The daughter may be opinionated, but seemed to really want her mom to look great. She was trying to boost her confidence in her own way. Rather sweet that the daughter wants her mom to look stunning. But the mom's choice was good. Just wish that, flower was not so huge. That cut and colour suited her beautifully.
I agree about the flower! I absolutely love that dress… It is totally something I would buy for myself, but that flower would have to go! I would replace it with a touch of bling in that same spot. Just a small little sparkly touch.
I think daughter was actually correct in her assessment but mom prevails .....just wish they tried one more dress because I bet they could have found one that everyone agreed on. That's why you bring people with you to these things
@@Positivekitten she could get the bling with a necklace & bracelets. I personally don't care for the shoulder straps or whatever they're called, but I'm glad she found a dress she liked for a great price.
They should have jacked her up. If she had some jewelry and some sort of veil and her hair done up better which she probably will do or did on her wedding day.
With proper undergarments and a size that fit, the first dress would have been amazing on her. Her daughter just wanted her mom to see herself as the beautiful woman she is. I’m happy that the bride found a dress that she was happy with, though. That’s the important thing.
What's "right," " pretty," "flattering," is what makes the bride feel happy. The rest is just a conditioned perspective, exposure, etc. Good for the bride! She deserves only support.
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Couldn't agree more. It seemed 'the consultant' was primarily concerned in persuading the future bride to buy any dress, because of the limited time.....as she repeatedly reminded her. Awful! Good on the bride for standing her ground when it came to her final decision.Her body language changed when she was wearing the dress she, ultimately, chose. I thought the dress was perfect for her.
Especially rushing from dress to dress on that day doesn't make any sense: "We don't have much time, try another one!" But why?! There weren't many options anyway and the time within the appointment shouldn't be so rushed. I understand the 72 days problem, but not how it makes a difference to rush from dress to dress on that very day... That's just making more drama for the show.
The dress did flatter her and everything worked out. If the bride feels she looks silly in a sparkly dress she shouldn’t go for it just coz her daughter likes it.
I think I read on the website that they get 45 minutes only.. The bride didn't have much time left for dress shopping so maybe the consultant wanted her to hurry so that she can try more and find some sample size to fit in..usually they have to find just what style they like.. Here they had to find sth they liked as well as fitted right off the rack
@@Phoenix.219 i get that but it's an already anxiety inducing situation. Imo the consultant was a bit overwhelming and didn't help the situation as she could have.
I have bpd, anxiety, and adhd; which makes me EXTREMELY sensitive to stressful situations under pressure. If I’m late or almost late, having someone constantly yelling at me to hurry up will make me dissociate, and will make my anxiety explode until I’m an overwhelmed yelling and crying anxious mess. I don’t think they understand how stressful it can be, especially for a decision as big as this. If I were in this situation, I just wouldn’t be able to control my emotions. I don’t yell or express my emotions around strangers because I also have extreme social anxiety, but I’d probably go into the changing room and have a full fledged panic attack. They should definitely be more mindful of peoples anxiety, because this would just ruin my dress shopping experience 100%. I think letting someone know that they just have to get the dress on, get the opinion, and then move on because they’re a little short for time is ok, but constantly badgering about it can ruin somebody’s experience. And it can also pressure the bride into getting a dress not because she loves it, but because she was under pressure.
Good for the bride to stand for what she liked, but I’m with the daughter on this one. The first one looked amazing on her ! If the consultant had tried to boost her confidence instead of rushing her, she would have seen that.
She looks great and of course I understand she as an emotionally mature person, wants to feel comfortable and at ease in a more structured dress. It is reasonable the teenager can only see it in terms of fashion. But adults who try to appeal what what a teenager believes is fashionable make themselves look a little silly. I am so glad the mother stood her ground. Too many mothers think they are teenagers and they just make foolish choices as a result. Full respect to this bride.
ok but why should you have to go for an older look just because of age? If i’m 70 and still want glitter and bling idc how old i am i’m still getting glitter and bling
I think the mom looked beautiful in the dress she picked. The color is perfect for her. She wants to look mature and it's her choice. You could tell she felt confident in the dress and her confidence will be more youthful than if she was wearing something she didn't feel comfortable in.
@@C0rvidC0rpse If you're comfortable, you'll probably carry it off. But at my age and weight, I don't think I could carry off the tulle ballerina princess I would love to be!
I don't think the daughter went about it the best way, but I really think she was coming from a place of wanting her mom's dress to celebrate her beauty and not just hide her insecurities. She probably should have realized that even though she might not see it, this dress was doing both for her mom. Glad the mom got what she wanted!
Appointments are usually booked for an hour long, generally. There's an extra half hour that is used for clean up and then they're straight into their next appointment. So if you take over an hour and a half then you're using up the next person's appointment time. Also in regards to ordering, she's right, it takes about 5-8 months generally to order. Even more time if it's cut to order. Many shops have very few sizes to try on, let alone sell off the rack. -A bridal stylist
Because they most likely were… she doesn’t have all day, each consultant in places like these have many appointments & only have limited time they can spend with each client. There’s a BIG difference between rude & honest, she was never once rude, she was honest tho. I’m not tryna be an asshole but if you think someone saying “we’re almost out of time” in a pleasant tone is being “rude” than you’re a bit of a snowflake & need to stop being over dramatic because she was anything but rude, she was honest, trying to do her job & at the end of the day had zero complaints about how she did it from the actual customer. I find it funny though how you someone who isn’t involved complain & get so worked up over something that you were involved in yet the people who were involved said she was a pleasure to work with & that she gave her all & then some being she cut into her dedicated “clean” time between appointments to make sure this bride got her dress, the bride wrote a blog about her experience & she had no bad words to say. Also keep in mind that you see 8-10mins of cut together footage from appointments that run 1-2hrs so you base your opinion on nothing really, also it’s a reality tv show, they’re always edited to look a certain way, legit just watched a video from a bride the other day who said the SYTTD YT video made the experience seem super dramatized when in fact it was anything but & again that’s because it’s reality tv, the producers & editors specifically do things to get reactions out of people in hopes you’ll tell people about it because no matter if your opinion is good or bad you’re still promoting their show for free. Just a few things to keep in mind.
I agree with the daughter. I'm not a fan of the dress. I didn't like the other dresses either. But with only 72 days left to pick a dress she didn't have much to choose from. As long as the bride liked it, that's all that really matters.
I'm not a fan of the huge flower, but I love everything else about the dress. She is right, she needs to feel confident in her dress and no one else can determine that for her. Steal of a deal.
I feel that people tend to be very defensive when it comes to 'she's the bride' moment and inputs that may not agree with general take on supportive role that entourage is suppose to have. Yes, we know she is the bride and of course that she is the one who should make the final decision. However, I feel that her young daughter is misunderstood. I feel the daughter picked up on true reasons for her mom's choice - she seemed to be rather harsh on herself and unable to see beyond her body image related insecurities - for no real reason, actually. Her figure is lovely, but she can't see beyond lumps and bumps and has chosen the dress that addresses them. Minus the flower, that was a nice dress, however, it doesn't do much for her. The color is not flattering, the cut is not too bad but she looked better in first dress IMO. She just needed the right size and alterations. I feel the daughter meant well, trying to make her mom to see how beautiful she was. It wasn't about the dress at all.
I’m so glad she stood up for herself. I’m sorry the daughter didn’t understand, it definitely is how the bride ‘feels’ in the dress that matters most. 💝
I like the silhouette of the 3rd dress. There are only 2 minor changes I would make to the dress. The 1st is the flower. I'm thinking a small cluster of rose buds would look nicer. 2nd The shoulders of the dress definitely needed some tailoring. I'm happy she loves her dress. Best wishes.
The dress is gorgeous from below the bust, I don't mind the flower at all but , it's dreadful from the bust up. She may be a mum, but the that area made her look far too matronly.
@@suerasley7237 I think that part just needed some minor tailoring -- it's meant to be more of a bardot neckline, but she had it arranged differently b/c it was a bit big there.
they had to sell her a sample so they were limited by what they had already in her size (which is tough if you're not a standard sample size) and what they were allowed to sell (sometimes they're not allowed to sell samples for new dresses because they need to be able to sell the dress to other brides).
They are limited in what they can sell off the rack, most dresses in the shops are samples and the dresses are ordered in, that's just how it works in bridal!!
Samples do not come in every size and stylbe. That would be very, expensive . that is why when you are getting married you really need to shop for the dress as soon as possible you give time for its making to your specific wishes and size needed.
It doesn't matter what anyone says if your uncomfortable and self conscious you will not enjoy your day! The mother was so beautiful and young looking and I'm so pleased she got the dress that made her feel attractive. You could see the daughter loved her Mum just hasn't lived enough years yet to know that it's more important to feel like yourself than trying to wear something for another person's opinion. Loved this episode 👏👏
Kudos to the mum! She looks amazing, and it was a perfect fit for her. I would say that I think her body looks fine, but I understand the self-consciousness about things. I hope she has an incredible wedding day!
The constant reminder that "it's 72 days away" I'd making her more nervous than she should be but the last dress was gorgeous on her,she looks so beautiful, elegant
Great mother!!! KNOWS what SHE wants!!!! Listens to her own heart! GREAT example to set for the daughter - know what you want and how you feel about it, so go and get it, no matter what anybody else thinks or says!!!! Have a great weadding day and fabulous marriage, darling! You deserve it for carring your own head on your shoulders! And how lucky is the man that got you for his wife!
I happen to agree with the daughter here that it looked like a 90's prom dress and was not at all flattering. The bride was so conscious despite having a gr8 figure and could have done much better with the budget she had. But to everyone their own and since it's her wedding day, it's her choice.
I actually really like the dress she went for. Nowhere near looking like a curtain, but I know the daughter means well. I also personally love the colour on her, very classy
I think the last dress was a great style for her. I think all that needed to change to make it look even better is to have the sleeves more “off the shoulder” and it would be stunning!
Agree. The daughter was misunderstood. She wanted her mom to realize how beautiful she was and that she doesn't need to make a choice based on her insecurities. She picked the dress that covered her body issues best, not the best dress. Which is legitimate, but sad. I see where the daughter came from. Love.
Ultimately I do think the bride's choice matters the most and if she felt like that was the dress for her, then that's it. But I feel that her daughter's heart was in the right place and was actually right about that last dress. It looked 80s or at best 90s style. It also looked like it didn't fit properly on the shoulders, which is an issue if they really are short in time, it was also very wrinkled and I don't mean the design, I mean the material looked like it needed a good iron. In saying that, I did not like the consultant here. Whilst, yes, they only had 72 days before the wedding, her repeating that over and over was unnecessary and must have left the bride feeling rushed. The first two dresses were over budget and they also looked like they'd need a fair bit of altering to fit properly. Which may have contributed to the bride's feeling of unease when trying them on. The consultant did little to make the dresses look as good as they could have, with clips or whatever to hold them on in the right places. I felt like she was trying to rush them through the appointment. They had 72 days, not 72 hours. Are they really that limited with off the rack dresses? Sadly I feel that the bride was so caught up with the thought that she was bigger (which she really wasn't that big at all), a mum and an older bride, that she had to dress like that and not as a pretty woman who deserved to look like a woman first and not as a mum. I hope I'm making sense.
I feel sorry for mum who thinks she is too fat and old to wear a sparkly dress. I think the teenager was speaking to her personality, not fashion. I believe that clothes should reflect your personality more than whether you're a mum, gained a few kgs, or any other cultural factor
I feel the daughter, even though she's a bit blunt. I'm very close with my mother and she's so insecure sometimes and doesn't realize how pretty she is and goes above and beyond to hide her true body and self behind things that aren't beautiful just cause she thinks she doesn't deserve them, not cause they're actually her taste. So I sometimes get frustrated for her and tell her she doesn't look good or what she would look good in.
I think it was a safe pick. I loved the other ball gown better on her. She could wear a bling necklace to sparkle it up for her daughter, but it’s her day. So glad she found something!
It's not appropriate nor appreciated that the consultant states with the time frame you may have to settle for what we have. Those words alone would have made me realize that she is about the sale and not about me. Her OPINION of what anything looks like on me would be invalidated by that alone. There is nothing like a "CAR SALESMEN" attendant that would make me run the opposite direction. I personally would have requested another representative or left. That representative would not be welcomed Edit: I do like the dress she choose but would have loved to see it jacked up
omg I agree plus I hated the dresses she picked out like all the other fishtail dresses in the shop would've been much more flattering than the one she picked out.
I agree with you the consultant was not only negative with a fakish smile but also appeared rushed which I felt was making the bride to be anxious....(appreciate could be the editing though)...I did love the to be Bride in the dress she chose and shoulder line to me suited her body art ....❣❣
The bride is beautiful! The dress is the perfect color, it shows offer figure, shows off her tattoos, add maybe a string of pearls or something, and she's stunning! I'm glad she stood up for herself. Plus. The daughter seemed to have forgotten they only had a limited pool of dresses to choose from.
She looked lovely and that dress was perfect for her --- very sophisticated. Her daughter would have had her walking down the aisle trying to look like Barbie.
What is this obsession ,,"you look like a princess , ' when apart from Diana's monstrosity, has any one else in the Royal family wore such a dress I think these young ones watch to many Disney films
@@elizabethmcmullen5845 As someone who was a toddler when Diana got married, I grew up with the idea of beautiful dresses being big poofy gowns with puffed sleeves. Even Anne of Green Gables thought so! I don't think Diana's gown was a monstrosity. It's just not current fashion or old enough to have vintage cachet.
While I respect Mum, of course, I thought the colour of the dress she chose drained her. It just wasn't flattering. I hope she had a great wedding but I just didn't like the dress.
I thought that the dress drained her and made her look washed out too. Thought I must be wrong until I read your comment. I am relieved that someone else saw that the colour didn’t suit her.
I think the consultant was very clear about the very few options open to this bride. She kept the appointment moving and didn't show her dresses above her budget. And really...who leaves 72 days until the wedding with no dress? She had a low budget and no time to get a dress made. She's lucky. The dress was lovely. The daughter didn't get it. There's no room for "I don't like it" when you're unprepared.
As a fashion Student , hear me out : the daughter was right it did look like a curtain and that's because of the fabric and it'll kill her to get it straight because it's almost impossible to iron it and get it straight . The flower placement is only making it worse . ( There are a lot of other factors but i won't bore you with that ) But at the end of the day the biggest thing that matters is what makes the bride happy and confident so happy for her . Also i love her daughter , she was honest but not rude or disrespectful and at the end of the day wanted best for her mum and was extremely happy for her even if she didn't personally like the dress .
the color and the texture are a bit offputting but DAMN does it nail the silhouette she needs. the ruching, the A-line skirt, the way it splits in the front to make her look even tinier at the waist was all exactly what she wanted and needed. they could probably take the flower off completely and it would still look good on her. i do hope they do a better job altering those straps because they look like they're coming up to choke her.
It does seem like the mum accidentally went for a dated look because she thought it was more mature. It just seems like it was what was in fashion when she was in her early 20s
As a dressmaker this dress compliment her figure. The color is beautiful and when her makeup and hair is done it will just be beautiful. With more time she could have tried on more styles, but in the end it is what she is comfortable in. Sometimes daughter's think they know best.
Agree entirely. People get so triggered by this type of content. The daughter came from the place of love and well intentions. Her mom was choosing the dress to hide her unfounded insecurities in it, not the right dress for her. She didn't have any pronounced body issues - that few extra pounds or mommy belly can be dealt with proper spanx undergarments and right size of the dress. The chosen dress did nothing for her. It was actually a bit young, meant for taller person and the color was off. She would be much better off in the first one in her size (out of the 3 she tried on).
Love how the consultant said "she has confidence issues" about a part of her body rather than saying she needs to hide it! She seems kind and supportive!
When you wait until the last minute it actually is very hard to find a dress... those 1st 2 dresses shown were beautiful but definitely didn't fit for the mom. She lacked the confidence.. the 3rd dress shown was beautiful and better suited for the mom. I'm glad that mom told the daughter if she wants bling on her day she can have it but shed wanted beautiful and elegant
And everyone DID respect that. She got what she wanted, didn't she? Having an opinion is what she brought those people for. And having a different opinion than the bride =/ not allowing the bride to get what she wants.
This is one time I actually agree with someone other than the bride. Her daughter is right the first dress looked amazing her and with the right shapewear she wouldn't have to worry about the area from her c-section, which looks completely fine but I understand it's how she feels. She looked more slender in that first dress than the other two dresses.
I couldn’t imagine only trying on a few dresses. The dress she chose deff looked dated and a little dingy w the color. I bet another mermaid style could have suited her better. The daughter was just trying to help 🙃 I would love a daughter like her.
she was definitely in the right silhouette (please stop trying to shove women with tummies into mermaid gowns) but her selection was already limited by the time constraints. if she wanted to try on more dresses she would have had to go to another shop.
@@dietotaku Iv seen tons of curvy women look amazing in a mermaid dresses that flares out. It compliments an hour glass figure which is what curvy women already have.
@@dietotaku She didn't have any pronounced body issues. At all. Anything that bothered her could have been solved with proper spanx undergarments and the right size of the dress. Her daughter was right. The bride was dressing her insecurities and there was no need for that. She meant well.
I liked the first one on her, but the one she chose was also very nice on her. I’m glad she stuck to her own decision. Her Daughter will have her own gown to choose some day.
I know it's a TV show first and foremost, but did the assistant really have to keep stressing that they had no time left and "it's really crunch time" ... I'd have been a wreck !
Absolutely gorgeous! No idea what the daughter was going on about. The mother was right about her lack of understanding of a mature lady's concerns. I'm sure she will look amazing on the big day and her daughter will eat her words.
This mature lady. Obviously knew nothing if she has a daughter this age and now twins. Bought a dress already then changed the wedding date and was clueless about the time needed to make a new dress for her changed body
Hate the assistant keeping saying ‘We need to hurry we are running out of time’ adding to brides anxiety. Does she have another appointment…there is 72 days and other shops !!
I'm sorry but the daughter was absolutely right. If we disregard personal preference for style (and by this I mean how dowdy that dress is) and just look at some of the more objective things: That color is probably the worst she could have gone for. She's a winter and that sort of oyster shade her dress had washed her out. Rewatch the last to dresses. Pay attention to her skin, especially in her under eye area. The second dress complements her skin tone much better whereas the last one washes her out. Now the neckline... I'm but it's just not a good choice for her. The second dress actually had its waistline in a very good place for her. I wish they could have gotten her a simple, structured A-line dress with a corset, in a white satin material and a neckline as far away from that last dress as possible. That would have been been so flattering on her. She's a beautiful woman. She could have looked so much better in somthing that would still suit her style and preference. Oh and to quote her daughter "I hate the stupid flower."
The dress is almost Victorian or Edwardian and if that’s the style she likes, okay. I think she could have had a dress with an a-line that wouldn’t be tight around her stomach but not full like a ball gown. Maybe not so heavy a fabric. But honestly, it’s not bad at all. The daughter needs to cool her jets. It’s not her dress.
Brings her the matronly gowns with sleeves 😞 instead of a corset to pull her in. Worst consultant I have seen on any of the syttd shows. Then puts her in a dress that looks like it's made from a drop cloth. 🙄 Chloe would be a much better consultant.
They may not have had any sample dresses with corsets in her size. Remember that this is a small store and she only has sample dresses to choose from because of her time frame.
The daughter may be opinionated, but seemed to really want her mom to look great. She was trying to boost her confidence in her own way. Rather sweet that the daughter wants her mom to look stunning. But the mom's choice was good. Just wish that, flower was not so huge. That cut and colour suited her beautifully.
I agree about the flower! I absolutely love that dress… It is totally something I would buy for myself, but that flower would have to go! I would replace it with a touch of bling in that same spot. Just a small little sparkly touch.
I think daughter was actually correct in her assessment but mom prevails .....just wish they tried one more dress because I bet they could have found one that everyone agreed on. That's why you bring people with you to these things
@@Positivekitten she could get the bling with a necklace & bracelets. I personally don't care for the shoulder straps or whatever they're called, but I'm glad she found a dress she liked for a great price.
@@karashahbazian1847 the problem is they take too many people!
Couldn’t agree more!
I think it’s beautiful that the daughter sees her mom as young and vibrant. She was critical but in the sweetest way.
I'm with the daughter, the colour and style made her look older, but she's happy so that's the main thing.
They should have jacked her up. If she had some jewelry and some sort of veil and her hair done up better which she probably will do or did on her wedding day.
It made her like she said “the dress was more for her age being a mom”! The dress fit her age much better than the last one.
It's the only thing
I think they just needed to open the neckline a bit. I liked it otherwise.
The color was horrible, my first thought was gray
With proper undergarments and a size that fit, the first dress would have been amazing on her. Her daughter just wanted her mom to see herself as the beautiful woman she is. I’m happy that the bride found a dress that she was happy with, though. That’s the important thing.
What's "right," " pretty," "flattering," is what makes the bride feel happy. The rest is just a conditioned perspective, exposure, etc. Good for the bride! She deserves only support.
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She is really happy with it not sure why her daughter is so against it. The bride has to feel good in it not her ❤️.
Couldn't agree more. It seemed 'the consultant' was primarily concerned in persuading the future bride to buy any dress, because of the limited time.....as she repeatedly reminded her. Awful!
Good on the bride for standing her ground when it came to her final decision.Her body language changed when she was wearing the dress she, ultimately, chose. I thought the dress was perfect for her.
Unpopular opinion : I think the consultant put a lot of pressure on the bride, making her settle for what she thought was her last option
Same
Especially rushing from dress to dress on that day doesn't make any sense: "We don't have much time, try another one!" But why?! There weren't many options anyway and the time within the appointment shouldn't be so rushed. I understand the 72 days problem, but not how it makes a difference to rush from dress to dress on that very day... That's just making more drama for the show.
Definitely!!
Totally agree... she freaked her out a bit
She didn't settle in my opinion. She genuinely looked ecstatic with the dress.
The dress did flatter her and everything worked out. If the bride feels she looks silly in a sparkly dress she shouldn’t go for it just coz her daughter likes it.
I was so annoyed with the consultant constantly telling her to hurry up.... Anyway love that she found her dress
I think I read on the website that they get 45 minutes only.. The bride didn't have much time left for dress shopping so maybe the consultant wanted her to hurry so that she can try more and find some sample size to fit in..usually they have to find just what style they like.. Here they had to find sth they liked as well as fitted right off the rack
@@Phoenix.219 i get that but it's an already anxiety inducing situation. Imo the consultant was a bit overwhelming and didn't help the situation as she could have.
Most episodes I've seen this consultant she is mostly arrogant and doesnt really care if the bride likes the gown or not.
I have bpd, anxiety, and adhd; which makes me EXTREMELY sensitive to stressful situations under pressure. If I’m late or almost late, having someone constantly yelling at me to hurry up will make me dissociate, and will make my anxiety explode until I’m an overwhelmed yelling and crying anxious mess. I don’t think they understand how stressful it can be, especially for a decision as big as this. If I were in this situation, I just wouldn’t be able to control my emotions. I don’t yell or express my emotions around strangers because I also have extreme social anxiety, but I’d probably go into the changing room and have a full fledged panic attack. They should definitely be more mindful of peoples anxiety, because this would just ruin my dress shopping experience 100%. I think letting someone know that they just have to get the dress on, get the opinion, and then move on because they’re a little short for time is ok, but constantly badgering about it can ruin somebody’s experience. And it can also pressure the bride into getting a dress not because she loves it, but because she was under pressure.
She wasn't talking about "hurry up today" She was talking about "hurry up, you have 72 days."
Good for the bride to stand for what she liked, but I’m with the daughter on this one. The first one looked amazing on her ! If the consultant had tried to boost her confidence instead of rushing her, she would have seen that.
She looks great and of course I understand she as an emotionally mature person, wants to feel comfortable and at ease in a more structured dress. It is reasonable the teenager can only see it in terms of fashion. But adults who try to appeal what what a teenager believes is fashionable make themselves look a little silly. I am so glad the mother stood her ground. Too many mothers think they are teenagers and they just make foolish choices as a result. Full respect to this bride.
Absolutely agreed. Glad that mum stood her ground.
I think mom made the right choice, it's flattering, it looks good on her, let her be her. the daughter will have her day.
ok but why should you have to go for an older look just because of age? If i’m 70 and still want glitter and bling idc how old i am i’m still getting glitter and bling
I think the mom looked beautiful in the dress she picked. The color is perfect for her. She wants to look mature and it's her choice. You could tell she felt confident in the dress and her confidence will be more youthful than if she was wearing something she didn't feel comfortable in.
@@C0rvidC0rpse If you're comfortable, you'll probably carry it off. But at my age and weight, I don't think I could carry off the tulle ballerina princess I would love to be!
Glad the bride stuck to her guns. She looked stunning in the gown that she chose!! ❤️❤️
I liked it too! It's very romantic.
Just posted the same comment and hadn't even read your comment yet! 💯🎯
You are NOT too old for that dress! Girl you looked like a queen!!!!
I don't think the daughter went about it the best way, but I really think she was coming from a place of wanting her mom's dress to celebrate her beauty and not just hide her insecurities. She probably should have realized that even though she might not see it, this dress was doing both for her mom. Glad the mom got what she wanted!
The consultant was awful, constantly telling her we need to hurry and there's limited dresses stressing the poor women out
It's the pressure sales tactics
I thought it was for the cameras
Appointments are usually booked for an hour long, generally. There's an extra half hour that is used for clean up and then they're straight into their next appointment. So if you take over an hour and a half then you're using up the next person's appointment time. Also in regards to ordering, she's right, it takes about 5-8 months generally to order. Even more time if it's cut to order. Many shops have very few sizes to try on, let alone sell off the rack. -A bridal stylist
Rude she was. Not even helping the lady off the platform.
Because they most likely were… she doesn’t have all day, each consultant in places like these have many appointments & only have limited time they can spend with each client. There’s a BIG difference between rude & honest, she was never once rude, she was honest tho. I’m not tryna be an asshole but if you think someone saying “we’re almost out of time” in a pleasant tone is being “rude” than you’re a bit of a snowflake & need to stop being over dramatic because she was anything but rude, she was honest, trying to do her job & at the end of the day had zero complaints about how she did it from the actual customer. I find it funny though how you someone who isn’t involved complain & get so worked up over something that you were involved in yet the people who were involved said she was a pleasure to work with & that she gave her all & then some being she cut into her dedicated “clean” time between appointments to make sure this bride got her dress, the bride wrote a blog about her experience & she had no bad words to say. Also keep in mind that you see 8-10mins of cut together footage from appointments that run 1-2hrs so you base your opinion on nothing really, also it’s a reality tv show, they’re always edited to look a certain way, legit just watched a video from a bride the other day who said the SYTTD YT video made the experience seem super dramatized when in fact it was anything but & again that’s because it’s reality tv, the producers & editors specifically do things to get reactions out of people in hopes you’ll tell people about it because no matter if your opinion is good or bad you’re still promoting their show for free. Just a few things to keep in mind.
I agree with Chloe, it did look like a curtain or an 80’s prom dress...there had to be another similar shaped dress in that store!!
It suited her tho and thought it looked good on her I personally don't like the dress but it suits her and she's happy.
@@carolinpurayidom4570 i didn't think the neckline suited her at all..
....Disagree. The dress was gorgeous and she looked fabulous in it.
That dress is definitely a 1980s throwback and the flower is Hideous. But the bride loves it and feels good in it which is the main thing.
Well, the 80's was a golden age of dresses. I miss things with actual fabric and lots of it.
It's nice to finally see a bride on this show who's able to stand up for what she wants. The daughter just wants her to be happy, so everyone wins.
I agree with the daughter. I'm not a fan of the dress. I didn't like the other dresses either. But with only 72 days left to pick a dress she didn't have much to choose from. As long as the bride liked it, that's all that really matters.
I'm not a fan of the huge flower, but I love everything else about the dress. She is right, she needs to feel confident in her dress and no one else can determine that for her. Steal of a deal.
I feel that people tend to be very defensive when it comes to 'she's the bride' moment and inputs that may not agree with general take on supportive role that entourage is suppose to have. Yes, we know she is the bride and of course that she is the one who should make the final decision. However, I feel that her young daughter is misunderstood. I feel the daughter picked up on true reasons for her mom's choice - she seemed to be rather harsh on herself and unable to see beyond her body image related insecurities - for no real reason, actually. Her figure is lovely, but she can't see beyond lumps and bumps and has chosen the dress that addresses them. Minus the flower, that was a nice dress, however, it doesn't do much for her. The color is not flattering, the cut is not too bad but she looked better in first dress IMO. She just needed the right size and alterations. I feel the daughter meant well, trying to make her mom to see how beautiful she was. It wasn't about the dress at all.
I agree!
Oh, yes mom!!! It's a beautiful dress, gives you a fabulous figure and you DO look like a regal princess!!! All the best . . .
I’m so glad she stood up for herself. I’m sorry the daughter didn’t understand, it definitely is how the bride ‘feels’ in the dress that matters most. 💝
I like the silhouette of the 3rd dress. There are only 2 minor changes I would make to the dress. The 1st is the flower. I'm thinking a small cluster of rose buds would look nicer. 2nd The shoulders of the dress definitely needed some tailoring.
I'm happy she loves her dress. Best wishes.
Absolutely. Tweak that shoulder bust are, upgrade the flower, and add a simple but glitzy belt or diamond broach at the waistline. Totally good.
I agree with you about the changes. That would look nice.
The dress is gorgeous from below the bust, I don't mind the flower at all but , it's dreadful from the bust up. She may be a mum, but the that area made her look far too matronly.
@@suerasley7237 I think that part just needed some minor tailoring -- it's meant to be more of a bardot neckline, but she had it arranged differently b/c it was a bit big there.
@@gooberfries6692 beautiful dress
At Last!!! A bride who doesn't have to have permission from someone in their entourage before saying YES To The Dress!!! Good on you, Mum!! 🤗🙌🏽👍🏽
She could have definitely gotten a prettier dress within her budget that suits her figure(she does have a wonderful figure for a mom)
Yes she may have. If she had shopped much earlier . waiting until 72 days before the wedding you don't get many choices.
I think she made the right choice. It’s a beautiful dress and she’s gorgeous in it ❤️❤️❤️
that dress is really PERFECT.
For her body shape, for her age, for her hair, for her tatoos.. it is just so beautiful, she looks amazying!!
It looks like the shop didn't make much efforts in trying to find more options.
they had to sell her a sample so they were limited by what they had already in her size (which is tough if you're not a standard sample size) and what they were allowed to sell (sometimes they're not allowed to sell samples for new dresses because they need to be able to sell the dress to other brides).
They are limited in what they can sell off the rack, most dresses in the shops are samples and the dresses are ordered in, that's just how it works in bridal!!
Samples do not come in every size and stylbe. That would be very, expensive . that is why when you are getting married you really need to shop for the dress as soon as possible you give time for its making to your specific wishes and size needed.
It doesn't matter what anyone says if your uncomfortable and self conscious you will not enjoy your day! The mother was so beautiful and young looking and I'm so pleased she got the dress that made her feel attractive. You could see the daughter loved her Mum just hasn't lived enough years yet to know that it's more important to feel like yourself than trying to wear something for another person's opinion. Loved this episode 👏👏
Yeah! Glad the bride stood her ground and got what SHE wanted and felt comfortable in!
that dress looks amazingg, vintage and timeless
I love how mom stood her ground !! She got what SHE wanted
Kudos to the mum! She looks amazing, and it was a perfect fit for her. I would say that I think her body looks fine, but I understand the self-consciousness about things. I hope she has an incredible wedding day!
I don’t think the consultant put the bride at her ease at all about timeframes etc. Bring on Gok, who doesn’t see problems just gorgeous brides-to-be.
Guess again
I love the dress she picked! It looks perfect on her!
The constant reminder that "it's 72 days away" I'd making her more nervous than she should be but the last dress was gorgeous on her,she looks so beautiful, elegant
I am so glad the mum stuck to her guns. She looks beautiful and its a perfect dress for a grown woman.
I love what she chose! She was glowing
Great mother!!! KNOWS what SHE wants!!!! Listens to her own heart! GREAT example to set for the daughter - know what you want and how you feel about it, so go and get it, no matter what anybody else thinks or says!!!! Have a great weadding day and fabulous marriage, darling! You deserve it for carring your own head on your shoulders! And how lucky is the man that got you for his wife!
She looked fabulous in the dress that she chose it was perfect for her the daughter will come around
I happen to agree with the daughter here that it looked like a 90's prom dress and was not at all flattering. The bride was so conscious despite having a gr8 figure and could have done much better with the budget she had. But to everyone their own and since it's her wedding day, it's her choice.
I actually really like the dress she went for. Nowhere near looking like a curtain, but I know the daughter means well. I also personally love the colour on her, very classy
I think the last dress was a great style for her. I think all that needed to change to make it look even better is to have the sleeves more “off the shoulder” and it would be stunning!
The mom is right though!the ball gown makes her look like she's trying to be young.
It was uploaded 9 minutes ago and I'm already here 😭😂 I need to get a life 😂 I'm obsessed with these
Mom knows best! That dress was stunning in her!
I'm very proud of this lady. The dress is absolutely beautiful on her!
I loved her decision to stick with what she loved. I also loved, "I know me best, and this is me".
I agree with her daughter .
I love how they're both right
She’s not big at all? Seems like the whole appointment was about her weight..
Not her weight. She was concerned about her shape due to the C-Section
@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat yep. That’s my issue. Oh my goodness it can be traumatizing. Before the c section I could wear anything. I understand her
She was the one not happy with her own body image
100% agree with the daughter... She looked better in the 1st 2 dresses.
Agree. The daughter was misunderstood. She wanted her mom to realize how beautiful she was and that she doesn't need to make a choice based on her insecurities. She picked the dress that covered her body issues best, not the best dress. Which is legitimate, but sad. I see where the daughter came from. Love.
100000% disagree with you and her daughter
Ultimately I do think the bride's choice matters the most and if she felt like that was the dress for her, then that's it. But I feel that her daughter's heart was in the right place and was actually right about that last dress. It looked 80s or at best 90s style. It also looked like it didn't fit properly on the shoulders, which is an issue if they really are short in time, it was also very wrinkled and I don't mean the design, I mean the material looked like it needed a good iron. In saying that, I did not like the consultant here. Whilst, yes, they only had 72 days before the wedding, her repeating that over and over was unnecessary and must have left the bride feeling rushed. The first two dresses were over budget and they also looked like they'd need a fair bit of altering to fit properly. Which may have contributed to the bride's feeling of unease when trying them on. The consultant did little to make the dresses look as good as they could have, with clips or whatever to hold them on in the right places. I felt like she was trying to rush them through the appointment. They had 72 days, not 72 hours. Are they really that limited with off the rack dresses? Sadly I feel that the bride was so caught up with the thought that she was bigger (which she really wasn't that big at all), a mum and an older bride, that she had to dress like that and not as a pretty woman who deserved to look like a woman first and not as a mum. I hope I'm making sense.
I feel sorry for mum who thinks she is too fat and old to wear a sparkly dress. I think the teenager was speaking to her personality, not fashion. I believe that clothes should reflect your personality more than whether you're a mum, gained a few kgs, or any other cultural factor
I feel the daughter, even though she's a bit blunt. I'm very close with my mother and she's so insecure sometimes and doesn't realize how pretty she is and goes above and beyond to hide her true body and self behind things that aren't beautiful just cause she thinks she doesn't deserve them, not cause they're actually her taste. So I sometimes get frustrated for her and tell her she doesn't look good or what she would look good in.
The assistant was not helping the bride, but continually highlighting we don't have time, we are running out of options
I think it was a safe pick. I loved the other ball gown better on her. She could wear a bling necklace to sparkle it up for her daughter, but it’s her day. So glad she found something!
take off the flower in alterations and put a blingy brooch in its place, or a sparkly belt. that would jazz it up a bit.
Love the third dress. So absolutely strange the daughter’s being so stubbornly insistent. Glad the mother/bride remained joyful and steadfast.
No 3 is her dress looking fab girl x👍
It's not appropriate nor appreciated that the consultant states with the time frame you may have to settle for what we have. Those words alone would have made me realize that she is about the sale and not about me. Her OPINION of what anything looks like on me would be invalidated by that alone. There is nothing like a "CAR SALESMEN" attendant that would make me run the opposite direction. I personally would have requested another representative or left. That representative would not be welcomed
Edit: I do like the dress she choose but would have loved to see it jacked up
omg I agree plus I hated the dresses she picked out like all the other fishtail dresses in the shop would've been much more flattering than the one she picked out.
I agree with you the consultant was not only negative with a fakish smile but also appeared rushed which I felt was making the bride to be anxious....(appreciate could be the editing though)...I did love the to be Bride in the dress she chose and shoulder line to me suited her body art ....❣❣
Very appropriate when you have limited choices due to size. And budget and time.
The bride is beautiful! The dress is the perfect color, it shows offer figure, shows off her tattoos, add maybe a string of pearls or something, and she's stunning! I'm glad she stood up for herself. Plus. The daughter seemed to have forgotten they only had a limited pool of dresses to choose from.
I love the dress she chose. & She's right. It suits her much better than the princess dress.
It was the best dress for her and looked great on her, this is one time the daughter has to take the back seat and support her Mum ❤️
She looked lovely and that dress was perfect for her --- very sophisticated. Her daughter would have had her walking down the aisle trying to look like Barbie.
The daughter doesen't realize that is no such thinh as barbie and that the toy is a figment of Mattel company.
What is this obsession ,,"you look like a princess , ' when apart from Diana's monstrosity, has any one else in the Royal family wore such a dress I think these young ones watch to many Disney films
@@elizabethmcmullen5845 Yes, I think the daughter has watched FROZEN far too many times.
@@elizabethmcmullen5845 As someone who was a toddler when Diana got married, I grew up with the idea of beautiful dresses being big poofy gowns with puffed sleeves. Even Anne of Green Gables thought so! I don't think Diana's gown was a monstrosity. It's just not current fashion or old enough to have vintage cachet.
While I respect Mum, of course, I thought the colour of the dress she chose drained her. It just wasn't flattering. I hope she had a great wedding but I just didn't like the dress.
I thought that the dress drained her and made her look washed out too. Thought I must be wrong until I read your comment. I am relieved that someone else saw that the colour didn’t suit her.
That 3rd dress was stunning!
I loved the 2nd dress, but I'm glad she left happy with what she picked.
I think the consultant was very clear about the very few options open to this bride. She kept the appointment moving and didn't show her dresses above her budget. And really...who leaves 72 days until the wedding with no dress? She had a low budget and no time to get a dress made. She's lucky. The dress was lovely. The daughter didn't get it. There's no room for "I don't like it" when you're unprepared.
I have to agree with the daughter. It looks like a prom dress.
Yay, if she likes it, it's her day but you wouldn't catch me dead in that thing. lol
I am so happy she went with the third dress! She looks amazing in it and I absolutely love that color on her
Yes! with her skin tone! 🤩
The dress looked gorgeous, elegant perfect on her. Hope she’s very happy.
The dress mom chose is beautiful 🤩
Her daughter is so sweet, not in an obvious way but shes trying her best to make her mom feel good about herself
I hope I feel as beautiful at my wedding in just over 2 weeks
As a fashion Student , hear me out : the daughter was right it did look like a curtain and that's because of the fabric and it'll kill her to get it straight because it's almost impossible to iron it and get it straight . The flower placement is only making it worse . ( There are a lot of other factors but i won't bore you with that ) But at the end of the day the biggest thing that matters is what makes the bride happy and confident so happy for her . Also i love her daughter , she was honest but not rude or disrespectful and at the end of the day wanted best for her mum and was extremely happy for her even if she didn't personally like the dress .
the color and the texture are a bit offputting but DAMN does it nail the silhouette she needs. the ruching, the A-line skirt, the way it splits in the front to make her look even tinier at the waist was all exactly what she wanted and needed. they could probably take the flower off completely and it would still look good on her. i do hope they do a better job altering those straps because they look like they're coming up to choke her.
It does seem like the mum accidentally went for a dated look because she thought it was more mature. It just seems like it was what was in fashion when she was in her early 20s
As a dressmaker this dress compliment her figure. The color is beautiful and when her makeup and hair is done it will just be beautiful. With more time she could have tried on more styles, but in the end it is what she is comfortable in. Sometimes daughter's think they know best.
Agree entirely. People get so triggered by this type of content. The daughter came from the place of love and well intentions. Her mom was choosing the dress to hide her unfounded insecurities in it, not the right dress for her. She didn't have any pronounced body issues - that few extra pounds or mommy belly can be dealt with proper spanx undergarments and right size of the dress. The chosen dress did nothing for her. It was actually a bit young, meant for taller person and the color was off. She would be much better off in the first one in her size (out of the 3 she tried on).
I love the dress. She looks just fabulous! She made the right choice.
Love how the consultant said "she has confidence issues" about a part of her body rather than saying she needs to hide it! She seems kind and supportive!
When you wait until the last minute it actually is very hard to find a dress... those 1st 2 dresses shown were beautiful but definitely didn't fit for the mom. She lacked the confidence.. the 3rd dress shown was beautiful and better suited for the mom. I'm glad that mom told the daughter if she wants bling on her day she can have it but shed wanted beautiful and elegant
The consultant not helping at all.. 😅😂 Anyway I'm happy for bride..at least she found her dress..
A bride is entitled to wear what makes herself happy and feel beautiful on her big day, anyone else should respect that, Seriously~
And everyone DID respect that. She got what she wanted, didn't she? Having an opinion is what she brought those people for. And having a different opinion than the bride =/ not allowing the bride to get what she wants.
Daughter always knows best
This is one time I actually agree with someone other than the bride. Her daughter is right the first dress looked amazing her and with the right shapewear she wouldn't have to worry about the area from her c-section, which looks completely fine but I understand it's how she feels. She looked more slender in that first dress than the other two dresses.
glad mom stood her ground beautiful dress
I couldn’t imagine only trying on a few dresses.
The dress she chose deff looked dated and a little dingy w the color. I bet another mermaid style could have suited her better. The daughter was just trying to help 🙃 I would love a daughter like her.
she was definitely in the right silhouette (please stop trying to shove women with tummies into mermaid gowns) but her selection was already limited by the time constraints. if she wanted to try on more dresses she would have had to go to another shop.
@@dietotaku Iv seen tons of curvy women look amazing in a mermaid dresses that flares out. It compliments an hour glass figure which is what curvy women already have.
@@dietotaku She didn't have any pronounced body issues. At all. Anything that bothered her could have been solved with proper spanx undergarments and the right size of the dress. Her daughter was right. The bride was dressing her insecurities and there was no need for that. She meant well.
I liked the first one on her, but the one she chose was also very nice on her. I’m glad she stuck to her own decision.
Her Daughter will have her own gown to choose some day.
I know it's a TV show first and foremost, but did the assistant really have to keep stressing that they had no time left and "it's really crunch time" ... I'd have been a wreck !
Absolutely gorgeous! No idea what the daughter was going on about. The mother was right about her lack of understanding of a mature lady's concerns. I'm sure she will look amazing on the big day and her daughter will eat her words.
This mature lady. Obviously knew nothing if she has a daughter this age and now twins. Bought a dress already then changed the wedding date and was clueless about the time needed to make a new dress for her changed body
So glad she stuck to her guns, and didn't let her daughter sway her. She looked gorgeous in that gown!
Good on you Mom!!👏You look stunning in that 👗!!
Hate the assistant keeping saying ‘We need to hurry we are running out of time’ adding to brides anxiety. Does she have another appointment…there is 72 days and other shops !!
That laugh after the daughter said my job is to tell her if she looks awful. Uh-ha-ha. 😂🤣😂
I'm sorry but the daughter was absolutely right.
If we disregard personal preference for style (and by this I mean how dowdy that dress is) and just look at some of the more objective things:
That color is probably the worst she could have gone for. She's a winter and that sort of oyster shade her dress had washed her out.
Rewatch the last to dresses. Pay attention to her skin, especially in her under eye area. The second dress complements her skin tone much better whereas the last one washes her out.
Now the neckline... I'm but it's just not a good choice for her. The second dress actually had its waistline in a very good place for her.
I wish they could have gotten her a simple, structured A-line dress with a corset, in a white satin material and a neckline as far away from that last dress as possible. That would have been been so flattering on her. She's a beautiful woman. She could have looked so much better in somthing that would still suit her style and preference.
Oh and to quote her daughter "I hate the stupid flower."
The dress she chose was perfect and beautiful.
The dress was suitable for her. The color went very good with her skin tone & top was so pretty showing her shoulders. She looked beautiful.
I didn’t care for the 3rd one. It looked too much like an older style prom dress. Didn’t care for the ivory color and big flower either.
The dress is almost Victorian or Edwardian and if that’s the style she likes, okay. I think she could have had a dress with an a-line that wouldn’t be tight around her stomach but not full like a ball gown. Maybe not so heavy a fabric. But honestly, it’s not bad at all. The daughter needs to cool her jets. It’s not her dress.
She didn't give herself much time to find a dress. Agree with the daughter on the one she chose. But the bride is happy and that's what counts.
Brings her the matronly gowns with sleeves 😞 instead of a corset to pull her in. Worst consultant I have seen on any of the syttd shows. Then puts her in a dress that looks like it's made from a drop cloth. 🙄 Chloe would be a much better consultant.
They may not have had any sample dresses with corsets in her size. Remember that this is a small store and she only has sample dresses to choose from because of her time frame.
I loved the dress she chose.
Good for you mom you stood your ground against your daughter. It’s gonna be your day not hers👏👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️❤️
The second has SO MUCH FABRIC