Wow. Great episode! At the end of the day, no matter what the world tells you you should do, God has your back. Beautiful story of friendship and overcoming medical challenge. God Bless.
genetic testing via dor yesharim is the first thing i check when i look into someone! i have heard too many stories of ppl breaking things off bcz they checked later on. check AT THE BEGINNING! this can save everyone a lot of unneeded heartache and pain. i actually didnt know about j screen. gonna look into it. thanks for opening up this important conversation! you too are so cute and i am so happy to hear you have a baby! thank you tzipora for another amazing interview!
Yes, please look into jscreen. And keep in mind that dor yesharim might have you listed as “compatible,” but they do NOT have an extensive testing panel. Jscreen’s is far superior (some would say they still don’t cover enough). Hope this is helpful.
@@artbya613 I don’t know as I’m not affiliated with them, but I would assume they do as it’s a saliva test you do at home and then send it into them. I’m sure there are other genetic tests/screens that a genetic counselor or ob/gyn can recommend.
True! Genetic testing is important and guides us on our discussions. But here is a case that it could have destroyed this awesome couple from taking the next steps and living happily ever after.
Wow! This was just incredible!! I laughed out loud about being a sign person, resonated so much with that. So many great nuggets I took from this weeks podcast! Thank you!
It is a stressful and miserable life finding out you are not genetically compatible after the fact..... Ppl. Even as to how you conceive... PLEASE everyone do not take this as a sign of heroism... Please y'all get yourselves tested before. This couple is super committed and super brave to continue forward in their relationship. Which is awesome for THEM. I do believe that the hostess needed to greatly stress the caveat of this.
Rena, is exactly right. Being from out of town I had people telling me don't date the guy because he won't travel to me while others said, "you finally got a date, you need to travel". Good times.
Wow wow wow What a challenge I am wondering if they would have meet 10 years earlier if they would have gone through this challenge. But it's amazing how Hashem shows us that it can happen to anyone. And if you want to make it work out it can happen. Tzipora thank you once again. 👍
I womder if they met earlier and knew they werent compatible if they would have said no to eachother..but because they were older they were willing to overlook it
@@ScotchDrinkerBHYou sound like you've been through a lot. May Hashem give you the koach you need to find the good in things and make you a happier person. And may you be able to make the people around you happy.
@yitzchakenglad Are you off your meds today? That person asked a very normal question. When was the last time you saw a religious couple on a podcast holding hands throughout the entire time lolI'll tell you when.NEVER. It is not usual, and it is not common. Don't be a jerk and pretend like you are so knowledgeabl It does happen to be unusual.😂😂@@yitzchakenglard2514
The guests are incredible-so inspiring and resilient. Their stories are powerful, and they shine through despite the host's constant interruptions and unnecessary comments. She needs to stop overthinking what the audience wants to hear and let the conversation flow naturally. The interview would be so much better if it were led with emotional intelligence, allowing the guests to speak from the heart without being cut off.
Dor yesharim does NOT do extensive testing, and you do not get informed of your results. Better to meet with a genetic counselor and do a proper screen, or at the very least do Jscreen which trumps dor yesharim in every way.
@@ydubinDor Yesharim does test for the genetic diseases that are deadly to children. Stop knocking them. Find out more about them. There are drawbacks to over testing, including preventing many marriages, and psychological affecting people. There’s a lot of promotion of the new testing for everything, that is now leading to people having to make difficult decisions like this couple.
@@melanie18whitehow much are they paying you to say that? Do you have personal experience with this matter, because I do. They DO NOT have extensive testing and there are conditions and diseases that severely impact a child’s life that could easily be prevented if one actually tests. Whether two individuals want to marry at that point should be up to them. They could choose IVF or abortions if they so choose.
SORRY ......but isn't the genetic organization the very FIRST order of things BEFORE The dating process? Isn't that the whole intent purpose is to check before meeting?
They did genetic testing before they met and decided to go through with marriage and taking the necessary (and difficult) precautions to ensure a viable and healthy pregnancy. You don’t need an organization to tell you whether you’re compatible. You just need your results and can make an adult decision as these two did.
@@ydubinNo they had first established a relationship THEN decided to go through with it with all the dangers. Listen to the podcast and it's entirety.
@@JJ-kf4kcI merely pointed out that they had already undergone testing. They had their results, shared them, and decided to go through with the relationship. They could have just as easily terminated it. I’m not sure what you think I said. Your statement applies to dor yesharim. Not to literally any and every other genetic testing system. This obviously wasn’t your typical young person dating story. But that’s been disclosed.
An important conversation, no doubt. Have to say this grating female voice modulation makes listening difficult. Plus you need a comfortable seating arrangement and camera work so you are all visible at once. Shana tova😊
So far, here's what we know from all the stories It's always the guy meeding to make a certain change in order to fit into the girls' box, which is the opposite of what they all call for in being open-minded It's never a more modern girl saying who cares what hat he wears or what color shirt . it's all about his midos and personality. It's always the guy making a drastic move out of desperation
Thank u @tzipora fr these very important podcasts, the transparent, authentic, open communicative real life stories truly are needed in our community
Wow. Great episode! At the end of the day, no matter what the world tells you you should do, God has your back. Beautiful story of friendship and overcoming medical challenge. God Bless.
I love that they are holding hands. It's so nice to see a real friendship.
Thank you for these podcasts!!
Loving it all the way from France!!
genetic testing via dor yesharim is the first thing i check when i look into someone! i have heard too many stories of ppl breaking things off bcz they checked later on. check AT THE BEGINNING! this can save everyone a lot of unneeded heartache and pain. i actually didnt know about j screen. gonna look into it. thanks for opening up this important conversation! you too are so cute and i am so happy to hear you have a baby! thank you tzipora for another amazing interview!
Yes, please look into jscreen. And keep in mind that dor yesharim might have you listed as “compatible,” but they do NOT have an extensive testing panel. Jscreen’s is far superior (some would say they still don’t cover enough).
Hope this is helpful.
@@ydubin do they offer their services in Israel?
@@artbya613 I don’t know as I’m not affiliated with them, but I would assume they do as it’s a saliva test you do at home and then send it into them. I’m sure there are other genetic tests/screens that a genetic counselor or ob/gyn can recommend.
True! Genetic testing is important and guides us on our discussions. But here is a case that it could have destroyed this awesome couple from taking the next steps and living happily ever after.
@@yitzchakenglard2514 can you explain what you’re saying in other words? I don’t understand.
Wow! This was just incredible!! I laughed out loud about being a sign person, resonated so much with that. So many great nuggets I took from this weeks podcast! Thank you!
I wait all sunday for this!
Each week it gets better
It is a stressful and miserable life finding out you are not genetically compatible after the fact.....
Ppl.
Even as to how you conceive...
PLEASE everyone do not take this as a sign of heroism... Please y'all get yourselves tested before.
This couple is super committed and super brave to continue forward in their relationship.
Which is awesome for THEM.
I do believe that the hostess needed to greatly stress the caveat of this.
Rena, is exactly right. Being from out of town I had people telling me don't date the guy because he won't travel to me while others said, "you finally got a date, you need to travel". Good times.
This is the podcast I was waiting for
Wow wow wow
What a challenge
I am wondering if they would have meet 10 years earlier if they would have gone through this challenge. But it's amazing how Hashem shows us that it can happen to anyone. And if you want to make it work out it can happen.
Tzipora thank you once again. 👍
The point of premarital Jewish genetic testing is especially designed for predating to avoid this challenging situation.
What a lovely couple - I wish them lots of happiness.
I womder if they met earlier and knew they werent compatible if they would have said no to eachother..but because they were older they were willing to overlook it
Why do they have hold hands throughout the interview ??😇
Because he doesn't wear a black hat anymore and he watches TV 😂
@@ScotchDrinkerBHYou sound like you've been through a lot. May Hashem give you the koach you need to find the good in things and make you a happier person. And may you be able to make the people around you happy.
@yitzchakenglad Are you off your meds today? That person asked a very normal question. When was the last time you saw a religious couple on a podcast holding hands throughout the entire time lolI'll tell you when.NEVER. It is not usual, and it is not common. Don't be a jerk and pretend like you are so knowledgeabl It does happen to be unusual.😂😂@@yitzchakenglard2514
@@yitzchakenglard2514🙏
This is a great conversation
Aah yay!!
Amazing
The guests are incredible-so inspiring and resilient. Their stories are powerful, and they shine through despite the host's constant interruptions and unnecessary comments. She needs to stop overthinking what the audience wants to hear and let the conversation flow naturally. The interview would be so much better if it were led with emotional intelligence, allowing the guests to speak from the heart without being cut off.
Hey Rena! We were in Touro together;).
New set seems a little uncomfortable
Please get a good chair
For Yesharim do test for Sefardi genetics as well.
Dor yesharim does NOT do extensive testing, and you do not get informed of your results. Better to meet with a genetic counselor and do a proper screen, or at the very least do Jscreen which trumps dor yesharim in every way.
@@ydubinDor Yesharim does test for the genetic diseases that are deadly to children. Stop knocking them. Find out more about them. There are drawbacks to over testing, including preventing many marriages, and psychological affecting people. There’s a lot of promotion of the new testing for everything, that is now leading to people having to make difficult decisions like this couple.
@@melanie18whitehow much are they paying you to say that? Do you have personal experience with this matter, because I do. They DO NOT have extensive testing and there are conditions and diseases that severely impact a child’s life that could easily be prevented if one actually tests.
Whether two individuals want to marry at that point should be up to them. They could choose IVF or abortions if they so choose.
SORRY ......but isn't the genetic organization the very FIRST order of things BEFORE The dating process? Isn't that the whole intent purpose is to check before meeting?
They did genetic testing before they met and decided to go through with marriage and taking the necessary (and difficult) precautions to ensure a viable and healthy pregnancy. You don’t need an organization to tell you whether you’re compatible. You just need your results and can make an adult decision as these two did.
@@ydubinNo they had first established a relationship THEN decided to go through with it with all the dangers. Listen to the podcast and it's entirety.
@@JJ-kf4kcI merely pointed out that they had already undergone testing. They had their results, shared them, and decided to go through with the relationship. They could have just as easily terminated it. I’m not sure what you think I said. Your statement applies to dor yesharim. Not to literally any and every other genetic testing system. This obviously wasn’t your typical young person dating story. But that’s been disclosed.
You're referring to dor yesharim. She said that dor yesharim doesn't even test for the disorder they carry because it's so rare.
@@shaindyhorowitz3783 yes, bc dor yehsarim sucks. Gmar chasimah tovah!
ThecQuestions in any challenging situation are just so unnecessary and quite painful and shaming
What are they implying when saying 'relationships'?
אז אך און וויי.
I think it was a bracha bc now they can help others
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Great podcast great couple.
I’m wondering why girls have started talking in this crackly voice like a Californian at Erewhon
I think it is because she is nervous. I found it adorable that her husband is holding her hand to support her and keep her calm.
@@yitzchakenglard2514❤
An important conversation, no doubt.
Have to say this grating female voice modulation makes listening difficult.
Plus you need a comfortable seating arrangement and camera work so you are all visible at once.
Shana tova😊
@@d.rothenberg8295your misogyny is showing! Do you also have complaints about grating MALE voices??
I'm cringing, i hate it
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So far, here's what we know from all the stories
It's always the guy meeding to make a certain change in order to fit into the girls' box, which is the opposite of what they all call for in being open-minded
It's never a more modern girl saying who cares what hat he wears or what color shirt . it's all about his midos and personality. It's always the guy making a drastic move out of desperation