5 things to AVOID doing in your 20's
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5 things to AVOID doing in your 20's
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I agree with letting people go because they can hold you back. I had my daughter at 20 after moving in my own place at 18. I wasn’t ready at all but she made me get ready once I found out. Best thing that could’ve happened to me. She’s 13 now. ☺️ nice tips
Thank you for watching :) It's nice that your situation turned out for the better! Amazing
I think one of the biggest things that I learned is that you cannot compare your journey to others. I am still in my 20s. I think that it is good to understand that you are not expected to have all the answers now. The world is ours and we can mess up and still achieve what we want in life.
I love your image choices as you are speaking!
I love this comment. You are right, we cannot compare to anyone! My favourite one also. Thank you for watching!
In your 20’s, you should already be planning out where you want to be. Don’t look at what your friends are doing or what others are doing. Totally agree.
I wish I had a mentor to guide during my twenties. These are great advices. Thanks for sharing 💯❤️
I am sure you're doing well now! thank you 💛
I’m in my 30’s now .. def wish I knew some of these tips in my 20,s ... like comparing myself to others and also allowing toxic people in my life to stay too long.. love this!!
HawaBunga thank you for watching 💙
You hit the nail right on the head with this video. You did a phenomenal job! I couldn’t have said it better myself. I wish I would’ve did a lot of things different in my 20s but it is what it is. I just turned 30 and I feel like this is my timing now. 🙌🏾👏🏾
Some good tips. I’m in my 30s and I regret some things but it’s all life lessons at the end of the day.
Yes, don't dwell on it if it can't be fixed. Enjoy your times now 💛
As someone in their mid 30s and someone who has probably done all of these things 🤣 I definitely agree. Also remember that your 20s are just the beginning, you can make mistakes and you don’t have to have it all figured out. It genuinely gets greater later....I always love the aesthetic of your videos.
Completely agree! I remember feeling like I had to have it all together in my early 20's. I quickly learned it's okay to make mistakes just learn from them and have fun!
Love this comment! Yes, we shoudn't compare and put so much pressure on ourselves! :) thank you both for watching
The biggest thing I learned in my 20’s is to not rush my life. Enjoy these time. Take this time to get yourself together especially financially. 40 year old me is happy I followed that advice. Great video.
Absolutely! Thank you for watching
I tell this to my two eldest daughters all the time.
Agreed. Not compromising in your 20 s is def major..not settling for less
I definitely agree with do not compare yourself to others. Especially these days with social media, it can definitely mess with your head.
Nice advice, gonna put this tips into practice.thanks for sharing
Thank you for watching! :)
I agree. Important not to compare yourself to others. Everyone has their own journey in life 👌🏼
Getting out of your comfort zone is def important. You wouldn't want to regret when it's too late.
Best advice stopping trying to live like the “Jone’s”. Love it.
Top thing I wish I would’ve done different in my 20’s was love for myself. I accomplished a lot in my early 20’s to prove a point to others and let my life pass me by. I never took time to enjoy each accomplishment before moving on to the next.
One big thing I learned in my 20s was to take each day at a time. Not compare myself with anyone. Thanks for sharing
Awesome as a 28 Year Old I Couldn’t Agree More : A Big Thing Is Don’t Rush Things and No To Comparing To Others .. I’ve Learned so Much These Past 20 Years and I Also Realized So Many People Trying to Live The Same Life as Others .
Thank you for this. I definitely need to learn how to relax and not keep up with everyone on social media!
I didn’t figure out the road I wanted to to take until my late twenties--guess it’s still twenties haha. Very insightful video!
Girl you saying a mouthful! I did a video like so a while ago cause I felt like someone could learn from my mistakes. I’ll like to add Credit is your lifeline, be careful with it. Invest, find multiple streams of income. Your tribe in your teens may not be in your 20s+ and IT’S OK! , we have a lot of the same advice. Loved this boo! 💜
Yesss love your comment! 💛You are correct. Multiple streams of income, investing, and so on :)
Whewww where was TH-cam in my teenage yearsss . I may be in my late 20’s but I still needed these tips I still have room to grow. I have many kids. Been in toxic relationship after toxic relationship . I love my kids but I was misguided ! I’ve spent my whole 26 years in a relationship I’m finally single & I am finding out so much more about myself ☺️ social media is a distraction to so many people . I feel like it should just be used for business honestly
Yesss love this comment you spoke real!! Glad you are still learning as you goo sis!
The biggest thing I've learned in my 20's is to listen to advice because not listening got me in a situation which nearly took my life, thanks for this
Every one should look out for themselves! Great points
I loved the point you made about being picky with your time. I agree. A lot of people deserve your energy!
I absolutely love this. I’m 21 and took a lot of this to heart. I need to stop caring about what people think.
Loved all the tips! I a lot of them are great ones I’ve engrained in my life. The best one if to def not compare your journey to someone else’s life!
Nice advice. I’m in my 20s now. It’s all about moving at your own pace and trusting that everything will work out fine. We are each on our own journeys
Lovely answer :) well said
I’m in my early twenties and I can say for a fact that this things never crossed my mind
I’m so happy I watched this video
Henceforth I’m going to put this tips to practice .
I hope it’s not late for me to make amends
Thank you so much Catherine ❤️
Aww lovely comment! Thank you :) I am happy it helped 💛
The biggest lesson I learned back in my 20s do not rush anything in life, take your time and do things the way it should be done.
My 20s have been my best years & probably bc I’m not even 30 so I know nothing past it lol but it’s literally been a decade of change and growth and figuring out myself and life. Love my 20s and thankful for this season!
I am the exact same lol I have seen so much growth and change in the past year alone! Glad you are enjoying the ride 💛
Girl as i enter my late 20s i realize how much i agree wit. Everything you said . Living 20s without regrets while maintaining healthy relationships and good financial health is soooo hard but so needed to have a even more fruitful 30s!!!! I’m glad like you mention kids because ppl always act like you’ll be old having kids in your 30s and i just wanna have enough money to take care of the child lol 😂😂😂😂 and i fellttttt you on that i don’t have to talk to anyone i don’t want to lol it’s an essential tip NO SETTLING 🙏🏾
Lmaoo exactly, I don't want stressss with these damn kids 😂 thanksss for watching girl, I defo need to be relaxing well in my 30s too, only that ! 💛
I wish someone had given me some good advice in my 20’s. Life might look different now. But I learned a lot of lessons. Glad you are putting this out for the younger generation. 😉
love these tips and I am still learning as I go since I just reached my mid twenties I feel like my most important lesson is not to compare your journey with others no matter what you see on social media you are just playing yourself
These tips are good and it’s so true. Especially when your young and in this generation, we are all growing and learning so it’s good to have the right mind set and attitude when young.
Also know your worth and focus on your life because especially now a lot of people are comparing themselves with others and losing their focus in their own life.
Just know what you want and the kind of person you want to become and fulfil your purpose.
It’s never to late to start over no matter how bad you might have messed up, life is for living, learning and growing. ✨
Miss Becca love your responses Becca 🥰🖤 thank you for taking the time to watch and also I defo agree with your comment! We are still young and going with the flow but always best to put things into perspective. Defo knowing your worth and focusing on yourself not everyone else. 🖤💯🙌🏾
Girl these are life lessons. You drop gems. I swear there was so much I wish I would've done in my 20s but I allowed fear and the opinions of others hold me back.
Thank you lovely! It is never too late :) good luck on your success!
I'm in my early 20s and ready to learn, thank you 💕
The biggest thing I learned in my 20’s is in some instances to live in the moment. Enjoy your moments & live. You won't get that time back. Create memories learn your life lessons. Great video my love.
I defo agree! Take it as it goes and enjoy, defo will not get that time back! Thank you for watching
As I near the end of my 20’s things things you mentioned are definitely important to me.
Loved these tips for 5 things to avoid! I could relate to getting out of your comfort zone.
I have more to absorb than I have to add to this video. I completely agree with all your points especially with comparing to others. I’ve always run my own race even when it looked like I was loosing. Now it’s given me the confidence to actually follow my dreams (manifesting a multimillionaire lifestyle) rather than caring what anyone else thinks. You are so wise. I’m very interested to watch your journey. Big up London!
Thank you so much :) Yess multimillionarire lifestyle I love it, nothing is never too big!
Catherine Magomu if only we would accept just how vast and capable we are aiming to be a millionaire would seem like playing small 😊
I loved this video!!!!! This was really insightful. I feel like a lot of people in their twenties really do compare themselves to their peers (I do it sometimes and I am actually working on not doing that anymore). I’m reading “The Defining Decade” right now and your video is a great supplement to it!!
Thank you for watching 🤍 I may have to look into the book you mentioned 👀
The biggest thing I learned in my 20’s is enjoy every moment.
Yes!! So many great tips! I definitely agree that spending money just because you see others doing it is never the route to go!!
Exactly lol. Thnak you for watching
It’s very important to surround yourself with things you want to see you are so right and never compare yourself only compete with yourself very well said.
Exactly! :) Thank you for watching
are you right or are you rightttt!!!! i’m glad i knew some of these tips back then! they helped then and i still live my life by them! and it still works
Always demand the respect you deserve no matter who the person is! Family or friends, it doesn’t matter! 👏🏾👏🏾
Elliane Kheshen absolutely 👏🏾
This advice was so good (especially saving that money, but even better INVESTING that money). I'm 30 now, so looking back on my 20s my advice would be to keep enjoying myself (because I did!) and to reassure myself that having children unexpectedly would not be the end, but only the beginning.
Love it 💯🖤 defo be more happy and live in the present too 🙌🏾
Oh goodness! It's been awhile since I was in my 20s. 😆 However, not being focused on drama is a definite. Like I tell my daughter, who will be 19, this is your time to discover you. Don't let anyone tell you who you are. You gave some good advice.
I do agree! Thank you for watching :)
Best advice stop trying to live like the Jone’s. Great advice.
Girl your gorgeous 😍 keep up the fab videos 💯 stay connected
Thank you so much! Will do 💛
These are some really good tips for young adults, it will help them out in the long run. Especially the savings money and being themself part, not living like everyone else.
Thank you for watching :)
What I learnt in my 20s was to trust the process and that what is for me will be for me!
Exactly that!
Good video 20s are the most important time of your life. Time to focus on goals and live it up and have fun at the same time never take life to seriously
Yesss, you are correct, also not being too serious and living up i defo agree with. You are already doing all of that 💯thanks for watching Teee
Great tips! I'm 26 and still struggling with some of this.
Thank you. Your time will come!
One year left in my 20''s and my biggest advice would be to enjoy your early 20s definitely live your life, focus on your finances, and wait to settle down and children sooo yeah I agree with this video
Thank you for watching!
Yes I'm getting ready to leave the 20 club. It's been a lot of trial and error but overall I've learned so much. Yes, I agree It's really important to figure what you like, not what makes Mom and Dad happy. -Court
Thank you for watching :)
The 20s are definitely not a time to compromise but I've spent a lot of my 20s doing it out of fear. Currently being in the last year of my 20s, I want to do something different going forward. Watch out year 30, here I come!
OHHtheplacesshegoes yesss it’s never too late 🤍
One thing I’ve learned (a little to late) is to enjoy life. In my early 20s I worked WAY too much and I didn’t spend enough time hanging with friends and enjoying my youthfulness. I’m 28 now and I’m trying to make up for lost time.
Don't be so hard on yourself though. Now just take your time, and try to enjoy the moment more. It's a good thing you can acknowledge that :)
You gave some great tips! Stack your money and invest in your dreams. Those are 2 things I'd advise.
Thank you for watching!
Ooh no!I needed to hear this few years back but nevertheless,it’s not all lost as this is important to many right now.Sharing to my to my siblings.Thanks for enlightening the young generation 👸.
Thank you lovely :) sweet comment
I’ll be 31 on Thursday and in my 20s. I felt like I wasn’t doing enough. I felt like I need to be further. I had to learn that you don’t need to have all together.
Omg so soooon, happy EARLY birthday lol its Thursday where I am already. You are right, do not stress yourself
I wished I enjoyed life more, all the same I loved the advice
Enjoy your time from now onwards! 💛
I love your voice 😁
One of the biggest things I learned in my 20s that I would pass on is that you don't have to have it all together. It's your journey enjoy it.
This! Very true, never compare with anyone! Focus on yours and enjoy it! Thanks for watching
I love your hair!❤️ I definitely commend anyone who has their life together in their 20s. 👏🏾Because unfortunately, I'm still living with my parents!😶😅
Thank you lovely :)
Tooooo many nuggets dropped in this video 🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑
Thank you hubby 💞
Yes.. wasting money. If I knew what I know now then, my life would be so different now.
I agree with dont rush to have children and have relationships including marriage...
I feel 20 is quite early...anyone is their early twenties should be building their finances, Building their emotional and psychological intelligence...the earliest to get married or have kids is late 20s...and early 30s..personally for me..yes if you meet the love of your life early, that's great but even till then..what's the rush in marrying so early.
I agree, late 20's early 30's but also don't leave children way too late but never rush or settle for less! Thank you for your comment and watching 💛
Great tips. The voice is low and all I hear is music in background.
thanks for letting me know, i just realised also.
Well this helped cause I’m 20 next year lol