Once you learn these lessons, it becomes very fascinating to see and realize exactly what the narc is doing especially the hoovering bit. It actually becomes funny. It's like taking a test and already knowing the answers because you have the cheat sheet.
This channel is awesome. The speaker is sincere and talks from his experiences living with a narcissist. I learned a lot from him that I use in my daily life. I supplement my lessons from him by listening to Dr. Ramani on You Tube too. She is also an excellent resource.
@@c004857 I think what's so important is that you find people that resonate with you and your situation at each stage of your healing path. What you need during one stage you may need something different at the next. Dr. Ramani's videos taught me the glossary of terms associated with npd. I learned so much from her videos in the first month of my recovery when I was within the tight grasps of the trauma bond and she made me realize that they truly all play out of the same playbook and that this abuse is very real.
it would be lovely for the wounded to have a retreat centre like a healing hoilday with all the knowledge you have you would be the perfect teacher thankyou sharing your strength and wisdom
For many of us, we never learned about self-love so we didn't really know their awfulness was that bad. Knowledge is power. Keep crafting and editing a Solid Self-Care Checklist, and review it every day. It has been worth ALL the hard work and effort. Rock on!😘
I think that is it. People don't know what it means to love themselves and it makes them very vulnerable. When you love yourself you recognize you matter and if someone doesn't see that or treasure it for the true value it has then they shouldn't be in your life. Love yourself enough to say no more I'm worth it and I deserve to be treated with respect and decency. When you recognize this in yourself trust me others take notice and recognize it as well. ☀️💖
Most people do have an agenda, smh. I, too, thought there was all good people in the world. Which made my healing a little humiliating because I was so unaware that I was being psychologically abused. Then self compassion walked into my life and made me realize, this isn't me. I'm not mean and selfish like the narc said. What really made a difference in my thinking was a quote by Shakespeare, "Nothing is neither bad or good, only thought makes it so." The narrative of my family origin thinking slowly dissolved. But after 50 years of this pattern thinking of always being the scapegoat and bad one, it's a little hard to live life positively. I realize it's going to take time for ALL the layers to dissolve. We live and learn. Much love to all that are healing. : D
This is great advice. I've always loved to paint since being a child and because the narsscasist in my life was a black hole of need , I just couldn't feel inspired. One of the first things I did after leaving was go to the art suppliers and I became creative again which was fundamental in my healing process. Thank you and God bless you always.
Thank you Andrew, as everything you say hits home with me. I am an empath and a free spirit, got took for granted by a narc. This lesson has opened my eyes to these poisonous people, and I recognize them straight off the bat..
It is incredible how in tune you become. I was in a room with 20 people today and just by their body language before any of them even said a word I could tell which ones were kind and which ones were closed off, had an attitude and didn't want to be there. As each spoke I was like narscistist, empath, healthy, unhealthy, rude, kind. You definitely send out a vibe it's really interesting to see.
Andrew this really hit home. I will never tolerate bad behavior again. I know myself worth. It was a hard way to learn but I’m thankful for what I know now. I think your amazing. I can tell that everything you say comes from your heart. 🙏🏼🤗❤️
MOST IMPORTANT IS TO GO NO CONTACT AND ANSWER NO HOOVERS. ALSO SAVE YOUR MONEY UP AND HAVE A WELL PAID JOB SO YOU HAVE THE FINANCES TO MAKE YOUR OWN CHOICES IN YOUR LIFE.
Being independent and self sufficient is a blessing on every level. Sadly many people may have lost their independence in the npd abusive relationship. I pray that if that is your situation you know your worth and that in time and healing you are able to reclaim your independence and move forward 🙏
@@christine11347 Not sure if you are directing this to me (as I know we wrote to each other before) but I am in a very strange situation, half healed, half independent, and full of hope. You sound really strong and very sure of what you are doing. It's so nice to have that, even on social media. Like a guardian angel.
@@bumblebee803 Thank you that's very kind. My reply really was in general but if it resonated with you that's great. Everyone's situation is unique. In your case look at it this way you said half healed half independent. So essentially your glass is half full as opposed to half empty. Which is half the battle and congrats to you. Keep filling that glass up a little each day. It takes time these relationships can leave you in ruins. In this area I feel very blessed because I had to do everything my whole marriage so now the only thing different is he doesn't take anymore. Stay strong and positive. Your not alone and the fact that you continue to educate yourself will keep you moving forward on your path. I am so much stronger then I was and I share my story as hope to anyone that the light does get much brighter each day along the healing path. With that being said I know as far as I have moved ahead I can fall back just as quickly. So I continue to educate myself every day. I make sure I take care of me and do things that continue to fill me up on every level. So far so good. Sending you a big virtual hug to remind you what your experiencing is normal and you are not alone stay blessed and strong the struggle is real and painful like exercise but the end result is worth it. I am living proof🙏🕊️✨💛😊💪
Yes, I grew up & have always lived like a Pollyanna. My friends use to call me princess. This relationship was a hard but necessary lesson to learn. I will always be nice but, BUT now understand there truly is evil out there.
Shine the light into the darkness. It's funny along my healing path I found a love for analyzing Disney movies. Some of these princesses really represent alot of strong amazing qualities when you look deep within the storylines and they truly are super heroes within their own right 💛
Once you’ve gone thru a narc relationship , post relationship you find you don’t tolerate bad behaviour from anyone afterwards narc or otherwise. You maintain boundaries as you won’t subject yourself to that trauma again … in lots ways you become much more “savvy” 🌸
We all deserve LOVE & RESPECT in our lives. We give it to others in abundance but we must give it to ourselves first and foremost. Keep our boundaries strong and never let another person take us for granted again. I was too giving and that wasn't healthy. I understand that now. My fence was down. It set me up for them hurting me....I won't tolerate poor behaviour......there are no excuses for it. Walk into the light and embrace the truth. Thank you Andrew for this lesson in self care.....I needed to hear it. I'm on the road to making positive changes, one small step at a time. We are aware now thanks to this channel. Keep moving forward. We owe it to ourselves!
Most of my realtionships, work, friends, family & romantic had some form or type of Narcissus. In the co-worker/friend relationship I saw red flags so backed away (before I got educated ) more than once I heard, What's the matter you don't want to hang around here or you don't come over.... I just go away.... I couldn't get over the fact they tried to make me feel guilty for protecting myself from them. They would be little me (they thought it was fynny) tell me what I should eat, what time I should leave work, who I should date or not date It was like everyone around me turn into a different version of my father, who is a narcissist by the way I just found this out not to long ago, the true definition of his character is a narcissist & a lot of horrible memories came with it Those where memories he created with the help from Andrew's channel I know those memories had nothing to do with me. Thank you
Know your worth and your truth. People will always try and break down your boundaries DONT do it. It is your shield, your suit of armour. Trust yourself to know when it is right to let someone within your fortress but even then don't lose your boundaries because they will respect them. If they don't they shouldn't be in your life in the first place. It's so important to feel your feelings good and bad so that you can process, reflect, purge and release them so you can continue to move forward. God bless 🙏
When you remove the toxicity from your life amazing things happen. Being confident and knowing your worth really is transforming and will take you VERY far on your healing path. Positivity is contagious. Putting yourself out there and not worrying about what anyone else thinks is empowering. Continuing education is key. I learned so many things that resonated with me today about my own life by using my time wisely and listening to videos while I was driving. Kindness to yourself and others truly matters. Shine your light and watch how people respond it is beautiful. "Kind words can be short and easy to speak but their echoes are truly endless" -Mother Theresa God bless everyone in this beautiful uplifting community. By just caring about yourself and others you truly have the power to make a huge difference in someones day😊✨☀️🙏🕊️💛
Thank you Andrew for your heart felt advices as always. Love the idea of leaving an abusive situation without much explanation. Abusers weren’t having much consideration for you either.
You owe them nothing. By our nature we are givers and by their nature they are takers. Be kind to yourself don't give them anything else they have already taken more then enough that it should last them a lifetime. Know your truth and start living a happier life free from them. I look at it like this now if someone gave me a bottle and said hey drink this poison it may or may not kill I would say no thanks I'm not taking the chance and move on. The narsascist is poison so why take the chance. Move on and be happy. You deserve nothing less
So very true Andrew! Now I feel free to follow my gut instincts and keep my boundaries so high, that a narcissist wouldn't dream of gaslighting this! ☺
My ex boyfriend was a narcissist. It's been a year and 3 months since he ghosted me, and I am never getting in a new relationship. This has absolutely traumatized me to where I hate people and can't trust men. ( Sorry, just being honest). I hope in time, I can make friends again. Male and female. As far as family, I'd rather not deal with them because I was always the outcast, and maybe that's where I learned to be abused and not question it. That's what why I appreciate your page because I'm learning and seeing things in a different way
Always remember your not alone and are surrounded by people who get it. Focus all of your time and energy on you and your inner healing. Self love will help take you far on your path and in time things will continue to get brighter. God bless ✨🕊️
I can relate with not trusting men after narcissistic abuse. I'm in my late 20s, and most guys my age are more interested in casual hookups than committed relationships. When I put myself out there again, I'm wondering if I'd have better luck dating men who are slightly older (mid to late 30s maybe?). Sorry, I'm just rambling now. Best of luck to you on your healing journey!
@@swanam_1 I don't think it's necessarily age you have to worry about. I would say there are good quality guys in every age group and likewise bad unhealthy narcissists in every age as well. I think what is more important is you keep your boundaries really high, know your worth and trust your gut. This is not easy at all. It's definitely something I struggled with up until recently. Education is so key. When you know what to look for and their manipulative techniques they become obvious. If you see red flags don't stick around. I have come to learn as you really work to heal your inner self your body reacts differently and gives you signs when it feels someone is safe or unsafe. It's a completely different feeling. I wish you the best of luck on your healing path. It gets so much better once the toxicity is removed. Take your time to heal. 🙏🕊️💪😊
100% TRUE. You answered more of my questions! Thank you. I've been working on taking better care of myself and setting and maintaining boundaries. I didn't listen to my gut before, I am now.
I am really starting to learn how your gut really has your back when you trust in it. The body and mind truly are incredible. They definitely sense when your in danger and respond accordingly. So definitely trust that uneasy, tense punch in the stomach feeling. On the plus side though post npd recovery when you begin to self heal and rebuild the body and mind it's amazing how the body and mind let's you feel so many other things that you weren't able to while in the abuse. I find this whole awakening to be so transforming because every day I experience something new and unexpected and it's just so beautifully calming. 🙏🕊️
Excellent video Andrew. After narc abuse life becomes a strange journey of rewiring all the ways that your brain has been programed. The person who you were attached to is not valid and all that you have been through is not what you thought .
Well said Andrew! 🎯It's amazing how we empath humans can feel good in the worst situations. Be thankful for what you DO have and keep giving love to people who deserve it!
So simple and true. Share your light with people who deserve it and appreciate and recognize it for the beautiful gift that it is. Anyone else is just an unnecessary distraction to your inner peace and happiness🙏🕊️💛✨
Im so loving everything you said here, I need all the encouragement I can get to take care of me, hope one day I'll learn, you're truly my human guardian angel Andrew, I feel revived listening to this, I have a long way to go in building my self confidence but you're truly helping me, thank you🙏🙏🙏
Lovely comment Monica, I think we all feel like this post narc abuse 💟💟💟🇬🇧👍 and yes Andrew is our Guardian Angel, thank you Andrew!!💟💟💟 it's reminding us of our worth, we'd unfortunately forgotten.
It's been about 9 months now that I finally figured out what was happening. I was literally to the point of questioning my sanity. I'm rebuilding my self. I feel disappointment in myself for not seeing it sooner, and yet forgive myself bc of the reason i didnt see it. My own sisters,,, i mean, who woulda thunk, your supposed best friends were actually trying to destroy you?
Thank you so much for all your great videos, really helps, had a lot of abuse from family members and bosses, trying to heal , want to get back to who I was.
Thank you Andrew!💜💜💜 Your insight is a great service to the victims of these creatures! Those that make it through are stronger and better though, because we learn that self love is all we need to continue to grow and prosper!!
I’m fortunate to have my own business. If I get bad vibes from a potential client I won’t read for them. My boundaries are firm. Happy to find your channel. ✨🌹✨
I'm sure working on that.im taking a trip soon to deal with childhood wounds.Also I've been a daily watcher of your videos and introspection is needed in my case.i never want to repeat what I have been through..my life is my life now.No is my new word that empowered me.doirs are closed to the narc and flying monkeys.I sign off on my home tomorrow that's the last time to the narc.The sky is brighter now and I see and feel freedom.my good days are my days.my bad days are my days.but I'll say my days are freed up now and there's no strings now to the narc and it feels great.Thank you Andrew this education is brilliant.
As always Andrew …you are inspiring…I journal…I walk in nature…I reflect and yes…I job hunt every night for new job and new locations…The focus is on me…I do have setbacks when I remember all the fog I had been in and how it landed me in such a situation where I had lost everything I had loved by being promised and future faked a life…that was wept from me without warningI I learned that choices have to be made wisely now..not on emotional impulses or passionate needs…Hearing your video sends me back on track and motivates me to keep going…we can do nothing but move forward…🙏🏻Namaste
This video is Right On! I journal every morning along with a long walk. Last month I decided that I needed more of an organized healing plan. Now I walk every morning right when the sun comes up and the birds are singing. There is no better feeling! I discovered that it only took 2-3 mornings of commitment for my brain to tell me: "hey, get up, time to go!" If I don't walk every morning, and journal my thoughts and reflections from my previous day, My routine is out of whack. Try it. Give yourself just one day to start. This is definitely a God send for yourself. Doesn't cost a dime.
I've found that getting into a routine helps eliminate rumination. For example I used to think about getting to the pool and getting changed, etc and then it felt like a hassle. With a routine it allows you just think about the positive parts, e.g. with swimming the feel of moving through the water, and then you can just look forward to it. We can let our brains waste so much time ruminating on such pointless stuff if we're not careful, it's nuts when you start to watch it. Hope you have a fabulous walk today ❤️🙏
Very informative! Thanks Andrew, been working on myself. I finally feel free. How is it that these people think they are entitled to all your assets. Hope he stays away from me. Take care and thanks again
Great video. Thank you for all of the advice. You are so right after time goes by you really do need to learn to advocate for yourself. It’s definitely not easy to put yourself first.
Glowing bright as the Sun even in the darkest of Night. That's how Steadfast ones Spirit must continue in Prosperity. In and out of the season of this type of relationship. Only tolerate Positive light in your environment. Dispel the darkness as soon as you see it creeping in. I watched this 3 mths ago now here I am drawing closer and closer to the light The more I learned the closer to the light I drew. Now I'm surrounded, radiating and Glowing in it .
I believed we all loved each other end were sincere as well - glad to know I’m not the only one that had to essentially grieve this very belief. Now that I see the truth (more of it) I am not all that let down for too long at least, when someone behaves in an evil manner. God bless the Chosen ones ♥️
Pacing aimlessly With my mind is at unrest Unsure of what may come What have I done to bring this down on me? Helpless to make this undone All in due time See the world through different eyes All in due time The shadows will give way to light How much more can I give of myself As these walls close in on me? As I slip down into this despair (Into this despair) There is nothing to attain What victory? (What victory?) When my soul is weak (Is weak) Where does my help come from? All in due time See the world through different eyes I see the world through different eyes All in due time Shadows will give way Give way to light All that we suffer through leads to determination The trials we all go through gives us the strength to carry on Something within us burns Desire feeds the will to live A reason to believe, I will see redemption Yeah! All in due time See the world through different eyes I see the world through different eyes All in due time The shadows will give way to light All in due time Yeah
You have helped me so much, I’ve listened to other you tubes and it’s more clear from you. I was in a long term relationship , I hate to say this but I became a Zombie, I look back at the videos when I was with him, I felt I couldn’t express myself in any way, for fear he would ridicule me. I walked and moved like I was frozen!! No wonder he left I wasn’t a person anymore!
Have really enjoyed your vids. Appreciate your sincere honesty on how to move on, much I can relate to. I too thought everyone had the same outlook in life as I did. Expecting politeness, kindness and respect. Basically following the Golden Rule. It took a long time to realize not everyone is geared this way and there is EVIL in this wolrd snd people DO choose to be evil on purpose, wow what a concept. Fairly Pollyanna. So much you say resonates, putting myself 1st, 2nd and 3rd! I have a high tolerance level and try to see good in others but as you said remove yourself from those situations and learn to not tolerate discomfort for myself. Love that! Thank you.
We have the power to armonize environments but there is a higher risk: everybody will unleash their narcicistic charge upon you!! Have prudence and must of all be wise.
There's a fundamental difference in how _Extroverted Personalities_ deal with bouncing back from abuse, & how _Introverted Personalities_ like myself, employ resiliency: Narcs are extroverts...they NEED ppl...an audience, constant validation from others, adoration, recognition, & they'll stop at nothing to manipulate themselves into a position to get "their supply." About 80-85% of society is also extroverted, needing the social "inclusion" factor as a validation point to pivot their own image/opinion of themselves within & around... ***THIS*** is the "in-road switch" the narc uses to "gauge" you. Introverts like myself pose a real unexpected challenge for narcs because 1) unlike most of society, we don't need nor actively seek out external validation; we are secure within ourselves, & 2) our introverted intuition is already on the front "burner plate;" we don't have to figure out how to activate it... it's already part of our toolbox. As a result, when a narc targets us, they have to figure out how to effectively manipulate us, because 90% of their "go to" tactics don't work...forcing almost instant narcissist injury & rage because of it... they double down on their obsession to extract revenge. _Psychology Today_ is a huge source of information on this cross-comparison of personality types & their resulting vulnerability to narcissistic manipulation tactics. Their archives are a wealth of information that clearly delineates the resiliency capabilities of extroverts & introverts. To that focus, in this regard, introverts bounce back quicker & stronger, because our personal opinions/images of ourselves do not pivot on external validation. Introverts handle manipulation differently than extroverts, & those fundamental differences shift many of the "exchange dynamics" in relationships. Understanding one's own personality type can illuminate how & why feelings about & perceptions of self & others become key factors in abuse recovery. It literally boils down to "what perceived weakness" did the narc decide you could be manipulated through" & how correct were they in their gamble??? You're the only one who can answer that question.🖤
I retired from I.S U. 3 months ago. You wouldnt believe how narcissisticly disfunctuonal the work environment was. I taught in south korea for years and never felt the isolation or malicious gossip that I experienced at Idaho State University in fact are regarded with mu h respect in korea
I am away from the Narc now , well away . A d every day play things along and see what happens. In the mean time I have discovered a person I really like . It's me. I am fine .
This comment truly represents the beauty and a silver lining in post npd recovery. ❤️ Always stay true to yourself. Self love and continued inner healing is the key to moving forward on your path. Have a blessed day💖
I have been finding it hard the last couple of days, even though I know all about narcs I thought it would get easier.. I know it makes you stronger but I just wish it was all over with…thanks for your videos they really help
It’s so hard like how one person can make you feel so down. I am withdrawing more everyday from people and life. I am listening to your “the steps needed” vid. I defo need inner healing. Thanks Andrew
2 1/2 years of rel.with narc….I’ve gone thru hell…I am an empath…I love him but he’s so abusive emotionally…he is 100% narc…I have taken him back sooo many times… want to believe him…it always ends up he’s secretly playing around with other women. I remind him of my boundaries, he lies and projects onto me…kicks me out, name calls, says very hurtful things…I need to break this addiction…he always shows up months later at my school sweet and sorry.
Yea the part where I go to work everyday and being gas lighted and not valued and not love & respected thats like the majority of real job's. So the job itself can be the narcissist all about itself and its identity as a company and its players among the company all about a dollar squeezing out 1 more hour of u on their zombie clock.
I went from being a 3 bed home owner good job and side jobs as a professional mermaid 🧜🏻♀️ I funded all myself. To having nothing left alone not allowed out for friends no money. I had to ask for money for ladys products I lived on £2 a day. It made me really Ill still in councillors
GOOD NIGHT SLEEP WELL SWEET DREAMS. I HOPE YOU ARE DOING WELL!!? GREETINGS Ja ja I really have had a fantastic""" day. Anyway, first Step to change"""""......... SALUDOS Y MAS
Thank you Andrew ❤️ for your content. I would like to get a 1on1 session with you. I have an ongoing restraining order that I would like to discuss with you if possible.
Thanks again for this Andrew. I think I've healed well in that I don't think about him or miss him or anything much at all about the whole miserable experience, BUT, in my mind I find myself planning my defense in almost any situation. My situations are now pleasant and completely non-threatening, but I seem stuck on needing to defend myself. That's another nasty piece of residue. What are your thoughts?
Help!!! Andrew🤗👫😂..why are their so many toxic people!!!!Gave out my # today and within few hours of texting could see this guy was a narc...is it so hard to find a nice man who lookimg for a good girl?..guess not ready...Im better than that...I want respect ....Guess this is were I belong for time being😂watching positive people and continue to grow and know what I (we) want
Once you learn these lessons, it becomes very fascinating to see and realize exactly what the narc is doing especially the hoovering bit. It actually becomes funny. It's like taking a test and already knowing the answers because you have the cheat sheet.
This channel is awesome. The speaker is sincere and talks from his experiences living with a narcissist. I learned a lot from him that I use in my daily life. I supplement my lessons from him by listening to Dr. Ramani on You Tube too. She is also an excellent resource.
Beautiful insight thank you Rodel..🙌💯🙏💪
So true😀😀
Yeah I see what u mean thank you for posting, blessings from New Zealand
@@c004857 I think what's so important is that you find people that resonate with you and your situation at each stage of your healing path. What you need during one stage you may need something different at the next.
Dr. Ramani's videos taught me the glossary of terms associated with npd. I learned so much from her videos in the first month of my recovery when I was within the tight grasps of the trauma bond and she made me realize that they truly all play out of the same playbook and that this abuse is very real.
it would be lovely for the wounded to have a retreat centre like a healing hoilday with all the knowledge you have you would be the perfect teacher thankyou sharing your strength and wisdom
Beautiful concept Amanda.. 💯🙌🙏😊
That would be great to have a retreat for us survivors. I could keep everyone entertained with the stories I have. Lol.
Maybe sometime near in the future.
For many of us, we never learned about self-love so we didn't really know their awfulness was that bad. Knowledge is power. Keep crafting and editing a Solid Self-Care Checklist, and review it every day. It has been worth ALL the hard work and effort. Rock on!😘
Thank you for sharing this Roslyn..🙌🙏💯
I think that is it. People don't know what it means to love themselves and it makes them very vulnerable. When you love yourself you recognize you matter and if someone doesn't see that or treasure it for the true value it has then they shouldn't be in your life. Love yourself enough to say no more I'm worth it and I deserve to be treated with respect and decency. When you recognize this in yourself trust me others take notice and recognize it as well. ☀️💖
Most people do have an agenda, smh. I, too, thought there was all good people in the world. Which made my healing a little humiliating because I was so unaware that I was being psychologically abused. Then self compassion walked into my life and made me realize, this isn't me. I'm not mean and selfish like the narc said. What really made a difference in my thinking was a quote by Shakespeare, "Nothing is neither bad or good, only thought makes it so." The narrative of my family origin thinking slowly dissolved. But after 50 years of this pattern thinking of always being the scapegoat and bad one, it's a little hard to live life positively. I realize it's going to take time for ALL the layers to dissolve. We live and learn. Much love to all that are healing. : D
Beautiful message Caro..🙏💯🙌
This is great advice. I've always loved to paint since being a child and because the narsscasist in my life was a black hole of need , I just couldn't feel inspired. One of the first things I did after leaving was go to the art suppliers and I became creative again which was fundamental in my healing process. Thank you and God bless you always.
Beautiful empowering message 🙌💪🙏💯
I did the same Jean~ love painting!
Thank you Andrew, as everything you say hits home with me. I am an empath and a free spirit, got took for granted by a narc. This lesson has opened my eyes to these poisonous people, and I recognize them straight off the bat..
Welcome Yvonne 🙌🙏💯💯
It is incredible how in tune you become. I was in a room with 20 people today and just by their body language before any of them even said a word I could tell which ones were kind and which ones were closed off, had an attitude and didn't want to be there. As each spoke I was like narscistist, empath, healthy, unhealthy, rude, kind. You definitely send out a vibe it's really interesting to see.
Andrew this really hit home. I will never tolerate bad behavior again. I know myself worth. It was a hard way to learn but I’m thankful for what I know now. I think your amazing. I can tell that everything you say comes from your heart. 🙏🏼🤗❤️
Thank you for this beautiful message Trish..🙏🙌💯
MOST IMPORTANT IS TO GO NO CONTACT AND ANSWER NO HOOVERS. ALSO SAVE YOUR MONEY UP AND HAVE A WELL PAID JOB SO YOU HAVE THE FINANCES TO MAKE YOUR OWN CHOICES IN YOUR LIFE.
Amen 🙏 Tree Lover..🙏💯💪
Very difficult during Co-vid times (about the jobs). But great ideas.
Being independent and self sufficient is a blessing on every level. Sadly many people may have lost their independence in the npd abusive relationship. I pray that if that is your situation you know your worth and that in time and healing you are able to reclaim your independence and move forward 🙏
@@christine11347 Not sure if you are directing this to me (as I know we wrote to each other before) but I am in a very strange situation, half healed, half independent, and full of hope. You sound really strong and very sure of what you are doing. It's so nice to have that, even on social media. Like a guardian angel.
@@bumblebee803 Thank you that's very kind. My reply really was in general but if it resonated with you that's great. Everyone's situation is unique. In your case look at it this way you said half healed half independent. So essentially your glass is half full as opposed to half empty. Which is half the battle and congrats to you. Keep filling that glass up a little each day. It takes time these relationships can leave you in ruins. In this area I feel very blessed because I had to do everything my whole marriage so now the only thing different is he doesn't take anymore. Stay strong and positive. Your not alone and the fact that you continue to educate yourself will keep you moving forward on your path. I am so much stronger then I was and I share my story as hope to anyone that the light does get much brighter each day along the healing path. With that being said I know as far as I have moved ahead I can fall back just as quickly. So I continue to educate myself every day. I make sure I take care of me and do things that continue to fill me up on every level. So far so good. Sending you a big virtual hug to remind you what your experiencing is normal and you are not alone stay blessed and strong the struggle is real and painful like exercise but the end result is worth it. I am living proof🙏🕊️✨💛😊💪
Yes, I grew up & have always lived like a Pollyanna. My friends use to call me princess. This relationship was a hard but necessary lesson to learn. I will always be nice but, BUT now understand there truly is evil out there.
Shine the light into the darkness. It's funny along my healing path I found a love for analyzing Disney movies. Some of these princesses really represent alot of strong amazing qualities when you look deep within the storylines and they truly are super heroes within their own right 💛
I understand completely 😉😉💯💯
One word for this mesage: AMEN
Amen 🙏
🙏Amen. Such a small word that speaks volumes🙏
After 2 years of acute self healing, followed by a very good therapist, martial arts and finding my identity again. I'm better than I've been in years
Beautiful growth and progress 💪🙌💯🙏
Once you’ve gone thru a narc relationship , post relationship you find you don’t tolerate bad behaviour from anyone afterwards narc or otherwise. You maintain boundaries as you won’t subject yourself to that trauma again … in lots ways you become much more “savvy” 🌸
Well said Lynn..💪🙏💯🙌
We all deserve LOVE & RESPECT in our lives. We give it to others in abundance but we must give it to ourselves first and foremost. Keep our boundaries strong and never let another person take us for granted again. I was too giving and that wasn't healthy. I understand that now. My fence was down. It set me up for them hurting me....I won't tolerate poor behaviour......there are no excuses for it. Walk into the light and embrace the truth. Thank you Andrew for this lesson in self care.....I needed to hear it. I'm on the road to making positive changes, one small step at a time. We are aware now thanks to this channel. Keep moving forward. We owe it to ourselves!
Absolutely Angela 💯🙌🙏💪
Most of my realtionships, work, friends, family & romantic had some form or type of Narcissus. In the co-worker/friend relationship I saw red flags so backed away (before I got educated ) more than once I heard, What's the matter you don't want to hang around here or you don't come over.... I just go away....
I couldn't get over the fact they tried to make me feel guilty for protecting myself from them. They would be little me (they thought it was fynny) tell me what I should eat, what time I should leave work, who I should date or not date
It was like everyone around me turn into a different version of my father, who is a narcissist by the way I just found this out not to long ago, the true definition of his character is a narcissist & a lot of horrible memories came with it
Those where memories he created with the help from Andrew's channel I know those memories had nothing to do with me.
Thank you
Know your worth and your truth. People will always try and break down your boundaries DONT do it. It is your shield, your suit of armour. Trust yourself to know when it is right to let someone within your fortress but even then don't lose your boundaries because they will respect them. If they don't they shouldn't be in your life in the first place. It's so important to feel your feelings good and bad so that you can process, reflect, purge and release them so you can continue to move forward. God bless 🙏
Beautiful insight thank you thank for sharing..🙏🙌💪💯
Amen, The truth will set you free. Don't ignore what you view as wrong!!!
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When you remove the toxicity from your life amazing things happen. Being confident and knowing your worth really is transforming and will take you VERY far on your healing path. Positivity is contagious. Putting yourself out there and not worrying about what anyone else thinks is empowering. Continuing education is key. I learned so many things that resonated with me today about my own life by using my time wisely and listening to videos while I was driving.
Kindness to yourself and others truly matters. Shine your light and watch how people respond it is beautiful.
"Kind words can be short and easy to speak but their echoes are truly endless" -Mother Theresa
God bless everyone in this beautiful uplifting community. By just caring about yourself and others you truly have the power to make a huge difference in someones day😊✨☀️🙏🕊️💛
Thank you for sharing this Christine 💯🙏💯🙌🙌
@UCRqcXF39NYKJehkKb4pz5fg The Lords truly beautiful prayer 🙏 Amen
Your comment gave a hug to my heart, Thank You ;-)
@@ilikehair485 That is very kind and beautiful thank you 💛
@@prayingalways777 God bless you also🙏
Thank you Andrew for your heart felt advices as always. Love the idea of leaving an abusive situation without much explanation. Abusers weren’t having much consideration for you either.
You owe them nothing. By our nature we are givers and by their nature they are takers. Be kind to yourself don't give them anything else they have already taken more then enough that it should last them a lifetime. Know your truth and start living a happier life free from them. I look at it like this now if someone gave me a bottle and said hey drink this poison it may or may not kill I would say no thanks I'm not taking the chance and move on. The narsascist is poison so why take the chance. Move on and be happy. You deserve nothing less
Welcome Patricia 🙏🙏💯
So very true Andrew! Now I feel free to follow my gut instincts and keep my boundaries so high, that a narcissist wouldn't dream of gaslighting this! ☺
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Love your posts, so comforting Andrew thankyou 🙏 Namaste ❤️
Welcome Kim..🙌🙏💯
My ex boyfriend was a narcissist. It's been a year and 3 months since he ghosted me, and I am never getting in a new relationship. This has absolutely traumatized me to where I hate people and can't trust men. ( Sorry, just being honest). I hope in time, I can make friends again. Male and female. As far as family, I'd rather not deal with them because I was always the outcast, and maybe that's where I learned to be abused and not question it. That's what why I appreciate your page because I'm learning and seeing things in a different way
Always remember your not alone and are surrounded by people who get it. Focus all of your time and energy on you and your inner healing. Self love will help take you far on your path and in time things will continue to get brighter. God bless ✨🕊️
@@christine11347 thank you sweetie, I appreciate it. I will work on me.
I understand Debbie.. I do..💯🙌🙌💯
I can relate with not trusting men after narcissistic abuse. I'm in my late 20s, and most guys my age are more interested in casual hookups than committed relationships. When I put myself out there again, I'm wondering if I'd have better luck dating men who are slightly older (mid to late 30s maybe?). Sorry, I'm just rambling now. Best of luck to you on your healing journey!
@@swanam_1 I don't think it's necessarily age you have to worry about. I would say there are good quality guys in every age group and likewise bad unhealthy narcissists in every age as well.
I think what is more important is you keep your boundaries really high, know your worth and trust your gut. This is not easy at all. It's definitely something I struggled with up until recently. Education is so key. When you know what to look for and their manipulative techniques they become obvious. If you see red flags don't stick around. I have come to learn as you really work to heal your inner self your body reacts differently and gives you signs when it feels someone is safe or unsafe. It's a completely different feeling. I wish you the best of luck on your healing path. It gets so much better once the toxicity is removed. Take your time to heal. 🙏🕊️💪😊
100% TRUE. You answered more of my questions! Thank you. I've been working on taking better care of myself and setting and maintaining boundaries. I didn't listen to my gut before, I am now.
Beautiful Donna..💯💪💪🙌
I am really starting to learn how your gut really has your back when you trust in it. The body and mind truly are incredible. They definitely sense when your
in danger and respond accordingly. So definitely trust that uneasy, tense punch in the stomach feeling.
On the plus side though post npd recovery when you begin to self heal and rebuild the body and mind it's amazing how the body and mind let's you feel so many other things that you weren't able to while in the abuse. I find this whole awakening to be so transforming because every day I experience something new and unexpected and it's just so beautifully calming. 🙏🕊️
Excellent video Andrew. After narc abuse life becomes a strange journey of rewiring all the ways that your brain has been programed. The person who you were attached to is not valid and all that you have been through is not what you thought .
Thank you for sharing this insight Dan..🙌💯🙏💪
Well said Andrew! 🎯It's amazing how we empath humans can feel good in the worst situations. Be thankful for what you DO have and keep giving love to people who deserve it!
Exactly Reinhart..🙌💯🙏
So simple and true. Share your light with people who deserve it and appreciate and recognize it for the beautiful gift that it is. Anyone else is just an unnecessary distraction to your inner peace and happiness🙏🕊️💛✨
Andrew, you're SO right! I'm a strong believer in speaking the truth! Because the truth has set me free! Now I don't put up with anyone's abuse of me.
In the process of building an exit strategy right now.
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Congratulations wishing your happiness in your new beginning and fresh start narc free🙏😊💪
Im so loving everything you said here, I need all the encouragement I can get to take care of me, hope one day I'll learn, you're truly my human guardian angel Andrew, I feel revived listening to this, I have a long way to go in building my self confidence but you're truly helping me, thank you🙏🙏🙏
You are amazing and stronger than you know Monica 💪💪🙌🙏🙏💯
Lovely comment Monica, I think we all feel like this post narc abuse 💟💟💟🇬🇧👍 and yes Andrew is our Guardian Angel, thank you Andrew!!💟💟💟 it's reminding us of our worth, we'd unfortunately forgotten.
@@amandajohnson-williams7718 Thank you❤️❤️blessings always 💯
All Amazing advice👏Thanks so much Andrew!
Welcome Paula..💯🙏🙌
It's been about 9 months now that I finally figured out what was happening. I was literally to the point of questioning my sanity.
I'm rebuilding my self. I feel disappointment in myself for not seeing it sooner, and yet forgive myself bc of the reason i didnt see it. My own sisters,,, i mean, who woulda thunk, your supposed best friends were actually trying to destroy you?
I understand completely Windwalker.. continue to become educated and awakened..🙌💯🙏
Thank you so much for all your great videos, really helps, had a lot of abuse from family members and bosses, trying to heal , want to get back to who I was.
Welcome Caroline always 🙌🙏💯
Thank you Andrew!💜💜💜
Your insight is a great service to the victims of these creatures!
Those that make it through are stronger and better though, because we learn that self love is all we need to continue to grow and prosper!!
Welcome Linda 🙏💯🙌💪
I’m fortunate to have my own business. If I get bad vibes from a potential client I won’t read for them. My boundaries are firm. Happy to find your channel. ✨🌹✨
Thank you for sharing this Siren..💯🙌🙏
I'm sure working on that.im taking a trip soon to deal with childhood wounds.Also I've been a daily watcher of your videos and introspection is needed in my case.i never want to repeat what I have been through..my life is my life now.No is my new word that empowered me.doirs are closed to the narc and flying monkeys.I sign off on my home tomorrow that's the last time to the narc.The sky is brighter now and I see and feel freedom.my good days are my days.my bad days are my days.but I'll say my days are freed up now and there's no strings now to the narc and it feels great.Thank you Andrew this education is brilliant.
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You have been an anchor for my brain, heart and my emotions ❤
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As always Andrew …you are inspiring…I journal…I walk in nature…I reflect and yes…I job hunt every night for new job and new locations…The focus is on me…I do have setbacks when I remember all the fog I had been in and how it landed me in such a situation where I had lost everything I had loved by being promised and future faked a life…that was wept from me without warningI I learned that choices have to be made wisely now..not on emotional impulses or passionate needs…Hearing your video sends me back on track and motivates me to keep going…we can do nothing but move forward…🙏🏻Namaste
Beautiful message Monica 💯🙏🙌
when i started reading my own tarot cards helped me understand this fully. your gifts are beutiful
Thank you so much Andrew, I'm a full believer in quality of life! My life is finally getting better and healthier!
Beautiful progress 💯🙌😊🙏
Another day, another step. Thank you, Andrew! 🥰🙏
Welcome Eloise 💪💪🙏💯💯
100%. So true.
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Thank you Andrew! So grateful for you!
Welcome Sandy 🙏🙌💯😊
Thank you for your videos & to everyone comments below & may you & every one here have a blessed & safe day !
Thank you Sue..💯🙏🙌
Love all your videos. Thank you so much!
Welcome Midnight Moonflower 🙏💯🙌😊
This video is Right On! I journal every morning along with a long walk. Last month I decided that I needed more of an organized healing plan. Now I walk every morning right when the sun comes up and the birds are singing. There is no better feeling! I discovered that it only took 2-3 mornings of commitment for my brain to tell me: "hey, get up, time to go!" If I don't walk every morning, and journal my thoughts and reflections from my previous day, My routine is out of whack. Try it. Give yourself just one day to start. This is definitely a God send for yourself. Doesn't cost a dime.
Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌
I've found that getting into a routine helps eliminate rumination. For example I used to think about getting to the pool and getting changed, etc and then it felt like a hassle. With a routine it allows you just think about the positive parts, e.g. with swimming the feel of moving through the water, and then you can just look forward to it. We can let our brains waste so much time ruminating on such pointless stuff if we're not careful, it's nuts when you start to watch it. Hope you have a fabulous walk today ❤️🙏
Very informative! Thanks Andrew, been working on myself. I finally feel free. How is it that these people think they are entitled to all your assets. Hope he stays away from me. Take care and thanks again
Welcome Donna 🙏💯🙌😊
Thank you
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Andrew I love your honesty you have helped me so much thank you namaste 🙏
Welcome Maria..💯🙌🙏
I'm also gonna start Journaling! Thanks for being there for me and so many others!
Welcome Tina..🙌💯
Great video. Thank you for all of the advice. You are so right after time goes by you really do need to learn to advocate for yourself. It’s definitely not easy to put yourself first.
Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌
Glowing bright as the Sun even in the darkest of Night. That's how Steadfast ones Spirit must continue in Prosperity. In and out of the season of this type of relationship. Only tolerate Positive light in your environment. Dispel the darkness as soon as you see it creeping in. I watched this 3 mths ago now here I am drawing closer and closer to the light The more I learned the closer to the light I drew. Now I'm surrounded, radiating and Glowing in it .
Thank you for sharing 🙏🙌💯
Thankyou Andrew. Love your talks
Thank you Glenys 🙌🙏💯
Thank you so much for posting these videos. I am healing now from a narcissistic relationship ended sep ‘21.
Yes, keep walking away from what doesn't work for me
You have had a Great awakening!!
Absolutely correct 💯💯💯
I believed we all loved each other end were sincere as well - glad to know I’m not the only one that had to essentially grieve this very belief.
Now that I see the truth (more of it) I am not all that let down for too long at least, when someone behaves in an evil manner.
God bless the Chosen ones ♥️
Thank you for sharing this ❤️☀️🙏
Thank you Andrew. I fully agree.
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Pacing aimlessly
With my mind is at unrest
Unsure of what may come
What have I done to bring this down on me?
Helpless to make this undone
All in due time
See the world through different eyes
All in due time
The shadows will give way to light
How much more can I give of myself
As these walls close in on me?
As I slip down into this despair (Into this despair)
There is nothing to attain
What victory? (What victory?)
When my soul is weak (Is weak)
Where does my help come from?
All in due time
See the world through different eyes
I see the world through different eyes
All in due time
Shadows will give way
Give way to light
All that we suffer through leads to determination
The trials we all go through gives us the strength to carry on
Something within us burns
Desire feeds the will to live
A reason to believe, I will see redemption
Yeah!
All in due time
See the world through different eyes
I see the world through different eyes
All in due time
The shadows will give way to light
All in due time
Yeah
Beautiful message thank you for sharing this 🙌💯🙏💪🙌
🙌🙌👏 Absolutely beautiful. The power of words to soothe the soul what a gift.
Bless 🙏🏼 You.
Thank you 🙌💯🙏
Hello Andrew Thank You for Blessing my life. Your. Honesty n willingness to share helps heal. My world.
Welcome 🙏
Hi Andrew I needed this!!
Welcome Misfit 🙌🙏💯
Such intense insight! Thank you!!
Welcome 🙏
Thank you so much Andrew God bless you my friend 🙏🏻😊❤️
Welcome 🙏
You have helped me so much, I’ve listened to other you tubes and it’s more clear from you. I was in a long term relationship , I hate to say this but I became a Zombie, I look back at the videos when I was with him, I felt I couldn’t express myself in any way, for fear he would ridicule me. I walked and moved like I was frozen!! No wonder he left I wasn’t a person anymore!
Thank you for sharing this Marcia..🙏💯🙌
Preach it Andrew!! Best video, yet!!!!
Thank you Tamera..🙌💯🙏
Have really enjoyed your vids. Appreciate your sincere honesty on how to move on, much I can relate to. I too thought everyone had the same outlook in life as I did. Expecting politeness, kindness and respect. Basically following the Golden Rule. It took a long time to realize not everyone is geared this way and there is EVIL in this wolrd snd people DO choose to be evil on purpose, wow what a concept. Fairly Pollyanna.
So much you say resonates, putting myself 1st, 2nd and 3rd! I have a high tolerance level and try to see good in others but as you said remove yourself from those situations and learn to not tolerate discomfort for myself. Love that! Thank you.
Beautiful d Mora..🙌🙏💯
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 💕 Best to you!
I soooo needed this...thanks Andrew your a star.
So are you Yve..💯🙏🙌
It helps to refocus and destress from a long day before I get back to work 😊
Andrew thank you. I am not alone. I will heal. I do feel better, except I don't have money. it is hard sometimes, but, I must go forward
Welcome 🙏
you are a very spiritual man i love you brother
Thank you Michael 🙏🙌💯
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Need that lesson today☝🖖 thx Andrew
Welcome Benjamin 🙏🙌💯
Unfortunately I’ve already been in a few toxic work environments and was railroaded out and my work sabotaged and made the right decision to leave 👍
I understand completely Ali..🙌💯💪😉
Wow all that growth in 15 months!!
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Hello Andrew, thank you
Welcome Miss..🙌🙏💯
Great information, Thank you again
Welcome always 🙌💯🙏
I call it my 'Spidey Sences' now.
Exactly 🕸😉💪
Dr Ramany says it’s unfortunate when the jobs golden goose is a bully and management does nothing about it because their good at their job. 😞
Agree completely.. thank you Ali..🙌💪🙏💯
When a Narc Hoovers at like 3am I call that a dust buster lol do no respond!😝😝😝
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We have the power to armonize environments but there is a higher risk: everybody will unleash their narcicistic charge upon you!! Have prudence and must of all be wise.
Thank you for sharing this Frank 🙌💯💪🙏
There's a fundamental difference in how _Extroverted Personalities_ deal with bouncing back from abuse, & how _Introverted Personalities_ like myself, employ resiliency:
Narcs are extroverts...they NEED ppl...an audience, constant validation from others, adoration, recognition, & they'll stop at nothing to manipulate themselves into a position to get "their supply." About 80-85% of society is also extroverted, needing the social "inclusion" factor as a validation point to pivot their own image/opinion of themselves within & around... ***THIS*** is the "in-road switch" the narc uses to "gauge" you.
Introverts like myself pose a real unexpected challenge for narcs because 1) unlike most of society, we don't need nor actively seek out external validation; we are secure within ourselves, & 2) our introverted intuition is already on the front "burner plate;" we don't have to figure out how to activate it... it's already part of our toolbox. As a result, when a narc targets us, they have to figure out how to effectively manipulate us, because 90% of their "go to" tactics don't work...forcing almost instant narcissist injury & rage because of it... they double down on their obsession to extract revenge.
_Psychology Today_ is a huge source of information on this cross-comparison of personality types & their resulting vulnerability to narcissistic manipulation tactics. Their archives are a wealth of information that clearly delineates the resiliency capabilities of extroverts & introverts. To that focus, in this regard, introverts bounce back quicker & stronger, because our personal opinions/images of ourselves do not pivot on external validation. Introverts handle manipulation differently than extroverts, & those fundamental differences shift many of the "exchange dynamics" in relationships. Understanding one's own personality type can illuminate how & why feelings about & perceptions of self & others become key factors in abuse recovery. It literally boils down to "what perceived weakness" did the narc decide you could be manipulated through" & how correct were they in their gamble??? You're the only one who can answer that question.🖤
Thank you for sharing this insight Catherine 🙌🙏☀️💯
I retired from I.S U. 3 months ago. You wouldnt believe how narcissisticly disfunctuonal the work environment was. I taught in south korea for years and never felt the isolation or malicious gossip that I experienced at Idaho State University in fact are regarded with mu h respect in korea
Enjoy your retirement and you much deserved peace. Do things that you enjoy doing. 😊
Thank you for sharing this Craig 🙌💪💯🙏
Sounds like some of my time in the military, but you had to stick it out for the retirement. Wish I had this info then
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Also, because I couldn't write in my journal fast enough, I bought a voice recorder. A personal gift to myself that only I can listen to. Works great!
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It was a friend and lover. 😇💚
So true so true Red flags.
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I am away from the Narc now , well away . A d every day play things along and see what happens. In the mean time I have discovered a person I really like . It's me. I am fine .
This comment truly represents the beauty and a silver lining in post npd recovery. ❤️ Always stay true to yourself. Self love and continued inner healing is the key to moving forward on your path. Have a blessed day💖
@@christine11347 You also have a blessed day Christine . And thanks for your reply.
I have been finding it hard the last couple of days, even though I know all about narcs I thought it would get easier.. I know it makes you stronger but I just wish it was all over with…thanks for your videos they really help
Continue to become educated and empowered..🙏💯🙌
It’s so hard like how one person can make you feel so down. I am withdrawing more everyday from people and life. I am listening to your “the steps needed” vid. I defo need inner healing. Thanks Andrew
I love this channel
Thank you Turtle..🙌🙏😊💯
🎉yes it's totally crap i see it for what it is. I'm so happy now I can feel the vibes of people and trust who I can and can't 🎉
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G0D BLESS YOU
2 1/2 years of rel.with narc….I’ve gone thru hell…I am an empath…I love him but he’s so abusive emotionally…he is 100% narc…I have taken him back sooo many times… want to believe him…it always ends up he’s secretly playing around with other women. I remind him of my boundaries, he lies and projects onto me…kicks me out, name calls, says very hurtful things…I need to break this addiction…he always shows up months later at my school sweet and sorry.
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Yep
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Yea the part where I go to work everyday and being gas lighted and not valued and not love & respected thats like the majority of real job's. So the job itself can be the narcissist all about itself and its identity as a company and its players among the company all about a dollar squeezing out 1 more hour of u on their zombie clock.
Thank you for sharing this 💪💪😉😉💯
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I went from being a 3 bed home owner good job and side jobs as a professional mermaid 🧜🏻♀️ I funded all myself. To having nothing left alone not allowed out for friends no money.
I had to ask for money for ladys products I lived on £2 a day. It made me really Ill still in councillors
Thank you for sharing this..🙌💯🙏
Doing good with my relationship with God not having a relationship with people on this earth at the moment.
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You should write a book 👏👏👏👏
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zero tolerance to vampires
=zero supply=zero Hoovers=peaceful and happy narc free life🕊️
🙏AMEN
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GOOD NIGHT SLEEP WELL SWEET DREAMS. I HOPE YOU ARE DOING WELL!!? GREETINGS Ja ja I really have had a fantastic""" day. Anyway, first Step to change"""""......... SALUDOS Y MAS
Gracias Daniela 😊🙌😳
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone SALUDOS Y MAS...... 💪⬅️
Thank you Andrew ❤️ for your content. I would like to get a 1on1 session with you. I have an ongoing restraining order that I would like to discuss with you if possible.
Drop an email at narcdailyvideos@gmail.com
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I'm really busy at the time I'll contact you when I'm finished.
Thanks again for this Andrew. I think I've healed well in that I don't think about him or miss him or anything much at all about the whole miserable experience, BUT, in my mind I find myself planning my defense in almost any situation. My situations are now pleasant and completely non-threatening, but I seem stuck on needing to defend myself. That's another nasty piece of residue. What are your thoughts?
Thank you for sharing this Pat..🙌🙏💯
Ever since covert19 came out THAT separateted the good & the bad ... Empaths 'VS' narcissist the real world u been warned..
Wow.. 🤔🤔
Help!!! Andrew🤗👫😂..why are their so many toxic people!!!!Gave out my # today and within few hours of texting could see this guy was a narc...is it so hard to find a nice man who lookimg for a good girl?..guess not ready...Im better than that...I want respect ....Guess this is were I belong for time being😂watching positive people and continue to grow and know what I (we) want
Continue to move forward and maintain your boundaries Marissa 🙌🙏🙏😊