Mother Disagrees With Bride's Idea Of Dream Wedding Dress Silhouette | Say Yes To The Dress

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  • Bride Rebecca and her mother have opposing ideas of what the perfect wedding dress silhouette is. Can they find a happy compromise, or will one change their mind?
    From season 3 episode 2.
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  • @BetPondue
    @BetPondue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +472

    Mum says she lacks confidence, I wonder why? Maybe because her choices are constantly undermined.

  • @irisairsoul
    @irisairsoul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +593

    The only thing she actually noted about liking the first dress was the silhouette. They could have shown her one of the hundreds that are fish tail with a poofy bottom so that she had both aspects. I'm just gonna assume there weren't any in her price rance... because I think the prom dress thing is going to happen again.

    • @3orion33
      @3orion33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      For my daughter's highschool prom dress I let her pick out what she wanted, but she did try on one I had picked out.....I can still see her standing in my pick, but all photos are of her pick. Her being happy was most important. It was HER prom.

    • @foreva4eva385
      @foreva4eva385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Right!, and I feel like the consultant was inexperienced

    • @melissadavis18
      @melissadavis18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yeah the silhouette was nice but the detailed designs and the random belt was ugh 😑 they could have put her in another one

    • @kiarimarie
      @kiarimarie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yeah...I have to wonder how limited her choices were with the budget. I'm just glad David Emmanuel wasn't there like "oh, well, can we stretch it just a bit?"

  • @reeceyb7279
    @reeceyb7279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +431

    They could have shown her another dress with the similar silhouette.

    • @flo_ningthouja
      @flo_ningthouja 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I was thinking that too

    • @annedalton289
      @annedalton289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They showed her loads of dresses 🤦‍♀️
      You do realises your just seeing an edited 8 min version of an hour show🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @donnaokoniewski3761
    @donnaokoniewski3761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    This is just all wrong. Either she can't make up her mind or Mom has eternal power over her. She's beautiful in whatever dress she wanted, but I can't help but feel sad for her.

    • @monaessam4567
      @monaessam4567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She is happy crying tears of joy

    • @Chanelnumber7394
      @Chanelnumber7394 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree too I hope mom doesn’t influence her on her marriage too that would be horrible for the marriage

  • @kiarimarie
    @kiarimarie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Her sister is the best. "Rebecca, remember the prom dress...". I'm glad her sister is there to pushback on their mom a little.

  • @hotrod66ify
    @hotrod66ify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    The mom even said "I know this is your dream dress." How can you know that and still talk her out of it? I just don't think very highly of the mothers that do that.

  • @tarynsmell4811
    @tarynsmell4811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    because the bride has narrow hips and broad shoulders i think a princess gown looks so much better on her body type

    • @missbettybett7219
      @missbettybett7219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm glad you said it...coz princess would have be suitable for her

    • @cynthiadavid5282
      @cynthiadavid5282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If the bride to be loves the dress and it looks good on her she should say l love its my wedding im waring it no more talking about iy

  • @kaylachandler1967
    @kaylachandler1967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    We love the siblings!!!! The support and they didn't mind talking back to their mom when they knew their sister wasn't completely happy the first time

  • @SD-ck3ev
    @SD-ck3ev 2 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    She’s so beautiful and humble- I hope she actually did love this gown and not trying to make her mom happy

    • @motiongraphicdesigner8875
      @motiongraphicdesigner8875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      yeah i worry when she says "mom's always right," well she wasn't right about your prom dress, what happened to that debacle?

    • @bethanyreedgaspar
      @bethanyreedgaspar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dietotaku 😂

    • @chrismcdonnell2091
      @chrismcdonnell2091 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bethanyreedgaspar ñp
      Mi

  • @Alinasinging
    @Alinasinging 2 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    Its hard to admit, as I love fishtail, but this time she looked amazing in ballgown. It wasn't this typical cupcake dress, but lovely, delicate shape. She made the decision based on her sister crying and mom's pressure.

    • @L.Spencer
      @L.Spencer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She did wear the dress!

    • @toriahmyworld
      @toriahmyworld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Although I agree the 2nd gown is pretty but she looks like she'll going to attend a prom. She looks more mature and elegant on the 1st wedding dress. Best wishes!

    • @TK-ij2xi
      @TK-ij2xi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I don't agree. I think she wanted to hide her new mom body but then was stunned by her own figure - and it was hard to change her plans but she did because she felt pretty.

    • @AnniCarlsson
      @AnniCarlsson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@L.Spencer with payed for the dress moat don't have a choice of a different dress after that. If you realize you got it to please mom only you use it still due to no money for new one a d don't like the photos forever

  • @lilaxu2398
    @lilaxu2398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    U can see from the start that her 2 siblings are enthusiastically trying to show full support of her dream dress vision. I think they secretly knew their mom would win over the bride in the end. The small sister is such a mood. I also feel like crying when she said she love the lace dress AFTER she said she hated it when she was alone with the consultant.

  • @annagraser5088
    @annagraser5088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Show her a similar dress without the lace since she didn't like lace.

  • @horses2by
    @horses2by 2 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    Her Mother is so domineering , the second dress looked gorgeous on her

    • @marieslabbert6009
      @marieslabbert6009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I do not think she is domineering at all. She said what she thinks is best and her daughter agreed. She did not agree against her will as she also became very emosional when she saw herself with her veil on. There is a difference between a mother that is domineering and somebody that knows the other person well enough to know she is better than she gives herself credit for. I think a parent's main mission is to guide a child, this mother does it correctly.

    • @paulinawinter8188
      @paulinawinter8188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It's a reupload eps.. The bride had make a comment herself in previous upload, she said the show is scripted and edited and asking people to stop bashing her mum" so please respect the bride.

    • @nutcracker2916
      @nutcracker2916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@paulinawinter8188 Thanks. I wish more brides who have taken part in these episodes will comment in the comment section. To reveal how much is just encouraged scripted drama.

    • @christinelavoie2644
      @christinelavoie2644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And the bride said it was her dream dress and loved it until her mother nixed it. I hope she eventually be able to detach from her mother. She'll need much support from her husband.

    • @monaessam4567
      @monaessam4567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree with you...But the first one shows her nice figure

  • @pennylehrer1306
    @pennylehrer1306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    How terrible that the mother says I have to say yes to the dress. Sounds like she did the same with prom dress.

  • @Maerahn
    @Maerahn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Annnnd welcome once again, to *yet another* episode of "Not Your Bloody Wedding, Mother!"

  • @moosehead1183
    @moosehead1183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    2nd dress was gorgeous on her.. it's too bad her mom couldn't support her daughters true desire.

    • @eroica2392
      @eroica2392 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, the daughter was soft, flowing, and sweet, just like the ball gown.

  • @arynnkae9503
    @arynnkae9503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This felt more like a guilt trip from the mom to me. The one sister already said that this exact thing happened with the prom dress, and that happening may have the mom realizing she can guilt trip again. Unfortunately.

  • @michelleprimeaux1229
    @michelleprimeaux1229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    She definitely should have gone with the second dress. It was HER dream dress and her mother ruined it. The mom shouldn't have a say in the style. It doesn't matter if she is paying for it. It should be the brides choice.

    • @paulinawinter8188
      @paulinawinter8188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's a reupload eps.. The bride had make a comment herself in previous upload, she said the show is scripted and edited and asking people to stop bashing her mum" so please respect the bride.

    • @motiongraphicdesigner8875
      @motiongraphicdesigner8875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @AnniCarlsson
      @AnniCarlsson 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@paulinawinter8188 😂😂😂 sure. You don't say it with a gun to the head and many are not rude assholes so they didn't get forced

    • @margaretmurigi8781
      @margaretmurigi8781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Definitely should have gone with the second one it's suits her well. She is not grown up enough to make her own decisions and stand her ground. Poor girl.

    • @cynthiasnyder1561
      @cynthiasnyder1561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree. Her figure looked much better in the princess dress.

  • @mahwishf9815
    @mahwishf9815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    If it were Gok he would've shown them at least a couple more dresses to merge both styles/help the bride understand what she wants

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙄 "If it were Gok...," as if he's some kind of god! IT ISN'T GOK, so get over it!

    • @annedalton289
      @annedalton289 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seriously you are watching an edited 8 min version of an hour show !! She tried lots of dresses 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ watch the hour version 🤦‍♀️😂

  • @wa6184
    @wa6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    The mums sentence "I'M hoping that WE'RE going to pick a dress that I like" is just wrong on all levels. It should always and only be "I'm hoping the bride is picking a dress that she likes".

    • @paulinawinter8188
      @paulinawinter8188 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a reupload eps.. The bride had make a comment herself in previous upload, she said the show is scripted and edited and asking people to stop bashing her mum" so please respect the bride.

    • @wa6184
      @wa6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@paulinawinter8188 fair enough. But I and most people aren't aware of this fact and I wouldn't consider it "bashing". Her behaviour is still pretty shitty, there no way she would have agreed to saying all these things without being it board with them.

  • @SalkisRe
    @SalkisRe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I dont like when mothers insist on getting something they like because they are paying

    • @paulinawinter8188
      @paulinawinter8188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's a reupload eps.. The bride had make a comment herself in previous upload, she said the show is scripted and edited and asking people to stop bashing her mum" so please respect the bride.

    • @stacyragland3123
      @stacyragland3123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@paulinawinter8188 scripted? Why the hell would anyone go on the show and agree to be the a-hole controlling parent?? Or be the indecisive timid bride?? Makes no sense to me.

    • @christinelavoie2644
      @christinelavoie2644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@paulinawinter8188 Didn't you get tired of posting this again and again and again and again and again...

    • @samudra8014
      @samudra8014 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christinelavoie2644 May be this is a fake account of the mother in the show.

  • @raktimabose9382
    @raktimabose9382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The bride has an inverted triangle body shape and the princess style gown looked fantastic on her. The one she chose actually accentuated her inverted triangle shape further. Moms should stop thrusting their own likes and dislikes on their daughters, just because they are paying. It is supposed to be a loving gift, right? Not the right to hold your daughter ransom.

  • @Shasha8674
    @Shasha8674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    The mom should wear the dress herself that she wants for her daughter. Don't let the mom pay....pay yourself and decide yourself.

    • @arous2701
      @arous2701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

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    • @marieslabbert6009
      @marieslabbert6009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Even if she did, I still think she would have left with a figure hugging dress.

    • @blueice011
      @blueice011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I feel she did. Even the both her sisters were preferring the princess dress and her youngest one even cried when she said that she wasn't feeling as a bride wearing it, her mind was set on fitted gown since she felt pretty in it, which she explained very emotionally. There are toxic mothers and entourages out there, but I don't feel this is the case. She is pretty, sweet girl and she looked lovely in both dresses. I feel the choice was hers after all.

    • @cindycindy2894
      @cindycindy2894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She just had their second baby. Maybe money is tight and mom was trying to be nice. However, she is gifting the dress by buying it for her and a gift is a gift. The daughter can choose what she wants. Giving her daughter money for her dress should not come with condition. It was a good intention gone wrong.

    • @paulinawinter8188
      @paulinawinter8188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Please stop making comment like this. It's reupload eps..on the 1st upload the bride comment herself that she loves the 1st dress and her mom is not that rude or harsh but the show's edit portray her that way.

  • @juliejr
    @juliejr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    She looked lovely in both dresses but I do think she should have tried on another fitted dress in a different material.

    • @bookcrazy001
      @bookcrazy001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Probably not many options in her budget

    • @annedalton289
      @annedalton289 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She did try loads !!! You are only seeing an 8min edited version of an hour show 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @the_simran_sahu
    @the_simran_sahu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    It's been going on for so long now that she doesn't trust her instincts Or vision anymore. Whatever mom pictures she pictures and feels it's the best for her. I feel so bad for her and her sisters💔

  • @melasoomarie952
    @melasoomarie952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Ultimately its her choice but she looked gorgeous in the ballgown...felt the same way as the little girl..lolz

  • @Willowy13
    @Willowy13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I hate this mother: "I am happy she loves the dress as much as I do". She doesn't, but was forced into it. It is clear she wanted the 2nd dress, but the Witch of Eastwick had to have her way.
    No. Mommy is not right. She just wants to marry again through you.

  • @chevingladden5146
    @chevingladden5146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    OK, we've had two days/three brides on SYTTD England and all three dresses were at/under budget!! So unlike David Emmanuel's shop policy if ask for the budget then ignore it! All the brides looked beautiful though.

    • @newfiegal7842
      @newfiegal7842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I would be upset if I was given a dress to try on that was over budget, even if it was ‘only’ 80 pounds over. You still have to take into consideration the cost of alterations.

    • @sammylee5474
      @sammylee5474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@newfiegal7842 does the price include taxes? What if I need it shipped? How does making a dress budget work?

    • @newfiegal7842
      @newfiegal7842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sammylee5474 you would discuss that with the consultant. Shipping wouldn’t be a factor unless you order it online and not from a bridal shop. I don’t know about taxes in Europe. In Canada, taxes would not be included in the price on the tag. So your dress budget would have to factor that in. If you can’t spend more than $1000 and there are taxes on the dresses then you would tell your consultant a lower price to make up for that. Alterations depend on the shop. Prices vary. Again you would factor that in. Your $1000 dress could end up costing $1500 or more after everything else.

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's NOT David shop!!! Why don't people ever listen? The shop is owned by Christine Dando, the designer of the Dando London dresses, and it SHE who sets the policies, NOT David Emmanuel! He's just a fashion director and spokesman for the store!

  • @helintje
    @helintje 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    she probably regrets buying it now since she was just emotional bc of her mom while buying the dress.. deep inside she didn’t like it at all

    • @blueice011
      @blueice011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I beg to disagree. It was obvious that she got very emotional in the first dress once she fell in love in her reflection in the mirror wearing that dress. Nothing, not even her little sister's tears swayed her in her conviction that first dress gave her bridal vibes and made her feel beautiful. I don't feel this time she was pleasing anyone but herself.

    • @L.Spencer
      @L.Spencer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She did wear the dress and looked very happy and beautiful in her wedding pictures. I found her on fb with the name given in the video and her husband's last name of Puddick.

    • @blueice011
      @blueice011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@L.Spencer Yes, indeed. This is very old episode. She even emerged in comments under previous upload to stop bashing of her mom and to explain what everyone should know by know - it's scripted show, she chose what she wanted and was very happy with her choice.

    • @L.Spencer
      @L.Spencer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm glad to hear it, the always creates fake drama and people fall for it.

    • @samudra8014
      @samudra8014 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@blueice011 Are you the mother in this show?

  • @michelleschulman914
    @michelleschulman914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The fitted dress did not flatter her in my opinion. The ballgown looked gorgeous on her.

  • @GillianKH
    @GillianKH 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    The princess one was so much better 😅

  • @peggyesquibel8353
    @peggyesquibel8353 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ball dress was stunning on her! I think Mom’s influence swayed her toward the fitted gown, but as long as the bride was happy that is all that matters!

  • @Abyssal2808
    @Abyssal2808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The mom really said she was paying for it so it better be her style.... WHAT THE HECK? It isn't her wedding!

  • @allsatisfying4799
    @allsatisfying4799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm glad I listened to my mom about my dress, because I would have gone with a ball gown, but in this case, the ball gown looked so much better. She looked happier. She was just trying to please her mom because she's paying, and I think that's heartbreaking.

  • @ncertbookreader8251
    @ncertbookreader8251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I loved the consultant for everything she did. Except for one thing,she could have shown few more fitted dresses. More like a trumpet style dress.

  • @noemisolano4748
    @noemisolano4748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    History definitely repeated itself!!! Her Mom picked her prom dress. Now her Mom picked her wedding dress. Just like she didn't like her prom dress, the same thing will happen with her wedding dress, she is going to say I don't like it.
    Mom is fixated with a fitted dress and then says I am paying for the dress. So the bride probably felt she didn't have a choice.
    Mom should of stepped back and let the bride pick her own dress even though she is paying for it. Smh

    • @BBlair-if8tj
      @BBlair-if8tj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, she should have.

    • @kp4911
      @kp4911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Apparently this is an old episode and the bride commented on a previous upload asking people not to judge her mother as the show is scripted and her mother was portrayed in a harsh light. She said she loved the dress and was very happy with her choice.

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    • @margaretmurigi8781
      @margaretmurigi8781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Selfish mum should let her make her choice it would be be easier to live with

  • @ginasalazar7761
    @ginasalazar7761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why do mom's always threaten when they say " I" am paying , so I get the say so! If you're not there with an open heart, why are you there? So sad!

    • @Teresa-ch3og
      @Teresa-ch3og 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The only times I kind of side with the moms on this is when it is a church wedding and the bride wants a really sexy revealing dress. In that case, I think the bride either needs to compromise a bit on the dress or consider a jacket or some other kind of cover up for church that can be removed for the reception.

  • @Herrera_70
    @Herrera_70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That mom needs to get her own life! she's living through her daughter!! seems like a nightmare.

  • @auntbee1776
    @auntbee1776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This episode upset me.. I wish she would have gotten the princess gown. I feel like mom wanted to live through her

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  • @rrrjjj5572
    @rrrjjj5572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think we've got it all wrong when it comes to the role of the person paying for the dress. If you pay for the dress, that is a gift. It is not an agreement that carries the condition that you get to have a say in what the decision will be. To offer a gift this way is so controlling and it keeps the receiver, especially an adult daughter as in this case, in a subservient position when what is really hoped for is that this is now a functioning adult capable of making their own decisions.

  • @susanperry5469
    @susanperry5469 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She did look lovely in both dresses but she looked like a real princess in the ballgown.

  • @nicorizzo5402
    @nicorizzo5402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The second dress honestly looked better. I think she was just trying to please her mom.

  • @maokit
    @maokit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Mom forced her to look square. Second option was so much more feminine and beautiful on her. Terrible to have such an opinionated support

    • @christinelavoie2644
      @christinelavoie2644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "Support" is the wrong word for this mother, who only thinks of herself.

  • @Shasha8674
    @Shasha8674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Try on many dresses to figure out your style. I like the ballroom dress on her.

  • @nataliehartel3766
    @nataliehartel3766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "that other dress made me feel confident" bs! you were honest with yourself when you were alone in the dressing room!! you loved the ballgown and you hated the fishtail; you only changed your mind because you don't have any confidence. I feel so bad for this bride that she doesn't have a good support system, she deserves better.

    • @paulinawinter8188
      @paulinawinter8188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's a reupload eps.. The bride had make a comment herself in previous upload, she said the show is scripted and edited and asking people to stop bashing her mum" so please respect the bride.

  • @armpitfuzz
    @armpitfuzz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Try another fitted dress, she said she didn't like the lace !

  • @ingridmckernan5102
    @ingridmckernan5102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    To be honest I liked the ballgown on her. She should have tried on another fitted gown without the lace, mother's are not always right you know 😌😌

  • @kathyg7056
    @kathyg7056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I think the dress showed off that she just had a baby. Should have picked the second dress.

    • @kp4911
      @kp4911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But she wasn't getting married that week. By the time her wedding was coming around, I'm sure her "mum tum" will have most likely flattened out a bit.

  • @JudyB1980
    @JudyB1980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What is it with mothers wanting to pick out their daughters weddings dresses????

    • @magsfraczek5815
      @magsfraczek5815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If they are paying for it, they feel they are entitled to have their opinion and so control the bride's choice

    • @blueice011
      @blueice011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You'll figure it out when/if you become a mother.

    • @JudyB1980
      @JudyB1980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@blueice011 Nope. My daughter had a budget. The choice of dress style was hers for the choosing. I was happy seeing her so happy.

    • @blueice011
      @blueice011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JudyB1980 OK. So, you didn't have or didn't voice out any interest in how the dress might look like, no personal preferences, no opinions, no visions or dreams in regard? You were not present at all, or were sitting there being happy with any dress your daughter has tried on with only positive feedback for each one of them, no helping input, no motherly advises? OK, that's one way of doing it. I see this girl happy with her choice as well and I like her interaction with her family. Her mom comes across as strong personality, but with caring heart and love for her children.

    • @samudra8014
      @samudra8014 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@blueice011 Im totally convinced that you are the mother shown in this show.

  • @sherryhook9066
    @sherryhook9066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You had your wedding mum, let your daughter have hers and wear what she's wants. Bride's choice.

  • @orianaramunno9643
    @orianaramunno9643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Not fair the princess looked so much better on her. She should have chosen that

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  • @hinkebouman2580
    @hinkebouman2580 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Just me whitout sound ;^;

  • @Lily_of_the_Forest
    @Lily_of_the_Forest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Go for an A-line! Best of both words and universally flattering!

  • @pennypedersen6205
    @pennypedersen6205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is a SAD DAY !! SHE WILL BE SORRY, NOT YOUR MOM'S WEDDING !! There were MORE TYPES OF DRESSES !!

    • @L.Spencer
      @L.Spencer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She wore the dress and seemed very happy.

    • @kp4911
      @kp4911 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Apparently this is an old episode and the bride commented on a previous upload asking people not to judge her mother as the show is scripted and her mother was portrayed in a harsh light. She said she loved the dress and was very happy with her choice.

    • @margaretmurigi8781
      @margaretmurigi8781 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Couldn't agree more

  • @serinadavis4611
    @serinadavis4611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    If she can't back Mom down and make her own choice, she shouldn't be getting married.

  • @mahwishf9815
    @mahwishf9815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Why don't they let the brides try more dresses?!? If it were me I'd have wanted to see more before selecting from just two frikin dresses, both of which were 'meh'.

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  • @Abyssal2808
    @Abyssal2808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Let's way it guys, loudly for the guys in the back: ✨It isn't the mom's wedding, it's her daughter's!✨

  • @sjames672
    @sjames672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She looked amazing in the princess dress, it was so flattering to her body shape. the first dress looks good from the front, but from the side and back, not good.

  • @JaRule6
    @JaRule6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lmao 🤣 mom says I'm paying for it so we're going to have to get a dress that I say yes to. Then the consultant says what's the budget? Mom says a thousand pounds. Hell for that much I just pay for it myself and tell mom to shut the hell up

  • @blackrose538
    @blackrose538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ballgown fitted her much better, in my opinion. This wasn't the bride's choice of dress.

  • @allisonjames2923
    @allisonjames2923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh so sad that such a beautiful woman feels insecure about her figure. She looks amazing! Especially as a Mum

  • @babyface9206
    @babyface9206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Nope! The first dress was not flattering. The second dress was perfect

  • @lybiwinzenz2880
    @lybiwinzenz2880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I feel kind of sad for her for some reason. She looked lovely in both dresses, but her opinion is so swayed by her mother.

  • @vickiehadd4324
    @vickiehadd4324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My mother chose EVERYTHING for my wedding. I HATED EVERYTHING ABOUT IT.

  • @orianaramunno9643
    @orianaramunno9643 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why does the mum have to have such a strong opinion? I can’t understand how someone can do this.

  • @cw-s3582
    @cw-s3582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lovely Bride & beautiful spirit.. but I'm of the mindset a "gift" should not have strings attached . I would've liked to have more gowns offered unless it was edited out of show. I wish Bride & Groom many blessings on their journey in life together. ( many miles away from mom) ooo, did I say that?❤🙄

  • @naturalPaths
    @naturalPaths 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Shoulda bought the princess dress. 🤷‍♀️

  • @candaceorie5207
    @candaceorie5207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "I feel emotional that she loves this dress as much as I do" versus "I feel emotional that my daughter looks so beautiful", "I have to say yes", "I'm hoping we're going to pick the style of dress that I like" 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 It's definitely a repeat of the prom dress and it's all about the mother.

  • @Poisenivy5
    @Poisenivy5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've learned that even though I love most every dress silhouette it does not mean that it will suit the wearer. It's how they wear it, how they feel.

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  • @rc5chi539
    @rc5chi539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She was exactly right about it the first time! It didn't look good on her at all? The belly bulge and the lace definitely were not for her? She'll regret it just like she did her Prom dress... Moms are very cruel when it comes to getting what they want on their Daughter's wedding day! They're willing to crush their daughter's dreams/vision to get what they want and even more so if they're paying for the dress and they always seem to forget that they're not the ones getting married and would never admit it but are more concerned about what the guests think than what the Bride and Groom think? Have to impress those friends and family you don't even really like... In fairness, not all moms are like that BUT many many are.

    • @EtreTocsin
      @EtreTocsin ปีที่แล้ว

      “Belly bulge”?! WTFront door are you talking about? Umm she just had a baby…and her stomach is probably flatter than yours…

  • @SandraHof
    @SandraHof ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I remember my mom wanted me to buy a prom dress I absolutely hated. I tried on one I absolutely loved but was more expensive. I think my dad had a hand in it, but they ended up buying for me the dress I loved. Mom and I also butted heads on my wedding dress. She wanted my dress to be lace. I didn’t. I ended up not buying the dress fabric for it while I was visiting her in California. I bought the fabric while I was visiting my dad and step mom in Nevada. I found a beautiful off white moire fabric for my wedding dress. Simple but timeless.

  • @barbaralee3425
    @barbaralee3425 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t understand why staff even ask the entourage what they want to see the bride in.

  • @finnjones9979
    @finnjones9979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why were there only 2 options?.....Keep going!

  • @darlene1_268
    @darlene1_268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Please re-upload, there's no audio

  • @debbiemarquis3231
    @debbiemarquis3231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Baby sister confirmation did it for me .

  • @MeganHitachiin
    @MeganHitachiin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The mother is being pretty manipulative and I really hope it is just because of the editing. Her mom made it clear she wouldn’t consider anything else but what she wanted.

  • @judykey2472
    @judykey2472 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mom " If I don't like the dress I'm not paying for it". That is wrong on sooooo many levels

  • @rebeccahancock7406
    @rebeccahancock7406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is why never let mom pay for your dress if she will not support your dream.

  • @allisonjames2923
    @allisonjames2923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Normally brides who cave to their Mum obviously don’t really love the dress. But she had really strong opinions of why she liked it so I really think she did choose the dress she wanted.

  • @jackievalladares6783
    @jackievalladares6783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Buying a dress for someone is a gift, imagine giving someone a birthday gift and they tell you exactly what they want and you go NO, because I’m paying it has to be what I want. ???

  • @stephanieyee9784
    @stephanieyee9784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The dress her mother chose does look lovely on Rebecca and shows off her figure.
    But why would her mother be paying for her wedding dress? She's an adult with two children. She really should pay for her own dress.
    What the bridal shop staff don't say in these videos that the Veils add about £200 extra to the cost of the outfit. I don't know if the brides don't factor that in or they have an auxiliary budget for the veil, jewellery and shoes.

  • @abigailwalters
    @abigailwalters 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think this needs reuploded as there is no sound

  • @coopie624
    @coopie624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thought she hated the lace and belt?!

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    • @Willowy13
      @Willowy13 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She did, but mom was paying.

  • @valeriachipeta774
    @valeriachipeta774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is a beautiful human being inside and out

  • @mara2624
    @mara2624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I can't hear , it's muted.

  • @christine3941
    @christine3941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Kinda similar to the American version of Say Yes to the Dress where this “selfless” and “people pleasing bride” also wanted a princess ball gown dress but her mom and mom in law wanted form fitting and yes she bended to their will compromising her dream dress.

  • @colleenandres3800
    @colleenandres3800 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Loved the ball gown on her!!!!!

  • @marycollins1024
    @marycollins1024 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You can’t get more classic than a ball gown.

  • @Christopherhlee
    @Christopherhlee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh, this mother is coming off so manipulative. She didn’t look comfortable in the first dress. She only changed her mind because mom was crying. But her initial reaction to the ball gown was her true feelings. Regardless, she’s beautiful!

  • @EtreTocsin
    @EtreTocsin ปีที่แล้ว

    Whoo hoo, a stunner in the fitted dress..
    GORGEOUS!

  • @SatiStar
    @SatiStar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The second dress was the best on her

  • @annt7384
    @annt7384 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m so glad belts/ribbons are not a wedding dress trend anymore.

  • @wendyross7206
    @wendyross7206 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gorgeous in both 😍 💖 💕 ❤

  • @tamt5846
    @tamt5846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m wondering if an A line might have pleased both mother and daughter, but she is gorgeous in the the one that she picked.

  • @poponachtschnecke
    @poponachtschnecke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She does look amazing

  • @mariaferreras5411
    @mariaferreras5411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How about trying a few more?

  • @theraweggfiles
    @theraweggfiles 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is another prime example of a mother trying to live vicariously through her daughter by putting her in dresses the mother likes so she can imagine herself in them. So selfish. Let brides have their day!

  • @innerlight4601
    @innerlight4601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We all are happy if bride is happy 😊😃

  • @rigby.walabee
    @rigby.walabee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hey guess what....
    If you say you'll pay for something and then later hold that over someone's head that's financial manipulation and low key abusive...
    If you offer a GIFT and then hold it over someone's head thats abuse
    Not talking about this specific bride and her mom, just a thought I had while watching.

    • @blueice011
      @blueice011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, guess what...Life is not a fairy tale. If others support you and pay your bills, you are not financially independent and they have right to make decisions for you. If you are not adult enough to be financially independent and to stand up for what you want in life, you're not adult enough to get married. You're rushing from one depending relationship (with parents) to another one with different person (husband). And that's not wise thing to do, nor healthy place to be.

    • @rigby.walabee
      @rigby.walabee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@blueice011 who said she wasn't independant and her mom didn't offer to pay as a gift? That's what I assumed. She's living with her partner and has a child with him, so she isn't financially dependent, and her mom is giving her a GIFT.
      Also, parents who use your dependency to manipulate you are abusive becsuse they chose to have and keep you and you don't have a choice when you're dependant most of the time.
      Bad take overall.

    • @blueice011
      @blueice011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rigby.walabee You didn't get what I have wrote, or you don't get life. If others pay your bills, being that parents or partner, you are not financially independent. If you are not adult enough to stand for yourself, you are not adult enough to get married. People get so triggered and personal with other people's situations they know nothing about - this is a scripted TV show. And mother was not abusive at all. Would you allow abusive mother to buy you a wedding dress or to come along as your entourage when buying it? If the answer is yes, the dress is your least problem.

    • @rigby.walabee
      @rigby.walabee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@blueice011 but she doesn't have her mom pay her bills.... thats the thing... she doesn't live with her mom and her mom offered to give her a GIFT... which means no strings attatched.... thats what a gift is.
      And please never have children if you think you can push them around because you chose to create dependent beings...I.
      Like the whole "my house, my rules no privacy because I pay the bills" mentality isn't ok because the kid never asked to be born. They still deserve human respect.

    • @blueice011
      @blueice011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rigby.walabee The fact is that we don't know these people's circumstances in life. At all. We are projecting our own unresolved and unhealed issues on people we see online without knowing anything about them. You decided that this is an abusive relationship because her mother dared to have an opinion. People do. It's OK. If it's not OK, you don't accept gifts from them, you don't make them part of your life. If you don't have a choice, that's a huge problem. You don't know the nature of the relationship between this bride and her mom. To me, they look fine. You also don't know if the bride is financially independent or her partner is supporting her. You're projecting and judging based on her mom making a joke. She was perfectly OK with her choosing any other dress. It happens that she fell in love with the one her mom likes. Comment were so abusive toward her mom under original video (this is old episode) that this girl had to emerge in comment section and to ask people to stop. This is scripted content, they need drama. And it works every time - every other comment is about 'she's the bride', 'toxic entourage', 'it's not your wedding' narrative. People are very triggered by this type of content. It's something to think about.

  • @rachellebrown2411
    @rachellebrown2411 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful Congratulations!
    God Bless