'Leave Your 5 Year Relationship!' (ft. Mihlali N, Muchi Matters & More Mpanza) |

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  • @keneilwemasupa5183
    @keneilwemasupa5183 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Lol I'm also in a 5 year relationship and I'm 21🙈. There is some truth in what the people are saying but I feel you need to have a conversation with him in terms of where you guys are headed and if he wants you in his future and what's up. If he is still unsure, think again. You not entirely saying "marry me now" but does he see you guys together in the future. Is there a "we" in future plans or is it just "me and I's" in the relationship?
    Girl,you the only one that knows what's best for you and what you want. Holding on to a 5 year relationship because of the length of the relationship yet unsure if he even includes you in his future plans,should not be a reason to keep you to hold on.
    Our situations are slightly different in a sense because my partner is clear about his intentions and uses "we" more than "I" . There is him, me and then us together.

    • @keneilwemasupa5183
      @keneilwemasupa5183 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Side note: we are in a long distance relationship and that has helped us to figure ourselves out and being our own selves basically.

    • @kylerkieran6546
      @kylerkieran6546 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A trick : you can watch movies at flixzone. Been using it for watching a lot of movies during the lockdown.

    • @curtisandre6975
      @curtisandre6975 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Kyler Kieran Yea, I've been using flixzone} for years myself =)

  • @EverythingLelona
    @EverythingLelona 5 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    I remember watching Mpoomy Ledwaba talking about how she knew Brendan was the "ONE", she mentioned that he started speaking about his future but in his plans for his future he always included her.
    Moral of the story, a partner who doesn't seem to "see" you in his/her future is very problematic.

    • @monicamuchindu
      @monicamuchindu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeesss thisss

    • @EverythingLelona
      @EverythingLelona 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@monicamuchindu that has always stuck with me

    • @boipelo236
      @boipelo236 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wow 😻

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is so good🙌🏿🙏🏿🔥

  • @DEFINING
    @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Wassup Definers🔥! I hope you enjoyed this vlog📍!! Shout out to Mihlali, Sipho, Sibu and Buhle for featuring. #RoadTo50K

    • @kekeletsomotsoeneng8653
      @kekeletsomotsoeneng8653 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Y'all provide hey 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤❤

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kekeletsomotsoeneng8653 Thank you Fam🙌🏿🙏🏿

  • @gracenovie
    @gracenovie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Seven people and they all gave each other an opportunity to talk/voice their opinions. Now this is how you do it👌👌love it.
    Please invite them all again 😩😩❤️❤️
    #DefiningFam #RoadTo50k 🍾🍾🥂🥂

  • @DEFINING
    @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Are you looking forward to #AskingForAFriend with Khay Republik & Kea Moko? 📺

    • @khunindlovu3310
      @khunindlovu3310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We are forever ready 😄😄😄

    • @thulasdladla1928
      @thulasdladla1928 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've beeeeen waiting for it😂💃. When are we getting it?

    • @GlowWithRed
      @GlowWithRed 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      DEFINING YESSS!!!!

    • @lelomatunywa8352
      @lelomatunywa8352 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Khay and Kea are my faves😍😍so definitely

    • @snenkosi5558
      @snenkosi5558 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes 💃🏻💃🏻looking forward to it

  • @ikanyenglediga3701
    @ikanyenglediga3701 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    🙆‍♀️Also the 90s generation is soo eager to get married it’s scary.24 years you are still young babes you should be selfishly enjoying your twenties.So many women in their 40s will tell you they wish they waited to achieve their dreams before getting married.
    This guy is not fully independent his saying he needs to have his own “place “ meaning gather himself independently financially before considering marriage.Which is totally understandable.Even 10 years of dating and discovering self is okay rather than married ,broke ,depended and frustrated .🙌

    • @nondumisomhlongo
      @nondumisomhlongo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True! As young adults who are still figuring themselves out...We shouldnt be compromising our whole beings and journeys for our relationships🔥🔥. We should still allow ourselves to become individually

    • @ikanyenglediga3701
      @ikanyenglediga3701 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      DEFINING Exactly Defining team!💯What I love about men they will never discuss something they know will not be a reality anytime soon.🙅‍♀️Yet as women we somehow wired our brains🧠 to believe that a man must see marriage👰 in us to value ourselves in a relationship.And it’s not even close to that.Just be whom you are required to be now a girlfriend.💁‍♀️
      By the way it’s in God plans whether we get married or not.Not ours.🙆‍♀️Dennis must host a seminar and titled “5years of dating =Marriage ❌❌❌”And invite women tuu🙌

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ikanyenglediga3701 that seminar suggestion😅😂😂😂🙌🏿🔥🔥🤗🤗

  • @Kamogelo_PhD
    @Kamogelo_PhD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    To say I love this channel is an understatement.

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Masengane🙌🏿😭🔥

    • @tashatjazapi1054
      @tashatjazapi1054 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm with you on this one. I was introduced to this channel just yesterday and I probably honestly watched all the videos I love it that much. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @MichelleMakhanya
    @MichelleMakhanya 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    5 years without marriage talk?? Ibhanoyi ke le.

  • @ThatyMahloko
    @ThatyMahloko 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This channel is so therapeutic 😭♥️.

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Fam🙌🏿🔥

  • @dieketsengkhumalo9889
    @dieketsengkhumalo9889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Sipho stated NOTHING BUT FACTS!!!!!!

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Standard procedure🙌🏿😋🔥

    • @mandilake
      @mandilake 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sipho is smart!

  • @naledisechoaro8541
    @naledisechoaro8541 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I'm here for Sipho's voice

  • @xpnn
    @xpnn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bless the day I found this channel!
    Y’all have amazing content

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Boipelo🙌🏿🤗🤗

  • @ayandasithole9146
    @ayandasithole9146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Would love to see Okay Wasabi and Dali Danger on one of these! LOVE THIS CHANNEL SO MUCH, THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMMITMENT DENNIS :)))

  • @ggmanzi4530
    @ggmanzi4530 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Break up . He doesn’t want to marry her . If you’ve been together for more than 2 years and he hasn’t spoken about marriage then akakufuni! Simple. Age doesn’t matter.

  • @odi9377
    @odi9377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It is not as easy as it sounds. I left the guy I dated for 3 years because the marriage conversation made him feel uncomfortable and he was also in a space were he felt that he wanted to explore life first before even thinking about tying the knot. We were around 24 then. Then I met a guy who is family and marriage orientated now I'm the one who doesn't want to get married.

  • @Hopesonlinejournal_
    @Hopesonlinejournal_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love this channel so much! Wow 😭😭❤️❤️
    Dennis you're doing the most fam🌸
    For the scenario, I agree!
    I dated my ex since high school and we broke up when we got to varsity. It was the worst-best thing that could've ever happened to me. Being single is not a disease😂. You get to learn so much about yourself and I'm loving the space I'm in right now. It's the best! 😊

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Fam🙌🏿🙏🏿🤗
      I'm so glad you decided to choose yourself and wholesomely go through the process. Now you're happier and confident🙌🏿🔥

  • @kagisomodutwane5361
    @kagisomodutwane5361 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You know what happened 😹😹😹 Noma said I think you should break and everyone's face was like woah then a ad came on, so I was like Hektik!!! 😭😹😹😹😹💔

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      We were in Shambles😅🤣😂

  • @clintonzulu
    @clintonzulu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm here for Mihlali's reactions🤣🤣🤣

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Priceless🙌🏿🙌🏿🤣😂

  • @bongivelem6037
    @bongivelem6037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I dated my baby daddy for 12 years,2004 till 2016
    UPDATE: we broke up

    • @kgotsi_gadiseema3005
      @kgotsi_gadiseema3005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We are the same 😢 but let it go its a good idea ever

    • @thatomaitin1242
      @thatomaitin1242 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yhu💔

    • @willgamble5423
      @willgamble5423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😲 That's marriage klaar 😝😵, entlek 🤔you are married, the child is the ring

    • @bongivelem6037
      @bongivelem6037 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@willgamble5423 hahahhahaha, one time

  • @HelangMedia
    @HelangMedia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I would leave the relationship, where did we even get the chance to know who we are? Yhoo what are we bringing to this relationship that started at 19?
    I agree with what Noma and Buhle

    • @itsnomacles
      @itsnomacles 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Sis

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      After 5 years😯😯

  • @buyisiwenkosi692
    @buyisiwenkosi692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would gladly watch an hour long video, coz wow DEFINING is it❤️❤️❤️

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Buyie😭😭🙏🏿🔥

  • @dieketsengkhumalo9889
    @dieketsengkhumalo9889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Internally la tshameka. Noma bathong!!!!!

    • @itsnomacles
      @itsnomacles 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ha.a Its only the Gospel!!!

  • @baonemolotsi9629
    @baonemolotsi9629 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We are here to see our favs🎉❤️

  • @millicentmagolego8101
    @millicentmagolego8101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    "Bottle store is your tarven where they sell umqombothi"-Bongani😂😂😂😂

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂💀💀

    • @BrendaMang
      @BrendaMang 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miss Grey he didnt lie tho 😂😂😂

    • @mzazazimasa
      @mzazazimasa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts! 😂

  • @bulauzy1
    @bulauzy1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dont wait for the dribbling that will come after he finds his own space. Run 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️😂😂😂

  • @cathygodfrey1286
    @cathygodfrey1286 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    First have the convo also why no marriage talk after 5 years... 💀 a whole degree and an extra year.. sorry babes start thinking about yourself ma

  • @financialsavvybunny_
    @financialsavvybunny_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think marriage is a huge step in a relationship and it should come from within, not because someone has suggested it. People can be in a serious relationship, be happy and still not be married. Not everyone is from the same background hence our experiences from our childhoods are different and not everyone looks at marriage as a good thing to do specially when still young and busy finding yourself in life.
    If the girl was seeking for marriage from the beginning I think she could have carried herself differently and found someone who will marry them maybe even before jumping to bed, because not all guys are just gonna marry you just for the tittle of being called a wife but they will marry when they are ready to!
    As for me marriage terrifies me, I look at it as a cage or a trap. My bf wants it but I’ve told him, I’m not ready and I’m still not even ready to talk about why... I’m 23 and committed to one person but all I want now is to achieve all my goals and be proud of myself that I made on my own and not be dependent on someone else.

  • @dieketsengkhumalo9889
    @dieketsengkhumalo9889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bongani: It must be that classy drink. LOL

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙌🏿🙌🏿😂😂😂

    • @Bongani_RSA
      @Bongani_RSA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most definitely 😎😎

  • @dawnnoxolovilakazi4512
    @dawnnoxolovilakazi4512 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Been waiting for next week's drop yhoooo!!!!!! Finally 😢😢😢😢🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      We got you🙌🏿🙌🏿🤗🤗🔥🔥

  • @naledimbili1416
    @naledimbili1416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    These episodes need to be longer. I'm talking 30 minutes+

  • @HelangMedia
    @HelangMedia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    😂😂😂😂 Bongani finishes me every single time

  • @jacobthejust8234
    @jacobthejust8234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love that #leavehim energy. 5 years and very little conversation around their future together? Ha!? Also about that period of 2 years that's what engagement is for babes, instead of waiting on a promise of maybe getting engaged...you gonna wait 2 years for a "maybe"? Hai leave him, live your best life.

  • @thatomayongo
    @thatomayongo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The key word here is communication. We put certain expectations onto people when we’ve never even spoken with the person and make sure that you guys are both on the same page.

  • @sibongilezwane3208
    @sibongilezwane3208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's so important to have honest conversations throughout the relationship so that you know where your partner stands. That way, you can always decide whether you want to stay in the relationship or not 🤔. Also, there's nothing wrong with dating someone for 3 , 5 or 7 years but there has to be a vision and a goal for the relationship. If not, sis ask yourself and him some hard questions and face the truth. Sometimes the truth will be to leave him and choose yourself and that will hurt.

  • @matshepomaduna5035
    @matshepomaduna5035 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bongani is so cute.🤣 Think ya'll just have bomb personalities. 💕

    • @Bongani_RSA
      @Bongani_RSA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you😋 Matshepo

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @samanthasage2837
    @samanthasage2837 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree w the breaking up thing, bc after 5 years of dating and there's still no "we/us" future plans aowa what are we doing?

  • @austinsoks9068
    @austinsoks9068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this channel deserves more views

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Mandisi🙌🏿🙏🏿🔥

  • @millicentmagolego8101
    @millicentmagolego8101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The combo from the gods came through❤🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🏿🙏🏿🙌🏿😭

  • @corbinduvenhage8577
    @corbinduvenhage8577 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They sell liquor in the bottle store 😉. Nice video guys 🙌

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you😭🙌🏿🔥

  • @refilweleburu9982
    @refilweleburu9982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heeeeeeyyyiiii! Heeeeeeeyyyiii! Heyi! If marriage is super important to you, let go of all external opinions, your response to this situation doesn't need to be socially acceptable! Tlhala ntshwa and wait for your husband sis. Getting your own money and developing yourself at 24 should go without saying.

  • @calleighcalypso1630
    @calleighcalypso1630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So so soo late to the party (typing this in 2021) but I am finally part of the family. Such a fun but insightful channel. Here's to more growth 🎉

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome Calleigh🙌🏿🥺🥺❤

  • @onelamablayi2446
    @onelamablayi2446 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so excited 😭 😭 😭 😭 love these people!!! Best Squad

  • @MbaliJ
    @MbaliJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Don’t drop your hoes.” 😭😭😭 bethuna Mihlali. 😂😂😂 samthandi

  • @nolubabalocumbe
    @nolubabalocumbe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have come to realize that as women we bring the marriage topic when we are thinking of our wedding day rather than what comes with marriage. I started realizing what I was doing when my fiance was on his knee asking for my hand. Its not as how the tv and media portrays it , its not all roses and I think marriage is also like that. Her mentioning her age means she is thinking that time is running out. I recently asked for a break from my fiance coz I started realizing that I have not spent enough time with myself there are things that I feel I have not dealt with. When you agree to marriage or decide to start the topic you yourself as a woman should be able to answer why you want to get married, why do you need him as your partner , what purposes will the both of you be serving. Interesting topic and advises. Thank you defining for opening such a space for us. I am a new subbie :)

  • @enhlemcgarden148
    @enhlemcgarden148 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sipho is so right about how guys are broke their whole youth, and when they start getting money,now they go back to ball and be in the streets!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @EverythingLelona
    @EverythingLelona 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THE OGs!!!
    We are here #GangGang #NotifictionGang
    Letting the first ad play while I comment before I even start watching

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🏿🙏🏿😭😭🔥🔥

    • @EverythingLelona
      @EverythingLelona 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DEFINING Re tsene!! We are within

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EverythingLelona Always🤗

  • @HelangMedia
    @HelangMedia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It’s a Liqour store 🙄. 😂😂 Bottle store is those shebeens, tjo.

    • @khunindlovu3310
      @khunindlovu3310 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did I not die 😂😂😂😂

    • @Bongani_RSA
      @Bongani_RSA 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Loooouder 📣📣📣

    • @NalediSithole
      @NalediSithole 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      OneAndOnly_Rori tell them 😂😂😂

    • @itsnomacles
      @itsnomacles 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rorisang💀

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ugh💀😅😂🤣

  • @nonimanqupu22
    @nonimanqupu22 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yhu I am embarrassed that I had to be reminded to subscribe 🥴 when I’ve beeeeen here. “Kinda New Subbie” 😄💃🏽

  • @matshepomaduna5035
    @matshepomaduna5035 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I agree with Noma. Fling him in the bin and go glow up.💕

    • @itsnomacles
      @itsnomacles 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!!! Thanks!!!

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Fling him in the bin"💀💀😂

  • @sandisiwenyundu698
    @sandisiwenyundu698 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Noma, I stan🙌🏾👑❤️

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Always💯

  • @sisandagracemazwi3359
    @sisandagracemazwi3359 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The back row coming through with the poses 😂😂😂😂

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      They were born for this 😂😂😂😂

  • @dorcusmorongwamatsane71
    @dorcusmorongwamatsane71 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this channel already.
    New subie😊

    • @tshepomosia6393
      @tshepomosia6393 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you going to do some cooking channel or is it just the name?

    • @dorcusmorongwamatsane71
      @dorcusmorongwamatsane71 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tshepomosia6393 Yes in the near future.

    • @tshepomosia6393
      @tshepomosia6393 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dorcusmorongwamatsane71 🔥🔥🔥new subscriber in the house

    • @dorcusmorongwamatsane71
      @dorcusmorongwamatsane71 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tshepomosia6393 thank you so much😊🙏

    • @dorcusmorongwamatsane71
      @dorcusmorongwamatsane71 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tshepomosia6393 do you also have a channel?

  • @khunindlovu3310
    @khunindlovu3310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Break up to avoid things of saying things like "I built him" Iyoo and wena u are just there nothing

    • @itsnomacles
      @itsnomacles 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Next thing yall married and resenting each other

    • @khunindlovu3310
      @khunindlovu3310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@itsnomacles precisely or it becomes a marriage of convenience

  • @pascallesiba2485
    @pascallesiba2485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm officially part of the family. Thumbs Up

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      WELCOME🙌🏿😭🔥🔥

  • @Puuntsa
    @Puuntsa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loving the vlog 🕺🏽FYI ke bottle store😅

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you🙌🏿😭🔥

  • @bucieydhlodhlo4128
    @bucieydhlodhlo4128 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sipho🔥🔥 guys Sipho!!! 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Avenue-lc1gw
    @Avenue-lc1gw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am officially part of the DEFINING family

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      WELCOME🙌🏿🙌🏿😭🔥🔥

  • @sinqobilemakhathini
    @sinqobilemakhathini 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This channel is such a mood❤❤

  • @monicamuchindu
    @monicamuchindu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We are withinnnn

  • @lifewithmihle9671
    @lifewithmihle9671 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just joined the Famo😍😍😍😍😍

  • @akhanisopangisa3549
    @akhanisopangisa3549 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That ended so soon🥺😂I was enjoying your vlog

  • @ruralbaby1921
    @ruralbaby1921 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Labhuti mhle ubuyile 😍😍😍 yho ha.a mhle maan la bhuti we cap and glasses 🥰😍😍

  • @kabeloRMabusela
    @kabeloRMabusela 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Notification gang gang 🤙🤙🤙🤙

  • @relosikwane9644
    @relosikwane9644 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree with Bongani and Noma. When u meet someone that u know is the one, u know. U know immediately. Break up. 5yrs is too long wow

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you met the one?

  • @BoitumeloM
    @BoitumeloM 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've always said this to my brother and friends, that a hoe phase isn't made for everyone. Like I can just see this one will catch all the feels and not actually enjoy a hoe phase. I had my first serious boyfriend in my first year of varsity and I'm glad we broke up the next year. Hoe phase (for those who can handle it) is vital when you're young.

  • @nkaisengmphomela
    @nkaisengmphomela 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow Noma "I think you should break up" nahh sis🤣🤣🤣. I don't think that would be wise. I agree with Mihlali there's nothing romantic about being apart, but I see the point you are making. I just think talking it through and having a conversation would put things clearly and into perspective and conscious decisions can be made. Rather than for them to just distance themselves. They can grow together and they don't need to do it separately. And she's still young I think she should also focus on building herself and get her independence before getting into marriage. So I agree with you Noma on that note 😌

  • @bongimntambo7596
    @bongimntambo7596 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm officially a part of Defining channel 💜💜💜💜🙏🙏

  • @mongezibaartman6032
    @mongezibaartman6032 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm officially a part of defining family🥳🥳

  • @rubychikwiri5931
    @rubychikwiri5931 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ready for Noma's hair tutorial tbhhh

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Noted🙌🏿😁😁

  • @nonhlanhlatlhogi5204
    @nonhlanhlatlhogi5204 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aaah you guys... 🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gang Gang🙌🏿💯

  • @isiphilemathafeni5000
    @isiphilemathafeni5000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    SBWL ba se liquor store 🤣😂😂

  • @zoesikhakhane6287
    @zoesikhakhane6287 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I literally liked before the video started 🔥😌
    You guys are AMAAAAAZING!!
    Therapeutic? For sure ✔(Saw some comment down below)
    Then lastly.. the only thing that saddened me about this vlog is that it ended too soon .. I even got comfortable halfway through.. 😅
    Anyway, thanks guys .. love being part of the fam ..
    May it grow bigger 🥂😌♥️

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Yenziwe🙌🏿😭🙏🏿🔥. We appreciate every single word. 🙌🏿🔥

  • @michellesithole36
    @michellesithole36 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was just too short 😩😩😩😩😩I was just starting to enioy it

  • @FelicityInAmerica
    @FelicityInAmerica 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with Noma , I’m in the same situation as this girl but we discussed marriage but I feel like I need to explore before we continue and take the next step

  • @keabetswemoreosele2525
    @keabetswemoreosele2525 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This squad must come back😍😍😍😍😍

  • @nonhlanhla2678
    @nonhlanhla2678 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yaaaaasss

  • @wanderingcucamber7082
    @wanderingcucamber7082 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣I loved this episode so much! 💯

  • @magdeeletstalk2758
    @magdeeletstalk2758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am officially part of the defining family 👪 💕❤️

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      WELCOME TO THE FAMILY🙌🏿😭🔥

  • @matshepomaduna5035
    @matshepomaduna5035 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sibu is right. Ok I'm done commenting now. 😗🤗

  • @Ngasii
    @Ngasii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    3:55: I just call it Gomora but that's just me being mean🤣🤣🤣

  • @didintlemotemekoane8436
    @didintlemotemekoane8436 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoyed this so much😍😍

  • @FundiThwala
    @FundiThwala 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lmao when she said 'break up' and everyone is like 😦😖😬😬😬😬😬. Nine PTSD bethuna, as a collective. As for 'BACK DATING THIS BALLING'. I am dead.

  • @themagicpopschannel
    @themagicpopschannel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The space thing works you know. mengabuyi let her be, if ebuya azishe mzala lol

  • @ziziphogoldmdo4034
    @ziziphogoldmdo4034 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think this girl must also find a hobby or something coz it looks like this guys is not on the same page with regards to marriage with this hun. I always GUYS KNOW WHAT THEY WANT finish. This girl now is is trying to work around the arrangement amd plans of this guys, Imagine!

  • @mfanafuthibanda4487
    @mfanafuthibanda4487 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    haha this ensamble is elite

  • @abongilemagula4774
    @abongilemagula4774 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bathong it's a liquor store. Bottle store you find it ko kasi💁

    • @Bongani_RSA
      @Bongani_RSA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Daaaaaase you are right wena 😉👌

  • @RebaSCars
    @RebaSCars 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tjo, kopa feature?! 🙃😂

  • @DK1original
    @DK1original 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sipho nailed it !!!
    I dated a guy from the time I was 19 until 29 and the relationship was toxic but it was so hard to leave because it was all I knew.
    Take time to establish yourself and find your identity outside the relationship.
    Ha ha ha ha Mihali ! Don’t drop your hoes !!

  • @thandijaxa9444
    @thandijaxa9444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys make me happy 😍

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙌🏿🙌🏿🤗🤗

  • @DEFINING
    @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Is it Bottle Store or Liquor Store??

  • @lwandisamnyapa2093
    @lwandisamnyapa2093 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    #notificationgang 💃🏾

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gang Gang🙌🏿🤗

  • @khunindlovu3310
    @khunindlovu3310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Noma is onto something tle batho...they need a somewhat separation either break up or a break...just for personal development cus that time he wants to do his own ish and girl hints marriage and he is just there like nandos chicken so 😂😂😂geerrl must go get her life without putting him first

    • @itsnomacles
      @itsnomacles 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I really think they need a half time nyana hey.

    • @khunindlovu3310
      @khunindlovu3310 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itsnomacles just to breathe wena haii

  • @thati_monaheng
    @thati_monaheng 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys are sitting on a lot of content, hey 😂🔥

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah😂😂😂. It's too much

  • @khudo
    @khudo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think if marriage is your goal (boy/girl) and you want it for yourself and you see yourself with your partner, start the conversation as early as possible to know where it is going and don't be naive with the reaction and response.
    Date people with the same goals you cause there are some females who don't want to get married so find a guy compatible for you, don't think you'll change his view because he is "commited".
    There are commited guys, not all dudes fuck around.

  • @abbas6773
    @abbas6773 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah no, we need this panel to be regulars 😂 ❤️

  • @ntombi-yensimbinarrates7297
    @ntombi-yensimbinarrates7297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First of all, if she wants to talk about it, she must initiate the conversation.
    Secondly, alot of guys dont get married because ABANAMALI!!!
    LOVE DOESNT PAY THE BILLS!
    CERTAINLY WONT FEED YOU WHEN YOU ARE HUNGRY!
    She's still young. If he's keen, the convo can still be had. If he buckles under pressure, LET THAT NIGGA GO!

  • @TheoJ
    @TheoJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im part of the defining family 😄

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      WELCOME FAM🙌🏿🙌🏿😁😁🔥🔥🔥

  • @tshabangunv658
    @tshabangunv658 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like uMuchi maahhn, I like his voice and him nje 😩☺️

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you checked out his channel? 😁🙌🏿🔥💯

  • @sthasayssthasays8150
    @sthasayssthasays8150 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Defining family

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whoop Whoop

  • @thatopootona
    @thatopootona 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Faaaavs😍

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you😭🙌🏿🔥