Maybe you should focus on figuring out WHY you've had to rebuild MANY TIMES and why you are now doing it again at 39. This video has nothing to do with WHAT YOU HAVE. It's not about possessions, it's about MEANING.
@@awf80 to other people it doesn't matter...you are trying to bully a commenter and im the victim now hush up before I really gen z this bitch... btw I'm 40
@@awf80 im not a pussy I took lots of risks and im in great shape I got plenny of money ive worked hard and will always work hard im fine my point is your all scared
I pary for everyone on here! I pray for your strength, health and protection! In Jesus name AMEN! I love all of you and with Jesus you can do anything! Been sober for over 5 years but you have to let God guide you, not yourself!
Human brain requires down time, so to say, where it’s not under load from any external factors, in order for it to process things you are thinking about. That’s why it’s good to take a walk without headphones or drive in a car without the radio on because you resolve the conflicts that have an impact on your conscious and subconscious mind. It’s a form of meditation through solitude.
7 years clean and sober. Im doing marvelous things with my life. I love waking up EVERY MORNING ❤LIFE IS WHAT WE MAKE OF IT. Understand your dragon. You define it.
I'm 467 days sober. I don't love waking up yet. Feels like such a depressing grind still. Just coffee , work out, work just to feel like I'm not getting anywhere especially towards financial freedom. I dunno . It's night and day better than it was . Hope I start feeling happy again one day
Congratulations 🎉 3,285 days sobriety for me ❤all by the grace of GOD & 12 simple steps 😊on 5-10-2015 I surrendered my drunken life for SOULBRIETY ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I kid you not. About five years ago my life essentially fell apart at age 25. Everything was in chaos and shambles. I realized how stupid I was and that I needed to completely restructure how I live and what I value - Jordan Peterson was the main voice I listened to for how to go about this Five years later and it’s all worked. Life is enormously better and will continue to improve. If your life is in shambles - JP life advice is what you need
Bro, mine has splintered into absolute shards of catastrophe a month before my 44th birthday. I have selfishly relied on my partner for 14 years and not built anything stable for myself. I found out she was messaging another dude for like 2 years. She says nothing physical has happened but she's away for work conferences a couple of times a year, staying in the same hotels this guy stays in, I think it's obvious that's not true. It may have been my fault but I simply felt absolutely insecure and couldn't continue a relationship with the woman I know for sure is the best person I could spend the rest of my life with. It might be cliche but stuff like this may actually save my life over the next year or so. Absolutely terrified. But it's not just us. Be strong man.
@@bigwetsalmon1 it works. Trust the process. Is life even worth living if you don’t get to experience the absolute destruction and redemption of it? I doubt it
@@joenichols3901 I'm physically and mentally at day one of the process. I have a lot of addictions to face and give up. We'll see what happens. Thanks for your words dude 👍
@@bigwetsalmon1 keep it up, keep listening to jordan petersons life advice, ignore politics for now.... you're 44. Statistically you'll live around another forty years so you've barely live half your life. People at 22 in your position tell themselves its too late to change lol... such nonsense. Spend the next six years completely fixing your life (do what Jordan suggests) and you can spend decades a much happier man with a meaningful life It works. Just put your head down and work on yourself for a few years.
@@bigwetsalmon1 accountability is the first step to making changes. I've been in a similar situation before and I understand your pain and I hope you're doing well. It's hard to not have that feeling of regret but what's in the past can't be changed and you only have control over what you do. It's important to understand that cheating on someone is a cowardish thing to do and no matter how you feel about the situation, you need to at least know that in the back of your head. On the other hand though, take it as a learning experience because you want to at least take something good away from the relationship. Try to reflect on things you might have done to let something like that happen and what you can do in the future to prevent it. At the end of the day the blame is on both parties usually and can't be completely one-sided so it's important to reflect.
1. Ask = prayers and supplications specific to your goals. 2. Seek = knowledge acquisition, skills building and networking. 3. Knock = perseverance and endurance in the pursuit of your goals.
@@Ch0senJuan Except this is the formula Jesus prescribed. Are you more wise than Christ? I am not. Start at step 1. Prayer changes you. Specific prayers help you define your goals. Faith is essential to success. One man plants, another waters, but only God brings the growth.
2 minutes in and I have tears streaming down my face. I’ve been self destructing for a few years now. I see everything that I’m doing wrong but feel completely aimless and powerless to stop myself from continuing the decline. I have moments of inspiration and motivation, but they quickly fade. I’m lost.
I’m sorry and I know how you feel. Don’t give up trying and a tiny bit of progress is better than none and worth celebrating until it becomes easier and easier to tackle bigger chunks
Jordan Peterson rambles on like the thoughts in my mind! I love listening to him 😅. One day I will figure it all out and praise God for sending JP who has helped so many people.
Perfectly captures Jordan's roots from Northern Alberta while having that solemn sort of feel. Sort of like shower thoughts, but on that long stretch of road instead. It can be sobering, but makes me want to detatch myself from my emotions
I smoke daily since 14 years ago. Its addictive. Same as all dopamine boosters. Energy drinks.. porn.. cigarettes.. even food. Any dopamine thing is potential for addiction. And my doc wants me on adderall. A 20x dopamine boost. S m h
same, if I don't smoke I'm irritable and everything bothers me. Everyone says I should get on medication but I think I need to learn to love myself as I am without any outside influences.
@@okaminmbr9 take mushrooms bro youll find that happiness. ive smoked every day since i was 14 and im 20 now and finally taking a break for the first time and it feels amazing on the other side. Don't take the medication bro I promise there's natural ways to go about it and in my opinion mushrooms are the best for self love and empathy
@@okaminmbr9 just be cautious though, they can be strong. Make sure you're in a relaxing environment and have the mindset going into it that you're not afraid but you're going to let it happen and learn from the experience
Ive started over from scratch 5 times...now im not starting over anymore...im just scratching 😅. Best to live a minimalist lifestyle because as soon as you accumulate something the wolves are at the door. As far as im concerned...the least attractive you make yourself in this world the easier life gets.
I have found this to be true as well. All a man needs is a quiet out of the way place to live, some tools, a pew pew, someplace to stash some cash, maybe a cheap vehicle you can work on, and don't attract attention to yourself.
Jordan Peterson is like the father I wish I had grown up with. I'm sure if I asked his kids it wasn't idealic but he is brilliant and so are his children.
.. as a German Biologist - we ALWAYS start from “scratch” this is about the Path to Mastery in the vastest sense like studying Music and an Instrument to learn to practise that diligently and respecting the Great Masters and their Works to engage lively with other Musicians and learn from and with them In Science it is far tougher - as we never can know what is “rigth” and what is “delusion” we are mostly locked up in Pre Judices and Delusions - and refuse to open the Mind to expand the Mental Band Width and learn from others who all go as far as Humans can to be ready to STOP any BAD attitude and behaviour to be Humble and learning with Gratitude and we never reach the Top of anything as our Minds are far too limited...
Yes I have heard that new discoveries and theories have difficulty finding acceptance in the scientific fields. People become very attached to their beliefs and can't change them easily. It becomes part of their egos and will be defended to the death. An unfortunate reality. A course on ego control should be part of the scientific curriculums. It may be very helpful in this regard as it is certainly a barrier to advancements. 🙋🏼♀️👍
The thing is you have to want to change and leave your past self behind. You don’t want to do that. Or else you discover the bigger and deeper problems around your life
It sounds like you are very unhappy with your life. You are where many people are rn. I'm my opinion, once you have found a way to have a roof and food, you have to find a purpose for living. That is the hard part. You have to find out what it is that you really value in life. An example is, if you love horses, get a job around horses. If you hate the results of the oil and gas industry, don't work in that field. I found purpose working for the City maintaining parks. I was willing to get up at 5:30 am and work 10 hr days because I felt good about my contribution to the people of my city. Work in an area that you have an interest in. Then when you learn as you work it will more fulfilling. Many sports stars stay in the sports field after their athletic careers because that is their main interest. It is hard to figure out what kind of work can give you a purpose but it is worth figuring out. Sometimes you can find it by deciding what areas you are NOT interested in. Then you are left with only a few to chose from so it's easier to chose one to commit to. With a purpose, you then have a direction to move in to find fulfillment and meaning in your life. They lifestyle that is reflecting your lack of purpose will change without much effort because you will not depend on it to give you the tiny bits of joy you need to face another day. I think this is the key to a good life but no one really tells you this. They just tell you to follow your interests and that doesn't pay the bills. My interests are watching TV and reading. I love animals but I don't want to care for them full time so that's out. I didn't know I liked horticulture until I started working for the city. Now I know there is a limit to what I am willing to do to climb the ladder at my job. I'm on to the next job in banking. I want to know more about how banking works. I will have a reason to go to work besides my paycheque. I'm thinking about a student loan to study archeology. I love that stuff and would love to spend my days digging in the dirt to find artifacts. I think I will be required to do that right away in school so I would find a lot of fulfilment doing that. And if I ever managed to find an ancient artifact that had been buried for thousands of years, I would be thrilled. Anyway, I think that is the way to a build a meaningful and fulfilling life. Add in a wife and family and you will also find the joy that it can bring. You can have that too. Best wishes for a good life dear. 🙋🏼♀️💖🌈
@@SkitzoBenjamin yeah it’s possible to quit drinking. I drank a bottle a bottle of vodka a day at the end of my alcoholism. Go walk into any hospital or detox center and tell them you’re an alcoholic and need to stop drinking. They give you meds to help. You stay there for around 5 days, then go to a 12 step focused rehab or AA meetings.
This is absolutely amazing I love this man he’s completely given me the confidence to overcome ANYTHING ❤🙏🏽 Jordan is a blessing to humanity thank God 🙏🏽🫶🏼
Nothing in life that is valuable comes for free. You will sacrifice/pay the price now, or you will sacrifice/pay the price later. Unfortunately, or fortunately, depending how you view it, the sacrifice is required.
This feels like my driving by myself. Snow, voices in my head and the future behind me. I love Subaru and Canada , what combo for enjoying this crazy marble. Have an excellent day whoever sees this, I love and I'm proud of you.
These traits raise your vibration so that you have the bandwidth to be greatly receptive --> above others, to the information that is streamlined to us, yes.
The best newest buzzword I've heard to describe Jordan Peterson was "toxic positivity". 😂 If that means identifying my bulshit and being honest with myself I guess I'm toxically positive.😅
If you show the "wrong" highest aim to the world, some will try to stop you. Many choose the broad road to hell, not only for themselves, but for you as well. You got to know when to hold them, know when to fold them, know when to walk away, know when to run.
Have you considered the possibility that what you want may not be a specific person, but the feeling of loving and being loved by someone special to you?
Incredibly most things, I've dreamt of, I channeled myself towards it, put in the effort and bingo! Things happened and suddenly I was living my desires. I've had set backs also, things thrown at me from external forces, poor choices I've made, back to square one again, oh joy! Rather than beat myself up for poor choices whatever, I pick myself up, dust myself off, think ok am I going to continue on this path? I've learnt one thing. Seems evolution comes not only from good choices but from failure and embracing it! Failure is a blessing if we learn from it.
14:00 This speaks directly to me. I'm an extremely logical thinker(self proclaimed of course), but I have trouble looking at myself objectively, mostly because I don't like what I see. I'm a grown baby, and part of me wants to blame it on my lack of suffering. 20:05 More questions that I ask myself every single day. I feel so lazy that I cannot even do the "pointless" things that I want to do like playing video games half the time. I feel like most of the time I'd rather mindless scroll YT or even worse watch twitch. I would love to spontaneously dive into something that takes no "effort" on my part to pursue, as in I don't have to go out of my way to WILL myself out of bed just to do it, I actively want to do it, and the world would benefit from me doing it. I know. It's naive.
I’m a liberal feminist and Peterson is supposedly my “enemy” but I admire him (save in social media where he’s an idiot like everyone). His rule “never make anything worse” transformed my life 8 years ago. For that I’m eternally grateful. Edit: what a mind blowing presentation of these essential ideas. I’m extra amazed - I lost my life partner suddenly 2 years ago. Today is our anniversary and it’s time for me to look at how much I’ve been hiding behind my grief. Thank you for making this video.
I also cringe at his online persona, but he genuinely gives incredible life advice that can be applied to everyone regardless of their political leanings. It comes from his years as a psychologist helping people. I’ve always found him to be fascinating when he talks a psychology and self-help.
Thank you I really needed to hear this I get confused about what I want and my self esteem gets in the way 😊 want to set some goals which I know what they are and I need to ask for help I know what I want but afraid to pursue it but know if I don’t I’ll be sad and have wasted my time on this new Endeavor people say your old now you can’t do this kind of stuff at your age I, 61 I’m not a spring chicken but if I try I can do this loose my stupid ego
45:45 - 46:03 August 29 2005 Wasn't the happiest i ever felt, It was THE Freest. And it dont last before your covered back stuck with all missed manages time stoves darkening over arch back shadowing fastly past days fulfilled tensions.
Gratitude. Just be appreciative of every goofy thing. Sunsets, trees. Good coffee. Breathing. The interconnectedness of EVERYTHING. Gratitude helps a lot. It helps overcome the victimhood mentality which is a lot of ego.
My father in law recently passed away. His wife is going through the process of preparing for his funeral. She is also in the process of mourning, as well as her family. Yes, his failures and mistakes were brought up, but that’s not what people will remember him by. The photos of him that people have are of him smiling, on the beach, arm in arm, and laughing. When people go, the ones who love you will love you, despite anything. We are not perfect and good people know that and won’t be so strict, as long as you struggled for good.
Don't forget that Jesus was crucified. The world doesn't like Jesus. He is too good. They didn't understand him and accused him of things He didn't do or say. Be careful. If you are burned out you have been giving too much. You have to find your limits and communicate them to those around you so they don't demand or expect more from you than you can deliver. You have to develope boundaries that protect you from being over worked or taken advantage of. You may have to start fresh at a new job to be able to establish new boundaries because the last place got used to you doing more than you should be to sustain your health. If it's relationship responsibilities that have burned you out, you must insist on getting help. Either your spouse or paid support is available to take the load lighter. I broke up with a guy because he refused to do household chores. We could have just hired somebody and that would have solved the issue. I didn't know that option was available at the time. 🤷♀️ Live and learn.
@@leanne123 Everyone's dead except my mother. She rented me to child porn producing pedophiles when I was a kid, because she was a cocaine addict. She's an actual psychopath who groomed me into only living to serve psychopaths. My ex-wife is one too, she poisoned our child twice and nearly killed him, got away with it because her dad is a retired cop now turned retired politician. I'm completely alone in this world. I've heard the advice, none of it seems to have much effect at this point. It's like asking a dog to be a cat, "just try this suggestion", nope, still not a cat...
Guess I fucked up pretty badly ... I constantly live in a state of thinking of past and people who I used to see ... pretty annoying are they and I do have them as reactions to present moments ...
Keep going. It will get worse before it gets better. Don't run from the difficulties. Suffer through them, it's the price for sobriety. It's a gift. Your brain needs to re-learn and re-orient to new reward systems. Stay the course and keep looking for the lighthouse and you will find it. Good luck.
Give it time. It takes your mind a while to reprogram itself to see life life without the haze of alcohol. Something I did after I stopped drinking was making myself run. I started out slow and built up to longer runs. I sweated all the alcohol out of me and felt more at peace. You can also start sitting in an infrared sauna to get it out of you quicker too. When I was young I drank beer to "have a good time." After several years of always drinking, it wasn't fun anymore and became depressed. Logic kicked in and I quit cold turkey. It took me a while to see life different. I had to learn how to have fun by appreciating the little things in life for happiness; things like: looking forward to the seasons changing planting things the antics of dogs and small children enjoying the company of down to earth sober people putting together WW II models going for long walks staring at sunsets storms/blizzards a good meal fixing something that most people would throw away road trips to desolate places reading about something your interested in fishing Hang in there, it takes time, someday you will realize you have no need for alcohol.
May compassion, patience, and wisdom, win over Love, hate, and the greed for god money. Che la compassione, la pazienza, e la saggezza, vincano sull'amore, l'odio, e la fame per il dio denaro.
Dad was just gone, was 13. Shipped from Conn to Oregon. One yr later it was Denver. Start over, start over. Then after struggle of immense immenseness, a month in motel then studio apt. All I do is work. Years of this, like 20. Finally the odds of some headstrong but just as lost female sees I'm a positive to add to her life. I'm a good Entitlements candidate, of course I learn this the hard way. 25 yrs of hard work we are in this barely successful rental house endeavor. Have three, with down payment for fourth. It's Entitlements time. She goes of with this destitute sweetalking Metro Taxi driver. His pattern is helping wives take as much as possible, then live off her winnings. Now it's struggling again. These laws caused this, again.
I sounds like you were doing well with or without the woman. If she gets half then she got half the debt too. If you had to cash out to pay her off then do it again WITHOUT her. You know how to do it now. It he bank also knows you would be successful except for the divorce. They can help you get started again. You lost a disloyal person. That's a good thing. You are in a better position now without a person who would hurt you like that. I'm sorry she deceived you. It's not your fault you trusted her. Don't blame yourself for falling for it. They play the part well until they don't. It happens alot. She'll regret it in time. 🤷♀️💖🌈
I've rebuilt my life in 3 months from scratch many times... im 39 doing it again..no one cares what you have or how u get it just get it
Hell yeah keep it up
Maybe you should focus on figuring out WHY you've had to rebuild MANY TIMES and why you are now doing it again at 39. This video has nothing to do with WHAT YOU HAVE. It's not about possessions, it's about MEANING.
And it absolutely matters "how you get it" I think maybe you don't understand ANY of these talking points AT ALL.
@@awf80 to other people it doesn't matter...you are trying to bully a commenter and im the victim now hush up before I really gen z this bitch... btw I'm 40
@@awf80 im not a pussy I took lots of risks and im in great shape I got plenny of money ive worked hard and will always work hard im fine my point is your all scared
I pary for everyone on here! I pray for your strength, health and protection! In Jesus name AMEN! I love all of you and with Jesus you can do anything! Been sober for over 5 years but you have to let God guide you, not yourself!
Dodge, pary, thrust!"- Daffy Duck
There’s something therapeutic about a late night drive
especially with snow
Both conscious and unconscious are aiming to a goal. Thats why
That’s night? 😊
Human brain requires down time, so to say, where it’s not under load from any external factors, in order for it to process things you are thinking about. That’s why it’s good to take a walk without headphones or drive in a car without the radio on because you resolve the conflicts that have an impact on your conscious and subconscious mind. It’s a form of meditation through solitude.
@@starscream007 well said brother
7 years clean and sober. Im doing marvelous things with my life. I love waking up EVERY MORNING ❤LIFE IS WHAT WE MAKE OF IT. Understand your dragon. You define it.
Hey you just made me realise which dragons I have slayed
I'm 467 days sober. I don't love waking up yet. Feels like such a depressing grind still. Just coffee , work out, work just to feel like I'm not getting anywhere especially towards financial freedom. I dunno . It's night and day better than it was . Hope I start feeling happy again one day
Keep on keeping on! It really does matter.
Congratulations 🎉 3,285 days sobriety for me ❤all by the grace of GOD & 12 simple steps 😊on 5-10-2015 I surrendered my drunken life for SOULBRIETY ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
AMEN!
I kid you not. About five years ago my life essentially fell apart at age 25. Everything was in chaos and shambles. I realized how stupid I was and that I needed to completely restructure how I live and what I value - Jordan Peterson was the main voice I listened to for how to go about this
Five years later and it’s all worked. Life is enormously better and will continue to improve. If your life is in shambles - JP life advice is what you need
Bro, mine has splintered into absolute shards of catastrophe a month before my 44th birthday. I have selfishly relied on my partner for 14 years and not built anything stable for myself. I found out she was messaging another dude for like 2 years. She says nothing physical has happened but she's away for work conferences a couple of times a year, staying in the same hotels this guy stays in, I think it's obvious that's not true. It may have been my fault but I simply felt absolutely insecure and couldn't continue a relationship with the woman I know for sure is the best person I could spend the rest of my life with. It might be cliche but stuff like this may actually save my life over the next year or so. Absolutely terrified. But it's not just us. Be strong man.
@@bigwetsalmon1 it works. Trust the process.
Is life even worth living if you don’t get to experience the absolute destruction and redemption of it? I doubt it
@@joenichols3901 I'm physically and mentally at day one of the process. I have a lot of addictions to face and give up. We'll see what happens. Thanks for your words dude 👍
@@bigwetsalmon1 keep it up, keep listening to jordan petersons life advice, ignore politics for now.... you're 44. Statistically you'll live around another forty years so you've barely live half your life. People at 22 in your position tell themselves its too late to change lol... such nonsense. Spend the next six years completely fixing your life (do what Jordan suggests) and you can spend decades a much happier man with a meaningful life
It works. Just put your head down and work on yourself for a few years.
@@bigwetsalmon1 accountability is the first step to making changes. I've been in a similar situation before and I understand your pain and I hope you're doing well. It's hard to not have that feeling of regret but what's in the past can't be changed and you only have control over what you do. It's important to understand that cheating on someone is a cowardish thing to do and no matter how you feel about the situation, you need to at least know that in the back of your head. On the other hand though, take it as a learning experience because you want to at least take something good away from the relationship. Try to reflect on things you might have done to let something like that happen and what you can do in the future to prevent it. At the end of the day the blame is on both parties usually and can't be completely one-sided so it's important to reflect.
"Do you have anything better to do?" Nope. *gets to work*
Saddening.
Damn
Its what they want to condense us as men, so they can live easy. @@beam3036
1. Ask = prayers and supplications specific to your goals. 2. Seek = knowledge acquisition, skills building and networking. 3. Knock = perseverance and endurance in the pursuit of your goals.
1. Skip the prayers and go immediately to step 2.
@@Ch0senJuan Except this is the formula Jesus prescribed. Are you more wise than Christ? I am not. Start at step 1. Prayer changes you. Specific prayers help you define your goals. Faith is essential to success. One man plants, another waters, but only God brings the growth.
@@actorjay Great comments. Sophisticated insight.
@@yotil2360 Thank you, sir. It's a recent insight. God bless you.
Amen
2 minutes in and I have tears streaming down my face. I’ve been self destructing for a few years now. I see everything that I’m doing wrong but feel completely aimless and powerless to stop myself from continuing the decline. I have moments of inspiration and motivation, but they quickly fade. I’m lost.
I’m sorry and I know how you feel. Don’t give up trying and a tiny bit of progress is better than none and worth celebrating until it becomes easier and easier to tackle bigger chunks
Now go listen to David goggins
Learn to become a phoenix
Good luck brother
And remember to take chances in life, Columbus did
you deserve a nice life man, hope it works out.
Keep going! Create a vision and stay focused on that, read JP’s book it completely turned my life around :)
Hi there, your comment resonates with my Life. I wish you for you that you have the strength and determination for your Life ❤️
I have struggled with addiction for a long time . thanks for giving me hope mr Peterson. I am going to start my journey . ❤
Jordans a modern day genius, one of the greatest thinkers of our era.
Jordan Peterson is the epitome of "a dumb guy's idea of a smart guy", hate to break it to you.
I've started from scratch so many times, I'm all out of scratch.
62 and at the end of my rope.
Tied a knot and just hanging on!
It ain’t over!
You made it this far; God has a purpose for you.
@@rogerhilmer2791
That's my sincerest hope!
Me too, I am 53 and starting over again. I'm getting too old for this shit with not having any help.
Find a new purpose.Find a real reason to live.
Try a healthy diet.
Try volunteering in a good cause
Cleaning my room has given me tremendous amount of clarity recently getting over PTSD
I am 60....need to completely start over somewhere new.....need a plan and a way
59⛷️
61🫠
Good luck young man. Go get it, the sky is your limit.
Me Too.
Starting over is an addiction.
I seem to be more comfortable and alive rebuilding structures I’ve torn down…
Crazy neuro pathways…..🤪
indeed…
Jordan Peterson rambles on like the thoughts in my mind! I love listening to him 😅. One day I will figure it all out and praise God for sending JP who has helped so many people.
Me too. One day, I ll figure it out soon
What he is saying is…..stop trying to figure it out….Act.
What's the music at the beginning of the video?
you will never figure it out ever
He's not rambling these are edits from lectures and podcast and such.
Good visual for the audio
Perfectly captures Jordan's roots from Northern Alberta while having that solemn sort of feel. Sort of like shower thoughts, but on that long stretch of road instead.
It can be sobering, but makes me want to detatch myself from my emotions
I'm actually thrilled this has been reuploaded so many time. It always seems to pop up in my recommended feed just when I need it.
Peterson is one of the best speakers of the current era.
Very well rounded. Thank you for this
Smoking weed too much daily -_-
I smoke daily since 14 years ago. Its addictive. Same as all dopamine boosters.
Energy drinks.. porn.. cigarettes.. even food.
Any dopamine thing is potential for addiction.
And my doc wants me on adderall. A 20x dopamine boost. S m h
Keep the promise you made to yourself and don’t smoke this today
same, if I don't smoke I'm irritable and everything bothers me. Everyone says I should get on medication but I think I need to learn to love myself as I am without any outside influences.
@@okaminmbr9 take mushrooms bro youll find that happiness. ive smoked every day since i was 14 and im 20 now and finally taking a break for the first time and it feels amazing on the other side. Don't take the medication bro I promise there's natural ways to go about it and in my opinion mushrooms are the best for self love and empathy
@@okaminmbr9 just be cautious though, they can be strong. Make sure you're in a relaxing environment and have the mindset going into it that you're not afraid but you're going to let it happen and learn from the experience
Ive started over from scratch 5 times...now im not starting over anymore...im just scratching 😅.
Best to live a minimalist lifestyle because as soon as you accumulate something the wolves are at the door.
As far as im concerned...the least attractive you make yourself in this world the easier life gets.
Interesting perspective... 9:15 🍿👀🌊🐬📺🦸⛷️ I need to go skiing before I get too old
I have found this to be true as well. All a man needs is a quiet out of the way place to live, some tools, a pew pew, someplace to stash some cash, maybe a cheap vehicle you can work on, and don't attract attention to yourself.
Jordan Peterson is like the father I wish I had grown up with. I'm sure if I asked his kids it wasn't idealic but he is brilliant and so are his children.
I desire to not be so depressed, so i can genuinely "desire" and follow through.
Google the hierarchy of needs pyramid. Just trust me. Lol. It'll add clarity anyway.
@@MommaLousKitchen Maslow's heirchy of needs? As in shelter, food etc?
@@XanderShiller that one!
@@XanderShiller where you at one there?
Thank god Canada didn’t lock this guy up like they wanted to.
Perfect timing to be hearing this. Thank you.
Bravo!! I love how you set the mood with this audio by taking a drive on a snowy winter day. Thank-you for sharing this!
Ty fr the ride n the lesson...see ya❤
.. as a German Biologist -
we ALWAYS start from “scratch”
this is about the Path to Mastery
in the vastest sense
like studying Music and an Instrument
to learn to practise that diligently
and respecting the Great Masters
and their Works
to engage lively with other Musicians
and learn from and with them
In Science it is far tougher -
as we never can know
what is “rigth”
and what is “delusion”
we are mostly locked up in Pre Judices
and Delusions
- and refuse to open the Mind
to expand the Mental Band Width
and learn from others
who all go as far as Humans can
to be ready to STOP
any BAD attitude and behaviour
to be Humble
and learning with Gratitude
and we never reach the Top of anything
as our Minds are far too limited...
Moving. Very moving. You left me with something fabulous to think of today. I'm sure you have a brilliant mind. ❤
Yes I have heard that new discoveries and theories have difficulty finding acceptance in the scientific fields. People become very attached to their beliefs and can't change them easily. It becomes part of their egos and will be defended to the death. An unfortunate reality. A course on ego control should be part of the scientific curriculums. It may be very helpful in this regard as it is certainly a barrier to advancements. 🙋🏼♀️👍
Audio clipped from Motivation Madness 1hr and 3hr compilations of JP, btw.
Love your video bruv,I have listened that audio 1000 times,different landscape that same energy level,keep it up,amazing mind and soul remedy
You are an incredible educator! God bless you!
Great channel, I am so glad I came across this you and you definitely keep it up!
Love the video of you driving in the snow!
Me too, oddly soothing lol.
This is good. Thank you for making this.
Excellent compilation good job
And here we are once again, starting from scratch. God speed!
Drinking daily, not working out, and not cleaning enough.
The thing is you have to want to change and leave your past self behind. You don’t want to do that. Or else you discover the bigger and deeper problems around your life
Stop drinking.
If you can’t, you have a problem. Seek 12 step meetings. Working out and cleaning will come after you stop drinking.
It sounds like you are very unhappy with your life. You are where many people are rn. I'm my opinion, once you have found a way to have a roof and food, you have to find a purpose for living. That is the hard part. You have to find out what it is that you really value in life. An example is, if you love horses, get a job around horses. If you hate the results of the oil and gas industry, don't work in that field. I found purpose working for the City maintaining parks. I was willing to get up at 5:30 am and work 10 hr days because I felt good about my contribution to the people of my city. Work in an area that you have an interest in. Then when you learn as you work it will more fulfilling. Many sports stars stay in the sports field after their athletic careers because that is their main interest. It is hard to figure out what kind of work can give you a purpose but it is worth figuring out. Sometimes you can find it by deciding what areas you are NOT interested in. Then you are left with only a few to chose from so it's easier to chose one to commit to. With a purpose, you then have a direction to move in to find fulfillment and meaning in your life. They lifestyle that is reflecting your lack of purpose will change without much effort because you will not depend on it to give you the tiny bits of joy you need to face another day. I think this is the key to a good life but no one really tells you this. They just tell you to follow your interests and that doesn't pay the bills. My interests are watching TV and reading. I love animals but I don't want to care for them full time so that's out. I didn't know I liked horticulture until I started working for the city. Now I know there is a limit to what I am willing to do to climb the ladder at my job. I'm on to the next job in banking. I want to know more about how banking works. I will have a reason to go to work besides my paycheque. I'm thinking about a student loan to study archeology. I love that stuff and would love to spend my days digging in the dirt to find artifacts. I think I will be required to do that right away in school so I would find a lot of fulfilment doing that. And if I ever managed to find an ancient artifact that had been buried for thousands of years, I would be thrilled. Anyway, I think that is the way to a build a meaningful and fulfilling life. Add in a wife and family and you will also find the joy that it can bring. You can have that too. Best wishes for a good life dear. 🙋🏼♀️💖🌈
Me too. Is it possible to quit drinking? Probably, but I’m scared of withdraw.
@@SkitzoBenjamin yeah it’s possible to quit drinking. I drank a bottle a bottle of vodka a day at the end of my alcoholism. Go walk into any hospital or detox center and tell them you’re an alcoholic and need to stop drinking. They give you meds to help. You stay there for around 5 days, then go to a 12 step focused rehab or AA meetings.
We Love You Jordan. Eternal Thanks. Blessings To You Dear Sir 💛
I needed this 🙌
I enjoy this to your driving. Great video
Done it 3x. I definitely had help from the lord. Even though i wasnt on speaking terms with him....
Thanks for uploading. :)
An amazing speech as always, enlightening.
This is absolutely amazing I love this man he’s completely given me the confidence to overcome ANYTHING ❤🙏🏽 Jordan is a blessing to humanity thank God 🙏🏽🫶🏼
So to sum it up. You don’t always get what you want. But if you you try sometimes...you get what you need.
Nothing in life that is valuable comes for free. You will sacrifice/pay the price now, or you will sacrifice/pay the price later. Unfortunately, or fortunately, depending how you view it, the sacrifice is required.
I love this ❤It’s also funny to imagine that he’s just talking your ear off the whole time you’re driving 😂
Damn what a beautiful video.
This feels like my driving by myself. Snow, voices in my head and the future behind me. I love Subaru and Canada , what combo for enjoying this crazy marble. Have an excellent day whoever sees this, I love and I'm proud of you.
That Super Ego truck. ❤
Been stuck in an anxiety spiral after getting fired. Rebuilding everything is daunting. This helped.
I feel the highest conceivable good lies somewhere between ambition, gratitude, and honesty. Perhaps these are the ingredients for creativity?
These traits raise your vibration so that you have the bandwidth to be greatly receptive --> above others, to the information that is streamlined to us, yes.
@@PsychologicalApparition Beautifully written my friend. My mission here is to love and be loved. I pray we are all able to access our emotions 🙏❤️
The best newest buzzword I've heard to describe Jordan Peterson was "toxic positivity". 😂
If that means identifying my bulshit and being honest with myself I guess I'm toxically positive.😅
Indianapolis? Sure looks like it Thanks for sharing
This guy his blessed most of the stuff he talks about its true
If you show the "wrong" highest aim to the world, some will try to stop you. Many choose the broad road to hell, not only for themselves, but for you as well. You got to know when to hold them, know when to fold them, know when to walk away, know when to run.
Power
Is there no copyright strike to this?
Just curious
Bc this is dope af
"If you actually want something, you can have it..." That may be true about most things, but not the one thing I want the most, shes not coming back.
Have you considered the possibility that what you want may not be a specific person, but the feeling of loving and being loved by someone special to you?
@@M4ttz8exactly this. He will see the light.
@@M4ttz8exactly
The example of self propelled constructive critical thinking he has championed has really helped people. Stay well fellow humans
Incredibly most things, I've dreamt of, I channeled myself towards it, put in the effort and bingo! Things happened and suddenly I was living my desires. I've had set backs also, things thrown at me from external forces, poor choices I've made, back to square one again, oh joy! Rather than beat myself up for poor choices whatever, I pick myself up, dust myself off, think ok am I going to continue on this path? I've learnt one thing. Seems evolution comes not only from good choices but from failure and embracing it! Failure is a blessing if we learn from it.
14:00
This speaks directly to me. I'm an extremely logical thinker(self proclaimed of course), but I have trouble looking at myself objectively, mostly because I don't like what I see. I'm a grown baby, and part of me wants to blame it on my lack of suffering.
20:05
More questions that I ask myself every single day. I feel so lazy that I cannot even do the "pointless" things that I want to do like playing video games half the time. I feel like most of the time I'd rather mindless scroll YT or even worse watch twitch. I would love to spontaneously dive into something that takes no "effort" on my part to pursue, as in I don't have to go out of my way to WILL myself out of bed just to do it, I actively want to do it, and the world would benefit from me doing it. I know. It's naive.
I might not always agree with Peterson but those who put him side by side with Tate are not doing it out of intellectual honesty
Tate is a savage, compared to Peterson.
Or Ben Shapiro 😅
Are you driving in Virginia beach out by Pungo? I swear I recognise that first intersection you went through
Whats the ambient backround music? I want this in my gym sessions =P
Anyone noticed that truck saying « super ego »?
Can you please tell me the name of the first background song? I also sent you a email about it just now! Kind regards
8:08 I am the greatest ❤
I’m a liberal feminist and Peterson is supposedly my “enemy” but I admire him (save in social media where he’s an idiot like everyone).
His rule “never make anything worse” transformed my life 8 years ago. For that I’m eternally grateful.
Edit: what a mind blowing presentation of these essential ideas. I’m extra amazed - I lost my life partner suddenly 2 years ago. Today is our anniversary and it’s time for me to look at how much I’ve been hiding behind my grief.
Thank you for making this video.
I also cringe at his online persona, but he genuinely gives incredible life advice that can be applied to everyone regardless of their political leanings. It comes from his years as a psychologist helping people. I’ve always found him to be fascinating when he talks a psychology and self-help.
Oh crap now they're letting us put cuss words in here that's amazing wow freedom of expression about something that's not just overly positive
Video looks like spring in Saskatchewan.
I wanna reach my dreams but pursue them as reality
JP is so close to finding Jesus and coming to the real (rather than metaphorical) Father. Let’s pray for him.
Thank you I really needed to hear this I get confused about what I want and my self esteem gets in the way 😊 want to set some goals which I know what they are and I need to ask for help I know what I want but afraid to pursue it but know if I don’t I’ll be sad and have wasted my time on this new Endeavor people say your old now you can’t do this kind of stuff at your age I, 61 I’m not a spring chicken but if I try I can do this loose my stupid ego
This is innovative… the motivational speaker sitting at the passenger seat when you’re driving a car 😅 keep it up and more of this!
There's a term for that; "Backseat driver".
The driver is speeding 😮
You can start living at any age ive seen 64 year olds go from drunk dying to alive healthy buisness owners just try
45:45 - 46:03
August 29 2005
Wasn't the happiest i ever felt,
It was THE Freest. And it dont last before your covered back stuck with all missed manages time stoves darkening over arch back shadowing fastly past days fulfilled tensions.
My internet father!! Thank god for JBP
😌👍
Gratitude. Just be appreciative of every goofy thing. Sunsets, trees. Good coffee. Breathing. The interconnectedness of EVERYTHING. Gratitude helps a lot. It helps overcome the victimhood mentality which is a lot of ego.
Is there anywhere we can listen to Jordan without background music?
35:30
I don't want life after death because I don't want people to remember and know me for my failures in this life.
My father in law recently passed away. His wife is going through the process of preparing for his funeral. She is also in the process of mourning, as well as her family. Yes, his failures and mistakes were brought up, but that’s not what people will remember him by. The photos of him that people have are of him smiling, on the beach, arm in arm, and laughing. When people go, the ones who love you will love you, despite anything. We are not perfect and good people know that and won’t be so strict, as long as you struggled for good.
Those who loved you will always remember YOU - in and with love. Nothing else is going to matter. Because they are the ones that matter.
I understand what you're saying. lol trust me, I'm the biggest pos on the planet. All we can do is work on ourselves and change for the better!
Relax. Nobody really cares about anyone.
@@Anni_12349 what? Dude, have children. Learn from heroes. That is the ultimate achievement. To selflessly put others ahead of you.
Peterson in the schnee
I just don’t seem to have much left in the tank. I’m frazzled to the outter limits.
Jesus loves u !!! ❤ your blessing is on the way ❤
@@Telepathy723 I’m literally Jesus.
@@LiterallyJesusChrist nice
Don't forget that Jesus was crucified. The world doesn't like Jesus. He is too good. They didn't understand him and accused him of things He didn't do or say. Be careful.
If you are burned out you have been giving too much. You have to find your limits and communicate them to those around you so they don't demand or expect more from you than you can deliver. You have to develope boundaries that protect you from being over worked or taken advantage of. You may have to start fresh at a new job to be able to establish new boundaries because the last place got used to you doing more than you should be to sustain your health. If it's relationship responsibilities that have burned you out, you must insist on getting help. Either your spouse or paid support is available to take the load lighter. I broke up with a guy because he refused to do household chores. We could have just hired somebody and that would have solved the issue. I didn't know that option was available at the time. 🤷♀️ Live and learn.
@@leanne123 Everyone's dead except my mother. She rented me to child porn producing pedophiles when I was a kid, because she was a cocaine addict. She's an actual psychopath who groomed me into only living to serve psychopaths. My ex-wife is one too, she poisoned our child twice and nearly killed him, got away with it because her dad is a retired cop now turned retired politician. I'm completely alone in this world. I've heard the advice, none of it seems to have much effect at this point. It's like asking a dog to be a cat, "just try this suggestion", nope, still not a cat...
Think cold blooded wow amazing mind got stuff prof
Guess I fucked up pretty badly ... I constantly live in a state of thinking of past and people who I used to see ... pretty annoying are they and I do have them as reactions to present moments ...
I dont know what i want. I have taken drastic changes to find out. I still havent figured out what i want and now have lost it all.
Amen
7 days sober and I don't feel any different 😢
Keep going. It will get worse before it gets better. Don't run from the difficulties. Suffer through them, it's the price for sobriety. It's a gift. Your brain needs to re-learn and re-orient to new reward systems. Stay the course and keep looking for the lighthouse and you will find it. Good luck.
Give it time. It takes your mind a while to reprogram itself to see life life without the haze of alcohol.
Something I did after I stopped drinking was making myself run. I started out slow and built up to longer runs. I sweated all the alcohol out of me and felt more at peace. You can also start sitting in an infrared sauna to get it out of you quicker too.
When I was young I drank beer to "have a good time." After several years of always drinking, it wasn't fun anymore and became depressed. Logic kicked in and I quit cold turkey. It took me a while to see life different. I had to learn how to have fun by appreciating the little things in life for happiness; things like:
looking forward to the seasons changing
planting things
the antics of dogs and small children
enjoying the company of down to earth sober people
putting together WW II models
going for long walks
staring at sunsets
storms/blizzards
a good meal
fixing something that most people would throw away
road trips to desolate places
reading about something your interested in
fishing
Hang in there, it takes time, someday you will realize you have no need for alcohol.
@@theDoktorZbroadcast Yes indeed. Been there-done that.
Where can I find the original audio without the background music?
I like the super ego truck 😀
🙌
19:30
31:30
May i know whats the original source of this audio? Is this the full audio, because if its not i would like to listen the entirety of it.
May compassion, patience, and wisdom, win over Love, hate, and the greed for god money.
Che la compassione, la pazienza, e la saggezza, vincano sull'amore, l'odio, e la fame per il dio denaro.
is this a collection of talks are from one?
Dad was just gone, was 13. Shipped from Conn to Oregon. One yr later it was Denver. Start over, start over. Then after struggle of immense immenseness, a month in motel then studio apt. All I do is work. Years of this, like 20. Finally the odds of some headstrong but just as lost female sees I'm a positive to add to her life. I'm a good Entitlements candidate, of course I learn this the hard way. 25 yrs of hard work we are in this barely successful rental house endeavor. Have three, with down payment for fourth. It's Entitlements time. She goes of with this destitute sweetalking Metro Taxi driver. His pattern is helping wives take as much as possible, then live off her winnings. Now it's struggling again. These laws caused this, again.
This is a sign. I nipping my issue in the bud sooner rather than later.
Tired of feeling like it's too late or it's too soon.
To err is human. Its worth the price to learn and not repeat the mistake. Been there myself.
I sounds like you were doing well with or without the woman. If she gets half then she got half the debt too. If you had to cash out to pay her off then do it again WITHOUT her. You know how to do it now. It he bank also knows you would be successful except for the divorce. They can help you get started again. You lost a disloyal person. That's a good thing. You are in a better position now without a person who would hurt you like that. I'm sorry she deceived you. It's not your fault you trusted her. Don't blame yourself for falling for it. They play the part well until they don't. It happens alot. She'll regret it in time. 🤷♀️💖🌈
Damn. Prayers 💖
@@leanne123I agree, cash out. Buy one new rental, do it again, cheaper. Cause only one mouth now.
Looks like winnipeg
I was born poor and taught nothing about money or credit other than we had none. It's my fault
Needs heard now more than eva
Thank you Canada for producing this man and his wife and his family.
🥅🏒🇨🇦🍁🥞🌨☃️
Well JP still does the right thing for the wrong reason it's still a net positive