Win the Game or Don't Play It [Naval Ravikant, Tim Ferriss]

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    Throughout our adulthood, we all play games. The family game, the wealth game, the career game, etc. Naval explains why is important to know these games well and choose them wisely, because you can get trap into them till the day you die. He argues that he either plays the game and win it (and know that he has indeed won), or don't even play it in the first place. So, he always gets free from the games. He doesn't play them forever.
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    "The reason to Win the Game is so that you can be free of it. " - Naval
    - e.g. of these games --- Family, School, Grades, Marriage, kids, wealth, career, famous, dressing...
    - Multiplayer games are the ones that suck you into society and anxiety
    - 2 Options towards the games:
    1) Play it and win it
    • * If it makes you unhappy -- And once you win, realize that you have won and stop playing it -- Then, you are free from the game.
    ** If it makes you happy --- Keep playing it if you want
    2) Don't play it
    ** "Not wanting something is as good as having it"
    --- That gives you freedom. That is power and to be self-content. That is a person who found everything he needs/wants within himself.
    ** (extra) Of course, we as humans will always have desires of external things. So the key becomes to choose wisely our wants, and keep the amount as low as possible. - Interpreted from Naval & Socrates.
    - Be careful of unconsciously taking in new desires (keep playing the games or start new ones). Choose your games carefully.
    - Trap
    * If you compare yourself with others, you will keep playing a given game (or set of games) forever min 1.44.12
    - Hack
    * When you start a game, set the definition of winning the game. (so you will know when you win it)
    - Beware..
    * These "adult" games can be infinite. (penultimo)
    -- (extra) e.g./ Keep working, once you are F.I., in something that you don't like but gives you a lot of money.
    - Keep your expectations below your circumstances. (ultimo)
    e.g./ Don't upgrade your lifestyle every-time you make more money -- That will get you farer from being Financially Free.
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    "A desire is a contract that you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want" - Naval
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  • @vetiarvind
    @vetiarvind 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Naval is a meta level thinker. It's hard to find someone on his level, but that's probably because he is a unique mix of someone whose a clever worldly operator, a scholar and philosopher.

    • @VishDumb
      @VishDumb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sandjvj911 Lol same
      It's like I'm aware of my fuck ups and still not taking actions

  • @properpsychology1276
    @properpsychology1276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    "The only difference between a wise man and a fool is that the wise man knows he's playing." -Fritz Perls

  • @jholid6y
    @jholid6y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    He forgot to mention. Every time you win those games. There’s no reward at the end. The reward was the actual game itself.

    • @linusath
      @linusath 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      How is it there's no reward? If I'm playing a 'house' game then having a 'house' (all paid) is a reward of that game. Am I missing here something?

    • @Mebble
      @Mebble ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@linusath JB is thinking of the more general mantra of "Life Is About The Journey, Not The Destination", but from reading and listening to a lot of Naval's work your interpretation is what he's meaning. He's not a monk and doesn't get pure pleasure out of chasing things, and there are things worth getting (like that house) that can make you happy after having, not just in the acquiring, which is honestly a more relatable and implementable view.

    • @fitnesspoint2006
      @fitnesspoint2006 ปีที่แล้ว

      Meaning the reward usually does not live up to the hype and the reewardhas its own complexities

  • @kostaftp
    @kostaftp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I like that approach.
    Kiyosaki also says he's playing monopoly in real life.
    You can build your businesses in a videogame fashion, with skills you must adquire before pass to the next level.
    Somehow, it adds fun and put out the "social pressure"

  • @jimihendrixx11
    @jimihendrixx11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Naval has like the best frameworks or thinking ive come across, him, + Jordan Peterson & Elon musk on how to approach life. This + books & the bible is maybe all you need besides other knowledge for skills. Add Goggins & Jocko for mental toughness. Steve Jobs for Entrepreneurship.

    • @mirzah.5821
      @mirzah.5821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exclude the bible and you are good to go.

    • @zelalemmekonnen8030
      @zelalemmekonnen8030 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mirzah.5821 any reasons to exclude the Bible?

    • @mirzah.5821
      @mirzah.5821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zelalemmekonnen8030 For starters: Exodus 21:20-21, 1 Timothy 2:12 or Deuteronomy 23:2.
      Dont listen to a random guy on the internet - me. Read for yourself.

    • @ronjohnson3621
      @ronjohnson3621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Peterson has some solid advice, but he comments on things out of his domain from time to time and makes ridiculous claims. Definitely take him with a grain of salt

    • @mirzah.5821
      @mirzah.5821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ronjohnson3621 Agreed. His psycology and motivational material is great. The mythical stuff to a degree too but as soon as he starts talking religion, he has the finest world salads I have ever seen.

  • @zuvlet
    @zuvlet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Naval is so smart is scares me

  • @davidsyengo1893
    @davidsyengo1893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The game is designed only to be played and never to be won. People get trapped thinking they can win the game. Understand that it is a game and you can play your own way, that’s playing it good.

  • @100xDegen
    @100xDegen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    What a guy! Never fails to truth bomb and leave marks on brain. Thanks for making these PN!

    • @PickingNuggets
      @PickingNuggets  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome :)

    • @dparamful
      @dparamful 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just repackaging Hindu philosophy.

    • @yashshah9522
      @yashshah9522 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      give back my name

  • @justcallmeole8342
    @justcallmeole8342 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this perspective

  • @prat1250
    @prat1250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This resonates so nicely with me. Now to just let go after victory is the real victory!.

  • @kabeloignatiusmosala9769
    @kabeloignatiusmosala9769 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @Alphfirm
    @Alphfirm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    amazing cut and notes

  • @len0i0am
    @len0i0am 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this guy is on another plane

  • @swapnilsinghsolanki3188
    @swapnilsinghsolanki3188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am really grateful to you for this brother really needed to hear that from someone who have it all thanks for making this PN

  • @neutron417
    @neutron417 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is embedded in me, that's why I don't opt myself into most of the famous societal games

  • @Matthew_Ssali
    @Matthew_Ssali ปีที่แล้ว

    Wise man.

  • @marcosbienvenidothomas3103
    @marcosbienvenidothomas3103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting mindset, and extremely useful when applied correctly, but I think the way it’s phrased, “Win the game or don’t play it” paints the idea in sort of an arrogant light. Where does the “Win or don’t play” mindset allow space for learning? For growth? I’ll personalize the example I’ll give: I’m a amateur fighter. When I first started sparring, I would get my ass beat every time by this one guy. Everytime I would “play the game” of sparring with him, I would lose. By this mindset, at least the way it’s phrased, I should’ve given up playing the game by the third or fourth consecutive month of getting my ass beat. However, it was in “losing” the game hundreds of times that I developed the skill set to eventually “win” the game, and now when sparring with the same guy, I often get the better of him. I appreciate the explanation in the video and it certainly is a useful mindset, but to discount the opportunity for growth and learning when you “lose the game” seems a bit shallow.

    • @PickingNuggets
      @PickingNuggets  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing!

    • @PickingNuggets
      @PickingNuggets  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I guess there can be micro games within the games. In the case of sparring, there is a set of rules to know who wins/loses. But maybe trying to be the best in boxing (e.g.) can be an almost infinite game. In the money game at least, it is clear that it can be infinite -- You can play it your whole life.
      This distinction btw the type of games it is amazingly put by James Carse:
      th-cam.com/video/r6ME0_iXr4M/w-d-xo.html

  • @kjames705
    @kjames705 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    New Age Guru. I like him.

  • @harshalpanchal63
    @harshalpanchal63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Please make a pdf of the notes for each video lessons and keep making this

    • @zelalemmekonnen8030
      @zelalemmekonnen8030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Give me a couple of days, I can make that for you. Do you have any fonts you like?

    • @joskxy
      @joskxy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zelalemmekonnen8030 i loved that idea too.

    • @Browny84
      @Browny84 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zelalemmekonnen8030 I would love a copy if you went through with this.

    • @juanpabloberney9242
      @juanpabloberney9242 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zelalemmekonnen8030 Me too!

    • @zelalemmekonnen8030
      @zelalemmekonnen8030 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Drop your email and Ill send it.

  • @dogsavethequeen7689
    @dogsavethequeen7689 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this! I've won!

  • @9fine
    @9fine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What if the system is forcing people to play the game they don't want to play? Most people donot have the luxury of choosing.

    • @PickingNuggets
      @PickingNuggets  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agree! But imo even if you must play it, if you play it well you should be able (eventually) to reach an absolute metric from which you would have the option to stop playing.

    • @9fine
      @9fine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@PickingNuggets Easier said than done. Human nature is programmed to beat finalized understanding of any metric. This drama ends with one's life, until then keep playing.

    • @dee007noche
      @dee007noche 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@9fine yeah because there is achievement… and than maintenance… once you get the things you have to keep putting energy into it if not you will lose it,

    • @9fine
      @9fine 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dee007noche In other words keep filling a leaking jar.

  • @sutats
    @sutats 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If you're gonna play, you might as well win.

    • @fitnesspoint2006
      @fitnesspoint2006 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is no winning, the reward never lives upto the hype

  • @vinaynotnice
    @vinaynotnice 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir Naval 🙌🏻

  • @bunkoti
    @bunkoti 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    reminds me of Albert Camus

  • @aneubeck4053
    @aneubeck4053 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I bet 100 dollars he’s not free from StarCraft 2 haha

  • @lukes6084
    @lukes6084 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Out of this world! 👽!! Do not waste another day - P-R-O-M-O-S-M!

  • @didafm
    @didafm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wouldn't say Elon musk looks happy. I'd say he looks overweight and stressed

  • @modernman1240
    @modernman1240 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You should never stop playing the Game. You can play a different game after a while but NEVER stop Playing. Otherwise you will Rot n yr life will becm Sad n Depressing

  • @AngchukMayur
    @AngchukMayur ปีที่แล้ว

    I would like to follow the picking Nugget's video creater on twitter and Instagram

    • @PickingNuggets
      @PickingNuggets  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey! thanks for your interest.
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  • @navirobayo
    @navirobayo ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you