Let’s talk about violence against women | Lily Banda | TEDxLilongwe

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  • @GlobetrottingMusicologist
    @GlobetrottingMusicologist 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Wow, if there was an Oscar for TED talks, Lily would win it! It's an extremely complex situation in (Southern) Africa. Plenty of superstition and intimidation. The suffragettes who were involved in getting the right for women to vote were sometimes from affluent families or had an affluent husband. Only money could talk to make a change here, with influential people, or else they wipe the floor with you...

  • @bostonkpm2061
    @bostonkpm2061 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Lily Banda, you are an eloquent raconteur! Thank you for using your amazing gift to educate us about the oppression against women in Malawi.

  • @karenmiller9825
    @karenmiller9825 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your undeniable powerful TEDx delivery is required, please do not not stop because the world needs to hear YOU.

  • @rev.doreen3746
    @rev.doreen3746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you Lily. So inspiring that hidden traumas were exposed here. We can never find a solution if we keep sweeping issues under the carpet. We need more exposure on these issues continually. Not much content on TH-cam concerning such social injustices that are still ongoing in Malawi. God bless and protect Malawi 🇲🇼

  • @terrenceyoung4771
    @terrenceyoung4771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just found this after watching her in the TV Series Deep State. Very powerful and emotional. I'm glad she had the courage to give this speech.

  • @mochat7806
    @mochat7806 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    TELL THEM HOW IT IS LILY, I AM ON YOUR SIDE 100 %

  • @arynj4818
    @arynj4818 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    My blood pressure continued to go up as I continued to watch this TedTalk. I am a registered nurse who will be trained as a SANE-A, SANE-P in the near future. I will be apart of the fight and education of this nonsense violence against women.

    • @voZao-vd4tu
      @voZao-vd4tu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I did not understand.

  • @lyndsaybrown8471
    @lyndsaybrown8471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so heart breaking. When people talk about going back to the way things were, this. This is why we shouldn't.

  • @demir9664
    @demir9664 8 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    For the love of God. What kind of animals are those men? Not even a snake wouldn't sleep with his own child. why since women are more than men, we don't take charge? thank you so much! you are amazing person.

  • @keithcundale1593
    @keithcundale1593 8 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    It was so very disturbing to re-visit Lily's talk a couple of years after seeing her in the flesh in Lilongwe. Her talk is so powerful, so personal, so upsetting. One can only hope that sense will prevail in the years to come................

  • @valeriea8844
    @valeriea8844 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you for sharing this. I am so sorry to hear this.

  • @didijaja8973
    @didijaja8973 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This was so captivating!! I’m in tears😭

  • @mithupal6910
    @mithupal6910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    All power to Lily. Changing the boys to think differently is only solution.

  • @kcrt3473
    @kcrt3473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Such a powerful talk...
    Im shaking

  • @krishmasubedi1639
    @krishmasubedi1639 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Your every lines got me goosebumps ! You're amazing

  • @maruxacampos9331
    @maruxacampos9331 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you Lily.

  • @chatondamtika8106
    @chatondamtika8106 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Powerful talk.

  • @mahekparvez5952
    @mahekparvez5952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very powerful delivery of a strong social issue

  • @cutencrazy6937
    @cutencrazy6937 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm greatly inspired by this girl for highlighting a very critical issue of the society. Well done

  • @maryt7959
    @maryt7959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Jail for the rapists !!! Justice and honor for the victims!!!! Violence against women and children is everywhere!!! 👏👏👏❤️

  • @nelsonoghenekaroomoyibo270
    @nelsonoghenekaroomoyibo270 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lily Banda you're a very good speaker. That was a beautiful delivery of such a sensitive subject. I wish I could find more videos of you.

  • @mehrikarakulova2
    @mehrikarakulova2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so heart breaking. Thank you for sharing.

  • @troyhayder6986
    @troyhayder6986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Some dudes are really messed up in the head.. Women are to be adored.. Not hurt.. Its like punching the most sacred thing in existence.. Your not a man at all.. Sub human..

    • @roshnik5137
      @roshnik5137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not SOME, there are MANY

  • @luiginadalessandro9800
    @luiginadalessandro9800 ปีที่แล้ว

    Action Breaks Silence is a charity based in the UK that also do work in South Africa and India where gender based violence is huge problem. In addition to empowering young girls and women through self defense training, they conduct workshops and training with boys - because for the most part it is the boys who are doing the harming and/or growing up into men who are harming. Support this charity if you are able.

  • @yasminekhalida2536
    @yasminekhalida2536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very realistic talk.

  • @omairana
    @omairana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heart wrenching.

  • @Jodez.
    @Jodez. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    the fact that nothing has changed in 2020 says something about the men in the world.

    • @ameliatj667
      @ameliatj667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right

    • @CarbonGlassMan
      @CarbonGlassMan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It says something about the men who do that and accept that it's done in those cultures where this is done. It doesn't say anything about men as much as it says something about that culture.

    • @JaneA544
      @JaneA544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2022 and its getting worse

    • @veganbutterfly3652
      @veganbutterfly3652 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CarbonGlassMan This happens in different ways worldwide. In China, Saudia Arabric, Pakistan, USA, Russia ... everywhere where patriarchy exist violence against women exist.

    • @veganbutterfly3652
      @veganbutterfly3652 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Men want power over women and over other men.

  • @inangomaact4609
    @inangomaact4609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heart touched.

  • @adrianabdo1
    @adrianabdo1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THANK YOU!

  • @anthonymulindwa4353
    @anthonymulindwa4353 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great presentation!

  • @gracea8345
    @gracea8345 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very courageous and powerful thank you for speaking up.

  • @DONNACEDOHIOK12
    @DONNACEDOHIOK12 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing. Very courageous & informative.

  • @ShowbizMalawi
    @ShowbizMalawi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So sad. Who is watching with me in 2020

  • @rabinkhanal1811
    @rabinkhanal1811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She have power in her voice .god 🔥

  • @wiwi-w3m
    @wiwi-w3m 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love the GBV Prevention ecosystem (personal, family community, society, nation) -powerful

  • @juliejoseph2201
    @juliejoseph2201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Unbelievable! ❤️🙏🏼

  • @adrianarivera2043
    @adrianarivera2043 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where can I find a transcript of this ?

  • @merissar.7453
    @merissar.7453 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so sad

  • @mohammedhassan6318
    @mohammedhassan6318 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Its remain me my rily story I never told anybody I feel pain but its the past I know I will work hard 2 be normal even through I feel bad when I remember my story about the 18men who rapa me but thanks a lot I wish 2 be very courage as you ad tell people my story but its good you have expln evythng

  • @rideamus_
    @rideamus_ 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    спасибо СПАСИБО!

  • @paddingtongwingwizha6164
    @paddingtongwingwizha6164 ปีที่แล้ว

    😢😢😢

  • @lenkaA391
    @lenkaA391 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s terrible ppl all over the world are wired like this it shows even in the most modern countries

  • @rachelmwangi2992
    @rachelmwangi2992 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need one in kenya

  • @hamzaadenmuhammed5504
    @hamzaadenmuhammed5504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    sick sick sick sick...

  • @voZao-vd4tu
    @voZao-vd4tu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really liked it.
    Greetings lady speaker.

  • @beanassy
    @beanassy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Jesus Christ! So inhuman! Where is the government? Where are the human rights bodies? This is madness!

  • @jeanmusamba8448
    @jeanmusamba8448 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    she is so intelligent!mmmmmmmmmmm big up

  • @SHAMIUNAMUSTAFA
    @SHAMIUNAMUSTAFA หลายเดือนก่อน

    But the exegeration😢

  • @alusinekargbo1327
    @alusinekargbo1327 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am a Gender Activist so how can our organisation go into partnership your agency?

  • @Mina-lj1th
    @Mina-lj1th 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Women should be physically sstrong.They should do exercises which increase muscle power