My relationship of 3 1/2 years ended a month ago due to my toxic behaviors. Looking back I don’t blame her for leaving and doing what’s best for her. We’ve agreed to not diss on each other and do what’s best for each other. It’s been hard on me for sure but since I started watching your videos, it’s helped me grow up and realize I need to work on myself (putting myself first and bettering myself physically and mentally). The lessons y’all teach in these videos are what I need to hear to get my shit together and remind me of my worth. I can’t thank you guys enough💯
5 months after she left she reached out and I didn't replie then she saw me with a younger and much more attractive lady and she had a nervous breakdown and now 2 years later she married out of loneliness but reached out to me again and I replied I don't talk to married woman,,lol now she's just mad..
Man that last quote at the end of the video really hit. It just confirmed that you guys are what I need right now. I just pinpointed that the hardest part for me emotionally in this break up is the anger it triggers. As I’ve been in no NC, I’ve seen that my rational thinking has been coming back and I’m learning more about myself and I’m becoming more definitive in the boundaries I’ll be setting for myself from this point on. Thank you guys so much for being real and helping me wade through this experience!
My story is this is our second breakup. I moved in an apartment with her last year. Broke up, did no contact she cried and came back months later. This time, we were gonna buy a house together, she got cold feet and dipped. She gonna realize one day how badly she fucked up and wanna crawl back! NEVER give her satisfaction of knowing she’s in your head!
One week no contact. Although she watched my Instagram story twice since then...she definitely thinks I’ll come and rescue her from her dumb decision telling me to get lost. I will stand my ground until she comes crawling back begging for my forgiveness and mercy. I love her and want her back, but I will never follow her anywhere again. She can either latch on for the ride; or get lost.
Brothers love you like always . I got a statement for all the guys and gals Me saying in my head telling her you could not live with your failure , where did that bring you . "TO ME". , Be the sharks , I am the last bottle water on the face of this earth I am valuable and worth more than that water . Chin up chest out hold your heads up high gals and gals , definitely worth it , love ya brothers one of the best vids out there..
I walked away since mid January and blocked her. I worked on myself and lately she watches my IG stories. We don’t even follow each other on IG but she’s spying.. now I don’t even want her no more!! 💪💪 stay strong fellas.
One interesting aspect of no contact its that when you really moved on and stop caring about your ex and the energy you gave her , its not longer there, she will sense it and if she still cares, she will reach out even if she is with someone else. Thats why when you really moved on and focus on new things and girls, outnowhere here she comes. Thats why you have to let them go to get them back and the clue its stop wanting them back and be really done with her. The scarcity energy you are transmitting will go back to you, even if you are not reaching out and even if she blocks you and she doesnt know anything about your life. I know its sounds weird but theres some disturbance on the force when you stop investing emotional energy on someone. Thats why they came back when you moved on. So be careful on just going no contact, stop waiting for her to come back and assume she wont, so you start faster to move on and let her go completely, thats when she can feel and realize your are not longer missing her and caring about her. Expecting, wishing and wanting, signals scarcity to the universe, so start having, being and doing to signal Abundance.
Honestly, Thank you! Every word, every advice, every motivational phrase you both said helped me in an enormous way. I thought I lost her for good after treating her badly because I was in a dark hole. You guys helped me toughen up and start acting logical and I won her back. Bro I don’t know how to thank you guys but thank you. Keep doing what you’re doing. Of all the videos I saw, these were the only ones I could binge watch. You guys are real and you talk from the heart. It took less than the month (thankfully) but I’ve grown so much in this little time. I couldn’t believe how much I had lost myself. Take care gents -Airforce Vet (and yes, I cried like a little man)
I like this one. I walked away with no regrets, knowing I attempted to make it work. And if that person isn't wanting the same thing, then don't be surprised when you don't hear from me again 😂 that's what's real confusing sometimes. She acted cold initially, and when you just accept it, it's almost like that don't like it. Either way though, I'm doing alot better now, by myself. Anything could've happened since we last spoke 🤷🏾♂️ she wouldn't come back tho lol
I left my ex 6 weeks ago and even though she initiated the breakup I went along with it because I was done with her BS. She had the audacity to ask me to fight for the relationship translation "I lost control of you and I am desperately trying to regain control" Um no thanks, hard pass. I went no contact and blocked her. 3 weeks ago I happened to see a video of her during an annual town event that she is involved with. She looked completely lost and upset. Moral of the story, treat me better and don't take me for granted and I will stick around. Otherwise I am out!
Ex said we were toxic at the breakup. Went No Contact and become the Toxic Avenger! Rebuild and level up! Let her enjoy that cold pillow and lonely nights. Connor said no to rinsing out that babypowder! Social Media post don't effect a 🦈!
First off, I love your guys videos. Thank you so much for your content, it’s much needed. Second, I have a quick question. I’ve been in no contact for about three weeks and I saw my ex at work. She seemed mad or upset with me but I didn’t do anything. Why is she being like that 🤔
My baby mama said she miss me and our bond but still talking to a younger guy. On my birthday said she was open to get to know me and open to go out but went out with the guy that same night then flirted with me the next day. The wishy washy mess is ridiculous.
I just broke up with my baby momma we were together 5 years we both messed up n cheated a lot in the relationship n it was on my end for doing it more than I should have she said she no longer has feeling to me she feels numb about me I’m currently going through stages of the break up and I came across your videos n I’ve been just watching them one after another and your guy’s videos have been helping me so much man on how to be and what to do I’m truly starting to feel happy n feeling like that alpha shark keep up with the content man you guys deserve more subs n views 🔥🦈
I definitely think its right to go radio silent without a word for the most effective result; but I just want to share the coldest last words I ever witnessed anyone say to an ex-girlfriend that was from a friend who has since sadly passed. Before he cut contact with his psychotic bird of 6 years we went round her house to pick up a few things of his - she was following behind him shouting and screaming and just as he was about to leave the threshold of the front door he stopped, and with his back turned to her he gave off a gentle laugh and said "Tomorrow you'll forget the sound of that".. I've still never heard a woman go so quiet, and as far as I know he never spoke to her again. And I guess she never will remember it again. I miss him, but always smile at how Kaiser Soze levels of gangster that actually was. 😇❤
"The greatest trick the devil ever pulled, was telling a girl she'd forget his laugh" 😅🙌 anyway, thanks for taking the time to respond to all these comments it shows your passion for it. I wish yous all the best because you deserve all the credit coming your way very soon no doubt. Time to start the merch boys 🧢👕👑
Man i really enjoy the content you guys put out! Its been hard to have no contact when she has my baby boy with her 24/7 and i only see him like once or twice a week when i was so used to sleeping next to them and waking up with them the next day. Its been the hardest month and half.
Guys you 2 are gonna slay my soul. Words so true like the more you speak the deeper I feel that. Like a lot of truth going out your mouths. Can’t wait for her I gotta man up Big up from france. I see you homies Love
I was like this before I know who can he:lp you out text he now. He can solve your problems:: don't waste your time here: you can get ex back::+:1:9:7:2:5:3:4:8:3:9:9 whatzzp me:
I am glad I learned English to undertand you, my brothers. I grew up in Brazil, lived in the UK and I am currently in Switzerland. I wish I could give you a big hug, guys. Everything you say here is true. I am there right now.and it isnt so bad cuz I have been there before. But this will pass. Thanks a lot
Great video, hate the word toxic too, I’ve done all the work 2.0, no facial hair like Murphy though, hahaha. Can I ask how long before no contact becomes permanent? We’ve done 9 months no contact.
If friends influence the break up do you still think no contact is still effective?? I know I did everything right and more then her friends ever did should I trust the process?
My ex says she wants to be friends right now because she doesn’t want a relationship ship with me right now and today we met up and she kept hugging me and was keep on smiling. So I grabbed her ass and she said don’t grab my ass lol. She also said I missed you and gave me a I miss you hug. By her saying she wants to be friends for right now. What advice can you guys give me to make her want me even more?
I remember when my ex hit me with that one. Here is what that means - that means she wants to fuck other men while you take her out on “friendship dates”, give her free validation and use you as an emotional tampon while refusing to give you pussy. Basically... she is going to fuck other men and not fuck you. Reject friendship. Go into no contact. You got this. I’m 3 months in. On my end, I’ve taken it a step forward and went radio silent.
Not all the time women "I want to be friends" means exactly that. They are testing you. They don't want to let you go but afraid to tell you they want to start over because they are afraid you may reject them.
Hey man I’m in a situation where she likes me but she pretends that she doesn’t like me . And you know she make no contacts with me , and the other way she sends interest texts to me , what should I do , should I be myself and tel her to hang out or just give her more time so she would blow up
She’s “Bread Crumbing” you Short Bus!! She don’t like you fool, she’s training you and breaking you down to get to your Simp Core, so that you will passively serve her!
@7empest Hate to tell you this but they are All like that!! Just think back as to how many girlfriends you had in the past, you thought they were girlfriends but they were just doing the same thing as your last chick!
I need help,so I Broke up with her and stayed in contact with her everyday for 2 months and she begged for me back then meanwhile,then I asked to get back together and she said no,and of course I begged and pleaded and said I wouldn’t leave,this went on for 2 months and then she left me on seen after I said goodnight me day .I implemented the NC rule for a month now is that the smart thing to do right now to get her back ? Please help!
Hmm this is interesting,you do know women leave the relationship mentality before she physically leaves chance are if the relationship was getting bad,it was already over,before it was over,a women will give a guy 1000 chances and it will be that last thing,I’ve never cuddled up with a guys nothing or smell his stuff,I just cut the ex off completely.
My relationship of 3 1/2 years ended a month ago due to my toxic behaviors. Looking back I don’t blame her for leaving and doing what’s best for her. We’ve agreed to not diss on each other and do what’s best for each other. It’s been hard on me for sure but since I started watching your videos, it’s helped me grow up and realize I need to work on myself (putting myself first and bettering myself physically and mentally). The lessons y’all teach in these videos are what I need to hear to get my shit together and remind me of my worth. I can’t thank you guys enough💯
Yes! Self care always!
5 months after she left she reached out and I didn't replie then she saw me with a younger and much more attractive lady and she had a nervous breakdown and now 2 years later she married out of loneliness but reached out to me again and I replied I don't talk to married woman,,lol now she's just mad..
😂😂🤴🏻
I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back
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@@moonlightguidance4881 no thanks,,I never take a woman back after she had left me, exspeclly after she's been with another
@@georgespangler1517 okay
Thanks Guys. Needed this today. It’s all about my growth.
Man that last quote at the end of the video really hit. It just confirmed that you guys are what I need right now. I just pinpointed that the hardest part for me emotionally in this break up is the anger it triggers. As I’ve been in no NC, I’ve seen that my rational thinking has been coming back and I’m learning more about myself and I’m becoming more definitive in the boundaries I’ll be setting for myself from this point on. Thank you guys so much for being real and helping me wade through this experience!
Respect 💪🏽💪🏽
My story is this is our second breakup. I moved in an apartment with her last year. Broke up, did no contact she cried and came back months later. This time, we were gonna buy a house together, she got cold feet and dipped. She gonna realize one day how badly she fucked up and wanna crawl back! NEVER give her satisfaction of knowing she’s in your head!
One week no contact. Although she watched my Instagram story twice since then...she definitely thinks I’ll come and rescue her from her dumb decision telling me to get lost. I will stand my ground until she comes crawling back begging for my forgiveness and mercy. I love her and want her back, but I will never follow her anywhere again. She can either latch on for the ride; or get lost.
It really works on me
Some one did helped
Visit him on wha'txpp......💪💪
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Brothers love you like always . I got a statement for all the guys and gals
Me saying in my head telling her you could not live with your failure , where did that bring you . "TO ME". , Be the sharks , I am the last bottle water on the face of this earth I am valuable and worth more than that water . Chin up chest out hold your heads up high gals and gals , definitely worth it , love ya brothers one of the best vids out there..
@Anthony Base reported stupid
Not going to go into my story but I’m extremely thankful for you guys
We appreciate the support brother !!! 💪🏽
I walked away since mid January and blocked her. I worked on myself and lately she watches my IG stories. We don’t even follow each other on IG but she’s spying.. now I don’t even want her no more!! 💪💪 stay strong fellas.
One interesting aspect of no contact its that when you really moved on and stop caring about your ex and the energy you gave her , its not longer there, she will sense it and if she still cares, she will reach out even if she is with someone else. Thats why when you really moved on and focus on new things and girls, outnowhere here she comes. Thats why you have to let them go to get them back and the clue its stop wanting them back and be really done with her. The scarcity energy you are transmitting will go back to you, even if you are not reaching out and even if she blocks you and she doesnt know anything about your life. I know its sounds weird but theres some disturbance on the force when you stop investing emotional energy on someone. Thats why they came back when you moved on. So be careful on just going no contact, stop waiting for her to come back and assume she wont, so you start faster to move on and let her go completely, thats when she can feel and realize your are not longer missing her and caring about her. Expecting, wishing and wanting, signals scarcity to the universe, so start having, being and doing to signal Abundance.
I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back
Whats"app him ....
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Honestly, Thank you! Every word, every advice, every motivational phrase you both said helped me in an enormous way. I thought I lost her for good after treating her badly because I was in a dark hole. You guys helped me toughen up and start acting logical and I won her back. Bro I don’t know how to thank you guys but thank you. Keep doing what you’re doing. Of all the videos I saw, these were the only ones I could binge watch. You guys are real and you talk from the heart. It took less than the month (thankfully) but I’ve grown so much in this little time. I couldn’t believe how much I had lost myself. Take care gents
-Airforce Vet (and yes, I cried like a little man)
👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
We really appreciate it Pedro
Yes sir and I appreciate you both
I like this one.
I walked away with no regrets, knowing I attempted to make it work. And if that person isn't wanting the same thing, then don't be surprised when you don't hear from me again 😂 that's what's real confusing sometimes.
She acted cold initially, and when you just accept it, it's almost like that don't like it.
Either way though, I'm doing alot better now, by myself. Anything could've happened since we last spoke 🤷🏾♂️ she wouldn't come back tho lol
I left my ex 6 weeks ago and even though she initiated the breakup I went along with it because I was done with her BS. She had the audacity to ask me to fight for the relationship translation "I lost control of you and I am desperately trying to regain control" Um no thanks, hard pass. I went no contact and blocked her. 3 weeks ago I happened to see a video of her during an annual town event that she is involved with. She looked completely lost and upset. Moral of the story, treat me better and don't take me for granted and I will stick around. Otherwise I am out!
Ex said we were toxic at the breakup. Went No Contact and become the Toxic Avenger! Rebuild and level up! Let her enjoy that cold pillow and lonely nights. Connor said no to rinsing out that babypowder! Social Media post don't effect a 🦈!
I liked your post even if I didn't understand half of it.
Give her taste of your absence! Silence speaks the loudest!
I need the beat name!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
First off, I love your guys videos. Thank you so much for your content, it’s much needed. Second, I have a quick question. I’ve been in no contact for about three weeks and I saw my ex at work. She seemed mad or upset with me but I didn’t do anything. Why is she being like that 🤔
My baby mama said she miss me and our bond but still talking to a younger guy. On my birthday said she was open to get to know me and open to go out but went out with the guy that same night then flirted with me the next day. The wishy washy mess is ridiculous.
I just broke up with my baby momma we were together 5 years we both messed up n cheated a lot in the relationship n it was on my end for doing it more than I should have she said she no longer has feeling to me she feels numb about me I’m currently going through stages of the break up and I came across your videos n I’ve been just watching them one after another and your guy’s videos have been helping me so much man on how to be and what to do I’m truly starting to feel happy n feeling like that alpha shark keep up with the content man you guys deserve more subs n views 🔥🦈
I know of a relationship expert who can make your x lover go more crazy inlove for you
Contact him on WhatsApp* I'm from Dallas 🇱🇷 you can get help through me💬💞💞
That "toxic" wave everybody is on right now is getting on my nerves
Works my last nerve.
My ex don’t really post anything and if she does I’m not watching them. She still watching my stories liking my posts whenever I do post.
I definitely think its right to go radio silent without a word for the most effective result; but I just want to share the coldest last words I ever witnessed anyone say to an ex-girlfriend that was from a friend who has since sadly passed. Before he cut contact with his psychotic bird of 6 years we went round her house to pick up a few things of his - she was following behind him shouting and screaming and just as he was about to leave the threshold of the front door he stopped, and with his back turned to her he gave off a gentle laugh and said "Tomorrow you'll forget the sound of that"..
I've still never heard a woman go so quiet, and as far as I know he never spoke to her again. And I guess she never will remember it again. I miss him, but always smile at how Kaiser Soze levels of gangster that actually was. 😇❤
That was definitely gangster.
"The greatest trick the devil ever pulled, was telling a girl she'd forget his laugh" 😅🙌 anyway, thanks for taking the time to respond to all these comments it shows your passion for it. I wish yous all the best because you deserve all the credit coming your way very soon no doubt. Time to start the merch boys 🧢👕👑
Baby come back!!! I need you!!! Lol... but in all seriousness... where’d you guys go?! You guys are awesome! Waiting for that next video to drop 👏🏾👏🏾
Soon, probably in about a week or so
You guys are awesome, may the MOST HIGH bless you and your family
Thank You !!! 🙏🏽
Man i really enjoy the content you guys put out! Its been hard to have no contact when she has my baby boy with her 24/7 and i only see him like once or twice a week when i was so used to sleeping next to them and waking up with them the next day. Its been the hardest month and half.
Lol no one should’ve liked it i broke no contact a few days later 🤣
@@vivianjohn4312 oh really? And ive been so confused lately.
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Your videos are brutally frank, but very inspiring! Thank you.
Thank you!
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YOURE MEANT TO WANT ME BACK! 😂😂😂
Guys you 2 are gonna slay my soul. Words so true like the more you speak the deeper I feel that. Like a lot of truth going out your mouths. Can’t wait for her I gotta man up
Big up from france. I see you homies
Love
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Not sure if y'all bounced out for good, but regardless, great content.
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Should I still have gone no contact after I broke up with my ex but now want her back
I was like this before I know who can he:lp you out text he now. He can solve your problems:: don't waste your time here: you can get ex back::+:1:9:7:2:5:3:4:8:3:9:9 whatzzp me:
Contact him on WhatsApp* I'm from Dallas 🇱🇷 you can get help through me💬💞💞
Y’all alright been a minute since a new video
Yeah it’s coming soon. Probably with in the next week.
I am glad I learned English to undertand you, my brothers. I grew up in Brazil, lived in the UK and I am currently in Switzerland. I wish I could give you a big hug, guys. Everything you say here is true. I am there right now.and it isnt so bad cuz I have been there before. But this will pass. Thanks a lot
Obrigado irmão! 👍🏾
Great video, hate the word toxic too, I’ve done all the work 2.0, no facial hair like Murphy though, hahaha. Can I ask how long before no contact becomes permanent? We’ve done 9 months no contact.
Its permanent now bud
“...all her teeth 🦷 ...” 😂
You guys are always on the money with these videos. Thank you for the information. We appreciate it.
Thanks for the support Joshua 👊🏾
That doesnt make sense she broke up with other guys before. How come they never got back together whats so special about me.
If friends influence the break up do you still think no contact is still effective??
I know I did everything right and more then her friends ever did should I trust the process?
It really works on me
Some one did helped
Visit him on wha'txpp......💪💪
My ex says she wants to be friends right now because she doesn’t want a relationship ship with me right now and today we met up and she kept hugging me and was keep on smiling. So I grabbed her ass and she said don’t grab my ass lol. She also said I missed you and gave me a I miss you hug. By her saying she wants to be friends for right now. What advice can you guys give me to make her want me even more?
Turn down friendship and back away. She either gets you as a BF or nothing. Pull away and don't let her play you.
I remember when my ex hit me with that one. Here is what that means - that means she wants to fuck other men while you take her out on “friendship dates”, give her free validation and use you as an emotional tampon while refusing to give you pussy. Basically... she is going to fuck other men and not fuck you. Reject friendship. Go into no contact. You got this. I’m 3 months in. On my end, I’ve taken it a step forward and went radio silent.
Do go in a relationship wit her if she just wanna be friends be the side dude that she wanna be fucking on the low 🤷🏽♂️
Not all the time women "I want to be friends" means exactly that. They are testing you. They don't want to let you go but afraid to tell you they want to start over because they are afraid you may reject them.
@@wilfridjoseph6172 I told her ion wanna be with her anymore Lmaoo and she okay🌝
What if it’s the guy that broke up with a women?
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Been 7 months since we broke up
We sleep with eachother once a month for sex.
So now what i dont really understabd whats going on
Hey man I’m in a situation where she likes me but she pretends that she doesn’t like me . And you know she make no contacts with me , and the other way she sends interest texts to me , what should I do , should I be myself and tel her to hang out or just give her more time so she would blow up
She’s “Bread Crumbing” you Short Bus!!
She don’t like you fool, she’s training you and breaking you down to get to your Simp Core, so that you will passively serve her!
@7empest Hate to tell you this but they are All like that!!
Just think back as to how many girlfriends you had in the past, you thought they were girlfriends but they were just doing the same thing as your last chick!
@7empest If you say so..
I need help,so I Broke up with her and stayed in contact with her everyday for 2 months and she begged for me back then meanwhile,then I asked to get back together and she said no,and of course I begged and pleaded and said I wouldn’t leave,this went on for 2 months and then she left me on seen after I said goodnight me day .I implemented the NC rule for a month now is that the smart thing to do right now to get her back ? Please help!
Wh'stapp him
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Hmm this is interesting,you do know women leave the relationship mentality before she physically leaves chance are if the relationship was getting bad,it was already over,before it was over,a women will give a guy 1000 chances and it will be that last thing,I’ve never cuddled up with a guys nothing or smell his stuff,I just cut the ex off completely.
I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back
Whats"app him ....
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I don’t really do social media and I don’t look at her social so what do you guys suggest?
Keep it that way. Stay off the socials.
Fear will make you reveal who u really are -Nas
Been watching the no contact videos. A question comes to mind. Does no contact only work when she breaks up with you?
Do you have another scenario that occurred?
What about a man that dump you .
Was thinking the same .
Same principles apply.
I always see the breakup as a race to who achieves success first
Then they get a cat.
No thanks.
I like this video…
Thanks homie !!! 🦈🦈🦈
I love my ex😊