12 Beauty Struggles Black Women Know Too Well

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  • @2damecuteUK
    @2damecuteUK 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1285

    the last part was so real i don't understand how you can have appointment in the morning and still end up coming home at midnight.

    • @Black.Rose743
      @Black.Rose743 8 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      one time I got taken out of school to get my hair done at 12 and I got home around 7

    • @ambuge1
      @ambuge1 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      too true!!

    • @ItsWendie
      @ItsWendie 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have Irish hair, but it's really curly and thick I thought 5 hours was long for full head highlights!

    • @briannasouter03
      @briannasouter03 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Trueee

    • @thickmadam2879
      @thickmadam2879 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It like takes me 7 hours straight just to get box braids OH MY GOD

  • @indigobeah
    @indigobeah 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3299

    I'm a black male teen and the minute my hair grows an inch.
    It's like I become a instant hand MAGNET

    • @sariahjohnson7237
      @sariahjohnson7237 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Jré Eastbeat my brother, lol. My brothers and dad go through that

    • @ColliePops
      @ColliePops 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jré Eastbeat I’m not even black (I’m Asian) and I know that way too well😫😤

    • @byuntae4519
      @byuntae4519 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Relatable people like to smell my hair I’m a black female

    • @isabellevasquez7433
      @isabellevasquez7433 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jré Eastbeat im a chick but I have an undercut and I s2g once it’s long enough it really is a hand magnet

    • @RaeganLB
      @RaeganLB 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      One time this random lady touched my hair without saying a thing! I got sooo scared!

  • @cadettipk
    @cadettipk 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4811

    Wash day is an event. You better clear your calendar, gurl.

    • @jaylarenee7515
      @jaylarenee7515 8 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      DEAD😂😂😂

    • @LesTwinsSociety
      @LesTwinsSociety 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      😂😂😂😂

    • @gaby121406
      @gaby121406 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Renee Lee 8

    • @Crazybabycreeper
      @Crazybabycreeper 8 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      RIP to all of the hours wasted on wash day

    • @yellurbandana
      @yellurbandana 8 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      I tell my friends that my hair takes 6 hours plus to do, and they're always so stunned 😂

  • @sana_mittal2366
    @sana_mittal2366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5399

    im not black but mad respect to y'all! ✔

    • @Hillaryrwiyaza
      @Hillaryrwiyaza 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      The struggle is real😂

    • @itsmezozo2483
      @itsmezozo2483 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Yeah, thanks. Being black can be hard sometimes.

    • @itsmezozo2483
      @itsmezozo2483 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@Hillaryrwiyaza That's facts

    • @sana_mittal2366
      @sana_mittal2366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Smol Bean same here

    • @kemzz2926
      @kemzz2926 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @BT berry lmfao

  • @ordon_lament
    @ordon_lament 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3984

    "Have you ever seen a black woman in your life?" 😂😂😂

    • @minzypark4480
      @minzypark4480 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      The Almighty Ginger I came across this comment right after when she said it

    • @dankymemes2967
      @dankymemes2967 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Minzy Park that happen to me a lot 😂😂😂 very weird

    • @mariahm8290
      @mariahm8290 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Almighty Ginger i am black

    • @madelaineangelique6292
      @madelaineangelique6292 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The Almighty Ginger in real life? Actually, never😂 i live in Indonesia. I wanna meet black people so bad

    • @tigeytheawesome7323
      @tigeytheawesome7323 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep

  • @missjch001
    @missjch001 8 ปีที่แล้ว +879

    Now you know you need a wide tooth comb and not that brush.

    • @artemis6828
      @artemis6828 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

    • @MissMCchick
      @MissMCchick 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I use a brush because a comb ( even a wide tooth comb) doesnt work with me, and it takes wayyy to long

    • @Lpsanna86830
      @Lpsanna86830 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +LifeOfDemi D beauty takes time and patience:)

    • @MissMCchick
      @MissMCchick 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anna Haynes true but I'm lazy...

    • @Lpsanna86830
      @Lpsanna86830 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      LifeOfDemi D same xD my arms always get tired!

  • @LuVzHeRwOrLd
    @LuVzHeRwOrLd 8 ปีที่แล้ว +902

    Every time wash day comes around, I cry argon oil..

    • @Mrsjimbob255
      @Mrsjimbob255 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂😂

    • @Iggystar71
      @Iggystar71 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀

    • @LuVzHeRwOrLd
      @LuVzHeRwOrLd 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      +Anton Chigurh Majority of people on welfare are white. So your racism just back fired.
      Goodbye & blocked.

    • @Labbayahu
      @Labbayahu 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      OMG 😂😂😂 I CRY JOJOBA OIL

    • @evilkittiekat
      @evilkittiekat 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      grape seed oil here

  • @bethany333
    @bethany333 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5333

    “Are you going on a trip.”
    “No,I’m going to get my hair done”
    SO TRUE😂😂⏰💇🏾‍♀️

    • @_colombeg
      @_colombeg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      😂😂😂😂 I can relate to that😂😂😂😂

    • @strawtifulbonnie9363
      @strawtifulbonnie9363 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Me every time my mum permanently straighten my hair lol

    • @grillsinandout7600
      @grillsinandout7600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I can relate my hair bag ways more than me

    • @rectangulation9212
      @rectangulation9212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Those painful 6 hours when your mum (stylist) is tugging at your hair and you try so hard not to scream or cry

    • @grillsinandout7600
      @grillsinandout7600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rectangulation9212 oh the pain

  • @neptunites
    @neptunites 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4690

    The best part tho is when you're in a black salon and you're hearing all the tea that your hairdresser is telling the others. LaShandra didn't pay her rent on time...

    • @cassidytoo1099
      @cassidytoo1099 8 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      I'm squealing with laughter

    • @Kelly-ik6pn
      @Kelly-ik6pn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      Dang, black salons sound like the place to be.

    • @stewartfamily5222
      @stewartfamily5222 8 ปีที่แล้ว +231

      Right. Like you when you are sitting in that salon chair for 8 hours, you hear things.

    • @aden-lj7wb
      @aden-lj7wb 8 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      lmao this comment is real

    •  8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      lol

  • @Iggystar71
    @Iggystar71 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2440

    Every single frame, every single second of this video is TRUTH!! Wash day is no joke.

    • @ThePinkdiamond108
      @ThePinkdiamond108 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wash day is sooo true!

    • @Kk47192
      @Kk47192 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      fr

    • @j.hypolite5163
      @j.hypolite5163 8 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      +Vicky Bagley And by wash day we do mean the WHOLE DAY is taken off.

    • @mrsconfused1998
      @mrsconfused1998 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wash day is no joking matter

    • @mrsconfused1998
      @mrsconfused1998 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Like Saturday was my wash day and I hadn't completed my homework and my teachers could not understand that me washing my hair literally took a day and that's why I hadn't finished it!

  • @cutecookie7892
    @cutecookie7892 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17048

    Now let's imagine a black Rapunzel..

    • @Kelly-ik6pn
      @Kelly-ik6pn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +461

      Once Upon a Time on ABC did it

    • @cutecookie7892
      @cutecookie7892 8 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      +Kelly Oh yeah!!!!

    • @ollynolly4592
      @ollynolly4592 8 ปีที่แล้ว +591

      Just imagining that, makes me stress

    • @ecliptik8020
      @ecliptik8020 8 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      +Nina ♥ that doesn't count, she's got her ha ir braided

    • @camillehopecameron5249
      @camillehopecameron5249 8 ปีที่แล้ว +225

      thinking about this gives me anxiety

  • @Robin-di4gq
    @Robin-di4gq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +778

    "have you EvEr seen a black woman in real life"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @alybudytz5673
      @alybudytz5673 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes of course cuase im one😂

    • @t.a.n.9170
      @t.a.n.9170 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm south asian and I've never seen one :')

    • @amazingwowhaha
      @amazingwowhaha 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      obviously

    • @bangtanforever5358
      @bangtanforever5358 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fatoucisse694 yup we're Indians and haven't seen one😭😭

  • @emmya113
    @emmya113 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3609

    No black person has ever come out from the hair saloon in under 3 hours EVER!!

    • @deasha36
      @deasha36 8 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      true i recently cut off my big fro yet it still takes forever with this tiny one

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I can honestly say that I do (in at 10:00am, out at Noon), but I've been with my beautician since I was a child so she knows me and my hair very well.

    • @anahavery2757
      @anahavery2757 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      all I wanted was to get some dead ends trimmed off a bit aha

    • @tomisoetan9061
      @tomisoetan9061 8 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      i live to tell the tale of the time 4 braiders did my crochet braids and i was out in about an hour and a half. and it wasn't crazy expensive!

    • @ngumimi.mp4
      @ngumimi.mp4 8 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I once did my hair for 10 hours straight.

  • @jademoore08
    @jademoore08 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2027

    Lol "are you going on a trip?"
    "Um no I'm gonna get my hair done"
    This is me

    • @cynthiamadubuike9538
      @cynthiamadubuike9538 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Jade Miore I've packed like that before

    • @ladyloyalroyal143
      @ladyloyalroyal143 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Jade Miore people think I'm joking and a liar when I say it takes hour I DON'T PULL BULLCR*P LIKE THAT

    • @itz.t
      @itz.t 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ladyloyalroyal143 Sis I wish my hair took 1 hour and not 3

    • @really8704
      @really8704 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      same girl

    • @monicamoore4894
      @monicamoore4894 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same that part had me dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @alefefam3502
    @alefefam3502 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1765

    the last part had me killing, cause it is so true

    • @kyla3834
      @kyla3834 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ikr

    • @nessatenny
      @nessatenny 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yep

    • @jumobi3177
      @jumobi3177 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Innit

    • @angelsweetmusic3631
      @angelsweetmusic3631 8 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      definitely 😂😂 especially when getting braids

    • @alefefam3502
      @alefefam3502 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Angelyca Robbson yes, i dont remember the last time i got those, because i do it at home

  • @lilyberberet6007
    @lilyberberet6007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +849

    Random person: Wow ur hair is so beautiful can I touch it?
    Me: *slaps hand away* no gurl this took a week to do this!

    • @shreeyastache
      @shreeyastache 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Lil' Shrek is that u in your profile picture

    • @RKhere97
      @RKhere97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Omg i feel terrible. I asked a black girl whether i could touch her hair and she let me. I was too young and i didn't know that u shudnt be asking such things. 😬😬i feel embarrassed. It was my first time meeting a black person irl. 🤦i feel ashamed.

    • @anne-sophie7295
      @anne-sophie7295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@RKhere97 sis, it's alright 🧡

    • @thecoffeygirls08
      @thecoffeygirls08 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro I know!!!!

    • @hoper2649
      @hoper2649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@RKhere97 don’t worry, it’s only annoying when people don’t ask or touch our hair while asking

  • @jenlari
    @jenlari 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3008

    She knew better than to use that paddle brush on dry hair.

    • @wonkalu2089
      @wonkalu2089 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i was thinking that too

    • @Nani.101
      @Nani.101 8 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      I was wondering where the spray bottle was

    • @Iggystar71
      @Iggystar71 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That was for some laughs for real!

    • @aijahmack3708
      @aijahmack3708 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      right. Stop acting new 😂😂

    • @mjwest4968
      @mjwest4968 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahahaha right?!

  • @365saturdays
    @365saturdays 8 ปีที่แล้ว +562

    WHEN YA BANTU KNOTS STILL DAMP THE NEXT DAY

    • @nverted-dynamo
      @nverted-dynamo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

    • @h.drippp
      @h.drippp 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg fr

    • @hajardoumouya2075
      @hajardoumouya2075 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +365saturdays Soooooooo true

    • @-ky9334
      @-ky9334 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That just gave me nightmares

    • @daya7060
      @daya7060 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I just felt sadness reading this😭😩

  • @stevismith5741
    @stevismith5741 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1173

    I freaking love black girls' natural hair, it's so pretty

    • @mlpgirlrock2459
      @mlpgirlrock2459 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Ikr!? It’s gorgeous I’m so jealous 😍😍😍😊

    • @therealest1745
      @therealest1745 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I wont lie but not to be rude but some white girls hair is SO THIN AND DRY.im not trying to be racist

    • @skylathorpe5086
      @skylathorpe5086 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thx

    • @bitchpleaseimlebanese9339
      @bitchpleaseimlebanese9339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      im brown and i have wavy hair. Damn! White girls have straight hair, black woman have curly hair, and here we are... brownies have wavy hair😂

    • @alexiajolie
      @alexiajolie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you!!❤️❤️

  • @TinaSoup
    @TinaSoup 8 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    that last one isn't even an exaggeration it is so REAL.

  • @Niabiafoefia
    @Niabiafoefia 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4357

    Now she knows not to detangle on dry hair

    • @notsotypicalful
      @notsotypicalful 8 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      +Nia Imani That made me cringe and touch my own hair lol

    • @pinkisacolorblueisanother
      @pinkisacolorblueisanother 8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      +Nia Imani Im glad someone else noticed.

    • @taylorcope3326
      @taylorcope3326 8 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      +Nia Imani I think they just had to show white people the difference lmaoo. I sat here like, "now she know.."

    • @user-xm4ir2su9m
      @user-xm4ir2su9m 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      animedancer_queen 137 well when you're natural you have to do alot of detangling and deep conditioning to maintain your curls/keep your hair healthy

    • @kyairamonet7480
      @kyairamonet7480 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nia Imani lmao fr

  • @genesisandrews6663
    @genesisandrews6663 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4605

    this girl put a brush to her dry hair GIRL

    • @anahavery2757
      @anahavery2757 8 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      haah was thinking the same thing

    • @andromedanyan
      @andromedanyan 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      ikr 😂

    • @bbnaturalcurl
      @bbnaturalcurl 8 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      right and I'm think if you are going to use tools in your hair then at least start de tangling at the ends!!!

    • @Ferrist1
      @Ferrist1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      my response exactly! I was like never in real life would a black girl with sense and know how put a comb to dry hair. lol

    • @sabrynatheteenagewitch6291
      @sabrynatheteenagewitch6291 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Genesis Andrews Omg ikr

  • @kattherice4851
    @kattherice4851 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1360

    I go through hair ties like I go through French fries. And that's saying something.

    • @lazaro2035
      @lazaro2035 8 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      im going to use this as my senior quote

    • @zoyamir2284
      @zoyamir2284 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Mine always snap because my hair is so thick

    • @beccaj2286
      @beccaj2286 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ThatOneOtaku oh yeah, I just did the big chop and hair ties are suddenly all over the place cause I haven't broken them

    • @kidist9764
      @kidist9764 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love your comment

    • @theon3pieceisreal
      @theon3pieceisreal 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ThatOneOtaku SAME

  • @jewelgoode1049
    @jewelgoode1049 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4896

    why is she brushing and twisting her hair.... while it's dry like no water. honey where's your spray bottle 🤔🤔

    • @ellannaho.8895
      @ellannaho.8895 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Jewel Goode duh

    • @Hopekahasha-d6m
      @Hopekahasha-d6m 5 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      I think she was explaining how u cant do it dry cause of the difficulty

    • @cookies_jungkookie3909
      @cookies_jungkookie3909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Bruh ft tho!😂

    • @karahterry4423
      @karahterry4423 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Jewel Goode thank you!! Thats not a real struggle. NO BODY DOES THAT!!

    • @tahliajones2439
      @tahliajones2439 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly this is so unreal!!

  • @Crazybabycreeper
    @Crazybabycreeper 8 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    But it's so satisfying ripping out all the hair from your wash day brush and it all comes out in like one pull

    • @yellurbandana
      @yellurbandana 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂

    • @munchkin4887
      @munchkin4887 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yasss😂😂😂

    • @zal1928
      @zal1928 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Crazybabycreeper that's not a good thing to do...

  • @sielleneal2291
    @sielleneal2291 8 ปีที่แล้ว +911

    Has a black woman. Ever. Set foot in your salon? Have you ever seen a black woman in real life?
    😂😂😂 had me weak 😂😂😂

    • @alannahfrederic734
      @alannahfrederic734 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Basketball and ice cream I AM BLACK SO YOU DON'T WANT TO MESS WITH ME YOU GOT THAT !!!!

    • @casey4763
      @casey4763 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      yup.

    • @alannahfrederic734
      @alannahfrederic734 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Dead meme Casey

    • @tirzxh
      @tirzxh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alannahfrederic734 True but I wouldn't say that they'll think we're violent

    • @minimovie8240
      @minimovie8240 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg i was reading the comments while watching and i saw ur comment and in the same time this part shows up

  • @trishyangel123
    @trishyangel123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    That annoying moment when you search ‘party hairstyles’ and all white women come up and when you add ‘black people’ to it, it comes up with hairstyles that you already know of and use in your daily life.
    #BlackPeopleStruggles
    🙄🙄🙄

    • @day6atemywallet78
      @day6atemywallet78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      OMG yes 😭

    • @shaylacrockett4437
      @shaylacrockett4437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Day6atemywallet i-

    • @sariahscott5953
      @sariahscott5953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Factsssss

    • @niobebrooks8283
      @niobebrooks8283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Rightttt omg whenever I look up hairstyles so that I can get them I always gotta put "black women/girls" and it gets MAD annoying

  • @andriab8517
    @andriab8517 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1417

    I actually feel really back for black people and the struggle of hair. I had a friend in high school who had natural hair and she literally explained to me all the products she had to use. It was just a team of 7 different products she had to use, 2 different irons and this wrap she put in her hair. She would wash her hair like, every 2 weeks because it was an all day event. So, ladies and gents with this kind of hair, more power to you!

    • @mallbaby1
      @mallbaby1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      wow, she really uses wayy too many products. natural hair isn't as hard as people say it is. majority of the time they over exaggerate.

    • @mallbaby1
      @mallbaby1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ***** i hope you're not talking about me bc i'm a female with type 4 hair, sooooo? come again?

    • @mallbaby1
      @mallbaby1 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** no worries. My username references Naruto haha

    • @mary-rd9zj
      @mary-rd9zj 8 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      okay why are you feeling bad. it's just curly hair come on, we aren't born with dredlocks. two every black women doesn't have the same struggle just like every white person doesn't have the same hair struggles. everyone's hair is different. I'm of African decent, my hair is almost waist length and it only takes a few minutes to wash my hair, I only use four products, and then I detangle later and straighten with no problem. the key for women period with curly hair is understanding your kind of curly hair and planning ahead. I have a white inlaw who has right curly hair literally the same as these women of African decent, and she shares similar struggles. but my hair is easier to manage compared to get hair. I can get my hair more silky then hers and I wash my hair quicker. curly hair isn't just a black thing and it's nothing we should be ashamed of and we don't need anyone's sympathy. that's idiotic. it's hair not a deformation

    • @lemonlimeluv2
      @lemonlimeluv2 8 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      +mary I think she was praising the people who actually manage their curly hair because it does take more effort to look presentable or so some may say depending on hair type and hair thickness also comes in to play it literally takes me hours to get my dry hair that appears to be 2 inches in a bun rather then waking up and with barely any effort bun hair that is straight

  • @rvyna4827
    @rvyna4827 8 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Already I've seen people comment what's true and not true or excusing something depicted when they're not even Black?!?!??? If you're not Black that makes you even less relevant😂 How can you possibly criticize something you will never experience?????????????????????????

    • @arrianamurguia7453
      @arrianamurguia7453 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      honestly omg

    • @ana8621
      @ana8621 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not every white has straight-ish hair ...
      My aunt is pale and her hair is 4c ... Its not a natural color but she did inherit the hair from her mothers side

    • @arrianamurguia7453
      @arrianamurguia7453 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      GamerEmoGohst Ok okay...? Well this is discussing problems of black women...

    • @rvyna4827
      @rvyna4827 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      GamerEmoGohst Ok 1) comment didn't even mention white people specifically. 2) never said white peoples can't have straight hair 3) Your aunt is fully white w/ 4c hair? The most i'd (barely) believe for a white person is 4a, so I heavily side-eye that but okay, if you insist. 4) my comment was directed at the people who have no curly hair and aren't Black. If you neither of the two fit you, all negative opinions directed are irrelevant. Plus the video is discussing struggles Black women go through so if you aren't Black how can you say what is and what isn't true? Like I said, how can you criticize something you have no experience in? That is my problem. It's like me being a Chef and telling a pilot instructor the instructions they're giving are false even though I have no experience as a pilot.

    • @sariahscott5953
      @sariahscott5953 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rvyna4827 yassssssssss sis u tell emmmmm

  • @that_one_girl7811
    @that_one_girl7811 6 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    Ok that last one is so true cuz you best believe when I'm going to get my hair done I'm bringing my phone/phone charger, head phones, snacks, etc.

  • @kylieb5213
    @kylieb5213 8 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Feel the rage for the foundation shades, or lack of. Dammit, not all people are beige.

    • @kiahdale3858
      @kiahdale3858 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Kylie B ikr

    • @lisve
      @lisve 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Kylie B I' can't find a foundation that matches my skin tone because I'm too white :'(

    • @kylieb5213
      @kylieb5213 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am like, see through. But you can usually mix some white theater make-up and make your own shade. Daysha... well, she's stuck with the ashy look unless she goes high end and EVEN THEN. Also the 'nude' clothing thing bugged me. More beige.

    • @TheCeska90
      @TheCeska90 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Unibrowpopcorn same here! it's insane

    • @8Kup
      @8Kup 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Go to black opal. They have affordable makeup for women of color 🙌🏾

  • @firstnamelastname8339
    @firstnamelastname8339 8 ปีที่แล้ว +937

    all this and they still manage to look like queens 😍

    • @loviab
      @loviab 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      smiley face yes we do

    • @gurey555
      @gurey555 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      smiley face I am a 2c

    • @l01j99
      @l01j99 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😘

  • @Gocrazygiogio
    @Gocrazygiogio 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3523

    friend: where r u at r now , can we hang
    me at 3:00 p.m : I'm at the salon
    friend: can we go out tonight
    me , 3 days later: girl I'm still at the salon

  • @taniyasingleton2376
    @taniyasingleton2376 8 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    When I have braids and my white friend says oh I'm getting those and comes back with two French braids....😤🙄

    • @reesesaddler4744
      @reesesaddler4744 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      +sing_cook_dance French braids and braids for black girls are different things

    • @shrigma1194
      @shrigma1194 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Reese Saddler they still are considered braids...

    • @jaylajordan1685
      @jaylajordan1685 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kookie and suga in my tae When a black girl says she's getting braids, 99% that's not what she means...

  • @quwandathornton
    @quwandathornton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    Friend: let’s go swimming!!!
    Me who just had my hair blown out: LMAOROFLMAOJDJAPWLOLNO.
    Friend: let’s go swimming??
    Me who finally got their hair braided: sure but I’m not going all the way in.
    Friend: 😞
    Me: 🤨

    • @loserisaluvrr
      @loserisaluvrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Omg I can relate the day I get my hair done and straight my friend asks to get in her pool. And I’m like “ omg my hair will poof up really bad but sure”

  • @salmahafsa2266
    @salmahafsa2266 8 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    I HATE wash day but I LOVE deep conditioning. The struggle 😭😭😭

    • @Leila-le3zl
      @Leila-le3zl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Salma Hafsa I hate having to dry my hair

  • @chipskylarkvevo7944
    @chipskylarkvevo7944 8 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    There's always that one person who's gonna say this is racist

  • @jadeduncan3342
    @jadeduncan3342 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1575

    oh lord here come the "I'm not black and i have these problems!!!!1!1!!!!!11!11!1"

    • @jadeduncan3342
      @jadeduncan3342 8 ปีที่แล้ว +248

      and the "boo hoo why does this have to be about black girls" and the "why can't this be about me, I'm so used to having everything pertain to me and not being left out when thing are about others i think its a crime" or "i think i can relate because i have thick hair (which is fine and dandy) but i actually can't because i don't have an afro and am not black and the whole point of this is ' things black girls KNOW TOO WELL because they in general deal with it constantly' not 'things only black girls deal with' "

    • @shannonbear8807
      @shannonbear8807 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Will you pass the salt ?

    • @narsjo6500
      @narsjo6500 8 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      +shannon Bear No she doesn't need to cause its already in your hand.

    • @shannonbear8807
      @shannonbear8807 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Owanari Ojuka why do you even care , that person is definatly salty

    • @jadeduncan3342
      @jadeduncan3342 8 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      i guess i'm annoyed at these SALTY comments on every video about black girls when i rarely see it on anything else about a specific group. when things are about us in general people get mad, roll their eyes, or feel like they HAVE to say they're not black and they relate or they're not black and they like it or they're not black so its not for us even tho it is. just because its for black girls/people doesn't mean you cant enjoy it or relate to it but don't say its not for us when it clearly is. there are so many things that are made without us in mind that when there are thing specifically for us you get your panties in a twist.

  • @brokenpencil634
    @brokenpencil634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I had no idea black women had this struggle. Y’all look gorgeous 24/7 with your natural curls and coils.😍

    • @omgemojiis2603
      @omgemojiis2603 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Don't worry we have a bunch of more things we struggle with, but I do appreciate it, so thanks!!! UwU

    • @sariahscott5953
      @sariahscott5953 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you

  • @purpleguddess
    @purpleguddess 8 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    lmaooo..when she packed fir the hair salon...one time i forgot bring my charger and IT WAS THE WORST..i had to sit for the remaining 2 out of the 4 hours (of getting box braids) without a phone

    • @CocoaBeachBeauty
      @CocoaBeachBeauty 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Only four hours? I want to go where you go! My last senegalese twit install took 10!

    • @purpleguddess
      @purpleguddess 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I go to harlem ..where they got two people braiding my hair at they same time and theyre really quick

    • @nicoleboyce6820
      @nicoleboyce6820 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      where are you going because my lady only takes 3 1/2 hours and its a blessing

    • @cyiza8444
      @cyiza8444 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When I get my box braids it takes 6 hours plus

    • @ari-vz8kj
      @ari-vz8kj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It takes six for me

  • @courtneyhicks2034
    @courtneyhicks2034 8 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    When she started packing her bag I started dying 😭😭😭 I do the same thing when I get my hair done & don't forget food or u will have to buy salon food which cost more

    • @TwistedGlitter
      @TwistedGlitter 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Courtney Hicks i had dominos deliver to the salon when i got my box braids done.

  • @melamagic8344
    @melamagic8344 8 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    the one @ 0:41 made me cringe sooo much. Everyone with natural hair knows you dont brush your hair...you use a wide tooth comb...get a small section of hair and comb starting from the bottom of the hair

    • @melamagic8344
      @melamagic8344 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      0:43

    • @callme_elsi
      @callme_elsi 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      DUDE IKR! I WAS SO CONFUSED. Her hair would break off so quick

    • @talithaedwards5948
      @talithaedwards5948 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      RIGHT. I was just like girl you're gonna learn that don't work real quick

    • @youtubeuser3284
      @youtubeuser3284 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +MISS HOLA I brush my hair! I have 2a and 2b curls. All you need is something to damp your hair if your curls are like mine. I love her afro btw IT IS AMAZING

    • @youtubeuser3284
      @youtubeuser3284 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +MISS HOLA ***3a/3b XD I don't have waves

  • @jeevika.bhardwaj
    @jeevika.bhardwaj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Why am I even watching this I am not even black?! But massive respect for y'all! ✔️✔️

  • @myadudley5425
    @myadudley5425 8 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    bruh!!! when she packed the bag😂😂 $20 extra for 4c I'm dead😂😂

  • @deadgoth95
    @deadgoth95 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1885

    Non black people always jumping on these videos like "what about white pipo" Buzzfeed makes videos that EVERY race& ethnicity can relate to. They have a side channel called "pero like" specifically about Latino problems. I don't get what the issue is? Oh right anti blackness! 😴

    • @yowut1494
      @yowut1494 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      PRAISE

    • @kylac3477
      @kylac3477 8 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      they've actually never made a video called "things white people understand" obviously that would be racist.. Lol

    • @anneketaylor17
      @anneketaylor17 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Kylashaye AJ ikr

    • @pogopope4761
      @pogopope4761 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @karacampbell9299
      @karacampbell9299 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      +Kylashaye AJ it wouldn't be racist because white people are the more dominant race ( more whites than minorities in the Us) and buzzfeed has workers all races. 🙃

  • @Da-pk8vp
    @Da-pk8vp 8 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    one other struggle is when you find the streanth to flat iron your hair and you look outside and its raining 😟😟😞 #thestruggleisreal

    • @rayvend9903
      @rayvend9903 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      omg yasss so me

    • @glamlifewithlia9379
      @glamlifewithlia9379 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The story of my life😂😂 this is why I don't really flatiron my hair

    • @Jai-ly8cr
      @Jai-ly8cr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or when it’s wind outside and u have to rap your hair up so it won’t get frezzy🤬🙄😂 (ik my spelling is rlly bad😅)

    • @kueiakocwol9136
      @kueiakocwol9136 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One time i went outside with a afro then its start raining my hairtype is 4b it started shrinking

    • @oliviawalker7430
      @oliviawalker7430 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm looking outside like "That's a lot of shrinkage".

  • @bran9jn
    @bran9jn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    Omg some of y’all are taking this too literally. It’s a skit. Of course she wouldn’t brush her hair dry like that or twist it 🤦🏾‍♀️. I would hate to know y’all in real life sheesh

  • @AurosOrion
    @AurosOrion 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love that some of these didn't even need any kind of caption. "Nude bra." "Nude lipstick." "Foundation shade." The struggle is real...not for me. But I feel for y'all.

  • @hihelloimhere7851
    @hihelloimhere7851 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3504

    Why am I watching this? I'm the palest person I know 😂

  • @jaeda8139
    @jaeda8139 8 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    omg I'm black and I hate wash day because it takes me FOREVER! and my hair is just barely down to my shoulders😭😝

    • @kiahdale3858
      @kiahdale3858 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +ElectricCrybaby i feel like the only natural whos wash days are only like 30 minutes if that

    • @amaka2446
      @amaka2446 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +ElectricCrybaby A+ profile picture

  • @Renesmeecarliecullon
    @Renesmeecarliecullon 8 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    When i started make up. It was so fustrating. They have a million and one colors for every shade of white person but like three for black. And they dont even fit me well. Personally. Im inbetween two shades. So i take the lighter one and ppl say it looks too light and i pick the darker one and ppl say its too dark. Ive had this problem in more than one brands btw

    • @suzannemakerecha3044
      @suzannemakerecha3044 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      you should mix both of them together, to find ur perfect shade, and I feel ur struggle man

    • @kayuriina
      @kayuriina 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have olive-tan skin. Sort of yellowish tan. Literally every make up product makes me look like an orange. Sorry, but I'd rather look yellow and sick then look like an orange walking out of a fake tan salon.

    • @sakarilewis
      @sakarilewis 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rahima Williams I hate having to fingers my color. I got concealer and the color was too white to be blended. Also, I have different shades on different parts of my face. If I want to put concealer on my chin, I have to blend it out like crazy because my chin is darker

    • @ariannaporter4207
      @ariannaporter4207 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank god for Fenty

    • @sabrinaunmasked4639
      @sabrinaunmasked4639 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They have millions of shades for white pll but still I can't seem to find one that doesn't make me look it orange and if it doesn't, always costs a fortune. #paleaf

  • @sakarilewis
    @sakarilewis 8 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Struggles for me that I hate a lot:
    Everyone thinks I have a perm/relaxer in my hair but I honestly straighten it because my hair is hella sensitive and breaks off at anything. I had braids for less than a month and my hair became a lot thinner.
    PEOPLE FREAKING OUT BECAUSE I DONT WASH MY HAIR EVERYDAY they say it's gross/greasy but it's not good to wash black hair everyday and I honestly don't have the time or energy

    • @confusedwhale
      @confusedwhale 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sakari Lewis:
      All hair shouldn't be washed everyday... That's why there are so many products out there trying to deal with the damage people cause their hair with all the over washing.
      And I'm glad you don't use relaxer. That stuff is awful.

    • @tanyag5646
      @tanyag5646 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      “White hair” shouldn’t be washed every day either. I don’t know anyone who does that or would complain because someone doesn’t do it.

  • @aminatas3473
    @aminatas3473 8 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    The last one was the most relatable 😂

    • @LackLvstr
      @LackLvstr 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      right 😂

    • @rebecca-yr8cm
      @rebecca-yr8cm 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      i literally thought this was my comment till i saw the username

  • @marionduncan2230
    @marionduncan2230 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    You guys are forgetting how ashy our legs/arms can be if we don't cream them!

    • @Cindy99765
      @Cindy99765 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No they included that. The lady with he blond afro scratched herself earlier in the video and became ashy

  • @GoddessKry
    @GoddessKry 8 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    This should had been called struggle for black girls with natural hair

    • @yvonnemmata2635
      @yvonnemmata2635 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TRRUUUUUEE

    • @xavisxw
      @xavisxw 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well even with a relaxer or weave you have to make hair appointments and let's be real majority of salons don't do it and bc of that we either wait all day, or get a style that takes all day. And when that new growth is growing up under that relaxer those combs seem to snap even faster before your next touch up. Washing seems to be the only difference since most black women like their black naturals wrap their hair at night regardless.

    • @GoddessKry
      @GoddessKry 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Xavi well I wouldn't know about the weave but thanks for informing me and luckily for me I be at the hair salon for about 2-3 hours

    • @xxdiscoxxheaven1
      @xxdiscoxxheaven1 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      yep

    • @ohsnapitspat6270
      @ohsnapitspat6270 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      extremely accurate

  • @JamesV84
    @JamesV84 8 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I bet *Curly* experiences some of those hair problems too XD

    • @gogo17s
      @gogo17s 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Graphic Design Guy A lot of natural are curly haired like myself they just didn't depict them but its the same problem especially if you have coarser thick curly hair like a lot of us black people do. our hair ranges anywhere from 4z to 1a a wide variety pretty much

    • @JamesV84
      @JamesV84 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      IfYouReadThisUsernameYouSmellLikeAButt Oh, when I said Curly, I meant the guy called Curly from BuzzFeed, but I can understand you definitely having the problem too with the hair =/

    • @gogo17s
      @gogo17s 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Graphic Design Guy Ohhh lol sowwy

    • @JamesV84
      @JamesV84 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      IfYouReadThisUsernameYouSmellLikeAButt That's okay, no worries, someone else made that misunderstanding too so it's probably more my problem. haha.

    • @gogo17s
      @gogo17s 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Graphic Design Guy Aww i love how smooth this situation went if only all of youtube and the world could handle run ins like this.

  • @amauaken1526
    @amauaken1526 7 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Foundation as dark as my skin is so expensive, same with dark dark lipstick. I can't just go and pick any lipstick color I want like a person with lighter skin could or else my lips would look ashy

    • @jonahyogman6282
      @jonahyogman6282 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Girl u dont need makeup your profile pic is gorgeous

    • @artforthaheart
      @artforthaheart 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so beautiful my darksinned queen

    • @JOY-kh3rq
      @JOY-kh3rq 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      sameee sis

    • @VIARCANEPLEASE
      @VIARCANEPLEASE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You dont need it you are beautiful, but that is so true the makeup industry acts like only light skinned or tan skinned wear makeup like smh.

    • @sophiaatn5339
      @sophiaatn5339 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re so pretty

  • @Kaztronomical
    @Kaztronomical 8 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    LOL all the white girls on here being like LOL SAME. Stop.

    • @thefluffycactus2938
      @thefluffycactus2938 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tiffany Lane see my skin is light but I’m actually mixed. I don’t have a skin ton issue but it shows in my hair that I’m mixed. So like I get washed day. Literally takes hours just to wash and dry my hair.

  • @rhemahhall6768
    @rhemahhall6768 8 ปีที่แล้ว +844

    Que. the "that's racist against white people comments" in 5 4 3 2 1

    • @TheEditorsApprentice
      @TheEditorsApprentice 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      +rhemah hall *Cue

    • @mavila1368
      @mavila1368 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      ¿Qué?

    • @rhemahhall6768
      @rhemahhall6768 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +M Avila no like q

    • @rhemahhall6768
      @rhemahhall6768 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +The Editor's Apprentice lol thanks

    • @rhemahhall6768
      @rhemahhall6768 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +productjunkie8 I know it's about time . I'm proud of us black women finally standing together

  • @SafiatuBlogspot
    @SafiatuBlogspot 8 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Who would brush her hair tho??

    • @existing..6235
      @existing..6235 8 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Thats what I'm saying. And DEF not root to tip...

    • @anahavery2757
      @anahavery2757 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      +Skyler Wyatt fr doing root to tip will damn there rip your hair from your scalp

    • @mstcherie13
      @mstcherie13 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      +Skyler Wyatt not gonna lie I used to do that.root to tip.on DRY hair. every combing session was a battle lol

  • @nemos422s
    @nemos422s 8 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    when looking for a hair salon skip the Bs and yelp African braiding salon if find a salon and it's in a white city it's not for black hair

    • @yellurbandana
      @yellurbandana 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Trruuuueee

    • @crazyfashionstuff
      @crazyfashionstuff 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Star cause it's just that easy...

    • @YA-rk6fo
      @YA-rk6fo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Haha I actually live in a place called 'white city'

    • @mikiyah298
      @mikiyah298 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Star -.-

  • @NightFire201
    @NightFire201 8 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I'm white and I think black hair is beautiful

    • @anitacvlog1435
      @anitacvlog1435 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you

    • @ccookies3
      @ccookies3 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      NightFire201 thank u but when u have natural black people hair you will want to chop it off sometimes cause it's so hard to take care of

    • @kawaiiqueen3292
      @kawaiiqueen3292 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      NightFire201 thank you

    • @andyscomiinngg
      @andyscomiinngg 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Being white has nothing to do with appreciating the beauty of black natural hair, no matter the race

  • @depressingfairy488
    @depressingfairy488 7 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    ITS SO TRUE GIRL!!
    *the struggle is real*
    I can't even come my hair all the way because my Arms hurt so much!!

    • @vikkil8804
      @vikkil8804 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I remember when I was younger and I tried to do my own ponytails at 8 😭 I would literally start crying cuz my arms hurt after trying to comb it out and the ponytail wouldn't come out right. I have 4c hair btw

    • @autumn591
      @autumn591 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Vikki L I’m 13 and I still can’t do my own hair. It’s so hard to maintain my hair and half the time I wear it in braids so I don’t have to do it.

    • @vikkil8804
      @vikkil8804 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Autumn SKYE I keep it in braids a lot too, it’s so much easier.

    • @miabonique4072
      @miabonique4072 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@autumn591 I'm 11 and my mom still has to do it because my hair is a type that you have NEVER heard of.

    • @mjnerd0828
      @mjnerd0828 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Autumn Thomas oh honey I'm in my 20's and I still can't lmao, I just pack my two day bag for the hair salon when I can afford it and say my prayers

  • @theperksofbeingabookworm4562
    @theperksofbeingabookworm4562 8 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    When people ask you if your bald underneath your braids. Ughh. Did I plait them into air???

    • @amaya0004
      @amaya0004 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +The Perks Of Being A Bookworm that always used ro happen to me now i hate getting my hair braided

    • @kiahdale3858
      @kiahdale3858 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +The Perks Of Being A Bookworm tru someone asked me that today even though my hair is to my armpit usually

  • @indigolovelace7685
    @indigolovelace7685 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    the last part is soooo true hair appointments take all day you gotta be prepared to entertain yourself LOL

  • @makaiaaiakam9038
    @makaiaaiakam9038 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I don't really mind ppl touching my hair as long as I know them or if the conversation is about hair or my hair

    • @marychristina3413
      @marychristina3413 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Moca Koka RIGHT, I Never really understood the whole you cant touch my hair thing. lol

    • @paullytle246
      @paullytle246 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mary Christina it a boundary thing

  • @nanaesio.nyarkoh2858
    @nanaesio.nyarkoh2858 8 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    wait wait wait... she's 4C? she looks like a 4A... if she's 4C then I'm like 5D

    • @ambar9725
      @ambar9725 8 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I don't think that's her natural hair,it might be a wig or extensions.

    • @maxwellshauna682
      @maxwellshauna682 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Ambar Schneider 4C hair can look like that

    • @vampiresuckssaysme12
      @vampiresuckssaysme12 8 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      +Lu “oh” Luhan If it's manipulated, but not in it's natural state.

    • @kourtztah5268
      @kourtztah5268 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nana Esi Okyere-N. Could be a curl former set or something

    • @toffeerichards
      @toffeerichards 8 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      She has a crochet in..

  • @joy-it9sx
    @joy-it9sx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I just got box braids done and I think my skull is fractured

    • @joy-it9sx
      @joy-it9sx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      my head is actually throbbing

    • @welchsgum7195
      @welchsgum7195 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me when I come out the salon: I have seen horrors unimaginable

    • @vikkil8804
      @vikkil8804 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ooh girl 😭 I feel for you

    • @vikkil8804
      @vikkil8804 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The first night is a nightmare

    • @selinaamakye1109
      @selinaamakye1109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel you and sometimes I wanna take it out but my momma gonna woop me and add to the pain

  • @marcellacrespo9663
    @marcellacrespo9663 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I don't wear makeup and I don't have 'natural' hair but the scratching is toooooo relatable for me

    • @CassidyStarke
      @CassidyStarke 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Marcella Crespo
      Ikr😂 I hate it when I get ashy asfter scratching

  • @laughlater4562
    @laughlater4562 7 ปีที่แล้ว +770

    The girl said she had 4c hair when she actually had either 3c or 4a hair. AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED??

    • @lolafi05
      @lolafi05 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      John's Hair Gel lmao thank you 💀

    • @jonahyogman6282
      @jonahyogman6282 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yeah it was 3c

    • @jessimo7264
      @jessimo7264 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      She probably had a twist/braid out or weave.

    • @svs444
      @svs444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      Girl that’s weave come on now.

    • @ir4txe
      @ir4txe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      That’s a weave!!

  • @damianaoronsaye7802
    @damianaoronsaye7802 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    it's so true with finding make up that really matches you skin tone, or no really nude undies for black 😥

    • @theraVen27
      @theraVen27 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Damiana Oronsaye they make lots and lots of black underwear. maybe you should just be blacker

    • @damianaoronsaye7802
      @damianaoronsaye7802 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      john johnny haha, very funny😅😣

    • @nettyk6862
      @nettyk6862 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes it's a pain and struggle. The nude undergarments that I found cost more than the regular nude under garments for white people

  • @dieforglitter
    @dieforglitter 8 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Black women are so beautiful. I wish our society didn't make things so hard for them.

  • @dehponmehjourney
    @dehponmehjourney 8 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    WHO puts a paddle brush in an afro😑😯. I get the point you're trying to make - we break combs. However, if that is how you detangle your hair the brush deserves to be broken. Damn...

    • @Bduckie13
      @Bduckie13 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Edrieënna Brandao i use a paddle brush but i wet my hair first

    • @kichonachan1385
      @kichonachan1385 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have thick long hair and my hair type is 4a spiral loose kinks curls and my baby hairs are straight so I can’t use no wide tooth comb I have to use a large paddle brush to make my hair run through my fingers , why I mentioned that I have spiral curls is that the curls get bunch up together and get tangled .

    • @kichonachan1385
      @kichonachan1385 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ps those straight baby hairs are virgin hair .

    • @yazplatt
      @yazplatt 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I use one (I don’t have a weave anymore it’s all natural now) and it works quite well til it breaks 😂😂

  • @jennasilva9274
    @jennasilva9274 8 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    why is this so true 😭😂💀

  • @MatildaZuria
    @MatildaZuria 8 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The Last One Is Soo True. I Bring A Book, Magazine, Phone, Ipod, Ipad, Laptop, Lunch & Dinner

    • @kiahdale3858
      @kiahdale3858 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Matildyyy Johnson when i got my braids in i made the mistake of not bringing my charger

    • @MatildaZuria
      @MatildaZuria 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      kiah dale That happened to me once. Biggest mistake I've ever made.

    • @kiahdale3858
      @kiahdale3858 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Matildyyy Johnson i was dying tbh

  • @KarimElhoussami
    @KarimElhoussami 8 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    But you know what, it's worth the struggle when you're such beautiful people

    • @essjai5D
      @essjai5D 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Karim El-houssami aaaaawwwwwwwww! :D x

    • @lunadracohermionegeorge2661
      @lunadracohermionegeorge2661 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg thanks so much! That's so cute

    • @Safiyacharles11
      @Safiyacharles11 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 😊

    • @itsyagurl7972
      @itsyagurl7972 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We need more people like you in this universe :D

  • @anahavery2757
    @anahavery2757 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I have mixed hair of 3b-3c I can barely deal with that you 4c+ girls, mad respect

  • @-nadine-3509
    @-nadine-3509 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    omg you guys have a lot of struggles and still go through them like a boss and manage to keep the humor and smile on your faces. You're legit one of the best people out there because you don't hate anyone and you're always respectful. stay strong girls you got it

    • @geemave9364
      @geemave9364 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      OK this is a TH-cam clip garned to attract views please do not think it is the reality of every black girl and woman.

    • @bleh2228
      @bleh2228 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Candy Chan lol true

    • @anebasammy
      @anebasammy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, thank you

    • @panthermoon2095
      @panthermoon2095 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know and thank you 😄

    • @adamajoof388
      @adamajoof388 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Candy Chan 😂😂😂

  • @libbycurry9524
    @libbycurry9524 8 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    THAT LAST ONE THOUGH IS SO TRUE OMFG!

    • @victoria4
      @victoria4 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Aunesty Jones i know right lol i bring a laptop and dvds and everything LOL

    • @libbycurry9524
      @libbycurry9524 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Victoria P SAME

    • @lerletteadams6637
      @lerletteadams6637 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Aunesty Jones yass whenever i do my hair i carry everything with me, like i'm moving!!

    • @libbycurry9524
      @libbycurry9524 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aaliy Adams Four words: GETTING. YOUR. HAIR. BRAIDED.

    • @lerletteadams6637
      @lerletteadams6637 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aunesty Jones i know the struggle far too well girl...:)

  • @amccoy
    @amccoy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Yea, except every black girl should know not to put a comb or brush on dry, natural style hair.

  • @KelseyCate
    @KelseyCate 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    When I was younger like 6 years old I never understood why my best friend couldn't hang out with me on a certain day of the week because she had to do her hair. and then when we got older I finally understood. Because has a 6 year old white girl white very thin hair it took less than 30 minutes to wash it and dry it and put a French braid in usually my mom just put my bangs back and blow dried it. However my best friend is black and she had to wash her hair and get it done. And I never understood why it took hours. Finally the Internet came and years later I finally understood and comprehended why.

    • @corleeshataylor3734
      @corleeshataylor3734 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Baby it could take a day or two especially for some braids

  • @dianaa-y9970
    @dianaa-y9970 8 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    This is so accurate it's not even funny lol

    • @dianaa-y9970
      @dianaa-y9970 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      *****
      what? lol

    • @candyqueenify
      @candyqueenify 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Diana A-Y I know it is!! like we have to have lunch and supper packed when we get our hair done!!

    • @dianaa-y9970
      @dianaa-y9970 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      What ?
      omg yes lol

    • @dianaa-y9970
      @dianaa-y9970 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      *****
      yeah i guess i do haha

  • @evaphalise5213
    @evaphalise5213 8 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    This is so fake! Every black girl with curly hair knows damn well you don't brush your hair unless it drenched with water and conditioner. SMH

    • @thewitchour
      @thewitchour 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right! When I saw her pick up that brush Smh

    • @geennagakol0
      @geennagakol0 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Her hair was too dry

    • @lmayan2004
      @lmayan2004 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lmao ikr xD

  • @krhodes02
    @krhodes02 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    she said nope i'm getting my hair done! Can you water my plant?? I'M DEAD

  • @LEGIT_ELITE
    @LEGIT_ELITE 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As a man growing up in a black house, that last one is 100% accurate. It's a whole day planned to get hair done.

  • @leoniengandu6813
    @leoniengandu6813 8 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I remember when I used to make those trips to the hair salon . Would legit be in there for like 8 hours and run through like a good 3 Nigerian movies

    • @bums009
      @bums009 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nollywood is seriously amazing.

    • @leiloni1748
      @leiloni1748 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmaooooo yesssssss

    • @ValerieAbena
      @ValerieAbena 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Getting your hair done means you won't be free for the whole day

    • @DumebiN
      @DumebiN 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Leiloni honestly... I'm Nigerian tho so I actually really enjoy watching them

    • @4ElementGirl
      @4ElementGirl 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true

  • @luisalsays
    @luisalsays 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    ''are you going on a trip?'' '' no. i'm gonna get my hair done''

  • @sydneyroberts3141
    @sydneyroberts3141 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I don't even bother having a specific wash day, I just wash it when I feel like it's dirty lmao

  • @ashante190
    @ashante190 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The last one though is so true. You'll get your hair done for the whole day, best bring snacks, money a movie to watch, your charger. everything lol

  • @phoeniz7464
    @phoeniz7464 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Being black doesn't mean your hair is really curly all the time... also, I think black women are especially beautiful, something about the way their eyes and hair and skin all compliment each other.

    • @janetrose908
      @janetrose908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You clearly aren’t black 😂

    • @Maya.0114
      @Maya.0114 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Depending on what kind of curls you're talking about

  • @giovanniabarbosa2464
    @giovanniabarbosa2464 8 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I RELATE SO MUCH!! 1 year and a half natural although I love it it's a pain

    • @jermaine1998
      @jermaine1998 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Giovannia Barbosa gurl, you rock those curls, and let nobody stop you!

    • @kiahdale3858
      @kiahdale3858 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Giovannia Barbosa i've been natural all my life thank god

  • @ecliptik8020
    @ecliptik8020 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Was that girl really trying to brush her dry hair? Really Has that ever worked ?

  • @DorcasTPembele
    @DorcasTPembele 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    0:45 work👏with👏damped👏hair👏 *AND WIDE TOOTH COMBS WEREN'T CREATED FOR NOTHING*

  • @chicky7403
    @chicky7403 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    WHEN SHE PACKED THE BAG JESUS THATS SO TRUE

  • @pacmax4454
    @pacmax4454 8 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    I'm a white male why am I here

    • @springfresh4344
      @springfresh4344 8 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      to comment

    • @ClearReception
      @ClearReception 8 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      In order to gain knowledge and learn to respect.

    • @cassandra_3578
      @cassandra_3578 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Ken_M preach

    • @gawdzirra93_20
      @gawdzirra93_20 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Ken_M What are you insinuating?

    • @xavisxw
      @xavisxw 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      You clicked

  • @Tyler-Symone
    @Tyler-Symone 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The last one is so relatable💁🏾😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @oya2653
    @oya2653 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Thé shortest amount of time I’ve been in the shower is 30 minutes to an hour
    It it was less then it’s a miracle

    • @crystalmethany3245
      @crystalmethany3245 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      For me it was about 30 seconds
      This is a joke

  • @riatortilla9906
    @riatortilla9906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Friend: hey lets go out to the mall
    Me: nah i’m getting my hair done
    **A week later**
    Friend: lets go out
    Me: honey not even a QUARTER of my hair is done! I’mma need like another 2 weeks then we can go out, Mk?
    Friend: okay.....

  • @chi2om
    @chi2om 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    lol it literally took two days to braid my hair once

  • @loria287
    @loria287 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    They left out the part where other black women want to touch your hair and claw at it just to see if it's real when you already stated it was real but they think you're lying. 😒