When You’re Friend Jealous
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There is a difference from being jealous and just utterly ignored, left behind, and unacknowledged
gracebeecher2003 you’re welcome😂
Exactly
Savvy Rey finnaly someone said itttt
Yeah exactly
Yeah I’m the second lol
I'm just tired of always the friend that has to walk behind the group when the sidewalk can't fit three....
I do this almost everyday 😥.
Ikr same
yup
everytime i'm with my friends
Yes! the stuffing!
Being the ‘friend’ that people only talk to if they don’t have anyone else to talk to
update: i wrote this when i was 14, im in university now and it gets better :)
Me in school🙁
When people talk to u only because they need something .-.
it sucks :/
True. I realize that unless I don't butt in, in my FRIENDS conversation they don't even talk to me
Meee
"no new messages"
that is me everytime i check my phone 😂
Lol
Same only notifications I get is from Vlive ✌️
yeass
Honestly
Jep. And when you are the only one in a big group who is not checking their phone so you pretend your busy by playing games or checking random news
Was anyone else waiting for her to put on the lipstick in the beginning??
yes
Arrrrggggg ikr
it kinda bothered me she didn't
I was thinking about it.
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
me
Everyone knows that third wheeling friends is 10x worse than third wheeling a couple.
Truth
truuu
+Izzybella 45 army is everywhere
preach
***** fantastic reply
I have many bestfriends. But I'm not anyones bestfriend.
I feel you :(
Same
I relate
that's so relatable...
That was me. Then i just quited
I hate when my "friends" say "why are you being a loner" if they just don't talk to me and never include me in anything...
Assa Darlingtoni I know it sucks it will get better tho
Ana Cheer it'll get better try telling your friends how you actually feel
you should talk with them about that,my friends didnt include me either in some things and they still sometimes are,but i always ask what they doing lol
Oh...sorry:(
Same here, like I’m tired of being the one who always has to ask people to hang out. Like why aren’t I as important as other people in their eyes?
Getting dumped by your best friend is the worst...
jamie in chains
Tell me about 🙌🏻🙌🏻
jamie in chains totally
Getting dumped by your best friend for her boyfriend is the most obnoxious lol, because there's no way you can compete.
Legolas Greenleaf I get that feeling because once my best friend ignored me for her boyfriend and I totally felt left out😓😓
jamie in chains ikr and also when they will do a gift swap with YOUR best friend and basically steal them
She's procrastinating to put her lipstick on, just like I'm procrastinating on doing homework.
Omg yh
so truu
damn this is my life on one comment 😂
+Devereaux this is what I tell myself sometimes
FANDOM
Who's the third wheel in every bffs?
✋✋
✋✋
Me
Fourth wheel if that makes sense, they all like kpop and are in the schools kpop dance club thing and I'm just like uhh no
@@gachagelato9274 oh that's fine :)
Im into kpop but not obsessed or something.
Im also a fan of vocaloid too :)
@@lemxn_made5936 I like.it when it's in English
The last part never happened ahahahaha AHAHAHAHA
I feel your pain in those last “AHAHAHAHA’s”
Planet Jayy ikr😹me too ahaha ahaha😂😃😀😄😇🙂🙃😟☹️😶
INSTEAD I got to watch them make plans ha..hahahaahAHAHAHAH
*help* *me*
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
*is dying inside*
Your username....
friend jealousy is the worse cause you can't say anything bout it 👐
ikr omg
U are sooo right
ikr
+Mixi Alexis EXACTLY!! I lowkey told MY Bestie, and she tried to include me for like a day. A DAY. Fml.
the fact that even when you talk to them about it, you can;t really do much else..and when they still do it cause it's basically their subconscious action
Did anyone else have to read the title 10 times?
yeah me!
yes
YUP!
+Kylo Rain lmao I did, buzzfeed needs to get they act together
Ya I had no idea what they were saying until I started watching it
3:05
Do you ever feel
Like a plastic bag
Drifting through the wind
Wanting to start again?
I just noticed that!
WMO_ Cheesetouch 2 yess
Cause baby you're a fire 🔥 work 🔥🔥
what does that have to do with the video-
Deanna Valente everything
Sometimes I get jealous of my friends because they're prettier, but then I remember that it doesn't matter because I'm an introvert and stay in my room all the time anyway
Meeeee also don't worry you must be beautiful 💞
unitato :3
literally same
That’s so relatable :(
Ur comment is just like describing my life..... Being an introvert and having extrovert friend just make you feel like a fool
I can relate
I hate the feeling of being left behind and not included.
It's like obvious they don't care so why am I there?
It literally makes me just want to walk away and cry.
Margaret Hein I know
Margaret Hein ikr my friend Lana I feel like she is choosing her boyfriend over me😞
Lps Dashiegamer I have a friend who is really rude and think she is better than everyone and I her upset at her she turns everyone against me. so if friend is choosing her you, you should tell her that and if she thinks that's stupid ( which its not ) just go make new friend until her bf breaks up with her. and shell be CV crawling back to you. but its your choice to be her friend again. or not whatever you do you'll be great
Lps Dashiegamer I know how you feel 😖
AnimeGamer thx for the advice
Closed the lipstick without putting any on? My level of procrastination right there.
+Dat Scottish Girl yes
😂
+Regina Vadászi doot doot
+Regina Vadászi YOUR FACE XD
*hugs all of you* So... Do you guys have the keys to ~the~ basement?... I have a plan...
For everyone: Don't get into a trio friendship it always messes up everything. Try to do it with four/ five friends maybe
I'm currently the outsider in my trio friendship this is true 😭 get a friendship with 2 or 4 makes everything easier
In my group friend there were 4 of us and everything still got fucked up tho
But thats probaly good adivise
I’ve been in a trio with the sweetest girls, we have friends since Reception and year 1.
Well im in a trio friendship and its going amazing
Im In a trio rn.. But the rest of People In my class that are nice my friends dislike
2:13 *SMASHING DARLING!* that’s a sign that your friendship is coming to an end
If only real friends acted like Saf in the end😭
Mercedes McLaughlin we can only wish my “BFF” is leaving me out for everything it shifts so much and she doesent seems to. Care I appreciate and 💕 her so much but I don’t think she gees the Ana with me :(
Mercy McLaughlin if only...
That’s my best friend
..😒😔Ik thats one of the things that triggered my sadness
True
She was dreaming but this actually happens to me in *real life*.
Me too :/
Me too
Same
ME TOO
it started around 4 years ago with my best friend and it still hasnt fixed itself
*cries*
My best friend just replaced me with my friend so everything's going great
heck true
Bro that happend to me like a billion times
same
That always happens to me at this point I just feel so numb
Yeah.
This is actually really sad to watch because my "Friend's" Always switch me out for someone else I dont know why Im a nice girl who only wants a friend that wont leave me
Summer is going to be tough, seeing all these photos of friends hanging out together and me being all alone at home.
same here😔
Why would they not go out with you?
***** Because it's how they are. I hang out with a group of 10 and each have their own best friend. They're like partnered with each other while I have no partner.
***** That sucks T.T I can be your new online friend X)
***** Okay xD Do you have skype or something?
Basically struggles of being a third wheel
iamyour mother hi mom
Always. I’ve tired of it.
@@xedyir yeah we deserve better
Yes
This story was so relatable to mine but the last 1 minute magic never happened in my life 😢
Being the friend who gets texts like "Hey sup, so bored"
Tired of being replaced.
This is my life.. being alone because they all prefer someone over me... Haha *quietly crying inside*
same :/
Keep Calm And Love Animals awh DW you have us online friends we're different
Same
SAME
I FEEL SO DEPRESSED ABOUT THAT.. but idk what to do:( I mean.. what is wrong about me..?
You should make a video about when everyone has a best friend except for you
Yes!!!
I could totally relate
Or a friend at all.
Yeeees
😢 Yes... ;(
I can't get friend jealous cause I'm always put last, I'm used to it 🤷🏼♀️
I'm The Most Jealous Of All Friends,
I Literally Get Jealous When My Friend's *TALK* To Other People.
ĎarkŠtar Ikr I've read almost all comments and I relate to you the most..
I don't if I'm delusional but they just make it so fun than what I'm talking to them like...it hurts..
@@johanas3578 Yeah you always feel like your friends like other people better than you
ĎarkŠtar Oh my god yes...why is world like this...?...Like I sometimes do wonder if THEY know what we're feeling like, do they?! I really LOVE the ending here in this video...but I don't think it'll happen in reality..
Same, I just feel like they’re gonna leave me. And then they actually do sometimes so that makes it worse
Oh my god but the sidewalk thing, where there's only enough room for two, I get that so much. In the hallways, on the sidewalk, EVERYWHERE! It sucks...
samee
I feel your pain friend.
Yup ;~;
Same here bruh...
Same :')
I'm so ashamed that I have these issues...
Bella, I Guess I have it too
Same lmao
I do too
I can get jealous too...
Me too
Saddest thing ever is when you come back from a week vacation and have no new text messages.
I moved to this new school last year and I became bffs with this awesome girl who was nice and fun to be with. But this other girl got jealous and started brainwashing my bffs head so she ditched me...
sucks
sucks
I think you're confused as to what the last F in BFF stands for.
My friend is so nice and kind, she wants to be part of the cool kids group and almost all our time is wasted on talking about that. She even asks me to act "a bit mature" when her crush(s) or when 'cool' people in our school pass by us, like she wants me to be a totally different person when around them, but hell no, this is not what friendship is about, like she is supposed to "help me" be myself and love myself not the other way around. And it hurts when the person you've been helping foe ages to gain confidence in himself just tells you to change ur behavior around others.
:(
the worst thing ever is when your friend whisper to each other in front of you and when you try to ask, they'll shoo you off :')
I hate being the friend that has to sit in the back of the car and all my friends have fun in the front😭
bb Yes😭
It’s funny how strangers know how I feel better than my “friends” do 🙂
I didn't found this vdo funny...
It just hit me in the gut with a punch made of truth..
Except the last part that does not exist in real life.
It does, if they are a real friend
@@Mila-iy3zj hard to find that
how ironic is it that i lost my best friend to my
other friend through a concert HAHAHAHA
*laughs fade out into wrenching sobs*
Aww :-(
Jessica Lee girl stay strong it happen to me too I'm Herr got u if u ever need someone to talk to
I'll be your bestfreind
I lost my best friend cuz I didn't want to tell my secret ;-;
YunaYanu same same
Donuts basically fix all problems 😂
😂true
LYSM BROOOOK
real moral of the story
all the time!! 😂😂😂😂
ILYSM
Who gets jealous when someone calls your best friend your best friend
it all seemed so real until the end. my friends didn't do that.
My "friends" treated me like that so I just cut them off and began talking with new people. I'm much happier now tbh.
Same here we thought we were going to be friends for life they ended up not even talking to me and I used to feel like I annoyed them so I also ended up talking to new people the cool kids and I feel like I am a part of something now they never ignore me 😪❤️
My best friend is going off with someone else and is grumpy around me and happy around the other person!!! What do I do? Pls help me!!!
Nightcore Lucy same🤞
that's so nice, I'm so happy for you! 💓
This is happening to me too but I don't want to let go of her because we have known each other for almost 2 years and I don't know what to do.
This is me...except my best friend never did what Safiya did at the end. Instead, we just drifted further until it was so obvious who her best friend was now.
Vini Girl
same happened to me :/
Vini Girl seems like this is happening to me
Vini Girl same
SAME!!!
Vini Girl Made the same mistake
Totally unrelated note but who else feels bad for the betta fish on Saf's desk?
Why?
The worst feeling in the world is realising all your friends are closer than they are to you. If they were all told to pick their best friend, no-one would pick you. It's worse than anything else because you know if you weren't there they wouldn't really care.
This is one of the worst feelings. I always get friend jealous 😒
I’ve experienced it so many times that I’m kinda immune to it
sis im threw sameeee
Same If two of my friends are hanging out I get so jealous
Me too! Why does this happen to me?!😂😥
Meanwhile...
my homework is pilling up
Same!!!
+Matthew Smith LOL SAVAGE AF
So fucking relatable
+Matthew Smith 😂😂😂😂😂
same
When they start meeting without you....
3:17 yooooo that “soup” is water
I feel jealous and left out whenever my past friends post stuff about their whole squad being together and I'm all by myself 😢
SAME
same
me
Same
All these people saying same , we can all be friends ! #internetfriends
I'm the jealous one when it comes to friends, family and.. everyone
same
Same
samee
Angel San Same gurl same
same and im very ashamed but I just cant stop being jealous, I hate myself
"oh god, i thought you were a mirage"
*flashback to 'jhope daydream' song*
😂😭
무나 BTS ARMY For Life YASS ^^
Oof army everywhere lol
stop bringing army's into every thing -.-
uh ok he didnt, but that line was a line from the song lol
김 ARMYYY
why does this ALWAYS happen? especially in groups of three, why can’t everyone just get along because it’s always two who end up gossiping about the other one and how they plan on splitting off
Sarah Ellen *SIS IT HAPPENED TO ME IT MADE QUITE SAD AND LONELY*
Kiiwiqlos --- SAME
I cry when I get friend jealous. like omg I'll just cry for like 20 minutes then listen to music to calm down
ske.lit.øn_cliqu e same
ske.lit.øn_cliqu e |-/
ske.lit.øn_cliqu e hey fren |-/
ske.lit.øn_cliqu e k
ske.lit.øn_cliqu e yep :( and |-/
"We're all weird sometimes"
NOT ME, IM ALWAYS WEIRD
THAT'S A MOOD
im weIrDeR
I'm always crazy
r/notlikeothergirls
WoW yoUre SoOo QUIRKY
So true
I get jealous when my BFF chat with someone and she get jealous when I chat with someone😂😂 we're possessive bff❤️❤️
Chanbaek Addict same here
I get so jealous when my friend was hanging out with my best friend and they were having a jolly old time. I’m a real jealous friend and my best friend was texting her friend more than me so I was like “Who dis other person you texting” and I tried so hard to convince myself it was her mom. 😂
😂😂😂💔
This has been happening to me for a while now and I feel like my friends just don't want to hang out with me anymore, but whenever I try to do my own thing they are always trying to pull me with them to do stuff that they want to do and I'm usually just trailing behind. Like, why bring me with you if weren't gonna even bother to include me.
xox_kelly_xox just tell your friend how you feel or get her something you think she'd like! Don't worry, it'll get better. Tell her, trust me.
xox_kelly_xox .
xox_kelly_xox i totally feel you, in the end they ditched me for other people. You should really spend time with people who appreciate you for who you are and what you do 😊😊
i used to get jealous all da time but i finally found friends that when im around, i dont feel that way anymore. it really just comes down to the friendship in its self
xox_kelly_xox same
the "she's best friends with devon" comment REALLY irritated me! lol.
ikr
I've lived through that and it was even more irritating
Because it's the truth for a lot of people...Including me D:
OMG IT MAKES ME CRINGE WHEN SHE DIDNT PUT THE LIPSTICK ON LOL
This is the reason I don’t have “friends” because if I feel like I am not wanted, I leave. It sucks feeling like they are friends with you when their “Best friend” isn’t there but when they show up you are forgotten.
I am SUCH a jealous friend
Same
When my bestfriend is with someone else i get sad....
Emily Davenport
So am I
My best friend has so many other close friends that I don’t know so I’m always jealous
Emily Davenport me too
"Ok one more video...."
Later....
ITS F**KING 5 AM
I Don't Know, the third Heh, same for me except it's 4 am.
BATKiddoAddy On Roblox
BRUH...
Life.
In.
A.
Nutshell.
B0n3l3ss P1zzA soooo me
Wow this is PAINFULLY relatable
i’m usually one of the party ones in the group that makes things hyped up, but sometimes, i can relate
This is actually me in rl.. I get left out alot. Good thing i have some real friends.
Same!
+Emma Withers same
I do too
what up army
Haha whats up? ^^
This is what is happening to me right now. My best friend became best friends with someone else. They have fun together, but when I come, the atmosphere becomes awkward. So, I just avoid them because I am not wanted. Since I started avoiding them, they seem much happier.
I feel you..sucks but it's life...
I'm going through the exact same thing
I'm so sorry I know how this feels.
remember rejection has a lot to do with the other person. I lost a recent good friend because she failed at uni and I finished my degree and she doesn't want to hang round people who are more successful than her.
same
Same, it gets really awkward when I'm around.
That moment when your "best friend's" friend comes and they get so into talking thag they just forget your existence
Yup happened to me and I just get out of there cause it just gets awkward
That's so relatable and annoying
You know when there isn’t enough space on a sidewalk? Well I have this friend and if there isn’t enough space she will literally stand next to me bc she doesn’t want me walking behind everyone. Get yourself a friend like that❤️
I am very territorial over my best friends I get jealous of things like that in the video
Anna Steele same
Just don't say they can't be friends with anyone else. From experience, those people are really annoying and at that point they aren't even my friend anymore
Anna Steele Same, and they say 'stop being so sensitive' but they font understand
Anna Steele Lets be friends
Anna Steele same
Me: *opens the school doors*
1:05
😂😂😂
LMAO 😂😂😂. We laugh about it but deep down we all know its the sad truth 😒😂
damn.. I'll just grab a stopper 😐
omg genius! 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
At the beginning I scream LADYLIKE
I saw Freddie and Devan
For people who say that this is so relatable, i can relate.
My best friend is literally ALWAYS texting or talking to other people when we're hanging out, it's sooo annoying
Michelle Smirnova JEALOUS 😂
My friend does the same. I have a friendship group of three, including me. When we all hand out together my BFF and the other girl send each other funny texts or photos and I'm there just trying to get everyone to do something that involves me too.
talk 2 her
Same
Same, she always facetimes during our sleepovers and it is so annoying and frustrating and sometimes I want to yell at her
They need a video about the jealousy you feel when your friend(s) achieve something you don't. Like, if they go to a concert for a band that they don't even like as much as you, and you're happy for them, but it kind of breaks your heart a little at the same time.
or if they get asked out by the guy you like
or if they achieve a higher score in ANYTHING! for example if there was 5 questions in a test and u get 3 but she gets 4 _I can sense _*_JEALOUSY_*_ lol_
Me and My friends dream is to become actors and she has already come so much further than me and im so jealous
Official Chicken Permission Fragrance Accurate. My friend really loves French horn, so one day we both tried to play it and I was able to get a slightly clearer tone of sound out than she did. she was really sad about that because she's super passionate about that instrument and to me it wasn't even my favorite. This kind of stuff is natural, it's okay to be jealous sometimes.
Official Chicken Permission Fragrance yes! me and my bff have really close birthdays and on her birthday everyone said happy birthday to her,even my crush,who doesn't even know us. For my birthday only her and 2 other girls said happy birthday to me. I felt really jelous because I felt out of the box because no one paid attention to me
i'm the third wheel in every friendship and im short this is so true
I'm tired beeing none of my best friends best friend
Anyone notice freddy did not put on the lipstick she just sat there rubbing in nothing but her own lip xD
Try Me a She got distracted by talking to Saf
Try Me ohh...
in the beginning when Dev was dancing i was laughing my head off and i went “same dev sameee”
yellowboba l
yellowboba t
The guy making Freddie feel jealous is gorgeous. Why dont we see him anymore. 🤣
I’m here bc my best friend for 3 years forgot my birthday. She moved away a while ago so it’s understandable but it still hits hard.
Safiya (sorry for spelling) HAS A FISH ON HER TABLE
You spelled it right...
Kay Gow which safiya???
DerpLizaGaming the one with black hair wearing black clothes, and the one who got a cupcake instead of a donut at the beginning
Kay Gow it's a pencil case you can buy them on wish for like R15 (sorry but I'm south african that's our currency) that is one dollar if I calculated righg
You spelt it perfectly.
I'm never friend jealous because all my friends forget to invite me anyway
I have No name *same* 😭
Me: *is annoyed how my "friend' is jealous*
TH-cam: ohhhhhhh I see lemme yeet this in her recommendations until she clicks on it
The title literally says " when you are friend jealous " 😂😂😂😂💀💀
This speaks to me on a spiritual level.
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+Andi Løpez |-/
I literally got jealous just by watching the video
Second hand jealousy???
1:54 hands down, best part of the entire video
We’re just gonna ignore that fact that it says “when you’re friend jealous”
Anyone else get really paranoid when your best friend has inside jokes with people other than you?
+Charlie Bella yep :'c
Literally me... Tbh
Happened to me, introduced my cousin who lives in the same town as me to my BFF, and instantly they connected. My cousin basically stole her. All I see on her Instagram page is her and my BFF. And I'm jealous and I'm trying to cure it.
ItsLuxi
ItsLuxi yeah happening to m right know
Girl IMMA help you
So make your cousin jealous I'll tell you how
Make a group chat with your cousin on it and her so called bff.And get another friend add on the group chat and Technically ignore
You're cousin and yea
After she would say sorry DONT accept it CUS it happened to me the same happened just say I have other things to do and yea :)
ItsLuxi d
ItsLuxi you're me Af
*Slowly getting dumped by my best friend*
I want to show this to my friend so she can see how I feel
I'm HEAVY jealous with one of my BFFS. I really appreciate her. But i have no idea if she does. She used to hang out with one of my classmates. And she is kind of emo. So we were eating at school. And me, my friend and the emo friend were sitting at the table. They started discussing about a movie. And i wasn't included in the conversation. Then i hear the emo one say, -Can i come over to you after school to watch the movie? And my friend was like, -Yeah sure. And i felt left out. So i Asked if i could join too. But then my friend says -I can't Have two PPL at my place at once. Then i felt Even more left out. It Kinda hurt, if you know what i mean. But i always Get jealous. It feels like i'm just someone she hangs out with at school because her real bff goes to another school. I hate that.
Squishietoys I feel ur pain
Squishietoys Thats awful.. 🙁
Lanasuperstar omg that's exactly the same to me but it's that she comes to me when she has no body to hang out with and she's very popular! But she can be nice sometimes and she also tries to take my crush of me
Squishietoys that happens to me just you invite a friend round to your house
same as me...ughhh now I'm a little happy knowing that Im not alone..but it still sucks😿
Story of my life
me too
I take her home
I drive all night, to keep her warm inside!! It's frozen!
My friend gets jealous if I hang out with my other friends BUT SHE LITERALLY DOES THE SAME TO ME AND THINKS THAT IM NOT MAD
"When you are friend jealous"
Good job.