The reason I started watching you is you're funny and real.....there is no hide the crap here, not that its crap but you know what I mean lol Its all out in the open and you're doing your best!
Awww I love how you always open yourself up and your home to us,,,,your such a sweetheart if you ever have slumping flowers try putting a table spoon of white sugar in warm water with them
Wow, GREAT JOB! Your house looks AMAZING!!!! Watching your change from the last few videos to this one has been so inspiring 😊 Thank you for sharing your journey 💜
Just found your channel and love your content 😊😊 I used to feel very overwhelmed until I decluttered. I say my family and I are intentionalist on a smaller scale of minimalist. Having less can help in the long run with your mental health and keeping your home more together😊 but you do a great job! Praying you have an amazing day! Excited to see more!
Hello! I just came across your channel yesterday and you're doing a great job. We all have tendencies to be hard on our selves and no one is perfect. ❤
You are still doing everything by yourself your kids are old enough to help you. Remember what i said in your last video your Mental Health is important. Stop stressing yourself. You are not the only one in the house. Hope your husband is feeling much better.❤🙏🏾
I don’t know why it made me so happy to see the box for same tire inflator I have on the internet. My brain latched onto it and said “I know that box!”
I have ADHD too and I try to stay on top of the house. My husband helps throughout the week and then I find myself deep cleaning all weekend😩 I start from one end of the house and work to the other. It motivates me to see one clean room after the other and keeps me on track. Also if I just focus on the one room first is makes it seem somehow that I have less to do. Now my room......that's another story😂
That’s my favorite technique when I have a day to dedicate to cleaning! I would rather clean one whole day than try to fit it into my regular life, which is probably why everything is a total disaster by weeks end! 😂
Good for you for emptying the basket! Last video you said you actually had to call a friend to ask why you leave your house uncleaned until it is a disaster. Then in this one, you said you “like to leave it until it is a disaster”. I don’t think you “like” it. It may be a habit to leave it. Honestly, I know how calming it is to be able to come into a 90% clean environment, especially when someone is sick. New habits are hard to create, but these are important lessons for the kids. Leaving stuff also creates messes that are much harder to clean. Also, declutter with the Swedish Death cleaning…. Or at least with a plan in hand. Your life really will be so much better, believe me, I know.
@@feraltradwifethat's all that matters is that you're trying. Don't be so hard on yourself girl. I also give you lots of credit for making this TH-cam channel it takes a lot of bravery and courage to be open to the public because people can be very cruel. Keep up the great job and keep doing what you're doing. Hope you're having a great day! 😊❤❤
Lol what a cool mask for Calvin to go incognito in! Did I miss something about Sam's club? You have fresh flowers. I have tomato seedlings. Same thing 😂. You did such an amazing job! It looks beautiful! Your comment about not having to eat 48 bags of crunchy cheetos cracked me up lol. I get stuck with the bbq twisted corn chips.
lol, maybe it’s just my local friend group but I get teased about how Costco is sooooooooo much better when I maintain it’s the exact same thing. Plus it’s like 10 seconds from my house and has super cheap gas! Winning! I would actually trade fresh flowers for seedlings, I havent braved planting anything and I fear I’m missing my chance!
@@feraltradwife there's something magical to me about growing things. I might be a little obsessed with it. Last year I gave away tons of tomato plants because I was afraid most of them wouldn't come up. They all did!
That’s probably because you’re good at growing things. I have murdered EVERY SINGLE plant I have ever tried to keep alive. Except the magical bathroom plant. He persists.
I loved birthday parties, I had to do doubles because of my in-laws ugly divorce but it always forced me to deep clean. My in-laws and my mom and dad were always super neat although my parent’s home was always warm and homey. My in-laws houses always looked like a show home that no one lived in. Good job mom.😘
When my kids were at home, I was working full time and was overwhelmed too. I started doing “ the blitz technique”. I would pick an area and say everyone give me 15. For 15 minutes everyone would go - x4 people , a lot could get done. One person might pick up, one dust, one vacuum, one gather trash, etc. no one fussed too much and I felt less aggravated.
Okay,you lost me with your statement at 16:25, you LIKE to let the counter accumulate clutter!?!? To what end,to make videos? Here I thought you were someone who was trying to learn to keep up and stay on task? Children struggle to homeschool and function in general in a chaotic environment,why would you do this on purpose? What am I missing here? Your house looked beautiful at the end.
Maybe an example would be “you know how Susan likes to be late!” And you’re not saying Susan deeply enjoys being late, you’re saying she’s often late. Does that make sense?
I just subscribed and love your content! I just don't understand why you wash dishes before putting them in the dishwasher. You could save yourself so much time and effort.... just quickly rinse and then put them in the dishwasher.... the dishwasher will get the dishes clean I promise!😊 and if something doesn't come out clean enough well then you can wash it but it would be minimal items.
Oh man. I am working to overcome my dishes in the dishwasher issue, but I fear it’s ingrained in me too much. I tried to let it go and then pulled dishes out to wash them anyway. It’s a real mental hurdle for me
@@feraltradwife from how the house looks, they don't help much off camera either.It was a well intentioned comment but the last one. It's your life. Success!
@velvi7977 if your comment was well intentioned, you may need to rethink your delivery. The way the comment reads is judgmental and questioning her skills as a mother. And you certainly don't need to be angry about how a woman you don't personally know runs and cleans her house. If you have helpful advice, put it. Posting a judgy comment is not helpful.
Jamas ayudan porke siempre tienen sucia tu casa y ellos se pasean frente a ti y no te ayudan no los justifikes son muy sucios con la casa tan bonita y grande😮o@@feraltradwife
I don’t really know. I’m convinced they don’t get clean enough. I’ve tried not scrubbing and it ramps me up. So I just clean and sanitize in the dishwasher. Trust me, my best friend has tried to correct me for the past decade in this one 😂
@@aradaskyThat’s a very interesting point that you brought up about the dishwasher not liking sink soap,there was a lot that went in,maybe that’s why she doesn’t feel like they come clean?🤔🧐🤨
You hate your life? My son and daughter-in-law lost their 12 year old daughter to a virus in 18 short days that came on with no warning. I urge you to re-evaluate the things you say and you’ll learn to be thankful and love the life you have.
High how does your kitchen gets so dirty I think you pile your whole weeks stuff up then you makes only one day clean because if you make every day clean it would not look like that and i see your boy child helps you some times but why dont you let your big girl child help you we getting older ou bodies cant take so mutch work anymore
High how does your kitchen goes like that let your twins help you put the stuff away where they took it out you work to mutch let them clean there own rooms the twins is big already no man I see your son always helps you be a little strick on them you got such a beautifull house it's to mutch for you
You definitely have cleaning content
Best comment ever. Pinning it
The reason I started watching you is you're funny and real.....there is no hide the crap here, not that its crap but you know what I mean lol Its all out in the open and you're doing your best!
Thank you babe!!! Xoxoxo
Awww I love how you always open yourself up and your home to us,,,,your such a sweetheart if you ever have slumping flowers try putting a table spoon of white sugar in warm water with them
Beautiful tip!! Thank you so much.
@@feraltradwife your very welcome sweetie and just know if you ever need someone to talk to or vent to I'm here hun
That sigh at the beginning is my whole mood when trying to find where to start ❤
Great 👍🏼 video. Thanks 😊❤️👍🏼
Thanks for watching babe!
I'm very happy for you you did a great job on this and you did your car very nice. Thank you for this God bless you 🙏❤️🌹
Love the Swiffer Duster in the car!! What a great and easy wY to keep that pesky area clean ❤
Wow, GREAT JOB!
Your house looks AMAZING!!!!
Watching your change from the last few videos to this one has been so inspiring 😊
Thank you for sharing your journey 💜
Thank you so much!!
Looks great. You should be very proud .❤
Just found your channel and love your content 😊😊 I used to feel very overwhelmed until I decluttered. I say my family and I are intentionalist on a smaller scale of minimalist. Having less can help in the long run with your mental health and keeping your home more together😊 but you do a great job! Praying you have an amazing day! Excited to see more!
Looks beautiful!!!
Hello! I just came across your channel yesterday and you're doing a great job. We all have tendencies to be hard on our selves and no one is perfect. ❤
Thank you so much :)
@@feraltradwife you're very welcome! I also love your house ❤️
Awesome job lovely! ❤
Thanks Donna❤️
Great job!! House looks wonderful 😊❤
Thanks Margie my dear!
House looks great!😊😊
Thank you! 😊
Amazing job. Well done! 👍🏻
Thank you very much!
So glad to see that things are getting better… it definitely is a full time job.
You are still doing everything by yourself your kids are old enough to help you. Remember what i said in your last video your Mental Health is important. Stop stressing yourself. You are not the only one in the house. Hope your husband is feeling much better.❤🙏🏾
Fantastic job!! It looks like the girls had a great party!!🎉
Thank you 🤗
You have a beautiful home 🏡 ❤
Thank you! 😊
you are strong and you can do it i believe in you !!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thank you 🥰
Your doing great hun
Thank you babe.
Your puppy's are so cute
I love Leroy he is so funny and the little stories you tell us about him are so so cute
He is cute and filled with nonsense!!
You're doing fantastic 🎉😂❤
You are doing fine!
I just had to subscribe to your channel. Girl, I get it. We are all in this together. I appreciate your honesty.
Great job my friend❤
Thank you 🤗
I don’t know why it made me so happy to see the box for same tire inflator I have on the internet. My brain latched onto it and said “I know that box!”
@@amyg268 Twinsies!!!
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@@feraltradwifeI also wanted to say it’s so nice to see you celebrating your wins! And your house is beautiful!
Just came across your channel today and have just subscribed.
Welcome my love!! I’m so happy to have you!
I have ADHD too and I try to stay on top of the house. My husband helps throughout the week and then I find myself deep cleaning all weekend😩 I start from one end of the house and work to the other. It motivates me to see one clean room after the other and keeps me on track. Also if I just focus on the one room first is makes it seem somehow that I have less to do. Now my room......that's another story😂
That’s my favorite technique when I have a day to dedicate to cleaning! I would rather clean one whole day than try to fit it into my regular life, which is probably why everything is a total disaster by weeks end! 😂
Good for you for emptying the basket! Last video you said you actually had to call a friend to ask why you leave your house uncleaned until it is a disaster. Then in this one, you said you “like to leave it until it is a disaster”. I don’t think you “like” it. It may be a habit to leave it. Honestly, I know how calming it is to be able to come into a 90% clean environment, especially when someone is sick. New habits are hard to create, but these are important lessons for the kids. Leaving stuff also creates messes that are much harder to clean. Also, declutter with the Swedish Death cleaning…. Or at least with a plan in hand. Your life really will be so much better, believe me, I know.
I am trying very hard to be better ❤️
@@feraltradwifethat's all that matters is that you're trying. Don't be so hard on yourself girl. I also give you lots of credit for making this TH-cam channel it takes a lot of bravery and courage to be open to the public because people can be very cruel. Keep up the great job and keep doing what you're doing. Hope you're having a great day! 😊❤❤
Lol what a cool mask for Calvin to go incognito in! Did I miss something about Sam's club?
You have fresh flowers. I have tomato seedlings. Same thing 😂.
You did such an amazing job! It looks beautiful! Your comment about not having to eat 48 bags of crunchy cheetos cracked me up lol. I get stuck with the bbq twisted corn chips.
lol, maybe it’s just my local friend group but I get teased about how Costco is sooooooooo much better when I maintain it’s the exact same thing. Plus it’s like 10 seconds from my house and has super cheap gas! Winning!
I would actually trade fresh flowers for seedlings, I havent braved planting anything and I fear I’m missing my chance!
@@feraltradwife there's something magical to me about growing things. I might be a little obsessed with it. Last year I gave away tons of tomato plants because I was afraid most of them wouldn't come up. They all did!
That’s probably because you’re good at growing things. I have murdered EVERY SINGLE plant I have ever tried to keep alive.
Except the magical bathroom plant. He persists.
@@feraltradwife There is an elitist mind set about Costco, I don’t get it. I have both near me and have used both when my kids were young.🤷🏼
I am more project minded as well. I have learned to be more maintenance minded with a lot of effort!
I loved birthday parties, I had to do doubles because of my in-laws ugly divorce but it always forced me to deep clean. My in-laws and my mom and dad were always super neat although my parent’s home was always warm and homey. My in-laws houses always looked like a show home that no one lived in. Good job mom.😘
lol “ugly divorce” defined my entire childhood.
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Your commentary is the best!!! Totally adds so much to your videos. Please more talking less music
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Beautiful ❤🎉😂
Ma come è possibile, continuò a nn capire perché buttano tutto x terra o macchina,nn si butta direttamente nella spazzatura
Nice job
When my kids were at home, I was working full time and was overwhelmed too. I started doing “ the blitz technique”. I would pick an area and say everyone give me 15. For 15 minutes everyone would go - x4 people , a lot could get done. One person might pick up, one dust, one vacuum, one gather trash, etc. no one fussed too much and I felt less aggravated.
Love that idea!
Have u and you husband thought bout downsizing and purchasing a smaller house?
Yes! But honestly not in this market with these rates, ya know?
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Real life...lol
I would happily eat the 48 bags of crunchy cheetos.
It’s official! You’re adopted.
You work so hard!!! Why don’t you get some help ? Like a day or two a week.
Meh. It’s so expensive
Okay,you lost me with your statement at 16:25, you LIKE to let the counter accumulate clutter!?!? To what end,to make videos? Here I thought you were someone who was trying to learn to keep up and stay on task? Children struggle to homeschool and function in general in a chaotic environment,why would you do this on purpose? What am I missing here? Your house looked beautiful at the end.
Oh no, it’s more like “I tend to allow” not that I actually enjoy it. It’s a bit of sarcasm that clearly didn’t come across well?
Maybe an example would be “you know how Susan likes to be late!” And you’re not saying Susan deeply enjoys being late, you’re saying she’s often late. Does that make sense?
@@feraltradwife 👌
عندك ٣ اولاد لماذا كل هذا كأن يوجد عشرات الاشخاص
I just subscribed and love your content! I just don't understand why you wash dishes before putting them in the dishwasher. You could save yourself so much time and effort.... just quickly rinse and then put them in the dishwasher.... the dishwasher will get the dishes clean I promise!😊 and if something doesn't come out clean enough well then you can wash it but it would be minimal items.
Oh man. I am working to overcome my dishes in the dishwasher issue, but I fear it’s ingrained in me too much. I tried to let it go and then pulled dishes out to wash them anyway. It’s a real mental hurdle for me
If You clean your dishes and put them in dishwasher..looks like OCD
your teenagers don't help? You are the mother not the maid. It makes me a angry so little solidarity.
1) they were doing school
2) they do help,but it’s not their hobby to clean on camera so that’s cut out.
@@feraltradwife from how the house looks, they don't help much off camera either.It was a well intentioned comment but the last one. It's your life. Success!
@velvi7977 if your comment was well intentioned, you may need to rethink your delivery. The way the comment reads is judgmental and questioning her skills as a mother. And you certainly don't need to be angry about how a woman you don't personally know runs and cleans her house. If you have helpful advice, put it. Posting a judgy comment is not helpful.
Job well done. Looks amazing
Jamas ayudan porke siempre tienen sucia tu casa y ellos se pasean frente a ti y no te ayudan no los justifikes son muy sucios con la casa tan bonita y grande😮o@@feraltradwife
Why do you wash and not just rinse the dishes before you put them into the dishwasher? Takes way too much time. And the dishwasher hates sink soap.
I don’t really know. I’m convinced they don’t get clean enough. I’ve tried not scrubbing and it ramps me up. So I just clean and sanitize in the dishwasher. Trust me, my best friend has tried to correct me for the past decade in this one 😂
That is funny! I have to say that when you do clean, it is very well done. And I admire anyone who home schools. So very good for the kiddos.
I just don't know you well started watching your channel nice house just need a good cleaning. Love to have a big nice home you will get it ❤❤❤❤❤
@@aradaskyThat’s a very interesting point that you brought up about the dishwasher not liking sink soap,there was a lot that went in,maybe that’s why she doesn’t feel like they come clean?🤔🧐🤨
Is your water set to high temperature, I never even rinse my dishes and they are clean when done. Love your video's and your home.
You hate your life? My son and daughter-in-law lost their 12 year old daughter to a virus in 18 short days that came on with no warning. I urge you to re-evaluate the things you say and you’ll learn to be thankful and love the life you have.
I’m sorry for your loss and I hope you find the appropriate place to process your grief.
Honey, you not doing your children justice by not having them clean.
I do, just not on camera. And much is my mess, I’m a messy human but trying to get better and trying not to pass my messiness on to my kids too much.
High how does your kitchen gets so dirty I think you pile your whole weeks stuff up then you makes only one day clean because if you make every day clean it would not look like that and i see your boy child helps you some times but why dont you let your big girl child help you we getting older ou bodies cant take so mutch work anymore
High how does your kitchen goes like that let your twins help you put the stuff away where they took it out you work to mutch let them clean there own rooms the twins is big already no man I see your son always helps you be a little strick on them you got such a beautifull house it's to mutch for you