McCafferty’s music helped me a lot through my life, the shit he did was terrible but I ain’t gonna stop listening to his music. His art helped me more than any other artist.
In a sense I understand it, I am sick myself and I have bipolar disorder and borderline disorder, I used to tell my sister every day to kîll her$elf during an argument even though I didn't want to, I often said and did things that I am still ashamed of and I can't fix it, I am undergoing treatment and I am fighting it and Nick makes me know that it's worth getting treatment, he's better now, which doesn't mean I'm completely whitewashing his behavior, what he did was wrong, but he regrets it as much as I do, we don't choose to have mental illnesses, we choose to decide to have treat and fight it and it's damn hard and not everyone has the courage to do it, I've had many suicide attempts and I'm still struggling with it, people looking down on what we USED to do before we start our therapy doesn't help
Yeah he did bad and he’s abused others and he doesn’t need to be forgiven but I definitely think he can get help and im not gonna stop listening to his music. People can improve and his music isn’t him. I have a past of abusing my sister but I DIDNT KNOW- i knew how aggressive i was and it hurt her but it didn’t hit until i was 18 and i was stable enough to comprehend. Im lucky and my sister and i are close now but back then i was so blinded by severe mental illness it was impossible to see anything right. I take accountability and I’ve worked to improve myself from age 16, i was an abuser but that doesn’t mean im evil. It was up to my sister to decide if it was forgiven but that doesn’t mean I couldn’t better myself before then or be loved by people
Yeah it's rough when you realize you have hurt soo many people without being aware or able to stop it. No one wants to believe they are a jerk, I never thought I was but I'm 46 and no truly good friends I see or talk to often, just my wife who doesn't really like me that much, but luckily I have a 8 year old boy and 10 year old daughter that love me like crazy and my mother. All my grade school friends have jumped ship on me and refuse to speak to me just as my brother has done for past 9 years. Alcohol played a major role in my behavior that turned my friends away, uuggh, now I'm just ranting and self loathing, time to stop. I hope your sister has truly forgiven you and you have forgiven yourslf and you are trying to be a good person.
finna send this to my brother 👍 He keeps trying to force me to stop supporting McCafferty but i love his music so much and feel like he still deserves support
hella disappointing how he quite literally addresses the fact that he knows saying f*got is wrong (2:10) and yet he’s continued to use the word since this song came out and still does a lot of the same shit…
@@pissshit9001 did you even listen to the song?? the song is literally how a narcissistic person with bpd would “apologize”. he literally says he’s taking accountability and apologizing but makes the whole thing about how he got bullied for being a complete piece of shit lmao
Okay, i get his situation..but you all can’t be that rude to him, he is (was) trying to fix himself and apologizing, he attempted suicidal because of this. He said “I’m writing this letter to apologize for everyone I hurt” but he continues talking about his illness and you all need to understand he is hurt mentally, he’s trying to do what he can. He is trying to improve!! I understand what he said was rude and mean, but he said he learned lessons. HE IS APOLOGIZING!!!! Get it right!! He is sorry! Okay? I hope that helps you all understand.
I love how he wrote so much great music and them wrote an apology song but everyone is comparing it to colleen ballinger when her son made we want to literally travel to America so i could shoot myself lol
I'd never heard of this band/guy before and It was still uncomfortable. Also uncomfortable that after he mentioned the front bottoms and a front bottoms song came on immediately after in the playlist in which Brian from the front bottoms songs the word 'uncomfortable' in a way only Brian from the front bottoms can. Also uncomfortable that there is a grear vid on youtube that someone made of all the times in which Brian sings uncomfortable ( It's quite a lot - his word) which probally means that this guy listens to Brian sing 'uncomfortable' while feeling uncomfortable that he is living a normal life and not the perfect life while living the brilliant carefree life we all imagine the front bottoms guys to live when we listen to their music (living their best life with all there cousins and best friends river swimming and being super friendly sensitive bros) when in reality the front bottoms guys are probs settling down a bit now which probs involves uncomfortable reunations with over shadowed feeling cousins they haven't seen in a long time. Maybe this guy is Brian's cousin.
McCafferty’s music helped me a lot through my life, the shit he did was terrible but I ain’t gonna stop listening to his music. His art helped me more than any other artist.
this is exactly how i feel shit person amazing musician.
@ Yup, you can hate the person but it’s not fair to hate the music.
He walked so Colleen ballinger could run
Nick's apology will always be better than colleen's one
FR
Well this is upsetting considering the things he's done
what did he do?
@@altissimoiii8239 he made great music.
@@altissimoiii8239 he was abusive, but he's going to therapy now, but still.
There’s a whole document that his ex band members made out lining the disgusting things they’ve witnessed him do.
@@marisaann8731 okay? I like the art.
Idc what they have done I still love their music
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I really hate how much his songs get me. I can't mentally stop listening to that shit i hate how good he writes.
yeah tell me about it, not a great feeling when you realize this song is a mirror, hang in there and stay positive, do good things, support good cause
In a sense I understand it, I am sick myself and I have bipolar disorder and borderline disorder, I used to tell my sister every day to kîll her$elf during an argument even though I didn't want to, I often said and did things that I am still ashamed of and I can't fix it, I am undergoing treatment and I am fighting it and Nick makes me know that it's worth getting treatment, he's better now, which doesn't mean I'm completely whitewashing his behavior, what he did was wrong, but he regrets it as much as I do, we don't choose to have mental illnesses, we choose to decide to have treat and fight it and it's damn hard and not everyone has the courage to do it, I've had many suicide attempts and I'm still struggling with it, people looking down on what we USED to do before we start our therapy doesn't help
I hate Nick.
But...I love McCafferty. I love the songs the band made and i dont know why.
Yeah he did bad and he’s abused others and he doesn’t need to be forgiven but I definitely think he can get help and im not gonna stop listening to his music. People can improve and his music isn’t him. I have a past of abusing my sister but I DIDNT KNOW- i knew how aggressive i was and it hurt her but it didn’t hit until i was 18 and i was stable enough to comprehend. Im lucky and my sister and i are close now but back then i was so blinded by severe mental illness it was impossible to see anything right. I take accountability and I’ve worked to improve myself from age 16, i was an abuser but that doesn’t mean im evil. It was up to my sister to decide if it was forgiven but that doesn’t mean I couldn’t better myself before then or be loved by people
Yeah it's rough when you realize you have hurt soo many people without being aware or able to stop it. No one wants to believe they are a jerk, I never thought I was but I'm 46 and no truly good friends I see or talk to often, just my wife who doesn't really like me that much, but luckily I have a 8 year old boy and 10 year old daughter that love me like crazy and my mother. All my grade school friends have jumped ship on me and refuse to speak to me just as my brother has done for past 9 years. Alcohol played a major role in my behavior that turned my friends away, uuggh, now I'm just ranting and self loathing, time to stop. I hope your sister has truly forgiven you and you have forgiven yourslf and you are trying to be a good person.
finna send this to my brother 👍
He keeps trying to force me to stop supporting McCafferty but i love his music so much and feel like he still deserves support
You can keep supporting whoever you want it doesn’t matter but be aware of the type of person they are incase shit goes south.
@@pissshit9001 Yeah I did more research and I understand now 🧍 I still listen to their music but I don't necessarily support Nick in specific.
hella disappointing how he quite literally addresses the fact that he knows saying f*got is wrong (2:10) and yet he’s continued to use the word since this song came out and still does a lot of the same shit…
It’s not an apology nor is he attempting to take accountability. Its the equivalent of saying, “I’m sorry you feel that way about what I said.”
@@pissshit9001 did you even listen to the song?? the song is literally how a narcissistic person with bpd would “apologize”. he literally says he’s taking accountability and apologizing but makes the whole thing about how he got bullied for being a complete piece of shit lmao
HE IS PANSEXUAL HE CAN LITERALLY SAY FAGG*T IF HE WANTS 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 If u are a man and u love men you can say it. I am literally a homosexual man
NO FR
Buddy. He likes dudes
LOL
Okay, i get his situation..but you all can’t be that rude to him, he is (was) trying to fix himself and apologizing, he attempted suicidal because of this. He said “I’m writing this letter to apologize for everyone I hurt” but he continues talking about his illness and you all need to understand he is hurt mentally, he’s trying to do what he can. He is trying to improve!! I understand what he said was rude and mean, but he said he learned lessons. HE IS APOLOGIZING!!!! Get it right!! He is sorry! Okay? I hope that helps you all understand.
I love you for this ,dude. Thx
Well he still abused and traumatized people, while yes, he did apologize people were still hurt. People were still traumatized.
@@MaggotfilledFlesh yeah, one year later I think he’s a total ass lmao. He ruined many peoples lives and I understand now
great song i love it sm he really did great.
I love how he wrote so much great music and them wrote an apology song but everyone is comparing it to colleen ballinger when her son made we want to literally travel to America so i could shoot myself lol
Uncomfortable considering everything tbh
I'd never heard of this band/guy before and It was still uncomfortable. Also uncomfortable that after he mentioned the front bottoms and a front bottoms song came on immediately after in the playlist in which Brian from the front bottoms songs the word 'uncomfortable' in a way only Brian from the front bottoms can. Also uncomfortable that there is a grear vid on youtube that someone made of all the times in which Brian sings uncomfortable ( It's quite a lot - his word) which probally means that this guy listens to Brian sing 'uncomfortable' while feeling uncomfortable that he is living a normal life and not the perfect life while living the brilliant carefree life we all imagine the front bottoms guys to live when we listen to their music (living their best life with all there cousins and best friends river swimming and being super friendly sensitive bros) when in reality the front bottoms guys are probs settling down a bit now which probs involves uncomfortable reunations with over shadowed feeling cousins they haven't seen in a long time. Maybe this guy is Brian's cousin.
@@TheManBart this was an acid trip to read.
Great video 👍
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