50 (Short) Rules For Life From The Stoics

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  • @neontoastanimations
    @neontoastanimations 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2030

    Writes ten books on stoicism, and also puts out a ton of free advice and information on TH-cam? This dude is my hero.

    • @tonyanthony5582
      @tonyanthony5582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      right. he isn't a fuckin Gatekeeper just trying to give you just enough your interested or got results enough to pay for their seminar or week long retreat or buy their product and what not. not that those people are bad, I don't believe they are, I'm just saying he isn't a gatekeeper. hold the gate till ya pay kinda thangggg.

    • @ron101ist
      @ron101ist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      100 percent.

    • @tonyanthony5582
      @tonyanthony5582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @永乐 Why pay? We live in the age of information. Ignorance is a choice now in my opinion. ;)

    • @tonyanthony5582
      @tonyanthony5582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @永乐 it's not freeloading. That type of thinking that's "Obviously" going on in your head is poor/middle class mentality. Think like the rich. Which would beeeee, why pay for it if I'm smart enough to find it free. Stay poor bub 😘

    • @tonyanthony5582
      @tonyanthony5582 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'd rather keep Slamming money into my portfolio and let my money make me more instead of spending it. But you keep up the good work bud. 🤣✌️

  • @R4__
    @R4__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    "You can't change your friends, but you can change your friends". Took me a while to get it but damn it's a good reminder

    • @k1k1
      @k1k1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Very good reminder

    • @joeroganpodfantasy42
      @joeroganpodfantasy42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think in Greek it made more sense.
      Here change has 2 meanings.

    • @lovealways729
      @lovealways729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What does it mean?

    • @karimkamel4295
      @karimkamel4295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@lovealways729 i think it means you cant change their behaviour but you can change who your friends are

    • @holisticallyme556
      @holisticallyme556 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karimkamel4295agreed… you cannot change who your friends are they are who they are but you can change not to have them around you

  • @yourintrouble6296
    @yourintrouble6296 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love how much the 12 step programme has is common with these teachings. Stoicism WILL save your life x

  • @DailyStoic
    @DailyStoic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1215

    The Rules:
    01:03 Focus on what you can control.
    01:24 You control how you respond to things.
    01:59 Ask yourself, “Is this essential?”
    02:28 Meditate on your mortality every day.
    02:47 Value time more than money/possessions.
    03:11 You are the product of your habits.
    03:28 Remember you have the power to have no opinion.
    03:58 Own the morning.
    04:28 Put yourself up for review (Interrogate yourself).
    04:46 Don’t suffer imagined troubles.
    05:18 Try to see the good in people.
    05:41 Never be overheard complaining…even to yourself.
    06:02 Two ears, one mouth…for a reason (Zeno)
    06:12 There is always something you can do.
    06:33 Don’t compare yourself to others.
    07:06 Live as if you’ve died and come back (every minute is bonus time).
    07:25 “The best revenge is not to be like that.” Marcus Aurelius
    07:48 Be strict with yourself and tolerant with others.
    08:09 Put every impression, emotion, to the test before acting on it.
    08:41 Learn something from everyone.
    09:12 Focus on process, not outcomes.
    09:41 Define what success means to you.
    10:14 Find a way to love everything that happens (Amor fati).
    10:46 Seek out challenges.
    11:11 Don’t follow the mob.
    12:00 Grab the “smooth handle.”
    12:34 Every person is an opportunity for kindness (Seneca)
    12:57 Say no (a lot).
    13:33 Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
    14:15 Find one thing that makes you wiser every day.
    14:54 What’s bad for the hive is bad for the bee (Marcus Aurelius)
    15:24 Don’t judge other people.
    15:53 Study the lives of the greats.
    16:30 Forgive, forgive, forgive.
    17:01 Make a little progress each day.
    17:26 Journal.
    18:34 Prepare for life’s inevitable setbacks (premeditatio malorum)
    19:08 Look for the poetry in ordinary things.
    19:46 To do wrong to one, is to do wrong to yourself. (sympatheia)
    20:07 Always choose “Alive Time.”
    20:38 Associate only with people that make you better.
    21:04 If someone offends you, realize you are complicit in taking offense.
    21:36 Fate behaves as she pleases…do not forget this.
    21:50 Possessions are yours only in trust.
    22:31 Don’t make your problems worse by bemoaning them.
    23:03 Accept success without arrogance, handle failure with indifference.
    23:50 Courage. Temperance. Justice. Wisdom. (Always).
    24:21 The obstacle is the way.
    24:47 Ego is the enemy.
    25:09 Stillness is the key.

    • @zizounina3617
      @zizounina3617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Thanks a lot for making it easy for us hhh

    • @jonl8016
      @jonl8016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I really want to express how much I appreciate this! So many creators don't offer a guide to targeted listening. It's something that really keeps me coming back. I happened to listen to this video all the way through, but I want to make sure you know how much it is appreciated.
      I've applied stoicism more in the last three months, than I have in the past three years, and your content has been key! Keep up the good work! Thank you.

    • @bonamiVISION
      @bonamiVISION 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      RYAN YOU WENT HARD ON THIS ONE! LOVE YOU BROTHER🙏

    • @tatianafisher6530
      @tatianafisher6530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Si

    • @chicagobearstj20
      @chicagobearstj20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @dailystoic Ryan, how do you highlight within the books you read? Is different colours to the first, second time you’ve read the book? Etc

  • @nanamare
    @nanamare 2 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    My nephew turned me onto your email,and TH-cam shows. I’m 71 in the throws of mourning my husband of 47 years and you have given me more to know in this life I have lived so far. I thank you for that. We have had a beautiful marriage of which I’m beyond grateful and I have many blessings in my grandchild my family and the people around me. I’m glad to add you as one of those blessings to make even more of this life that I have no regrets of. I’m sad and missing but I also know what I had and what I have and all to give. Thank you

    • @davidnorman6887
      @davidnorman6887 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      So sorry for your loss. Gratitude is a powerful recentering tool. Most of us forget to use it as often as we should.

    • @soufiane4527
      @soufiane4527 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      glad to say Im the 71 like

    • @surrenderinfaith
      @surrenderinfaith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m so sorry. You had 47 wonderful years 💕 a new chapter begins, this one can be just as beautiful I promise :)

    • @MsBettyRubble
      @MsBettyRubble 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My condolences on your husband's passing. I hope you're surrounded by loving ppl who sit with you while you grieve the way you need to at your own pace.

    • @iramshawana6574
      @iramshawana6574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aww Aunty Mary...we are here for you ...xxx Your blessed 47 good years and family. In this day and age its hard to find a genuine partner. People have to big egos and are too confident to not appreciate love because of technology and swipe and finding replacements then solving and embracing situations.

  • @shelley2he844
    @shelley2he844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    As a recovering addict stoicism is the best philosophy I could have ever encountered. I still have a long way to go to being the person I want to be but employing these strategies has transformed me into a person I can be proud of. I've been in sobriety / recovery since 2017. Have overcome severe mental health conditions and am focusing on my passion in life. Its wonderful.

    • @wesleyAlan9179
      @wesleyAlan9179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shelley, you're awesome and don't EVER forget that! Keep fighting the good fight, its worth it, the people that love you is worth it, you're worth it to the people that love you, and most importantly you're worth it to yourself💜💪❤.

    • @shelley2he844
      @shelley2he844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@wesleyAlan9179 thankyou ❤️ it is definitely worth it. Change is possible no matter how grim things may seem to be. 😍

    • @tebhernandez
      @tebhernandez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope all is going well with you. Wishing the best for you

    • @lovealways729
      @lovealways729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey, I am a recovering addict too...

    • @lovealways729
      @lovealways729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As he says every pain is an opportunity to change

  • @wagsterman
    @wagsterman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm listening to this 2 times a day until it sinks in, Thank you for the information 🙏

  • @barbiec4312
    @barbiec4312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I need to watch this every day.

  • @machomarty8238
    @machomarty8238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +658

    "Look for the poetry in ordinary things." Back in college I took a poetry writing course. I remember my professor stressing the idea that if you're going for a walk or a jog that you shouldn't wear headphones because you miss out on the beauty of so many things. Your surroundings and even the rhythm of your own heartbeat are beautiful things that can inspire many great lines. I've never forgot this and even though I don't write poetry anymore, I still think like a poet. However, I wouldn't recommend not wearing headphones in a gym because they're usually blaring some garbage.

    • @billh.1940
      @billh.1940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Are you crazy?? If you are not connected YOU WILL DIE!!

    • @egProductionsMO
      @egProductionsMO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Damn...that was actually pretty eye opening. Definitely gonna carry this mindset for my evening walks.

    • @xavutt1787
      @xavutt1787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks for sharing 🤝

    • @muldrewdennis2837
      @muldrewdennis2837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Giving up the ability to hear is dangerous also.

    • @derrickmickle5491
      @derrickmickle5491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I recently started this practice a few months ago, and it's been a revelation. Ditching the headphones has made me more attuned to the nuances and beauty in everyday moments, in everyday life. It's also made me more mindful and intentional about when I do listen to music. Everyday life doesn't need a soundtrack; it already has its own if you are open to experiencing it.

  • @Gunny559
    @Gunny559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +345

    I’ve been listening to this video every morning for the last 3weeks while getting ready and it’s made me more relaxed and I’ve seen an improvement in myself 👍🏻

    • @Andy-B1984
      @Andy-B1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Daily affirmations keep us on our toes like daily exercise. Keep training your mind like u train your body 💪😎

    • @surrenderinfaith
      @surrenderinfaith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah, this feels like a mind vitamin that we all need to take

    • @ProfessionalGasLighting
      @ProfessionalGasLighting 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rah, yut, semper fidelis

    • @alexzwart324
      @alexzwart324 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good to hear, I'm in!

  • @michael7324
    @michael7324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I should watch this video every day.

    • @OliverVillaverde
      @OliverVillaverde 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      3 consecutive days now

    • @michael7324
      @michael7324 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OliverVillaverde I rewatch this and take note in my book. Each day gets a Rule for Life...

  • @HanzDeez
    @HanzDeez หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is the type of content young men need to be absorbing. Men of all types too.
    I’m thankful I found this because this truly is the way.

  • @HS-dn5uu
    @HS-dn5uu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I watch this video often and specially when I face a difficulty. It grounds me and guides me. Thank you so much for sharing this wisdom with us.

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    @avajones2944 ปีที่แล้ว +181

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    • @robertgorin1002
      @robertgorin1002 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Opportunity is a scarce commodity. I will partake in this; there’s no limit to what you can achieve in life (including success) if you put your mind to it. Luckily I stumble into this.

  • @SJROBINSON
    @SJROBINSON 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Journal: “Instead of dumping on someone, it made me better,” - that one really hit home, thank you 🙏

  • @maximelagace
    @maximelagace ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice:
    "Things don't happen TO you, they happen FOR you."

  • @sahilrawat5325
    @sahilrawat5325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Took screenshot of every slide. Noted on the paper. Pasted on the wall in front of my study table. Now, every morning, I read all the rules slowly as it will take time to get into your subconscious.
    Live, Love and Levitate...!!

    • @Remixrator
      @Remixrator 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hate is as important as Love.

    • @deepanshudutt2019
      @deepanshudutt2019 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Remixrator why

    • @Remixrator
      @Remixrator 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@deepanshudutt2019 because if one is not able to hate what is threatening what one loves, one does infact not love.

  • @industrialebikes4956
    @industrialebikes4956 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I watch so many TH-cam videos, and this is easily the best TH-cam video that I have ever watched.

  • @jjruizsoriano
    @jjruizsoriano 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    It’s with all this stoicism trend nowadays that I’ve discovered that I’ve been a stoic all my life without even knowing it! Interestingly, sometimes I felt that I had an “uncommon” approach to the situations which didn’t match the usual behavior of many people, and that made me think that maybe I was wrong about my way of thinking. But it just happened that I was a stoic 😄 good that now I can name it and be proud of it!

    • @mingpeeps
      @mingpeeps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love Stoicism, and the way you you bring it t

    • @jjruizsoriano
      @jjruizsoriano 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mingpeeps thank you! I appreciate it!

    • @ganh222
      @ganh222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is so interesting. Keep it up 👍

    • @pinkbonde8642
      @pinkbonde8642 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too!!

  • @effay83
    @effay83 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy is helping a lot of people.

  • @cristina4436
    @cristina4436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Who can thumbs down this video?? I loved this a lot and it made me think of what is really important in life.

    • @AJ-dc2fj
      @AJ-dc2fj 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      all the people he called "idiots and assholes" on his Instagram page

  • @JosueOutdoors
    @JosueOutdoors หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    wow, I am a better person just listening to this wisdom! Thank you for sharing.

  • @Hideonbush.30
    @Hideonbush.30 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for everything ❤️

  • @peaceandlove544
    @peaceandlove544 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These virtues are basically the same as the fruits of the Holly Spirit we are though to practice for an enriched, Peacefull, meaningful life and Afterlife

  • @tylerholland242
    @tylerholland242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is the first person I’ve seen organize book shelves by color and I’m kinda digging it.

  • @Better1237b
    @Better1237b ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every single day I get problems and I am not afraid by them because you are always here to teach me ❤

  • @amochi7554
    @amochi7554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    In my opinion this video is your Magnum Opus, it embodies everything that Daily Stoic stands for and a lot of what Stoicism is about, the practices talked about here are timeless and universal, thank you so much for this.

  • @MatthewDAmico-i8c
    @MatthewDAmico-i8c 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All the essential guides for living in one short video - really extraordinary.

  • @malcolmtheyeti2871
    @malcolmtheyeti2871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I slooooooowly went through everything you said and meditated on each one. It was a long time well spent

  • @J_Eusebio
    @J_Eusebio ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Find a way to love everything that happens…. that hit hard!

  • @georgiafrancis9059
    @georgiafrancis9059 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear Ryan, you're so young, how did you become so enlightened? And, thank you for sharing your insight with the world.

  • @makarandrane1443
    @makarandrane1443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is the real content and spread positivity all over the world. I am from india I share this video to all my friends because this rules is very impressive.
    Almost 2 weeks plus I watched this video everyday to remind this rules 👍

  • @mashal2567
    @mashal2567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The reason why I like Ryan holiday is not because of agreeing with stoicism but because of how passionate he is about stoicism

  • @kirstymackenzie2437
    @kirstymackenzie2437 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    When I think of Marcus Aurelius’s teachings I always remember - Give me the SERENITY to ACCEPT the things that I can’t control, the COURAGE to CHANGE the things that I can, and the WISDOM to know the DIFFERENCE. ❤😊

    • @Kitiwake
      @Kitiwake ปีที่แล้ว

      Catholic prayer

    • @kirstymackenzie2437
      @kirstymackenzie2437 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Kitiwake I don’t think Marcus Aurelius was Catholic. 🤔. I rather think this would be before Catholics. 🙄

  • @raykohli6922
    @raykohli6922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks so very much for this. I am going to be watching this over and over again every morning while I get ready before my day starts!

  • @ivanzhugan7207
    @ivanzhugan7207 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So much wisdom in just 30 minutes. Thank you!

  • @jasondargonaut
    @jasondargonaut ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are a great teacher and this is very selflessly done. Easy to understand and powerful. Thank you.

  • @Dyoshi9
    @Dyoshi9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    What a gem, one of the best videos I’ve watched!! This needs to be reviewed weekly at a minimum!! Wow ❤

  • @Timo-z3k
    @Timo-z3k 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Daily Stoic: has a mother proud: without false pride.❤😊

  • @Moonlight-yu5xo
    @Moonlight-yu5xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love your passion for Stoicism Ryan. I enjoy your videos. Great "grounders" for anyone caught up in normal Earth stuff. Now to apply it!

  • @orhansaimdemirturk
    @orhansaimdemirturk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Utterly, unbelievably and precisely great wisdom !!!!

  • @ayrantayag7535
    @ayrantayag7535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THANK U SO MUCH FOR THIS I HOPE U LIVE A GOOD LIFE

  • @puffdaddy4537
    @puffdaddy4537 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The reason I love Marcus Aurelius so much is because I faced so many of the troubles he provides solutions too. I would get like halfway to his solution on my own, then negative thoughts would push out the wisdom before I’d have that “aha” moment. Hearing that someone from 2,000 years ago was facing essentially the exact same problems made me realize that my problems are not unique or so complex that I as a human don’t possess the skills to make my life better in the face of these problems.
    Was kind of like holding a mirror up to myself, but my reflection became a friend instead of a bully.

  • @monikamarsollek3493
    @monikamarsollek3493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Hi, Ryan, wow, what a treasure. If you’d have find 52, there’ll be one for every week of the year to think about and work with… I’ll translate it into German and make a picture of it. I always admired the Stoics and they helped me a lot during my life. There are of course reasons I found them. My favourite was always EPIKTET, thank you I know now a lot more. Never too old to learn new skills. Love, Monika❣️

  • @brandongroves4465
    @brandongroves4465 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you

  • @andriilevchenko1490
    @andriilevchenko1490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    It is almost 6 month of war here in Ukraine. And my native city is right on the front line. All these missile strikes, artillery , etc. ruining places that were part of my life and killing people I knew made me to revise some thoughts on life priorities. Extreme situations like this kind of underline what is really important in your life. A food and water enough to be healthy and sometimes something tasty just for pleasure of tasting a good dish. Clean and warm bed to sleep. Possibility of having a walk in the park and watching birds, squirrels , etc. People you care are in safety and are healthy. An opportunity to work on things you want to master. This is actually it. Its actually what is enough.
    Situation brought me to something on the edge of stoicism and Nietzschean overcoming of yourself. And while googling on stoicism I came across with your channel.
    Just want to say - thank you. You are doing a great job sharing thoughts and spreading an ideas to people that need them!

    • @TheNaughtyBarberess
      @TheNaughtyBarberess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Andrii. I follow the Ukraine War pretty much daily and wanna tell you how sorry I am that your country suffers this injustice. I think of you guys every day, praying for you to meet your sovereign objectives and for this nightmare to be over. Better days ahead, my friend! A lot of people in the world care about Ukraine❤️

    • @didaktikaglasbe6994
      @didaktikaglasbe6994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🎯

    • @exextrovert
      @exextrovert 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      May the force be with you my friend! You are surely also a hero!
      Long live you and yours!
      Long live ✨ 🇺🇦 Ukraine 🇺🇦 ✨!

    • @earraigh4810
      @earraigh4810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🐷

    • @mindbodyfitness99
      @mindbodyfitness99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

  • @noelmaskii25
    @noelmaskii25 ปีที่แล้ว

    The stoic rules are in themselves a revelation, but your commentary on them just amplifies them!!

  • @janelperez9726
    @janelperez9726 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Since I was a kid I have read stoicism,became so depressed under the pandemic and brought me back to stoicism,under the pandemic I had reviewed my entire lifetime,I had not find regrets on me,other than not getting my Hi School Diploma or GED.

  • @TUBEDOUT07
    @TUBEDOUT07 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This channel is youtube at it's best- the information helps the viewers become better and wiser people.

  • @billyoung1826
    @billyoung1826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ryan, thank you for sharing the practical wisdom of the stoics. You do so in a very natural and powerful way. I greatly value how it supports my understanding of the Gospel of Jesus Christ as well as binding with other faiths and paths of refinement. I am grateful to you and have been made better by your life's mission. Thank you!

  • @bigpapi6659
    @bigpapi6659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am turning my eldest son onto the stoic philosophy and we use this guy 95% if the time.

  • @robinharris4247
    @robinharris4247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am grateful to have found this channel and the things you teach. It brings a sense of calm to me.

  • @daynightandsarah
    @daynightandsarah ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just realised I can totally use "the obstacle is the way" when teaching maths. We talk in education about how the struggle to understand something is actually so important to making it stick in your brain. Anything to keep up my persona as the "weird teacher" anyway lol.

  • @pickflowerinhell
    @pickflowerinhell ปีที่แล้ว +3

    HI Ryan, I want to say Thank you! I listen this video every morning, it basically lifts me up from a hopeless situation under extreme isolation and psychological torture. You are "Wow !!! "

  • @itsgeekhead
    @itsgeekhead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This video is priceless Ryan. Everyone should watch this regularly and apply as much as they can to their life. Thank you for uploading.

  • @joekuhnlovesretirement
    @joekuhnlovesretirement 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Wise far beyond your years. Love your book, “the obstacle is the way”. Simple concepts I can act upon today.

  • @lriggins80
    @lriggins80 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I so appreciate your channel ❤ 💛 💕 ♥ 💓

  • @NeonToast
    @NeonToast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Wow, there's a lot of quality information packed into these 26 minutes. Thanks man! Your videos are among the best on TH-cam!

  • @jaredholland3563
    @jaredholland3563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man is changing the world

  • @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331
    @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    *“People who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.”* - Rob Siltanen
    Love from a small channel💙

  • @jentrue
    @jentrue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Ryan. You have inspired me to study stoicism. It has changed my life! I am forever grateful for your work. Thank you very much! Carpe diem.

  • @first6969
    @first6969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really Worth Listening...
    Thanks For The Good Work...
    Keep The Good Work Continuing...

  • @ll3933
    @ll3933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Life changing advice! Well spoken my friend!

  • @ZainHusain
    @ZainHusain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hope this video gets a million views because it deserves it. So much wisdom in one TH-cam video.

  • @ProductivityAccount
    @ProductivityAccount ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy is really something else. Thank you for trying to make our life better.❤️🔥

  • @raykohli6922
    @raykohli6922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Ryan thank you so very much for these videos. You are inspiring me to be 1% better every day. Making healthier choices, sticking to a good fitness routine. And even doing one thing today to scare me by having a cold shower this morning after my high intensity training workout I had always feared cold water and I found myself looking up at the shower head and asking it" is this all you've got?" Next aims are to go to bed 15 minutes earlier at the start of each week and waking up 15 minutes earlier. Improving by 15 minutes every week. So I can get up and start journalling. 😊😊

  • @N_Patil80
    @N_Patil80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Easily one of the best video on internet.

  • @derek3778
    @derek3778 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Everything you do, you chose to purchase with your life" This hit me so hard. I never thought of life/death, every moment that we have, useless things that i spent time on, this way. So profound, and awe-inspiring.

  • @satadaldatta7742
    @satadaldatta7742 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Ryan. I love your videos, very helpful to me. I very much appreciate that you have made such a precious ancient philosophy available to the viewers.

  • @arvinpb
    @arvinpb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for these nuggets of wisdom. This needs to be shared everywhere.

  • @HumanbeingonfloatingEarth
    @HumanbeingonfloatingEarth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Medicine via your ears . Thank you always Ryan for awsome content.

  • @holeymcsockpuppet
    @holeymcsockpuppet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    In a culture that sees asking for help as a sign of weakness, no single act carries the weight of true strength more than rejecting the entire culture by asking for that help.

  • @tammyburke9453
    @tammyburke9453 ปีที่แล้ว

    The clarity of this. Please teach these principles.

  • @carloflores2490
    @carloflores2490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God bless you Ryan!! Please continue to help us becoming better!!

  • @VeroKen20
    @VeroKen20 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I love the writings of the stoics. Your video allows me to send my entire family an enriching summary of their wisdom!!!

  • @AnjaliSharma06
    @AnjaliSharma06 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    never clicked on a video so quickly, Thank you for this gem of a video Ryan!

    • @anirudh1036
      @anirudh1036 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too ✨

    • @spelatradefx8205
      @spelatradefx8205 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @mayank626
      @mayank626 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ig you haven't listend Donda yet

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      @Cheddar_Wizard 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @dom_enic666
    @dom_enic666 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dont know how many times l have listen to this. Thank you!

  • @TedShreds
    @TedShreds 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for keeping it short Ryan, I feel like this could be useful to listen to daily in the morning.

  • @timr7067
    @timr7067 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have probably read 100+ personal development books over the last 20 years and only just stumbled upon Stoicism this year. It has completely changed my world-view. My stress and anxiety has all but disappeared.

  • @MsLinz1975
    @MsLinz1975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Just found your channel today. Went out and bought a journal and starting to implement this self reflection and allowing to be removed from things I can't control. I started the day feeling crappy. But feel more comfortable now. Thank you for all the great advice.

  • @KetiDv
    @KetiDv ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree all rules except the one that says don't forget yourself, I would say in return be tolerant to yourself and life will be much easier!

  • @hsheean
    @hsheean 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I absolutely get so much out of these videos and they have become my daily obsession. They enlighten me, and guide me towards my higher self. Thank you so much for all that you do! #Gratitude

  • @meowJACK
    @meowJACK ปีที่แล้ว

    I love stoicism so much. For the longest time I'd been independently "winging it" in terms of my mental health, throughout an extremely challenging and traumaric upbringing/young adulthood - and what I eventually ended up doing, what actually began to heal and improve me, was somehow developing views and behaviours thay follow the principles of stoicism. I wasn't aware of stoicism yet, and it wasn't a conscious/intentional thing I did - it's just how I eventually learned to cope with life in the best possible way that made me feel like i was improving myself and my life, and made living so much less distressful and upsetting and hopeless.
    I was beyond delighted when I discovered stoicism because it helped me identify these things I've been doing and improve upon them, and has also introduced me to tons more information/ideas/"rules" that I hadn't previously considered and can apply to my life.
    Applying principles of stoicism to my life has made an absolute world of difference. And I fully intend to continue working on these principles in a more conscious and intentional way, because I have experienced the benefits first-hand. Life feels so much more manageable. I don't fear the future, I dont fear anything that could happen. It feels like I can get through anything that may come my way. Good or bad, I just do whatever I can to make the best of any situation and try to behave/respond in a way I'm proud of. I have learned so much from the "bad" situations in my life and I wouldn't ever give that up. It has shaped me into the person I am today.

  • @noahjuanjuneau9598
    @noahjuanjuneau9598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    OMG - I’m enjoying this so much… I’m in my mid seventies now. I studied Eastern wisdom traditions most of my life: Buddhism, Zen, and Taoism, but I knew nothing at all about the Stoics. Over my 70+ years I had developed some personal ideas and outlooks that helped me along the way. Then… over the past few months because of these vids on TH-cam I have been introduced to the Stoics way of viewing life and I am stunned at how many of these ideas I had developed on my own without realizing there was a name for it or that there were ancient wisdom traditions based on that way of seeing things. So: THANK YOU SO MUCH for sharing this with the world here on YT. Now I want to read some of these wise words in book form to grok the back-story. Ever grateful.

  • @lyan9418
    @lyan9418 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are realy like my wise father who continually teaches me art of how to live I appreciate your work

  • @akshaylakhani7898
    @akshaylakhani7898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Great video, Ryan. No. 10 on imagined troubles, and No. 48 The Obstacle is the Way, and making the best out of difficulties really resonate with me. Thank you for all of the wisdom you share :)

    • @Tomm9y
      @Tomm9y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Also, I found No 42 interesting 'If someone offends you, realize you are complicit in taking offense', very relvant to the current culture.

  • @m39zoz24
    @m39zoz24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this amazing lessons. I believe it will change my life tremendously.

  • @thesuccesscommunity6916
    @thesuccesscommunity6916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ryan is always on point...
    The Rules are clear and ready to be implemented if determined.
    Definitely will make you better and give you the edge.

  • @SophiaTheRaven33
    @SophiaTheRaven33 ปีที่แล้ว

    Found meditations book at a rummage sale and later found your book. Ryan just read The obstacle is the way. Changed my life. Thank you for the inspiration! ❤❤❤

  • @JayMeDee
    @JayMeDee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this. I lost my way for a bit not following one of the most important rules, and Im working my way back...so this was a nice reminder :)

  • @purveyorofproof
    @purveyorofproof ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoy reading Ryan's books but I love listening to this video while I labor away doing house chores ..thanks for posting!

    • @itsmichaelmai
      @itsmichaelmai ปีที่แล้ว

      House chores a really the perfect time for listening to audiobooks, I always am so focused on the content when doing this

  • @CyFi6
    @CyFi6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Hey my friend, so many of these things resonate with me, things I've always tried to practice. I had no idea there was a philosophy practicing this called stoicism. I'm so excited to learn more about it. Thanks

  • @rass1818
    @rass1818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just listen to this on my first run of the year on Jan 1, 2023.

  • @vijaykumartripathi8463
    @vijaykumartripathi8463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Powerful wisdom in 26 minutes Ryan Holiday is true gem of our time

  • @l0rdcroissant
    @l0rdcroissant 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm going to be playing this video every day as a great reminder ;)

  • @_I_am_Thunder
    @_I_am_Thunder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    A few years back I went through a very painful divorce and your book helped me out of my depression. I would listen to it as I was running training for a marathon... almost 5 years later I realize how that painful journey was the way to this current new stage of my life... it turns out my exwife was a few years later diagnosed with freak Early Onset Dementia... what I did not realize at the time is the weigh of that disease was not only bringing her down, but bringing our young sons and myself down with it... it was through the painful divorce that I freed myself from it, and was able to be the father my sons needed... now my sons and I are doing very well, and we are also caring for my exwife and being present for her accompanying her though her journey, but not being drowned by it... the painful divorce was the way for all of us to become greater and have a better life (for now -lol)

    • @steve6548
      @steve6548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Stoic. If I am ever in a situation like this, I hope I can live up to this.

    • @raykohli6922
      @raykohli6922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are a beautiful person for the way that you dealt with a time that was clearly very distressing. You sound like a great example to your family! Your actions are very inspiring. 👍🏽😊

    • @johnbags2525
      @johnbags2525 ปีที่แล้ว

      BS. I talked to ur “ex” and she said she’s never even met u.

    • @_I_am_Thunder
      @_I_am_Thunder ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johnbags2525 very classy. Your attempt of joke lacks class. I wonder why you are reading these deep thought post and then responding like this? Anyway, work on your humor. Trying to hurt other people is never funny.

    • @_I_am_Thunder
      @_I_am_Thunder ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johnbags2525 in keeping with the tradition of “The Obstacle Is The Way” Your negative post gave me the opportunity to paste a message I wrote to my ex-wife because today would have been our 29th wedding anniversary:
      .
      A note to my ex-wife
      In the day of our anniversary.
      It has been
      - [ ] 29 years since we got married and I promised to take care of you until death do us apart.
      - [ ] 31 years since you stole my heart with your sweet kiss when we first met
      - [ ] 7 years since we divorced.
      - [ ] 4 years since you were diagnosed with Early Onset Dementia and I took you back to care for you.
      My heart is broken in 1000 pieces and dark. Yet, somehow I managed to learn to love better than I had ever loved before.
      Your sweetness is incomparable. Your pureness is indescribable.
      I am still in awe!
      Yet, I suffer immeasurable grief for seeing you go through the Alzheimer’s experience. My pain is matched with deep gratitude for having the opportunity to serve you selflessly, and to take care of our two beautiful and strong sons.
      I will always love you selflessly and eternally, because you deserve it. I see the pure sweetness of God displayed in you every second of every day.
      Thank you for making me better and for giving me the opportunity to care for you.

  • @paimac4206
    @paimac4206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Iam very Greatful to your video 🙏 . It really motivates me

  • @languagecomeup
    @languagecomeup 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You are doing a great job Ryan. I am getting a lot out of the videos, the books, the philosophy.

    • @spelatradefx8205
      @spelatradefx8205 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @robevans2114
    @robevans2114 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been waiting a lifetime for your channel.... so glad I found it and made it part of my life

  • @joshuawebb5891
    @joshuawebb5891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I attend a local Greek Orthodox Church, and my priest has told me repeatedly " strict with yourself , and lenient with others "
    Our job is to work on us .
    " Acquire a spirit of peace and thousands around you will be saved"
    -St Seraphim of Sarov