2k/pesos a week seems reasonable, as long as they're not constantly begging for more. That's another goodctest..,start low and see how grateful they are or aren't. If I was giving 1k/month to any chick anywhere in the world, I wouldn't be able to believe it was anything except a financial transaction to them. The acting better be a hell of a lot better though. 😈
@@andrewcarlson2178 to me not helping a little is as bad as helping to much. Im 64 so it may not be long when I will need help. Not money just help living.
Culturally, the kids are supposed to help out with the parents/family. $40 a week to stay on the good side of a woman if she's taking care of you regarding meals, good times, and she seems genuinely interested in you... isn't a lot.
LOL "Splenda Daddy." I did this some time ago due to actual events and she definitely passed. When I was able to resume ($50/month) she kept asking if I was sure I didn't need the money.
Hello Jasper, I have been to the Philippines three times in the last two years. I tested my Filipina on my last visit to the Philippines without realizing it. We were going to the city one morning and I told her that I was out of money and needed to go to Western Union. She drove Me to Her Bank so that She could get some of Her money to give to Me. I had to tell Her that I had misspoken and that I actually needed to exchange dollars for pesos. Take care.
So true. I'm a fairly good looking 65, she's 46. We've been together in Mindanao for five months now, and she's had to adjust to not having a regular "allowance" as I have had glitches getting my pension started and delivered here. BTW>>> the allowance she receives is to pay all our bills, rent, groceries, budget for travel, etc. It's enough for us to enjoy a good lifestyle, but I followed your advice, and she does not know about or get all my monthly income. And my overall assets are private. We live comfortably on that monthly allowance, less than half my regular income. It's taken me a long time to learn not to lead with my wallet. Having the assets privately held by me is really all the security one can count on, regardless of relationship status, right?
Man, you are 65 years old. You are leading with your wallet no matter what. Don't be following advice from a video on the internet and do what's right for you. When you get a little older, she is the one who is going to take care of you, remember that. Treat her well and not like property or a rental item. She will remember.
The minute you establish that relationship based on cash you will be used going forward you can count on that... It's not anyones responsibility to support a whole family because you have a girlfriend the were poor before you arrived they will be poor after you leave...I can see helping out here and there. a one time gift perhaps .... but supporting no way...there are other ways of validating that don't involve spending 1k per month ....i respectfully disagree.
That's the attitude of Philippines though. When you date or marry a Filipina you truly are dating and marrying her entire family. This is the case for 99% of Filipinas
@@JasperinthePhilippines Okay fair enough. I doubt 5% of Filipinas have as much wealth as I do, but they certainly could have enough wealth/income to not be concerned with what I have or not have when dating or marrrying.
Great advice. I did something similar with my now wife when we were dating and she didn’t bat an eye. Granted, my wife is upper middle class in the Philippines and her family owns a business, a couple houses ect. but I wanted to see if she was about money only or me. She is bad even today about asking for money for things she needs. Anyway, if you do set up a test of some sort involving money it will save you headaches later. I got burned bad by my American ex wife regarding money so I didn’t want to make the same mistake with a Filipina one. Good advice bro 😎
Filipinas are known to play the long game. You proved nothing. Ask her to give you a one minute long tongue kiss and then post the results here. Now, that's a b.. proof test.
100% SPOT ON JASPER. After 1 year I gave $300 a month to my girlfriend for 2 years allowance. I stopped it for a month. 😊Calls slowed down. Then once every 3-4 days. Then I broke up. I am also a vlogger and should be smarter. I am not handsome. I am the Ugly Tourist
I tested my Filipina yrs ago. She has her own money and home and job. When I first came to the Philippines we went to the Pure Gold store and she went in to shop I stayed outside to smoke. She had my bag that had my wallet,passport all my cash and both of my phones. She could've left out the store from another exit and I'd have been fucked. But she did the shopping and used her own money and never used my money. When I went back to America for 6 months, I left one of my bank cards with her in case she needed it for something. She never used the card. We started a ldr in 2017 and were still together. Just be careful guys. Don't mess with the bar girls. Watch for red flags and have fun. If you think she might have other men in her life or things don't add up or she has a cousin that's there all the time, that's probably her boyfriend. Just keep your eyes open.
Damn, all your cash and a bank card ? You got some balls. Lol or think with them 😂 I tested a stripper like that once, but I just left $40 on the nightstand.
That is a smart and clever thing to do when an foreign expat enters in a relationship with a Filipina. It's a BRILLIANT way of testing the Filipina's sincerity and character👍👍👍
@@JasperinthePhilippines No problem, just a friendly tip, avoid being gullible and idiotic to other woman's status and demands in a relationship. LOVE is sometimes blind and foolish😫😫😫
Did he get his information from Mickey Mouse or Donald Duck most of you have common sense and know this.He knows nothing about women here maybe he would have better luck with American women
I have a better test, give her nothing, no monthly allowance, do you do that in the west? no, so if its expected over there, just forget it, better to be alone and just "Have fun" when you feel like it.
This is excellent advice. In my case, I really lost a lot of money in crypto and I told her about it. She dropped me like a sack of sh-t. Actually, two of them did it like that. Btw, 60 is not the last days on the planet nowadays. Even 90+ may not be. Other notes: I am handsome in the Philippines. Handsome means 1. white skin 2. elevated nose bridge. They want this for their kids. Another test is ask her if she has any questions for you: if she persistently says "No", then, well, she is not your GF. Like if 2-3 times she said she has no questions( outside of when you will send her money), that's a dead giveaway she only cares about your money and not you.
Brilliant advice from Jasper. The test mentioned around 3:00 is prudent no matter where the woman is from. See how she reacts when something goes wrong with your business or your investments and you meet the real woman.
The amount of cash you splash is directly related to the amount of "lerve" the Pinay gives you. Never discuss your financial situation with any filipino, and believe me they will ask sooner or later. Rent dont Buy, and that goes for involvments/relationships, all women have their own agenda, just as we do.
I don't understand the test. If I've already started giving money to the family, it's already too late. The test can only confirm that I am an idiot. I would test the woman like this: If we have a relationship, then I pay most of the costs for accommodation, food, etc. But I won't give your family any money, you continue to work, preferably a little less than before, you save a lot of money through me, but only you support your family. She'll almost certainly look for someone else, but it's better to have clear rules at the beginning.
This is a good tip because right now it's just hard to trust people especially If you're looking for a real relationship and with a poverty issue here in my country.
i would not recommend any dude to be paying an allowance to his GF and her family. if you are married, then ok i can see something reasonable. also, its easy to know if the relationship is transcational or not. if a girl is way way out of your league eg 55 year old dude with smoking 20 year old, then the relationship is transcational.
Then why live in Phils ? Some of my expat friends commute between Phils, Thailand and Indonesia IMO thats the smart play if a guys got the $ to maintain that lifestyle.
Other than my kids, I don't give money to my own family. They get off their ass and get a job. I'm certainly not financing some other family. Every woman can be replaced with a new woman.
Lol. My parents are Filipinos. My dad once said that when he married my mom, he also married the whole barangay (village) because her family are always asking for help. . She’s been supporting them since 1991. Now that she’s on social security she can’t give anymore. They continue to ask for help. Instead of them asking their own family who are in another country, they would ask her first. Even her sibling’s grandkids would try to reach out to her on Facebook. Our experience was that when you continue to support them every month, they get lazy because they knew they have a monthly allowance. When you stop, then you look bad. It’s like you owe them money. It’s best not to give them a monthly allowance. If you really want to give, I wouldn’t give them more than $300. I’d save the money instead coz you know Once they start to have health issue or get sick, guess who they will call. Don’t get me wrong. There are a lot of Filipinas who are loyal and will take care of you. Just stay away from someone who’s always asking for something.
I have seen some expats give 500-1000 a month but that is really for simps. The real allowance in a real relationship is 200-250(15,000 Pesos) at most. Some first timers looking at this video will think they have to pay 1000 a month to a girl and they will ruin that girl. Always remember you can raise your allowance at anytime but lowering it is a big no no. So you might want to start at 100-150 a month and go to 200-250 as time goes by.
300 $ is a modest living in the the Philippines for single person if you own a house that's why many Filipinos applying job abroad to support parents, family or siblings for schooling...
I can’t do this test. I’m handsome as hell, but my very beautiful Filipina gf (a 10!) won’t accept any money or gifts from me. She refuses every time I try. She very independent and prefers to work for her own things. Her family are business owners and also very independent. They don’t want anything from me. Compared to most foreigners in the PI, I’m in a very good situation.
Not sure using a "lie" to "test" loyalty is the route I would go. Why give money at all? If they don't want to be with you unless you give money, best to live alone IMO. But each to their own.
You're certainly right and I understand what you mean. But I call this kind of thing "playing games" and no person in a relationship is entitled to do that. I also think it's unfair because the Filipina can't test the man in the US or Europe by hiring an attractive woman to seduce him to test his fidelity. For some men, that would certainly be a test that they would not pass. For me love without trust is not love, but a deal.
Not quite right as if that girl happens to be OFW (and there’s thousands of em) they would be supporting their family. Also if they are married to fellow filipino and abroad. Guess what still support family. So be careful how you view this.
@Jasper And on this note, assuming she passes the test.... could you do a video on supporting her, but drawing a HARD LINE between supporting her vs supporting her parents, brothers, sisters, grandma, etc, etc, etc. Do you just give her an allowance, and say "look, this money is yours... what you do with it is up to you." BUT, don't ask me for another dime until next month. (..?)
JASPER!! PLEASE BRING YOUR FATHER AND YOUR SISTER HERE IN THE PHILIPPINES!! SHARE YOUR NEWFOUND TROPICAL PARADISE TO THEM!!❤❤❤❤ They will look at your journey a BLESSING for them too!!
Dang. I'm not in the PI yet, but headed there soon. I make a decent wage, but I have no plans on giving anyone anywhere near $500 a month as a gift. How many expats are doing this?? Crap! Am I going to be DOA when I get there?
@@andrewcarlson2178 when I was single on a first meeting, I would decline but be impressed with my current girlfriend. Every time she offers I let her pay.
@@andrewcarlson2178 when I was single on a first meeting, I would decline but be impressed with my current girlfriend. Every time she offers I let her pay.
i pay for the rent/ut., most food & her son’s private school. But no allowance since she has a full time job from which she supports her fam. as do her siblings.
I tell you I never gave a allowance and when I got here I had know here less than a mont. Now she is my wife. Papa ask me to borrow some money it was a vary large peso amount he said he would give it back in a few weeks. 4 days later he gave it back I love papa so much because he knows how to treat me. I sometimes borrow from hem for a few days
I think ,test corection ,,should be that you won't be able to pay the allowance for a few months and say hopefully financial difficulties will be sorted after that
The 17 years I've been with my wife from the beginning i only gave her enough for bills and food but over time and the longer we've been together just like in America we've accumulated a lot of household things and we cant resort to something smaller to live in unless we sell or give things away and that's not happening. I am the sole provider my wife has never worked unless we've owned a store. So i will not do what you suggest i give my wife 3000 usd a month for bills and for our son my dad did it for my mother i do it for my wife, She will give me proof of all bills if i ask for it, But me myself what ever i give her is hers as long as bills are paid for. And her parents have never asked me for support since ive been with her but i made it clear from the beginning im here to support their child not them. We have been married 15 years nearing 16 years out of the almost 18 years weve known each other.
@JasperinthePhilippines My permanent resident status was approved this last week. Tomorrow, I'm picking up a very nice Honda ADV ( highly customized). Finished moving into my new 4 bed, 2 bath 2 story penthouse. I'm getting there!
How about no allowance to begin with. I have been here 2 years, 3 different long term relationships, and have never even talked about an allowance , let alone give any type of allowance. I am 61, don't go down that path. You do not have to.
If a filipina is stable and owns business here in PH , then that test doesn't work, she should be able to fix her lifestyle first before jumping into dating /marriage. I married my foreigner husband and the first time i met him , i give him all of my savings and give me more after we got married,he proposed to me by a 4 carat diamond ring We live in BGC and don't want any kids, i have two brothers and , My brothers are on their own so no issues . Best of luck in finding your Pini guys 🎉😊
I like the idea but I'd have to find a different way to do it. My strengths are honesty and respect, and I would be violating both by testing her in this way.
"if you're 60 and your girlfriend's 19 and you're in a grandfather granddaughter relationship." LMAO!! Easy buddy! You're getting close to home! You're not hitting close to home, you are in my house!! 🤣🤣🤣 Good stuff!
Once you star giving money to a Filipino family your in the hook for life. Finding love is not a scientific test! Lol. Once you meet your girl, if she start or expect special treatments or expect you to pay for everything, bail out.
Don't pay her family. Pay her "household" money she can keep or spend on her family. If u dont like that kind of arrangements find a pinay with the same economical status as yourself. (GL with that).
Sugar daddy is the way to go because it is being declared from the beginning. Any man who actually thinks there is not a transactional element to all male-female relationships, in a country like the Philippines, is not being honest with himself. I find it hilarious when I see a 70 year old TH-camr (who has been divorced at least a few times) who marries a woman half his age. Of course it is all about what he can provide to her, her children and her family. I would rather pay her for her time and maintain the control (none of that Tampo BS). If she steps out of line or tries anything I can easily replace her. Besides, how many relationships do you know that lasts more than a few years?
I think you would find that guys sponsoring the fake relationship would never dare take this test, as reality would hurt too much! Although save them money in the long term.
Okay Jasper I know you are quick witted. You usually comeback with a fast comment. I will try this and get back to you on what i learned. Just don't be a dick when I be honest. I'm Hansome! :()
The question is, why do foreigners go for poor girls, why not go for women who are educated and financially stable? Also why go for young girls, why not look for women who are independent and mentally mature? Is it about control or predatory instinct or insecurities about your own worth?
@loimike31 If I wanted a "strong, *independent* wahmen who don't need no men" I'd stay in my country. "Mentally mature"? It is a big word, which often means: "burdened by mental baggage and trauma". "Women who are educated" => it depends on what you mean with "educated". I only go with sweet, feminine, shy girls who respect their man. Sadly these attributes statistically go away once the girl enters an indoctrination camp AKA university and becomes a FAT, raging leftist with hair under her armpits, face tattoos and pink hair. And yes, you can already see this slowly (????) creeping in even in the Philippines. If there's anything worse than an American land-whale, it's a 4' 11" tall asian land-whale. And of course you just could not avoid the usual "predatory instinct or insecurities" liberal soyboy simp talk. NO, not wanting a fat b!tch does not mean being predatory or insecure. It's about having standards.
😮no “tests” in a real relationship.. arghh. If you do this to a good woman, she should dump your ass. This is the same as her making up a medical problem to see your reaction. One that makes her need a month away from any sexual activity.. right? Let’s see if he loves me for me? I hate all this bad relationship advice. Find a good woman or be a sucker.
No, I’ve got a smoking hot, call center lady that asks for nothing and all I pay for is my lifestyle, so I have a 1 bd condo she can stay at everyday and keeping a full fridge with her cooking n cleaning and my clothes always clean,,is way cheaper than eating out a lot a dating new girls all the time, having my laundry done,,, and your hair is bluer than mine.. She won’t dump you, because you are the sugar daddy.
$1k is NOT Considered any where near rich in the Philippines 🤷♂️. According to Philippines government stats to be considered rich in the Phils your income has to be 220,000 ($ 3800) per month. So let’s still stick to reality. 🤔
I live here. 95% of people are kept under $600 a month for life. Many families live on 250-300 a month. Top 1% is 56k usd and doctors and lawyers make 1500-2000 per month.
I’ve been involved with the phils since 2005. I know what the average figures are, check the government stats, or are saying you know better than them ??
Involved with the Phil’s???? Involved on you tube? 2 week millionaire trips? Googling Philippines stats since 2005? Congrats. Come here to learn not teach in the comment section kiddo. 90% of Filipinas will never clear 1000$ usd in a month ever in life. It’s a fact. ✌️✌️
Best line: "You're not handsome, you're in the Phillipines" 💀
The best line was enjoy your last days on the planet 😂
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That one too!
Ironic saying "ONLY IN THE PHILIPPINES"🤣🤣🤣
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When you live here helping a family with 2k pesos or $38 a week is a big help. $1000 a month you already tested yourself as a fool.
That was a hypothetical. I give ZERO.
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2k/pesos a week seems reasonable, as long as they're not constantly begging for more. That's another goodctest..,start low and see how grateful they are or aren't. If I was giving 1k/month to any chick anywhere in the world, I wouldn't be able to believe it was anything except a financial transaction to them. The acting better be a hell of a lot better though. 😈
@@andrewcarlson2178 to me not helping a little is as bad as helping to much. Im 64 so it may not be long when I will need help. Not money just help living.
Culturally, the kids are supposed to help out with the parents/family. $40 a week to stay on the good side of a woman if she's taking care of you regarding meals, good times, and she seems genuinely interested in you... isn't a lot.
LOL "Splenda Daddy."
I did this some time ago due to actual events and she definitely passed. When I was able to resume ($50/month) she kept asking if I was sure I didn't need the money.
Nice. ⛳️
Hello Jasper, I have been to the Philippines three times in the last two years. I tested my Filipina on my last visit to the Philippines without realizing it. We were going to the city one morning and I told her that I was out of money and needed to go to Western Union. She drove Me to Her Bank so that She could get some of Her money to give to Me. I had to tell Her that I had misspoken and that I actually needed to exchange dollars for pesos. Take care.
Very nice!! 👍
Was it a loan without interest?
Lol
So true. I'm a fairly good looking 65, she's 46. We've been together in Mindanao for five months now, and she's had to adjust to not having a regular "allowance" as I have had glitches getting my pension started and delivered here. BTW>>> the allowance she receives is to pay all our bills, rent, groceries, budget for travel, etc. It's enough for us to enjoy a good lifestyle, but I followed your advice, and she does not know about or get all my monthly income. And my overall assets are private. We live comfortably on that monthly allowance, less than half my regular income. It's taken me a long time to learn not to lead with my wallet. Having the assets privately held by me is really all the security one can count on, regardless of relationship status, right?
Nice
Yes keep your POWER!!!
Yessss
Man, you are 65 years old. You are leading with your wallet no matter what. Don't be following advice from a video on the internet and do what's right for you. When you get a little older, she is the one who is going to take care of you, remember that. Treat her well and not like property or a rental item. She will remember.
Lol
I live in the Philippines and could never try this test, because I would never give her family one peso.
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1000%
Legal obligation?? Do tell
Your girl lied to you to get you to pay 😂
Never need one
If you pay an allowance, you are an employer, not a boyfriend
1000%
You're a sugar daddy, and she's a prostitute. Period. End. Of. Story.
Facts 😊
Not if she the entitled princess type and got a simp
@@JasonStone-m5i Gross
Filipinas are watching this now and start coming up a plan...
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There'a FB group with 30k Filipinas in it that's all about scamming foreigners for money
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you may know that it doesn't matter what country you are in all women are all the same no matter what .
My guy....why would u even start paying the family that kinda money in the first place.....
Why pay them any money?
@@JasperinthePhilippines No government assistance like in America. How many American families would need help if it wasnt for government assistance
I don’t pay. Most
Do. Regardless of amount
@@geraldbaker42
Not a foreigner's problems.
You're creating monsters.
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The minute you establish that relationship based on cash you will be used going forward you can count on that... It's not anyones responsibility to support a whole family because you have a girlfriend the were poor before you arrived they will be poor after you leave...I can see helping out here and there. a one time gift perhaps .... but supporting no way...there are other ways of validating that don't involve spending 1k per month ....i respectfully disagree.
Agreed
That's the attitude of Philippines though. When you date or marry a Filipina you truly are dating and marrying her entire family. This is the case for 99% of Filipinas
I would say 95% 5% have the same or more money than you. If you’re talking financially marrying them.
@@JasperinthePhilippines Okay fair enough. I doubt 5% of Filipinas have as much wealth as I do, but they certainly could have enough wealth/income to not be concerned with what I have or not have when dating or marrrying.
Ya I don’t know your net worth but ya. 👍 there is a lot of wealth in my area. BGC/makati.
Great advice. I did something similar with my now wife when we were dating and she didn’t bat an eye. Granted, my wife is upper middle class in the Philippines and her family owns a business, a couple houses ect. but I wanted to see if she was about money only or me. She is bad even today about asking for money for things she needs. Anyway, if you do set up a test of some sort involving money it will save you headaches later. I got burned bad by my American ex wife regarding money so I didn’t want to make the same mistake with a Filipina one. Good advice bro 😎
Nice 👍
Filipinas are known to play the long game. You proved nothing. Ask her to give you a one minute long tongue kiss and then post the results here. Now, that's a b.. proof test.
wtf
@@JasperinthePhilippines ?
@@JasperinthePhilippines I agreed with you so what’s the problem?
100% SPOT ON JASPER. After 1 year I gave $300 a month to my girlfriend for 2 years allowance. I stopped it for a month. 😊Calls slowed down. Then once every 3-4 days. Then I broke up. I am also a vlogger and should be smarter. I am not handsome. I am the Ugly Tourist
Sorry to hear that happened bro. The video I’m dropping in 6 hours elaborates more.
I remember you bro. I’ll check out your channel.
I tested my Filipina yrs ago. She has her own money and home and job. When I first came to the Philippines we went to the Pure Gold store and she went in to shop I stayed outside to smoke. She had my bag that had my wallet,passport all my cash and both of my phones. She could've left out the store from another exit and I'd have been fucked. But she did the shopping and used her own money and never used my money. When I went back to America for 6 months, I left one of my bank cards with her in case she needed it for something. She never used the card. We started a ldr in 2017 and were still together. Just be careful guys. Don't mess with the bar girls. Watch for red flags and have fun. If you think she might have other men in her life or things don't add up or she has a cousin that's there all the time, that's probably her boyfriend. Just keep your eyes open.
Yes. The “brother”.
She passed with flying colors
Finding a girl with her own money. Usually late 20s and up that you still find sexy is key 🔑
Damn, all your cash and a bank card ? You got some balls. Lol or think with them 😂
I tested a stripper like that once, but I just left $40 on the nightstand.
Lol
That is a smart and clever thing to do when an foreign expat enters in a relationship with a Filipina. It's a BRILLIANT way of testing the Filipina's sincerity and character👍👍👍
Salamat Charles. I appreciate your co-sign. 🫡🇵🇭
@@JasperinthePhilippines No problem, just a friendly tip, avoid being gullible and idiotic to other woman's status and demands in a relationship. LOVE is sometimes blind and foolish😫😫😫
🎯 Couldng have said it better myself. In any country. Women are women.
I’ve been here 2 years. The Filipinos agree with me & you’ve NEVER BEEN TO THE PHILIPPINES & have no platform. No one cares about your thoughts. 😂🤡
Did he get his information from Mickey Mouse or Donald Duck most of you have common sense and know this.He knows nothing about women here maybe he would have better luck with American women
I’m just addicted to saying no. I just can’t help myself. 😮
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I have a better test, give her nothing, no monthly allowance, do you do that in the west? no, so if its expected over there, just forget it, better to be alone and just "Have fun" when you feel like it.
Yes I do
That in the west.
@ratnoinamaewffor sure I'm learning that now that's what I'm thinking on doing.
This is excellent advice. In my case, I really lost a lot of money in crypto and I told her about it.
She dropped me like a sack of sh-t.
Actually, two of them did it like that.
Btw, 60 is not the last days on the planet nowadays. Even 90+ may not be.
Other notes:
I am handsome in the Philippines.
Handsome means 1. white skin 2. elevated nose bridge. They want this for their kids.
Another test is ask her if she has any questions for you: if she persistently says "No", then, well, she is not your GF. Like if 2-3 times she said she has no questions( outside of when you will send her money), that's a dead giveaway she only cares about your money and not you.
60s can be the end for many
Brilliant advice from Jasper. The test mentioned around 3:00 is prudent no matter where the woman is from. See how she reacts when something goes wrong with your business or your investments and you meet the real woman.
1000% almost everything I say applicable to all women.
Splenda daddy LOL! I'm going to steal that line for sure
😂😂😂😂
The amount of cash you splash is directly related to the amount of "lerve" the Pinay gives you. Never discuss your financial situation with any filipino, and believe me they will ask sooner or later. Rent dont Buy, and that goes for involvments/relationships, all women have their own agenda, just as we do.
Lol
For you yes.
What if you find a Pinay with cash and do t splash.
I don't understand the test. If I've already started giving money to the family, it's already too late. The test can only confirm that I am an idiot.
I would test the woman like this: If we have a relationship, then I pay most of the costs for accommodation, food, etc. But I won't give your family any money, you continue to work, preferably a little less than before, you save a lot of money through me, but only you support your family. She'll almost certainly look for someone else, but it's better to have clear rules at the beginning.
Lmfao
This is a good tip because right now it's just hard to trust people especially If you're looking for a real relationship and with a poverty issue here in my country.
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No problem with mine! She told me she didn't need it when she got a good job.
Ok ok
i would not recommend any dude to be paying an allowance to his GF and her family. if you are married, then ok i can see something reasonable. also, its easy to know if the relationship is transcational or not. if a girl is way way out of your league eg 55 year old dude with smoking 20 year old, then the relationship is transcational.
Agreed on all counts. 🫡
I would add if you’re 55 and your girl says you look 30 SHES LYING. 😂
A 30 yrs gap is not the problem in the PH I think the problem is with a 20 yr young juvenile the head space or lack of that you have to deal with.
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What do you recommend to guys who are relatively young (40y), handsome and rich? What type of life in the PH you recommend
Bonifacio global city Manila. Location. Not sure what else you’re asking. Stay single til you meet a “rich” elite looks Filipina.
Then why live in Phils ? Some of my expat friends commute between Phils, Thailand and Indonesia IMO thats the smart play if a guys got the $ to maintain that lifestyle.
Other than my kids, I don't give money to my own family. They get off their ass and get a job. I'm certainly not financing some other family. Every woman can be replaced with a new woman.
Exactly
We all have the same 24 hours in a day. GET A JOB!
Women are like a city bus. If you miss one, an hour later another one comes by.
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Yep, every day hundreds of thousands of filipinas turn 18, WTF commit to any one of them ? MGTOW by the way.
Always good advice 🏴
Thank you
Lol. My parents are Filipinos. My dad once said that when he married my mom, he also married the whole barangay (village) because her family are always asking for help. .
She’s been supporting them since 1991. Now that she’s on social security she can’t give anymore. They continue to ask for help. Instead of them asking their own family who are in another country, they would ask her first. Even her sibling’s grandkids would try to reach out to her on Facebook.
Our experience was that when you continue to support them every month, they get lazy because they knew they have a monthly allowance. When you stop, then you look bad. It’s like you owe them money.
It’s best not to give them a monthly allowance. If you really want to give, I wouldn’t give them more than $300. I’d save the money instead coz you know Once they start to have health issue or get sick, guess who they will call.
Don’t get me wrong. There are a lot of Filipinas who are loyal and will take care of you. Just stay away from
someone who’s always asking for something.
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I thought about leaving some cash (like a 1000p or 500p) in the couch to see if its still there after a few days/week
Not a bad idea
I think you already know the answer if you have to play games like this
Lol
I have seen some expats give 500-1000 a month but that is really for simps. The real allowance in a real relationship is 200-250(15,000 Pesos) at most. Some first timers looking at this video will think they have to pay 1000 a month to a girl and they will ruin that girl. Always remember you can raise your allowance at anytime but lowering it is a big no no. So you might want to start at 100-150 a month and go to 200-250 as time goes by.
Ok
300 $ is a modest living in the the Philippines for single person if you own a house that's why many Filipinos applying job abroad to support parents, family or siblings for schooling...
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I can’t do this test. I’m handsome as hell, but my very beautiful Filipina gf (a 10!) won’t accept any money or gifts from me. She refuses every time I try. She very independent and prefers to work for her own things. Her family are business owners and also very independent. They don’t want anything from me. Compared to most foreigners in the PI, I’m in a very good situation.
lol.
Who told you were handsome as hell? 😂😂😂😂.
@@JasperinthePhilippines 😂 it’s just a fact bro!
Your mom? 😂 just kidding handsome 🫡
@@JasperinthePhilippines 😂 I think positive and I know my worth. My Filipina loves that confidence.
Great test - sorts out the wheat from the chaff
Yes sir
Not sure using a "lie" to "test" loyalty is the route I would go. Why give money at all? If they don't want to be with you unless you give money, best to live alone IMO. But each to their own.
Might not be a lie.
You might really have a problem. You may have been trained to think this is the custom tile you found my channel.
But ya. You do you. Me personally I give zero. But most guys give.
@@JasperinthePhilippines Problem? How so if I may ask?
Went over your head.
interesting test, I like it.
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Jasper should change the name of the channel to "PH Dating Boot Camp" - where he's the drill instructor.
Whup 2-3-4 left right left!! SOLDIER!!!!!
Great idea boss
You're certainly right and I understand what you mean. But I call this kind of thing "playing games" and no person in a relationship is entitled to do that.
I also think it's unfair because the Filipina can't test the man in the US or Europe by hiring an attractive woman to seduce him to test his fidelity. For some men, that would certainly be a test that they would not pass.
For me love without trust is not love, but a deal.
He who has the gold. Can do this.
Not quite right as if that girl happens to be OFW (and there’s thousands of em) they would be supporting their family. Also if they are married to fellow filipino and abroad. Guess what still support family. So be careful how you view this.
lol.
Drop the ofw video on your channel bud 😂
@Jasper And on this note, assuming she passes the test.... could you do a video on supporting her, but drawing a HARD LINE between supporting her vs supporting her parents, brothers, sisters, grandma, etc, etc, etc. Do you just give her an allowance, and say "look, this money is yours... what you do with it is up to you." BUT, don't ask me for another dime until next month. (..?)
Hey good idea on that video perhaps I will 👍
JASPER!!
PLEASE BRING YOUR FATHER AND YOUR SISTER HERE IN THE PHILIPPINES!! SHARE YOUR NEWFOUND TROPICAL PARADISE TO THEM!!❤❤❤❤
They will look at your journey a BLESSING for them too!!
Yes I will try. My father 81 not sure if he wants to travel. But we will see since he’s like 60!
Dang. I'm not in the PI yet, but headed there soon. I make a decent wage, but I have no plans on giving anyone anywhere near $500 a month as a gift. How many expats are doing this?? Crap! Am I going to be DOA when I get there?
Many give from 100- to 1000+
You are 100% correct Jasper. I ask the girls to pay for something every now and then also to see that the reaction is.
Absolutely
Or certainly see if she offers.
@@JasperinthePhilippinesand accept when they do. It's against my upbringing but times have changed
@@andrewcarlson2178 when I was single on a first meeting, I would decline but be impressed with my current girlfriend. Every time she offers I let her pay.
@@andrewcarlson2178 when I was single on a first meeting, I would decline but be impressed with my current girlfriend. Every time she offers I let her pay.
i pay for the rent/ut., most food & her son’s private school. But no allowance since she has a full time job from which she supports her fam. as do her siblings.
Ok
One person's trash is another person's treasure. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Money=Security. That is attractive.
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I tell you I never gave a allowance and when I got here I had know here less than a mont. Now she is my wife. Papa ask me to borrow some money it was a vary large peso amount he said he would give it back in a few weeks. 4 days later he gave it back I love papa so much because he knows how to treat me. I sometimes borrow from hem for a few days
Never loan more than you can gift
Glad it worked out.
Been there done that and you're bsolutely correct. I found the good ones from the bad ones.
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I think ,test corection ,,should be that you won't be able to pay the allowance for a few months and say hopefully financial difficulties will be sorted after that
Good one
The 17 years I've been with my wife from the beginning i only gave her enough for bills and food but over time and the longer we've been together just like in America we've accumulated a lot of household things and we cant resort to something smaller to live in unless we sell or give things away and that's not happening. I am the sole provider my wife has never worked unless we've owned a store. So i will not do what you suggest i give my wife 3000 usd a month for bills and for our son my dad did it for my mother i do it for my wife, She will give me proof of all bills if i ask for it, But me myself what ever i give her is hers as long as bills are paid for. And her parents have never asked me for support since ive been with her but i made it clear from the beginning im here to support their child not them. We have been married 15 years nearing 16 years out of the almost 18 years weve known each other.
You’ve been married 2 decades this does not apply to you sir.
I’m mainly speaking about family allowance & new relationships. I said if you’re married. Go all out. Break the bank.
Great advice man, keep up the good work!
Thank you
Great advice! Thx!!
You’re very welcome chief 🫡
Excellent idea!
Yes sir
Very smart move, Jasper. A subtle shit test. An absolute must. Very well thought out young Jedi.😊
Salamat sir
Hope you’re enjoying the Philly
Willy. 🫡
@JasperinthePhilippines My permanent resident status was approved this last week. Tomorrow, I'm picking up a very nice Honda ADV ( highly customized). Finished moving into my new 4 bed, 2 bath 2 story penthouse. I'm getting there!
Wow. Sana all!!!
@JasperinthePhilippines As they say, young Jedi, shit or get off the pot!
my advice..don't be a victim of high expectations ....
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That’s exactly what my second last video was about
How about no allowance to begin with. I have been here 2 years, 3 different long term relationships, and have never even talked about an allowance , let alone give any type of allowance. I am 61, don't go down that path. You do not have to.
Yeah, I have also never given a penny, but most guys are playing this game so this video is for the masses not for me and you
Good test👍🏾🇺🇲🇵🇭
Yes sir 🫡
If a filipina is stable and owns business here in PH , then that test doesn't work, she should be able to fix her lifestyle first before jumping into dating /marriage. I married my foreigner husband and the first time i met him , i give him all of my savings and give me more after we got married,he proposed to me by a 4 carat diamond ring We live in BGC and don't want any kids, i have two brothers and , My brothers are on their own so no issues . Best of luck in finding your Pini guys 🎉😊
You gave your entire savings to someone the first time you physically met them?
Also it’s buy * Not by
I like the idea but I'd have to find a different way to do it. My strengths are honesty and respect, and I would be violating both by testing her in this way.
@@pltatman1 stay a sugar daddy
@@pltatman1 the way I explained is the only way. You can’t say oh I’m “testing you”.
@@pltatman1 you currently have an employee not a gf or wife.
"not show up for her regular meeting" that's not a GF that is an employee
Lol
Amazing.
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I just know that once I get there, I'm not going to leave
Facts
"if you're 60 and your girlfriend's 19 and you're in a grandfather granddaughter relationship." LMAO!! Easy buddy! You're getting close to home! You're not hitting close to home, you are in my house!! 🤣🤣🤣 Good stuff!
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Great advice
Thank you
Once you star giving money to a Filipino family your in the hook for life. Finding love is not a scientific test! Lol. Once you meet your girl, if she start or expect special treatments or expect you to pay for everything, bail out.
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Don't pay her family. Pay her "household" money she can keep or spend on her family. If u dont like that kind of arrangements find a pinay with the same economical status as yourself. (GL with that).
I must have luck because I found one 😂
@@JasperinthePhilippines Young? Good looking? Got $$$? She is a bargirl?
She’s an operations manager. Probably your boss bum.
How rare, then ur not the standard expat in the PH either.
Very true.
Sugar daddy is the way to go because it is being declared from the beginning. Any man who actually thinks there is not a transactional element to all male-female relationships, in a country like the Philippines, is not being honest with himself. I find it hilarious when I see a 70 year old TH-camr (who has been divorced at least a few times) who marries a woman half his age. Of course it is all about what he can provide to her, her children and her family. I would rather pay her for her time and maintain the control (none of that Tampo BS). If she steps out of line or tries anything I can easily replace her. Besides, how many relationships do you know that lasts more than a few years?
Well, there’s no transactional element in my relationship so you would be wrong on that
And saying sugar, daddy is the way to go is basically all I needed to know about you, but to each their own enjoy yourself
"Enjoy your last days on the planet." 😂😂😂
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My Philippine gf is rich and does not need my money but we are very much in love. In spite of her and my money.
Perfect.
Mine too
Hmmmp a test
lol
A money test.
The test is. Am I a sugar daddy? 😂
@@JasperinthePhilippines I think no
Not me silly.
I think you would find that guys sponsoring the fake relationship would never dare take this test, as reality would hurt too much! Although save them money in the long term.
So true
So true
Just giving a smart option
isn't it the same with many other poor countries?
Yeah, most of the stuff I say is Universal
Okay Jasper I know you are quick witted. You usually comeback with a fast comment. I will try this and get back to you on what i learned. Just don't be a dick when I be honest. I'm Hansome! :()
Hand*. Some
Why Pierce Brosnan or Brad Pitt? I am much better looking.
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According to your mom?
I'm a Spelnda daddy !! HA ha !! U 2 funny my man !
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I’m a “salt dad” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The question is, why do foreigners go for poor girls, why not go for women who are educated and financially stable? Also why go for young girls, why not look for women who are independent and mentally mature? Is it about control or predatory instinct or insecurities about your own worth?
True.
My girl is not young or poor. But great question.
@loimike31 If I wanted a "strong, *independent* wahmen who don't need no men" I'd stay in my country. "Mentally mature"? It is a big word, which often means: "burdened by mental baggage and trauma". "Women who are educated" => it depends on what you mean with "educated". I only go with sweet, feminine, shy girls who respect their man. Sadly these attributes statistically go away once the girl enters an indoctrination camp AKA university and becomes a FAT, raging leftist with hair under her armpits, face tattoos and pink hair. And yes, you can already see this slowly (????) creeping in even in the Philippines. If there's anything worse than an American land-whale, it's a 4' 11" tall asian land-whale.
And of course you just could not avoid the usual "predatory instinct or insecurities" liberal soyboy simp talk. NO, not wanting a fat b!tch does not mean being predatory or insecure. It's about having standards.
Ok
I am not giving SIT
Ok
Stop giving your girlfriends parents money
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1000% agreed
Mine failed the test. 😊
Oh my God, did you do it because of my video
$500 a month is 30k? Pesos?
Yes
@ the beginning; you used a 1000 words,in what should be A paragraph.
Awww sweetie
No test needed, once she gives you her heart she's yours forever.
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That was funny
@@JasperinthePhilippines Bro, how can you make light of my comment?
This is not a fairy tale Troy
Tests are needed if you’re playing sugar daddy
Had give thumbs down! Way too Manny times said same thing 12 times!!!
17000 views later
You said give her 500 Bucks, Did you mean 500 Pesos.
I give zero.
My examples were American dollars
No job I'll not give her the time of day
Ok ok
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Welcome to the Philippines 😅
lol. Been here since 2022 😂
Can you feel the rage boiling inside 😂
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Too funny 😂
😂😂😂
...damn, get to the point
You’re excused
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If you're 60, enjoy your last day on the planet 😐🤨
Lol
Likely 80
Prostitution ?.
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So hard to believe ! LOL
You want to punani, pay up. LOL!
lol
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I find your ch boring..
Don’t let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya
Fck yeah I'm a rednexican brown Brad potbellied Pitt. I am daddy
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😮no “tests” in a real relationship.. arghh. If you do this to a good woman, she should dump your ass. This is the same as her making up a medical problem to see your reaction. One that makes her need a month away from any sexual activity.. right? Let’s see if he loves me for me? I hate all this bad relationship advice. Find a good woman or be a sucker.
I have a rich elite Filipina. This is for sugar daddy’s that got confused. 😂😂😂😂
Spoken like a true angry blue haired feminist 😂😂😂😂🤡
A Filipina dumping a foreigner like me? ZERO CHANCE IN LIFE.
No, I’ve got a smoking hot, call center lady that asks for nothing and all I pay for is my lifestyle, so I have a 1 bd condo she can stay at everyday and keeping a full fridge with her cooking n cleaning and my clothes always clean,,is way cheaper than eating out a lot a dating new girls all the time, having my laundry done,,, and your hair is bluer than mine.. She won’t dump you, because you are the sugar daddy.
@@JasperinthePhilippines highlight your own reply.. 😂 😂 😂
It's simple ...No Money No Honey.
😂😂😂😂😂sad beta low value thought
$1k is NOT Considered any where near rich in the Philippines 🤷♂️.
According to Philippines government stats to be considered rich in the Phils your income has to be 220,000 ($ 3800) per month. So let’s still stick to reality. 🤔
Incorrect.
I live here. 95% of people are kept under $600 a month for life. Many families live on 250-300 a month. Top 1% is 56k usd and doctors and lawyers make 1500-2000 per month.
I’ve been involved with the phils since 2005.
I know what the average figures are, check the government stats, or are saying you know better than them ??
I’m here I know things beyond what you can Google. I’m the authority your the googling viewer. ✌️✌️
Involved with the Phil’s???? Involved on you tube? 2 week millionaire trips? Googling Philippines stats since 2005? Congrats. Come here to learn not teach in the comment section kiddo. 90% of Filipinas will never clear 1000$ usd in a month ever in life. It’s a fact. ✌️✌️