't agree but hey you do what you feel you must.
But she didn't act like an adult and just bring it to a big sister like she did many other things being gay ain't nothing new only thing new about being gay is coming out. But no one likes to hear it the way she has heard it I'm sure
@@mrs.serendipity7676 True indeed but sometimes with family you just dont want to deal with their reaction. She knows how her sister is and sometimes for the moment people just want to be happy.
Wow wow wow sometimes you just can't wait I know people saying they feel sorry for the Brat. But come on now look at LisaRaye she look like she seen a ghost and if shit looked too real. No matter what their sisters they don't love each other but sometimes shit happens. I feel as if these ladies can sit on this panel and talk about everyone else there's nothing wrong with them talking about your life. But over all the other three ladies handle it well still enjoy the show Lisa Raye still the shit the Brat is still the best female rapper ever.
Absolutely! Poor baby she respects her sister.. But we sometimes have those times that we don't want to discuss stuff with family. She did not expect that..
Lol looking back knowing how it's going to go is so crazy, when they start singing happy birthday and Vivica comes in talking about...let me tell you something about family 😂😂😂😂😂 this clip got me into the show. Love these ladies
Brat was looking like "see this why I don't call you" 🤦😂 man. While I feel like this section should nt have been aired its good to see how the other ladies responded to Lisa's vulnerable moment and angry outburst with patience instead of negativity.
I don't anyone can give an opinion on either one of them. Do we know them..I know I don't. They both have the right to feel how ever they want to feel.
My father used to ask me: "What's the sound of one hand clapping?" Answer - Lisa Raye. Also reminds me of the oft repeated..."It's better to be quiet and thought a fool, than to speak and leave no doubt. All that being said...I gotta catch some episodes. Never heard this talk show before today. Happened upon...
Everybody calling LisaRaye "selfish" as if she ISN'T entitled to her feelings... Hell, she was caught off guard and as an older sister you can't expect someone to be FAKE just to save face.
Yes she’s hurt and you can tell the Da Brat is hurt also you can hear it in her voice at the end. I think the fact that they’ve spoken about it in the past, Lisa Raye just really wanted to be there for her and be apart her journey. I hope they can work things out and it doesn’t change the way they are with each other in the future
Da Brat you did the right thing. I can relate to you and sometimes you can’t talk to ppl like that. Thank you for being humble and respectful. Much love Da Brat.
Lisa has a right to be upset. How you find out your sister getting married thru social media. Anybody would have their feelings hurt during a situation like that
If anyone ever wondered if Lisa Ray was a real tell it like it is type of a female she proved it with this episode of cocktails with Queens. She clearly loves and supports her sister and she was absolutely hurt and that was real emotion and I'm so sorry that she was in such pain and I know in my heart I feel in my heart I should say that they will get past it I'm a fan of both ladies actually I'm a fan of the entire cast of cocktails with Queens best of luck to all the beautiful Queens
Right before our eyes during this show Brat turned into a lil girl who disappointed her big sister.....there are a lot of deeper issues between them.. I hope they can get back good and repair their relationship....I pray for Lisa to soften her ❤.....God is able!
Yesss towards the end Da Brat look like she wanted to cry. Awwww this touched me. I only have one sister and a sister love is the best. Sometimes we have to say what we have to say and move on.
@@larrywhite9888 I seen that however, as a little sister I related to Brat. At some point big sis has to take the parental hat off, and respect lil sis as an equal.
Being the younger sibling is not easy, especially when both of you are adults and you’re not kids anymore. I’m seeing this 2 years later and I’m legitimately in the same situation, we love our older siblings because coming up they truly are like a second parent and someone you look up to. But in adulthood all you need is a sibling and friend, there’s no need for scolding, cussing you out, overstepping boundaries and treating you like a kid. I felt Brat and her silence because that’s legit the exact same thing I’d do out of respect for my big sister. It sucks because you know your older sibling looked out for you, you think the world of them and want them to know you’re appreciative, but it’s not fair to tolerate certain behaviors out of love for them at your own expense…that’s where distance comes in, it’s not for lack of love but a need for peace
Brat was so HEART BROKEN prob embarrassed😭. She was like it's nothing bad.... Then sis came thru with some truths. LisaRaye is so hurt too. 🙏🏾 They gotta work it out.
As a baby sister, I have to say I understand where Brat is coming from. It's hard for me to tell my big sister certain things, especially about relationships. She has NEVER liked anyone I tried to be in a relationship with. Therefore, it takes a lot for me to tell her anything about a new person, share my happiness or any of that. Not that she's not supportive and not that Lisa Raye isn't supportive, but she doesn't realize that she matters to me the MOST and because of that, YES, there are times when I find it damn difficult to share my happiness with her because I'm afraid that she just may not like something or that she will want to add or subtract how I'm feeling. Yes, it hurts Lisa Raye and it hurts Brat as well. Folks on here saying Brat is wrong should already know that there are always at least TWO sides to every situation. Lisa Raye knows that as well. It was way too easy for her to be hard on her sister, easy to make her feel worse. And I wonder if their relationship is like ours and Lisa Raye is just waiting for Brat to call her instead of calling Brat and saying Wassup? My sister does that stuff where she will just say, "I was wondering when you were going to tell me", like she's my mom. She's not; she's my big sister and she can call me just like I can call her. SMDH
Lisa Raye always comes across as pissed off all the time. She's just living off her light skinned privilege because if she were dark skinned, no-one would be even trying to put up with her pissed off attitude.
@Divine 85 Erin We are all black. Your skin shade and experiences doesn't make anyone less or more black. There are dark skinned people who are super successful like Mary J Blige and Fantasia. Does that make them not black because of their money and success? White people started this colorism shit to divide us. Black people need to end this stupid mentality because this is a false narrative. We are all equal. And guess what ALL humans are equal too. God make us equal in different races and shades.
@binkyfay33@gmail.com No-one is arguing about who is or is not Black in this thread. So your point is what???? Light skinned privilege does exist by way of colourism and that is a fact. People are discriminated against and treated unfairly, denied opportunities and seen as ugly purely because of their skin colour. To pretend that doesn't exist is wilful ignorance on your part. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Discrimination_based_on_skin_color?wprov=sfla1
Awww!!😢 Da Brat turned back into a Little Girl right before our eyes!!👶 Queens.... Lisa Raye wasn't crying. She was TRYING to calm herself down before she said something that would've made matters EVEN Worse! 😷
Finally, somebody said it. I agree 💯 I'm like, a little class please. 🤦🏾♀️ You can exercise your right to, 'keep it real, aka, 100 & do it with class. ...(sigh)... SMH🤦🏾♀️
Right! I understand being hurt and shit but damn! She was saltier than the ocean. I was like wow...just wow. It's ok to keep it real but gosh. I love Da Brat...always have. And Syleena songs are 🔥!
That's that big sister little sister dynamic. Brat loves her sister and is intimidated by her. She knows how her sister is and that's why she stays away.
@@HAJ4All my own is the same way! As little sisters, we just let them be! If you really think about it, they are like 2nd hand mothers/form of authority next to mum🤷🏿♀️ It is what it is.
That's what I've always liked about Lisa you can never say she's fake. I don't want to hear nothing about nobody saying it was unprofessional she's a human being and she's allowed to have her feelings and we have all been there.
F.A. H. I agree!!! That's one thing I love about her...she doesn't fake it. She speak up & she doesn't let people treat her any kind of way. She will defintely address it.
Trust me I know! When your feelings are hurt you can’t mask it. Me and my sis go through this like every few years. I do hope they talk, meetup, hug and apologize❤️❤️❤️
Brat turned into a little girl when Lisa started going off! She should have known because she knows her sister that surprising her after not speaking for a long time was not going to go as planned.
@@StarChild2000 she was heated cause her and her sister had not spoken in months and her sister comes on this platform like they been speaking. I don’t know L Raye personally but I’m sure we all know she ain’t with that fake and phony mess
@Angela McCauley, honestly if there are siblings who never go through non-speaking periods let me know, but for the most part atleast there was a brief hello, before never getting another chance to wish 💘 sister to sister!
DaBrat knew she was about to get in trouble. Her face said it all before LisaRae started.
In trouble? She's a grown ass woman.
Facts
Girllll i said ahhhh shit😂😂😂
Yep she was silent af because she knew what it was.
@@christyluv3969 being a grown ass anything don't mean shit!!!
Lisa Raye" Y'all don't know shit. She do. You do!
5 seconds of silence.
Syleena Johnson "Wellll"
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I low key feel like Lisa was saying You do to Syleena and Viv! Because if you notice she looks at two different directions each time she says she do and you do. Idk but obviously syleena and Viv knows more!
The way I would of ended the live cuz who you cursing at lol 😂
It was them thinking Lisa was crying happy tears then she turned around unleashed on everybody 😂
Facts because she’s real man they thought she was going to be all smiling 😂
She was pissed tf off & they're all smiling like she's happy
Exactly 💯
Right ....that was some messy shit they did....they knew they were having issues hell I knew and I heard it thru the grapevine you can't tell me they didn't know!!!!
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The way they thought everything was good in the beginning was priceless… Then in comes Diamond.
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Lol right that's funny!!!
Lmao
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I feel that Da Brat turns into a little girl in the presence of her big sister
Me too. Thought I was the only one who felt that way. Especially with the way she didn't respond when LisaRaye was speaking and held her head down like she dissappointed her.
Absolutely... I felt bad for Her; You can hear her holding back tears even before she went off, thanking the Ladies for allowing her to come on the show ♥️
Remind me of my big sis minus the cursing
That was so sad hearing the tears in brat's voice. I've been in a place of having people criticize and come down hard on you in front of other people. I don't think to this degree though. But still, I hope that they mend their relationship and communication with each other.
Yea she has a lot of respect for her
Da Brat sound like a little kid talking about her sister. She miss her.
I agree
I never seem the brat like that ?, makes me respect her more ..
Big sis to greedy tho -
@@not4realnews836 yeah Lisa could have deaden it
Them older siblings always bring the kid out in us when they come around lol 🙏🏾♥️♥️♥️
@@not4realnews836 Yeah they do.
LRay is hurt and Da Brat feared her sister's reaction..... I pray for a private reconciliation...
Yes that is needed!
She needs some anger management, healing, she is as Vivica said" mean" . Her attitude is not cute at all. Nothing classy, mature or graceful about her. I'm not a fan of this behavior. Black women calling themselves queens should behave as such.
London Peach Sis, I understand what your saying, but you’ve also have to understand the pain hat LisaRae is experiencing. I know for a fact that I would be hurt and upset that I have to hear about my sister’s personal information from watching social media or hearing it in the blogs. Lisa is speaking from a place of hurt, not to mention her sisters appearance was out of the blue after avoiding her for months. As queens, sometimes our crowns get a little rattled, but it will never fall. LisaRae needed to get it out. It’s just unfortunate that it happened live and in front of all to see. I really pray that they will reconcile without cameras or extra eyes and ears around. ❤️
London Peach They can say whatever they want LisaRaye is the authority over her life and she’s not about to let people run a muck in her life and I don’t blame her. Nobody is thinking about being “cute” she is honoring her emotions and not suppressing them or trying to impress none of y’all. And you don’t know what she needs. You are not a doctor to be trying to diagnose people. Y’all talk too much, like LisaRaye said “y’all don’t know shit” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Those fake respectability politics are stupid. Y’all love screaming “black women” Like we aren’t entitled to be angry. Y’all can be worst than white supremacy with that suppressing bullshit. Move around girl!
Right
I love the realness of Lisa Raye. She doesn’t sugar coat anything
This is the realist thing I've ever seen, in real time.
Yes indeed it was but at the end of the day those sisters love each other no matter what
Facts
Too real😓
Okay!!
Exactly
The moment LisaRaye said, "I don't give AF what ya'll think." Am I the only one who watched everyone's facial expressions more than once. LOL!
yeeees nothing but crickets...hell I got scared my damn self🥴
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Especially Claudis’s ik i rewind that 100xs🤣🤣🤣
I didn't pay attention to it until I read your comment. I played it back a good 4 times, 🤣🤣🤣
I knew she was going to cussed them out if they kept talking
She’s just an older sister, who is hurt! You can tell she really loves her baby sister.
Does anyone know how they are even sisters? I mean obviously they don’t share the same mom, but I have never heard Da Brat speak of their dad in terms of how Lisa Raye talked about him being murdered. Da Brat has never mentioned anything like that so how are they sisters?
Love they have the same father
They share the same father
Lisa Belcher oh ok; I have just never heard Da Brat. Speak about him or even in the same way that Lisa Raye does. I’m thinking that maybe the brat wasn’t as close to her father as Lisa Raye was
MsBurlington1 oh ok; thank you🤗
Brat walked into that one. She was probably hoping that her sister wouldn't "act a fool" on her birthday and on TV but she didn't anticipate the smoke 🤣🤣
exactly, especially when she KNEW how her sister who she has known her whole life would act, which is to NOT act fraud becuz they're on tv but to keep it 100. So that's why Da Brat was talking nervous and apologetic from the get go.
The realist female award goes to LISA RAY!!
Hands down lol 💯
Straight like tht
If real means ghetto
I know....she stood her ground.
@@moresoulmusicman That's okay they all got her point.
I dont know who needs to hear this but Call your family...go to dinner, plan sunday dinner, send them a text, pick up the phone....do something today to FIX IT! Love is LOVE
Eh, they can stay where they're at, im seeing my moms tho lol
Amen👀🙏🙌
That’s easy to say but BayBay it’s not all sunshine and marshmallows both parties have to want to do it. And love is love, but trauma is trauma
I hear you loud & clear sis....im on it!!!!! Thanks for this msg...this was not by accident....i needed to hear this!
TheImagine91 Exactly. Trauma is Trauma and it does not equal love. I had to cut off my entire family and change my name. That’s how toxic they were. People that preach that “family over everything” bullcrap are insensitive to the things people have been through. If I was Lisa I would’ve cussed all of them out. This was NOT their place.
Brat knows her sister better than anyone else...she should've declined the invite and reached out privately
Facts! Knowing how she is, she should have politely declined the request.
Agreed😂😂
DFSdiva Right. To avoid all this shiiii Brat should have talked with LisaRaye months ago. She knew better!
Nah I know women too many women with this same attitude and no matter what you do or say you can’t please them
DaBrat should have reached out prior to her coming on the show. I would have remained my composure while on camera and got in her ass after the show.
She cleared the whole podcast 😂😂😂😂 Lisa can fight fight you can tell
Lisa is NOT playing around...but they truly love each other so that's what matters. Sisters go through it to.
She is definitely the Big sister🤧... bossy, that's them☝🏽
Right
Please, this ish was ghetto and inappropriate. This should have been a private conversation. Now, she could have called her out real quick and short and then went on with the segment in a celebratory mood, then chew her out later in private.
The Brat needed a buffer because anyone can see Lisa is hard, judge-mental and critical. You don’t have to agree with everything your baby sister do, but she should definitely know you love her and will always be her safe landing.
This makes me sad when this happens to family 🥺😢
Lisa Raye: I don't gaf what y'all say
Syleena Johnson: Well, ok!!!
😮😳😂😂😂
Syleena is GORGEOUS!!
😂🤣😂
@@nashantastanley3261 isn't she? I be in awe.
but syleena didn't say anything though, she was just listening when lisaraye said that
😆😆😆😆
Syleena is gorgeous
🔥🔥
A living doll, i just cant, she gorgeouuuusssssssss!!!!!
Yes talented and gorgeous!
What about Nicki gilbert
With make up
I have so much respect for DaBrat! Not only does she speak well and knowledgeable on the Ricky Smiley show but now seeing how she let her sister vent and express her anger without getting angry back that’s some love and respect right there!
When LisaRaye said, look here Claudia, that means STFU..., ooowee, she don’t play! Happy Birthday 🎈🎉🎊
🤣🤣🤣
Babbbbeeeeyyyy 😭😭😭😭😬😬😬
😂😂😭😭😭EXACTLY
I do know that at 9:58 & about 10:20 things got real lol. You can definitely see Vivica's whole body language shift at about 10:30. Lol smh
Marguerite King look around 16:47 to 16:50
I think that was the realest shit that has ever taken place on TV
This and TI step daughter revealing her pregnancy live some stuff should be shared personally thru family ties before gossip and media that’s hurtful asf
Agreed
For real!!! Now that's what you call reality tv!!
@@jakfrostp9201 YEP sh*t definitely got real
THEY SHOULD SPEAK IN PRIVATE BUT I TRULY RESPECT DABRAT FOR DOING THAT NO MATTER WHAT ITS A START AND I KNOW TOO THAT LISARAYE LOVES HER BUT SHE HAS BEEN HURT FOR SO LONG 😥❤🙏🙏🙏
Syleena: “You got it going on, on the mean side sometimes” 🤣🤣
That made cackle
😂🤣🤣🤣
DaBrat: 🥳
Claudia,Selena, Vivica: 🤓😊😃
Lisa: ☹️🙁🥺😭
Claudia,Selena, Vivica:😍🥰😘
Lisa: 😤😠😡
Claudia,Selena, Vivica: 🤯😱😨
Vivica: 🤗
DaBrat:😔
Lisa:🤬
Vivica:🤗🤔💁🏾♀️
Selena: 🤔💁🏾♀️
Claudia:🤔😶🌫️
Us: 😮
😂😂😂😁... Good summary
Lmfaaaao yes
LMAOOOOOOOO YES
😂😂😂😂😂 scene for scene
Pretty much😅
She was hurt😢😢😢.. Sometimes hurt comes across like anger but it’s still hurt regardless of how it appears
invincible spirit well dayuuum!! 🤣🤣
invincible spirit okay👀👀🤣🤣🤣
baby nemo ikr🤣🤣🤣
@invincible spiritEXACTLY what I was thinking! The description the Brat gave of her sister made her distance make sense. Everybody must of muted her when she said "judgemental". I've never got good vibes from L.Rye, something is off about her and she always feels like she has to play tough and/or mention how strong she is. Like why🙄
@invincible spirit L.Raye's and World problems: lack of active listening, self reflection, and accountability. No changes required, lol!!!
Its so strange seeing Da Brat turn into little sister, no matter how old I am when im with my siblings and cousins we revert back to childhood
Im glad she didn’t fake it that’s the best way to genuinely heal!!! Brat and Raye always gon’ be sisters ❤️😍🥰👑👑
invincible spirit wrong sorry! Deal with the real raw emotion instead of suppressing it and one will heal quicker! Too many people fake the funk making an apology to easy and over common! If the person who has done wrong by you doesn’t feel something during the healing process there’s nothing stopping them from doing it again! When they move past it they would have truly dealt with the REAL emotions and not that fake “I’m good” folk like doing meanwhile just holding it all in until it’s time to explode!! So mamas I have a clue and degrees you should grab a notebook 👀🤷🏽♀️
invincible spirit good night, you obviously don’t know the people your talking about sorry that ain’t it🤷🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️
invincible spirit go to bed little one
@@tamaralogan lmao girl that person in every comment proclaiming her hate for Lisa.... Nicole Murphy is that you??? 👀🤔🤨
sunshyne87 🤣🤣🤣🤣 exactly hilarious
As an older sister I can relate to Lisa , when we feel hurt over our younger siblings it hits different.
It does. I’m the oldest girl out of my sisters and they have a different dad than me but the way my heart set up is fu&fked up because I love all my sisters dearly but when things get heated i disappear cuz I don’t wanna be hurt and I don’t wanna hurt no feelings so I just keep it cute
Here is the flip side. As a younger sister, sometimes older sisters can be judgmental when all you want is an ear, a shoulder to lean on and a hug first.
@@seasonedsofisticate1901 True.....as the younger sister though, I used to be very protective over my big sister. But, then started to feel like Lisa (being left out). Everybody else and the world came before me, so had to re-shift my focus.
@@s.walton464 me too. Felt left out many time because I was the ‘baby’ of the family too so I understand what you’re saying.
Facts
This is the most vulnerable that I’ve seen Da Brat😔
Yea whenever she has any ineraaction with her sister Lisa Raye she gets vulnerable and becomes a child again for some reason
Hello
The Brat looks so sad. I hope Lisa Raye and the Brat work there differences out.🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
My thing is keep your relationship to your own self because people want judge you and brats are grown when she tried to tell nobody about her relationship and people will judge you no matter the your sister your mother or your neighbor they will judge you keep your relationship to yourself you don't owe nobody no explanation should I wish I had a sister
They will, they truly love each other.
Yeah that kind of made me wanna cry
They will but the “woops upside the head” had to come first 😀🌻
One of FAVORITE Sister Sibling Duos. I didn't even know they didn't share a mother becaose of how close they were. Brat talking about her fondest memories she had no reason to be afraid, so get WHY LRaye was is so hurt...she probably feels like Brat should've felt comfortable no matter the situation tho. Hope they come back together 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🌹🌹🤞🏽👑👑
LisaRaye went from crying to cussing everyone out in less than 15 minutes. She’s definitely from Chicago. 😂. Selena went from being very pretty and classy to talking about “fuck it.” 😂 Selena Johnson is definitely Chicago south suburban.
I said the same thing I'm very familiar with the Chi energy...I was like that's her Chicago...I get it cause I'm from Detroit and our energy is similar. 🤝🏾
Same thing I said..I'm from chicago..I was like she letting that chitown come. out..LMAO
🤣😂😂😅😅 True THIS Good point
All facts I felt like my aunties were talking #chicagonatives
I'm from the Chi... (Uptown) and yes, people from here are NOT fake! Zero to a thousand in a minute! Please believe!
Da Brat was holding in tears at the end. 😔
There’s a disconnect between the sisters and Da Brat is attempting to set boundaries with her sister and clearly has not been 100% transparent about that. Lisa Raye is struggling to accept the unspoken boundaries that Brat is setting by keeping her at a distance. Communication needs to happen here.
Great observation
Boundaries are set for ppl you need to protect yourself from.
Da Brat is a real one for showing respect to her big sis.
"I'm not Hollywood, I'm real"
Lisa Raye is the true definition of tough love
Sometimes ppl need just love without the tough.
I dont do well with super strong, argumentative and unrelenting personalities....sister or not...i wouldn't have called her either
Lisa Bakari me either.
Is that what it was?🤔
🥴 it’s the embarrassment for me. Tough love or not, don’t disrespect me in public like that. Tough love works in situations when it’s called for. Don’t curse the cast mates out for trying to smooth over the situation when she aired it out. What happened to keeping family business behind closed doors? Brat is a real one for enduring that disrespect sheesh 🤦🏾♀️.
📠💯@@twoelles1056
Lisa Raye was about to cuss her out. 🤣🤣🤣🤣she been waiting for months DABRAT.
This was the most iconic moment of Cocktails with the Queens!
I had to come back and watch this
Girl..... When LisaRaye was going in, hell I said I was sorry... Had me scared... And im not even there....
Right
💀💀💀😂🤣😭😭 you just made me holler. I loved when she said y'all dont know #**%🤬
😂😂😂 same!
Sis! I got scared for Da Brat, myself. I was nervous for her.😂
@@nikboss6806 me too 😂😂. LisaRaye does not hold back, lol.
She is hurt that she wasn’t included. And I’ve been where Brat is too. You let so much time go by that you’re scared to reach out and before you know it it’s been a year.
You can’t be so much of a coward that you let too much time past by with people you actually love, respect, and want in your life. Hard conversations are needed sometimes. Boundaries are needed sometimes. You can’t let FEAR control you. Obviously Da Brat struggles with letting fear control her, because If she didn’t she wouldn’t have hid her identity for so long.
Scared? For what ....thats a sad ass EXCUSE for not reaching out to people you "claim" to love...and GOD FORBID SOMETHING SHOULD HAPPEN AND THE PERSON PASS ON...THEN YOU WOULD BE SINGING YOUR SHOULD OF ..COULD OF ..WOULD OF'S ....IM DEALING WITH A SIMILAR ISSUE...THAT IF I PASS ON ..NOBODY WOULD KNOW...BECAUSE THEY ARE SELFISH... I'VE TRIED REACHING OUT BUT I GUESS THEY DONT CONSIDER ME FAMILY ANYMORE BECAUSE ION GET NO RETURNS...SO YES LISA RAYE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO FEEL AND SAY EVERYTHING SHE DID AND DA BRAT NEED TO HUMBLE HERSELF AND MAKE THAT CALL OR BETTER YET GO SEE HER SISTER AND DO IT IN PERSON..YES SHE IS GOING TO GET CUSSED OUT BUT SHE GON HAVE TO SWALLOW HER PRIDE AND FIGHT FOR HER SISTER BECAUSE LISA RAYE MENT EVERYTHING SHE SAID!
@Jacqui The great - I understood what you were saying and I don't know why these self righteous assholes are talking to you like that. Sometimes you unconsciously let things go by and when you think about it, you know you deserve to get cussed out and you ain't ready to hear it yet so you don't reach out until you feel you are ready. I've been on both sides of that equation before and we learn from it and move on. I think it's way more productive to encourage each other to face these things head on, and not let time go by because distance can become permanent and you end up with regrets. I don't know why these miserable hoes are calling you a coward or typing in all caps like you did something to they ass.🙄 They need to direct all that energy to whoever hurt them. Some women believe in growth through honesty and vulnerability, other women try to use your honesty and vulnerability to attack you.
Mahogany Squeeze and you need to direct what you’re saying to who you’re talking to. Nobody is calling HER a coward. I said you can’t be THAT MUCH of a coward that you allow months to past. That doesn’t mean she is a coward, the behavior is just cowardly. I’m not angry at anyone either, it’s just a conversation. It’s not the deep. Relax.
Yes!
YES! This show is too REAL! No pretense. No facade. No fakeness. And I LOVE every minute of it. Thank you ladies.
I agree they need to stand down she was blindsided Brat should have called her in private😢🙋🏿♀️😗😗
Yessss same here brotha!! 🙋🏽♀️
Raw and Real.
The brat bow down to big sister! Lisa was giving her the business,the brat was like a baby when she was talking
That part!!!!!! I love it
I love how Brat still respected her sister even though the surprise turned ugly great job to all the ladies who tried to help move forward👍😎
Diamond: 🔫 Everybody leave the Zoom room plz!!😂😂
LMAO five times
💥🔫 🗣 "I said everybody leave the Zoom Room PLEASE!!" 🤣🤣🤣😂😂
😭😭😭😭😭
Lmfao
😅😅😅 NICE!💯💯
I bet DaBrat cried after this segment. She looked really sad.
I was thinking the same thing
oh yeah she felt hurt
I felt hurt for DaBrat. I would have gave it to her the same way if that was my sister. Straight talk for straight understanding.
You could here it in here voice...
i dont feel bad for her she got everybody cussed out all cuz she cant confront issues like a grown woman.... vivica in the cut looking wounded meanwhile it aint even about you smh drama queens im with Lisa she never played fake
Da Brat being silent letting LisaRaye express herself without interruption reminded me of me and my big sister. 😒And it's kinda why I exclude her from a lot of my personal life, she's too opinionated and feels entitled. But that's my hero and I love her dearly. ❤ That sisterly love is deep.
My little sister is this way
Ugh I need to fix this w my sister
I feel you cause I AM that big sis lmao
@eros420 Nah big sister or not both are adults and boundaries should be set. You can be a protective big sister without being overbearing. The younger sibling should not be afraid to live thier own life in fear of what family might say. SOME people's family (even though they love you) love comes across as controlling and judgmental depending on the dynamic.
That means u completely missed the point. Lisa supported Brat through ALL of her ups and MANY downs. So to be left in the dark when shit starts looking good for Brat is a no no. That's not entitlement. If anything that's lack of respect for ur family on Brats part. Clearly Lisa gives a grown woman her space but if I'm constantly calling and texting u and u can't even give me a few seconds of ur time then BOOM appear on on social media platform to say hello, that's disrespectful and out of order. I can see kids in their 20s and younger behaving this way but not grown ass ppl. Now i also know lisa is a feisty one as was her cousin which is why we aren't friends any longer but as a sister she could have returned a phone call.
Its December 2023 and im here revisiting this digital gold 😂😂😂 LisaRaye over there crying and rubbing her hands together just waiting to light her ass up 💀💀😭😂😭💀
December 2024 here 😂
wow I thought LisaRaye was at first crying happy tears but this is deep!
Actually, Within a few seconds, I knew something was wrong, and when DaBrat began to speak, it confirmed what I was feeling. But Lisa I believe took it to far on air. Hurt people, Hurt people....This is much deeper than we even see.....
Tymbre Turner at 6:43 you basically see brat turn into a child. Her mannerisms and her voice everything
@@bea3130 YES, and Thank you for seeing that. It broke her spirit at that moment. She honestly thought she was in spite of their differences, coming on to say Happy Birthday and to keep folks out of their personal business, which NO ONE knew. DaBrat actually owned up to why Lisa was acting shock.
Them stupid ass tears pissed me off. 😤😤👊😤
Syleena's contribution to this panel is so important. She has a genuine sisterly quality & she always brings things into perspective. She's a great mediator & always helps everyone see the bigger picture.
It’s the “my God today” for me.
Vivica was needed in this too though!!! Cause she tough too! I liked her responses! Vivica’s facial expressions when Lisaraye said “Yall dont know shi**....” 😂
And she is beautiful
Kiyonalee Smith That face was hilarious
I love Syleena! Always have. Always will.
I'm a grown a** woman and LisaRaye scares me. She has that stern motherly expression and vibe about herself and I know her daughter probably catches hell. Kinda like Claire Huxtable whose facial expression spoke volumes. As tough as DaBrat is, she has mad respect for her big sister as I have never seen her so humbling. She chose not to go toe to toe for whatever reason with LisaRaye which literally brought me to tears. With that being said LisaRaye said: ph*k all of y'all!! Hopefully they will work it out.
Girl who you tellin. When she said I don't give a +uck bout what y'all I felt she was talking to me. Clutching my pearls like what I do?
😂🤣LisaRaye killed it
GIRL, I said the same thing.🤣
NOBODY wanted that smoke, ya hear me lol
Lisa was not with the shits at all. If I was Brat I would be scared too. It was heartbreaking to watch. Brat looked hurt that she hurt her sister. Everybody go thru things differently and she may have needed a min before discussing everything with her. Hopefully they work it out and be close again.
I sure as hell sat up straight in my seat and listened like she was talking to me! 😂🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
This is a raw big sister, little sister moment ❤️ The ladies did right with their commentating. Lisa right to feel how she feels tho ✨
Lisa Raye is straight forward ...she never changes who she is truly for anyone .....that's called being true to who you are
Indeed!
😊 ~ by the blood~
Yes' indeed. Sad sometimes we have to be so Real, they'll make you the bad guy. God Bless America ~🤝*
🤭🤭🤭🤭 lisa's I feel you. Being real sometimes, make a fool of ourselves.
Hum.. they knew what was done when they did it. We can't fall off.
Stay Strong, & still love., REAL love is True'(se).
Family is our 'example' to the REAL, world.
Blessing to you all' & America ~
I love LisaRaye she is so real. She's not faking it for nobody.
"Real" and selfish and insensitive are too different things
@@SaBrinaFReece Lmao
With me and my sisters, because I love hard and we've been through so damn much. If I call you and no response and zero effort for months. I'm crushed to the core. I'm the youngest of 8 sisters 3 brothers.
you sound trash too
Exactly
It’s sad how brat goes into a shell...She respect her sister so much it’s crazy...How one person can make you feel that way.
Da brat knows her sister is over protected about her. I truly believe Lisa told her Judy isn't the one to come out for. Anytime you have a mate and you lose contact with family members,that means that mate isn't for you. Judy is going to hurt da brat real bad and Lisa knows it. Judy is really using da brat and Lisa knows it's coming. Lisa don't want to see her little sister hurt
That's her older sister like her 2nd mom and you can tell she don't play fr
@@aderlinejohnson8566 thank you i just said this to someone.. i truly believe that it's the Judy part. I don't even live down south and for years heard a bunch of negative stories about Judy. (They don't have to be true) but I doubt they are all lies. Lisaray should've called her sister back in March when we all saw the information. Could've been a scam for the public, but since one of the rumors about Judy was/is that she is a scammer it makes so much sense that she would've called her sister.
@@aderlinejohnson8566 Ummm! We already knew so there was no coming out.
True, i have the same relationship with my older sister too. So i understand how Da Brat may feel
I love Lisa raye… she was being str8 forward about her sister… that’s what real love is about family…
The SILENCE after Lisa Raye said "idgaf what ya'll say..."
That silence was deafening 😂😂😂
And hilarious at the same damn time...esp Claudia face😂😆🤣
I cried *literally *😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭
They were all embarrassed she acted a clowned
@@londonpeach6223 right!!! There's a time and place for everything and that was not it. Two wrongs don't make a right.
I don’t think Lisa like Judy at all lol but she will play like she does for da brat lol
I felt bad brat was holding back tears. 😢 it just got worse after like damn.
I haven't really seen my mother and over for 4 months and after I talk to her I felt like the brat like you damned if you do and your damned if you don't I wish I had a biological sister Lisa needs to lighten up I felt like she was sad about something at on vacation with grown and sexy I'm going to put it out there it seemed like she was sad about something even she was covering it up
Wow ..Lisa just being mean.. She has to forgive so she wont be so harsh and bitter.. Hell my feelings are hurt 😢..Da Brat lace your boot straps up and keep moving forward positively... Keep walking with your head held high show your beautiful smile and continue to be graceful...💞
You are so right
They’re SISTERS. Da’ Brat KNOWS her sister. She KNEW Lisa Raye was going to keep it ABSOLUTELY 100! That’s who she is!
@Milli They keep saying shes emotional....she happy....#SheWasPissed!!
As an older sibling I felt Lisa Raye all day long. It’s not just a family member, this her sister who chose not to speak to her for months and suddenly appears on tv fronting like they were good. Then these cohosts adding their two cents about their situation like they knew what was up. I’d be pissed too and probably would’ve went off too.
why wasn't she speaking to her
Da brat was humble, in lil sis mode.
She always has been humble...
She knew she phucked up
If backfired was a person...LOL
🤣🤣😂 bang bang 💥
But Brat knows how her sister is, her face when Lisa went in or her said it all, she wasn't surprised.
💯💯💯💯
Ok!!!lmao😂
Yesss 😆😂 I could tell LRaye was the big sis!
I love how DaBrat just let her sister voice her pain without trying to argue back with her.
@invincible spirit Alll that? Lolol, okay.
DABRAT IS SCARE OF HER SISTER SHE SAID IT HERSELF
She let her sister talk? More like she was too afraid to interrupt her....
@invincible spirit you seem a lil toxic yourself 😒
This right here is why I love my oldest daughter so much because she always does this! Love this comment
“You got it goin on on the mean side sometimes” 😂
😂😂
She is hurt, she wanted Brat to live her truth more than anything. She wants to share her happiness with her...
That's it
This right here!!!! That's all that's it
No she wanted to know Brats business before anyone else
Right!
Awwww, so true. She’s always been her sisters biggest fan.
I agree with Brat. Sometimes older siblings are overbearing. When your younger sibling becomes of age you have to treat her like an adult.
Exactly 💯
Yep I have a little sister and I don't treat her like that and I changed her diapers and helped take care of her too.
I think hurt is one thing and I guess hey Lisa felt she needed to display it in this way I just don't agree but hey you do what you feel you must.
But she didn't act like an adult and just bring it to a big sister like she did many other things being gay ain't nothing new only thing new about being gay is coming out.
But no one likes to hear it the way she has heard it I'm sure
@@mrs.serendipity7676 True indeed but sometimes with family you just dont want to deal with their reaction. She knows how her sister is and sometimes for the moment people just want to be happy.
Brat being humble she love her big sister.
Wow wow wow sometimes you just can't wait I know people saying they feel sorry for the Brat. But come on now look at LisaRaye she look like she seen a ghost and if shit looked too real. No matter what their sisters they don't love each other but sometimes shit happens. I feel as if these ladies can sit on this panel and talk about everyone else there's nothing wrong with them talking about your life. But over all the other three ladies handle it well still enjoy the show Lisa Raye still the shit the Brat is still the best female rapper ever.
She respects her sister and this ain’t the place for them to get into it. I hope they work it out.
Absolutely! Poor baby she respects her sister.. But we sometimes have those times that we don't want to discuss stuff with family. She did not expect that..
Yeah you can see they have a good relationship , they’ll be ok. It’s just some true big sis and little sis bumping heads
@Since_2012 u6666 5 u u
Lol looking back knowing how it's going to go is so crazy, when they start singing happy birthday and Vivica comes in talking about...let me tell you something about family 😂😂😂😂😂 this clip got me into the show. Love these ladies
😂😂😂😂😂
Vivica always takes me out with that. Lisa said yall don't know shit!
Brat was looking like "see this why I don't call you" 🤦😂 man. While I feel like this section should nt have been aired its good to see how the other ladies responded to Lisa's vulnerable moment and angry outburst with patience instead of negativity.
I didn't feel she was angry as much as she was hurt.
it’s crazy cause right before lisa spoke, brat spoke on how Lisa talks down on her
I feel so bad for brat
That's what I said 👀☕
Brat was Hurt. She Loves LisaRaye but she's afraid of Her Big Sister Judging Her
As usual when you try to surprise somebody, you end up getting surprised.. lol
That’s why I don’t do surprises. 😂
Da Brat should've called her sister privately FIRST since she knows her sister. Lisa Raye would've been more open.
I don't anyone can give an opinion on either one of them. Do we know them..I know I don't. They both have the right to feel how ever they want to feel.
True
That's what I'm saying!! Lisa been her sister all her life, you know her and how she is.
Agreed. She knew better 😂😂
Brat did it this way cause she was scared of Lisa reaction.
A year later and I’m still laughing because vivica is going off in positivity and Lisa really not happy crying🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣 go Lraye it’s ya birthday it’s ya birthday. Lisa raye said fuck all the shit !
🤣🤣
Man the funniest part
I love how brat allow for Lisa to have her moment to express herself without arguing back
Indeed because two sisters don’t need to do that
My father used to ask me: "What's the sound of one hand clapping?" Answer - Lisa Raye. Also reminds me of the oft repeated..."It's better to be quiet and thought a fool, than to speak and leave no doubt. All that being said...I gotta catch some episodes. Never heard this talk show before today. Happened upon...
Definitely
Yesssss that’s what you call Class!
Lil sis let big sis talk.
LisaRaye has always been open and don't bite her tongue and I am here for it.
Yeah they can't be telling Lisa how to feel. She held it in for a long time during the interview but had enough.
viv too. they dont play
I am here for the transparency!! Chicago WOMEN do not PLAY👏
exactly, she was like “ion give a fuck what y’all saying” .
@@nifrediahamilton2781 No. We definitely don't. Lol
Everybody calling LisaRaye "selfish" as if she ISN'T entitled to her feelings... Hell, she was caught off guard and as an older sister you can't expect someone to be FAKE just to save face.
AND IT'S HER BIRTHDAY LOL
Exactly!!
She is just like me ...keep it real kinda girl. She ain't no joke.
Yes she’s hurt and you can tell the Da Brat is hurt also you can hear it in her voice at the end. I think the fact that they’ve spoken about it in the past, Lisa Raye just really wanted to be there for her and be apart her journey. I hope they can work things out and it doesn’t change the way they are with each other in the future
She is definitely entitled to her feelings and she expressed them and everyone listened...She kept taking jabs which then became petty
Da Brat you did the right thing. I can relate to you and sometimes you can’t talk to ppl like that. Thank you for being humble and respectful. Much love Da Brat.
"I SAID EVERYBODY OUT THE MFKN DRESSING ROOM PLEASE!!"
😂😂😂
U A ASS 4 THAT ONE 😆
😂🤣
😂🤣😂🤣
When Lisa Raye said , " Yall don't know shit but you do. You do. "
Ms LisaRaye definitely gave Players Club Diamond vibes.
Lisa has a right to be upset. How you find out your sister getting married thru social media. Anybody would have their feelings hurt during a situation like that
I understand Lisa’s anger. I want to know and be involved in my lil sister’s important moments too. Luckily she shares with me. Love you sis😘
She not getting married. She just came out publicly that she's gay
It is cold
@@USER1236630 Still upsetting to learn a MAJOR announcement like that.
If anyone ever wondered if Lisa Ray was a real tell it like it is type of a female she proved it with this episode of cocktails with Queens.
She clearly loves and supports her sister and she was absolutely hurt and that was real emotion and I'm so sorry that she was in such pain and I know in my heart I feel in my heart I should say that they will get past it I'm a fan of both ladies actually I'm a fan of the entire cast of cocktails with Queens best of luck to all the beautiful Queens
Right before our eyes during this show Brat turned into a lil girl who disappointed her big sister.....there are a lot of deeper issues between them.. I hope they can get back good and repair their relationship....I pray for Lisa to soften her ❤.....God is able!
Yesss towards the end Da Brat look like she wanted to cry. Awwww this touched me. I only have one sister and a sister love is the best. Sometimes we have to say what we have to say and move on.
I swear Right Infront of our eyes brat turned into that lil girl she used to be that her sister used to whoop
Yeah you nailed it. The Queen's like damn take a drink🤣😂😆 This y Brat ain say nuffin
It was like Lisa is still throwing her weight around after all these years.
@@larrywhite9888 I seen that however, as a little sister I related to Brat. At some point big sis has to take the parental hat off, and respect lil sis as an equal.
Being the younger sibling is not easy, especially when both of you are adults and you’re not kids anymore. I’m seeing this 2 years later and I’m legitimately in the same situation, we love our older siblings because coming up they truly are like a second parent and someone you look up to. But in adulthood all you need is a sibling and friend, there’s no need for scolding, cussing you out, overstepping boundaries and treating you like a kid. I felt Brat and her silence because that’s legit the exact same thing I’d do out of respect for my big sister. It sucks because you know your older sibling looked out for you, you think the world of them and want them to know you’re appreciative, but it’s not fair to tolerate certain behaviors out of love for them at your own expense…that’s where distance comes in, it’s not for lack of love but a need for peace
Last daughter of 4 girls 🤣
At the end of the day...mutual respect is everything in a relationship.
Brat was so HEART BROKEN prob embarrassed😭. She was like it's nothing bad.... Then sis came thru with some truths.
LisaRaye is so hurt too. 🙏🏾 They gotta work it out.
Damn!!! Ms. Lisa went from crying to gangsta mode in 10 mins. The sh*t had me nervous
Lisa my baby
That was like im pissed crying, like i dont want to take it there, but i cant hold it back
😂😂😂😭😭😂😂
I don't like seeing them fight
Da brat is devastated
Lisa is on fire with no water in sight.
Honestly though Big Sis is right.
Yes she is & Brat knows it.
As a baby sister, I have to say I understand where Brat is coming from. It's hard for me to tell my big sister certain things, especially about relationships. She has NEVER liked anyone I tried to be in a relationship with. Therefore, it takes a lot for me to tell her anything about a new person, share my happiness or any of that. Not that she's not supportive and not that Lisa Raye isn't supportive, but she doesn't realize that she matters to me the MOST and because of that, YES, there are times when I find it damn difficult to share my happiness with her because I'm afraid that she just may not like something or that she will want to add or subtract how I'm feeling. Yes, it hurts Lisa Raye and it hurts Brat as well. Folks on here saying Brat is wrong should already know that there are always at least TWO sides to every situation. Lisa Raye knows that as well. It was way too easy for her to be hard on her sister, easy to make her feel worse. And I wonder if their relationship is like ours and Lisa Raye is just waiting for Brat to call her instead of calling Brat and saying Wassup? My sister does that stuff where she will just say, "I was wondering when you were going to tell me", like she's my mom. She's not; she's my big sister and she can call me just like I can call her. SMDH
No LisaRaye ain't right. This is Brat's life and Brat is happy and don't want to be bossed around with her relationship.
yes Lisa was hurt. she has to chill tho. there was a reason Da Brat felt she need to step back there has to adult respect there
Agreed..she is very hurt by that..they were too close for her to find out the way she did.
Shout out to the other hosts for really trying to ease it all over. They are really ones for that
I love that lisa said that's my sister and she's not going anywhere I love her. That's real. Congratulations Brat
That’s literally her sister tho they got the same dad I did not know that
That was the scariest 90 seconds of silence I’ve ever experienced... I never want to get on LisaRaye’s bad side.
Lisa Raye always comes across as pissed off all the time. She's just living off her light skinned privilege because if she were dark skinned, no-one would be even trying to put up with her pissed off attitude.
@@NickyM_0 We are all the same! So sick of this dark skin/light skin bullshit. Stop the division. We need to be unified!
@Divine 85 Erin We are all black. Your skin shade and experiences doesn't make anyone less or more black. There are dark skinned people who are super successful like Mary J Blige and Fantasia. Does that make them not black because of their money and success? White people started this colorism shit to divide us. Black people need to end this stupid mentality because this is a false narrative. We are all equal. And guess what ALL humans are equal too. God make us equal in different races and shades.
@Divine 85 Erin Thank you!
@binkyfay33@gmail.com No-one is arguing about who is or is not Black in this thread. So your point is what???? Light skinned privilege does exist by way of colourism and that is a fact. People are discriminated against and treated unfairly, denied opportunities and seen as ugly purely because of their skin colour. To pretend that doesn't exist is wilful ignorance on your part.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Discrimination_based_on_skin_color?wprov=sfla1
Da Brat: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! LOVE YOU!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Lisa Raye: 😡
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
😢
😂😂😂
Whoever Sylena glam squad is needs a raise. She’s sitting hunty
She does her own makeup!!!! She needs to do a master class. She is always flawless.
Awww!!😢 Da Brat turned back into a Little Girl right before our eyes!!👶 Queens.... Lisa Raye wasn't crying. She was TRYING to calm herself down before she said something that would've made matters EVEN Worse! 😷
What you said!!
That part!!! She was trying hard not to jump thru the phone and kick somebodys ass!!
Hello
Da Brat was trying so hard to be nice and I’m glad she did
Finally, somebody said it. I agree 💯
I'm like, a little class please. 🤦🏾♀️ You can exercise your right to, 'keep it real, aka, 100 & do it with class. ...(sigh)...
SMH🤦🏾♀️
Right! I understand being hurt and shit but damn! She was saltier than the ocean. I was like wow...just wow. It's ok to keep it real but gosh. I love Da Brat...always have. And Syleena songs are 🔥!
She was very respectful. Poor BRAT
Right!
@@kiwi9921 Exactly!!
“ you got it going on, on the mean side sometimes”... shout out to the nicest way to call someone a bit&h I’ve ever heard lol!
Yessssss!!! I will be using that from now on😁😁
I'll be using that now even tho I felt a lil hit when she said it 🙄
😂😂😁 I rewound that part. That was hilarious.
I swear
Lisaraye being Hella dramatic for the cameras
All I know Syleena makeup & hair is flawless
Syleena is a stunning woman.🥰
DaBrat I have mad respect for how you held your composure.
That's that big sister little sister dynamic. Brat loves her sister and is intimidated by her. She knows how her sister is and that's why she stays away.
@@HAJ4All my own is the same way! As little sisters, we just let them be! If you really think about it, they are like 2nd hand mothers/form of authority next to mum🤷🏿♀️ It is what it is.
She step in to say my big sis don’t want hear that from you all…
Yes because she know she was wrong.
Because she knows she is wrong.
What else is she going to do?
That's what I've always liked about Lisa you can never say she's fake. I don't want to hear nothing about nobody saying it was unprofessional she's a human being and she's allowed to have her feelings and we have all been there.
F.A. H. I agree!!! That's one thing I love about her...she doesn't fake it. She speak up & she doesn't let people treat her any kind of way. She will defintely address it.
Trust me I know! When your feelings are hurt you can’t mask it. Me and my sis go through this like every few years. I do hope they talk, meetup, hug and apologize❤️❤️❤️
@@DajaLatte Right, I can not pretend to be happy when I'm not, it shows on my face. I can't hide my feelings.
@@DajaLatte They'll get pass this because there's love there and Brat see how hurt her sister is.
It was unprofessional of them to ambush her like this
Brat turned into a little girl when Lisa started going off! She should have known because she knows her sister that surprising her after not speaking for a long time was not going to go as planned.
Exactly, we tell who is alpha of the two.
Da brat's sister loves her sister deep.
But when u have older siblings too tho the dynamic of the relationship is totally different
HazelEyes Lisa to real to fake anything
@@tamaralogan you right she can't hide her rage.
"Brat turned into a little girl when Lisa started going off"
TOTALLY!! But it was so adorable to see how much she respects her. Now that made me cry.
Looking back, this was really internet gold 😂😂😂😂
Imagine telling someone to do something for years and when they do it you the last person to find out. I feel Lisa Raye's pain.
Yea I feel her pain to
Yeah
Me too
It took LisaRaye a WHOLE 6 minutes to collect herself in order to respond.... Whew she was HOT! 🔥
Hotter than fish grease
about what tho???????
I think she was hot bc they hadn't talked and because now Brat got a girlfriend and she wasn't the first to know...smh
@@srekalsrediar6855 lololololol
@@StarChild2000 she was heated cause her and her sister had not spoken in months and her sister comes on this platform like they been speaking. I don’t know L Raye personally but I’m sure we all know she ain’t with that fake and phony mess
Lisa raye is so Chicago😂.... that end “looka here Claudia” 😆
You mean West Side of Chicago
That's where she from
All those women over there act just like her
Oh she'll get all the way live on you
@eros420
Dummy they from the West Side
I'm from the South Side
Everybody in Chicago knows they from out West
Chill out bruh
Claudia @12:23 I felt that laugh cause it was awkward asf! Especially when they all thought it was good at first! 😅😅😅
Don't play with Lisa Raye, she not for play play & that's on periodt!!
Nope!
Okay. For real.
Syleena looks beautiful, they all do but Syleena looks brand new
Almost didn't recognize her. Gorgeous
Yesssssssssss
I HAD TO CLEAR MY EYES TWICE, DID SHE GET HER FACE DONE?WOWWWW
She look likes she could be one
of the Destiny's Child members
She Ready!🤩MATTERS PEOPLE PEACE&LOVE
@@joycelynnwellons2616
I don't think so. Probably the weight loss and healthy eating. She's always been beautiful.
Man this is the realist podcast I ever seen! Lisa Raye is a real big sister! ✊🏿 😆😆😂😂
@Angela McCauley, honestly if there are siblings who never go through non-speaking periods let me know, but for the most part atleast there was a brief hello, before never getting another chance to wish 💘 sister to sister!
This was the most realist episode in episodic history. Forrealllllllll. I just love black women. So real.
Thank u KING🖤🖤👑😘