AS YOU BECOME STRONGER THEY BECOME WEAKER
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ต.ค. 2024
- As you become stronger, they become weaker. The narcissist always wanted you to believe that they were stronger person that they knew more than you.. that they were more intelligent.. that they had more information they were more handsome or pretty etc. The narcissist is a coward and a bully they are shallow. There is no substance to these people. The narcissist is weak they are riddled with anxiety. They are looking over their shoulder, always. The narcissist knows that they are on the run, not only from people in the past, but from themselves, the thing is the narcissist can’t escape all the damage they inflicted upon so many people on the planet. The narcissist is a weak individual. They understand that their time is ticking and that it’s only a matter of time before people figure out who they are. You have been through the narcissistic abusive cycle you have healed or you are healing. You are stronger than you ever thought possible. This is what separates you from the toxic narcissist. You are the strong one..that they tried to extinguish.. you are a beautiful bright shining light. They tried but they could not succeed. The narcissist is weak and they know it. Sending abundance and strength.
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The more you rise, the more their grip slips. They feast on your weakness, but every step toward strength is poison to their manipulation. The weaker they become, the more their facade crumbles. What they once held over you now turns to dust as you emerge from the shadows they cast. And in their helplessness, you finally see them for what they are-hollow.
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Every word TRUTH! 👍💥🙏❤
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Damn
Can anyone give me a definition for mirroring?
I'm very grateful that I'm no longer living with him. No more power trips and mind games. I pay for the roof over my head now. I have a happy place to heal now.
The corollary: as you become weaker, they become stronger. That is why they do what they do. They are inherently weak, superficial creatures.
I’m in a period of time where I can’t stand people anymore & I can’t stand for any nonsense from anyone. I’d like to become more social again in time.
That will change. As you keep growing, like minded people will be attracted to you.
Ty Andrew. 2.5 years out and I still need to come back to your channel. Makes me feel like I am not alone. Grateful.
Yeah ! Same here
Yep , me too , 2 years later
Me too, 4 years later, after a recent hoover😱
Been 3 years and I have to come here every now n then
You're not alone
WOW Andrew 😮you always get the point across, thank you 🙏!!!!!!!!!!!!
'Mountain of indifference'
It was a tough climb! Slipped a few times, but i kept climbing.
Almost at the tippy top😊
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Thank you Andrew and community, love, prayers and blessings ❤️ 🙏✨️
I was having supper with my boyfriend and she was being seated at a nearby table. She is my former supervisor at a job that I quit. Total monster in sheep’s clothing, bully narcissist. She had a drink sent over to make her presence known. (I saw her from the moment she walked in) I smiled and nodded towards her and didn’t touch the drink. I asked the waiter to have that be the last thing bussed from the table when we were done. GLORIOUS
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THANK YOU ANDREW FOR ANOTHER INSIGHTFUL VIDEO 🙏💖💯🙌👏
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The narcissist justified the discard by saying there are "seasons of life."
He was right. I'm hoping I'm in for a long season of the narcissist free life.
Thanks for your videos, Andrew! They're like my daily affirmations.
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Yes brother!! I used to say to my X all the time "Stop putting me on the Shelf"!! That's exactly what it felt like, or conversely being ignored. I have healed a ton this year, the road helped heal me. Next time I'm in NC I'll look ya up, we need some workshops in the woods to defeat the narcissist. With knife throwing lol, and nature therapy- wooooo! Heal me up Goddess- live in light and Love
Thank you again. I was the one checking everyone's emotions growing up being the second born eldest daughter. 3 brothers & 1 sister. No one validated my emotions because i was the truth seeker. I was always emotionally too much for everyone. I now realise i was the strong 1.❤❤ Thanks again, Andrew, for your wisdom
Remember: When she says she is going to Spain for 2 weeks with Sorority Sisters for a "GIRLS GET TOGETHER" ...... She is really going to Spain with her Sisters to get DRUNK and get LAID !!!
I figured this out when I looked at her FACE TIME / ZOOM meetings (recent calls) and there he was.... so I called him and told him that she was not going to NOT be able to make it to Spain due to her recent Doctor's report that she had a severe case of Gonorrhea and had to be hospitalized.
She is on a very strong antibiotics and fluids and was expected to be somewhat recovered in approx 30 days.
(I learned all this watching "HOUSE MD" on TV)
I got all my stuff out of the House and brought her stuff back and left it in the middle of the Garage.
(When I have a bad day at work.... I will just sit back in my chair and think about what they might have said to each other....and start giggling)
That's pretty funny. 😊
Thanks every word dripping with wisdom . catching every drop.A men.
Thank you for your help, Andrew!
Gratitude and thanksgiving to you Andrew….. Thank you for putting your heart and soul … with experience …. In teaching we empaths to be alert with awareness concerning all interactions with the narcissist…., In the past …. the present moment …. and in the future…😘🕊…….⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 🕊🥰
Ditto
Must be broken into a billion pieces 👏 this poetry. You charge up my will to live.
Thank you, Andrew, for the HOPE you give me
Amen!
".. & over time that person was showing you more & more toxicity, more & more poor behaviors, more & more manipulating techniques.."
"The further you get away from the narcissist, the stronger you get. The stronger you get, the clearer your mind gets...". I have reached the pinnacle of indifference & healed. I back what you have said. Healing changes you for the better
Excellent video Andrew🙌. Thank you for what you do. Love your location & the sound of the bugs in the background 🌲. Maybe heard some owls? Very peaceful. God bless
I have dealt with a few Narc's in my life. If I meet any more I will say "Don't Mess With Me"! I am stronger than ever!
You are so helpful, such a guiding light.
Thankyou so much.🌹
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I still just can’t believe how good of a job you do on these videos and they keep getting better
Thank you for reminding me how far I've come, the healing, removing myself from that toxic abusive manipulative emotional vampire.
I am humbled Thank you x
Spread the word!
Thank you, Andrew, blessings to all!❣️
Thank you Andrew and gang. Stay strong for yourselves.❣️
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I value the repetition! The explanation of the Narcissistic traits, tools to deal with them, how to heal, analogies, examples, etc. is like a "Swiss Army Knife" of a video. Only, when you open up the latest video, the "blades" to cut to a clearer understanding, keep getting sharper. I appreciate that you don't shift to a novel topic just to attract and entertain your viewers-- Every day, there's an "urgency for folks to get the message" and it's heard in your voice.🦁Thank You!🙏
Explicitly Splendid comment Mr. Joe!
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I just looked up at the moon 🌜 in the evening sky & thought I was seeing a falling star......then I heard a moo & realized those heifers are at it again!!! 🐄 🐮
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@@marieeakin8534 Thanks Marie and ESSIEMMARIE! Wherever you folks are under this
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It is so absolutely affirming to hear you describe this.
People in the throes of experiencing this, when trying to describe this and what they are experiencing to others, people are often awestruck and cannot or may not believe , they may think one is lying or telling tales about the narcissist, and very few truly understand what narcissism is, it also leaves you vulnerable to the work of flying monkeys and the narcissist character assassination. It is also very reaffirming and affirming to the heart and healing to hear it spoken out loud that which we suffer in the darkness and in the silence and behind closed doors thank you thank you thank you
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Narcs even hit on your mother, and when your mother is a narc the ultimate betrayal. 2 narcs can be very dangerous.
Cheers Andrew and all people in this channel!!! You ll be ok after all
I love you...thank you for your words of wisdom, and thank you for being here for me while I climb from the dark pit the narcissist has put me in❤
I love the tag lines, Andrew. It helps me stay grounded and resilient
Looking back, the extent of their previous pair-bonding likely made it impossible for them to do feelings, apart from being satisfied or angry.
It felt like they'd gone through so many before me 🎠 & my role was more holistic than anything to do with intimacy, but I was meant to feel liucky to be cooking, cleaning & being a donkey for them. I felt so ugly.
Recently, I tangled up my feelings with the owner of a hardened heart. It made me realise that I'm still on a path of recovery.
Andrew is so consistent 👏🏽 🙌🏽
The videos have become part of every evening. Thank you 🙏🏽
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Andrew I had to listen to this twice. ☺I'm in the cocoon stage a good two years now, feeling stronger most days and now your confirmation that's it is truly going to get so much better.
WoW...I am in awe over his deep understanding of how these people are. Thank you so very much for your help with these horrific people who have terrorized my life for over 40 years. Thanks Andrew!!
I've been thinking about this over the past few weeks just how weak he'll be forever. He faked my strengths during love bombing until his core weakness came through within months. It's been quite the process getting here. Namaste Andrew💪💪💪
In the middle of a divorce from a narcissist. Im in the hole thousands of dollars. How can I ever get out of this? I have 2 little girls...im trying to have hope and faith but its so hard...
Been there too. 10 years ago. There will be people and opportunities coming soon, believe me. Just fight for yourself and your girls, you will make it. Us empaths never fail in life bc we are so strong and firm and getting strenght out of the love for those who need us to be strong❤
You got this! I’m rooting for you, tell the Lord you want to release your husband to him, the Lord will deal with him and give you favor and help you, trust in Jesus, he cares about everything your going through, and your girls, stay strong and never never give up, you deserve to give your love to another that cares, your girls deserve to be the best that God has for them, it’s better to struggle and be free than to be with a Narc, I believe in you and you will be okay, i pray for you. 💜
@i.l.9546 I'm taking what you say to heart and it has given me hope.thank you.
@RS-xe2uq im taking this as a message from God himself. My faith has taken a hit, I went through some things recently that took my confidence in my walk with the Lord away. Thank you for taking the time to respond to me.
@@BooThing14 your welcome, I believe in you, you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you, better days ahead for you and your girls, when it gets tough just pull yourself together and know there will be a way out! Have a good night! Don’t settle for less, you are a winner and are loved by many! 😃
My friends husband was a counselor and I told her what was happening and she talked to her man about it and he used the word gaslighting and that’s what started my search
I was told many years ago,by a former psychiatrist,James Able,that at a certain point,its like suffering from Stockholm syndrome,and this is so true.Sad thing is,he ruined the lives of not only me,but also my father,sons,and many more.Looking back,i have one apology...I M SORRY I EVER MET,LET ALONE MARRIED HIM.SORRY I DIDNT LEAVE THE DAY AFTER I PAID FOR OUR FARCE OF A WEDDING.I emotionally left that marriage,the day after it happened.Now,dying from end stage lung cancer,i wish i had ....him the day my father passed.Sad....
So sorry you had to experience this, God is a healer, stay encouraged, I'm praying for you.
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Spot on Andrew. We are strong and have survived the hell of narcissistic abuse for a reason! Let’s spread love, respect, dignity, civility, honesty, truth, joy and peace in this world! God bless you ❤
Repetition will drive it into our brains! Keep repeating till we get it!
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that's true
great thoughts from a beautiful soul
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10:29 do relate, Andrew. One year post narc relationship. They do test the relationship and ask you to have a plan ?"
Have you given up ?
And i remember the day of the final disscard. I could stay if you follow me everywhere!
And then try to do wash until you say to yourself no more, no more cycles, no more abuse. No more toxicity.
And when you do take that decision when narcissists should see, they loved me, and I just dried in this case me up.
And this is when love should be repaid, but no they chose to dry up your cup and leave when they are sure there is not one drop of supply left in your cup. They put out their tongue and drink your last drop and discard you.
Now one year later post relationship. 1 year and one moth later I could finally sad down and watch a movie without needing to pause that movie.
Getting away from them makes them smaller.
Like escaping evil in a nightmare... only OMG...their REAL!
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Only, you wake from the nightmare in the morning and they're still around in your head, it's
like being "An American Werewolf in London!" Ghastly!🐺
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Feels like I'm always gonna be broken.
Same here. Been out for over a year now and life is not better. It's just a new fight against the impossibly stupid that keeps holding me back now.
With the old narcs at least I had a point of reference for where the endless roadblocks came from and why.
No, you will heal. Keep going and continue to listen to Andrew. He is the best.
Love this video Andrew thank you 😘 when you can tell your story without crying, being able to handle the emotions that are tied to it, that's when you know you have healed. 😊 have a wonderful evening everyone 🙌💜
We can't avoid these people because my grandson has to go to them every weekend... enforced by the courts.
Even after the person not only abused my daughter he also beat up an elderly man 😢
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You're right, it's not fair! Sending virtual hugs and hope for better justice soon in your life 🤗 ⚖
Most powerful message you have ever done on your channel Andrew!!! Extremely refreshing to take stock of OUR accomplishments!!
My narcissist clan told me how proud of they were of me before they discarded me. You embarrass them, family. It will NEVER be the same
In all honesty, I was talking about narcissists way too loud before and after that moment until I realized how deep a discard can get. I was in therapy for years before it and the kind counselor showed me over many sessions and I thought the clan part besides the narcissist would save me. Nah, the narcissist owns all of them now
WHOOOOOOFFFFFFF.......release and breaded again ......welcome to the reality explained the wright way.
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Praise God ..namaste❤😊
Gods the biggest narc of them all.
I THANK GOD FOR YOU AND YOUR MESSAGE. EVERY WORD FROM YOUR MOUTH MAKES SENSE AND WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE FOR HUMANITY AND RELATIONSHIPS IN THE FUTURE. ❤
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Thank you Andrew for every single videos. Reprogramming the mind …❤
Listen to Andrew about never going back. Recently, I tried to have a visit with family members of the narc. (They know he is awful). I had a minor panic attack. The new supply was at the house. I texted that I want feeling well and had to go home. I try to never lie; while I wasn't physically sick, but I was sick. My heart was racing, my brain felt like it was going to explode, and I wanted to cry and wanted to throw up. I was a mess. Today, I tried to do damage control. I love the family but I think I need to let them go.
Great message!
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I thought my son was a Narcissist but he's not. He just has narcissistic traits and tendencies. My therapist said yesterday he doesn't want to ever be accountable for his actions. My son is 34...my therapist first saw first when he was 7 yrs old. ADHD back then. Now a drug addict. A mother's worst nightmare. But I'm The super empath and I take my power back even from my son. When my husband was here he handled things better. He passed away 2 yrs ago. But I'm strong. My therapist told me I need to get my emotions under control and don't allow him to play on it. He said he counts on that. Show him he can't.
Thank you for this reminders Andrew😊.Be blessed. Yes Iam in the pennicale of indifference and it feels good❤.
In the cocoon of boundaries, healing from a lifetime of narcissistic abuse. Slowly but surely getting better and becoming me. 🙌
P.S. in the past couple of years, since getting the light bulb moment, I’ve identified a couple of narcs hovering around me, looking for a new source of supply. The old me would have opened the door right open for them. The new me did not let them step on foot inside. I’m getting better!
👍 Same here.When you know enough, it's impossible to let shifty words and actions slide .
Red flags are redder and waves right in front of my face .
I really love you Andrew. Thank you so very much for being here for all of us. Your help is regal 💚💜
I saw all of those behaviours 😢
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Thank you, thank you for your wise words. This video spoke to me.
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Walking along the beach listening to your video Andrew thinking yes I will never ever let my ex bring me down again I will never go down to his level again.
My freedom has been a blessing I'm getn there slowly & I'm feeling stronger everyday. Not waisting anymore of my time & energy on this parasite. He hoovered me 2 weeks ago & i did not respond delete & block.
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Thank you very much, you make everything easy to understand
Counseling pointed it out to me
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I feel stronger mentally but im weak physically..like standing on a road trying to lock back at false safty..knowing getting forward is the rigth way. ⏳️🚶♂️
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Exercise and do light stretches or go for a bush walk or beach walk. It will help rejuvenate your energy levels.
On the bloody morning after, one "tin?!" "soldier?!" rides away. (Coven) End of song, end of story, end of book, turn the page!! Next, happily ever after!!!
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Good grief the list you gave was all and everything I experienced I stayed 16 years was 16 when I met him and 18 when I married him could never understand how a person could say they love you but treat you so badly. Could never resolve any disagreement I always said sorry so that he would talk to me again even tho I knew deep down that it was not a good thing to do.I knew when he started to look else wear. So glad I did leave when I did still did not understand what he was but I knew I was not going to survive if I stayed.
Bless you Andrew 🙏🏻 another fantastic message 🙏🏻🕊🎶⚘️✨️
good message Andrew.
Great Video, thank you Andrew. I left him and I feel very good. 🎉
GOOD morning Andrew❤️🫡🌿🌾🍁🇫🇷Already ,,, I feel stronger then ever! And see crystal clear ,,, This Narc/sister I was dealing with,, was a robber of my emotions!! DO NOT MISS HER MIND GAMES!! She must be looking old & ugly😂I am 1st 2nd & 3rd!! Stronger & clearer my mind!! Thank you Andrew for your strength of WORDS😊
Powerful... Thank you
So TRUE, WHEN HE WOUND ME UP AND I GOT MAD, HE WOULD GRIN AND KEEP SMILING, HE LOVED IT WHEN I LOST CONTROL , I COULD NOT WIN, I WAS ALWAYS STRONG, I THEN FOUND YOUR CHANNEL, AND STARTED TO IGNOR HIM,. (WHEN I SAID STRONG I WAS VERY PASSIVE, TOOK NO MESSING OFF ANYONE, BUT COULD NOT WIN). THANKYOU SO MUCH ANDREW.😊
Life is getting better, I knew at the time x3 other people were also around me life was very toxic, I backed off, spot on Andrew!❤
With all due respect...it doesn't feel like that... my daughter and I have been beaten down because the so called justice system is supporting the abuser and his family....
How is this even fair😢
That is typical they seem to protect these people
Same here. Because the justice system protects criminals same as the health system is really the sick system 😮
It's like that all over the world. In my society too. . That's why we call ourselves "the warriors".
By the time things get bad and this far, we are often living in the fog and must look like we are the crazy one, while the narc puts on the clever mask back on and pretends to be the good person (blames their victim--so despicable!). It gets better as we get stronger and stop taking their bait. Glad you are here :-).
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The view from the mountaintop of indifference is glorious, grab my hand and keep climbing,
Thank you for a beautiful and empowering video Andrew! 🙌
That’s amazing Andrew. Thank you 😊
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Thankyou Andrew 🙏
Your strong powerful advocacy is much appreciated 🌺💜
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I'm still in the cocoon, but I need to go to the hospital. I need to get help.
The narcissist was supposed to be caretaker and he tried to kill me.🙏🏼
14:48 Sometimes it feels like my cocoon of boundaries is thickening, and on the inside. And i feel something like stir-crazy, cabin feverish.
Thank God 🙏🙏🙏 almighty am out of her negative energy 👿😈👿
The colors are beautiful on the sidebar, thumbnail,watchamacallit, whatever. 🤩artsy
I liken narcissists to trolls. TRYING,to keep us from crossing over to new frequency developmental stages. 💪🙃🙂☺️💫
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Big Bro Billy Goat Gruff Empath comin' through trolls! Look out! 🐐
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They are in the plateau of there stunted development. ⚡ As you go up they stay on the flat plateau of their cluster b disorder, we all plateau. As you go up they feel the distance widening between God and the devil there is a rainbow ⛅ 🌈 🐍 the 3d World made by the 3 colors red green blue and there Mixtures. Worldly fantasy to plateau your existence
I wouldn't know because I haven't known about them for yrs and yrs and they are off of my radar...but I wish them well in their further indeavors
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❤❤❤Thanks Andrew to hear you more is like a healing process becomes more interesting.Eventhough it seems you tell the same way,but it sounds like fresh water to this dry mind. Your words refreshing my mind and get stronger everyday.to be number 1 2 3 prioritize. To be in pinnacle of indifferent. Your words,like a way out. A solution that bring joy and hope. I grow alot. Thanks Carolina. You have the best person on earth❤❤❤ And i decide not to give chance to the narc,that little boy, in adults body to interfere,my mature and stable world. Bye little child. We are not at the sane age and understanding. Bye forever.
I know now,and it makes me so sad to be with someone who didn’t care,so not again 😎
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True story. Narcissus, Greek legend. Template
Alienation of. Every need. Pushing you to the state of failure to thrive. Withered away to nothing. Judges giving the access to children in their blind arrogance and refusal of evidence to show a pattern😢 of reprobate behavior. pride, ego comes before the fall. Meanwhile our children are forced into Fawning or fighting the bully in survival mode. Shattered 😢
A chip missing. Hahaha.🦋🌀💗
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Another students name was Tshell 😮this Tiffany shell 🐚 is overcoming we can do this! ❤praise Jesus all glory to God Amen 🙏🏼
Good evening Andrew ❤
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Namaste
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Yes sir 😮
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Thank You Again!
I think narcissist are mental . How can they be happy with themselves when they don’t even know who they are because they have to be a jack of all trades . It’s like a chameleon. But a chameleon has a purpose of why they change and are camouflage . My ex narc don’t know if to shit or go sailing , they are confused and that’s what confuses us they make us doubt our own reality and who we really are . Is this something they’re born with, read a book on ? Thanks Andrew and the tribe . Namaste 🙏🧘♀️
They are demon possessed people, demons control them, the real person is barely in the meat suit, they are literally demons in a meat suit.
No question- a well hidden mental illness.