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  • At the age of 31, Seamus was given a diagnosis that changed his life - for the better. Subscribe to ABC Science TH-cam 👉 ab.co/2YFO4Go
    Klinefelter Syndrome (also known as 47,XXY) is a common genetic condition, affecting one in 550 men. Despite the prevalence, it’s rarely diagnosed.
    Small testicles are often a sign, but other symptoms can include reduced muscle mass, reduced body and facial hair, enlarged breasts, low sex drive and low energy. Speak to your GP with any concerns.
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  • @ABCScience
    @ABCScience  3 ปีที่แล้ว +569

    👏 👏 BIG THANKS to Seamus for sharing his story.
    Read more about 47,XXY (also known as Klinefelter Syndrome) here 👉 ab.co/2VVnJZ8

    • @Binary._.
      @Binary._. ปีที่แล้ว

      💖

    • @markrussell3428
      @markrussell3428 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thank you for Seamus's story, Some would try to suggest there are more than two sexes and use someone like Seamus as a case to "prove this point". Thank goodness he has the courage to speak so clearly about his condition, Hopefully it educates the illusional.

    • @davidmicheletti6292
      @davidmicheletti6292 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I too was born with a intersex condition. It has been difficult living with this. In all I’ve had seven or more surgeries and stage three testicular ovarian cancer.
      Today i am having a mammogram as I also carry the gene for breast and ovarian cancer.
      Sometime in the next years ill need another surgery. That will be number 28
      Thanks for sharing your story. People need to know we are apart of the world.

    • @Fizzypopization
      @Fizzypopization ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@@markrussell3428I know science is hard for you, but try actually reading more about intersex conditions. You are literally denying the existence of something well established and something you literally just watched.

    • @markrussell3428
      @markrussell3428 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Fizzypopization Thanks. Honestly, this isnt hard for me to understand at all and I have read lots. If there is something specific, you disagree with please let me know. What I would say is intersex is a large category that captures a grouping of genetic anomalies and other abnormalities related to sex identification and functioning. The different abnormalities occur frequently enough to become identified and grouped in the larger Intersex category. At its core, these are genetic or related malformations that take the form of anomalies just like there are other anomalies or “birth defects” such as: down syndrome, cystic fibrosis or hypospadias. If someone comes from the Fausto-Sterling school of thought or believes sex is assigned at birth I can see where the confusion comes from. Sex forms in utero as a fetus develops, takes shape. Sex can be determined as early as six weeks with some degree of accuracy and normally is 100% accurate through amniocentesis later - well before birth. When its not clear in utero there is a risk for an anomaly.

  • @Forge17
    @Forge17 ปีที่แล้ว +7864

    This man is so brave for going on camera and sharing his struggle. He’s owned it and is actually helping others

    • @sleepyanna8188
      @sleepyanna8188 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Exactly, what a man !

    • @maddinek
      @maddinek ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Especially brave doing it as a man. I feel in our society it's so much easier for women to speak up about issues and the issues men have of any sorts get silenced the one way or another. Awesome guy!

    • @Forge17
      @Forge17 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      @@maddinek women feel a stigma too talking about infertility, but men feel emasculated to discuss any sort of issue like that 😕 especially regarding low T, Erectile D, or hormone issues

    • @maddinek
      @maddinek ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@Forge17 men getting laughed about, called names and considered less of a men if they talk about emotions. The classic response is something like "mimini such a poor guy" and tons of other things. Therefore I'm not surprised we aren't talking open about them.

    • @ES-wn4oq
      @ES-wn4oq ปีที่แล้ว +39

      ​@@EG-misanthropeHonesty often takes bravery, yes.

  • @largemargetakingcharge4729
    @largemargetakingcharge4729 ปีที่แล้ว +4615

    I’m so happy to see more people disclose this type of sensitive information to the public. I am intersex who has male appendage, but ovaries and uterus. Find out around 20 years of age after periodically having what I thought was a uti or prostate cancer, but found out it was a period.

    • @Andrew_Warden
      @Andrew_Warden ปีที่แล้ว +263

      Wow, what a story you have. I'm curious to know more. Can I ask how you were helped with having periods? How do you identify? I'm genuinely asking.

    • @largemargetakingcharge4729
      @largemargetakingcharge4729 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Andrew_Warden Hey! I’ll be happy to answer your questions. My doctors have been amazingly supportive and quite knowledgeable of my condition. I’ve gone through two stages of puberty with my condition being the second. Shortly after my diagnosis, I began taking testosterone. Originally my body was producing a decent level of testosterone and around 18 years of age, it plummeted and I started having mood swings, lower back and stomach aches, occasional diarrhea with leg pain. I begin spotting thinking it was an uncontrollable uti and it would last for a few days and then I would notice changes in color of blood around the time it would stop. I don’t want to give too much details as I don’t want to gross out anyone. I was given midol to control the pain, or would drink black coffee which helped for a while, but had to go to stronger meds due to the pain. I also take sanitary napkins with me around the time I feel like it’s about to start. After starting “T” my menstrual cycle has changed tremendously. It went from every month to now once every four or five months. If I were to stop taking “T”, I could still develop breast tissue, widened hip, and a host of other symptoms, but T has been working well for me. I still identify as male.

    • @EikottXD
      @EikottXD ปีที่แล้ว

      Birth control probably took care of the periods.

    • @NathalieCwiekSwiercz
      @NathalieCwiekSwiercz ปีที่แล้ว +252

      Oh How scary it must have been to think you have cancer :( but thank you so much for sharing, you are absolutely helping others who may have your symptoms and dont dare go to the doctor's to get help! I hope you are doing much better now knowing what it is. Again, thank you for sharing ❤ (English isn't my first language, hope I didn't write anything wierd haha😅)

    • @anonymousanonymous7304
      @anonymousanonymous7304 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I wonder if there's an environmental cause that we don't know yet.

  • @lynnsavron7949
    @lynnsavron7949 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +976

    My stepson was diagnosed with this disorder. It was actually a relief to know that his behavior and physical symptoms had an explanation. He had all of the typical Klinefelter characteristics, and life was not easy for him. Unfortunately, one of the risk factors of this syndrome is testicular cancer, which took his life at the age of 35. He is much missed.

    • @its_britneybicth
      @its_britneybicth 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Rip ❤

    • @DotMcFarlane
      @DotMcFarlane 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      I can relate. My stepbrother James didn't have Klinefelter Syndrome, but he developed testicular cancer that spread to his manhood, kidneys and lungs. He passed away in 2018 aged 48. Sorry for your loss 😪😪

    • @lynnsavron7949
      @lynnsavron7949 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@DotMcFarlane I understand. I am so sorry for your loss.

    • @kristineanderson4983
      @kristineanderson4983 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Thank you for telling this story. Prayers to you and your family.

    • @davidarundel6187
      @davidarundel6187 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Sorry for your loss . 🕉️🙏

  • @Rantsack
    @Rantsack 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +450

    My fiance has 47 XXY and I never had a problem with him. When you're with someone, you have to be there and support them. Not judge them. Sadly, my fiance passed from cancer 12 years ago. We have been together for 14 years He was an amazing person and always tells me, how happy he was to have met me and I made him feel confident everyday.

    • @nodeofranvier222
      @nodeofranvier222 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Rest in peace mate. I wish you good luck honey he's waiting on the other end I'm sure you'll meet him one day

    • @محمدبنسلطان-ق1ز
      @محمدبنسلطان-ق1ز 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      May he rest in peace.. What type of cancer did he have?

    • @dionne0120
      @dionne0120 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      14 years as a fiancé?

    • @vay_exe
      @vay_exe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@dionne0120 it says "we have been together for 14 years" so probably not fiance for the entire 14 years :)

    • @AmritSingh-gj5rw
      @AmritSingh-gj5rw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Are you married now

  • @jameschamberlain5817
    @jameschamberlain5817 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +311

    I got diagnosed with 47xxy last year. This man's story resonates with me so much. ❤

    • @yo_darlin151
      @yo_darlin151 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re a truly they/them person. 🙂

    • @UseYourManners123
      @UseYourManners123 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s awesome! Knowledge is power! There’s a lot more men with it they just don’t know it yet.

  • @Liberperlo
    @Liberperlo ปีที่แล้ว +2432

    I'm glad Seamus is getting the treatment he needs. I have Turner Syndrome, which is 45 X, so I'm a woman who lacks the second X (or Y). I also was helped with hormone supplementation, so I can relate. Good Luck Seamus!

    • @Liberperlo
      @Liberperlo ปีที่แล้ว +240

      p.s. I'm older, and It is really liberating that topics like this are openly talked about now. I was even told as a child not to talk or be open about having Turner syndrome.

    • @Connection-Lost
      @Connection-Lost ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Not possible. If you had only 1 X you would be a clone of your mother.

    • @igorjee
      @igorjee ปีที่แล้ว +371

      @@Connection-Lost what about the 22 somatic chromosomes she got from her father?

    • @neigeepierrot4694
      @neigeepierrot4694 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@Connection-Lostit is true I have it too

    • @neigeepierrot4694
      @neigeepierrot4694 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@LiberperloI have it also it is nice he is talking about it

  • @davechristensen8299
    @davechristensen8299 ปีที่แล้ว +4082

    I had a friend in the military who was also XXY. He didn't find out until he was 40. He had amazing extra mental abilities that very few people have.

    • @tigergreg8
      @tigergreg8 ปีที่แล้ว +198

      What were those extra abilities, if you don't mind me asking?

    • @FTKSoky
      @FTKSoky ปีที่แล้ว +1222

      @@tigergreg8he could fly

    • @samofrabat
      @samofrabat ปีที่แล้ว +165

      That has nothing to do XXY, but with the rest of the genes

    • @tigergreg8
      @tigergreg8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@FTKSoky Lmao

    • @davechristensen8299
      @davechristensen8299 ปีที่แล้ว +439

      @@tigergreg8 EXTRA ABILITIES
      He learned enough of a language in a week or so that he said was getting a good grip on understanding it.
      He could see auras and know things about people. He could tell what part of a person's body was ill. In the Air Force the doctors used him in their hospital office to tell them where the person needed help. This helped the doctors to diagnose people correctly and save lives. This was very real. He was dependable. There are probably people alive today because of his abilities.
      The Air Force doctors studied him. They found that one part of his brain was more developed. He himself attributed this to having an extra chromosome. I don't know if that explains his gifts, but it made him feel more positive about having an extra chromosome.
      His physical appearance was typical of XXY, but that's not so different from many other men, so as much as he was studied, the doctors did not think to see if he was XXY. He learned it later after the service.
      His differences caused him some difficulties in life. But I don't know what they are. He was a cool guy and had good friends. He was very close to God. Something about his character made being close to God natural for him.
      The human race has achieved things that other animals have not. Part of that is due to the tremendous diversity of traits among people that it takes to create a civilization. Everyone should be honored and valued. That is how Native American's feel about everyone. Our differences are gifts. Everyone was valued for their differences.
      My father had a saying that guided his life:
      "EVERYONE IS A DISTINCT INDIVIDUAL". There is something unique about everyone that we should not try to change nor fix. Honor people for how they are. We need the variety.
      I enjoyed this topic. There is a world of people who are unique in some way. "One shoe does not fit all".
      I wish everyone happiness!

  • @clankb2o5
    @clankb2o5 ปีที่แล้ว +1284

    Very brave of him to share his story! And it is shocking to read that 1 out of every 550 men has this condition. That is so many!

    • @anglophils645
      @anglophils645 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      1% of the population has some kind of hormonal or chromosomal problem that affects their fertility. That's 1 out of 100. Some women have only 1 X chromosome, instead of 2, for example. Kleinfelder's syndrome is just one example of these problems.

    • @R.Oates7902
      @R.Oates7902 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      He's a good-looking guy!

    • @Sophie-mt8yf
      @Sophie-mt8yf ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@jonathanwetherell3609 wow awesome! You(r son) may have been the reason why the doctor could diagnosed those other cases! That's great

    • @בתושלישו
      @בתושלישו ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He is brave and Jesus loves you!!!

    • @kellydalstok8900
      @kellydalstok8900 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@בתושלישוhow do you know what someone who supposedly lived 2,000 years ago thought or felt. You shouldn’t believe the stories anonymous men from a different country who spoke a different language wrote. If you had a clue about the origins of your religion you wouldn’t take these writings by ignorant people so seriously.

  • @JC-sm4mp
    @JC-sm4mp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +146

    His mom building him up and advocating for his autonomy feels do heart-felt. Telling him he doesn't have to be stuck in a rut, that's a life changing thing from a parent

  • @trh4982
    @trh4982 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    I was born with XXY. A little different from this gentleman. Learning difficulties and anger problems when I was a child. Still have some of those problems at 40 years old.

    • @KindCountsDeb3773
      @KindCountsDeb3773 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I wish you well. Hope you will avail yourself of any help you may feel you want or need. Live your best life !

    • @greencheeksconure
      @greencheeksconure ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Wow you pretty much just described me, I'm going to look into this.

    • @gothicyid
      @gothicyid ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not sure it's related to the extra chromosome. Have you been tested for other things like adhd or dyslexia?

    • @trh4982
      @trh4982 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @gothicyid I am not sure. But that is what my doctor said at the time.

    • @WhoJustReplying
      @WhoJustReplying ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do you just get angry for something you don’t even know why ?

  • @chrisf5462
    @chrisf5462 ปีที่แล้ว +1017

    Being this gutsy and open about your life is incredibly brave. What an extraordinary man. I wish him every success and happiness.

    • @raven4k998
      @raven4k998 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      well now you know that it is possible to be born with three chromosomes so people saying that you cannot have three yes you can and it happens

    • @1Psalmaday
      @1Psalmaday ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@raven4k998It's a genetic abnormality. There's still only 2 genders

    • @stephss
      @stephss ปีที่แล้ว

      Brave for being authentic and just existing? Your bigotry is astounding.

    • @kikib8434
      @kikib8434 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed!

  • @TheWizardGamez
    @TheWizardGamez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    Low testosterone but a killer beard

    • @WaterTimeLapse
      @WaterTimeLapse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      No, normal testosterone due to injections. Therefore normal beard.

    • @premkumargupta5851
      @premkumargupta5851 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WaterTimeLapse how much mg testosterone did you take and what is the interval.

    • @devkinandansuthar
      @devkinandansuthar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yup with injection

    • @7531monkey
      @7531monkey ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@WaterTimeLapsenot all men with normal t can even grow a beard at all, so not normal

    • @__The.World.of.Music__
      @__The.World.of.Music__ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@7531monkeynah men with normal testosterone will grow a beard. If they don't then they have low T

  • @MikhailCazi
    @MikhailCazi ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is why you can't just reduce gender to chromosomes!!!

    • @SomeRandomPiggo
      @SomeRandomPiggo ปีที่แล้ว

      It's an anomaly, and people with Klinefelter syndrome are biologically male

    • @jeanniemaycrawford4466
      @jeanniemaycrawford4466 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I mean, you literally can and he just proved it

    • @trevx3680
      @trevx3680 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      There are four aspects to consider: sex chromosome, sex physiology, personal gender identity, societal gender identity. These are all different but related.
      So you yes absolutely you cannot reduce gender to a chromosome. Nor can you reduce sex to a chromosome. How your sex chromosomes get expressed development can be quite different to what you expect from the chromosomes. Gender identity is a psychological construct that is largely based on your physiology too.
      In essence, sex and gender are extremely complex with many factors affecting who someone is.

  • @Mikeexteriorcleaning
    @Mikeexteriorcleaning 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I was diagnosed with XXY at 34, feeling tired and experiencing symptoms like low testosterone (1.1), gynecomastia, low energy, and reduced sex drive. Androgen therapy has significantly improved my condition. I also have ADHD. I am grateful to have two kids through a sperm donor, and I proudly call them my own.

  • @1mourningdove54
    @1mourningdove54 ปีที่แล้ว +552

    Thank you, Seamus, for telling your story. I am glad that you found answers. I think that many people in the world need to hear stories like this so they can understand that not everyone is exactly the same, but that is OK.

    • @jennyellis2062
      @jennyellis2062 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Good on you for sharing your story about your extra chromosome, I am sure that lots of people will hear you're story and understand more about themselves and get the help they need

  • @dlo6634
    @dlo6634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I have Kline Felters syndrome also, life has been hard too but I manage. Thanks for your storie Seamus.

  • @kevinjenkins6986
    @kevinjenkins6986 ปีที่แล้ว +501

    I can totally relate to this, I have a pituitary tumor that took away all my testosterone. My bloodwork said I was at 23, when the normal range is 300-1200. It is mentally and physically punishing, and more or less ruined my relationship. Glad this guy found relief and peace

    • @Anonymousey44
      @Anonymousey44 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I hope you've found relief and peace too 🙏

    • @KindCountsDeb3773
      @KindCountsDeb3773 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Anonymousey44 I so agree. Kevin, I hope u get solutions to any areas you feel your need/want. You deserve it friend !

    • @mrbaab5932
      @mrbaab5932 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You can get testosterone replaced prescription from your doctor.

    • @amandagardner565
      @amandagardner565 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      g'day Kevin my oldest brother had a pituitary tumor removed when he was 42 (29 years ago), after 10 years the doctors in Melbourne Australia had a party because he was the 1st patient in the southern hemisphere to live 10 years after that surgery, here it is now 29 years later and he's still alive. he's a stubborn bugger lol, never say die.
      i had the opposite problem, i had too much testorsterone and began transition to female in 2003.

    • @Deb_BG
      @Deb_BG ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I hope you have found relief and peace, too. Everyone deserves happiness.

  • @stephss
    @stephss ปีที่แล้ว +5

    There's nothing WRONG with him.... intersex and genetic variances are normal. NORMAL. Stop being weird.

  • @Mizoneko
    @Mizoneko ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This is very brave, I have Swyer's Syndrome, I'm female, but I'm 46 XY, found it out when I was 24, had a surgery to remove the pseudo ovaries and been on hormonal replacement therapy since then, I'm 35 now and it is hell with the high BP, the weight problems, and all that... But here we are!

  • @emmalindsay7275
    @emmalindsay7275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +958

    Great insight; I’m a biology teacher: great to share with my students when looking at chromosomal difference and how it’s ok to be different 💕

    • @bmr4566
      @bmr4566 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      as a biologist why don't you tell the truth...infertility, learning disabilities, genetic defects, and more serious health issues. And why don't you tell them how this comes about...the unnatural selection...are you courageous enough to tell the truth? I doubt it.

    • @danielreiman4446
      @danielreiman4446 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@bmr4566 wait are you saying, I need truth it sets us free from so much 😂 I am being serious im very interested

    • @sundo-pf5zv
      @sundo-pf5zv ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@bmr4566 -- "..learning disabilities, genetic defects, and more serious health issues.."

    • @orenz.272
      @orenz.272 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      ​@@bmr4566 Is having XXY unnatural ? Because nature is the reason people are born with XXY lol

    • @myfavoritesongs12345
      @myfavoritesongs12345 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@orenz.272 The same nature responsible for genetic abnormalities, like being born with a missing/extra limb?

  • @BeeeHonest
    @BeeeHonest ปีที่แล้ว +85

    It takes a lot to admit let alone share his story. You are much braver than I lot of so-called macho men or alpha men out there. Bravo.

    • @nodeofranvier222
      @nodeofranvier222 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Really !! Have s great day ahead n
      !

  • @scotarg1973
    @scotarg1973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Approx 1:600 of males have the xxy or xyy variant. That's a lot of men. Roughly 6,500,000 and at least a couple of million are unaware of it.
    Thanks to people like Seamus, that know there is interventions that help, and are willing to talk about this as if it's just like any other health condition, which should be the case.
    Irrespective of the size of one's testicals, talking about it on youtube takes balls the size of grapefruits.

    • @japanpanda2179
      @japanpanda2179 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      For XYY and XXX, like 95% of them are unaware of it.

    • @wenitraines8384
      @wenitraines8384 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      When I found out (1984) about my XXY, it was 1:1000. No one knew how to treat it. In 2001, I was introduced to AndroGel which made me feel like I went through puberty again. I have used it daily. I’m in my early 80’s.

    • @wenitraines8384
      @wenitraines8384 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      About a decade ago, I was member of three XXY groups online (XXYTalk which later was sold to a group on UK; KS group in California, and a group organized by owners of DELL Corp). No one cared about adults knowing they are XXY. Interest and research was on toddlers and young children, questions like how did they get it and how to treat. Discussion among members reached the point of discussing matters outside KS so I left.

    • @CaptainTae
      @CaptainTae ปีที่แล้ว

      There’s no such thing as male. Please stop normalizing this hate speech.

    • @lshwadchuck5643
      @lshwadchuck5643 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said!

  • @PLuMUK54
    @PLuMUK54 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    One of the things that resonated with me was how you feel after a diagnosis. At 58, I was diagnosed with a condition that I'd always had. I felt empowered, validated, and grateful because I finally had a label that explained why I was different. It was life changing.
    I am glad that people are brave enough to go public like this. When a person is diagnosed with any lifelong condition, it makes it so much easier when you realise that you are not alone.

  • @xxliew
    @xxliew ปีที่แล้ว +25

    meanwhile some geniuses think xy always means man and xx always means woman when human sex is so much more complicated than that. glad to hear more stories from intersex people!

    • @onesyphorus
      @onesyphorus ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah, 1 in 4-6 people are like this, i don't understand some people for saying silly things like that 🤦🏾

    • @neihel
      @neihel 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah this is an anormal condition 😬

    • @zeged
      @zeged 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This is less than 1% chance to have any of those lol.

    • @interlocutorh7781
      @interlocutorh7781 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exceptions do not nullify the general rule

    • @pisderata
      @pisderata 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @zeged 1% diagnosed and shared in records 🤡 literally the guay just said he only knew until 30's imaging how many people never knew or is scared to share it, problaby is closer to 10%

  • @Davett53
    @Davett53 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    In 1965 when I was diagnosed with having Klinefelter syndrome, very little was known about it or was written about it. I began getting testosterone injections, but even then, they were monthly, which later proved to be inadequate. But they worked enough, so that I developed body and facial hair and have a deep manly voice. I didn't really know my learning disabilities were also a by product, until I saw this video. I struggled in school, but since my mother was a educator, she made sure I was tutored. I hated that I went to "school" even during my summer's off from regular school. She recognized my skills and talents in being creative, so she made sure I could take all the art classes available, beyond what we had in our public schools. In high school I was already beginning to exhibit my art, and win awards and recognition. In college I won a 3 year arts scholarship, based on my creative body of work in Print Making and Sculpture. I earned a BFA and later after grad. school a MFA. I knew I could have sex with women, and not worry about getting them pregnant. So I never had to wear (condoms). I did always struggle with depression and anxiety, but until now, didn't realize it was probably because of my low testosterone. While this one thing I learned, is not a healthy choice, however when I discovered alcohol relieved my daily anxiety, I drank small amounts of it daily. I was never drunk,...just a tiny bit more relaxed, and it served me well. I never crashed my car, or passed out, or lost a day of work. I had learned people referred to it as "liquid courage". And I saw it as such, and utilized that way. It allowed me to buy and drive my motorcycle. It helped me lecture before a classroom of strangers. It may have been more of a "placebo", effect, since I never allowed myself to become drunk. Later in my 60s I was offered psychiatric medications, to replace the booze. They didn't work and I hated them. I'm presently sober, and off alcohol and all psych. meds. too.

    • @MraDigims100
      @MraDigims100 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Condoms aren't just for preventing pregnancy

    • @flewawayandaway4763
      @flewawayandaway4763 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Were you not worried about having a child then?

    • @Davett53
      @Davett53 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@flewawayandaway4763 I was sterile, even though I had some small amount of testosterone being produced. Even before I was receiving testosterone injections, I went through puberty. I was able to grow some facial hair, though it was wispy. My voice lowered in tone. My doctors made it clear I would never be able to father a child. At the time, I wasn't able process it. My one doctor spelled it out,....saying: "Go out and have all the sex you want", because your sperm will not be able to produce a baby". I could always adopt a child, if I wanted to start a family. I was older when I began having sex, and it was kinda cool, that I never needed to wear a condom. The time period was during the height of the HIV/AIDS scare. I was having strictly heterosexual sex with women, but the fear was at the time, was,.....having sex with multiple partners, & without using a condom, could put you in contact with a woman who (was carrying the Aids Virus) unbeknownst to herself. So I did wear one a few times,....if I thought the woman was kinda of sketchy. I met women through a dating service,....but not everyone was completely honest.

    • @UseYourManners123
      @UseYourManners123 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Success!! 🎉 thank you!😊

    • @Davett53
      @Davett53 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@UseYourManners123 Well, yes if you keep plugging away. Being sterile isn't so bad. One can always adopt a child if that is your goal. Low testosterone doesn't help with depression, and maybe if I was younger, I'd re-examine the patch or salves. Maybe they have improved testosterone supplements, I think I read there is a product, a slow release (pellet) that can be surgically implanted under the skin of one's arm. I could have gotten into body building, to improve my muscle mass. It wasn't that important. I was a male, there was no denying that. Growing a great beard or mustache, wasn't important. I had decent head hair, I grew mine long. Even at age 70, I still have most of it.

  • @theophrastus3.056
    @theophrastus3.056 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    He’s a brave man to come forward like this! A true picture of courage.

    • @jonathanwetherell3609
      @jonathanwetherell3609 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Why? He has just got a medical condition.

    • @theophrastus3.056
      @theophrastus3.056 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@jonathanwetherell3609 Uh… did you hear what it did to him? I can count on one finger guys I’ve heard discuss something as intimate as that. He did it to help others who might have this extremely rare condition and not know it.

    • @AbBc-w4q
      @AbBc-w4q ปีที่แล้ว +3

      only women are brave, dont you know?

    • @vervideosgiros1156
      @vervideosgiros1156 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​​@@theophrastus3.056By listening to his accent, you can't tell he isn't american (it seems he's from UK), so probably he wasn't mocked because he has this condition. Just because in american society people are mocked because of their condition, it doesn't mean that it's the same thing elsewhere!

    • @theophrastus3.056
      @theophrastus3.056 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@vervideosgiros1156 I made no reference to his accent, which seems irrelevant to his story.

  • @mauricioacorreia
    @mauricioacorreia ปีที่แล้ว +280

    My oldest brother had klinenfelter syndrome. I just learned that after he was dead (some 30 years ago). I wish I knew that before. His life could’ve been easier.
    Congratulations for helping others with your story.

  • @gkarak1996
    @gkarak1996 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Maybe we should learn more about intersex people.

  • @donivanpotter2762
    @donivanpotter2762 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I know it's his not an issue of being Transgender but my doctors have said I'm pretty much non existent in my genitals. And I am transgender. I wish people would be understanding of gender dysphoria as they seem to be able to empathize with him but damn someone suffering from gender dysphoria by calling them groomers and other nasty filth. I didn't choose to be born like this no more than he chose to be born the way he was. In calling me crazy doesn't change how I was born it just means you are ignorant in how many ways a person can be born.

  • @eunicecracknell841
    @eunicecracknell841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    Thanks Seamus, I'm glad you went searching and had your problem diagnosed and treated. It's good for us to be educated about lesser know chromosome abnormalities. I think a lot of people think 'Down's Syndrome' along with chromosomal problems.

    • @LivingwithXXY
      @LivingwithXXY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yes! XXY is actually the most common chromosome condition in men, but since we are hiding in plain sight it is never diagnosed. 75% of men will die never knowing.

    • @rz5b1qszkdf44
      @rz5b1qszkdf44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LivingwithXXY I dont get it how one doesn't know... I've thought every man has tiny testicles, therefore you should know when you have KS... or am I wrong? Please help!

    • @richardprice5978
      @richardprice5978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LivingwithXXY is it more common in Jewish or uk 🇬🇧 populations? or background and or DNA does make a difference? and can the mothers wome and or changes in chemistry change sex and DNA midway through pregnancy? 🤰 aka what is the risk factors in getting XXY? or XYY? or having XX but born with male sex parts?

    • @richardprice5978
      @richardprice5978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      when he said sensitively what did he mean? as trans male's to females mention ( im sis-gender, not that it matters ) there nipples being more ect. and i think 🤔 them saying there balls less-sensitive after HRT/bumping up oestrogen

    • @TagSpamCop
      @TagSpamCop ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rz5b1qszkdf44 What, you think men go around examining each other's testicles to know what's typical and what's not? WTH?

  • @poja82
    @poja82 ปีที่แล้ว +546

    The bravery of this man is so admirable.

    • @chuckiejoseph4979
      @chuckiejoseph4979 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      courage is the appropriate term.

  • @halewich
    @halewich ปีที่แล้ว +324

    What a brave man Seamus is. Not only is he working hard to live his best life but he is sharing his story in order to help others. Good for you, Seamus. Keep on moving forward brother.

  • @vahvahdisco
    @vahvahdisco ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I’m XXY - I was diagnosed with Klinefelter’s Syndrome at the age of 10 in 1979, when it was also found that I had an undescended right testicle. The docs tried to bring this down when I was 14 but were unsuccessful and in 1992, I had it removed with a prosthetic one put in it’s place, my left testicle was pinned in an area where it wouldn’t go cancerous, as it was still producing a little testosterone despite being chick-pea sized, and another prosthetic was put in to even me up.
    I was told that having an undescended testicle is common and it usually gets sorted out as a baby. Klinefelter’s used to be quite rare, but obviously with the internet and medical advancement, that has changed - still 1 in 550 is quite rare (it used to be 1 in 5000, last time I was told years ago) but to have Klinefelter’s AND an undescended testicle is rarer still !
    I’d confided in a friend at school about my op at 14 and they told everyone, after which I was known as Benny One Ball, Benny being a nickname, and this caused me untold misery. Of course they weren’t to know that I’d end up with THREE ! LOL, so I suppose the joke’s on them now !
    I’ve been on testosterone replacement since May 1992; in this time I’ve had fortnightly injections, daily patches, 6 monthly implants and am currently on 3 monthly injections.
    I had behavioural issues as a child from 7 to 17 and prior to seeing a psychologist at aged 8, I couldn’t tie my own shoe laces.
    I was diagnosed with Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder in 1998, and am also Gender Dysphoric, but despite feeling like a woman trapped in a man’s body, I decided not to pursue gender reassignment because I’m 6ft 5ins, with size 14 extra wide feet (US 15) and also on crutches, so getting men’s clothing and footwear is difficult enough - can’t imagine how I’d go on trying to get into women’s !
    I have a lot of illnesses and am registered disabled.
    I also came out as gay when I was 16, I’m currently single but have FWB’s.
    I’ve been told that although I will develop Osteoporosis, I will stave it off until I’m into my 60’s due to starting on testosterone replacement when I did. That’s something that will go nicely with my Osteoarthritis and Fibromyalgia amongst other problems ! Just something else to add to my list and no doubt more meds !
    I have a good outlook on life now, after failing at suicide, and almost dying when I was 42 from two massive Pulmonary Embolisms in each of my lungs in 2012. I don’t worry about bills if I’ve not got enough money to pay them - I just pay them in instalments instead.
    I’m kind and helpful, having done voluntary work for various charities over the years since the age of 16 with only a 5 year hiatus between 2012 & 2017 - I’ve even done voluntary work when I worked full time too !
    I’ve been used as a ‘teaching patient’ in the past, for nurses and doctors who want to learn more about Klinefelter’s Syndrome - at the time I felt ‘special’ but also a bit of a freak !
    I’m quite happy to talk about my XXY and how it has affected my life and continues to do so, so if anyone wants to reach out to me, be my guest.

    • @angelawossname
      @angelawossname 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      My dil is intersex and trans, intersex people are way, way more likely to be trans. It is also common for intersex people to be very tall because of low hormones during puberty. My dil is 6 foot 3 inches, not quite as tall, but please don't let your height hold you back! Because of her condition she has always had androgynous features, no facial hair and a more feminine body shape, so she just looks like a very tall woman and most people have no idea.

    • @Joelswinger34
      @Joelswinger34 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow, you have really been through it! Good for you for keeping on.

    • @elsynjogu7578
      @elsynjogu7578 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you are good... you went through that.. sorry!

    • @chigozieagala9628
      @chigozieagala9628 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sharing your story 🎉

  • @jarcha4200
    @jarcha4200 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    My neighbor struggled getting a diagnosis of Klinefelter Syndrome back in 1988. I am so glad your mother was so supportive.

  • @eumenius
    @eumenius ปีที่แล้ว +994

    Seamus is a great guy, doing everything to stay great in a complicated situation. Always a pleasure to see strong people not yielding to the disease.

    • @erictheviking
      @erictheviking ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Nothing to be aseamus about

    • @markjwu
      @markjwu ปีที่แล้ว +18

      What do you mean by "not yielding" to the disease, I was diagnosed when I was 20, I am 53 now.

    • @burlhorse61
      @burlhorse61 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      sounds more a genetic disorder-first time hearing of it

    • @elainebyrne1039
      @elainebyrne1039 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      It's not a 'disease' its a genetic condition; I have Tuberous Sclerosis 1 which means I have a gene deletion in my DNA which means I don't suppress tumours. This genetic condition is associated with various, separate tumour diseases. I have tumours in my brain, eyes, heart, lungs, liver, kidneys and uterus. I have also had 3 diagnoses of an associated, ultra rare cancer (less than 1 per million) in my kidneys, bone in one finger and uterus.
      There are many 'invisible' genetic conditions that people have that are not apparent to the onlooker and which cause daily struggles for the subjects.
      I regard myself as lucky that I have been able to work full time, have a family, study Computer Programming to Bachelor level and continue to be reasonably able to enjoy life at 70 years old.

    • @MamiT-1
      @MamiT-1 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Not a disease at all hun. 👌🏽

  • @OliverDixon-kb4si
    @OliverDixon-kb4si ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Very brave man to do this interview. Proud of you mate! You’re bringing a lot of awareness of this condition. Helped a lot of people. Thank you

  • @mustanggox
    @mustanggox ปีที่แล้ว +58

    He's quite brave to talk about this openly and publicly. Representation for people with uncommon conditions like this is important!

  • @ifrooscouldfly
    @ifrooscouldfly 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    So sad for the folks in America, that will can't access to reproductive health care. Imagine having a problem from birth but you have no rights to help you with the symptoms because of the religious of some people....

    • @mgallus
      @mgallus 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You do realize that making rules based on incredibly rare situations isn't a great way to make a stable system right? It's also very very obvious why people don't even want to take a step down certain path due to humans tendency in fulfilling the "slippery slope fallacy" (not really a fallacy since it happens all the time).
      But hey let not let history play any sort of role in determining wise decisions.

    • @emargaux
      @emargaux 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@mgallusAh yes apparently giving these 'rare' people the rights they deserve suddenly means there will be impending doom.
      Quit it. Giving the minority something good isn't going to affect you than you think it does.

    • @mgallus
      @mgallus 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @emargaux the other comment was ment for another post... oops...
      Anyway they are human so they do have rights we just don't cater to them. They have to figure out how to live and fit into the bigger picture but still we don't make rules based on exceptions.

    • @Lilithotw
      @Lilithotw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      in other countries the same applies? Its almost never routine to check someone's chromosomes unless the doctor suspects you being at risk of genetical diseases which poor reproductive health isnt inheritably an indicator of

  • @AM-ux3yx
    @AM-ux3yx ปีที่แล้ว +193

    Low testosterone is no joke. I'm 31 when I was diagnosed with low testosterone due to a side effect of anti anxiety meds ( only after 2 months!). I went from fit, active, high on life, to chronically fatigued and depressed, a lot of symptoms the Seamus mentioned. If you're male and you're ticking the boxes, get a blood test, low T can be caused by multiple factors and it's hell! No way to live your life.

    • @maxmushroom111
      @maxmushroom111 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I truly feel your pain. I'm 28 and I'm impotent and it is truly a life not worth living for. but always hormone therapy. my condition is a pituitary tumor.

    • @devinpeirce7152
      @devinpeirce7152 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes I feel so fatigued all the time

    • @lilacpower2693
      @lilacpower2693 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @maxmushroom111
      You have a reason to live dear. Everyone suffering this disorder does too. Push through this. You'll be glad you did.
      Jeremiah 29:11
      For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

    • @arhoosier1058
      @arhoosier1058 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      anti anxiety meds and SSRI’s have been proven to mess with the body like that. low testosterone is dangerous in general as it’s the hormone that helps keep everything in function, so yeah i would recommend anyone who feels fatigued or low immune system to check with their doctor and is also a serious problem of XXY.

    • @MrBrock314
      @MrBrock314 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not to nitpick but does 2 months even count as chronically fatigued and depressed? It seems kind of short even though I'm sure it feels terrible. :)

  • @rubberdc
    @rubberdc ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I have XXY and I didnt find out until i was in my early 50s, so pretty late. When I did find out i felt like a freak, but i had always felt freakish and not normal , not like other men . I suffered terribly from humiliating lack of confidence with other men .I had an operation to remove both testicles as I was ( in my mind) protecting myself from cancer . I had implants but because my sack was tight , they could only replace with same size balls . BAH !

    • @FoodNerds
      @FoodNerds ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You’re not a freak. No one is perfect.

  • @shoptastik2250
    @shoptastik2250 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    This made me cry because I never heard anyone talk about this and I'm pretty sure I know someone who has this. I'm going to have a chat. Thank you so much! Eyes opened is an understatement.

  • @elainebyrne1039
    @elainebyrne1039 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have Tuberous Sclerosis 1 which means I have a gene deletion in my DNA which means I don't suppress tumours. This genetic condition is associated with various, separate tumour diseases. I have tumours in my brain, eyes, heart, lungs, liver, kidneys and uterus. I have also had 3 diagnoses of an associated, ultra rare cancer (less than 1 per million) in my kidneys, bone in one finger and uterus.
    There are many 'invisible' genetic conditions that people have that are not apparent to the onlooker and which cause daily struggles for the subjects.
    I regard myself as lucky that I have been able to work full time, have a family, study Computer Programming to Bachelor level and continue to be reasonably able to enjoy life at 70 years old.

  • @paulastafford1642
    @paulastafford1642 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    You've just saved many men from feeling depressed and confused about a subject they wondered about. Thank you for your bravery.

  • @sundo-pf5zv
    @sundo-pf5zv ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Awesome story, your mom is from a medical background. That really helps! My dad was too, and he found my situation right when it caused issues (non-descending testes when I was 8.5), and he sent me to a university hospital for 7 days for observation and testing, back then in the 1960s

    • @Lauren-vd4qe
      @Lauren-vd4qe ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I had a horse with that condition; he looked physically like a gelding, but he completely acted like a stallion; i couldnt put him in with any other horses, he would fiest them, and i had to ride him with whip and spurs, he was so fiesty, u couldnt control him, he wouldnt obey without them. ive had several horses, never rode the other ones with whip n spurs, ever, this one, u had to.

    • @pegs1659
      @pegs1659 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Could he have an operation that would help him or horse testosterone?

    • @uroy8665
      @uroy8665 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Lauren-vd4qe did u do chromosome test for horse?

    • @Lauren-vd4qe
      @Lauren-vd4qe ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@uroy8665 no teenager can afford a chromosome test for a horse.

    • @mycelia_ow
      @mycelia_ow 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@pegs1659 He seems fine, as for his fertility that's just out of the cards until we can edit DNA and use stem cells.

  • @merrywhiterose
    @merrywhiterose ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have XXX in 1% of my cells. You wouldn't think it would affect me much, but it does. I've had 2 miscarriages, & a Trisomy 13 baby boy that died at 12 days old. I was lucky enough to have 2 children with above average intelligence. I also have a very rare liver disease called PSC, along with other diseases. I don't socialize appropriately, so I have very limited friends. I didn't know I had XXX until I was in my 20's, when I had the Trisomy 13 baby.

  • @endo9902
    @endo9902 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    half of American will have a brain melt because they would think you are a ghost.

  • @inekeverkooijen7262
    @inekeverkooijen7262 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My son also has an extra chromosome xxy,but he has a child..it is not impossible to become a father.....good luck to all of you.

  • @993turbo786
    @993turbo786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I have Klinefelter syndrome.
    I am married and have been trying for years to have kids. It’s been really hard. I have no facial hair and I’m 39 years old. It’s a struggle but I gotta live thru this. Great story.
    Is there anything I can do to help grow facial hair. Thanks in advance.

    • @hectorsilva401
      @hectorsilva401 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shave your face. Even If you don't have hair.

    • @slippinjimmy4690
      @slippinjimmy4690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@hectorsilva401 that's definitely not true

    • @slippinjimmy4690
      @slippinjimmy4690 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rub minoxidil on your face. Guys grow beards with that

    • @StoreHouseFarmsInTheOzarks
      @StoreHouseFarmsInTheOzarks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Testosterone cypionate injections, unfortunately if you’re KS unless mosaic you can’t have biological kids. And Testosterone, which is protocol for KS; Also causes infertility.

    • @ImtiazAsim
      @ImtiazAsim ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can use Minoxidil to grow facial hair. You can take advice from a Dermatologist regarding this.

  • @KindCountsDeb3773
    @KindCountsDeb3773 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I'm so very pleased you found out about yourself and found a solution. What a gift. And you are helping others who may need to learn as well. So good of you to be brave and find a solution and then go out and help others. Be well and the best to you and yours !

  • @dianewien683
    @dianewien683 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Seamus, not only are you brave but you are an angel. To speak honestly about your journey opens the door for others to learn about Klinefelter Syndrome and how they can be helped. So many people do not know about Klinefelter Syndrome , Turner Syndrome, Jacob's Syndrome or Triple XXX. Thank you!

  • @cosmoplakat9549
    @cosmoplakat9549 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    What a great guy for letting others know about this condition and how it can be treated. It seems like it must be pretty rare and not easily diagnosed. I'm glad he's feeling so much better. Kudos to his parents as well for being there and supporting him.

    • @cadelinha
      @cadelinha ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Being born intersex its not that rare. Many people are intersex like him. The "i" letter from LGBTQIA. Many female models are intersex with XY cromossomes, and basket ball and voley ball players as well.

    • @WDBsirLocksight
      @WDBsirLocksight 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      it's easily diagnosed if you understand the process time consuming maybe too but process/diagnosis sometimes not accessible cuz genetic testing is expensive and not available in all regions as well as contributions from diagnostic error part of inter-rater reliability essentially doctor error.

  • @arkadibeast5477
    @arkadibeast5477 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm the opposite- I have just one X chromosome (Turner's syndrome!). Lots of similarities- I'm also very short due to missing some growth factors I was meant to get from my missing chromosome. So interesting hear his story... not an easy diagnosis, either way

  • @lisaarata174
    @lisaarata174 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    What a blow, to learn who you thought you were is gone, and who you are is something you don't know about. You're giving a gift to people.

  • @garthjack523
    @garthjack523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Respect to you Seamus! Thanks for sharing brother.

  • @SJmystic
    @SJmystic ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Much gratitude, Seamus, for sharing your story. Thank you, ABC, for coving this important topic.
    May we all feel acceptance for the ways we are different from one another, and understand that such diversity gives us a more vibrant world and variety to expand our own learning and experiences.
    May this information get to anyone it is pertinent to, and may it help all of us feel compassion for those with differences who need acceptance because of the differences.

  • @gautamarora9573
    @gautamarora9573 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I believe you are more of a man than 90% of weak men in today's world plus you have good enough physique looking at the general population...

  • @levisvarela3735
    @levisvarela3735 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    maybe in english speaking countries there is some difficulties getting diagnose, but in the rest of the planet, you can tell by puberty or earlier, i met a few klineferters, one quite recently and yes he didnt know, he thought it was a hormonal issue, i didnt tell him but yup, he fit the bill, it look like it was treated with human grown hormone for some bizarre reason ( my guess is the doc was a raging homophobe), instead of testosterone which would help since they dont produce near enough of it, if they get diagnose later in life they pretty much screw, which i see it in north america as there is this taboo around sex.

  • @rmartin2819
    @rmartin2819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️. Glad to see more XXY guys sharing their story. 😎👍🏾

  • @ratherbedead25
    @ratherbedead25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Love your work, Seamus! So proud of you!!

  • @matthias8122
    @matthias8122 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good to see examples of intersex people when politicians are trying extra hard to police bodies and gender these days.

    • @monicadaniels784
      @monicadaniels784 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm really happy to see 100% positive comments here. I guess the haters can't find any way to blame intersex people for being a bit different. If this was a video about a trans person, we would see about 40-60% of comments blaming and shaming. I have known two intersex people. One they did surgery on as a baby and chose the wrong gender expression. Massive distress was caused by this. The other person had a mosaic of different chromosomes throughout their body. They ended up transitioning too. Whatever one's situation, a bit of kindness means so much for someone's mental health.

  • @roguephilosopher2465
    @roguephilosopher2465 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I was diagnosed XXY before I was born and I am now 20 and was diagnosed with osteoporosis as well. I was offered the option of getting testosterone injections but I have declined since I’m in college and will soon run out of health insurance at the age of 21. Because of this, I’ve started my journey working out and in the past I have done sports so I know it is possible for me to build muscle. I know I have to work 10x as hard and I have finally found the right diet as I’ve been told by my doctor and endocrinologist that there are no current dietary plans that have successfully worked for those with XXY who are as skinny as I. I hope I can share my journey with everyone one day to hopefully convince others that is possible to get ripped with XXY. Until then, let’s see.

    • @katar9090
      @katar9090 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I take testosterone and the difference of having low testosterone and normal levels testosterone in your system is huge! I would still try to get access to testosterone if you can, osteoporosis is no joke and injections may be cheaper then pills or other methods

    • @dbandy18
      @dbandy18 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Doctor here. Please take testosterone.

    • @bjwilliams
      @bjwilliams ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@katar9090as a female who discovered I have osteoporosis after menapause ( lost of estrogen), I take one pill a week , do leg weight exercises. I felt a difference in 2 weeks. I will take this for 5 years. Use modern medicine, research has been done for decades to help you. Peace\ NorCal 🌴😎

    • @roguephilosopher2465
      @roguephilosopher2465 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@dbandy18 coming down to without insurance and having to do it everyday is one thing, but the fact I wasn't able to do tests for other diseases because of my lack of insurance also affects my decision. The type of career I want to take also would view me as a liability if I had to take testosterone because I would have to have access to that provider.- asthma is also an issue with it

    • @UseYourManners123
      @UseYourManners123 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just subscribed to you so whenever you decide to help others with what worked for you I’m here to take notes! 📝 Thank you! Oh and was there nothing to prevent osteoporosis for you? I did not know it was a symptom.

  • @Gizathecat2
    @Gizathecat2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My brother-in-law was born with XXY. Don didn’t find out until he and his wife tried to have kids. (He was born in 1952) He had pretty serious cognitive problems and a very passive personality and was easily taken advantage of. He never had testosterone supplements nor received any counseling. Sadly he passed away from bladder cancer in 2015.

  • @everysport7691
    @everysport7691 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I have 47xxy and neurofibromatosis type 1 but it doesn't hold me down
    I also think be proud of who you are
    No matter what you have

    • @lelouchdibritannia4508
      @lelouchdibritannia4508 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did you get diagnosed?

    • @everysport7691
      @everysport7691 ปีที่แล้ว

      @lelouchdibritannia4508 mum had nf, and my mum had my above 30 she had the test for Downs syndrome
      I my mum and dad know before I was born

  • @Kidfromthemidwest
    @Kidfromthemidwest ปีที่แล้ว +330

    My sister was born with a extra chromosome and she’s completely fine. It’s a miracle really.

    • @codename495
      @codename495 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      We don’t actually know how many people with zero issues have additional or fewer chromosomes. We don’t really check unless there are symptoms or outward signs.

    • @cupidok2768
      @cupidok2768 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Is this intersex

    • @Feed_the_Kitty_a_Hotdog
      @Feed_the_Kitty_a_Hotdog ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@cupidok2768intersex is different

    • @mujkocka
      @mujkocka ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Is she extra tall?

    • @Kidfromthemidwest
      @Kidfromthemidwest ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mujkocka she like 5’10

  • @monicawallace-jn8tl
    @monicawallace-jn8tl ปีที่แล้ว +91

    You are perfectly, yet uniquely made! Thank you for sharing your story, so that others might learn about this condition. Glad you found the right people to help you, and that you found your way through this. Your Mom is wonderful!

    • @prototropo
      @prototropo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That was eloquently expressed, Monica. Thank you.

  • @tirramasu7948
    @tirramasu7948 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Now this means sex is a spectrum.
    And that gender is not real
    And

    • @SomeRandomPiggo
      @SomeRandomPiggo ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a 1 in 500-1000 males occurrence, not really

    • @jeanniemaycrawford4466
      @jeanniemaycrawford4466 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He's literally a male, he even says so in the first minute

    • @trevx3680
      @trevx3680 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The issue is that sex can mean chromosomes or the physiology of the person. There are only two sex chromosomes with a limited set of variations. However, there are many ways those chromosome can be expressed, leading to a huge spectrum of sex-based variations. Intersex is an obvious one. An interesting condition is Persistent Müllerian duct syndrome. Just because each one is uncommon or rare does not mean that they can be dismissed. There are so many variations that there is indeed a spectrum of sex-based physiologies. And this is not even looking at gender!

    • @clobre_
      @clobre_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​​@@SomeRandomPiggoat least 1 in 2000. which means it's 0.5% of people, and larger than the entire population of Canada.
      edit: 0.5%

    • @SomeRandomPiggo
      @SomeRandomPiggo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@clobre_ 0.5% would be 1 in 200, do you mean 0.05%?

  • @AgapeLuv4Life
    @AgapeLuv4Life 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    For someone with low testosterone, you would never know. He looks like a very handsome manly man.

  • @peterrodby2786
    @peterrodby2786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I found out I had Klinefelters when I was 30 years old. After years of gels, patches and shots yielded little satisfaction I opted for the Testopel insertion procedure and I feel WONDERFUL! I feel vitality, alertness and a general feeling of gratitude for having made it this far. If I could just rid myself of this awful sense of anxiety (I've had it all my life) my world would positively change.

    • @danielreiman4446
      @danielreiman4446 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What is that. I couldn't get testosterone so I bought it on streets and got another doctor to order tests so I could do it under the very best information on dosing and levels. Because of that I get denied everytime I try to get some. It is insane but they say due to me being in recovery I should just go without it . They don't understand I self medicated for years and I've been clean for so long but test made me more than just happy it made me feel the best I ever felt and it felt natural like I was 18 again

    • @danielreiman4446
      @danielreiman4446 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Post opiates I couldn't get any satisfaction from anything ever. And I waited a full year to try test and when I did 4 weeks later I was amazing

    • @henners9747
      @henners9747 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What side effects have you experienced with Testopel? I'm on Tostran 2% gel and am looking for an alternative

    • @AndySaenz
      @AndySaenz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Were you able to have your own children?

    • @zzzcocopepe
      @zzzcocopepe ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When you take a deep breath, you get rid of anxiety on the exhale part.

  • @peterphil9686
    @peterphil9686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Very articulate. Very accurate. Very brave.

  • @DD-ze7qm
    @DD-ze7qm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    It’s remarkable how different all people are. It makes doing the right thing for each other very hard to do and it is really wonderful see someone find out what is right for them.

    • @LivingwithXXY
      @LivingwithXXY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's a wonderful video because most of the information on XXY is outdated.

  • @Qu_2_wil_lmjk
    @Qu_2_wil_lmjk ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Seamus, I'm so happy that you're now feeling stronger and fitter, physically and mentally. You're a real star in speaking out to help others. Congrats!!

  • @XYZ-sq7ki
    @XYZ-sq7ki 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wonder if there are any XXY with gender dysphoria. If you do are XXY w/ gender dysphoria, comment below! 0:51

  • @DESIGN.TREND.AND.CONNECTION
    @DESIGN.TREND.AND.CONNECTION 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I´ve just had my 4 years son diagnosed... It´s som important to fins videos like this! Thanks Seamus for sharing you experience!

    • @bigmike4419
      @bigmike4419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I was diagnosed befor I was born now I’m 19. It is hard accepting it and living with it but it’s not like a death sentence. The way I see it is we are normal but just with an extra x. I sometimes forget I have it.
      What to expect. Men are usually taller and have a more feminine shape and thare are 2 versions mosaic and non mosaic one means you can’t have kids and the other means u can. Men with this have higher levels of estrogen and low levels of testosterone. And need to get testosterone in a pill, shot, cream, or patch. I’m here is you have any questions.

    • @judithpedreira6609
      @judithpedreira6609 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bigmike4419 hello, I'm searching info, don't know where to find it , besides internet

    • @joaquim_17
      @joaquim_17 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@bigmike4419 what symptoms did you have bro? Are your testicles smaller than average? I'm 19 too

    • @_Julia.K_
      @_Julia.K_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why was he tested for XXY at 4 years old? It is too early for symptoms to show up...

    • @SIC647
      @SIC647 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@_JulK_ Synptom definitely also shows as a kid: It can affect general growth, and often causes learning disabilities, speech impediments and motor issues.
      Which tend to be the reason why they get assessed and then diagnosed as children.

  • @louise9973
    @louise9973 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Don't ever let anyone put you down for what you can't control, what you can control is what comes out of your mouth. Good on him. I find honesty attractive.

  • @bigmike4419
    @bigmike4419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I was diagnosed befor I was born. Thanks for bringing this into the spotlight.

  • @L1quidbrick
    @L1quidbrick 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Homie with the extra chromie

  • @Andrew_Warden
    @Andrew_Warden ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Hey Seamus, just know you are helping so many men in your position with your honesty and bravery to be so candid.

  • @gayeblinman5055
    @gayeblinman5055 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This Is A Great Man ~ Brave, Honest , Open , Strong & Grounded
    His desire to inform and educate is generous beyond measure 🕊️

  • @bevwest7428
    @bevwest7428 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you telling us your story, Seamus!

  • @NicholasMcClintock1
    @NicholasMcClintock1 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He said he has small testicles, if you ask me he has more balls than most to talk about it in a public forum.

  • @KhaoticDeterminism
    @KhaoticDeterminism 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    as a #2Spirit person…
    we (2 souls 1 body) can affirm too that gender is distinct from sex
    it’s not arbitrary either
    cheers

  • @benjaminstewart4332
    @benjaminstewart4332 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you I was just diagnosed with Klinefelters syndrome today and felt very alone, my biggest excitement I’ve looked forward to is being a father but now it feels crushed

    • @silentnight3970
      @silentnight3970 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      There are options, this is 2023. Check it out like he did and don't give up.

    • @orvos1459
      @orvos1459 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m sorry to hear about that. I hope things go well.

    • @orvos1459
      @orvos1459 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How much did the test cost? I’m thinking of having it done.

  • @Ottawajames
    @Ottawajames ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm sorry but when he described his issues with erectile dysfunction as "up and down" I had to laugh.

    • @pegs1659
      @pegs1659 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too 😂

  • @darlenesawyer6739
    @darlenesawyer6739 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My great son may have this. My daughter is 19 weeks pregnant and i was were worried and concerned but know you have given me comfort. Thank you. God bless you.

    • @LivingwithXXY
      @LivingwithXXY ปีที่แล้ว

      Reach out to our nonprofit if you have not done so yet.

  • @clairefuzipeg1983
    @clairefuzipeg1983 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    So brave to open up about this. I wish more people would, as there is such a stigma surrounding genetic disorders such as this and it should be more accepted and known about as so many people are affected.

  • @Janita5770
    @Janita5770 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m asexual, I don’t know why this happened, I have no desires to be close with someone intimately. I don’t care about it anymore. I’ve just accepted being alone because it’s not fair to be in a relationship with someone’s when I can’t bare to get horizontal. So I’m different too

  • @mullethater4223
    @mullethater4223 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My bio teacher was talking about 47 XXY in class today and this video popped up on my timeline.
    Really interesting.
    Thanks for sharing your story !

  • @CashLundBeats
    @CashLundBeats ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I dont fully agree on the it doesn't make one feminine. I was fighting with my identity since I was a little kid, my mom told me you've got 47 xxy at age 13 but I didn't fully understand it but it did kinda make sense why I felt more feminine and more related towards women. So I transitioned at age 18, now 30 and happy with myself. 🎉

    • @theundone777
      @theundone777 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's possible that it's the XXY, but it's also possible that you're just a person that is more feminine. I think you're awesome either way :-)

    • @brendalg4
      @brendalg4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Too bad you couldn't just accept yourself as you were. I am female. I more relate to men. I think this is where a lot of transgenderism comes from. If you're male and you like feminine things... You have to transition. Vs just being a male who likes feminine things

    • @CashLundBeats
      @CashLundBeats ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@brendalg4 That's cool and all that you aren't educated enough to know what it's all about. But that's fine, Donald Trump said he loves the uneducated 😆😆😆👋

    • @CashLundBeats
      @CashLundBeats ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@theundone777 I believe that a lot of trans people are xxy but aren't aware of it 😅

    • @brendalg4
      @brendalg4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@CashLundBeats I don't know why you are making fun of my education or bringing up Donald Trump. I feel some people have medical conditions that make them want to transition... I feel the majority of people that are saying they are trans now are not. Not saying you aren't. They are depressed and see people doing it all over the media. They think if I do that I will feel better too. There are studies saying that 85% of children outgrow it. (Not saying you will)

  • @ANONIE47
    @ANONIE47 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Good on ya for speaking up about this 😊 . Body issues need to be taught in schools.

  • @RealVedicAstrology
    @RealVedicAstrology ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He’s very brave for coming forward about that.

  • @sterzkamy
    @sterzkamy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Low testosterone? Still more gorgeous beard than mine

    • @maxsiqueira666
      @maxsiqueira666 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      he is probably undergoing treatment taking testosterone

  • @kristineanderson4983
    @kristineanderson4983 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I just happened upon this video and clicked. What a wonderful man you are to present your situation to the rest of us who need education on this subject!. Your way of explaining is profound and essential! Without widespread information, there will only continue to be ignorance, which breeds negativity. Bravo, young man!

  • @sassyfrass7029
    @sassyfrass7029 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My sister was born missing a chromosome and has many, many issues because of it.

  • @wilstitch
    @wilstitch 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    bro is more man then i am

  • @adrianghandtchi1562
    @adrianghandtchi1562 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I’m glad more people are talking about it, because that is the syndrome that I have, I’ve been diagnosed with that since I was 14 and trying to maintain testosterone treatments has been tricky over the years.

  • @Aderin.
    @Aderin. ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bully: loser
    This guy: well how many chromosomes do you have 😏

  • @OngoGablogian185
    @OngoGablogian185 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Who the hell wants kids? You'd have to be mad to bring kids into the world these days. Just adopt if you're absolutely committed to being a father. Your sperm really isn't so magical that the world needs your offspring.

  • @montypython1042
    @montypython1042 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    watching this really helps me be at ease as someone who also got diagnosed with klinefelters at 16 its nice to know someone talking about it

    • @MaxOakland
      @MaxOakland ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm glad it helped. There's nothing wrong with having Klinefelter's or any other medical issue

  • @TaliabobMair
    @TaliabobMair ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yoo I'm Klinefelters too, except I'm a lady so it all worked out. 🏳‍⚧

    • @Reiyyn
      @Reiyyn ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😮🫣🐄🔨🎉😭

    • @silverofthesunbears
      @silverofthesunbears ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️