At 60yrs old my then hubby dumped me for a much younger woman and had managed to keep almost everything. So alone and almost broke, I decided to make a plan. I'm an OTR truck driver so I lived in my semi and saved up enough to pay cash for an older 23ft motorhome. I've hung on to my old 2002 car so no car payments. Now I have a home and freedom. I can do what I want when I want, just me and my dog and life is good. Gotta make the best of what ya got. I retire in 6mos and then it's time for adventure, yay! 😀
When a man gets divorced, he reflects on what happened and what his part was in this. When a woman gets divorced she never and I mean NEVER takes any responsibility whatsoever for her part. You Patricia, are a great example of this.
@@HomelessWhiteMaleStartingOvera I take it you're not very happy. I'm sure I wasn't perfect, none of us are, but I was faithful, loyal and hard working. I'm so sorry that someone wounded you so deeply. I sincerely hope your heart heals and your life improves. Best wishes to you.
At 62 just chill and do your best and avoid any distractions or commitments until you’re in love with you. I love the fact that you understand it’s not her it’s both of your responsibility relationships end. The children come first hopefully you don’t have a partner that wants you to pay for everything. The child’s expenses are for both to pay not just dad….❤
@@patriciabandeko3842 Shifting this to make it about me ? Let us see you take responsibility for your part of your failed union. Still waiting here, still waiting...
I did the same thing at 52. Divorced my wife after 26 years once I woke up to how much of a narcissist she was, and how every time we'd get caught up and were no longer living paycheck to paycheck she would do something to sabotage us. Like, foreclosures on two houses and two bankruptcies during our marriage. After the divorce I bought an RV and dramatically cut my cost of living and increased my happiness.
@@wilE6764 Yeah, it surprised me when I started having money left when the next payday rolled around. It only took me a year to get completely out of debt. I can't believe I was so blind for so long. Now I'm starting to save to buy some land in the White Mountains of Arizona.
Good men marry women who are takers, losers from what I have seen, good women marry men who are takers, losers, lazy. I am happy that you decided to you had enough. We all deserve to be respected, be happy in our lives when it isn’t working we are doing ourselves a favour as well as them to end it move on. I think the only reason my husband got married he was afraid to come home to a dark home at night. I think the very reason there are so many men women living alone single is because of being taken for a ride in more ways than one, they had their fill so much so they are afraid to trust enjoy living on their own. The peace, quiet, no drama is priceless.
13 years with my highly abusive ex and friends under out in married a version of my mom, a narcissist. Never had money issues until I had two incomes and one house … $250 000 dollars of theft later, I gave her everything and the only reason she left the s because I homeschooled during Covid and she was about to have to support her family and that was out of the question. Living my best life now and the she-devil is now understood by my offspring and they cat stand her abuse. They will be with me full time soon.
54, male, Divorced in 2020. Acquired a raw acre of land in 2022. Cleared a portion, laid down clay padding, water, electricity & septic tank projects later. Purchased a motorhome and moved to my acre January of this year. Rent and mortgage free semi off grid.
@@justwannasay5454 Florida in an an area where people want & are left alone. Central Florida woods of Putnam County. Poorest county in Florida. Perfect! As the poor are already used to living in bad economic conditions and will survive the depression already happening.
I use to be in the medical field making a decent living and happy. When I turned 30 years old I was diagnosed with a very rare autoimmune disease and it has no cure. Unfortunately I could no longer work in the medical field or work at all. I became permanently disabled and moved home with my parents for four years to get myself more stable. I couldn't wait to get back on my feet again. I decided to buy an rv and move into an rv park. It was frugal living and saving me money. I was able to get back on my feet and gain my independence but still live on disability. I would never look back. I love living in my RV. I'm going on 8 years now. Life throws you lemons but you just have to make lemonade. Way to go!
Twenty one years ago, at age 55, my dad became infuriated with his job. Tired of the endless cycle of consumerism and taxes, he made a 1 year plan. He bought a nice Class C, used. Set up a rear mount for his paid off KLR 650 motorcyle, and tow bar for his old Jeep TJ. After prepping for a year, he sold his house. Banked the equity and moved to a RV park in a Florida forest. He was a master mechanic and handyman. He performed cash side jobs to supplement his savings and eventually his pension and Social Security. Spent his massive amounts of free time riding his fat tire bicycle and fishing in the lakes around his RV. He just passed away in that RV a few months ago. For ten of those years, he was on the same exact lot overlooking a lake. He never had a shred of stress. Unfortunately, heart failure got him. He is proof to me that it is possible to check out from the rat race and have more time to yourself instead of being a wage earner until you die.
As we age, we realize that so much of what we once considered as important is actually not. Peace, good health, and happiness to you, Ernest, and thank you for sharing your story. 👍🏾
48 here. Lost my mom August 2, 2021. Sept 2021 I found out my sister and only sibling was terminal so I moved almost 22 hrs away to take care of her. She passed March 2023. I found out my dad died through the mail the night before my sister passed. A week later I moved back to my home and my husband told me he wanted a divorce. This month will be a year that I've been living in my vehicle. I just bought a camper I'm about to renovate and hitting the road...I don't know where I'm going but I don't care.
So get rid of your rearview mirror and keep looking ahead. Started over for the 3rd time 10 yrs ago. Recovered from diabetes and a stroke so I basically started over 4 yrs ago. Don't let nothing get you down.
@@terryr_zappa8193So did you have any living relatives when you started over 4 years ago? Just met a woman of 48 who lost her husband 3 years ago, 2 years ago her house burned down, & shortly after, had a stroke. When she got out of the hospital her daughter moved her in her boyfriend’s mil house out back, then the daughter went missing. Her speech is impaired & still has to use a walker. Please advise.
Ernest I wish you nothing but great success and happiness in anything that you choose to do with the rest of your life! Divorce is never the end, just a new lease on life......💜💜 As for the apartment prices nowadays?? Excruciatingly high in most areas in our country and the nomadic lifestyle truly appeals to me too and I'm just hoping ONE DAY 💞💞 THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE & PROTECTION 🇺🇸🇺🇸
After working for about 30 years, I retired and got killed in a divorce. She took 200K in lieu of alimony, enough money to pay her new home for three years, and, then, took 25 percent of my pension I had earned working in the California Department of Corrections. All of this was in 2007. I had to learn to live on less, and discovered, that everything I own actually owns me. I now live in an RV park, in a trailer, and have a small pickup. Everything is paid for. I have a much less stressful part time job and feel freer than I ever have. I have become a minimalist and live by the motto "less is more." She never worked which was always a bone of contention with me. She was a Pro-Choice Feminist Christian woman, who, in the end, ended up with the best of both worlds--at my expense. (Here in California Family Court Judges have a tremendous amount of discretion.) Anyway, enough of me. Keep up the good fight sir. Thanks for letting me share. Roy, So Cal.
I'm 64 divorced and retired. This is my dream, pray one day I can get a tiny home or an affordable van to live in. I'm willing to give up everything, to live a simpler and affordable life. I've put it in God's hands, so, if it's His will, he will help me accomplish it. Sorry to hear about your divorce, but, I believe everything happens for a reason. God bless you on your new journey. Enjoy! God bless you!
Good on you! Like you, I retired on SS at 62yo after a dozen years in trucking. A divorce in 2008 had me downgrading from a 3000 sq ft home to the following: V berth of my dad's sailboat, sleeper of a semi truck, camper shell in my pickup and a converted 6x12 cargo trailer. Now, I have a small paid off home in the Philippines with a wife and I stay with family/friends in the US. Be careful with a new RV in the future. Huge nightmares with the RV industry since 2019. Watch Liz Amazing channel here on YT. She is calling out the companies. Like cars, the new stuff is expen$ive and full of problems.. You're right, there are no guarantees in life, that why I put my faith in Jesus Christ. I believe in His promises, this life here is only temporary.
I was thinking the same thing about new rv's, his 2007 is probably more solid than a new one, I have 2008 TT and it's very solid, you step into a new one and it feels very cheap.
Im 58 and will retire from full time work in 2 years. Divorced 10 years ago. Youngest kid is 16. When she graduates im out of here. I bought 2.5acres in the mountains of AZ for $12k. It was someones old homestead. Has an old 56ft, 2bd mobile home on the property. I paid cash for it. Im rebuilding the mobile home and when its done i will live in it. Town is 20 minutes away. Nearest neighbor is a dirt road away from me. I will be rent and mortgage free. Solar for power. Water tank for showers. 5 gallon water containers for drinking and cooking with. I will work 3 days a week. Cant wait. 👍🏾
Friend did the same thing divorced bought an RV found a GF while he was traveling she also was divorced neither want to marry again. He has groups he belongs to meets up different parts of the country. Having those friends all over the country really helps.
Just subscribed. I turn 62 in a month and have appied for my ss to start then. I was widowed when I was 53. Been lost a bit after my husband passed although I was always the breadwinner. Finally waking up to doing me.
Check and see if you can draw on your husbands SS it may be higher than yours now, that way you can wait until later to draw yours which will increase every month you don’t draw it
Just remember, if you take SS early and not your full retirement age, you will get less money per month. I made that mistake and figured I'm losing about $400 a month. I'm 78 now and receive a little over $900 a month. COLA isn't much each year, if any at all.
@@pamplant3610 Well the way I look at it is I could be dead before full retirement age and my estate gets zero. As you get older you see friends / family pass and so I decided to take my ss now and not wait.
This video just came up on my feed and decided to watch.Much respect to you for sharing your story,I think it's a nice set up,wish you all the best brother 🙏
I am a 61 year old female nearing retirement in Texas. I am seriously considering doing what you’re doing. I don’t know all of the in’s and out’s of it right now but I’m going to have to research it. Thank you for the video. May God continue to bless you. You did right by your kids. My ex-husband did not.
Ernest, this is my first time watching. I appreciate your honesty and candor. I believe if you keep pushing forward and love yourself youll enjoy this time in your life. Im 61, in Texas and have come to love the simple life. Hugs 😊
I bought 40 acres in a northern national forest at 30 yrs old, all while married, raising to kids, and building a home 30 minutes outside the city limits. When the kids were on there own (I married at 22), we had a pieceful divorce. I had paid everything off by 40 years old (including the 40),so I gave her the big house on the hill, and I kept my wild forest property...and moved to it. I quit my job, and took a low paying seasonal job up north. I hand built the place little at a time by hand....and enjoyed no longer working in winter, or fighting city traffic. At 50 I was basicly semi retired and happy. At 60 I retired on my small pension, and took SSI at 62. Not a lot of money monthly, and driving 30 yr old cars and old pickup. I fish, hunt, canoe, and want for nothing now at 72 yrs old. My kids and grandkids come up on vacations and holidays...can't beat it! My ex married her longtime lover, and they slowly wasted what I left them with...and so it goes. I even set up a family cemetary on my property, so we all have our final resting place. The best oart ... if anyone makes the journy to see me, it means they really wanted to! I was probably ahead of my time in my thinking...but I believe it was because I knew who I was at heart early in my life. I planned WAY ahead, and it paid off! Peace to you all....time for an evening bloody mary and a few cold ones as I watch the wildlife off my screen porch.
Take it. I've known people who died before age 62 and never got to enjoy their retirement. I started working at age 16 by 18. I was in a union working l retired at age 55, I own my house I'm 65 now, and I enjoying every bit of it and own my rv and am taking my grandkids camping all the time.
You got that right. Health matters. I’ve been dealing with panic attacks since my early 20s even though it’s a mental issue it sure has made life so much harder than it has to be. You’re an inspiration to how life should be lived.
I’m 52 I’m divorced thank God & I’m a solo female van lifer I can relate to your story I can’t believe how happy I am now I realise I’m better off being in my van with my cat Kelly where I am safe than living with a violent hubby who almost killed me life after divorce is so much better thanks for sharing your story
Ernest, thanks for sharing how you manage in this situation. You are a calm voice of reason. It makes me happy to hear a man that speaks with logic and calm like my grandfather and Uncle did. Best of luck😊
Ernest Sir i applaud you for having the positive attitude and I’m sorry that you’ve had to experience that divorce thing that most of us had to do. Keep it up and just keep moving forward doing what makes you happy.
After being widowed I sold everything and lived in a truck camper for two years while I built my own gypsy wagon rv. It is my forever home and built exactly the way I wanted it.
Love this man and his honesty....same thing happened to me in my divorce...hubby went the jugular...but im good....got my job, health, my faith, and my dogs and roof over my head....bills paid.....food in pantry....im good....still blessed❤❤❤.thank you for sharing ur story and ur transparency.....god bless darlin😊
Set yourself up pretty well Ernest, made smart decisions for your future. I'm 53 trying to stay ahead of things but it's life man, one thing i'm definitely working on making healthy choices. Thanks for Sharing!
I am new to your channel. I appreciate your honesty about your situation and it's very good! I like where you live and it is so wonderful to not be burdened with debt. I am younger than you but had to leave my 6 fig salary because I was diagnosed with Leukemia. My whole life went a direction I was not planning on. I've been lucky to have gotten into a 55+ community (where there's a waiting list!). I live in an expensive town in MA, but anywhere in New England is expensive nowadays. Since you will early retire (i.e. b/f 65), you'll be able to enjoy your HEALTH and start a whole new chapter in life.....find a relationship again and since you have no mortgage, you can go anywhere you want. I like your attitude. Thanks for sharing your story. I edited this to come back and say that you could grow your YT channel. Talk about retirement, the pros/cons. A lot of the cons are that some people don't know what to do with themselves. 🙃 You could be an asset to people who are thinking about the idea and are not sure of what to do.
Great content 👍🏽 I chuckled, 🤭 at your “might want to spend time with the children 😅 I can relate with all of them. I love your 5th wheel! I didn’t know they had toy hauling space inside 😮 I golf ⛳️ so if the stars align for me, I want something very similar. Thanks for sharing!
Your channel popped up on my sidebar this afternoon and I decided to view it. Glad I did...you seem like a very nice and honest man. I do not understand why some people are going nuts that you are paying $700.00 monthly to park in an RV Campground. They have not checked out rental prices, particularly in a tourist town like San Antonio. New subscriber here that is looking forward to following your journey. Best of luck!
Thank you I live at the RV park because it's close to my kids and work. I could easily move further out and pay 300 dollars less. But then I would be spending more on driving. So, for me, it's worth the cost. Maybe when I retire, I'll move. Thanks for watching.
Most of us humans today have been divorced and see a bight future. You my friend are on to a new happy life with the great attitude you have. Take care
Sir, just found your YT channel, I don't know you personally but you seem a stand up person of humble integrity, your story made me a new subscriber and I look forward to more of your shared content. Thanx 4sharing.
Thank you for sharing your journey so far in a RV . I’ve been thinking about a Tiny Home and looking into getting my social security soon. I’ve got to do more research on RV vs Tiny Home. 😊
New subscriber! Looking forward to hearing all about your retirement adventures. I'm not there yet but looking forward to the day. I downsized a few years ago and became completely debt free. I guess you can say I created my own retirement plan. It feels good to have no financial worries, so I know exactly how you feel. I often think about buying an RV... maybe I will one day before I turn 62 😃!
Thank you for posting this it was a recommended video but I love seeing people talk about alternative living and thriving in any condition but also thriving in the rv world. I dreamed of living in an rv when I had a mansion just like you were saying lol and I love the lifestyle. My wife was an avid camper growing up and was down and we love this lifestyle. I try to get younger people to join in to save money and be able to buy land and build wealth. Just like you said we can live in a big home but we love the rv life lol we also love not having debt if we don’t want any. Love it brother and preach.
1st time viewer new subscriber. Full time RV Nomad since January 13, 2019. 2x divorcee with one broken engagement. I paid 2 ex wives per month at same time. Solo empty nester now. I paid child support for 14 years. I relate to your video. Thanks for your video. Life gets better after divorce. I went from 5drm home. To a 2bdrm apartment to a 45 ft triple axle toy hauler! I love my RV Nomad life!
Hi there Thanks for sharing that is a very nice place and clean and cheap. I live in the North Georgia mountains and rent here is high very high But of course everything is so expensive now days. Have a great day and be looking. Looking forward to send more videos❤🇺🇸🙏😊🌹 Thanks for your Service
Just a few comments since your video was inspirational. Congrats to you Sir on your positive attitude, on your service to country, and on recognizing that your time and health have become your most valuable assets. I was shocked to learn you're 60. You could pass for at least 10 years younger. Good luck with your future journeys. And please don't buy a new RV. They are notorious for ruining people's retirement dreams. Buy pre-covid build year and make sure to have a pre-purchase inspection done by independent inspector that you find. Not by a dealer. Best of luck!
I am watching and learning. I went through the "D" about 14 years ago. I borrowed to buy a smaller house so my kids could have a place to lay their heads down when they visited me . Before doing the house I lived in a borrowed 5th wheel while doing the court battle on all that goes on during divorce. Now I am thinking of retirement 4 to 5 years and might go back to RV life style. Good Luck with every thing and stay strong.
Hello, I came across your video. I have been thinking of saving for an rv, so when all my kids are graduated I can work and travel. God willing. Thank your for your video. 🙏 Blessings!!
Hi Ernest. I just want to say that your videos are very refreshing, honest and heart warming. You are doing a great job on explaining how you have built your own nest egg by being disciplined and living below your means. As a certified financial adviser, I try teaching people that if you can consistently delay instant gratification and live way below your means, you can retire comfortably. Keep up the great videos.
Hey Ernest your channel just popped up! I just moved back to Illinois, my home state, after living in San Antonio for over 15 years. I believe your going the best route prices are crazy there! My biggest and best wishes to you !!
Thank you this it was a very interesting and honest video. You seem to being doing just fine and after divorce it's important to take time for yourself and live in peace.🙏
Well done. I subscribe to your lifestyle. Your home looks very comfortable. No stress. Come & Go as you please. Lovely uncomplicated life. Peace on you, and thank you for your Service.
I’m 63 and live in Oklahoma. I own my home that’s paid for. I have given it a lot of thought and decided I really want to live like you have. I love to drive long distance and I love seeing new places. And figured even if I don’t do it full time, it would still be fun to do.
Kudos for keeping a good attitude. I follow Kevin also and he decided at 12 years old that how he wanted to do his older years and it worked out. You have things worked out well and should pat yourself on the back , We are not promised not one second of tomorrows. Regardless of how much you have or bust your butt. All we can do is treat people how you want to be treated. Cutting grass and maintenance eats away at your time, You are in a fabulous position to be in going into your retirement. Happiness does not have a price tag. Peace is a gift . Enjoy whatever comes your way.
Well said brother! Thanks for taking the time to make this video. I moved into a brand new 19 foot camper after living in camper before i just realized how much I hated having an apartment. And I couldn’t be happier.
Your older RV is built much better than any piece of junk built today. Very nice unit. Keep it and make any repairs you may need. Don't buy anything new or built after 2018
Great story and info. We just acquired a 38’ toy hauler at a price we couldn’t pass up and plan on the same living situation in the near future. We plan on living in different areas of the western US for 6 months to a year or more at a time and really see the country and meet new people that way.. The rear compartment will be my art studio ( I ship my art to different outlets to sell). My wife works at home as a medical biller so we are always mobile and can come and go as we wish and work our own hours. We are lucky in that respect. By the way I grew up in San Antonio and left many years ago but I still miss my Tex-Mex. Best of luck with everything Earnest!
At 60yrs old my then hubby dumped me for a much younger woman and had managed to keep almost everything. So alone and almost broke, I decided to make a plan. I'm an OTR truck driver so I lived in my semi and saved up enough to pay cash for an older 23ft motorhome. I've hung on to my old 2002 car so no car payments. Now I have a home and freedom. I can do what I want when I want, just me and my dog and life is good. Gotta make the best of what ya got. I retire in 6mos and then it's time for adventure, yay! 😀
When a man gets divorced, he reflects on what happened and what his part was in this.
When a woman gets divorced she never and I mean NEVER takes any responsibility whatsoever for her part.
You Patricia, are a great example of this.
@@HomelessWhiteMaleStartingOvera I take it you're not very happy. I'm sure I wasn't perfect, none of us are, but I was faithful, loyal and hard working. I'm so sorry that someone wounded you so deeply. I sincerely hope your heart heals and your life improves. Best wishes to you.
At 62 just chill and do your best and avoid any distractions or commitments until you’re in love with you. I love the fact that you understand it’s not her it’s both of your responsibility relationships end. The children come first hopefully you don’t have a partner that wants you to pay for everything. The child’s expenses are for both to pay not just dad….❤
@@patriciabandeko3842 Shifting this to make it about me ? Let us see you take responsibility for your part of your failed union. Still waiting here, still waiting...
@@jeffcole1914 You are what is referred to as the 'white knight', always coming to the rescue of the hoes. Pathetic.
I did the same thing at 52. Divorced my wife after 26 years once I woke up to how much of a narcissist she was, and how every time we'd get caught up and were no longer living paycheck to paycheck she would do something to sabotage us. Like, foreclosures on two houses and two bankruptcies during our marriage. After the divorce I bought an RV and dramatically cut my cost of living and increased my happiness.
So your x wife made all the decisions and you, poor helpless thing, were just made to go along with it. I think you call that a loser.
Wow...sounds like we married the same woman..divorced mine in December after 18 years..same thing though always stealing from me ..had enough
@@wilE6764 Yeah, it surprised me when I started having money left when the next payday rolled around. It only took me a year to get completely out of debt. I can't believe I was so blind for so long. Now I'm starting to save to buy some land in the White Mountains of Arizona.
Good men marry women who are takers, losers from what I have seen, good women marry men who are takers, losers, lazy. I am happy that you decided to you had enough. We all deserve to be respected, be happy in our lives when it isn’t working we are doing ourselves a favour as well as them to end it move on. I think the only reason my husband got married he was afraid to come home to a dark home at night. I think the very reason there are so many men women living alone single is because of being taken for a ride in more ways than one, they had their fill so much so they are afraid to trust enjoy living on their own. The peace, quiet, no drama is priceless.
13 years with my highly abusive ex and friends under out in married a version of my mom, a narcissist.
Never had money issues until I had two incomes and one house … $250 000 dollars of theft later, I gave her everything and the only reason she left the s because I homeschooled during Covid and she was about to have to support her family and that was out of the question.
Living my best life now and the she-devil is now understood by my offspring and they cat stand her abuse. They will be with me full time soon.
54, male, Divorced in 2020. Acquired a raw acre of land in 2022. Cleared a portion, laid down clay padding, water, electricity & septic tank projects later. Purchased a motorhome and moved to my acre January of this year. Rent and mortgage free semi off grid.
Which state can you live on your own land in a RV?
@@justwannasay5454 Florida in an an area where people want & are left alone. Central Florida woods of Putnam County. Poorest county in Florida. Perfect! As the poor are already used to living in bad economic conditions and will survive the depression already happening.
Cali too
And soon the government will take it..they want renters..no more mortgages or land owned by anyone...Renters to corporations..
. Wait till carbon tax starts. Sometimes all you need is the air that you breath.
I use to be in the medical field making a decent living and happy. When I turned 30 years old I was diagnosed with a very rare autoimmune disease and it has no cure. Unfortunately I could no longer work in the medical field or work at all. I became permanently disabled and moved home with my parents for four years to get myself more stable. I couldn't wait to get back on my feet again. I decided to buy an rv and move into an rv park. It was frugal living and saving me money. I was able to get back on my feet and gain my independence but still live on disability. I would never look back. I love living in my RV. I'm going on 8 years now. Life throws you lemons but you just have to make lemonade. Way to go!
What part of the medical field?
Paramedic/firefighter
I’m glad you are doing well for yourself.
How much do you pay a month at your RV park may I ask? I am at one in CA and I pay $1000-$1200 a month + utilities which I think is expensive.
Can I ask , what type of autoimmune disease you had ??
Twenty one years ago, at age 55, my dad became infuriated with his job. Tired of the endless cycle of consumerism and taxes, he made a 1 year plan. He bought a nice Class C, used. Set up a rear mount for his paid off KLR 650 motorcyle, and tow bar for his old Jeep TJ. After prepping for a year, he sold his house. Banked the equity and moved to a RV park in a Florida forest. He was a master mechanic and handyman. He performed cash side jobs to supplement his savings and eventually his pension and Social Security. Spent his massive amounts of free time riding his fat tire bicycle and fishing in the lakes around his RV. He just passed away in that RV a few months ago. For ten of those years, he was on the same exact lot overlooking a lake. He never had a shred of stress. Unfortunately, heart failure got him. He is proof to me that it is possible to check out from the rat race and have more time to yourself instead of being a wage earner until you die.
Great story 👏
RIP
I am so happy that he took that step that so many people are scared to take. He was rewarded with his freedom for doing it.
As we age, we realize that so much of what we once considered as important is actually not. Peace, good health, and happiness to you, Ernest, and thank you for sharing your story. 👍🏾
Good health is essential.
48 here. Lost my mom August 2, 2021. Sept 2021 I found out my sister and only sibling was terminal so I moved almost 22 hrs away to take care of her. She passed March 2023. I found out my dad died through the mail the night before my sister passed. A week later I moved back to my home and my husband told me he wanted a divorce. This month will be a year that I've been living in my vehicle. I just bought a camper I'm about to renovate and hitting the road...I don't know where I'm going but I don't care.
Sorry
So get rid of your rearview mirror and keep looking ahead. Started over for the 3rd time 10 yrs ago. Recovered from diabetes and a stroke so I basically started over 4 yrs ago. Don't let nothing get you down.
@@terryr_zappa8193So did you have any living relatives when you started over 4 years ago?
Just met a woman of 48 who lost her husband 3 years ago, 2 years ago her house burned down, & shortly after, had a stroke. When she got out of the hospital her daughter moved her in her boyfriend’s mil house out back, then the daughter went missing. Her speech is impaired & still has to use a walker. Please advise.
Thanks everyone for all the support. This video is my most popular video. ❤
Arnest all kidding aside good luck on your journey and thank you for your service to our country ❤
I think perhaps the reason being there are so many out there who can relate to you. We have found what we had lost ourself we are happy on our own.
Ernest I wish you nothing but great success and happiness in anything that you choose to do with the rest of your life! Divorce is never the end, just a new lease on life......💜💜 As for the apartment prices nowadays?? Excruciatingly high in most areas in our country and the nomadic lifestyle truly appeals to me too and I'm just hoping ONE DAY 💞💞 THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE & PROTECTION 🇺🇸🇺🇸
Thanks for sharing your story.
Almost 7 yrs for me, camper van no rent no mortgage no utilities 100 % off grid.
I have been at a nice RV park in CA for 8 months but it's expensive. Would like to leave.
After working for about 30 years, I retired and got killed in a divorce. She took 200K in lieu of alimony, enough money to pay her new home for three years, and, then, took 25 percent of my pension I had earned working in the California Department of Corrections. All of this was in 2007. I had to learn to live on less, and discovered, that everything I own actually owns me. I now live in an RV park, in a trailer, and have a small pickup. Everything is paid for. I have a much less stressful part time job and feel freer than I ever have. I have become a minimalist and live by the motto "less is more." She never worked which was always a bone of contention with me. She was a Pro-Choice Feminist Christian woman, who, in the end, ended up with the best of both worlds--at my expense. (Here in California Family Court Judges have a tremendous amount of discretion.) Anyway, enough of me. Keep up the good fight sir. Thanks for letting me share. Roy, So Cal.
How much do you pay at your RV park may I ask? I am at one. Four weeks roll around very quickly it seems. 😮
@@justwannasay5454 I pay about 215 per month. Its is located in El Centro, California.
No wife= freedom & life.
NO Husband....😂 EMBRASSING FREEDOM; DO INTEND TO ADOPT A DOG, SOMEDAY for I have never had one...😢 .y own 'PROTECTOR & BF'; VERY EXCITED....
I'm 64 divorced and retired. This is my dream, pray one day I can get a tiny home or an affordable van to live in. I'm willing to give up everything, to live a simpler and affordable life. I've put it in God's hands, so, if it's His will, he will help me accomplish it. Sorry to hear about your divorce, but, I believe everything happens for a reason. God bless you on your new journey. Enjoy! God bless you!
Good on you! Like you, I retired on SS at 62yo after a dozen years in trucking. A divorce in 2008 had me downgrading from a 3000 sq ft home to the following: V berth of my dad's sailboat, sleeper of a semi truck, camper shell in my pickup and a converted 6x12 cargo trailer. Now, I have a small paid off home in the Philippines with a wife and I stay with family/friends in the US.
Be careful with a new RV in the future. Huge nightmares with the RV industry since 2019. Watch Liz Amazing channel here on YT. She is calling out the companies. Like cars, the new stuff is expen$ive and full of problems..
You're right, there are no guarantees in life, that why I put my faith in Jesus Christ. I believe in His promises, this life here is only temporary.
Thank you for your comment
New follower here! Going to
O be 62 in July. Hoping to do something different too.
I was thinking the same thing about new rv's, his 2007 is probably more solid than a new one, I have 2008 TT and it's very solid, you step into a new one and it feels very cheap.
@@lmErnestgood looking unit for sure its amazing how hot this trend is now congrats of finding peace God Bless.
I retired at 60. Consulted part time for awhile. The freedom from job stress is unbelievable! You'll see!
Im 58 and will retire from full time work in 2 years. Divorced 10 years ago. Youngest kid is 16. When she graduates im out of here.
I bought 2.5acres in the mountains of AZ for $12k. It was someones old homestead. Has an old 56ft, 2bd mobile home on the property.
I paid cash for it.
Im rebuilding the mobile home and when its done i will live in it. Town is 20 minutes away. Nearest neighbor is a dirt road away from me.
I will be rent and mortgage free.
Solar for power.
Water tank for showers.
5 gallon water containers for drinking and cooking with.
I will work 3 days a week.
Cant wait. 👍🏾
Go for it. Best of luck from England 😊
Friend did the same thing divorced bought an RV found a GF while he was traveling she also was divorced neither want to marry again. He has groups he belongs to meets up different parts of the country. Having those friends all over the country really helps.
Ernest you look amazing man for 62 i swear you look like your in your 40's easy. Thanks for sharing this info its very interesting and also helpful.
40's I'm thinking he looks much younger than that maybe 39
Me too, he's looks great
I was amazed by that too--some of us (not me) age extremely well.
There's a saying that you get the face you deserve..by 50 🤔
never get married one if not the most worst financial decisions any men can make
Even more so for women.👍
I did it twice I know 😢
Bottom line don't get married most men suck.
Or woman. My ex was worthless. Finally divorced him.
Not true for everyone. My husband and I just celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary.
Just subscribed. I turn 62 in a month and have appied for my ss to start then. I was widowed when I was 53. Been lost a bit after my husband passed although I was always the breadwinner. Finally waking up to doing me.
Just was aproved for SS.
Check and see if you can draw on your husbands SS it may be higher than yours now, that way you can wait until later to draw yours which will increase every month you don’t draw it
Yes, check on widow benefits .
Just remember, if you take SS early and not your full retirement age, you will get less money per month. I made that mistake and figured I'm losing about $400 a month. I'm 78 now and receive a little over $900 a month. COLA isn't much each year, if any at all.
@@pamplant3610 Well the way I look at it is I could be dead before full retirement age and my estate gets zero. As you get older you see friends / family pass and so I decided to take my ss now and not wait.
This video just came up on my feed and decided to watch.Much respect to you for sharing your story,I think it's a nice set up,wish you all the best brother 🙏
Wow I’m 48 and about to retire wife asked for a divorce today I’m thinking of getting an RV now thanks! Ironic I came across this video!
Thank you for sharing your story. Hang in there! Keep up the faith! May God bless you and strengthen you everyday.
I am a 61 year old female nearing retirement in Texas. I am seriously considering doing what you’re doing. I don’t know all of the in’s and out’s of it right now but I’m going to have to research it. Thank you for the video. May God continue to bless you. You did right by your kids. My ex-husband did not.
Check out Thailand you can live good off social security that’s my plan
Ernest, this is my first time watching. I appreciate your honesty and candor. I believe if you keep pushing forward and love yourself youll enjoy this time in your life. Im 61, in Texas and have come to love the simple life. Hugs 😊
I bought 40 acres in a northern national forest at 30 yrs old, all while married, raising to kids, and building a home 30 minutes outside the city limits. When the kids were on there own (I married at 22), we had a pieceful divorce. I had paid everything off by 40 years old (including the 40),so I gave her the big house on the hill, and I kept my wild forest property...and moved to it. I quit my job, and took a low paying seasonal job up north. I hand built the place little at a time by hand....and enjoyed no longer working in winter, or fighting city traffic. At 50 I was basicly semi retired and happy. At 60 I retired on my small pension, and took SSI at 62. Not a lot of money monthly, and driving 30 yr old cars and old pickup. I fish, hunt, canoe, and want for nothing now at 72 yrs old. My kids and grandkids come up on vacations and holidays...can't beat it! My ex married her longtime lover, and they slowly wasted what I left them with...and so it goes. I even set up a family cemetary on my property, so we all have our final resting place. The best oart ... if anyone makes the journy to see me, it means they really wanted to! I was probably ahead of my time in my thinking...but I believe it was because I knew who I was at heart early in my life. I planned WAY ahead, and it paid off! Peace to you all....time for an evening bloody mary and a few cold ones as I watch the wildlife off my screen porch.
Hi ernest, I'm glad you take care of your kids, love your home, your a good guy, you'll be ok😊
I can see why it feels like home to you... it's really cozy & comfy looking! Got everything a person needs👍
Take it. I've known people who died before age 62 and never got to enjoy their retirement. I started working at age 16 by 18. I was in a union working l retired at age 55, I own my house I'm 65 now, and I enjoying every bit of it and own my rv and am taking my grandkids camping all the time.
You got that right. Health matters. I’ve been dealing with panic attacks since my early 20s even though it’s a mental issue it sure has made life so much harder than it has to be. You’re an inspiration to how life should be lived.
Been married once never again, looks like you're living a comfortable life good for you
Yes twice here. Never again. Freedom is nice.
I’m 52 I’m divorced thank God & I’m a solo female van lifer I can relate to your story I can’t believe how happy I am now I realise I’m better off being in my van with my cat Kelly where I am safe than living with a violent hubby who almost killed me life after divorce is so much better thanks for sharing your story
One person may see a shack but to others it is a castle. I hope someday to get an RV and make it our Castle.
Ernest, thanks for sharing how you manage in this situation. You are a calm voice of reason. It makes me happy to hear a man that speaks with logic and calm like my grandfather and Uncle did. Best of luck😊
Hello E! a few miles up from you in Denton great video and very informative. Thanks for the Information.
This is one of the realest videos ive seen.
Bravo for sharing your Life with us.
Wow! Your RV is beautiful. Thanks for sharing!
Ernest Sir i applaud you for having the positive attitude and I’m sorry that you’ve had to experience that divorce thing that most of us had to do. Keep it up and just keep moving forward doing what makes you happy.
Good video. Nice park. Love seeing the alternative living options
Fantastic video!! Thank you for your service as well.
After being widowed I sold everything and lived in a truck camper for two years while I built my own gypsy wagon rv. It is my forever home and built exactly the way I wanted it.
That is SOOOO NEAT.....
That’s so cool!! I love the gypsy style ones!!
Very cool lucky you
Love this man and his honesty....same thing happened to me in my divorce...hubby went the jugular...but im good....got my job, health, my faith, and my dogs and roof over my head....bills paid.....food in pantry....im good....still blessed❤❤❤.thank you for sharing ur story and ur transparency.....god bless darlin😊
Set yourself up pretty well Ernest, made smart decisions for your future. I'm 53 trying to stay ahead of things but it's life man, one thing i'm definitely working on making healthy choices. Thanks for Sharing!
Never get married
Great video thank you for sharing and good luck to you stay safe out there✌️
Thank you for sharing and your honesty, god bless.
Welcome ❤️
I enjoyed this video. Job well done. Thank you, Ernest.
I am new to your channel. I appreciate your honesty about your situation and it's very good! I like where you live and it is so wonderful to not be burdened with debt. I am younger than you but had to leave my 6 fig salary because I was diagnosed with Leukemia. My whole life went a direction I was not planning on. I've been lucky to have gotten into a 55+ community (where there's a waiting list!). I live in an expensive town in MA, but anywhere in New England is expensive nowadays.
Since you will early retire (i.e. b/f 65), you'll be able to enjoy your HEALTH and start a whole new chapter in life.....find a relationship again and since you have no mortgage, you can go anywhere you want. I like your attitude. Thanks for sharing your story.
I edited this to come back and say that you could grow your YT channel. Talk about retirement, the pros/cons. A lot of the cons are that some people don't know what to do with themselves. 🙃 You could be an asset to people who are thinking about the idea and are not sure of what to do.
Great content 👍🏽 I chuckled, 🤭 at your “might want to spend time with the children 😅 I can relate with all of them. I love your 5th wheel! I didn’t know they had toy hauling space inside 😮 I golf ⛳️ so if the stars align for me, I want something very similar. Thanks for sharing!
Congrats to you! Love your video and life is short and be happy. Love the RV life 😊
Your channel popped up on my sidebar this afternoon and I decided to view it. Glad I did...you seem like a very nice and honest man. I do not understand why some people are going nuts that you are paying $700.00 monthly to park in an RV Campground. They have not checked out rental prices, particularly in a tourist town like San Antonio.
New subscriber here that is looking forward to following your journey. Best of luck!
Thank you I live at the RV park because it's close to my kids and work. I could easily move further out and pay 300 dollars less. But then I would be spending more on driving. So, for me, it's worth the cost. Maybe when I retire, I'll move. Thanks for watching.
Most of us humans today have been divorced and see a bight future. You my friend are on to a new happy life with the great attitude you have. Take care
Sir, just found your YT channel, I don't know you personally but you seem a stand up person of humble integrity, your story made me a new subscriber and I look forward to more of your shared content. Thanx 4sharing.
I appreciate that
Thank you for sharing your journey so far in a RV . I’ve been thinking about a Tiny Home and looking into getting my social security soon. I’ve got to do more research on RV vs Tiny Home. 😊
Thanks for sharing.. looks like pretty soon i will be joining your life style.. i cant wait!
Thank you for your service, I was in the army as a medic, thank you for sharing your story
Nice trailer. Keep your head up. I'm rooting for you. Sounds like retirement is gonna treat you well.
Good luck on your adventures.. I hope you have fun.. I subscribed so I can follow along..
New subscriber! Looking forward to hearing all about your retirement adventures. I'm not there yet but looking forward to the day. I downsized a few years ago and became completely debt free. I guess you can say I created my own retirement plan. It feels good to have no financial worries, so I know exactly how you feel. I often think about buying an RV... maybe I will one day before I turn 62 😃!
Thanks
Really enjoyed your video I know you will make the right decision that will make you very happy
Thanks Sister
Thank you for posting this it was a recommended video but I love seeing people talk about alternative living and thriving in any condition but also thriving in the rv world. I dreamed of living in an rv when I had a mansion just like you were saying lol and I love the lifestyle. My wife was an avid camper growing up and was down and we love this lifestyle. I try to get younger people to join in to save money and be able to buy land and build wealth. Just like you said we can live in a big home but we love the rv life lol we also love not having debt if we don’t want any. Love it brother and preach.
Goodluck God bless your new journey. Different stories somehow we get to learn from.. Thanks for sharing ❤
love your attitude brother, you have the attitude of success and survival! keep on rockin
1st time viewer new subscriber. Full time RV Nomad since January 13, 2019. 2x divorcee with one broken engagement. I paid 2 ex wives per month at same time. Solo empty nester now. I paid child support for 14 years. I relate to your video. Thanks for your video. Life gets better after divorce. I went from 5drm home. To a 2bdrm apartment to a 45 ft triple axle toy hauler! I love my RV Nomad life!
Will you be trying to get married for a 3rd time or did you learn your lesson?
You look great for 62! Good job my man.
I so appreciate the honesty. Good video and God bless
Thanks
Hi there Thanks for sharing that is a very nice place and clean and cheap. I live in the North Georgia mountains and rent here is high very high But of course everything is so expensive now days. Have a great day and be looking. Looking forward to send more videos❤🇺🇸🙏😊🌹 Thanks for your Service
Just a few comments since your video was inspirational. Congrats to you Sir on your positive attitude, on your service to country, and on recognizing that your time and health have become your most valuable assets. I was shocked to learn you're 60. You could pass for at least 10 years younger. Good luck with your future journeys. And please don't buy a new RV. They are notorious for ruining people's retirement dreams. Buy pre-covid build year and make sure to have a pre-purchase inspection done by independent inspector that you find. Not by a dealer. Best of luck!
I’m curious why pre-covid? What’s the difference from one after covid yet not brand new.
First time viewer just subscribed, keep it up Ernest
I am watching and learning. I went through the "D" about 14 years ago. I borrowed to buy a smaller house so my kids could have a place to lay their heads down when they visited me . Before doing the house I lived in a borrowed 5th wheel while doing the court battle on all that goes on during divorce. Now I am thinking of retirement 4 to 5 years and might go back to RV life style. Good Luck with every thing and stay strong.
Hello, I came across your video. I have been thinking of saving for an rv, so when all my kids are graduated I can work and travel. God willing. Thank your for your video. 🙏 Blessings!!
Hi Ernest. I just want to say that your videos are very refreshing, honest and heart warming. You are doing a great job on explaining how you have built your own nest egg by being disciplined and living below your means. As a certified financial adviser, I try teaching people that if you can consistently delay instant gratification and live way below your means, you can retire comfortably. Keep up the great videos.
Just came across your video. I enjoyed it .
Great video thanks for sharing n God Bless you.
Hey Ernest your channel just popped up! I just moved back to Illinois, my home state, after living in San Antonio for over 15 years. I believe your going the best route prices are crazy there! My biggest and best wishes to you !!
Thank you this it was a very interesting and honest video. You seem to being doing just fine and after divorce it's important to take time for yourself and live in peace.🙏
First time listener... subscribed👍
Well done. I subscribe to your lifestyle. Your home looks very comfortable. No stress. Come & Go as you please. Lovely uncomplicated life. Peace on you, and thank you for your Service.
Good decisions Ernest ! Good luck and good times to you, in retirement ! Money is not everything….peace of mind is the thing. Thanks. 🤠👍
That's wonderful you can ENJOY the second half of your journey❤😊
Second half lol sure
Blessings 🙏 shoutout from Pleasanton Tx
Very informative video! I think this lifestyle is fantastic for anyone.
I seen your video and I see the sadness in your eyes and your voice and just pray to God and everything will be ok . Wish you the best
2:43 love that framed picture in the background. beautiful classic.
Yes, my parents before they were married. I had wonderful parents.
Thanks
You are doing fine. Continue being happy. Lived in San Antonio around medical center and taught with Northside ISD. Keep on what you enjoy. 😊
Your positive outlook is inspiring.
Just subscribed a good honest guy.
I’m 63 and live in Oklahoma. I own my home that’s paid for. I have given it a lot of thought and decided I really want to live like you have. I love to drive long distance and I love seeing new places. And figured even if I don’t do it full time, it would still be fun to do.
I did a no build cargo trailer. I enjoy workcamping . It's perfect . Thanks for sharing your story
Thank you
Kudos for keeping a good attitude. I follow Kevin also and he decided at 12 years old that how he wanted to do his older years and it worked out. You have things worked out well and should pat yourself on the back , We are not promised not one second of tomorrows. Regardless of how much you have or bust your butt. All we can do is treat people how you want to be treated. Cutting grass and maintenance eats away at your time, You are in a fabulous position to be in going into your retirement. Happiness does not have a price tag. Peace is a gift . Enjoy whatever comes your way.
Well said thank you 😊
You got all need..Good for you.
Keep it up
Thank you for posting, 61 years young. This is my dream
u have it all figured out-thanks for sharing-rig is great as is
Well said brother! Thanks for taking the time to make this video. I moved into a brand new 19 foot camper after living in camper before i just realized how much I hated having an apartment. And I couldn’t be happier.
Wow!!
What a NICE PARK! 👍🏻❤️❤️
Your older RV is built much better than any piece of junk built today. Very nice unit. Keep it and make any repairs you may need. Don't buy anything new or built after 2018
Was just going to say! Yup we bought a 2019 and they're not built as good.
Nice home, you got there. You're doing good. Good video, best wishes on your future success. 😊
Thank you for the honest insight.
I'm The same 62 been on my own in my van. You are a good man who has a good heart. Prayers for you.
Great story and info. We just acquired a 38’ toy hauler at a price we couldn’t pass up and plan on the same living situation in the near future. We plan on living in different areas of the western US for 6 months to a year or more at a time and really see the country and meet new people that way.. The rear compartment will be my art studio ( I ship my art to different outlets to sell). My wife works at home as a medical biller so we are always mobile and can come and go as we wish and work our own hours. We are lucky in that respect. By the way I grew up in San Antonio and left many years ago but I still miss my Tex-Mex. Best of luck with everything Earnest!
Thank you for sharing your story. I appreciate your insight and inspiring words of wisdom. Good luck with your new adventure!
Thank you
Good for you. Nice place. Nice big shade trees