And that sir is her flaw. She wasn't always like this, just after the twins were born. She probably figured if praying worked to save one of her twins, then surely the answer to everything is a simple prayer. It is rather unfortunate.
@Sly9192 I thought it was after Georgie was born not the twins. I thought she had complications with him and promised God if he saved him she'd devote her life to him or something like that
@@DosagePosage actually it was because of Missy that she became a devoted christian. If you had watched the earlier season missy took meemaws make up for a school picture even though she wasn't allowed. When Mary found out she was furious. Missy said that she wished meemaw was her mom cause she is so cool. To help her understande how much her mother loved her meemaw told Missy her birth story. When Missy was born the doctors were not sure that she was going to make it. Scared, Mary made a promise to God that if Missy was able to be saved she will start reading the bible and going the church. Missy was the reason. Not sheldon or georgie. In fact Mary used to go to the movies with George to watch an r rated movie even after georgie was born. In fact, they took Georgie to the cinema to watch that kind of movie when he was 4 because they can't find a babysitter
It can be a crutch too. However Mary was definitely in the wrong for not being there for her children. You can't avoid your responsibilities claiming "religion" the way she did.
@@denkyuheddo1355 that adds nothing Why play a sad song over a comedy scene or a funky music over an emotional scene There are lots of non copyrighted songs and u can play the one that might actually suit the scene
Meemaw's right and Mary could never admit that her mother is right and she's wrong. Mary was always there for Sheldon but never for Georgie or even Missy
@@Everythingmedia-b1y no, but she’s expected to continue to be a parent. I’ve had 6 family members pass since I’ve been a mother, I mourn but I still have to be present, I still have to be involved in their hobbies and activities and there needs. I can be a puddle when they go to bed at night but before that I need to be stable a pillar they can lean on. You don’t get to choose when parenting ends. It ends with death.
@@Thehoun oh come off it, she is awful because meemaw is right, right now their father who is a big part of their life just died, and instead of being with her kids to comfort them, one of whom is leaving, she is sitting at a grave feeling sorry for herself with stupid excuses and denying her responsibility as a mother while using religion as an excuse. She isn't too religious, she is too stupid.
Unfortunately thats what some religious folk believe. That suffering on earth is a test that God sent to them or their children. And that everything would be fine because when they die their souls are saved. Honestly its nothing but an excuse, and those kinds of people are too focused on the destination, rather than the journey.
She's using prayer as a means of avoidance. Being there for her kids after the death of their father would be forcing her to confront her own feelings about his death and she's not ready to do that. It's understandable and not malicious, but when you're a parent, you don't really have the luxury of avoidance.
I wouldn't be able to put up with the religious hoohah. I just wouldn't be able to. There is no way that I could be anywhere near as tactful as Meemaw when dealing with somebody who, with a straight face, says they don't have beer in heaven and then talks about praying for her kids souls instead of actually just being there for them.
@@tailsoluvI am an extreme believer in God and Jesus but these scenes anger me. First of all it is always the person's choice if their souls are saved and second they lost their father and based on these scenes I would like to say they also lost their mother. Even though God is everything to me I agree with meemaw when she says the kids don't need her prayers. They need their mother. Because that is very true.
She wasn’t hateful no more so than George, George and Mary had a life together… some good some bad… just like any other married couple that stays the course.
@@wanderingeldest5627 I don't think it was kindness. I think it was obedience. It states in the bible that drinking it wrong and talks about being of sober mind.
A man in his home was visited by a police officer. The officer told him that a flood was coming and that he needed to evacuate. The man said "It's okay, God will protect me.". The waters rose and a rescue team came on a boat. They told the man that he needed to come with them to safety. The man said "It's okay, God will protect me.". The waters rose and the man was forced to climb onto his roof. The rescue team came back in a helicopter and begged the man to let them save him. He said "It's okay, God will save me.". The man drowned. When he faced God for his judgement, he asked "Why didn't you save me?". God replied "I sent you a warning, a boat, and a helicopter. You sat and prayed when you could have been saved.". I believe in the power of prayer, I absolutely do. But I also believe that God helps those who are willing to try and help themselves. Mary sat around praying for the souls of her children when they needed her to be present.
That's the thing I don't understand about religious people like that. Like their kid is dying in the hospital and instead of letting a medical professional help they say "If we pray then God will save her. If she passes then that's God's will" GOD HAD YOU GO TO A HOSPITAL TO SAVE HER. God had the plan for those people to suffer through medical school to save people, but somehow they go against God's plan and are trying to play God or something?
The fact she cared more about "Saving their souls" then being their for her grieving children disgusts me.... in the end religion was more important to her then being there for her children when they needed her
I have to think in her mindset she is nervous of losing more of her family - her fear is that both George and her kids will end up in hell if she doesn’t try. Also she lost her husband- not a perfect excuse but an explanation. She has flaws but deserves some empathy in a time of need (I mean to an extent because she’s fictional lol)
@@laurab.5791yes and no, intercession is an important part of the Christian faith so you can pray someone finds salvation but prayer alone without works doesn't do anything
They're protestant, they tend to come up with these conclusions from nowhere. The Bible shows Jesus drank wine, and many times it compares Heaven to a banquet. I don't believe we will be getting drunk in Heaven but I don't think a beer is that out of the question
@@maryaislost107 More specifically she’s Southern Baptist and you’ve never seen greater sticks in the mud that a congregation of Southern Baptists. If you wanna have a church that hates on other churches for having bands, thinks dancing is going to automatically lead to thoughts of sex so it’s also a big no, and nitpick every single peice of secular music, movies, shows etc. looking for where “the devil” has wiggled into to corrupt the youth then Southern Baptism is the place for you
The Bible frowns on drunkenness and addiction to alcohol. Also, he only changed the water to wine at the request of his mother. There's only a couple other instances where you will read about Jesus and wine being in the same room, and one of those is the Last Supper.
Holy shit that's quite the grammar. In reality he did say something like "all is good in moderation" when someone asked him about alcohol. So drinking is fine.
She was avoiding confronting what was happening which is understandable. I’m not saying it’s right, just that she’s a human being who lost her husband and that kind of pain is incredibly difficult to confront even if her children need her
@user-pi3hd2bt3f So He's "All Powerful" yet needs us to do the leg work? Explains why "God" has YET to save One Single Child that has had their innocence stripped from them BY "Men of God". Countless examples of Him putting foot 2 🫏 over the PETTIEST of infractions, yet it's 🙈🙉🙊 when his own are cover up that stuff on a GLOBAL scale?
@user-pi3hd2bt3f 🙄 Prayers don't work because it's MYTHOLOGY and He's not real. This is the 21st century, its WELL past time we lay down Bronze Age Dogma
Don't think about when your loved ones die. Instead cherish the memories you can make while they, and yourself, are alive. I've always believed we should not mourn for the dead, we should thank them for the memories they blessed us with and the gifts and lessons they taught us throughout life. You may cry cause you miss them, but you'll see them again. It's inevitable. When you see them again they'll want to know how you've been doing and what you did with your life. It's a nicer thought 😊
I’m sorry but I know for a fact my grandfather is up there enjoying his favorite beer all he wants, he loves his beer just as much as he loves Jesus 😂😂😂
Mary was avoiding confronting it because that’s a stage of grief. Helping her children through it would’ve meant she would have to accept it was happening and that’s immensely hard to do. Y’all come down on her way too hard.
I am not a christ, but the most important thing The Creator did creat is humans. So, not attending to her children in that hard time is probably the wrong way to follow your belief. Especially since each has to take care of their own sins.
This scene perfectly sums up Mary's character, and the problems that everyone has with her. This is the type of woman I'd tell my son to divorce every single chance I got, even if he was 15-20 years into the marriage. I honestly hope she knows he cheated, haven't watched enough to know if she found out but....I think knowing that she drove her man to cheat on her would really be something that slapped some sense into her. You know, after the initial anger wears off and she actually starts to wonder how it got to that point. THEN Meemaw could come in and start pointing out her mistakes.
I used to be a part of a recovery ministry at a church. One of pastor’s said that everyone has the chance of being addicted to anything and anything can be what seems like a good thing. He led off with too much church and not enough family time. Then too much work, etc. That second one was my problem. He then said the book says God first, family second, then everything else and He was so right!
A LIVE ISN'T WORTH LIVING UNLESS YOU LIVE, BUT A LIFE IS NOT WORTH LIVING IF YOU ONLY CARE ABOUT THE SOUL. IF YOU ONLY CARE ABOUT THE SOUL, YOU WON'T HAVE A LIFE AND YOU'RE JUST GOING TO UPSET GOD FOR DOING THE WORK TO GIVE SOMEONE A LIFE ! 🕶
One of my biggest problems with the show is how condescending they are toward Mary with regard to her faith. She should absolutely be concerned about the salvation of her children since none of them seem concerned about it themselves. *However*I think she still needs to be present for them in the wake of the tragedy
I hated Mary but I think when she lost George, it broke her so much that she was terrified of her children dying next and not knowing where they would end up made it worse. So instead of her being there for her family, in her brokenness all she had to grasp onto was her prayers and faith. It made everything worse for everyone else because she wasn’t willing to face that.
Revisa el nombre que hay en la lápida y entenderás por qué está comportándose así. El mismo Georgi en The Big Bang le dijo a Sheldon como es que su madre quedó destrozada después de que George murió.
You are a very lucky person. Because I have know more than one real person who was like this character but worse. Remember, they can only do so much because of broadcast standards.
No wonder Missy laughed at her when she got scolded by penny at Sheldon’s wedding. I would’ve smiled sadistically if Missy said to her mother that she hated her, because that mother doesn’t deserve to have Missy as a daughter
I like what she said. Something I always heard in church growing up is that God uses us to answer prayers. What I’ve always taken that to mean is yes, pray, but go and do as well. Go be the answer to someone’s prayer
This is why I don't really much care for religion in general. Too many people let it rule their lives. Rather than using it as a guideline for living a better life, it becomes hard rules or laws you have to follow, often to the point where one inadvertently tries to make other suffer to make everyone else follow what they believe is "right". Mary's head is so far up her ass with her beliefs that her children, who need the nurturing love of a mother, are suffering because she thinks prayer will solve everything.
I feel this so much. I may not be a teenager anymore, but my dad's passing was abrupt and Made everyone miserable. My mom took It upon herself to just go to church every day, saying shed like to spend More Time with us (mind you, my siblings and i are in our mid 20s, we are doing as Best we can) but instead of actually spending Time with us she just jumps into talking about religión and talking about the bible and wanting US to go with her to church. Now i get thats her coping, but It fucking sucks that all she seems to care bout Is religion and wether or not we are going to church and the only times she talks to me Is to complain about the state of the house or trying to convince me to go to religious groups and church (MIND YOU, id like to go to church alone, without her presence over me but she doesnt seem to get It) Its frustrating, its annoying, instead of caring for the living they care about a book and a temple AND other people. It just hurts my inner child and im rambling now, It sucks. Cant imaginé if i were a teenager when this happened, thank god It didnt because im sure she wouldve been 10 times worst
My question , why when george was alive was she not worried about their souls , he dies and she thinks their going to hell alittle to late, besides shes totally ignored missy since the day she was born
I need to say this as someone who grew up with a mother like Mary, don't do this to your kids.. Religion is a very hateful thing and will always do more harm than good.. I have 40 yrs experience is arguing this point, and have even made pastors quit their jobs and go on to live happier lives.. I have also been distant from my mother for about 22 yrs.. She still attens church every Thursday and sunday, and tells me she prays for me.. I still tell her to stop and pray for a sense of gullability.. Because thats what she really needs..
That's why I'm not religious, and why religious people tend to shun me. Unlike them, I believe in helping the people I love rather than muttering into the air for someone else to do it.
A person can pray to the blue in the face that won't save your family members soul the only thing that can save your family members soul is your family member praying to God to save their own soul
It's funny cause religious people don't actually care about others well-being they just care about the idea of sending someone's soul to heaven and "saving" them as theyr family drifts apart
Some people take religion too seriously to the point that they lose sight of who they are doing it for. They don't need you to pray or believe, they just need you
What Mary needs to understand is she’s not the only one grieving her kids are too and she’s gonna drive other kids away if she doesn’t stop Sheldon’s already leaving and Georgie had to step up but She Could Missy away from home, and the kids cause those 2 to resent Sheldon even more the world does not revolve around her.
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Religion is supposed to be a comfort not a crutch.
And that sir is her flaw. She wasn't always like this, just after the twins were born. She probably figured if praying worked to save one of her twins, then surely the answer to everything is a simple prayer. It is rather unfortunate.
@Sly9192 I thought it was after Georgie was born not the twins. I thought she had complications with him and promised God if he saved him she'd devote her life to him or something like that
@@DosagePosage actually it was because of Missy that she became a devoted christian. If you had watched the earlier season missy took meemaws make up for a school picture even though she wasn't allowed. When Mary found out she was furious. Missy said that she wished meemaw was her mom cause she is so cool. To help her understande how much her mother loved her meemaw told Missy her birth story. When Missy was born the doctors were not sure that she was going to make it. Scared, Mary made a promise to God that if Missy was able to be saved she will start reading the bible and going the church.
Missy was the reason. Not sheldon or georgie. In fact Mary used to go to the movies with George to watch an r rated movie even after georgie was born. In fact, they took Georgie to the cinema to watch that kind of movie when he was 4 because they can't find a babysitter
It can be a crutch too. However Mary was definitely in the wrong for not being there for her children. You can't avoid your responsibilities claiming "religion" the way she did.
@m2ik2y05 thank you for saying that!! exactly this! religion is supposed to help, in health of all aspect and happiness!
I love how they put sad songs over comedy scenes and put songs like this over an emotional scene
Sorry 😅
I think it's so it doesn't get copyrighted
Idk I seen someone say something similar on another post
Actually I like this song
@@MasterofVirologythat’s not the point, imagine party in the USA playing while you sit at your husbands grave mourning
@@denkyuheddo1355 that adds nothing
Why play a sad song over a comedy scene or a funky music over an emotional scene
There are lots of non copyrighted songs and u can play the one that might actually suit the scene
“They don’t need your prayers, they need their mother.” That hit me in the core
Meemaw went straight for the jugular and had zero effect on mary, if only she were smart enough to realize that her mother was always right.
Meemaw's right and Mary could never admit that her mother is right and she's wrong. Mary was always there for Sheldon but never for Georgie or even Missy
@ananas9248 It's a wonder Shelden didn't end up worse with a mother like her.
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"You just don't know that cause you're spending all your time praying." Someone finally says that to her face.
Yeah, so right
Her husband died do you expect her to act like everything is normal
…..there are a lot of people who need to hear that!
Right. No matter the religion, if you pray all the time, life moves on without you. Actions speaks more than prayers.
@@Everythingmedia-b1y no, but she’s expected to continue to be a parent. I’ve had 6 family members pass since I’ve been a mother, I mourn but I still have to be present, I still have to be involved in their hobbies and activities and there needs. I can be a puddle when they go to bed at night but before that I need to be stable a pillar they can lean on. You don’t get to choose when parenting ends. It ends with death.
Adult-Georgie wasn't kidding when he said "Mom was a mess", turned out to be one of the best written character imo.
Mary really was an awful mother
She was a mess before George died. It sounds like she was way worse after
@@oracledantex she’s an awful mother because she’s too religious?
@@Thehoun oh come off it, she is awful because meemaw is right, right now their father who is a big part of their life just died, and instead of being with her kids to comfort them, one of whom is leaving, she is sitting at a grave feeling sorry for herself with stupid excuses and denying her responsibility as a mother while using religion as an excuse. She isn't too religious, she is too stupid.
@@Thehounno because she is typical narcissistic mother who fucked up everything and don’t want to be responsible for anything :))
"Faith without works is dead".
Don't just pray for your kids. Help them.
This is a great example of why Protestantism is false.
She would rather her kids suffer alone but have their "souls saved" than just being a good mom to them and being there.
Her intention was not evil or bad.. Being ignorant is mistake not a crime 😊
@@Realatmx I never said it was, intentions don't matter when you a parents, only the outcome.
It’s a crime believing in that shit
Unfortunately thats what some religious folk believe. That suffering on earth is a test that God sent to them or their children. And that everything would be fine because when they die their souls are saved.
Honestly its nothing but an excuse, and those kinds of people are too focused on the destination, rather than the journey.
She's using prayer as a means of avoidance. Being there for her kids after the death of their father would be forcing her to confront her own feelings about his death and she's not ready to do that. It's understandable and not malicious, but when you're a parent, you don't really have the luxury of avoidance.
Mary is trying to save herself, because she was so hateful to George...
Too little, too late..
This explanation her personality in TBBT...
I wouldn't be able to put up with the religious hoohah. I just wouldn't be able to. There is no way that I could be anywhere near as tactful as Meemaw when dealing with somebody who, with a straight face, says they don't have beer in heaven and then talks about praying for her kids souls instead of actually just being there for them.
And then has the audacity to say he can’t drink in heaven, god damn woman let the man rest
@@tailsoluvI am an extreme believer in God and Jesus but these scenes anger me. First of all it is always the person's choice if their souls are saved and second they lost their father and based on these scenes I would like to say they also lost their mother. Even though God is everything to me I agree with meemaw when she says the kids don't need her prayers. They need their mother. Because that is very true.
She wasn’t hateful no more so than George, George and Mary had a life together… some good some bad… just like any other married couple that stays the course.
I wonder if she knows Jesus’s first miracle was turning water into wine for a wedding party.
Reluctantly. He did it to obey His mother. Otherwise He wouldn't have, but He had to follow His own rules.
@@OKAYOKAY420 I like to think he did it out of kindness. God always has a reason for everything ☺️💙
@@wanderingeldest5627 I don't think it was kindness. I think it was obedience. It states in the bible that drinking it wrong and talks about being of sober mind.
@@OKAYOKAY420yeah unironically this is correct, his mom told him to at a party since wine had run out and he did lmao
@@aimwell4527 I mean, I don't see the irony. I just know the story.
Edit: nvm you said unironically.
Lance Barber's real dad was killed in 1973. Lance was one at the time.
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Wow. That's terrible 😞
In Vietnam?
A man in his home was visited by a police officer. The officer told him that a flood was coming and that he needed to evacuate. The man said "It's okay, God will protect me.". The waters rose and a rescue team came on a boat. They told the man that he needed to come with them to safety. The man said "It's okay, God will protect me.". The waters rose and the man was forced to climb onto his roof. The rescue team came back in a helicopter and begged the man to let them save him. He said "It's okay, God will save me.". The man drowned. When he faced God for his judgement, he asked "Why didn't you save me?". God replied "I sent you a warning, a boat, and a helicopter. You sat and prayed when you could have been saved.".
I believe in the power of prayer, I absolutely do. But I also believe that God helps those who are willing to try and help themselves.
Mary sat around praying for the souls of her children when they needed her to be present.
That's the thing I don't understand about religious people like that. Like their kid is dying in the hospital and instead of letting a medical professional help they say "If we pray then God will save her. If she passes then that's God's will" GOD HAD YOU GO TO A HOSPITAL TO SAVE HER. God had the plan for those people to suffer through medical school to save people, but somehow they go against God's plan and are trying to play God or something?
@@ayannahf0702 They're a minority in the religious community, but they're a very vocal and very annoying minority.
@@Supreme_Dalek_ Yea I know. Its so upsetting and disappointing
In latinamerica we have a saying..... praying to God and working with the hammer (rough translation).... but is kind the same like the history
"I have no intention of saving those who only pray for others to extend a helping hand, like plants waiting for the rain."
-Sebas Tian
The fact she cared more about "Saving their souls" then being their for her grieving children disgusts me.... in the end religion was more important to her then being there for her children when they needed her
She also progressively got worse and more racist, if Big Bang is anything to go by.
Right, and you can’t pray someone else to salvation either so it’s not just religion, it’s a wrong understanding of the religion on too of it
This is turning something beautiful into something that is a corrupt version of that
I have to think in her mindset she is nervous of losing more of her family - her fear is that both George and her kids will end up in hell if she doesn’t try. Also she lost her husband- not a perfect excuse but an explanation. She has flaws but deserves some empathy in a time of need (I mean to an extent because she’s fictional lol)
@@laurab.5791yes and no, intercession is an important part of the Christian faith so you can pray someone finds salvation but prayer alone without works doesn't do anything
As someone who was raised Christian, this arrogance is the thing that pisses me off. I understand prayer is needed at times, but Connie was right.
It’s amazing how she got worse as the show went on and despite every single time someone tried to call her out marry would shut them down.
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How does Mary know that they don't drink in heaven.
Honestly if you want to go down that rabbit hole you might as well ask how any of them even know that the Bible is the word of God.
Baptist’s think they know everything even though they’re the biggest hypocrites when it comes to alcohol
They're protestant, they tend to come up with these conclusions from nowhere. The Bible shows Jesus drank wine, and many times it compares Heaven to a banquet. I don't believe we will be getting drunk in Heaven but I don't think a beer is that out of the question
@@maryaislost107 More specifically she’s Southern Baptist and you’ve never seen greater sticks in the mud that a congregation of Southern Baptists. If you wanna have a church that hates on other churches for having bands, thinks dancing is going to automatically lead to thoughts of sex so it’s also a big no, and nitpick every single peice of secular music, movies, shows etc. looking for where “the devil” has wiggled into to corrupt the youth then Southern Baptism is the place for you
@maryaislost107 maybe they are all jolly drunks if removing a little inhibitions makes you a bad person how did they make it to heaven
I never understood why some Christians hated Alcohol... When the fact that one of the most common facts about their God was to turn water into wine.
Because some people drink excessively witch costume do stupid dumb things
The Bible frowns on drunkenness and addiction to alcohol. Also, he only changed the water to wine at the request of his mother. There's only a couple other instances where you will read about Jesus and wine being in the same room, and one of those is the Last Supper.
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Jesus said do not drink until drunkenness never said do not drink alcohol alcohol
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Jesus literally turned water into wine, you know alcohol, so I don’t know their problem
Holy shit that's quite the grammar. In reality he did say something like "all is good in moderation" when someone asked him about alcohol. So drinking is fine.
Water into wine say what?
what she said right there would have earned her a good slap from me. Putting religion over your grieving children is just messed up
Ok pray for their souls and then go spend time with them. Jesus ain't gonna skip saving them cause you didnt pray enough 🤦♀️
For REAL.
She was avoiding confronting what was happening which is understandable. I’m not saying it’s right, just that she’s a human being who lost her husband and that kind of pain is incredibly difficult to confront even if her children need her
Love how she is worried about Sheldon yet says missy is okay. Missy really needed more love.
If prayers worked hospitals would be filled with Faith Healers
Prayers do work. But they need work as well. Hence why its said people do "God's work"
@@user-pi3hd2bt3f AMEN
@user-pi3hd2bt3f So He's "All Powerful" yet needs us to do the leg work? Explains why "God" has YET to save One Single Child that has had their innocence stripped from them BY "Men of God". Countless examples of Him putting foot 2 🫏 over the PETTIEST of infractions, yet it's 🙈🙉🙊 when his own are cover up that stuff on a GLOBAL scale?
@@MediocreButtonMasher i dont know honestly. And its not my place to judge.
@user-pi3hd2bt3f 🙄 Prayers don't work because it's MYTHOLOGY and He's not real. This is the 21st century, its WELL past time we lay down Bronze Age Dogma
They dont need their souls saved yet, they’re not dead.
It might be a Catholic thing, but I've always heard that you show faith through action not words.
They aren't Catholic.
Not just a Catholic thing. All Christians need to pray while they serve God BY serving others as able/required/inspired. 🙂
@@nickdejager8873this commenter probs is, and theyre saying they dont know what type of christian mary is
Actions speak louder than words!!! Marys actions tell her children who or what is more important to Mary. Her religion, not her kids!!
"Oh, I should've brought more beer!" - That's when I burst out laughing 😅. I love Connie and her cool character! ❤
Mary is the cause of all of the family's problems. I'm not talking about george's death but both before and after
I quite agree. You see how Sheldon turned out in TBBT.
You mean how he became a practise child for penny and Leonard😂😂😂?
Jesus turned water into wine- I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t mind if George had a beer 🍺
Yeah i get praying for them but you need to spend more time with them since they grieving as well
Don't think about when your loved ones die. Instead cherish the memories you can make while they, and yourself, are alive. I've always believed we should not mourn for the dead, we should thank them for the memories they blessed us with and the gifts and lessons they taught us throughout life. You may cry cause you miss them, but you'll see them again. It's inevitable. When you see them again they'll want to know how you've been doing and what you did with your life.
It's a nicer thought 😊
She dont appreciate him, when he was there, but she crying without tears when he is not there.
May pissed me off so much that she constant ignored her other 2 kids because Sheldon.
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I’m sorry but I know for a fact my grandfather is up there enjoying his favorite beer all he wants, he loves his beer just as much as he loves Jesus 😂😂😂
Bro, the last two episodes were incredible. 😭😭😭
Gotta love Memaw! 🥹🥰🤣
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Mary was avoiding confronting it because that’s a stage of grief. Helping her children through it would’ve meant she would have to accept it was happening and that’s immensely hard to do. Y’all come down on her way too hard.
that part. the hate she gets is too mich
There it is, that self-righteousness, again...her biggest weapon, as well as her biggest weakness... tis a shame it tis...😎
This show has a lot of heart.
Prayers are great and it’s good that she’s giving them that but it can’t be the only thing she does she has to be there for them as well.
Like mother like daughter ❤
Prioritizing praying rather then being with your family who are going through a lost is just crazy people behavior 🤦♂️
"They don't need your prayers. They need their mother". Oooff. . . hitting too close to home 😢
Meemaw will forever be my favorite..
I am not a christ, but the most important thing The Creator did creat is humans. So, not attending to her children in that hard time is probably the wrong way to follow your belief. Especially since each has to take care of their own sins.
This scene perfectly sums up Mary's character, and the problems that everyone has with her.
This is the type of woman I'd tell my son to divorce every single chance I got, even if he was 15-20 years into the marriage.
I honestly hope she knows he cheated, haven't watched enough to know if she found out but....I think knowing that she drove her man to cheat on her would really be something that slapped some sense into her.
You know, after the initial anger wears off and she actually starts to wonder how it got to that point. THEN Meemaw could come in and start pointing out her mistakes.
It gets shown, not what you think. If you're talking about why Sheldon knocks 3 times.
I used to be a part of a recovery ministry at a church. One of pastor’s said that everyone has the chance of being addicted to anything and anything can be what seems like a good thing. He led off with too much church and not enough family time. Then too much work, etc. That second one was my problem. He then said the book says God first, family second, then everything else and He was so right!
My pastor and mom say the same thing God is first and family should be the 2nd important thing
If they don't drink in heaven I've got a lot of pre-gaming to do.
Her love of god it’s getting on the way of the love of her children and even tho it’s a show this is true for a lot of families
A LIVE ISN'T WORTH LIVING UNLESS YOU LIVE, BUT A LIFE IS NOT WORTH LIVING IF YOU ONLY CARE ABOUT THE SOUL.
IF YOU ONLY CARE ABOUT THE SOUL, YOU WON'T HAVE A LIFE
AND YOU'RE JUST GOING TO UPSET GOD FOR DOING THE WORK TO GIVE SOMEONE A LIFE !
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IF there was a god.
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LIFE IS TO LIVE,
NO MATTER IF THERE IS A GOD
OR NOT !
“Oh I should’ve bought more beer “ 😂😂😂😂
One of my biggest problems with the show is how condescending they are toward Mary with regard to her faith. She should absolutely be concerned about the salvation of her children since none of them seem concerned about it themselves. *However*I think she still needs to be present for them in the wake of the tragedy
Mary says that like she knows praying for them will save them for sure
They don’t drink in heaven.
My sister in Christ, Jesus turned water into wine
I hated Mary but I think when she lost George, it broke her so much that she was terrified of her children dying next and not knowing where they would end up made it worse. So instead of her being there for her family, in her brokenness all she had to grasp onto was her prayers and faith. It made everything worse for everyone else because she wasn’t willing to face that.
Perfect reason why I’m not into religion as much
Choosing Religion over your children makes you a horrible person and i will stand by that
“I should’ve brought more beer”
Got me rolling 😂
You won't be saving anyone if you're not with them.
Her religion was outta control!!! And yes I know this just a show but they got ridiculous with it
Revisa el nombre que hay en la lápida y entenderás por qué está comportándose así. El mismo Georgi en The Big Bang le dijo a Sheldon como es que su madre quedó destrozada después de que George murió.
You are a very lucky person. Because I have know more than one real person who was like this character but worse. Remember, they can only do so much because of broadcast standards.
"OH I shoulda brought more beer"😂
Yes they do, what was Jesus' first miracle?
turnin water to wine
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@@Haleyfilmseditor what am i wrong or what💀
@@eddy_ht11 a little bit😂
But there's no water in heaven.
Conny is the best
Guilt is a monster no amount of prayer can ease....
That's catchy... 😅😅
Of course she's worried about Sheldon but just assumes Missy is fine 🙄
No wonder Missy laughed at her when she got scolded by penny at Sheldon’s wedding. I would’ve smiled sadistically if Missy said to her mother that she hated her, because that mother doesn’t deserve to have Missy as a daughter
MeMa like my mother an grandmother getting it real with Love 😊😊😊😊
If i was missy i would NEVER forgive mary
"I have no intention of saving those who only pray for others to extend a helping hand, like plants waiting for the rain."
-Sebas Tian
God gives us the tools but that doesn’t mean we should expect him to do all the work!
I like what she said. Something I always heard in church growing up is that God uses us to answer prayers. What I’ve always taken that to mean is yes, pray, but go and do as well. Go be the answer to someone’s prayer
Memaw was right and more than ever, both of them needed her.
"Oh I should have brought more beers" 😂
Man, Meemaw for a reason 😎
I see both points of view. Prayer is very important and it is helping her with her grief but it might not be exactly what the kids need right now
This is why I don't really much care for religion in general. Too many people let it rule their lives. Rather than using it as a guideline for living a better life, it becomes hard rules or laws you have to follow, often to the point where one inadvertently tries to make other suffer to make everyone else follow what they believe is "right". Mary's head is so far up her ass with her beliefs that her children, who need the nurturing love of a mother, are suffering because she thinks prayer will solve everything.
They absolutely drink in heaven. Its paradise aint it?
I feel this so much. I may not be a teenager anymore, but my dad's passing was abrupt and Made everyone miserable. My mom took It upon herself to just go to church every day, saying shed like to spend More Time with us (mind you, my siblings and i are in our mid 20s, we are doing as Best we can) but instead of actually spending Time with us she just jumps into talking about religión and talking about the bible and wanting US to go with her to church. Now i get thats her coping, but It fucking sucks that all she seems to care bout Is religion and wether or not we are going to church and the only times she talks to me Is to complain about the state of the house or trying to convince me to go to religious groups and church (MIND YOU, id like to go to church alone, without her presence over me but she doesnt seem to get It)
Its frustrating, its annoying, instead of caring for the living they care about a book and a temple AND other people. It just hurts my inner child and im rambling now, It sucks. Cant imaginé if i were a teenager when this happened, thank god It didnt because im sure she wouldve been 10 times worst
If they don’t drink in Heaven then George is gonna be pissed
Wait so George was only 42 when he died great advertisement of american health care system
"They don't drink in Heaven" ...didn't Jesus told his disciples to drink wine since that was his "blood"?
My question , why when george was alive was she not worried about their souls , he dies and she thinks their going to hell alittle to late, besides shes totally ignored missy since the day she was born
I need to say this as someone who grew up with a mother like Mary, don't do this to your kids.. Religion is a very hateful thing and will always do more harm than good.. I have 40 yrs experience is arguing this point, and have even made pastors quit their jobs and go on to live happier lives.. I have also been distant from my mother for about 22 yrs.. She still attens church every Thursday and sunday, and tells me she prays for me.. I still tell her to stop and pray for a sense of gullability.. Because thats what she really needs..
Mary just can't turn it off for two seconds for her family smh
"I shoulda brought more beer."
That's my mom right there.
That's why I'm not religious, and why religious people tend to shun me. Unlike them, I believe in helping the people I love rather than muttering into the air for someone else to do it.
If a religious person shuns you, then they arent truely religious
I'm gonna be waiting for the right moment to show this to my mom
Our God's Drink is the Wine of Worship. And we worship him for an Eternity
A person can pray to the blue in the face that won't save your family members soul the only thing that can save your family members soul is your family member praying to God to save their own soul
If, as a parent, you want assurance of your children’s eternal destination, you should spend as much time with them as possible.
I wonder what an alternate universe where Mary was the one who died would've looked like? I'd much prefer that over this horrible mother universe.
How can someone like her come from a wise woman like Sheldon's meema?
Christians in a nutshell
It's funny cause religious people don't actually care about others well-being they just care about the idea of sending someone's soul to heaven and "saving" them as theyr family drifts apart
Not all of us clam down 💀
Thats not true in the slightest
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What is the name of this film?
I love ur vids
Some people take religion too seriously to the point that they lose sight of who they are doing it for. They don't need you to pray or believe, they just need you
dont you just love hearing the same song from a third of all youtube shorts on an emotional scene it doesnt fit whatsoever
Sorry 😅
@@Haleyfilmseditoryeh, bc your emoji means that. 😑
I hope George can still enjoy a Lone Star beer !
What Mary needs to understand is she’s not the only one grieving her kids are too and she’s gonna drive other kids away if she doesn’t stop Sheldon’s already leaving and Georgie had to step up but She Could Missy away from home, and the kids cause those 2 to resent Sheldon even more the world does not revolve around her.
Oh you poor lady.
Don't you know she doesn't actually care for her kids. She just wants to be deluded into thinking she's doing good for them.