I'll say this about the body count. What if it's a small number but with a lot of experience E.g having only 2 people but you had a lot of sex with one of them. Then having 10 only to find out each person was a one time thing with little to no satisfaction at all. That should at least be considered
There were sooo honest. I like that they didn't come here to succumb to society standards. They spoke their truth and gave us an insightful convo. LOTS OF LOVE❤
I remember seeing Sishii as a feature on TFG videos (iykyk 😂) and seeing his growth throughout these years has been so beautiful. I hope he remains faithful in his walk with God 🥹❤️
2:53 loved this. Sometimes us Christians dont prioritize that spiritual intimacy as much. We think once the physical intimacy is there, then we can build on that to get spiritual and mental intimacy. I love that this reminded us that once you align with someone spiritually, the rest can and does follow.
I loooove that they said it, finally someone said it!!! Hook up culture is not it! They don't wanna admit but deep down they know but they keep lying to each other and promoting lies. I hope our boys were listening, boy or girl your body is special❤
What Sishii said at 7:46 have a lot to do with the songs we listen to, the movies we watch even adverts everything is centred around sex so basically we are programmed to view sex in a certain way
Sishi after this I now love you even more...to hear a young famous person speak like this makes me wanna dance💃💃💃💃....listen Jesus is at work in your life you don't even have to say much. Keep it up Dude.
I love their honesty and their energy. Their brotherhood/friendship is obviously one that encourages openness, a safe space, understanding without judgement.
God bless you Sishi for bringing God into this!!!!!!!! Sex ought to glorify God in every way❤… I love that you’re growing more in the knowledge of God!!!!
Seeing this & hearing these conversations from men because I remember in high school boys & girls were separated for these kinds of conversations. Girls were told that sex is spiritual & there are attachments and what not but most of the times the boys were just chilling basically. They should've also taught boys to be careful. To care about their bodies & wellbeing. To realise how deep the connection really is. It's really sad to see. But it's always beautiful seeing boys grow
I agree that a lot of us are/were pressurized to have sex and the moment you do if then you realise that damn there's nothing bizarre about it and no need to rush but do it when you are ready. That's my two second of contribution don't come for me!!
Was having a conversation with my colleagues about virgin breaking that it was such pressure and after doing it I regretted there was nothing to write home about
14:09 - 14:13 These two are sick 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Also ladies and gentlemen let's gather around here for just 22:32 🙏🏿❤️ loved this. Very relevant, fruitful, informative and relatable as a member of this generation.
Yeah having sex nje is actually boring because over time you realise that it starts to eat away at you and suddenly its not so amazing and great anymore. When you do everything for God/to glorify God it just makes it all amazing and worth it. At the end of the Day we were made for God's glory and glorifying him in everything puts for much meaning purpose and joy in it all ❤
@@tshiamomasilo6830 True! That's why God encourages us not to engage in sex before marriage because it's not just a physical pleasure, it's also a spiritual benefit.
This was fun to watch... I still wish to be on defining but defining love ❤. Edit: I like what Sishii said that it has to be a conversation 10:45 . That's how comfortable ur partner should be during coitus. Sishii .. preach wena baba 🙌. Like that you put God first now 🙏.
The brothers are very straightforward and have an open mind to the questions but despite their conversation, their friendship is more like brotherhood🤝🏾
This was amazing to watch and quite informative to say the least but mostly inspiring to see our generation speak so much sense and wisdom in topics that are "forbidden" in freindships/relationships.
I love this two🌝they made the conversation very much easier I so wish the people I always conversate with on such matters would watch this❤️💯everything happens spiritually before physically🫠
Finally🥺😑 they're also so well-spoken man !🥺🤒 i absolutely enjoyed this episode Defining❤ ! it's refreshing to see young men say things like these & think they way they do❤🤞🏾 keep it coming man !🙌🏾😌
I'm watching this alone but I'm hiding my face with my hands. So embarrassing to see two young men talk about this. Geez. But we appreciate that there's a platform for these kinda topics.
Their honesty and openness is so refreshing! Let us know what was your takeaway from today’s episode with Sishii and Seekay? #RoadTo250K
Not gqom as a mood setter, no words😭
I'll say this about the body count. What if it's a small number but with a lot of experience E.g having only 2 people but you had a lot of sex with one of them. Then having 10 only to find out each person was a one time thing with little to no satisfaction at all. That should at least be considered
@looloo9578 it's not about how many times, it's about the souls you connect with
You can tell Sishi takes his relationship with the Lord very seriously🥺 Well done little bro❤️
🥺❤️🙌 Yeah I Also Love and Respect that Very Much🙇🏽♀️
Right....and i love it.
Hearing someone from my generation speak such words of wisdom in front of nations assures me that I'm not stupid for not doing some things
when Sishi said:'Sex is actually supposed to glorify God.'i felt that since I'm on a celibacy journey.😭😭❣️
Sishii is so beautiful 😭
He is so fineeee😢❤❤
I was looking for this comment. He is so beautiful my ghad!!
There were sooo honest. I like that they didn't come here to succumb to society standards. They spoke their truth and gave us an insightful convo. LOTS OF LOVE❤
I personally don't think so. Or maybe I was expecting the characters they play
Thank you ❤️🔥
these young men are a rare breed amongst us 😅 it’s so refreshing to get young gents who think like these two
There's nothing more refreshing than youth that love Christ, especially young men. ❤️❤️❤️ God bless you.
I remember seeing Sishii as a feature on TFG videos (iykyk 😂) and seeing his growth throughout these years has been so beautiful. I hope he remains faithful in his walk with God 🥹❤️
🥹❤️🔥
dude that’s my chat too!!
Ohhh please seekay is attractive 😭🔥❤️
2:53 loved this. Sometimes us Christians dont prioritize that spiritual intimacy as much. We think once the physical intimacy is there, then we can build on that to get spiritual and mental intimacy. I love that this reminded us that once you align with someone spiritually, the rest can and does follow.
Sishii is actual such a cool human being
Indeed
I love him sm❤️
This is so amazing seeing young men speaking openly about issues regarfing sex.. Indeed sex is spiritual and should glorify God.
Thank you for tuning in 🥹
I loooove that they said it, finally someone said it!!! Hook up culture is not it! They don't wanna admit but deep down they know but they keep lying to each other and promoting lies. I hope our boys were listening, boy or girl your body is special❤
What Sishii said at 7:46 have a lot to do with the songs we listen to, the movies we watch even adverts everything is centred around sex so basically we are programmed to view sex in a certain way
So proud of both guys, particularly Sishi for going against the grain (where sex is concerned) and being courageous about it.
Their honesty is soooo raw and their connection is flawless and they not sugar coating anything
Nothing at all 🔥
Teddy and Ntokozo are so matured, I love these boys😍😍
Sishi after this I now love you even more...to hear a young famous person speak like this makes me wanna dance💃💃💃💃....listen Jesus is at work in your life you don't even have to say much.
Keep it up Dude.
I love their honesty and their energy. Their brotherhood/friendship is obviously one that encourages openness, a safe space, understanding without judgement.
Definitely!
This was beautiful. The level of maturity in these gents is insane ❤️❤️I wish I could hear Sishii speak more about his journey, I'm intrigued.
Please Defining friendship for them two
Need a Defining Friendship episode from them
God bless you Sishi for bringing God into this!!!!!!!! Sex ought to glorify God in every way❤… I love that you’re growing more in the knowledge of God!!!!
Seeing this & hearing these conversations from men because I remember in high school boys & girls were separated for these kinds of conversations. Girls were told that sex is spiritual & there are attachments and what not but most of the times the boys were just chilling basically. They should've also taught boys to be careful. To care about their bodies & wellbeing. To realise how deep the connection really is. It's really sad to see. But it's always beautiful seeing boys grow
We need Oh small stuff and her husband on defining love and defining intimacy please!!!!❤
This!!!!!!
🎉please!!!
Yasssss
I agree that a lot of us are/were pressurized to have sex and the moment you do if then you realise that damn there's nothing bizarre about it and no need to rush but do it when you are ready. That's my two second of contribution don't come for me!!
Thanks for contributing ❤️🔥
@@DEFINING 🙏
Ma'am, you are absolutely correct!
@@Mikateko_N ❤❤
Was having a conversation with my colleagues about virgin breaking that it was such pressure and after doing it I regretted there was nothing to write home about
Love how they said intimacy is spiritual ❤ Thank you defining.
Their Brotherhood is on another level and i just love how honest and real they are😊👌
Just 2 people who are self-aware and making decisions that are working for them. Love it, here. My standards just went a bar higher
Wow I need this kind of friendship in my life, matured, raw, honest, and refreshing👌
I like how matured they are throughout the whole procedure.🎉
14:09 - 14:13 These two are sick 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Also ladies and gentlemen let's gather around here for just 22:32 🙏🏿❤️ loved this. Very relevant, fruitful, informative and relatable as a member of this generation.
DVSN always! 🤌🏾🤌🏾
😭😭
I love how Sishi said we must communicate on whether you're both up forgot or no...
Consent is so important
Yeah having sex nje is actually boring because over time you realise that it starts to eat away at you and suddenly its not so amazing and great anymore. When you do everything for God/to glorify God it just makes it all amazing and worth it. At the end of the Day we were made for God's glory and glorifying him in everything puts for much meaning purpose and joy in it all ❤
This was soooooooo beautiful and deep❤ My standards are 10× higher😢❤ Sheeesh!!!!!
Their friendship is amazing. They were very respectful when answering. I loved it ❤👍👍👍
I love their friendship I assume what they have is rare in the entertainment industry ❤️
Well believe it or not guys too can be besties or platonic soulmates.
I'm not used to Teddy Pandergrass speaking English so well😅
😂😂😂
😂
"It's always the cousins" - FR 😭
😭😭😭
Do you think sex is spiritual? 🤔
Definitely.
Yes it is
definitely!
I believe it's the most sacred and spiritual act that humans do with one another.
@@tshiamomasilo6830 True! That's why God encourages us not to engage in sex before marriage because it's not just a physical pleasure, it's also a spiritual benefit.
When Seekay mentioned Sishi's song 😂😂"no you can"😭😂😂😂
Love the energy❤😊even went to look for the song
This Convo was one for the books. I loved how they got deep on an emotional and spiritual concept.
DVSN is my go to music. Sept 5th album 🔥🔥
What a wholesome episode 👏🏾👏🏾
Love me some DVSN as well❤
It's the inside jokes for me😂. Loved every minute of it.
This was fun to watch... I still wish to be on defining but defining love ❤.
Edit: I like what Sishii said that it has to be a conversation 10:45 . That's how comfortable ur partner should be during coitus.
Sishii .. preach wena baba 🙌. Like that you put God first now 🙏.
Beautiful conversation 🥹
Glad you enjoyed it!
As for gqom!😂😭
🤣🤣🤣
Finally 😭💀😂tomorrow has come
😂😂😂😂
Gods timing is always right 🤣🤣
Oh lol🤣🤣🤣😭💀 Re leboha modimo hee🤣💀
Its so refreshing to see young men speak so much wisdom on this topic. Thank you!
We really appreciated their stance! It’s so important for young men to see sex and intimacy holistically
The brothers are very straightforward and have an open mind to the questions but despite their conversation, their friendship is more like brotherhood🤝🏾
Oooh i love me some Sishii❤
Same ❤️🔥❤️🔥
Two wholesome gents! This is refreshing. Love their perspective on intimacy
This was amazing to watch and quite informative to say the least but mostly inspiring to see our generation speak so much sense and wisdom in topics that are "forbidden" in freindships/relationships.
This was very intimate, especially bc men really aren't as intimate with one another as women❤. I love it!❤
This is my first ever episode and I’ve enjoyed this so much . As a Christian listening to these young man was incredibly refreshing ❤
I love this two🌝they made the conversation very much easier I so wish the people I always conversate with on such matters would watch this❤️💯everything happens spiritually before physically🫠
Love their relationship. This is beautiful , proud of you Seekay....
I'm very impressed, can't lie. And just like that, hope has been restored in the masses.
This was so refreshing to watch, absolutely enjoyed this conversation and its inspiring
So excited ! 🥰🥰🥰
Hope you enjoy it 🫶🏾❤️🔥
This set ? 😮💨😮💨😢tewwww good
Thank you 🥹🥹
Thank you Sishi and Mr Buthelezi ❤
Amazing conversation with Seekay and Sishi👌❤️❤️
Definitely!
That, "I'm not asking! It's the question. " 😹😹☠️ killed me
I love the direction this episode went 🥺
They way they started quing in "I don't dance"🤣
What an enlightening episode ❤️s/o to Seekay & Sishii
Their knowledge on this was so eye opening and so interesting defs enjoyed this
Thank you so much Onthatile!
Love how they carried the conversation!✨
Arg man I loved this interview 🥺😂enjoyable . These 2 gents are effortlessly cool
Love love this episode 🙌🏾🫶🏾, we got to experience them outside acting. So wise🙌🏾❤️.
Finally🥺😑 they're also so well-spoken man !🥺🤒 i absolutely enjoyed this episode Defining❤ ! it's refreshing to see young men say things like these & think they way they do❤🤞🏾 keep it coming man !🙌🏾😌
Cool conversation.
beautiful episode, I didn’t want it to end 🥺
The questions were wild 😂😂😂
I like the silent laughter 😅😅😅😅😅
These guys are so matured hle 😍😍lovely to watch
favourite episode so far
Danko 🥹
Glad there’s still people like Sishi in this generation of wks
God bless and protect them in their industry...true gems
Oh my...sishii...those lips😍😍...
I'm watching this alone but I'm hiding my face with my hands. So embarrassing to see two young men talk about this. Geez. But we appreciate that there's a platform for these kinda topics.
Ahh man🥹the direction this conversation went 🥺absolutely loved this
Enjoyed this so much! The honesty in this conversation was amazing.
Glad you enjoyed it!
This was so beautiful 🥹
Thank you ❤️🔥
😂😂😂😂😂 this is why you can never sit next to each other. They started laughing as soon as the video started! Such a wholesome POV from both gents 🫶🕯
Vulnerability ❤❤❤❤
They are so mature love it❤
This video was so real🥺❤️❤️🫡🫡
Too real 🥹
I’m here for gqom😂sounds
Washa 😂😂😂💀
🤣🤣🤣
i cant get over la part ye Gqom lol🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭
🥺🥺🥺🥺what a beautiful episode
Thank you ❤️🔥
9:26 these facial expressions mahn 🤭
Please invite robot boii and mpho..😅😅
Yoh yoh yoh drama!!😂
8:19 Ohhh my Gosh😭💀🤣
Thank you guys for this exceptional conversation .Big ups .
I enjoyed this conversation alot
🥺😊
Captivating!! This was really wholesome❤🥺
Thank you