John Salley on Friendship with Luther Vandross, Luther Feeling He Couldn't Come Out as Gay (Part 28)

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  • @johnniedillard4316
    @johnniedillard4316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +589

    I believe most black people knew
    Luther was gay...but what he didn't know was...WE DIDN'T CARE! His voice and the songs he sang was AMAZING...RIP

    • @anthonyarcanumsanctumregnu9551
      @anthonyarcanumsanctumregnu9551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most People knew his was Gay not just blacks Moron!

    • @markfrank5937
      @markfrank5937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯

    • @johnnyblingg
      @johnnyblingg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@anthonyarcanumsanctumregnu9551 bruh stop bitching

    • @godson5877
      @godson5877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @margaretwhite444
      @margaretwhite444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly no one should tell your story but you he's not here now they need to leave that alone

  • @eazyecurry8749
    @eazyecurry8749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    I could care less what Luther sexuality was he had a voice out of this world and his songs are timeless

    • @ivorysteele
      @ivorysteele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Fa real. It was kinda obvious. But he kept to himself. And people including heterosexual should quit with the sexual stuff in the videos. Give us the music and let us enjoy and understand for ourselves

    • @ivorysteele
      @ivorysteele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @MANSQUITO you going too far.

    • @coolman5242
      @coolman5242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ivorysteele fr, he came out of nowhere with that

    • @Lovely-si6sw
      @Lovely-si6sw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ever so often I type in Luther Vandross "A House is not a Home live", right here on YT. When he's standing there in that tux, FINE as F. singing to Dionne Warwick at the NAACP awards(when the camera pans out, you see a young Janet Jackson looking like she's reminiscing on something sensual) Dionne sheds a tear (just like I did the first and second time I saw it), you know you are witnessing greatness. The crowd was eating out of the palm of his hand. I see what my Mama and aunties use to get so excited about.

    • @lookhowshegobbledthat
      @lookhowshegobbledthat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ivorysteele So what about romantic stuff? Both straights and gays allowed to put that in videos according to you or just the straights?

  • @justlikebck5162
    @justlikebck5162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +900

    Every black person I know knew Luther was gay nobody give a fuck he’s a legend point blank

    • @yellagirl419
      @yellagirl419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Right thats some industry stuff those higher ups be the main ones telling artist they cant date,cant be married, cant be pregnant, cant be gay or their records wont sell meanwhile the public dont be giving a damn we only cared about the music Period "The Voice"

    • @174mars
      @174mars 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      That’s so true. Back in the 90s my mom told me Hey Luther is gay but it’s okay

    • @thesaintst1851
      @thesaintst1851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Totally agree! Massive legend sorely missed

    • @rosilynmakeba1092
      @rosilynmakeba1092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      P.E.R.I.O.D!

    • @phantasm541
      @phantasm541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Facts no one cares he is legend And will never be replaced…..

  • @nikawallace5876
    @nikawallace5876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +741

    We never cared if Luther was gay... all we know is that he can Sang his Ass off... RIP to one of the best R&B singer to ever do it🙏🏿

    • @chrystalcarter8069
      @chrystalcarter8069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      There will never be another. I really wish I could get another Luther album!

    • @nikawallace5876
      @nikawallace5876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@chrystalcarter8069 I was thinking the same thing... was hoping he had left some music behind and someone could have put out another one of his albums. There is literally no one left who can make you feel the way he did

    • @alucardvekkia3966
      @alucardvekkia3966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Aaron James Everyone has the right to be open about their life, and gay people have been judged heavily for that for years and years

    • @demo7457
      @demo7457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We all knew that Queen Latifah was gay.

    • @nikawallace5876
      @nikawallace5876 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@demo7457 I agree

  • @nellienell924
    @nellienell924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Luther was a private person ! He never denied or confirmed anything!! His life was his business!! Love you Luther !

  • @KARS215
    @KARS215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    Who cares if Luther was gay. His music is timeless!

    • @thesaintst1851
      @thesaintst1851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed

    • @mwiggins0014
      @mwiggins0014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I knew he waa but didn't care. Just like George Michael. Loved them both and their music.

    • @LittleJacob208
      @LittleJacob208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There is a popular misconception that the black community is homophobic. Nothing could be further from the truth. It was a open secret everyone new he was gay but we didn’t care his music was quality.

    • @coachrobinson9958
      @coachrobinson9958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@LittleJacob208 his music helped me/wife get six children. As far as him being gay: he never came onto me. 😊

    • @cassandrajames3793
      @cassandrajames3793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fact!

  • @alp.comedian6314
    @alp.comedian6314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +833

    Luther: he never told us he was gay because it was none of our business.

  • @robertwilliamsjr.2452
    @robertwilliamsjr.2452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    Vlad misses out on key info because he’s always trying to outtalk his guest.

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He's bad, but he's not worst than Nore (Drink Champs)...that dude is a horrible interviewer.

    • @timcampbell4132
      @timcampbell4132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jamesgibson3716 Agreed, NORE, but, still come on his brand is "Drink" Champs, his interviewing style fits that. It's NOT LIKE he's on the OWN network, interviewing Will Packer.

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@timcampbell4132 you still gotta give your guests a chance to fully answer questions.

    • @N4divers
      @N4divers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@timcampbell4132 it's funny when NORE asks a question but then interrupts the person and starts talking lol

    • @ebonyepps2261
      @ebonyepps2261 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Him and Nore on Drink Champs, always interrupting guests.

  • @cryospiral
    @cryospiral 3 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    Gay or not Luther Vandross had one of the best voices in the history of planet Earth. Understanding him not coming out publicly may have been a business decision but I think it's unfortunate that he was never allowed to fully be himself.

    • @Ghanaquankel2776
      @Ghanaquankel2776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He was allowed to be himself. I never heard black people question if Luther was gay or not when he was alive they focused only on his music. When Luther died that is when his sexuality came more to questions.

    • @general52
      @general52 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Ghanaquankel2776 What are you talking about?!?🤣🤣 They ALWAYS questioned his sexuality!

    • @nickarnez4503
      @nickarnez4503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@general52 The Man had a song called "Dance with my Father" 🤔

    • @shametrickpowell6918
      @shametrickpowell6918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@nickarnez4503 was not a song about a relationship or gay relationship with a man that was a song about wishing his father was in his life

    • @nickarnez4503
      @nickarnez4503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No straight brotha is making a song called " Dance with my Father" it says everything

  • @RedRedDaDon
    @RedRedDaDon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    " A House is not a Home " at the NAACP Awards was the best live performance of all time.

    • @ChocolateQueen225
      @ChocolateQueen225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Gives me chills everytime

    • @chrystalcarter8069
      @chrystalcarter8069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes an amazing and timeless performance!

    • @1980starjustice
      @1980starjustice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yup, the 1988 naacp awards I rewatched it for the first time since I was a kid like two months ago and I can’t stop watching it….that type of voice and talent is what’s missing in music today….no one captivates me the way the artist from back in the day does…there’s a TALENT GAP 💯

    • @howardbell1364
      @howardbell1364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      "A House is not a Home" at the NAACP awards in 1988 by Luther Vandross, is definitely one of, if not the greatest live solo performances.
      When the recording camera showed through the audience, some of the "greatest" artists(a young Janet Jackson, the great Dionne Warwick, Quincy Jones among others) seemed visibly blown away by the delivery.
      Greatness.

    • @Dougie19xx
      @Dougie19xx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes lawd!!!! Dionne Warwick was about to slide out her seat!

  • @lb1798
    @lb1798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Luther's voice fits NO CATEGORY
    Whitney's voice fits NO CATEGORY
    THEY WERE the category!!!

    • @BLACKSHAMPU
      @BLACKSHAMPU 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      💯

    • @funnybones2677
      @funnybones2677 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right On 👍🏾

    • @shanwills718
      @shanwills718 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No lies told 💯

  • @chuuuchify
    @chuuuchify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Luther being gay was the worse kept secret. U can't compete with them vocals tho!!! Big Luufah was on a whole nother planet when it came to singing.

    • @barnyard4068
      @barnyard4068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely!!¡ it was obvious that Luther was gay!!¡ Amazing voice and performer!

    • @chuuuchify
      @chuuuchify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@barnyard4068 One of the greats!!!

    • @kedavis
      @kedavis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Luufah" YES!!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @chrishorton6874
    @chrishorton6874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    My pops was luthers drummer until 87 when he died and it was no big ass secret.The stylists on tour,and plenty of staff was clearly gay.He was one of the greatest male vocalists ever but he was a KNOWN male diva.

    • @BHampden
      @BHampden 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      My Pops was Luther’s drummer that followed yours after 87 until his death. Yogi was your dad, no? We should chat bro

    • @shonmosley4215
      @shonmosley4215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@BHampden Exactly lol Yogi was thee Man!

    • @alfonzojarmonii3876
      @alfonzojarmonii3876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I remember reading about your dad’s death in Jet magazine when I was a child

    • @ispeakmucho
      @ispeakmucho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@BHampden wow that's crazy both of yall

    • @terikathomas2131
      @terikathomas2131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Omg. Did you ever meet Mr. vandross?

  • @AlyMckininn
    @AlyMckininn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Can we talk about how Salley is a great man for being as understanding as he was and also being a sports icon!?! We need to normalize stellar men who know who they are and feel comfortable talking about friends, family and strangers with such regards and love, support and respect! You’re a good guy Mr John Salley!

  • @hershall_3162
    @hershall_3162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Moms put me on Luther back in the day. That “A house is not a home” used to stay on repeat on family trips. Whole car just yelling lol

    • @hershall_3162
      @hershall_3162 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @MANSQUITO Different strokes for different folks 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @mnoell35
      @mnoell35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      “Whole car just yelling!”😂😂😂😂

    • @landonwoods7250
      @landonwoods7250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And I mean whole car yelling 😂...

    • @yezmirsheppard-halika6892
      @yezmirsheppard-halika6892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ARE YOU GOOONNNNAAA BE IN LOOOOOOVE WITH MEEEEEEE🤣🤣

  • @terranceparris4169
    @terranceparris4169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Life is not about who makes the most money its about getting old : because getting old is a gift ;that right there is a quote that is PRICELESS

    • @joycewilliams7393
      @joycewilliams7393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are right. God, love, and life are more precious than any amount of money.

  • @marilynschneider7691
    @marilynschneider7691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    If he wanted to keep his personal life private, that was his choice and his business alone. I loved Luther. There will NEVER be another. I miss him so much. R.I.P. Luther, you were LOVED! 💕

  • @kevinharris3993
    @kevinharris3993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Who care who Luther sleeps with? His voice was amazing & that is what made him a legend. However I think a real friend should respect the privacy of a person even in death. I think if Luther didn't want the world to know he was sleeping with, Salley should respect that.

    • @devanshepard9118
      @devanshepard9118 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i see why salley said it though cause it did show how different people are compared to today vs the 80s

    • @lynnvictor3188
      @lynnvictor3188 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think we all knew he was gay but loved him for the AMAZING artist he was. Love John Sally for this !
      I’ll also say, Luther was a GROWN man about whatever his preference was and kept the right folk in his camp. Think about it --no one ever sold a story on him to Enquirer and no “lover” as ever popped up ….even since he died !

  • @murryjm
    @murryjm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I completely agree with John Salley. Why heterosexual men hate gay people puzzles me particularly from a personal interest standpoint…It only means that there are more available women to choose from.

    • @billygriffin1055
      @billygriffin1055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Cause it's weird..the end..lol

    • @gp4824
      @gp4824 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @films5555
      @films5555 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because these men are in the closet & threatened by gay sexuality.

    • @mariahyohannes
      @mariahyohannes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@billygriffin1055 that's subjective. Anyway STRAIGHT men aren't thinking about what other men decide to do behind closed doors

    • @billygriffin1055
      @billygriffin1055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mariahyohannes ...how the heck you know what it is to be a Man? Go take up for your love ones else where...it's nasty in my book, I don't care what laws are passed! Ok?

  • @jaypaladin-havesmartswilll5508
    @jaypaladin-havesmartswilll5508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    John Salley should never talk about Luther's personal business if Luther never spoke about it publicly. The black community knew and we loved Luther and his music.

    • @brandondavenport562
      @brandondavenport562 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What about the business between suge and Ray j

    • @rasulparrish5578
      @rasulparrish5578 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I totally agree.. even in death, character is relevant

    • @josephmiller1576
      @josephmiller1576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      If you listen carefully Sally made a humble comment about luther sexuality. . Don't bash john Sally

    • @yezmirsheppard-halika6892
      @yezmirsheppard-halika6892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think he knows Luther couldn't be free then, it was a way of vindicating him because society is more accepting of it today.

    • @jaypaladin-havesmartswilll5508
      @jaypaladin-havesmartswilll5508 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yezmirsheppard-halika6892 Luther Vandross needed no vindication. It was an open "secret" whom Luther preferred and the majority of fans were fine with it. Luther knew he gave women that fantasy of romance, he had spoken about it.

  • @336Supreme
    @336Supreme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    John has an understanding heart

  • @dallasplays897
    @dallasplays897 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nobody cares about Luther’s sexuality. Let the man rest in peace. The body of work he gifted to this world is all that matters. There will never be another Luther! He was the master of love songs no matter who we think he was singing to. His music touched your heart.

  • @Lee-ue5bd
    @Lee-ue5bd ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I always tell my kids Luther was the greatest ballad singer ever.

  • @sasfiremaiden840
    @sasfiremaiden840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Luther had a beautiful voice. There will NEVER be another R&B artist who can hold a candle to him!!!❤️

  • @jason.d4025
    @jason.d4025 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Luther Vandross was one of the world best male singers of all time and there will never be another one I still listing to his music to this day I remember going to his full concert back in 1997 I was about 15 years old at the time but may he rest in peace 🙏🏽🕊️

  • @TASIAawful1
    @TASIAawful1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He still is my most favourite male singer a voice so beautiful rest in peace Luther we miss you

  • @AB_Jax
    @AB_Jax 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Luther's voice is unmatched

  • @RodGRoy
    @RodGRoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    John: I'm telling you something as a friend don't look it up.
    Vlad: I'm looking it up right now!!!

  • @irasoul2023
    @irasoul2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Who cares about Luther Vandross's sexuality the man is a true legend that gave us timeless music 🎶 his music and legacy will always live on

  • @gabrieltalavera8692
    @gabrieltalavera8692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He mentions that's what friends are for and I literally just watched that performance with Whitney right before I watched this. I take it as a divine sign for me to keep singing. Luther was definitely an inspiration. 🙏

  • @ezmereldagerard6999
    @ezmereldagerard6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Luther Vandross is the most gifted talented singer. I would listen to him sing a phone book. I love Luther Vandrose ♥ always have!
    His voice and talent are one in a million!!
    WE ALL STILL MISS LUTHER!! ❤💚💖💛💙💜💞💐💐💐💐

  • @rizzadelphia4450
    @rizzadelphia4450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I remember that awards ceremony... stevie was showing off then luther hit him with the woooooooooooaaaahhhhhhh

  • @krissmgvlogs
    @krissmgvlogs ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't blame Luther for keeping his sexuality under wraps, it would have over-shadowed his career.

  • @kedavis
    @kedavis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    John & Vlad really shared some gems in this interview, especially towards the end.

  • @gnickshiphop
    @gnickshiphop 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I don't think John should've divulged that Luther was gay. If he didn't make that public I would've let it die with him. I guess he was speaking Luther's truth for him in some respect though

    • @weidaingram2325
      @weidaingram2325 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Luther was a private person, I think that statement he made about Luther is his opinion. True friends do not tear down each other. I have yet to hear someone say Luther was his lover.. Luther was a loner.

  • @larrygarcia1577
    @larrygarcia1577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I don't care if Luther was Gay. I loved his voice and his music . I have made love to his music too many times to remember. He had the voice of an Angel . Another Music Legend gone way to soon .RIP Luther

  • @xyrw236
    @xyrw236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Saw Luther in concert 8 times. Never cared who he slept with once he left the stage.

    • @TRaider66
      @TRaider66 ปีที่แล้ว

      8 times!! Wow I’m envious. I was born in 1980 and Luther is my favorite male vocalist. I wish I could have seen him just once.

  • @richardgentry6996
    @richardgentry6996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Judge artists by their work not by sexual orientation

    • @feb111980mhh
      @feb111980mhh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unless they're dancing naked in a shower prison scene with a bunch of other men.

    • @rODIUMuk
      @rODIUMuk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If that was the case , most artists out wouldn’t have careers though

  • @kendrickbell8525
    @kendrickbell8525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    "Excuse me miss, what's your name", made him prevalent in the 2000's.🎵

    • @k.y3551
      @k.y3551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He was already prevalent

    • @stephanieray7205
      @stephanieray7205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      One of my ABSOLUTE FAVORITE Luther songs!!!! When he hits that low note at the very beginning of the song... whew chile... I LOVE IT!!!

    • @shumonjohnson6077
      @shumonjohnson6077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aye! "Can I take you out tonight" 🎶

    • @sondante3429
      @sondante3429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      " So close to paradise, closer than I should I be. Come along for the ride, it happened unexpectedly." 🎶🎤

    • @biddybop8515
      @biddybop8515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💃🏿

  • @daniellefunderburg9277
    @daniellefunderburg9277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The ultimate goal is to hear, well done my good and faithful servant when we face Yah.

    • @drphot6050
      @drphot6050 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Only for certain religious folks

  • @wiggywil
    @wiggywil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    A show of hands of folks who TH-camd their FAVORITE Luther Vandross song after this piece.....

    • @1980starjustice
      @1980starjustice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Never stopped listening to Luther……there was no need to revisit…..Luther stays in rotation in the house, the car….his music is everywhere 💯

  • @kennethsimmons4072
    @kennethsimmons4072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One of the best voices ever, ever, ever, ever on this planet and "GOD BLESSED "him with an amazing voice and who ever got the opportunity to hear him sing heard one of the "GREATEST "

  • @Biggdoom344
    @Biggdoom344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I heard the Luther is gay rumors and didn’t believe them. Then he recorded secret love. At that point it hit me he wasn’t singing about a woman he was creeping with, but about a man leading a double life.

    • @mrwhite77781
      @mrwhite77781 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Creeping

    • @tamikasmith4329
      @tamikasmith4329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😳......thanks for ruining a perfectly good sidepiece song 🙄😏

    • @stroop3666
      @stroop3666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He was NOT leading a double life. He was always with men. I could care less, i miss that voice!!! I miss the QUEEN OF SOUL, ARETHA FRANKLIN TOO!!!

    • @westloopcounseling9937
      @westloopcounseling9937 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ...also "Power Of Love".

    • @brittanyspencer205
      @brittanyspencer205 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow💀

  • @THINKBIGc
    @THINKBIGc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    How John Salley and TK Kirkland know everybody🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @krazysmooth4
      @krazysmooth4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s what happens when you been around for so long🤣🤣

  • @SimplyZBest2000
    @SimplyZBest2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "That's what friends are for" was the song he was referring to. Completely 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Ghanaquankel2776
    @Ghanaquankel2776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Someone not coming out saying they're gay doesn't mean they're not gay. Queen Latifah had been on Earth for 50 years and had never took the stage to announce she was gay until we saw her with her girlfriend couple of weeks ago. Good point John Salley.

    • @thekorsh4230
      @thekorsh4230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But why are so many stars gay? I don't get it.

    • @Ghanaquankel2776
      @Ghanaquankel2776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@thekorsh4230 Your question is kind of like asking why are so many white Americans racist as hell. The hell if anyone knows.

    • @ernestcoleman1821
      @ernestcoleman1821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But we all knew just like the brat

    • @Ghanaquankel2776
      @Ghanaquankel2776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ernestcoleman1821 Yeah u r right. We all knew Da Brat was.

    • @audreyphillips1795
      @audreyphillips1795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It doesn't matter if he was or wasn't. Nobody worries about who we have intimacy and I am not worried about their choices either. He was talented we love him and miss him.

  • @navivwilkins3266
    @navivwilkins3266 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    People say who cares, but during that time when he first started performing Black folks would have cared and it would have hurt his career if not destroyed it. The closet is a dark lonely place. People should let folks be who they are without judgement.

  • @shelly1432
    @shelly1432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    We all knew just like DaBrat, Queen Latifah & others before then. It was just like that back in the day.

    • @mg19cal
      @mg19cal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Da Brat may be full gay NOW, but ask Iverson how gay she was when he was smashing

    • @shelly1432
      @shelly1432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mg19cal Oh snap😁 I forgot she use to mess with him back in the day.

    • @mg19cal
      @mg19cal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@shelly1432 Iverson had Da Brat AND Nas baby mom, around the same time frame too. AND was married. This man rolled like stone gathering ZERO moss 😁

    • @thegoose2724
      @thegoose2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mg19cal
      Who's to say that he really smashed Brat? It could've all been done out of friendship. A friend keeping a friends secret and allowing the public to think whatever they may choose. That goes on a helluva lot more than we'll ever know and that is why the only business we all should be concerned with is our own. That is the one true business that anyone really and truly knows!!!!!
      Out

    • @geraldjohnson3216
      @geraldjohnson3216 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A waist of pussy..dam all these men are looking for a beautiful women but they want to rub fur pies and eat the nappy dugout and wearing a strap on just get a man.

  • @Keysala79
    @Keysala79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I really like Mr Sally on the show, conversation feels so dope

  • @mr.e347
    @mr.e347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Luther is greatest vocalist of all time. Period. Love his voice his music. Maybe he wasnt as famous as some celebrities.

    • @mnoell35
      @mnoell35 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gregory Hines ft. Luther “There’s nothing better than love.” Greatest duo of all time!

  • @sipnog3528
    @sipnog3528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Same happened to Mark Feehily during Westlife early years. When he finally came out his band mates and his fans applauded him for being brave and he did find out that his fans didn't care, they just loved him for his talent and the person he is.

    • @lookhowshegobbledthat
      @lookhowshegobbledthat 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's because he had to build a fanbase with hetero catering music and videos. If he came out the gate singing about men and having men as love interests in videos, even with the same looks and talent, the reactions would've been different. Let's be real here. People was ignang as hell even then when Westlife was big. Nowadays it's easier sure.

    • @jeffreyrepace785
      @jeffreyrepace785 ปีที่แล้ว

      Luther came from a different era...Manilow too. Afraid to admit the obvious out of fear. But true fans don't care!

  • @yungcorleone2919
    @yungcorleone2919 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Luther could’ve been an alien for all I care he was still an amazing artist wish I could have see him perform 🕊️

  • @markosclark
    @markosclark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    In my opinion. Luther had the greatest voice in RnB history. Gay or straight, you can’t take that away from him.

  • @croberts30
    @croberts30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is the same thing Lil Uzi Vert is going thru....he's OBVIOUSLY gay but he can't come out because he thinks people won't like his music anymore

    • @kjdnyhmghfvb
      @kjdnyhmghfvb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nah he isnt Gay...he's just toxic

    • @lionofjudah4028
      @lionofjudah4028 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @nickarnez4503
      @nickarnez4503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And Young Thug too

    • @xxxmetalslugga5349
      @xxxmetalslugga5349 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How can you say that when lil Nas x exist

    • @_unclecharles_
      @_unclecharles_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      nah vert not gay he just loves attention thats why he does all that flamboyant shit

  • @TheStimie
    @TheStimie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We all knew Luther was gay and nobody cared. Peace to the legend.

  • @reneejr3650
    @reneejr3650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I remember John Salley in that "Can I Take U Out Tonight" video..Garcelle & Luther stepping..that video is 🔥🔥❤

  • @eastbee103
    @eastbee103 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Luther gave us love through his talent!! That is all that matters!!

  • @littlemikeism
    @littlemikeism ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When Luther sang, nothing else mattered.

  • @rachelderenoncourt3881
    @rachelderenoncourt3881 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    From the African-American confederation we knew Luther, Da Brat and Latiffa were gay many moons ago and we loved them regardless. My friends husband was best-friends with the basketball coach at an HBCU and knew Latiffa was gay because her girlfriend was on the team an Latiffa would visit her all the time. Then I moved from Florida to New York I had a friend whose cousin was at the gay clubs and confirmed that she was gay. Though Latiffa would not go in the clubs, she would be parking lot pimpin!’ Haha!! By the way Vlad is the FEDS!!!

    • @graphitepoo
      @graphitepoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Da brat is bi, she talked about dating AI back in the day.

    • @JayEP86
      @JayEP86 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup

    • @rachelderenoncourt3881
      @rachelderenoncourt3881 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@graphitepoo and Kurt Frost though I don’t think she was bi. I think she hadn’t quite figured things out just yet.

    • @aprilrae6551
      @aprilrae6551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I always knew Latifa was a Lesbian. She looked like one.

    • @Jcrash71
      @Jcrash71 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Blk ppl are not supportive of gay artists lol, please stop

  • @richierich3541
    @richierich3541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Who cares about Luther’s personal life, he was a great singer, and a legend.

  • @valeriareed7234
    @valeriareed7234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There was no reason for Luther to share what he was or was not sexually.......He shared his talent.......That is all that matters....

  • @KultivateWKah
    @KultivateWKah ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Essentially that Would Mess up his career because his audience was mainly woman of all ages and he Mainly didn’t want to disappoint his mother.

  • @controking8165
    @controking8165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    “I’m finna look it up right now!” 🤦🏾‍♂️ Booyyyy you shoulda known 🤣🤣

  • @deniseelalala85
    @deniseelalala85 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a talent he was, I bet if he was still here, he could still sing his azz off. He'd be in his 70s now.

  • @geraldtimberlake6709
    @geraldtimberlake6709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Luther was a Major talent....RIP

  • @letakeokuk5446
    @letakeokuk5446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Luther and Patti Labelle covering Ashford and Simpson’s “Is it Still Good to You”. Amazing!!! I wish he didn’t have to hide who he was, he’d probably still be here…breaks my heart..💕💕

    • @thamimaluki7586
      @thamimaluki7586 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you think about Freddy Jackson?🤔

    • @voraciouschild9226
      @voraciouschild9226 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He died from diabetes according to certain sources.

  • @freedom1597
    @freedom1597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People will never look past Gayness no matter how Fantastic they are.
    Luther Vandross never came out because it would have destroyed his image at the time.

    • @BJN1253
      @BJN1253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for saying this. All of these people on here saying that they didn't care that Luther was gay is lying. If Luther had come out back in the 80s they would have cared.

  •  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Luther’s voice was like velvet sooooo good, timeless!!

  • @louisedory7725
    @louisedory7725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Luther was gorgeous too. So all the ladies loved that plus a phenomenal voice

    • @joycewilliams7393
      @joycewilliams7393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very handsome, dignified, and sexy
      The most beautiful smile 😁.

  • @michaelpeterson1928
    @michaelpeterson1928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Most Sadness emotions is hiding who you really are but being in America and reaching the Status of Famous
    could never ever allow people to really see, who or question your Love life

  • @jasonjose255
    @jasonjose255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    1st Soul Train Music Awards. Luther, Dionne, Stevie and Whitney "That's What Friends are For"

  • @b.stewart4240
    @b.stewart4240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If people didn’t say anything while he was alive, they need not comment now! RIP Luther

  • @peaceseeker9927
    @peaceseeker9927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It was obvious all along Luther was gay, so that's no big revelation. But when I was young and heard Luther sing in person in a small auditorium I was stunned at the quality of his voice. I didn't know someone could sound like that. Other great black male vocalists get their credit but this man Luther was elite.

  • @tyriaeliis738
    @tyriaeliis738 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We loved Luther growing up. I’m sad he couldn’t live his truth

  • @juggernautblue
    @juggernautblue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    If Salley not gay he's the gay whisperer

  • @foodmusttravel61
    @foodmusttravel61 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Still listening to Luther Vandross songs

  • @feedbackthemagazinellc3652
    @feedbackthemagazinellc3652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The name of that song is: That’s what friends are for… Dionne Warwick, Whitney, Luther & Stevie Wonder.

    • @dextersfinest175
      @dextersfinest175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's Elton John, not Luther Vandross

    • @ricktoldonjr.7351
      @ricktoldonjr.7351 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't forget Elton Jon

    • @eiddiegreen4148
      @eiddiegreen4148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      First let me say that in every duet I've ever seen her in. Whitney never intentionally out sang anyone. Pure class. Even though I'm sure she knew she could .

  • @cbkantron74
    @cbkantron74 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This brings new awareness to who John Salley is in the entertainment World along with the sports world

  • @jgjg3848
    @jgjg3848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If Luther didn't put his person business out there, his friends should not be doing it either.

  • @Cwm368
    @Cwm368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Luther was gay at a time when it wasn't talked about as much and people didn't want to broach that subject. It's a shame it cost him so much happiness and stress in his life. How happy he could have been if he felt comfortable and able to live his life freely. It must have been so hard on him, his health.

  • @barnyard4068
    @barnyard4068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This life is definitely fleeting!

  • @amarvinwinansfan
    @amarvinwinansfan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Keep shining or whatever"? The song they were singing was the classic That's what friends are for!

  • @fredriksmith3975
    @fredriksmith3975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    seeing luther body usher and 98 degrees when he sang man in the mirror 20 years ago or so was just amazinf

    • @Ben2bwild
      @Ben2bwild 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One of my favorite performances. 98 degrees were looking at him in awe lol

  • @xavierwilliams4119
    @xavierwilliams4119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rahsaan Patterson is openly gay but his music is insane.

  • @JohnDoe-iv5ns
    @JohnDoe-iv5ns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    4:19 John Salley: “But then Tyler The Creator”
    Vlad: he’s gay
    🤣🤣🤣

  • @greggowaffles
    @greggowaffles 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    just went and watched the music video. so dope that John Salley was in it. He literally knows everybody

  • @718empire
    @718empire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I think it's unfair that people could come and talk about people's lives after they deaf if Luther vandross wanted everybody to know he was gay and his family wanted him to know everybody know he was gay they would have told him I don't think a distant friend that you seen once in awhile should have a right to get on TV shows and talk about your private life for some white guy to make money that shows me what kind of friend John Sally is if I told you something in confidence I'm expecting you to wait till I die and tell the world

    • @zerotolerance923
      @zerotolerance923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its vlad why suprised

    • @tal23-tanika3
      @tal23-tanika3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

    • @StarPlatinumV
      @StarPlatinumV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed. Luther could have been asexual, metro.... People say, I never saw him with woman. Well, no one has seen me with a woman for over 2 decades. I just don't want to date. I have been hurt many times. BUT, I get called gay or in the closet. Keep in mind: NO ONE HAS SEEN HIM KISSING OR DATING A MAN EITHER. So, I think it's messed up for others to "out" someone with no proof or evidence. It's just ANOTHER attack on black males.

    • @malikg7757
      @malikg7757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@StarPlatinumV no he was gay it's just we didn't care

    • @rODIUMuk
      @rODIUMuk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s widely documented . He killed his young lover in a car crash

  • @aqueenceereid4249
    @aqueenceereid4249 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everyone knew it, Wayne Brady, everyone knew it. There are just some folks who just can't hide it like they think they are.

  • @quintariosmith990
    @quintariosmith990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Didn't know he was gay R.I.P. Luther

  • @rondaallen7211
    @rondaallen7211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    John Salley is one of the best men ever. i knew it when he was playing basketball.

  • @jaimesmith2266
    @jaimesmith2266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Luther vandross is one of my all time favorite singers ever he was a master at covering other folks songs and making them his own whatever luther lifestyle choices was i never cared i just admired the mans talent.

    • @Drew039
      @Drew039 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, he Nat Adderley Jr., and Marcus Miller were geniuses when it came to remakes.

    • @valeriehenderson627
      @valeriehenderson627 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Jaime I realize this is 2022, but I listen to Luther everyday. The words in a lot of his songs is pure poetry. He brought us all types of songs, sad, happy, party, he did it all. Peace and Blessings🌹

  • @One_Of_One.1
    @One_Of_One.1 ปีที่แล้ว

    We knew Luther was gay, he never pressed us about it and we never cared ....we just loved him, his voice was amazing.

  • @michellekarlene1131
    @michellekarlene1131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Come on now, someone tells you something in confidence, even in death you should keep that person:s confidence close your heart.

  • @misterbee66
    @misterbee66 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The greatest male vocalist of all time.

  • @CelestialGatez
    @CelestialGatez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Here we goooo. The industry is FULL of gays. That book "On My Way to Hollywood" by Roman Castle dropped all that tea about what he encountered in L.A. It shook the hell outta him. Imagine your career lagging because you refuse to get down. SMH. It is what it is. Everybody got they life.

    • @CelestialGatez
      @CelestialGatez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Abe M. Being born and raised in L.A. means nothing. He told his story and it didn't sound so farfetched to me. Of course the industry is about making money. That's universal. But when you try to take advantage of someone who is trying to make an honest living it is disgusting.

    • @voraciouschild9226
      @voraciouschild9226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Abe M. They do blackball you. It's a form of control.

    • @msmichelle2196
      @msmichelle2196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Bible says it best, the love of money is the root of all evil...hollyweird is a beast and no one survives it you either adapt for fame but you will always loose your soul, mind and body to remain in the spotlight

  • @tellofiriometto5810
    @tellofiriometto5810 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Luther is missed so deeply!! Man, that voice belongs to the world

  • @mg19cal
    @mg19cal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm still trying to figure out why people even *CARE* if a person is gay or not

    • @thebomb5629
      @thebomb5629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it's not about the person it's about gayism, it will be a controversial topic for a long time.

    • @stickmanbw
      @stickmanbw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It stops bloodlines

    • @joycewilliams7393
      @joycewilliams7393 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      1Corinthians 6:9

  • @gaddovame2879
    @gaddovame2879 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    John's sweatshirt is FIYAH!!

  • @tomswill9189
    @tomswill9189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Luther was in a class by him self.

  • @blacksthrnbelle
    @blacksthrnbelle 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I still don't know whether Luther was gay or straight and I still don't care.