A lot of these youngest look up to the wrong people, that's why they're in these situations and plus they see so many divorces in the muslim families. Some of them are confused and don't know what to do and who to turn to! SISTERS, material wealth and wanting a spouse with lots of money is not the way to go in this day and age. Be content with what your future spouse can afford according to his means. الله will provide for you all moving forward! May الله help those who want to marry, use common sense and get married for the right reasons!🧕👳♂️ امين "ZINA IS NOT THE WAY TO GO"
No doubt when we stay on the halal path things will be difficult. It will take time but wallahi that is so much more better and Allaah will satisfy us because we relied on Him alone. May Allaah make it easy for us all ameen
Shiekh Abu bakr, I love your reminders and advices around navigating the fitnah around us. May Allah recompense you generously. I just wanted to let you know the aya you mentioned in the video from surah Ra'ad you mistakenly said this part flipped around وَيَدْرَءُونَ بِٱلْحَسَنَةِ ٱلسَّيِّئَةَ
Allah humma baarik dearest beloved shiekh may Allah subhaanahu ta aala bless protect forgive help and guide us all Aameen thumma Aameen ya rabbul Aalameen 🤲💝💯💎☝️🤲😥
Beneficial information BarakAllahu Feekum Jazakallahu kharian May Allah SWT forgive our sins guide us to the straight path and help us steadfast Ameen ya Rabb Alameen.
Resorting to the haram will close the doors to the halal. Therefore, if you close the doors to the haram, Allah will open for you the doors to the halal.
So what do i do then I fasted 3 month straight 4 to 6 days a week will i couldn't stop I can't get married either I'm 18 and the girls are very demanding. I have no choice but to do haram every week otherwise i can't get back my focus What more can i do?? What more can i do?? What more is there to do?? I do adhkar recite quara. Pray 5 Fast What more can i do?? Is there anything more i can do?
Honestly the youth aren’t looking for marriage haram relationships is just easy way to get To Zina adultery Marriages requires responsibilities maturity and Islamic rights then halal intimacy which the guardians have not instituted and the youth don’t not want to take on. Haram relationships means you can take advantage with no consequences no in-laws no expensive marriage ceremonies no expectations. The community the Parents need to stop hiidng the truth and sit with there children as young as teens years and explain the beauty of marriage and the punishment of haram relationships
marriage is overrated- i don’t understand why people fret over it. im happy working, gaining knowledge, traveling, eating, relaxing, making friends, exploring hobbies n activities n worshiping, taking classes etc.
Marriage isn’t overrated. If Allah literally created us in pairs, how could marriage be overrated? This isn’t a good way to think. This sounds exactly like something Iblees wants you to say.
@@qt4474 not saying its wrong or bad- its just overrated by people so it ends up in being disappointing for people. its a good thing, but its not the goal to strive to achieve at any cost. its the attitude that you are doomed if you can’t marry- that im talking about. Once married, i believe to stay committed and give it your best and make it a priority. Otherwise, trust in God, make some attempts but marriage is not a solution for internal happiness and peace.
@@hashh2019 i agree with you i think marriage is wonderful but thinking it's the most important thing a human can do makes people who can't marry feel depressed unnecessarily, and then you got those who suffer in their marriages cuz they expected getting married will complete their life and being them ultimate happiness...
Adult children are not showing maturity responsibilities or self sufficiency to get married. They just want intimacy without no repercussion no Islam no rights. Bro married early age around 20,s he had a job car showed financial independence to be able to support a wife and give her Islamic rights Another brother married late 20, s forced his wife to live in the same home and his grown adult siblings and parents expected them to look after him his wife and children while be played single man bachelor. Unfortunately ended in divorce when this parents forced him to move in his own home He could not handle the responsibilities now is single in his late 40,s parents gone and lives a lonely life all because he was immature and just wanted intimacy
Sheikhna you wouldn't want a 2nd wife would you? HAHA I'm just kidding... Or am I 😂 thank you for what you do, you've helped me beyond belief. Alhamdulilah
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A lot of these youngest look up to the wrong people, that's why they're in these situations and plus they see so many divorces in the muslim families. Some of them are confused and don't know what to do and who to turn to! SISTERS, material wealth and wanting a spouse with lots of money is not the way to go in this day and age. Be content with what your future spouse can afford according to his means. الله will provide for you all moving forward! May الله help those who want to marry, use common sense and get married for the right reasons!🧕👳♂️ امين "ZINA IS NOT THE WAY TO GO"
No doubt when we stay on the halal path things will be difficult. It will take time but wallahi that is so much more better and Allaah will satisfy us because we relied on Him alone. May Allaah make it easy for us all ameen
The halal path is only difficult initially. After some time, it will become easy, and Allah will send the good things in your way.
رب ھب لی من الصالحین
I'm in the very same situation. 🤲
Plz make dua to ALLĀH swt for me to get married to righteous sister and also make me righteous. Jazākallah
Oh sheikh please make dua for me😢
Allah shiyon ko hidayat de aameen sum aameen aur hum sub musalmano ko har fitny se apny hifz o amaan me raky aameen sum aameen
This is Excellent.
We love you Sheikh Abubakr 💎💯
Shukran jazeellah,may Allah protect us from zina & other sind
Yes absolutely is great and beautiful and so much success while thanks to u so much sh Bakr for your big time always thanks by warsame Alberta Canada
JazakAllah Khair I needed this
Jazzakalahu kheyran sheikh
Very helpful
JazakAllah
Thank you so much. I needed to hear this message so badly.
Masha Allah may Allah reward you immensely
Mashaallah tabarakallah sheikh thank you 💖💖💖💖
Jezakellah ya sheik
Shiekh Abu bakr, I love your reminders and advices around navigating the fitnah around us. May Allah recompense you generously. I just wanted to let you know the aya you mentioned in the video from surah Ra'ad you mistakenly said this part flipped around وَيَدْرَءُونَ بِٱلْحَسَنَةِ ٱلسَّيِّئَةَ
Great advice from sheikh Abu Bakr Zoud 😢
Allah humma baarik dearest beloved shiekh may Allah subhaanahu ta aala bless protect forgive help and guide us all Aameen thumma Aameen ya rabbul Aalameen 🤲💝💯💎☝️🤲😥
It is so hard but Allah will bring easy.
Beneficial information BarakAllahu Feekum Jazakallahu kharian
May Allah SWT forgive our sins guide us to the straight path and help us steadfast Ameen ya Rabb Alameen.
Thanks
Cant say Im struggling when Im seeking or choosing to get married
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Marriage should have been very simple. But it has become very difficult to get married and then to stay married. There is a problem 😕
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So, why bad people married good person whether Male or female. I need the Answer
Resorting to the haram will close the doors to the halal. Therefore, if you close the doors to the haram, Allah will open for you the doors to the halal.
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So what do i do then
I fasted 3 month straight 4 to 6 days a week will i couldn't stop
I can't get married either I'm 18 and the girls are very demanding.
I have no choice but to do haram every week otherwise i can't get back my focus
What more can i do??
What more can i do??
What more is there to do??
I do adhkar recite quara.
Pray 5
Fast
What more can i do??
Is there anything more i can do?
Youth*
Honestly the youth aren’t looking for marriage haram relationships is just easy way to get To Zina adultery
Marriages requires responsibilities maturity and Islamic rights then halal intimacy which the guardians have not instituted and the youth don’t not want to take on.
Haram relationships means you can take advantage with no consequences no in-laws no expensive marriage ceremonies no expectations.
The community the Parents need to stop hiidng the truth and sit with there children as young as teens years and explain the beauty of marriage and the punishment of haram relationships
marriage is overrated- i don’t understand why people fret over it. im happy working, gaining knowledge, traveling, eating, relaxing, making friends, exploring hobbies n activities n worshiping, taking classes etc.
Marriage isn’t overrated. If Allah literally created us in pairs, how could marriage be overrated? This isn’t a good way to think. This sounds exactly like something Iblees wants you to say.
@@qt4474 not saying its wrong or bad- its just overrated by people so it ends up in being disappointing for people. its a good thing, but its not the goal to strive to achieve at any cost. its the attitude that you are doomed if you can’t marry- that im talking about. Once married, i believe to stay committed and give it your best and make it a priority. Otherwise, trust in God, make some attempts but marriage is not a solution for internal happiness and peace.
@@hashh2019 You can't call an act of Worship Overated. Worship is what Allāh loves and what His Messenger loves. Saying this is dangerous.
@@mmjs1767 maybe I need to rephrase it plus my bitterness took over.
@@hashh2019 i agree with you i think marriage is wonderful but thinking it's the most important thing a human can do makes people who can't marry feel depressed unnecessarily, and then you got those who suffer in their marriages cuz they expected getting married will complete their life and being them ultimate happiness...
Adult children are not showing maturity responsibilities or self sufficiency to get married. They just want intimacy without no repercussion no Islam no rights.
Bro married early age around 20,s he had a job car showed financial independence to be able to support a wife and give her Islamic rights
Another brother married late 20, s forced his wife to live in the same home and his grown adult siblings and parents expected them to look after him his wife and children while be played single man bachelor. Unfortunately ended in divorce when this parents forced him to move in his own home
He could not handle the responsibilities now is single in his late 40,s parents gone and lives a lonely life all because he was immature and just wanted intimacy
Sheikhna you wouldn't want a 2nd wife would you? HAHA I'm just kidding... Or am I 😂 thank you for what you do, you've helped me beyond belief. Alhamdulilah