A Nonspeaking Disabled Teen (And How We Became Friends)

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  • @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids
    @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1625

    I just want to note that the communication between Cadence and me in this video is just as valid as a conversation with words. In fact, I believe Cadence may have more effectively communicated her feelings and emotions than the typical person in our interaction. Let's make sure we always value and appreciate every type of communication!

    • @zenaalbalupus983
      @zenaalbalupus983 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      I never fail to smile throughout these beautifully inspiring videos! What a wonderful family and such perfectly heartfelt communication! I truly feel you have such a gift to connect with all that you meet in such a way! Thank you for showing each and everyone they are truly special and blessed!! 🫶🏼

    • @lulumoon6942
      @lulumoon6942 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Thank you for saying this, there are many bands of information given if we look closely enough with open, loving eyes and heart! 🙏🕊️🪶

    • @amandapatterson8423
      @amandapatterson8423 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      Chris! That was one of the deepest and most poignant conversations I've ever witnessed. The moment she touched your guitar, she opened up like a butterfly from it's cocoon. You two were truly "talking" on a more profound level than must people bother with. Cadence has some serious rhythm! I hope she has some instruments of her own. 🥰🪶

    • @chrissycopeland8064
      @chrissycopeland8064 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      I’m a severe/profound special education para. None of my kids can communicate through talking but they can DEFINITELY communicate!! We use lots of music in our classroom as well as special lighting. My kids can tell me what lighting they want by how they physically interact with the lights. They have different music preferences and we have to take turns listening to everyone’s music. I’m pretty sure I’ve been cussed at just by some of the looks I receive 😂 I most often get looks of complete love ❤ I hear giggles and “singing” and screeches of happiness. A smile can say more than any amount of spoken words. We have the most special non verbal conversations in our class and anyone who doesn’t take the time to listen is missing out, in my opinion at least 😊

    • @iamninjabeth
      @iamninjabeth 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      This was so beautiful to watch!

  • @KayleighLawson-l3q
    @KayleighLawson-l3q 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1979

    That’s my girl!!! Thank you Chris!!! And thank you all for the lovely comments! Cadence says hello and thank you!!!

    • @Judened
      @Judened 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      Hi! Tell Cadence shes the best!

    • @Adrielle.
      @Adrielle. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      😊 hugs from Brazil

    • @mongo1982
      @mongo1982 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      God bless you all. Mom has a beautiful smile and exudes love and compassion for Cadence. Well done Mom!

    • @lovingmayberry307
      @lovingmayberry307 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      And what a lovely girl she is, mama! 🩷

    • @KayleighLawson-l3q
      @KayleighLawson-l3q 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      Thank you everyone. We are overwhelmed with all the nice comments. Much appreciated. Cadence sends her love :)

  • @aubsomevlogs9788
    @aubsomevlogs9788 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +879

    Hi my name is Aubrey and I have Down syndrome and doctors told my parents I would never walk, talk or function in society but you know what my parents never believed that because they knew how smart (wise), independent, strong person that I would become as an adult, even when someone has another type of disability or in a wheelchair it doesn’t mean that it will stop them from living their best life. The way you have raised your daughter cadence is beyond perfect what your doing to help her is what is making her so happy and she knows how much you love her, you are an amazing mom

    • @cameroncole06
      @cameroncole06 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      I'm on the spectrum and I hope I can fully be independent.

    • @behemothsbaby
      @behemothsbaby 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      The more I learn about Down syndrome, the more I'm blown away!

    • @leviathan8215
      @leviathan8215 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      thanks for sharing your story! It’s amazing what love and support can do

    • @Crimsondream01
      @Crimsondream01 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I am on the autistic spectrum and live life to the best 😊

    • @aubsomevlogs9788
      @aubsomevlogs9788 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@Crimsondream01 I would like to tell you that I know that people on the Autism spectrum is different from each other, but you are a gifted, intelligent, independent and a blessing to this world and you are so beautiful

  • @jeremyhicks4517
    @jeremyhicks4517 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +370

    Music really is a universal language. So much can be said without saying a word.

  • @NatAndGaz
    @NatAndGaz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +240

    The camera man/owner of this channel is the most pure and gentle soul I’ve ever seen. He is so comfortable and sweet to every child that he meets. You deserve the world

  • @joxii__
    @joxii__ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +800

    I genuinely believe that music can unite anyone regardless of language or level of verbal communication

    • @eloex
      @eloex 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Music is rooted in our brain and we need it the same way we need water and food. I think every single animal on heart understands music and likes it. So yeah, it definitely is another way of communicating :)

    • @Ya_boi_jasper
      @Ya_boi_jasper 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Even deaf people. They can feel the vibrations. Music is definitely some form of universal language 😂

    • @nerysghemor5781
      @nerysghemor5781 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Music seems to be one of the most primal things we share as human beings and I love that fact. ❤

    • @nerysghemor5781
      @nerysghemor5781 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Ya_boi_jasperYep! I’m not deaf but I am thinking if I lost my hearing I would still love EDM at a minimum. Never been to a rave but I bet I could enjoy the experience with or without my hearing!

    • @Ya_boi_jasper
      @Ya_boi_jasper 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nerysghemor5781 I’ve heard some places have vibrating vests that vibrate to the music. Idk if it’s true but even if you like music that doesn’t have bass you could still enjoy

  • @annieplourde1110
    @annieplourde1110 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +268

    Cadence's mom looks like such a wonderful human being. Thank you Chris for introducing Cadence to us! Definitely looks like you all had very genuine fun together 🙂.

    • @KayleighLawson-l3q
      @KayleighLawson-l3q 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Thank you so much! Cadence says hello :)

    • @Judened
      @Judened 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ⁠​⁠@@KayleighLawson-l3q hi kayleigh! Your daughter is amazing! Just remember you are an awesome mom

    • @angko-pe
      @angko-pe 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      She looks like Anne Hathaway 😊 I loved watching Cadence with her mother. Such a wonderful connection.

    • @cindys.9688
      @cindys.9688 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@KayleighLawson-l3q ~ ❤️❤️❤️

    • @KayleighLawson-l3q
      @KayleighLawson-l3q 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Judenedthank you so much

  • @JohnPalmer1962
    @JohnPalmer1962 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +261

    SBSK is quite simply one of the most beautiful and important channels on TH-cam. It educates, inspires and shows how we can illuminate our lives with love for others, no matter how different to us they may be. Very special 🌹

  • @nope5657
    @nope5657 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +447

    Damn. Crying in the first 60 seconds. Corny as it may sound, seeing unfettered human connection like this gives me hope. I hate to make this a self centered "me" comment, but I'm scared to death lately. For a multitude of obvious reasons you all can probably guess. So seeing Chris continue to do what he does makes me realize that it's not all hopeless.

    • @Oosjhteuikmm
      @Oosjhteuikmm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I felt it

    • @miken.1705
      @miken.1705 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      It seems the default for alot of people is to be rude or dismissal thats why human connections like this are so special

    • @sugarsore
      @sugarsore 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I didn't come up with any guesses.

    • @mall3us_malefic4rum
      @mall3us_malefic4rum 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      It's alright. Most of us are afraid in one way or another, but humanity has always made it through, and more importantly, the kindness in us has always made it through. Throughout history there has always been genuine human connection and selfless acts of kindness, even in the worst of times. There are those of us out there who love you and care. You're not alone.

    • @MsLoma1212
      @MsLoma1212 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I hug you❤

  • @nataliemcatee5360
    @nataliemcatee5360 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +597

    It is so beautiful seeing Cadence enjoy the guitar. She truly showed her social personality🫶🏻

    • @ehemanm
      @ehemanm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yeah fr.

    • @Taylor_mamaof2
      @Taylor_mamaof2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I came to say this. I loved that part so much. She is LOVING playing the guitar with him!! What a happy, beautiful girl. 🥰

    • @KrystalHarwood-z1b
      @KrystalHarwood-z1b 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      chris also played for emma's class. i;m sure he is a great teacher

    • @YakkoWarnerTower
      @YakkoWarnerTower 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Somebody who has aspngers for me I love kinds of music especially big band.

  • @potterfile
    @potterfile 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +161

    your ability to set aside social predjudice and show the world that people with difficulty communicating are still valid and worthy of love gives me the hope to stay alive and keep fighting. thankyou for all you do and thankyou to cadance for her part in showing that we are allowed to receive that love from others regardless of our needs. It is just as brave to accept that love as it is to give it when things are hard.

    • @TiggiTheWillful
      @TiggiTheWillful 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Special ed teachers are special humans in themselves

    • @lenoreneale4257
      @lenoreneale4257 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So true. I have a difficult time receiving assistance! Was always the one helping others. Then MS changed my role in many cases. Learning to help others experience the joy of making someone's life better. 😊

  • @diaries.of.a.Broken_Angel
    @diaries.of.a.Broken_Angel 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    Quality of life isn’t about hitting milestones, or becoming someone through a good education or job, it’s about finding joy in our situation no matter the circumstances. This sweet girl definitely exudes joy! She is obviously living her best quality of life for her. This was a very lovely video to watch! Wishing Cadence and her beautiful momma continued joy! 💜🌸💜. She put a big smile on my face…thank you Cadence 😊

  • @valentinacardona173
    @valentinacardona173 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Chris you are so empathetic, compassionate , respectful , patient and sweet with every person you interview . I truly admire that

  • @Ikrell-Laires
    @Ikrell-Laires 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

    what a beutiful soul ... she is touching the guitar because she feels the vibrations through her hands

    • @ashleyhobson1414
      @ashleyhobson1414 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thats what I thought ❤

  • @jeffmcelroy5364
    @jeffmcelroy5364 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    She's FEELING the vibration of the guitar and it is causing her to feel pure joy

    • @UnoDPS
      @UnoDPS 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes pretty much lmao

  • @jenerhart7025
    @jenerhart7025 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Chris, that first extended clip of you and Cadence - not one spoken word - may be the most poignant and important thing I have ever seen on SBSK. One thing i have always loved about your videos is how you stress and teach viewers about different ways to communicate. This video should be required viewing in special ed college courses.

  • @erinpennington19
    @erinpennington19 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +409

    I didn't know Angelman and Prader-Willi were from the same chromosome just different genetic sides, that's so interesting!

    • @nonniewatson4561
      @nonniewatson4561 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I agree..... Very interesting

    • @cindys.9688
      @cindys.9688 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I thought so, too!🤔

    • @OhiChicken
      @OhiChicken 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I definitely think in a Venn Diagram of People Who Like SBSK and People Who Think It's Interesting That Angelmann and Prader-Willi are opposite conditions would be just a circle.

    • @l.marini6860
      @l.marini6860 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Prader-Willi syndrome is
      Maternal Uniparental Chromosome 15 Disomy usually caused by genes
      SNRPN or NDN .
      Angelman syndrome is
      Paternal Uniparental Chromosome 15 Disomy usually caused by gene
      UBE3A .

    • @l.marini6860
      @l.marini6860 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Prader-Willi syndrome is
      Maternal Uniparental Chromosome 15 Disomy usually caused by genes
      SNRPN or NDN .

  • @carlos66965
    @carlos66965 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +177

    Best concert footage on all of youtube i think.

    • @rafimohammad39
      @rafimohammad39 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      You think,you know

  • @LiveForever13
    @LiveForever13 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    The beauty is the way you connect with her. Such a special talent Chris. I'm always in awe of you and your ability to treat everyone so kindly, and to truly connect. I'm autistic and I do struggle with social connection. I've been getting better, and part of it is just watching people like you, and truly trying to connect with the world.
    Cadence is a beautiful soul, watching her pure joy with the music was just, beautiful. Her mom is such a positive role model, she is just a lovely person. The family all seem so wonderful.

    • @Binx345me
      @Binx345me 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      hey im autistoc too and have those same strughles you mentioned.

  • @xirisx1988
    @xirisx1988 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    Cadence is so lucky to have such a sweet mom.

    • @KayleighLawson-l3q
      @KayleighLawson-l3q 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you so much!

    • @melq9437
      @melq9437 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@KayleighLawson-l3q Yes. You have a beautiful and calm voice. Cadence is beautiful. And her hair! wow. So thick. Maybe she got that from you.

  • @sarahhopkins4853
    @sarahhopkins4853 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I love how you always communicate with people the way they choose to be communicated with.

  • @mika4900
    @mika4900 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    The pure delight on Cadence’s face when Chris plays the guitar. It has to be the most precious thing in the world.

  • @nicoled5160
    @nicoled5160 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I think people underestimate how much fun it is to make music with someone who takes so much joy in it.
    My grandpa in later years became non verbal and started loving music, clapping, me singing and it’s the only way I can connect with him. He can shout out a rare word at most. Just the joy of brining happiness to someone else spending time with them is a gift to us to. It’s like being totally present with another person.
    Cadence is a lovely artist, a passion for rhythm and music.
    Thankyou for sharing your story and positive energy Cadence.

  • @Angel-rq3pi
    @Angel-rq3pi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Colin Farrell's son has Angelman Syndrome. When his son was very young he started a research foundation for testing and treatment, as well as a cure. I very much appreciate all SBSK does to help bring light, hope and laughter to all their guests. And i appreciate when "famous" people do the same. I'd never heard of the syndrome prior to CF's son's dx. Thank you for talking with Cadie.

    • @matthewcrome
      @matthewcrome 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Is that organization called FAST by any chance? I've seen promotional stuff for that organization, and seen a lot of celebrities promote it. They seem like a good organization.

  • @oliviarose6590
    @oliviarose6590 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    She’s so happy with the guitar 🥰
    EDIT honestly the conversation via guitar and then drumming on the guitar was so interesting, and lovely to watch! Truly communicating with no words!

  • @neweyemootz
    @neweyemootz 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This girl is such a sweetheart. It’s cases like these that I feel are a gift to the world and not a curse 😊

  • @jsokalski123
    @jsokalski123 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    I think Cadence really liked the music and the vibration of the guitar. Love seeing that, she was super happy.

  • @soldiaz7261
    @soldiaz7261 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It was wonderful to meet Cadence, and I love the way you treat the disabled & neurodivergent people on this channel like people their age with disabilities instead of like toddlers, or constantly talking only to their caregivers instead of interacting with them. You are absolutely right when you say the communication here is just as valid and meaningful as any done through words, and it’s really healing to see as a multiply disabled/ND person.

  • @On-Another-Ocean
    @On-Another-Ocean 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    There was this kid in an old life skills class I helped out in back in 9th grade who I believe has either this syndrome or one similar. He always had the happiest look on his face and I'd just talk to him while helping one of the teachers with little things in the classroom. I don't remember his name, but I will always remember how talkative he was for being non-verbal and his joy when the teachers would put on dance music for the class.

    • @anayasalvador9976
      @anayasalvador9976 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      They’re the happiest people. One of my classmates in high school can only communicate through an alphabet chart. He was really smart, very kind, very generous, and always in a bright mood. ❤

  • @wheelie26
    @wheelie26 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Chris was just made for this!
    What a sweet young lady, I’ve known several young people with this condition and they really do have a very happy and sociable disposition. It’s quite uncanny the fact that just a tiny depletion can create children and young people who can almost instantly be recognised as having Angelman Syndrome.

  • @TheKims82
    @TheKims82 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    My nephew also has AS and i can see so much similarity between him and Cadence. He also loves being outside and water is his favourite thing. If it were up to him he could probably take a bath 24/7. He also loves people and is happy 99% of the time.

    • @Judened
      @Judened 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is proof that disabilities are abilities. Just because someone is different dosent mean they don’t have a personality and are a true citizen.

  • @erikaelyse8192
    @erikaelyse8192 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Beautiful!!! I love showing and telling others that communication is not just with words. Many non verbal people have no issues communicating. They just use different tools and learned ways of doing so!
    My son is high functioning on the spectrum, recently at his ot he met a little boy who was non-verbal. My son asked why he couldn't talk, and also assumed he couldn't understand people around him. It was such a great learning experience for my son. We told him the little boy communicates, just not with words. He uses body language and some sign language. So we've been learning sign language anyway in our honeschool...but we were able to practice it and learn more so my son can communicate with his new friend!

  • @nonniewatson4561
    @nonniewatson4561 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Cadence is going to want you back.... Chris draws people in to where it's just them two... Chris really enjoyed this one too...
    I really enjoyed moms joy too... She would love to see this every day.. sweet hugs to you both

  • @koguma8823
    @koguma8823 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i love her mom's voice! she'd be a spectacular teacher with her calming, patient tone

  • @twilaslease5741
    @twilaslease5741 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    This man is amazing, i love how he's always understanding understanding and trying to communicate with the people he's interviewing even though he might not completely understand them

  • @saralynn518
    @saralynn518 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I had no idea Angelman's Syndrome was the mirrored(?) Prader-Willie syndrome. You hear of Prader-Willie Syndrome, but not so much about Angelman. She may be non-verbal, but she is very bright. You can just see the wheels turning while she processes everything. Enjoying the arts is such a fabulous way to let go, enjoy your own talents, learn the talents of others. Since she loves water and the arts, have you seen the paints for the bathtub? Some are like bingo daubers, but there are really neat supplies. I was an art major (painter and ceramicist) so I understand the connection.

    • @heatherelizabeth9008
      @heatherelizabeth9008 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agreed! She's very very bright and I love seeing that in her.

  • @crimsonchaos5
    @crimsonchaos5 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    SBSK is quite literally the definition of good. Thanks, you two.

  • @avocadosimp0
    @avocadosimp0 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    your so good with these kids its actually so impressive

  • @TedBear1954
    @TedBear1954 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    What a guy you are Chris. The things you teach us and the way you manage the interviews is nothing short of brilliant. Thanks.

  • @davidcopperfield-notthemag397
    @davidcopperfield-notthemag397 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Cadence loves the vibrations that the guitar sides and back make. You could really tell by how her eyes changed. She was "moved" by the music session. Thank you Chris! You are so very good at reaching, communicating with all SBSK guests! 👍👍

  • @shannon9218
    @shannon9218 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Cadence reminds me so much of my daughter. She has some verbal language but most is nonverbal. She also loves sitting on my lap. 🙂

  • @StarryDreamer28
    @StarryDreamer28 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    you do it in all your interviews but this especially shows how you went with exactly how she wanted to communicate with the guitar and knew she was doing so just by reacting to her expressions. as someone raised around all disabilities this is exactly how I was taught to interact with others

  • @juliamariel2993
    @juliamariel2993 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Cadence is such a perfect name for her. She has such natural rhythm and affinity for music.

  • @middlemuse
    @middlemuse 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I’ve had the pleasure of working with quite a few individuals with Angelman syndrome, and all were delightful. I’m so glad we all got to meet Cadence!

  • @goldenyearsacres9163
    @goldenyearsacres9163 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Chris, I love how you are willing to act silly & always seek to make your new friends smile. Your parents must be so proud of you.

  • @mintyleaf8796
    @mintyleaf8796 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I've watched several of these videos lately, and it's beautiful seeing how well the interviewer connects with people of different abilities, meeting them exactly where they are with warmth, genuine interest, and such a desire to share their humanity and unique personality to the world. As the sister of a unique young man with special needs, I so appreciate Chris' dedication to making these wonderful humans seen, appreciated, and loved.

  • @heathers4768
    @heathers4768 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I love this Mom and I love seeing Cadence having so much fun! ❤

  • @walterroux291
    @walterroux291 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Chris and Cadence ❤ you're both absolutely wonderful and the world is richer with you both in it. Blessings to you and all the SBSK community.

  • @vanpak
    @vanpak 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    2:59 it’s incredible what music can do! She loves it!

  • @Goblin_deez.
    @Goblin_deez. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I adore that guitar segment, it was so wholesome and fun and I love how you don’t mind acting like a fool or a little wild just to connect to others

  • @gloriabarberi1292
    @gloriabarberi1292 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I have always thought that music is our first and purest way of communication.

  • @Clarachk
    @Clarachk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I found watching this conversation with my eyes so sweet. It really fills my soul to see such genuine connection. I’m pretty sure that that big smile that she gave when you pointed out that you noticed how she smiles was her way of telling you that you hit the nail on the head. And you can definitely tell that her cogs are turning when she’s gazing around. Thank you so much for doing what you do and bringing us these awesome videos of such beautiful people! Your light is appreciated so much!!

  • @deedeemooreco.2304
    @deedeemooreco.2304 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Music is a universal language. It brings joy, love, sadness, happiness, and I believe brings us closest to God. You can tell that Cadence can feel joy in the vibration of the guitar.

  • @samanthacarrier8955
    @samanthacarrier8955 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It's beautiful seeing Cadence and Chris bonding through music. That girl's name is so fitting!

  • @anrijupiter
    @anrijupiter 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It’s so incredibly heartwarming to see that Chris can always find a way to connect with people with different ways of communication.

  • @DylanJeremiah-t4j
    @DylanJeremiah-t4j 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Beautiful to see the connection with music she feels the rhythm it's the vibration and the sound that makes cadence happy

  • @balaam_7087
    @balaam_7087 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hi Cadence! It was so great to have a chance to meet you and your mom through your very own video! I loved how happy and excited you became when Chris played the guitar, it made my day 😁

  • @bmhtv2067
    @bmhtv2067 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    She is a beautiful girl. She probably can feel the VIBRATIONS thru the guitar, and no doubt she likes music. Handicapped people of any kind should be respected. I have been watching your videos, and every time, they are outstanding. Keep on telling all their stories and what families have to go thru in all situations. Thank you for your amazing ability to bring out the happiness in those afflictive with any type of disability. Great job. And, also, you have an amazing life partner. Just beautiful. 👩‍❤️‍👨

  • @Jon-o1q7z
    @Jon-o1q7z 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m so happy you give these extraordinary people a platform Chris. When you see the negative news they only show certain types of people and have a very close minded negative perspective of society and have only shallow views on how people should look on television and films which is horrible. Thank you for what you do and bless you and all the people

  • @Just_Smile-n2w
    @Just_Smile-n2w 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Music is a universal way to communicate. They way you can play the guitar to connect with all these special people is heartwarming ❤

  • @ssainval100
    @ssainval100 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    1:01 she’s using her hand to feel the vibrations 🤗

  • @Lillian-i6s
    @Lillian-i6s 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good evening Cadence and your wonderful mom!!! All the love and patience you are showing her!!! This warms my heart!!! I am an 83 yr.old grandma.

  • @hollyjollyxmas
    @hollyjollyxmas 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had to pause around six minutes in because I am just so moved by the positive acceptance and genuine love her mom and grandma have for her. I have medical issues that pale in comparison to what Cadence struggles with, and I still will never be 100% independent. I’ll never be able to live on my own or provide for myself completely, and I really struggle with feelings of being a burden to my family (mostly my parents). I know my parents don’t see me as a burden and I’m beyond thankful for that, but my mental health isn’t great because I struggle to cope with my limitations. Thank you for helping me see my own situation in a more positive light. And thank you Cadence!

  • @Orca_314
    @Orca_314 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Cadence is absolutely wonderful

  • @LisaDCrews
    @LisaDCrews 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    In all my years of watching your videos, Chris, I couldn’t do anything you’ve been doing meeting new people and feel comfortable around them. You are a saint

  • @a1waystreet-j86
    @a1waystreet-j86 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Thank you for showing such unique individual’s adding positivity to the world. ✌️

  • @BNHAalltheway
    @BNHAalltheway 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    She has a great family that loves her very much love the way Chris played the guitar to connect with her

  • @newchapterasmr
    @newchapterasmr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mom is so sweet and calm and you can tell she loves the girl to pieces and gives her the best live she can have. Kudos to you. I love how much Cadence loves music too! She and Chris had a beautiful moment.

  • @coleybowley
    @coleybowley 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Her little hands! ❤ she's a beautiful girl, inside and out! Thank you for introducing us to Cadence!

  • @RaineSophiaLewis
    @RaineSophiaLewis 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love her laugh when she is enjoying the music. 🥰❤️
    I’ve never heard of this disorder before but my little girl(9yrs old next month) is very similar to Cadence. The Drs diagnosed her with autism and develop mental delays. We are currently waiting on genetic testing, not sure why it has taken so long. Best wishes ❤

    • @lenoreneale4257
      @lenoreneale4257 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Praying for your little girl & your family. Please keep watching these videos to remind you that your child is differently ABLED❣👍🙏 You might also learn from "Fathering Autism" on TH-cam.

  • @abdullahak2204
    @abdullahak2204 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Cadence really enjoyed the music!!!
    Also I've noticed a common theme in these interviews when Chris asks the parents what should people do when they meet their child who has a disability most parents say "just say hi" and it is as simple as that!

  • @brendaloose1718
    @brendaloose1718 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chris is so awesome and he’s amazing with the special people among us. He gives us insight that we might not normally have. Cadance is a sweetie. Glad we got to meet her.

  • @martapriya98
    @martapriya98 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love all the people you interview and show ! They are beautiful and unique and awesome in their own way ! ❤️❤️👏🏾👏🏾

  • @linelizcartagena3266
    @linelizcartagena3266 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think its so amazing how she is perceiving chris and their conversation through the vibrations on the guitar 🖤

  • @TaylorJohnson-ur8ek
    @TaylorJohnson-ur8ek 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel that Chris shines above all in the nonverbal communication arena, so I love these types of interviews best of all. Love to all, and of course extra blessings and joy to Cadence and her fam!

  • @KaiCornejo-no8zv
    @KaiCornejo-no8zv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love the anecdote about what Cadence’s grandmother said to comfort her mom after the diagnosis

  • @unclekranky3454
    @unclekranky3454 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chris, my man, you are truly amazing. I see the joy, the genuine joy, in your face while you were playing guitar with that young lady. I work with special-needs people, and I know that feeling, and you were just beaming. God bless you, brother. 👍🏼

  • @kimberley5921
    @kimberley5921 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Wishing her and her family the best ❤

  • @OKBoomer2k
    @OKBoomer2k 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I could watch Chris and Cadence play with that guitar all day and never get tired of it!

  • @christinamrk
    @christinamrk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I do respite care with a little girl with a mitochondrial disease. She is the only one in Canada with this disease, which doesn't have an official name. She has a low life expectancy, and is at risk for sudden death. She's quadriplegic, non verbal, has a G.J tube, and is on several different types of medication. Among other things, she's deaf, has epilepsy, spina bifida, and dystonia. Despite all this, she's a very happy little girl. She has big blue eyes and the sweetest smile. She sure melts your heart.

  • @jenniferg.3857
    @jenniferg.3857 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This guy is such a Saint ❤ you can tell he looks deeply into the person he is communicating to 1:55

  • @kassi4837
    @kassi4837 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It is so wonderful to see her so happy and carefree. She is so fascinated by the simplest of things.

  • @patriciabuttner7511
    @patriciabuttner7511 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cadence was absolutely interacting with you! She showed that she understood the give and take of communication perfectly!!!!

  • @AudreyLMcFarland
    @AudreyLMcFarland 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How you connect is amazing! Cadence really enjoyed feeling the music. Her smile is so captivating

  • @4MixMasterMonkey
    @4MixMasterMonkey 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It was such a joy watching you both play w the guitar. You had no apprehension when she grasped your hand & continued to bang around. I loved seeing that & hearing her laugh with you. You’re very special Chris…& hope you continue to do work like this for the rest of your life. It truly makes a small change in this madness we call the world. 💙

  • @reneecarver7041
    @reneecarver7041 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love how much the girl gets into the guitar and how he just plays into her fun and goes off song and into noises to make her laugh ❤❤❤ what a sweet teen girl, and how much better are we off that she’s here

  • @hanbanan2251
    @hanbanan2251 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As an ELA teacher, I love the idea that an interview with a non speaking person need not be conducted with language. You learn so much about who Cadence is and what she values just by watching the two of you communicate through the vibrations of music.

  • @lizamccracking5621
    @lizamccracking5621 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    When she felt the vibrations of your guitar, Chris, and mom was making sure she was comfortable and safely sitting on her lap, oh my goodness what a beautiful moment for you all ❤ Cadence is a beam of sunlight and momma you are gorgeous and strong and radiant!

  • @mdfghjkl7225
    @mdfghjkl7225 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    obviously haven’t watched the whole video yet, but what struck me is the fact that she doesn’t require that much sleep?? a disorder can do that?? our body can do that?? that is wild idk why it’s so surprising to hear but it is

    • @pamcakes65
      @pamcakes65 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I spent a lot of time with an adult who experiences Angelman Syndrome. That person rarely sleeps. Rarely.

  • @anthonymatute6057
    @anthonymatute6057 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Candace is such a sweet, loving person.

  • @icedtea9394
    @icedtea9394 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Glad to see you two have a good time, Chris. Love the videos keep it up.

  • @dannytravis8138
    @dannytravis8138 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You give me hope for humanity ! Thank you for being who your are

  • @passingby-t7r
    @passingby-t7r 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    it's amazing and interesting how music caused her to respond so happily. How the human mind works!

  • @JeepGirl45
    @JeepGirl45 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She is precious!!! I’ve worked in a long term care facility for individuals with developmental disabilities as a speech therapist for the last 16 years. It brings so much joy to my life. There is something so special about the these individuals and I’m doing exactly what I was meant to be doing.

  • @lindaalvarez8855
    @lindaalvarez8855 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Cadence's laughter & her Love ❤ for music was undeniably magic for her! Her Mom absolutely adores & Loves her Daughter unconditionally by the way she looks & talks to her. That's so crucial to Cadence's mental & physical health! Chris, I admire & greatly respect all your caring for anyone who is different from other's. Keep up your wonderful interviews! You're a real assett to the handicap world. I wish I could talk with you in person, as well. But, Not on TH-cam. I, too, am dually disabled. I suffer from multiple Psychiatric diagnosis & also have some physical limitations.

  • @renewd
    @renewd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The connection between you and Cadence was so pure and beautiful. I think I will watch it again.

  • @lisavinson56
    @lisavinson56 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is one of my favorites. Cadence and Chris playing the guitar and creating. She is beautiful ❤. Love her mom too❤

  • @nmjria
    @nmjria 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Music is so beautiful😭🥲 Her laughs are very heartwarming to hear, her mother as well is a very supportive person that has alot of love to share❤️ I love the looks of admiration the mother has to her daughter🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹

  • @Shannon71172
    @Shannon71172 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Chris and Cadence, she’s a beautiful young lady inside and out….what a Smile !! I love ❤️ the water and outdoors too……🙏🏼❤️🕊️

  • @Autisticmama80
    @Autisticmama80 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My 10 yr old son is diagnosed as severely autistic at 4 y.o
    He's happy so much of the time and he actually has some of the similar mannerisms as❤ Cadence.