'Love your daughters, teach your sons' folks gather to bring awareness to domestic violence

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  • "Don't let my tragedy be your tragedy," said Stephen Johnston, the father of Theresa Cachuela at a vigil held in her honor, to bring awareness to domestic violence.
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  • @larryragland887
    @larryragland887 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Both sons and daughters need to be taught because statistically the most common type of DV happens by both parties

    • @tinabowbinathebroncolady3937
      @tinabowbinathebroncolady3937 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Duuuuuh adds nothing to the conversation.. the poster incorrectly said, "teach your sons" as if ...

    • @hamilcross
      @hamilcross 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      “both sides” shut up lmao you know DAMN well males are the ones committing these atrocities far far FAR more.

  • @cjmerobot1204
    @cjmerobot1204 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    And love your sons and teach your daughters

  • @ImpossibleMusic69
    @ImpossibleMusic69 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    How about something that fits both sides. I’ve never abused a woman but I’ve been the victim of domestic battery twice from two different women and they both went to jail. Had to testify at one trial the other pleaded guilty so no trial.
    Not saying men don’t need to be taught better, I’m just also saying raise your daughters better too. Too many women think it’s okay to put hands on men

    • @Biscuit9891
      @Biscuit9891 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      don't simp for women ever

    • @fhxs
      @fhxs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Idk why you took this personal bro, if it don’t apply let it fly

    • @ImpossibleMusic69
      @ImpossibleMusic69 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fhxs this don’t apply to you either if you raise your kids right. So let it fly!
      See how circular that logic is? Terrible whataboutism to get someone to stop from sharing an opinion

    • @fhxs
      @fhxs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ImpossibleMusic69I don’t have kids I’m in school. Idk why you’re so uptight? I hope you get better.

    • @Biscuit9891
      @Biscuit9891 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      no i dont want to lol@@fhxs

  • @TunaLounge
    @TunaLounge 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Teach kids to not kill people.... Good to know

    • @kawikadee9670
      @kawikadee9670 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Note to self. Make sure you write it down.

    • @Waynes-xt9gr
      @Waynes-xt9gr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      guess you dont listen to certain stations that play RAP music......lots of lyrics I hear, promote violence.

  • @tinabowbinathebroncolady3937
    @tinabowbinathebroncolady3937 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Teach your daughters as well . Don't pick fights. Get out of the way of harm. Nobody should hit one another. There are no totally innocent people here.

  • @thechosenone9769
    @thechosenone9769 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Apparently we need to raise awareness about how many men are abused. It's close to half.

    • @danigrey442
      @danigrey442 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      How many men are killed by their domestic partner?

    • @LibLibertyLibertarian
      @LibLibertyLibertarian 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@danigrey442 how bout how 90% of all suicides are men, 70% of all workplace deaths are men, almost all who died in wars are men.
      The real question is why do we raise awareness just for this and not for the far more men who get killed serving their family and country

    • @LibLibertyLibertarian
      @LibLibertyLibertarian 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@danigrey442 about half of domestic violence is started by women. It's just that men are far far more capable of defending themselves/stronger than women.

    • @Alazar654
      @Alazar654 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@LibLibertyLibertarian Unfortunately, nobody cares.

    • @LibLibertyLibertarian
      @LibLibertyLibertarian 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Alazar654 exactly

  • @yurmomsaccount
    @yurmomsaccount 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Damn. Another thing to teach your kids is, ITS NOT LIKE A DISNEY MOVIE. you gotta work at that relationship.

    • @ClarkKent-ic3pb
      @ClarkKent-ic3pb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ya girl might cheat on you in real life None of the Disney Princesses were Cheaters.

  • @Crystalmagickwands
    @Crystalmagickwands 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh man i love my baby daughter. 👶 he is a cool dad .

  • @Mr.Spanky
    @Mr.Spanky 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    If you follow the ten commandments you'd be fine

    • @yurmomsaccount
      @yurmomsaccount 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hahahaha. The ten commandments? Those seem more like guidelines to you people.

    • @JovitadeJesus120
      @JovitadeJesus120 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙏

    • @OldJoeBlows
      @OldJoeBlows 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen!❤

    • @TunaLounge
      @TunaLounge 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yurmomsaccount That they don't follow

    • @Mr.Spanky
      @Mr.Spanky 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yurmomsaccount what do you mean you people and I wish it would seem like that there's some kids in LA and Denver that needs to learn what they are

  • @RamboJones-v6e
    @RamboJones-v6e 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Love your daughters but not your sons. What an excellent message

    • @domainmora2451
      @domainmora2451 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Weak

    • @RamboJones-v6e
      @RamboJones-v6e 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@domainmora2451 Right??? It’s like the worst lesson ever

    • @Alazar654
      @Alazar654 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      user-iq6mi8pn3q, ah, so you see it too? Society and women do not truly care about men. Hell, men don't even care about men.

    • @Alazar654
      @Alazar654 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, society is totally against men.

    • @kawikadee9670
      @kawikadee9670 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Maybe he only had daughters.

  • @sjcobra84
    @sjcobra84 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Domestic violence can happen to anyone.

  • @The2ndFirst
    @The2ndFirst 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Because domestic abuse only goes one way, as we all know.
    And maybe you should teach your daughters not to stay with abusive "bad boys".

    • @hamilcross
      @hamilcross 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ABUSE is perpetrated by ONE person. the AGGRESSOR. which in more cases than not is the MALE.

    • @The2ndFirst
      @The2ndFirst 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hamilcross So educate you daughter to stay away from them instead of gravitating to them.

    • @abor1males
      @abor1males 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@The2ndFirstUsual suspects MALES

  • @orppranator5230
    @orppranator5230 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Did you know that reciprocal domestic violence, where both partners are hitting each other, is initiated half the time by men and half the time by women? Did you also know that women commit 70% of all non reciprocal DV as well?
    Don’t love your daughters and teach your sons, instead teach your daughters and love your sons.

    • @vissern21
      @vissern21 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I get the sentiment behind your statement, but I would prefer 'love your sons and daughters, and teach them to be better...'

    • @michellejohnson5217
      @michellejohnson5217 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      1 in 4 women ( versus 1 in 9 men ) experience physical violence in domestic relationships.

    • @StellarBoBellar
      @StellarBoBellar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ok but it's not usually the women who beat their partners to death in a fit of anger

    • @dellz06
      @dellz06 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@michellejohnson5217This isn't a competition, and it isn't one of those "things" that only women get to claim. DV is DV, regardless of whose doing it.

    • @LibLibertyLibertarian
      @LibLibertyLibertarian 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Also domestic violence amongst lesbians is higher than any other domestic partner relationship.

  • @Jazzfestn
    @Jazzfestn 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    TRAIN your sons. Teaching only involves dispensing information that is quickly forgotten. TRAINING involves repititous DOING.. as in Spring TRAINING...Basic TRAINING...weight TRAINING

  • @michellejessup6618
    @michellejessup6618 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    As a domestic abuse survivor I am lucky to be alive RIP🙏🏻🌹🙏🏻

    • @Biscuit9891
      @Biscuit9891 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LMAO

    • @ClarkKent-ic3pb
      @ClarkKent-ic3pb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As someone who was falsely accused of domestic abuse I'm lucky to not be in prison on false charges.

    • @michellejessup6618
      @michellejessup6618 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ClarkKent-ic3pb Sorry that happened to you yet Domestic violent death is rampant. I got to keep my life. You got to stay out of jail and yet thousands of women are dead (men die too but at a much lower rate) Keeping it in perspective.

    • @ClarkKent-ic3pb
      @ClarkKent-ic3pb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Of course because I wasn't Guilty.😂 but yeah i know what u mean.

    • @user-1rg9f2-g3l6d
      @user-1rg9f2-g3l6d 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Biscuit9891 It's OJ!!! How you doing, Bro?

  • @ClarkKent-ic3pb
    @ClarkKent-ic3pb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Teach your Daughters to Not be Cheaters would be my advice because men Mainly Only want to Harm you if you Cheat on them.🤓

    • @yurmomsaccount
      @yurmomsaccount 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Way to air your laundry. I was abused because i wore shoes that made me taller than him......

    • @ClarkKent-ic3pb
      @ClarkKent-ic3pb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's weird.

  • @nikeslim749
    @nikeslim749 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Must teach people to not to hurt anyone these days

  • @glennknauer2696
    @glennknauer2696 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Imported violence is more concerning.

  • @rupertmurdoch4589
    @rupertmurdoch4589 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Women 😂
    Ted Bundy knew..

    • @abor1males
      @abor1males 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men 😂
      Alieen Wurnos knew ….

  • @_SamuraiWarrior_
    @_SamuraiWarrior_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That’s so stupid, y’all gotta teach both your sons & daughters to act right & hold both genders accountable. Stop blaming everything on men. Also if you raise your daughters the right way as parents then they wouldn’t even be dating jerks in the first place. There’s still good men out there too ya know but apparently ya’ll just wanna spread negativity on one side, that’s the problem with society… 🤔

    • @Biscuit9891
      @Biscuit9891 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      yeah true, it's like women are saints and men aren't. tons of crappy women out there.

  • @edwardballiet2167
    @edwardballiet2167 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes teach you sons to be kind and smart. But also teach you daughters to be aware of your situation and dont put yourself in such situations.

    • @michellejessup6618
      @michellejessup6618 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You don't know much about domestic violence do you What you're missing is they start Out very pleasant and charming and then they turn on you You don't get red flags until you're well into the relationship now you know

    • @edwardballiet2167
      @edwardballiet2167 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @michellejessup6618 that isn't solely on men that goes for women as well. The only difference is if men spoke up bout it they're told to shut up or man up. Nobody should suffer at the hands of their significant other. And I also understand why women would not want to speak up out of fear for not being believed or retaliation, that's due to the false accusations that is just as much an issue in itself.

    • @michellejessup6618
      @michellejessup6618 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @edwardballiet2167 I never said it was solely men. I was only speaking about my experience. And I don't believe women should abuse men either nobody should abuse anybody period

  • @Waynes-xt9gr
    @Waynes-xt9gr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I dont have tv but watch TH-cam a LOT........there is vids from Vid Chronicles, Dharmann, and others who show potrayals of issues that pertain to almost anything you can think of.....after watching some vids, it REALLY gives you a 2nd thought of helping yourself out too......but in her case, It probably was too late.

  • @rupertmurdoch4589
    @rupertmurdoch4589 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    😂 Ted Bundy approves.

    • @LuckyCharms777
      @LuckyCharms777 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Al Bundy wishes women were taught not to mentally abuse men. Peg’s constant belittling of Al changed him from a Chad into a broken man. 😢

    • @abor1males
      @abor1males 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So did Jodie Arias approves

  • @c.kuuipoo.7241
    @c.kuuipoo.7241 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    😪🙏💗

  • @Mark-qj2kk
    @Mark-qj2kk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Should have stayed in her country 😮

  • @FrankGallagherr
    @FrankGallagherr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hilarious

  • @domainmora2451
    @domainmora2451 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A bunch of weak men in this comment section.
    The man is the head and leader of the home. He must be strong and kind. love and protect your wives.

    • @nikeslim749
      @nikeslim749 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Most men do most wife’s choose to leave them how can they be loving and kind when they have disrespecting and disobeying wife’s

    • @domainmora2451
      @domainmora2451 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nikeslim749
      “Most men do”
      how do you know that ?
      Women can say most men cheat and don’t know how to love and lead a family.
      Don’t play victim here.
      It’s a man’s world and women follow men. So if your failing to lead your wife and children righteously than your just leading to fail.
      Even if you have a disrespectful wife that is no excuse to just call it quits. That’s weak !
      Real men have fortitude and fight through adversity and seek resolutions, even if it seems their wife is their enemy.

    • @nikeslim749
      @nikeslim749 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@domainmora2451 why should a man fight for a lady who don’t want him wouldn’t that be stalking and harassment? Only time it is a man’s world when it comes to the labor intensive dirty dangerous jobs a lot of ladies don’t do but largely mostly men are willing to cause they love their families

  • @kawikadee9670
    @kawikadee9670 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She needed to arm herself so that she could have protected herself.

  • @martamara1979
    @martamara1979 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Testosterone is a big problem

    • @kawikadee9670
      @kawikadee9670 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Actually it's not I love testosterones, good for my muscles.

  • @NicholeCowper-p4f
    @NicholeCowper-p4f 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    📿📿📿