Happy Mother’s Day to all the mamas out there!!! Mother’s Day is on the 29th of May here in Sweden 🇸🇪 Reading all the comments here is so heart warming 💕
“ It takes courage to say yes to rest and play in a culture where exhaustion is seen as a status symbol” - Brené Brown It took me moving out of North America to learn that taking time to enjoy life or choosing a “slower” lifestyle doesn’t = failure.
You’re actually not moving in different directions - it’s just a new season and all seasons never last forever . For mum it’s a domestic season now . With baby , building a home , learning new hobbies ( composting ), making a lovely home tor the family . It’s just a different season and that’s perfect because saga will grow and start school then that season might pull you in a different direction . For dad it’s also a new season . Dads get into this super ambitious season when babies come and that’s understandable because they want to provide . As partners we might not really match our seasons - we just compromise and try to support where we can
This is the couple every unmarried woman/man need to watch. Because these are the realities us singles need to witness when it comes to marriage. These conversations have been so authentic and pure. I appreciate this. This is the channel where I want to give my free time to in this season of my life.
Really interesting to hear your take on how building a home is a form of creativity. I think of myself as a non-creative person but I love interior design, cooking, gardening, etc and just haven’t thought of those things as being creative! Creativity isn’t just manifested in traditional forms of art.
I’ve been following Maya since the head shaving video and in regards to the career shift, I just see it as being in a different season in your life. When u were younger, u had the season of being super busy and multiple videos a week etc. and now that ure a mom & wife, now youre in a season as a homemaker & spouse. When ure a creative person those qualities never leave you they just evolve with you as life goes on. In regards to Maxx, i feel like he and I are in similar place in regards to wanting pursue career and reach a higher level of peaks in our career.
This is probably the healthiest conversation I have witnessed about this topic. It is normal to have interest change as we grow and it's good that you are both able to support the other in their growth. This is beautiful! Now go make out while Saga is gone🤣
“Will Saga think I’m a fool for walking away from this?” Probably in her teen, adolescent years, or young adult years but when she settles down in life she’ll understand.
I had to stop the video at 1:58. To say, “Thank you Maya! From the very beginning you’ve been nothing, but transparent with your SHAMELESS journey. All of the ups and downs of being a creator, being single, and now being married and a mom. To question your life choices and finding balance with your decisions is inspiring for us all. You and Max have created a great space to continue to inspire us on what it takes to live that creative life in different ways. After completing video comments…. Maya I look forward to the composting, gardening, and lifestyle videos as wife and mother from creative prospective. Max, As fellow creator in entertainment industry, I look forward to seeing what you create. I see you too doing great projects together maybe a documentary or series of some sort. Something that combines where you both are now on this shameless journey. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Happy Mother’s Day Maya! 💐
I feel like I’m dreaming seriously. Is this the same Maya we’ve known and loved for 10+ years online? Also this intro is everything! 🙌🏽✨Happy Mother’s Day! God is good! 💕🌸🙏🏽
Maya, you are laying the foundation for your life in Sweden. ALL of that has been creative! Redoing the house, garden, greenhouse, raise your daughter…you’re still doing YT and brand deals and yet making it all look so easy. Saga isn’t even a year old and you did that! I’m sure there is a market for people living the country who are in need of photographers, videographers, workshops on tech equipment, or even a “Maya 101” course (designed to take students through how to make a YT channel inc. props, set, budget)…but for now you’re on mat leave so enjoy it!
I am a stay at home mom of three. Also a seamstress and doll maker. I shifted my art to focus on my children so now I make them clothes and toys. I can’t imagine my life without my children or my craft but it took me a while to learn how to intertwine them. There is a ton of creative energy in beautifying a home and creating joy for children ❤️ You got this girl and you are looking so beautiful❤️
You both are really growing and evolving together, which is in itself so beautiful to witness. I can definitely relate with Maya. I’m currently on matleave from being a CEO. Being a mom to my little guy (8months) has def given me pause on my career goals (which I too had been frustrated and drained by). Over the last 2 years I too have become an avid plant mommy and gardener (and loving learning about composting especially vermiocomposting or worm composting!). My husband and I moved from downtown Toronto to small town last year. This summer I’m launching my microgreens business which I’m hoping will allow me to have more flexibility to be a more available mommy vs returning to my career. All this to say, I’m inspired by your journeys individually but also as a couple. Wishing you both all the best as you explore your new chapters! ❤️
Right on time! I'm literally in the same boat. I started my channel while i was pregnant and was totally able to put content out and still be creative. When the baby came those first few months I was still able to create during naps....but nowwww..I have zero time. Being a full time stay at home is the hardest thing I ever did in my life, and so rewarding. I felt like I was totally losing myself because every second is dedicated to him and whats next. I came to understand that this is the chapter i'm in and my partner made me realize how fast time will go and to do what I can when I can. Since I have no time to create garments or update my shop, I been learning about soil and plants and giving the apartment some life and that totally been fixing that lil creative buzz I needed!
I hope with all my heart I find myself in a caring, honest and emotionally comforting relationship . I know not all relationships are perfect but there was so much honesty and empathy in this conversation.💜
All the green flags in this transparent discussion is simply refreshing. A beauty in seasons/roles changing in a relationship as a woman, mother, wife, and creator. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Maya, you can now use your background in media to share this new passion of yours with others and teach them through videos and storytelling. It's an exciting but very different chapter as a mother & wife, but still an artist and performer. I'm in that same season as I lived & worked in L.A. for 12 years before meeting my husband and having our first child at 35 yrs old. Now i'm 42 and a mama of 3 boys and a widow, and still navigating how to balance motherhood and my journey as an artist. Sending you love and strength, Sis. God has got you!
Wow guys!! This is sooo very deep and real!! You guys are so open to sharing the REAL stuff that happens behind the scenes and for that I applaud you both for your vulnerability and being open to sharing your life to the "world" where there are so many opinionated human beings. Love light and many blessings to you both on this journey and God's continued guidance 🙏🏽🙌🏽
It’s so awesome to see how much you have grown, I’m not even sure how I found you, but I do remember it’s when I big chopped for the first time back in 2009/10. I was a stay at home mom when my girls were babies, and then that itch came back for me to get back in the workforce. Fast forward to present day, I’m divorced, my oldest (32, an artist is moving to San Antonio) for a great job opportunity. My youngest (29, who is married & an actress) is living her life. I am now 54 in a sense am starting a new life, w/o my babies. I am part owner of a catering company, and working in corporate, but I’m enjoying the ride. I apologize for all that I wrote. Glad to see the changes you have gone through and continuing to go through. Excited for your future w/ Max and Saga! 🥰
It's so refreshing to see the acknowledgement on what it takes to be a stay at home mama, and still be searching for your sense of self. I have always had an inclination to dive into the realm of healing. I was a tarot reader before having kids, who passionately studied yoga. I've realized now, that being a mother is the purest form of healing, that takes the most dedication and devotion. Maybe we are returning to our true nature by our babies choosing us to heal the collateral. Blessings and a happy mothers day to you, Maya❣
Maya you created a life…..girl live in that moment….that is GODs want for us…go forth and be fruitful….. kids, food, flowers….just grow and be fruitful!!! And I love gardening and would love to see how you compost and grow food, it’s a LARGE community here on YT that would watch you do this!!
Max says, "I didn't mean to expose you." Maya says, "No you can't, I'm shameless." That's a good one! I love how the two of you talk things through. At each stage of our lives, we have to find new meaning that satisfies our passions so we continue to feel whole and happy. And Max, oh my goodness, he's so handsome and kind. You're a beautiful couple, inside and out. My current passion is learning how to paint and selling my masterpieces. I have an innate need to create and bless others with my creations.
Enjoy this time with Saga because it will pass extremely fast. There's nothing wrong with where you are right now and there's no place to get to. Be where you are and I know it's easier said than done.
Maya I’ve been watching you since that video of you riding on a bicycle with the camera, with the wind in your hair, in was it Harlem? Then your head shave! Your life! Has been so incredibly inspiring, whatever you do, I’m here for it! You live by your own standards and we need more examples of that 🥹 thank you for shamelessly sharing your life with us.❤️
Firstly - Happy Mother's Day Maya... I am literally twice Max's age but have been watching the journey of you two since I discovered Maya's channel at the beginning of the pandemic... I have been with my husband for 20 years now and we work in the same field, however, we have always been at different and changing levels throughout our careers... We have had moments of unhealthy competition as well as internal guilt, shame and resentment based on our careers... However, what has always saved us - is our love being greater than ambition... And when I see the two of you - - - I am reminded of that love... You two will be just fine because you two are communicating and not burying those emotions... Continued success and thank you both for always sharing your journey... Love, Light and Flow...
Maya I love these sit down videos but I also love seeing the videos you make creating in this new way...gardening, composting, foraging ( my fave), building, designing, exploring the environments around you.
It gives me great pleasure in Awarding Max and Maya 100% A+ for such an informative video. I truly loved it the info was honest and these are things we should discuss with our partners. Thanks for sharing.
Beautiful intro!❤️❤️❤️ I am a new Shameless Maya and Max & Maya living fan and I am OBSESSED with your new content. I’m also a black Filipina who is engaged to a white man and it’s been inspiring/deeply healing to witness your family grow and create a home in Sweden. I fucking love plants and babies so YES, please keep creating your beautiful gorgeous lives 🙌🏾❤️🙏🏾🥰
Happy Mother’s Day Maya ❤️😘 In regards to Maya’s career I think her true fans have been able to see her evolve from the typical role on TH-cam for a long time. What I like about Maya is how she follows her passion and how she does it whole heartedly. Right now it is like your at a precipice in your journey and I find it most interesting as we get to see you grow and evolve as a mother and a creative. Be patient with yourself and enjoy your journey. Love to you and Max.
Homemaking, some might argue is the OG creative energy. To create life, a home, a place of prayer, play, peace, and pay IS divine creation. You could have your own homemaking line one day - or kitchen appliances - you never know the things God has up those grand sleeves! This is the gift of womanhood - we are creators by divine design.
Happy Mother's Day, Maya!!!!!! And I agree, that intro was bomb! You two creatives are great parents, innovators, and people. Love your story. Thanks for keeping us on your journey. And I LOVE Kelis as well.
Waw, I need to watch this video again, so many great points. I guess my fear is that hubby and I don’t continue to growth / evolve and stop adding to each other happiness. The storytelling in the beginning was so on point. I appreciate the story next to the story. Have a great great day!
I can relate to this conversation. I left what I knew to be with someone several years ago and have since shifted way off the gameboard. add in marriage, motherhood and I'm trying to figure out what moves me other than my family. I had hobbies, leadership positions, a social life. it's very different. it seems like you two switched places and I'm glad you (Maya) can be happy watching your husband do what you used to do. I also follow you on ig and the fact that you keep moving and appear to have the same spirit during your transition is inspiring.
Hi Maya, as you said creativity comes in different forms. You can still create something new, at each step in life. Of course the pace of living and expressing yourself in L.A., as a single woman, was way faster than it is now, when you have a long term partner and a small child. Nothing wrong with that. We have to take into consideration also the 2 years of Covid that disrupted everyone's life... which was not a small crisis. As for the future, I as a subscriber look forward to seeing what Max will do in terms of growing this channel or anything else related to supporting his family through work projects. By the way, don't be discouraged for the current situation. It is normal to slow down with work when your child is not even 3 yet.
I think it’s beautiful what you guys are doing. Being a mother is the hardest, “creative” journey you can go on. Shine on too Max! I’ve been married 11 years, both people don’t need to be shining in their careers at the same time. Maya being grounded and Max building his brand IS you guys moving together. Someone has to be the string (Maya) holding the balloon (Max). Saga will never look back and say “I wish my mom left me and worked instead”. If you can stay home and you want to, do it girl!!!! shine on🥰🥰🥰
I left a comment on one of your vids Maya about how I get your feelings as I've experienced just that. I was studying fashion design and was so damn good at it, it awakened the creativity in me that was oppressed coming from an African family (of you know you know). Started working in my family business after school at the age of 10 and worked non stop till now, I'm 38. When my kids came I gave up my dreams to persue motherhood and chose being a childminder (home based childcare in England). Best decision but this is retrospective. The business grew so fast and my husband left his job to join me. Our daughters are 9 and 11 and I can finally persue my fashion dreams because it doesn't come with thr pressure of HAVING to do it. What I'm saying is, you are flowing anyway Maya and this is intuitive for yiu and I'm glad you're listening. Not listening to your gut means not flowing and then living in survival mode and in turn the things you're passionate about become chores and you can lose yourself as a result. I wish i could have taken time to flow because I got here, where I should be anyway. Pressure is not the one and guess what, you're the director and producer of your journey. These chats with Max must really open up vulnerabilities in both of you that will enable a loving and healthy marriage. Keep it up guys. Everyone, take note xxx
You guys are giving me life ! so glad to witness and hear each of your transforming transitioning and reinventing with such transparency. I feel so free to go everywhere the call leads and with faith
I think this is such a good video. Not just for a married couple, with a baby, learning to live in their new worlds and still try to be individual, but it also really serves those who haven't gotten anywhere near those things yet, but want to. It's inspiring. I think a lot of us think life ends at 30 and that you've got to have everything figured out by then and you're done changing and growing, but if you're a healthy-minded person, you never stop growing, your life only gets fuller and more vivid through the years. And I think this video shows how it's possible to have that family, have careers, and be yourselves. However, yeah, I do think you both complement each other because Maya has had the career and she's settling down more into... domestic life, while Max is now starting to really focus on his work. And the great thing is, you both have experience to help the other and you're both open to growth and learning, as well as having a lot of support and trust from each other to be able to move in different directions, but still know that there is still this home base within your family you can always retreat to. I think a lot of couples break up or divorce because they don't have that foundation and when one or both people start to move in different directions, it gets scary because one or both people think the change will be too much for the relationship to handle. But when you have that foundation, I don't think you worry as much about that and you can focus more on just building life. And you're both right, that is an ultimate dream. You're just learning to live and build together and that's beautiful. Something, I believe, is sorely missing out there in the world of love.
You guys do so well with your videos. They look so professional and it leaves me speechless at the talent that shines through. Why not try a short sitcom. All you need is a problem with a solution. You guys have something special
Happy Mother’s Day my beautiful sister. We are allowed to shift, sway and transform. Though life may be more focused on family and domestication it doesn’t mean you’re less of who you are, just different. A difference that is challenging to anchor as a mom and spouse because yes, “the you” can be consumed in those roles. It’s so great that you’re in tuned with the shift and the preservation of your self. I think you’re on the verge of transforming again. May your mind be open and your SELF be prepared and ready for the change. You have so much around you Maya; nature, your little one, spouse… you have so many new subjects girl. Your passion will manifest, all the very best. Enjoyed this conversation.
Maya you are so creative, that is at the core of you. First thought I had when I saw the photo shoot you posted on Mother's day. and i admire how you have kept us in the loop and still brought a part of you along (you could have just left TH-cam altogether) but you chose to carry on with us in your journey.
I use to be like Maya too, and since the pandemic I shifted too. I am more into gardening, composting, quails ect..living sustainability...i changed my accounting job also for a chill job and I also got a baby at 43.
As someone who is in and has done the field… actually inspired from your wife, I will say this … get specific with what you want in media. The field can be unkind, and in the same sense, it can be rewarding when you see your hard work play out in front of you… Find out what you want to do in media. Do you want to do the television/film route, and if so, are you prepared to be away from your family for a long period of time. On the other hand, do you want to make content/ maybe documentaries? Have fun in your journey. It’s wide and so many avenues, but it can also be hard and mentally draining. I have found a Grace of creating, but on my terms. Good luck on your beautiful journey ❤️
I appreciate your authenticityand transparency in this video. If more people were like that with themselves and others, Im sure the relational dynamics would greatly improve.
Always love who are Maya. Followed you since the beginning of TH-cam for you. Now seeing as a mom and a wife is amazing. Max is amazing too. ❤️ you all
I love you two together it’s so healthy real and beautiful … so glad you have these conversations that encourage others and help them navigate life and relationships xo
I've been here from the beginning when Maya first started and I love every page that has been shared of her life. It's interesting and thought provoking. I love how you make me think about my own life by sharing your perspective. I'm so happy that Max is enjoying his growth. You guys work well together and you always keep us on the edge of our seats waiting for more content. ❤
Romans 12:2 - Don’t be conformed by the makings of this world but be ye transformed by the renewal of your mind ! I WOULD LOVE TO SEE SOME SHAMELESS COMPOSTING ARE YOUUUU CRAZYYYY! You’re brilliant, both of you !! 🤩
Such a beautiful intro. I love how your both in tune with how your feeling with every stage of your life and how transparent your both being. Your taking us along your journey ❤️ it’s beautiful to watch and so relatable. As a mom I can relate to Maya so much! Love love love guys
Maya you been there done that...that's what happens when you get to 40y or over. It is ok to change gears ⚙ your creativity is more natural and maternal. God gives you gifts and skills to be used. This is the time for this. Embrace it and enjoy it. Just do you. Not all that glitter is gold. Take it from a 54 year sista. May God continue to bless you and your family in the name of Jesus Christ 🙏
Max, my husband is sad every time he leaves the children in the morning. The kids cry. They are finally able to understand that daddy works so we can have the things we need and we call him on the phone at work when we really miss him and they have a photo of him that they hug when they miss daddy lol you are stepping into a more traditional role of fatherhood and I think you will enjoy although it is a balancing act. Best of luck to your family 💜💜💜
Oh god, Kelis is my favorite as well. Sauces tutorial?!!!!! I love it ❤️❤️😍😍❤️😍❤️😍...I really love growing and using what I grow to create magic and a food source, as well as aromatherapy. Love these videos.
First of all, thank you both for this video. The ultimate courage as a creative is trusting your intuition about your interests and what makes you feel good. Basically staying true to yourself instead of asking what you 'should be'. Great energy here. Thank you so much.
The awareness you guys have!!!! It’s so incredible!! I adore the relationship each of you have with yourselves and then with each other!! Allowing space for change within yourselves and allowing Space for your partner to choose their own path. It’s so beautiful!!
Ive never been a career focused person - I’ve always dreamed of being a stay at home mom and raising my kids on the land. My passion is growing plants and working with them to help others to heal. At almost 30 I’m beginning a divorce, scrapped all of my work and school plans to move for separation, and I feel like I’m starting from the foundation again. My worry is that my future partner will be put off that I’m rebuilding my financial independence from zero. My hope is that I can build a small business with plants so I can be supportive to the income of the household while I raise our children in community. Thank you all for sharing 🙏🏼❤️
I love that you have moved in a new direktion maya 🌸☀️ But for a while I couldn’t help than to feel, that you are sitting on soooo much knowledge and tips and tricks to living life as a creative, and to be self employed!! I have felt since you kinda changed topic for your channels and audience also, that you would work so good as a mentor or coach to younger creatives! Share your knowledge ✨🥰 I would 1000% book you as a personal guide/mentor to help me forward in my creative career
Love you guys! Especially Maya as a mom, enjoying moming more then the hustle as an educated woman ❤️❤️❤️ My passion is just a life steeped in wellness and love ❤️
I love to see how you guys genuinely support each other's growth and journey as you evolve in your interests. It is refreshing and encouraging to see healthy communication and support in a marriage, it does exist. I love you guys keep doing what you do!
Maya !!!!!! Start a garden series ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I would love to watch that ! I love to create in the soil as well . My husband and I met through music I was a singer and he was a saxophonist and right now in our marriage I feel like we both have definitely moved in separate directions . He’s more into tech now and im all about the “homesteading” life. But like you guys said it’s about including each other in your new interests and and also supporting your partner in there new endeavors. This was a great conversation ❤️
This is so beautiful. This conversation was beautiful. My husband and I have these conversations all the time. And the praying for each other for success. ♥️
You guys aren't walking away from everything. You're walking towards something. Always forward.
Happy Mother’s Day to all the mamas out there!!! Mother’s Day is on the 29th of May here in Sweden 🇸🇪 Reading all the comments here is so heart warming 💕
“ It takes courage to say yes to rest and play in a culture where exhaustion is seen as a status symbol” - Brené Brown
It took me moving out of North America to learn that taking time to enjoy life or choosing a “slower” lifestyle doesn’t = failure.
Amen
That’s a beautiful quote! Is that quote from a book, if so which one ?
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You’re actually not moving in different directions - it’s just a new season and all seasons never last forever . For mum it’s a domestic season now . With baby , building a home , learning new hobbies ( composting ), making a lovely home tor the family . It’s just a different season and that’s perfect because saga will grow and start school then that season might pull you in a different direction .
For dad it’s also a new season . Dads get into this super ambitious season when babies come and that’s understandable because they want to provide .
As partners we might not really match our seasons - we just compromise and try to support where we can
This is the couple every unmarried woman/man need to watch. Because these are the realities us singles need to witness when it comes to marriage. These conversations have been so authentic and pure. I appreciate this. This is the channel where I want to give my free time to in this season of my life.
I could not have said this better myself
Ok, that intro though?? Incredible, i definitely see major brand deals in your future & they’d be lucky to have your creative vision 🤎
We love this! Thank you for your positive energy 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏻
That intro was EVERYTHING!
Didn’t want to like because “222” but I definitely agree with this comment!
Really interesting to hear your take on how building a home is a form of creativity. I think of myself as a non-creative person but I love interior design, cooking, gardening, etc and just haven’t thought of those things as being creative! Creativity isn’t just manifested in traditional forms of art.
You are a creator 🙏🏽❤️
You’re absolutely a creator!
I’ve been following Maya since the head shaving video and in regards to the career shift, I just see it as being in a different season in your life. When u were younger, u had the season of being super busy and multiple videos a week etc. and now that ure a mom & wife, now youre in a season as a homemaker & spouse. When ure a creative person those qualities never leave you they just evolve with you as life goes on.
In regards to Maxx, i feel like he and I are in similar place in regards to wanting pursue career and reach a higher level of peaks in our career.
This is probably the healthiest conversation I have witnessed about this topic. It is normal to have interest change as we grow and it's good that you are both able to support the other in their growth. This is beautiful! Now go make out while Saga is gone🤣
“Will Saga think I’m a fool for walking away from this?” Probably in her teen, adolescent years, or young adult years but when she settles down in life she’ll understand.
Lmao! I thought the question was rhetorical 🤣
I agree
I had to stop the video at 1:58. To say, “Thank you Maya! From the very beginning you’ve been nothing, but transparent with your SHAMELESS journey. All of the ups and downs of being a creator, being single, and now being married and a mom.
To question your life choices and finding balance with your decisions is inspiring for us all.
You and Max have created a great space to continue to inspire us on what it takes to live that creative life in different ways.
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Maya I look forward to the composting, gardening, and lifestyle videos as wife and mother from creative prospective. Max, As fellow creator in entertainment industry, I look forward to seeing what you create.
I see you too doing great projects together maybe a documentary or series of some sort. Something that combines where you both are now on this shameless journey. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Happy Mother’s Day Maya! 💐
Beautiful presentation. Maya, I would love to see more of your interior design and diy’s. You two are so great together.
Noted 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I feel like I’m dreaming seriously. Is this the same Maya we’ve known and loved for 10+ years online? Also this intro is everything! 🙌🏽✨Happy Mother’s Day! God is good! 💕🌸🙏🏽
So happy to see you both growing in your marriage and parenthood. My God continue to bless and keep you.
Maya, I don't think it's weird you've changed where you invest your creative energy. I'm in awe of you and the way you live now.
The most coolest married couple on YT.. I forgot to wish Maya happy Mother’s Day!!!
Most coolest?💀
The communication between the two of you is a recipe for true success
Maya, you are laying the foundation for your life in Sweden. ALL of that has been creative! Redoing the house, garden, greenhouse, raise your daughter…you’re still doing YT and brand deals and yet making it all look so easy. Saga isn’t even a year old and you did that! I’m sure there is a market for people living the country who are in need of photographers, videographers, workshops on tech equipment, or even a “Maya 101” course (designed to take students through how to make a YT channel inc. props, set, budget)…but for now you’re on mat leave so enjoy it!
I am a stay at home mom of three. Also a seamstress and doll maker. I shifted my art to focus on my children so now I make them clothes and toys. I can’t imagine my life without my children or my craft but it took me a while to learn how to intertwine them. There is a ton of creative energy in beautifying a home and creating joy for children ❤️ You got this girl and you are looking so beautiful❤️
Happy Mother's Day mama ❤️ You're doing such an incredible (mindful, loving, open) job.
Thank you 🙏🏽❤️
You both are really growing and evolving together, which is in itself so beautiful to witness. I can definitely relate with Maya. I’m currently on matleave from being a CEO. Being a mom to my little guy (8months) has def given me pause on my career goals (which I too had been frustrated and drained by). Over the last 2 years I too have become an avid plant mommy and gardener (and loving learning about composting especially vermiocomposting or worm composting!). My husband and I moved from downtown Toronto to small town last year. This summer I’m launching my microgreens business which I’m hoping will allow me to have more flexibility to be a more available mommy vs returning to my career. All this to say, I’m inspired by your journeys individually but also as a couple. Wishing you both all the best as you explore your new chapters! ❤️
Right on time! I'm literally in the same boat. I started my channel while i was pregnant and was totally able to put content out and still be creative. When the baby came those first few months I was still able to create during naps....but nowwww..I have zero time. Being a full time stay at home is the hardest thing I ever did in my life, and so rewarding. I felt like I was totally losing myself because every second is dedicated to him and whats next. I came to understand that this is the chapter i'm in and my partner made me realize how fast time will go and to do what I can when I can. Since I have no time to create garments or update my shop, I been learning about soil and plants and giving the apartment some life and that totally been fixing that lil creative buzz I needed!
I hope with all my heart I find myself in a caring, honest and emotionally comforting relationship . I know not all relationships are perfect but there was so much honesty and empathy in this conversation.💜
This INTRO!! This whole video screams....GROWTH and ABUNDANCE!! YES!!
Can I just say that Max is wise beyond his years! I Pray both for both you to succeed in all aspects of your life.
All the green flags in this transparent discussion is simply refreshing. A beauty in seasons/roles changing in a relationship as a woman, mother, wife, and creator. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Maya, you can now use your background in media to share this new passion of yours with others and teach them through videos and storytelling. It's an exciting but very different chapter as a mother & wife, but still an artist and performer. I'm in that same season as I lived & worked in L.A. for 12 years before meeting my husband and having our first child at 35 yrs old. Now i'm 42 and a mama of 3 boys and a widow, and still navigating how to balance motherhood and my journey as an artist. Sending you love and strength, Sis. God has got you!
Wow guys!! This is sooo very deep and real!! You guys are so open to sharing the REAL stuff that happens behind the scenes and for that I applaud you both for your vulnerability and being open to sharing your life to the "world" where there are so many opinionated human beings. Love light and many blessings to you both on this journey and God's continued guidance 🙏🏽🙌🏽
Such a raw, honest conversation that I’ve not seen any other TH-cam couple have. Love it!
It’s so awesome to see how much you have grown, I’m not even sure how I found you, but I do remember it’s when I big chopped for the first time back in 2009/10. I was a stay at home mom when my girls were babies, and then that itch came back for me to get back in the workforce. Fast forward to present day, I’m divorced, my oldest (32, an artist is moving to San Antonio) for a great job opportunity. My youngest (29, who is married & an actress) is living her life. I am now 54 in a sense am starting a new life, w/o my babies. I am part owner of a catering company, and working in corporate, but I’m enjoying the ride. I apologize for all that I wrote. Glad to see the changes you have gone through and continuing to go through. Excited for your future w/ Max and Saga! 🥰
It's so refreshing to see the acknowledgement on what it takes to be a stay at home mama, and still be searching for your sense of self. I have always had an inclination to dive into the realm of healing. I was a tarot reader before having kids, who passionately studied yoga. I've realized now, that being a mother is the purest form of healing, that takes the most dedication and devotion. Maybe we are returning to our true nature by our babies choosing us to heal the collateral. Blessings and a happy mothers day to you, Maya❣
Maya you created a life…..girl live in that moment….that is GODs want for us…go forth and be fruitful….. kids, food, flowers….just grow and be fruitful!!! And I love gardening and would love to see how you compost and grow food, it’s a LARGE community here on YT that would watch you do this!!
Max says, "I didn't mean to expose you." Maya says, "No you can't, I'm shameless." That's a good one! I love how the two of you talk things through. At each stage of our lives, we have to find new meaning that satisfies our passions so we continue to feel whole and happy. And Max, oh my goodness, he's so handsome and kind. You're a beautiful couple, inside and out. My current passion is learning how to paint and selling my masterpieces. I have an innate need to create and bless others with my creations.
Enjoy this time with Saga because it will pass extremely fast. There's nothing wrong with where you are right now and there's no place to get to. Be where you are and I know it's easier said than done.
That intro was incredibly creative and I enjoyed every minute, y’all are sooooo talented
Maya I’ve been watching you since that video of you riding on a bicycle with the camera, with the wind in your hair, in was it Harlem? Then your head shave! Your life! Has been so incredibly inspiring, whatever you do, I’m here for it! You live by your own standards and we need more examples of that 🥹 thank you for shamelessly sharing your life with us.❤️
Firstly - Happy Mother's Day Maya... I am literally twice Max's age but have been watching the journey of you two since I discovered Maya's channel at the beginning of the pandemic... I have been with my husband for 20 years now and we work in the same field, however, we have always been at different and changing levels throughout our careers... We have had moments of unhealthy competition as well as internal guilt, shame and resentment based on our careers... However, what has always saved us - is our love being greater than ambition... And when I see the two of you - - - I am reminded of that love... You two will be just fine because you two are communicating and not burying those emotions... Continued success and thank you both for always sharing your journey... Love, Light and Flow...
Maya I love these sit down videos but I also love seeing the videos you make creating in this new way...gardening, composting, foraging ( my fave), building, designing, exploring the environments around you.
Yooo come through with the creativityyyyy and the visuals and the good peoplllleeee!!! Loved this!
Coming through!!! 😂😂😂
The intro alone had me liking this video! Love!!!!
Not sure if this has already been mentioned…you both should start a podcast together. I loved this video!
Yes we have talked about it. Maybe 🤔
It gives me great pleasure in Awarding Max and Maya 100% A+ for such an informative video. I truly loved it the info was honest and these are things we should discuss with our partners. Thanks for sharing.
Beautiful intro!❤️❤️❤️
I am a new Shameless Maya and Max & Maya living fan and I am OBSESSED with your new content.
I’m also a black Filipina who is engaged to a white man and it’s been inspiring/deeply healing to witness your family grow and create a home in Sweden.
I fucking love plants and babies so YES, please keep creating your beautiful gorgeous lives 🙌🏾❤️🙏🏾🥰
Well how can I vote to get you all an award for that intro...Oh my goodness the roller coast of life changes-you both captured it so well
Happy Mother’s Day Maya ❤️😘
In regards to Maya’s career I think her true fans have been able to see her evolve from the typical role on TH-cam for a long time.
What I like about Maya is how she follows her passion and how she does it whole heartedly. Right now it is like your at a precipice in your journey and I find it most interesting as we get to see you grow and evolve as a mother and a creative.
Be patient with yourself and enjoy your journey. Love to you and Max.
Homemaking, some might argue is the OG creative energy. To create life, a home, a place of prayer, play, peace, and pay IS divine creation. You could have your own homemaking line one day - or kitchen appliances - you never know the things God has up those grand sleeves! This is the gift of womanhood - we are creators by divine design.
What a beautiful and thought provoking presentation. Very creative and insightful!
Thank you Dorris 🙏🏽❤️
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Building from the ground up
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New chapters, New seasons
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Happy Mother's Day, Maya!!!!!!
And I agree, that intro was bomb!
You two creatives are great parents, innovators, and people. Love your story. Thanks for keeping us on your journey.
And I LOVE Kelis as well.
Waw, I need to watch this video again, so many great points. I guess my fear is that hubby and I don’t continue to growth / evolve and stop adding to each other happiness. The storytelling in the beginning was so on point. I appreciate the story next to the story. Have a great great day!
I can relate to this conversation. I left what I knew to be with someone several years ago and have since shifted way off the gameboard. add in marriage, motherhood and I'm trying to figure out what moves me other than my family. I had hobbies, leadership positions, a social life. it's very different.
it seems like you two switched places and I'm glad you (Maya) can be happy watching your husband do what you used to do. I also follow you on ig and the fact that you keep moving and appear to have the same spirit during your transition is inspiring.
Hi Maya, as you said creativity comes in different forms. You can still create something new, at each step in life. Of course the pace of living and expressing yourself in L.A., as a single woman, was way faster than it is now, when you have a long term partner and a small child. Nothing wrong with that.
We have to take into consideration also the 2 years of Covid that disrupted everyone's life... which was not a small crisis.
As for the future, I as a subscriber look forward to seeing what Max will do in terms of growing this channel or anything else related to supporting his family through work projects.
By the way, don't be discouraged for the current situation. It is normal to slow down with work when your child is not even 3 yet.
I think it’s beautiful what you guys are doing. Being a mother is the hardest, “creative” journey you can go on. Shine on too Max! I’ve been married 11 years, both people don’t need to be shining in their careers at the same time. Maya being grounded and Max building his brand IS you guys moving together. Someone has to be the string (Maya) holding the balloon (Max). Saga will never look back and say “I wish my mom left me and worked instead”. If you can stay home and you want to, do it girl!!!! shine on🥰🥰🥰
I left a comment on one of your vids Maya about how I get your feelings as I've experienced just that. I was studying fashion design and was so damn good at it, it awakened the creativity in me that was oppressed coming from an African family (of you know you know). Started working in my family business after school at the age of 10 and worked non stop till now, I'm 38. When my kids came I gave up my dreams to persue motherhood and chose being a childminder (home based childcare in England). Best decision but this is retrospective. The business grew so fast and my husband left his job to join me. Our daughters are 9 and 11 and I can finally persue my fashion dreams because it doesn't come with thr pressure of HAVING to do it. What I'm saying is, you are flowing anyway Maya and this is intuitive for yiu and I'm glad you're listening. Not listening to your gut means not flowing and then living in survival mode and in turn the things you're passionate about become chores and you can lose yourself as a result. I wish i could have taken time to flow because I got here, where I should be anyway. Pressure is not the one and guess what, you're the director and producer of your journey. These chats with Max must really open up vulnerabilities in both of you that will enable a loving and healthy marriage. Keep it up guys. Everyone, take note xxx
You guys are giving me life ! so glad to witness and hear each of your transforming transitioning and reinventing with such transparency. I feel so free to go everywhere the call leads and with faith
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I think this is such a good video. Not just for a married couple, with a baby, learning to live in their new worlds and still try to be individual, but it also really serves those who haven't gotten anywhere near those things yet, but want to. It's inspiring. I think a lot of us think life ends at 30 and that you've got to have everything figured out by then and you're done changing and growing, but if you're a healthy-minded person, you never stop growing, your life only gets fuller and more vivid through the years.
And I think this video shows how it's possible to have that family, have careers, and be yourselves. However, yeah, I do think you both complement each other because Maya has had the career and she's settling down more into... domestic life, while Max is now starting to really focus on his work. And the great thing is, you both have experience to help the other and you're both open to growth and learning, as well as having a lot of support and trust from each other to be able to move in different directions, but still know that there is still this home base within your family you can always retreat to. I think a lot of couples break up or divorce because they don't have that foundation and when one or both people start to move in different directions, it gets scary because one or both people think the change will be too much for the relationship to handle. But when you have that foundation, I don't think you worry as much about that and you can focus more on just building life. And you're both right, that is an ultimate dream. You're just learning to live and build together and that's beautiful. Something, I believe, is sorely missing out there in the world of love.
You guys do so well with your videos. They look so professional and it leaves me speechless at the talent that shines through. Why not try a short sitcom. All you need is a problem with a solution. You guys have something special
Happy Mother’s Day my beautiful sister. We are allowed to shift, sway and transform. Though life may be more focused on family and domestication it doesn’t mean you’re less of who you are, just different. A difference that is challenging to anchor as a mom and spouse because yes, “the you” can be consumed in those roles. It’s so great that you’re in tuned with the shift and the preservation of your self. I think you’re on the verge of transforming again. May your mind be open and your SELF be prepared and ready for the change. You have so much around you Maya; nature, your little one, spouse… you have so many new subjects girl. Your passion will manifest, all the very best. Enjoyed this conversation.
I love the editing, storyline and honesty. Y'all are so cute. Stay blessed ❤️✨
Maya you are so creative, that is at the core of you. First thought I had when I saw the photo shoot you posted on Mother's day. and i admire how you have kept us in the loop and still brought a part of you along (you could have just left TH-cam altogether) but you chose to carry on with us in your journey.
I use to be like Maya too, and since the pandemic I shifted too. I am more into gardening, composting, quails ect..living sustainability...i changed my accounting job also for a chill job and I also got a baby at 43.
I love this for Max-ya.
As someone who is in and has done the field… actually inspired from your wife, I will say this … get specific with what you want in media. The field can be unkind, and in the same sense, it can be rewarding when you see your hard work play out in front of you… Find out what you want to do in media. Do you want to do the television/film route, and if so, are you prepared to be away from your family for a long period of time. On the other hand, do you want to make content/ maybe documentaries? Have fun in your journey. It’s wide and so many avenues, but it can also be hard and mentally draining. I have found a Grace of creating, but on my terms. Good luck on your beautiful journey ❤️
That intro was everything! 🤎👏🏽
I appreciate your authenticityand transparency in this video. If more people were like that with themselves and others, Im sure the relational dynamics would greatly improve.
Always love who are Maya. Followed you since the beginning of TH-cam for you. Now seeing as a mom and a wife is amazing. Max is amazing too. ❤️ you all
Danggggg guys. On point and hit home real hard today in a good way.
I love you two together it’s so healthy real and beautiful … so glad you have these conversations that encourage others and help them navigate life and relationships xo
I've been here from the beginning when Maya first started and I love every page that has been shared of her life. It's interesting and thought provoking. I love how you make me think about my own life by sharing your perspective. I'm so happy that Max is enjoying his growth. You guys work well together and you always keep us on the edge of our seats waiting for more content. ❤
Romans 12:2 - Don’t be conformed by the makings of this world but be ye transformed by the renewal of your mind !
I WOULD LOVE TO SEE SOME SHAMELESS COMPOSTING ARE YOUUUU CRAZYYYY! You’re brilliant, both of you !! 🤩
Such a beautiful intro. I love how your both in tune with how your feeling with every stage of your life and how transparent your both being. Your taking us along your journey ❤️ it’s beautiful to watch and so relatable. As a mom I can relate to Maya so much! Love love love guys
The beginning was Gold! ✨
The best intro I have ever seen… wow that was amazing. I had to send this to my husband!
That was an amazing conversation that a lot people should have … cloudy days, remember this conversation…
Funny Maya mentioned Kelis! Your new lifestyle reminds me of hers. Farmlife but she's still very creative!
Maya you been there done that...that's what happens when you get to 40y or over. It is ok to change gears ⚙ your creativity is more natural and maternal. God gives you gifts and skills to be used. This is the time for this. Embrace it and enjoy it. Just do you. Not all that glitter is gold. Take it from a 54 year sista. May God continue to bless you and your family in the name of Jesus Christ 🙏
Max, my husband is sad every time he leaves the children in the morning. The kids cry. They are finally able to understand that daddy works so we can have the things we need and we call him on the phone at work when we really miss him and they have a photo of him that they hug when they miss daddy lol you are stepping into a more traditional role of fatherhood and I think you will enjoy although it is a balancing act. Best of luck to your family 💜💜💜
Amazing! You can create in different ways, and then you can always go back!
Oh god, Kelis is my favorite as well. Sauces tutorial?!!!!! I love it ❤️❤️😍😍❤️😍❤️😍...I really love growing and using what I grow to create magic and a food source, as well as aromatherapy. Love these videos.
Omg the intro!!! Was so good!
Love the realness and vulnerability! That intro was dope af! Love yall! Thank you for the beauty! ❤
First of all, thank you both for this video. The ultimate courage as a creative is trusting your intuition about your interests and what makes you feel good. Basically staying true to yourself instead of asking what you 'should be'. Great energy here. Thank you so much.
The awareness you guys have!!!! It’s so incredible!! I adore the relationship each of you have with yourselves and then with each other!! Allowing space for change within yourselves and allowing Space for your partner to choose their own path. It’s so beautiful!!
Ive never been a career focused person - I’ve always dreamed of being a stay at home mom and raising my kids on the land. My passion is growing plants and working with them to help others to heal. At almost 30 I’m beginning a divorce, scrapped all of my work and school plans to move for separation, and I feel like I’m starting from the foundation again. My worry is that my future partner will be put off that I’m rebuilding my financial independence from zero. My hope is that I can build a small business with plants so I can be supportive to the income of the household while I raise our children in community.
Thank you all for sharing 🙏🏼❤️
I love that you have moved in a new direktion maya 🌸☀️ But for a while I couldn’t help than to feel, that you are sitting on soooo much knowledge and tips and tricks to living life as a creative, and to be self employed!!
I have felt since you kinda changed topic for your channels and audience also, that you would work so good as a mentor or coach to younger creatives! Share your knowledge ✨🥰 I would 1000% book you as a personal guide/mentor to help me forward in my creative career
Great video 💕 Happy Mother’s Day Maya!!!
Love you guys! Especially Maya as a mom, enjoying moming more then the hustle as an educated woman ❤️❤️❤️ My passion is just a life steeped in wellness and love ❤️
I love to see how you guys genuinely support each other's growth and journey as you evolve in your interests. It is refreshing and encouraging to see healthy communication and support in a marriage, it does exist. I love you guys keep doing what you do!
I LOVE YOU GUYS! THAT INTRO WAS AMAZING !!!!!!! Omg goosebumps. That was so clear and so beautiful WOW
Love this happy Mother’s Day ❤️😍 maya you deserve it all continue to smile from ear to ear sending you all so much love
This is such an important topic! Thank you for raising it!
Max your a star in your own right and Compliment each other. Both you bring wonderful things to the table. Be patient with each other.💖💓❤
Love how authentic and open you guys are! Wishing you many blessing and love your way! 🙏🏻💞✨
This is beautiful! You’re creating now, with every word you share 💞
That intro was LIT…more of that…🔥.
Maya !!!!!! Start a garden series ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I would love to watch that ! I love to create in the soil as well . My husband and I met through music I was a singer and he was a saxophonist and right now in our marriage I feel like we both have definitely moved in separate directions . He’s more into tech now and im all about the “homesteading” life. But like you guys said it’s about including each other in your new interests and and also supporting your partner in there new endeavors. This was a great conversation ❤️
This is so beautiful. This conversation was beautiful. My husband and I have these conversations all the time. And the praying for each other for success. ♥️
Wow bravo!!! That intro was expressed beautifully from the both of you. Thank you so much for sharing.
I love you two together. Saga is a blessed baby to have the two of you.
Well done! Love the editing on this one! 🥰