one of my takeaways from this is to just express the thing I’m already thinking to a creator after consuming their content, rather than silently appreciating. That feels good to me.
The core concern with praise is that successful people get an excess of it, creating echo chambers and positive feedback loops or "white noise". Its IMPERATIVE to learn how to generate the type of noise that will resonate on the frequency that your target prospect operates on. (Put down exactly what your gut tells you they NEED to pick up every. single. time. forever.)
@@Primatenate88 whenever I receive positive feedback, it's always the feedback that includes the person sharing the specific experience or benefit they've gained as a result of engaging with my content/music etc. generic stuff is like ok nice but then it's easier to forget about it a moment later.
58 year old Mom of 5 young adults 🙋♀️ I know I am not your target audience, but I am really enjoying your content as I have always created one-person businesses . Anyway, I’ve been on this online journey since 2018 and just wanted to say I’m glad that I stumbled across your channel.
58 yr ols Moms and Moms - Dads from 40-70 yrs young are coming to dominate online - boomers have so much knowledge and experience are perfect to build high impact one-person online businesses
One great takeaway is the reality that it may seem like a long time to take 2 years to grow your own business but in reality going to 4 years of college, taking a year to find yourself then work for someone for a a few then try to start your own thing. Just a fascinating perspective of how the times have changed with digital.
P.S. if you ever want to review these steps (or any of my other videos) I post them as blogs. The steps in this may be hard to remember, so here's the link if you want an easier reference in your networking endeavors: thedankoe.com/how-to-network-with-millionaires-and-build-a-name-for-yourself/ Enjoy your week my friends.
Wow! I'm a certified introvert and everything you said about networking in person resonates with me. I'm gonna have to save this video and listen all over again. Thanks, man! This is so full of value.
Summarising the video which actually is an absolute gem: 1. Find people you want to DM - who inspire you, with whom you want to work, where there is a mutual benefit, people with whom you would want to strategize with. Follow the person who want to, then see their following list and engage with them who are similar to the nature of work as you are 2. Send them an inspired compliment - “This hit me hard, I resonated so much with this that I have been thinking about it for 2 days”. Keep doing that until they respond 3. Show interest in them - Ask what are their goals, what are they building, what they do for work, how you can add value for them. If they don’t answer then see their profile and ask what are your next plans with your YT channel, what are you building right now with this kind of big audiences, 4. Lead with value - send actional tips, send videos, docs, links that can add value to the other person, connect them with someone in your network, 5. Get on a call to make deeper connect - show actually who you are and how can both you mutually help each other 6. Follow up with value - As you have known their work better, you know the resources that can help them better, or something that you created yourself for them (a template, SoPs etc) so keep a string of conversation alive with value 7. Follow up with an ask - ask them to join a community, send them a post for feedback, ask any specific questions from them, ask if you can tag them, write something that you learnt from them Pro Tip - This isn’t immediate, it will take time. Start DMing 2 people, then 5 then 10. You need to work for free as well to polish your skills before you move to a point where you get paid.
Your words made me start writing every single day since the day I started listening to your videos. I am 38, I started my business in spagyric medicine and alchemy after studying for 19 years. I am still overcoming my sense of not being good enough. It is hard to accept that things pretty much moved online and people are getting distracted by stupid superficial things (me too), when all I wanted to do was help people get back their sovereignty, their health, their power and their sense of sacredness. I realized I can give some ancient wisdom back to the world even through social media.Thank you for your sincerity and humbleness.
Dan, you make it so simple with the way you describe things in your posts and tweets. your the only "guru" that I can trust in this will web. I purchased 2-hour writer and I toke the first step. I'm patiently walking through the course while still working on my platforms (tweeter and linked in) I'm so thankful for your content. you really helped me get out of a mental rut by showing me clarity in your unique and artistic way of writing and content. your message mean a lot to me. maybe will meet each other someday. KEEP BUILDING AND KEEP CREATING!
The content you share speaks truly to my soul. What I also appreciate is the laid back, relaxed vibe without the "modern" cut every 5 seconds, high pace etc. To keep the viewers attention. You know what we are here for, and you provide just that!
All right man, you've inspired me to comment. You've been providing so much value to me over the past few months and I really like your perspective on the digital landscape and how we can all carve our own paths as creators. I'm going to buy you 2 hour writer course soon.
Best outro yet, Dan. I’ve started writing for the first time in my life because of your content and I couldn’t thank you enough for that reality slap! ‘Stop being a bitch’ and ‘get your shit together’ are phrases that also resonate with my way of being. Not that anyone cares about what resonates with me, just wanted to express my gratitude towards your efforts! Keep these diamonds coming
Thank you for this Dan. I’ve definitely been a lurker, but this is inspiring me to break out of that “identity”. Discovering your content this past month was the push I needed to start creating my own personal brand/business and leave my current job. Many blessings to you and this community.
Thank you Dan. Thousands of people are Talking everyday about content marketing but you are just unique and stand out easily. You are proving that you know what you're Talking about.
Internet vs Network Inspiring people 21:19 Follow up with value Follow up with ask - join a group etc 22:22 Not quick its long game Start now not later
That line about the ease of connecting with someone who is , let's say "internet famous" is golden. Getting used to that makes it easier (mentally) to reach out to anyone online. I try to remind myself that everyone is human. The vid is helpful, thanks DK.
What’s up Dan? 28YO Aggy from London ❤ and I am really enjoying your content 🌸 I thought I would share: If the goal is behavior change - people are more suggestible when listening to a story. They also remember them a zillion times better. So if we define the outcome of teaching as changing behavior - stories, not facts, are the most effective route. And it’s been a long transition for me to tell stories. The biggest belief I had to break was that stories weren’t valuable. But they’re the most valuable. Facts people forget. Stories they remember. And you may think “well my audience is smarter, they think stories are fluff, they appreciate facts.” But it’s the opposite. The smartest investors in the world are still swayed by a good story. After all, anyone can regurgitate facts. It takes skill to tell a good story. So level up rather than hiding behind your ego of saying you’re “above” it. When I’m reality, you just don’t know how. - Alex Hormozi
Thank you so much, I needed this. I'm an introvert and it's really not easy to connect with strangers. I'll do it now, compliment people on their content and their ideas.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 🌱 *Introversion and Social Skills* - Being introverted is a skill, not a personality trait. - Introverts often avoid social interactions, hindering their success in various areas. 01:28 🚀 *Transition to Social Media* - Exploring different ventures, including fitness, digital art, and photography. - Discovery of Twitter and its role in personal and professional growth. 03:25 💡 *The Power of Networking in the Digital World* - Networking is essential for success in the digital age. - Comparison of past and present networking opportunities and barriers. 06:22 🤝 *Building Relationships and Making Friends Online* - Real-life examples of friendships formed through social media. - Emphasizing the importance of building a personal brand and connecting with others. 10:47 📱 *The Necessity of Social Media Presence* - Highlighting the significance of social media for creators and businesses. - The consensus among successful individuals that networking is crucial. 11:48 📩 *Effective DM Strategies* - Exploring the power of direct messaging on social media. - The importance of crafting strategic and attention-grabbing DMs. 13:45 🎯 *Steps to Non-Needy Networking* - Step 1: Identify individuals you want to connect with or learn from. - Step 2: Start with an inspired compliment to initiate contact. - Step 3: Show genuine interest in their goals and aspirations. - Step 4: Lead with value by offering assistance or resources. 18:41 🤝 *Building Connections through Conversation* - Building connections through meaningful conversation. 19:10 📞 *Getting on a Call for Deeper Connection* - The importance of getting on a call for a deeper, more personal connection. - Overcoming anxiety and making face-to-face connections online. 20:09 📩 *Following Up with Value* - The significance of following up with valuable content and information. - Strengthening connections by providing relevant resources and information. 21:38 🙏 *Building Relationships Before Asking* - Building solid connections before making any requests or asks. - The importance of patience and long-term networking. 22:07 💬 *Asking Thoughtful Questions* - The art of asking thoughtful questions within a developed relationship. - Avoiding immediate requests for information without prior rapport. 23:35 🚀 *Leveraging Connections for Growth* - Leveraging your network for audience growth and collaboration. - Strategies for getting your content shared and expanding your reach. 25:05 🕒 *Embracing the Digital World for Quick Progress* - Embracing the digital world and taking the uncertain path for quicker progress. - Encouraging actions in line with your ideal future in the now. 26:33 📝 *Taking Action Now for Future Success* - The importance of practicing your craft and building skills even before getting paid. - Encouragement to start networking and taking action immediately. 27:02 🙌 *Conclusion and Call to Action* - A summary of key points and a call to action for the audience to engage with the video content and explore additional resources. Made with HARPA AI
Thank you for this! It’s exactly what I needed to here today. I’ve been silently watching and following your channel for a while now. I mostly don’t comment because I am listening while I paint. I’m new to TH-cam and I’m learning the video content creation game because it’s become a key business requirement on the internet going forward. This video helps me feel confident enough to reach out and ask video creators in my network what tools they use or routines they follow so I can get consistent and better in that format and sell more of my art.
Dan, I cannot understate the importance of your post. You've given me a pathway to reaching out to events promoters. I also want to start my own podcasts on TH-cam and again, you've given me a systematic approach to doing this. I salute you sir!!!
Great stuff bro... Been in digital marketing for eternity, from funnels architecture to copywriting and definitely felt like there's not much new things to learn... But your videos are expanding my horizons:) Thx!:)
Feisty Dan got me today! Thanks for putting out for free something so high valuable as this. It makes me even more eager to join your paid courses, since putting 7 Days Writer Challenge in action already changed my perspective about how simpler (not necessarily easier) it is to build the path towards my life vision, than I thought. Studying and doing courses for over 10 years now, led me to your lessons to break me out of inertia after all. I can see already the day I meet you in person, and tell you all about how I made that vision into life. And so it is 🌄
I've tried several times to build a brand on social media, with varying degrees of success. I was always disappointed. Guess what - I never networked. The idea of actually talking to people on social media put me off. How did I expect to grow?! Thank you Dan, huge value in your content as always, appreciate it.
I think the part about reaching out to 100 people, while being kind and having something to offer, is a really good idea that could definitely lead to long lasting meaningful connections, especially if you incorporate step 1 of the process, and you actually WANT to connect with these people.
Thanks for your feisty vibes. 'Just get your shit together'. Solid advice. Starting my own business after leaving state teaching and your teaching has been invaluable. Much appreciated. Have a most excellent day :)
Dan I liked your direct style of coming to the point. I really value people who have the ability of cutting through the BS and giving a valuable message in just a few secs. Commendable wisdom gained through self work! Precious indeed!
From one Dan to another, great video! The biggest key is the fact that you cannot do this if you’re in a heavy, “give me” mode, looking for an instant come up. And it’s amazing how intuitively one can create relationships this way when there’s real authenticity and a genuine desire to serve. ❤️🔥🙌🏾
Hey Dan, i am amazed about how you share years of the most valuable experience you can have - rial and error. Just like that, in a free video. You inspired me to sctually take action now. Not "when the time is right".
I’ve never considered that this ‘uncertain’ path, is actually the ‘short-cut’ to success that people aren’t willing to leave the ‘security’ for. 🤯 thanks Dan 🙏
Man. It's so crazy. I hear your mental and it reminds me exactly of myself. It's speaking to me exactly where I'm at in my online journey. It's insane. Thank you.
So glad I listened to this at your recommendation in one of your podcasts. I listen and watch your videos. I so much appreciate how you get right into the specifics especially your clear thinking and straight forward explanations. Plus the feisty hard hitting your provide gets me out of my head. Thank you very much!
Dan thanks for giving me my confidence back!! I have downplayed myself, skills and potentials for so long. Speaking up, asking for help, and not reaching out made me lost a lot of opportunities. I repent.
Dan, I related to your story during school. In the 80s introverts had a hard time to find their space. This video was very important to me, to find my niche in such a big space.
Dan, I notice that you always give such high value tips! I really connect with your videos because you provide great gems without making it icky or way to flashy. Your casual approach has really allowed me to access the knowledge and approach you're sharing!
Such great breakdown that eases the stress of networking. Thank you for reaffirming that it’s not that complicated, and the opportunities can really compound over time.
This is so valuable, thanks Dan! I've been inspired by the clarity of your thoughts and how you confirm the longings of my heart for self actualization. I've a time management podcast for professionals and I hope to have you as a guest this year.
Woowww Dan, your video really changed my mind on building relationship! As a new grad from Computer Science (a total nerd and introvert), i felt the urge to starts talking and expanding my network, and your video had the best tips I’ve heard on how to use social media! Thank you so much 😊
what you’re giving us is the magic recipe of defeating the ever lurking spiral of addiction to social media: don’t be the drug addict, be the drug dealer. By offering a really good drug - in the most positive sense. I should and will use this quote, inspired by you :)
I just watched this video and the two before it - my perspective on the creator economy and the potential that exists has completely changed. Thanks Dan. Value received.
The very first video i've viewed on this channel and the reaching out to people over dms really stuck out to me. Something so simple! But I'd never really considered before. This is just what i needed to hear before starting my own business and posting content online. Thanks Dan!
Hey dan! Know that you have been impacting my life in ways you cannot imagine! Probably we will meet in the future, with me having the prospects to do so! Thank you so much!
Hi dear Dan I beg your pardon for my poor English, but I try hard to write to you expressing my admiration for you and the content you provide, and you should know that I follow all your videos and wait for all your new I hope to meet you someday Greetings from Algeria
Best thing about internet and social media is, there's no time period constraint over a piece of art going popular. Like in before, if a very good art couldn't just become that famous, it was gone, pressed beneath the current world scenario timeline forever, only known to some few. But now there could be just one person finding something unique which has been underrated, and upload it on the internet, and boom, it goes viral, everybody's talking about it!! The art got it's value finally!
Thank you Dan! Your simple way of explaining things that I’ve thought about in the past but could never fully understand amazes me once again. Much love❤
Dan, I am you from the past. There was no internet when I was in school. I did a summer painting franchise in the 90’s… failed miserably, but learned a lot. Seems like that would be easy today, but that’s after 30 years of experience I didn’t have in the 90’s.
bro, i do enjoy watching your videos, super informative, before doing anything after i wake up, i just watch a video so ill function better throughout the day ahead
incredible video Dan! I've recently gotten a few viral reels and they've I've been engaging with everyone that's started to follow me! You're totally right when it comes to DMs that lead with value. I start by thanking the person for the follow/engagement then ask what questions they have related to my niche. From there almost everyone replies with either just a double tap or they ask questions (thus leading me to provide more value by answering them) or even straight up they ask to get signed up to work with me! Really appreciate all the free content you've put out!
I am grateful for this straightforward insight. Too often this type of information is presented in a punching-down manner that can render some listeners deaf. The concept discussed here is one of my first and greatest excuses/stumbling blocks to growth. I've known for a long time that I need to know movers and shakers, experts and the impassioned, but my impostor syndrome b.s. always shoots it down with "What the eff can I bring to this person's life? They're literally the expert and I am the nobody. Even nobodies don't have time for nobodies, or else I wouldn't be trying to improve my situation in life." Blah blah blah. It just feels like such a Herculean task to get past that internal barrier. But nothing worth doing is easy or fast.
Hi Dan, thank you for your content. I'm building my life after a 2week coma and extensive brain damage. I started learning how to create wordpress website and I'm enjoying it. After watching this video, I have decided to get back on social media (I deleted all my accounts after my brain injury) and find friends :)
I really appreciate your content. I don’t even know how I rabbit holed to your channel, but I’m glad I did. As an introvert that does not yet have a business and also being a mother to an introvert this content is 2x the value. You’ve put me on a trajectory to map out my 12 year olds life goals working from the end in mind. We now know the lifestyle he wants means making 347k/ year. I have no idea how to do that, so here I am learning for both of our sakes. He knows he can build a dope life for himself, but that takes intention and we can start making progress towards that life now.
What type of lifestyle does your 12yo want? I am also a single Mom to a 12yo boy, but I just know he wants to be robotics engineer. Also, I have seen him google “highest paying jobs”. Right now, I just support him as best as I know and encourage him, continue learning programming languages/ coding and to form good habits now (no procrastinating, for example). I’m curious what kind of conversations you are having with your 12yo? I have very much room for improvement and you sound like a good Mom..
Dan, discovered your channel two weeks ago. I’m wowed by the value you provide. What hit home is the Twitter info. I’ve been on Twitter since 2011, had over 2500 followers doing nothing. After hearing you, I need to jump back on it. Thanks!
I needed this paradigm shift confirmation. I'd been thinking this for so long, had my own confirmations, but you said what I needed to hear. Much appreciated.
As someone who wants to be music producer i know the importance of networking i dont really use social media but i know i will use social media for the benefit of networking
Just found your channel and a lot of your life philosophies I think we share. I’m a big proponent for people finding their purpose and passions to then use it as a gift to the world/ collective. I’d consider myself an extroverted introvert so it’s a challenge for me to be in social situations sometimes but I do enjoy conversations that lead to inspiration and growth. Sometimes I get so discouraged to share and talk about my podcast because of imposter syndrome and comparisons. If you ask me what I want to do with my life it’d be that. But I have a hard time being consistent with it. I feel like I should stop doing it all together but then when I actually get the opportunity to have a conversation with my guests I get so refreshed. It’s weird. I’m kinda rambling but this comment section seems like a great space to let this out.
Hey man, yours is the finest channel i have come across with whom I resonate so much I have started to think very profoundly of these things You are really creating a genuine impact my friend, i really wanna see your channel grow And i wish you a very luck.
Thank you for your content! You’ve opened my eyes to the digital renaissance. I have so much information I’ve learned over the years, and I didn’t know how to systemize the information to create profitable products or services I enjoy. Your content is gold to those who see its value. I am encouraged to develop a discipline around writing and messaging like-minded creators. Thank you again!
All of this is pure gold Dan! As a fellow introvert, it's been a growing process to get out of my shell. Wish I learned this a lot early in life :-) Thank you!
I often come back to your content whenever I'm doubting my ability to build an audience on here. Your content is gold so its a big thank you from me man
yo, your content really helps a lot I've been watching a couple videos, got so motivated to start writing more and creating content thank you !!!!!! big love
Thank you for this video: it brings more clarity for how to grow in social media and freelancing. So many of us get caught up in paralysis of analysis for the simple fact that we don't know a good strategy for getting started and therefore don't take action. I'm definitely guilty of this myself.
one of my takeaways from this is to just express the thing I’m already thinking to a creator after consuming their content, rather than silently appreciating. That feels good to me.
Yeah, do this! From my perspective of a small creator,it always feels great to get words of appreciation. I bet it is encouraging to you as well!
The core concern with praise is that successful people get an excess of it, creating echo chambers and positive feedback loops or "white noise". Its IMPERATIVE to learn how to generate the type of noise that will resonate on the frequency that your target prospect operates on. (Put down exactly what your gut tells you they NEED to pick up every. single. time. forever.)
@@Primatenate88 whenever I receive positive feedback, it's always the feedback that includes the person sharing the specific experience or benefit they've gained as a result of engaging with my content/music etc. generic stuff is like ok nice but then it's easier to forget about it a moment later.
Great takeaway, David!
agree davidd
58 year old Mom of 5 young adults 🙋♀️ I know I am not your target audience, but I am really enjoying your content as I have always created one-person businesses . Anyway, I’ve been on this online journey since 2018 and just wanted to say I’m glad that I stumbled across your channel.
Same boat! ❤❤
Its great to see someone of your age enjoying this kinda content. 😇
Not for nothing...but Dan has that 2 hour writing course and it's damn good stuff...if you are seriously considering strengthening your online game!
58 yr ols Moms and Moms - Dads from 40-70 yrs young are coming to dominate online - boomers have so much knowledge and experience are perfect to build high impact one-person online businesses
Glad to see such a comment. I am also one of Dan's older followers. He's a wise dude and he has helped me so much with his content. Let's slay!
Can confirm, I DM'd Dan Koe now I live in the shed in his backyard
Does the shed come with your own free home gym set up?
One great takeaway is the reality that it may seem like a long time to take 2 years to grow your own business but in reality going to 4 years of college, taking a year to find yourself then work for someone for a a few then try to start your own thing. Just a fascinating perspective of how the times have changed with digital.
Agreed, a great line of thinking.
P.S. if you ever want to review these steps (or any of my other videos) I post them as blogs.
The steps in this may be hard to remember, so here's the link if you want an easier reference in your networking endeavors: thedankoe.com/how-to-network-with-millionaires-and-build-a-name-for-yourself/
Enjoy your week my friends.
Thank you! I'm getting on this ASAP
Wow! I'm a certified introvert and everything you said about networking in person resonates with me. I'm gonna have to save this video and listen all over again. Thanks, man! This is so full of value.
Summarising the video which actually is an absolute gem:
1. Find people you want to DM - who inspire you, with whom you want to work, where there is a mutual benefit, people with whom you would want to strategize with. Follow the person who want to, then see their following list and engage with them who are similar to the nature of work as you are
2. Send them an inspired compliment - “This hit me hard, I resonated so much with this that I have been thinking about it for 2 days”. Keep doing that until they respond
3. Show interest in them - Ask what are their goals, what are they building, what they do for work, how you can add value for them. If they don’t answer then see their profile and ask what are your next plans with your YT channel, what are you building right now with this kind of big audiences,
4. Lead with value - send actional tips, send videos, docs, links that can add value to the other person, connect them with someone in your network,
5. Get on a call to make deeper connect - show actually who you are and how can both you mutually help each other
6. Follow up with value - As you have known their work better, you know the resources that can help them better, or something that you created yourself for them (a template, SoPs etc) so keep a string of conversation alive with value
7. Follow up with an ask - ask them to join a community, send them a post for feedback, ask any specific questions from them, ask if you can tag them, write something that you learnt from them
Pro Tip - This isn’t immediate, it will take time. Start DMing 2 people, then 5 then 10. You need to work for free as well to polish your skills before you move to a point where you get paid.
Thank you sooooo much ❤
Your words made me start writing every single day since the day I started listening to your videos. I am 38, I started my business in spagyric medicine and alchemy after studying for 19 years. I am still overcoming my sense of not being good enough. It is hard to accept that things pretty much moved online and people are getting distracted by stupid superficial things (me too), when all I wanted to do was help people get back their sovereignty, their health, their power and their sense of sacredness. I realized I can give some ancient wisdom back to the world even through social media.Thank you for your sincerity and humbleness.
Still writing🥳
It was so excited when i read your comment,we have somthing in common, keep going and never stop.
👍
Can I connect with you, I think it can beneficial for both of us , wys ?
Dan, you make it so simple with the way you describe things in your posts and tweets. your the only "guru" that I can trust in this will web. I purchased 2-hour writer and I toke the first step. I'm patiently walking through the course while still working on my platforms (tweeter and linked in) I'm so thankful for your content. you really helped me get out of a mental rut by showing me clarity in your unique and artistic way of writing and content. your message mean a lot to me. maybe will meet each other someday.
KEEP BUILDING AND KEEP CREATING!
The content you share speaks truly to my soul. What I also appreciate is the laid back, relaxed vibe without the "modern" cut every 5 seconds, high pace etc. To keep the viewers attention. You know what we are here for, and you provide just that!
Amen
11:44 - That was such a quick change in expression.
I admire your character Dan.
All right man, you've inspired me to comment. You've been providing so much value to me over the past few months and I really like your perspective on the digital landscape and how we can all carve our own paths as creators. I'm going to buy you 2 hour writer course soon.
Best outro yet, Dan. I’ve started writing for the first time in my life because of your content and I couldn’t thank you enough for that reality slap! ‘Stop being a bitch’ and ‘get your shit together’ are phrases that also resonate with my way of being. Not that anyone cares about what resonates with me, just wanted to express my gratitude towards your efforts! Keep these diamonds coming
what you said in the intro was so true, yesterday while I was walking I too had the same thought
don't try to hide behind the introvert thing you have
Thank you for this Dan. I’ve definitely been a lurker, but this is inspiring me to break out of that “identity”. Discovering your content this past month was the push I needed to start creating my own personal brand/business and leave my current job. Many blessings to you and this community.
Love how you put this family, sometimes we just got to put our shit together.
The one thing that got me hook with your contents, is your authenticity and calmness to what you are saying
Man You're just the best thing that could happen to our digital generation out there.
Thank you Dan. Thousands of people are Talking everyday about content marketing but you are just unique and stand out easily. You are proving that you know what you're Talking about.
Internet
vs
Network
Inspiring people
21:19
Follow up with value
Follow up with ask - join a group etc
22:22
Not quick
its long game
Start now not later
That line about the ease of connecting with someone who is , let's say "internet famous" is golden. Getting used to that makes it easier (mentally) to reach out to anyone online. I try to remind myself that everyone is human. The vid is helpful, thanks DK.
I’m not sure what’s better, the fact that you picked up the phone call from your tax guy or that you kept it in. I loved that touch.
What’s up Dan? 28YO Aggy from London ❤ and I am really enjoying your content 🌸
I thought I would share:
If the goal is behavior change - people are more suggestible when listening to a story. They also remember them a zillion times better. So if we define the outcome of teaching as changing behavior - stories, not facts, are the most effective route.
And it’s been a long transition for me to tell stories. The biggest belief I had to break was that stories weren’t valuable. But they’re the most valuable. Facts people forget. Stories they remember.
And you may think “well my audience is smarter, they think stories are fluff, they appreciate facts.” But it’s the opposite.
The smartest investors in the world are still swayed by a good story.
After all, anyone can regurgitate facts. It takes skill to tell a good story. So level up rather than hiding behind your ego of saying you’re “above” it. When I’m reality, you just don’t know how. - Alex Hormozi
God damn Dan. You dragged the shit out of me today.
Love the "get your shit together" content.
Thank you for your perspective.
As always, Dan Koe provides the kind of value you can't get anywhere else! 💯💯💯
agree
LITERALLY
Dan just simplifies the simple truths that a lot of other gurus out there seem to twist around to sell you thier shit.
HILARIOUS comedic drop at 19:57-20:00. LOL...Thanks for the content Dan! Very well spoken and well delivered.
OMG, Mr. Dan,
You are a mentor, teacher and truly a bless. Thank God I found your content.
Thank you so much, I needed this.
I'm an introvert and it's really not easy to connect with strangers. I'll do it now, compliment people on their content and their ideas.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 🌱 *Introversion and Social Skills*
- Being introverted is a skill, not a personality trait.
- Introverts often avoid social interactions, hindering their success in various areas.
01:28 🚀 *Transition to Social Media*
- Exploring different ventures, including fitness, digital art, and photography.
- Discovery of Twitter and its role in personal and professional growth.
03:25 💡 *The Power of Networking in the Digital World*
- Networking is essential for success in the digital age.
- Comparison of past and present networking opportunities and barriers.
06:22 🤝 *Building Relationships and Making Friends Online*
- Real-life examples of friendships formed through social media.
- Emphasizing the importance of building a personal brand and connecting with others.
10:47 📱 *The Necessity of Social Media Presence*
- Highlighting the significance of social media for creators and businesses.
- The consensus among successful individuals that networking is crucial.
11:48 📩 *Effective DM Strategies*
- Exploring the power of direct messaging on social media.
- The importance of crafting strategic and attention-grabbing DMs.
13:45 🎯 *Steps to Non-Needy Networking*
- Step 1: Identify individuals you want to connect with or learn from.
- Step 2: Start with an inspired compliment to initiate contact.
- Step 3: Show genuine interest in their goals and aspirations.
- Step 4: Lead with value by offering assistance or resources.
18:41 🤝 *Building Connections through Conversation*
- Building connections through meaningful conversation.
19:10 📞 *Getting on a Call for Deeper Connection*
- The importance of getting on a call for a deeper, more personal connection.
- Overcoming anxiety and making face-to-face connections online.
20:09 📩 *Following Up with Value*
- The significance of following up with valuable content and information.
- Strengthening connections by providing relevant resources and information.
21:38 🙏 *Building Relationships Before Asking*
- Building solid connections before making any requests or asks.
- The importance of patience and long-term networking.
22:07 💬 *Asking Thoughtful Questions*
- The art of asking thoughtful questions within a developed relationship.
- Avoiding immediate requests for information without prior rapport.
23:35 🚀 *Leveraging Connections for Growth*
- Leveraging your network for audience growth and collaboration.
- Strategies for getting your content shared and expanding your reach.
25:05 🕒 *Embracing the Digital World for Quick Progress*
- Embracing the digital world and taking the uncertain path for quicker progress.
- Encouraging actions in line with your ideal future in the now.
26:33 📝 *Taking Action Now for Future Success*
- The importance of practicing your craft and building skills even before getting paid.
- Encouragement to start networking and taking action immediately.
27:02 🙌 *Conclusion and Call to Action*
- A summary of key points and a call to action for the audience to engage with the video content and explore additional resources.
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“Get your shit together” was precisely what I needed to hear this evening. Thank you, Dan!😂
Thank you for this! It’s exactly what I needed to here today. I’ve been silently watching and following your channel for a while now. I mostly don’t comment because I am listening while I paint. I’m new to TH-cam and I’m learning the video content creation game because it’s become a key business requirement on the internet going forward. This video helps me feel confident enough to reach out and ask video creators in my network what tools they use or routines they follow so I can get consistent and better in that format and sell more of my art.
Dan, I cannot understate the importance of your post. You've given me a pathway to reaching out to events promoters. I also want to start my own podcasts on TH-cam and again, you've given me a systematic approach to doing this. I salute you sir!!!
Nobody packs big picture philosophical information into actionable advice like Dan, thanks for making content man!
Great stuff bro... Been in digital marketing for eternity, from funnels architecture to copywriting and definitely felt like there's not much new things to learn... But your videos are expanding my horizons:)
Thx!:)
Feisty Dan got me today! Thanks for putting out for free something so high valuable as this. It makes me even more eager to join your paid courses, since putting 7 Days Writer Challenge in action already changed my perspective about how simpler (not necessarily easier) it is to build the path towards my life vision, than I thought. Studying and doing courses for over 10 years now, led me to your lessons to break me out of inertia after all. I can see already the day I meet you in person, and tell you all about how I made that vision into life. And so it is 🌄
I've tried several times to build a brand on social media, with varying degrees of success. I was always disappointed. Guess what - I never networked. The idea of actually talking to people on social media put me off. How did I expect to grow?! Thank you Dan, huge value in your content as always, appreciate it.
I think the part about reaching out to 100 people, while being kind and having something to offer, is a really good idea that could definitely lead to long lasting meaningful connections, especially if you incorporate step 1 of the process, and you actually WANT to connect with these people.
❤this. I’ve been in sales for >30 years and this is the secret to my success BUT brought to the internet vs physical presence
Man the amount of value I derive from this video as a PT trying to build a personnal brand is crazy
"I'm feeling feisty today" LOL. Story of my life😂 Fabulous video Dan. Nothing but TRUTH
Thanks for your feisty vibes. 'Just get your shit together'. Solid advice. Starting my own business after leaving state teaching and your teaching has been invaluable. Much appreciated. Have a most excellent day :)
I watch one of yours videos per day first thing in the morning and I really inspired by a lot of them. Thank you.
Dan, It s take me one hour to understand the whole vid since I dont speak english, It s surely worth it. ✨✨✨
Dan I liked your direct style of coming to the point. I really value people who have the ability of cutting through the BS and giving a valuable message in just a few secs. Commendable wisdom gained through self work! Precious indeed!
From one Dan to another, great video! The biggest key is the fact that you cannot do this if you’re in a heavy, “give me” mode, looking for an instant come up.
And it’s amazing how intuitively one can create relationships this way when there’s real authenticity and a genuine desire to serve. ❤️🔥🙌🏾
Hey Dan, i am amazed about how you share years of the most valuable experience you can have - rial and error. Just like that, in a free video.
You inspired me to sctually take action now. Not "when the time is right".
Thank you for all of the value you provide us with Dan! Sending lot's of love, light and blessings to all out there! 🙏🏻💞✨
I’ve never considered that this ‘uncertain’ path, is actually the ‘short-cut’ to success that people aren’t willing to leave the ‘security’ for. 🤯 thanks Dan 🙏
Man. It's so crazy. I hear your mental and it reminds me exactly of myself. It's speaking to me exactly where I'm at in my online journey. It's insane. Thank you.
As a very introverted person, that was the last straw! I'm getting my shit together starting now.
So glad I listened to this at your recommendation in one of your podcasts. I listen and watch your videos. I so much appreciate how you get right into the specifics especially your clear thinking and straight forward explanations. Plus the feisty hard hitting your provide gets me out of my head. Thank you very much!
Dan thanks for giving me my confidence back!!
I have downplayed myself, skills and potentials for so long.
Speaking up, asking for help, and not reaching out made me lost a lot of opportunities.
I repent.
Dan, I related to your story during school. In the 80s introverts had a hard time to find their space.
This video was very important to me, to find my niche in such a big space.
I love how I can come back to these videos like its a fresh water spring. Your views per viewer metric must be crazy.
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Dan, I notice that you always give such high value tips! I really connect with your videos because you provide great gems without making it icky or way to flashy. Your casual approach has really allowed me to access the knowledge and approach you're sharing!
Hey Taylor
Are you on LinkedIn? Can we talk?
@@okonkwomiracle6281 Sure!
Such great breakdown that eases the stress of networking. Thank you for reaffirming that it’s not that complicated, and the opportunities can really compound over time.
This is so valuable, thanks Dan! I've been inspired by the clarity of your thoughts and how you confirm the longings of my heart for self actualization.
I've a time management podcast for professionals and I hope to have you as a guest this year.
Haha.
Good to see you on this post @Heaven😅
Woowww Dan, your video really changed my mind on building relationship! As a new grad from Computer Science (a total nerd and introvert), i felt the urge to starts talking and expanding my network, and your video had the best tips I’ve heard on how to use social media!
Thank you so much 😊
As an introvert, this helps a lot!
what you’re giving us is the magic recipe of defeating the ever lurking spiral of addiction to social media: don’t be the drug addict, be the drug dealer. By offering a really good drug - in the most positive sense. I should and will use this quote, inspired by you :)
I've been doing some of these intuitively and this video just gave me a good pat on the back.
Thank you, Dan.
I love that your videos are a solid mix between short form with great content and long form that isn’t to long. Great stuff
I just watched this video and the two before it - my perspective on the creator economy and the potential that exists has completely changed. Thanks Dan. Value received.
The very first video i've viewed on this channel and the reaching out to people over dms really stuck out to me. Something so simple! But I'd never really considered before. This is just what i needed to hear before starting my own business and posting content online. Thanks Dan!
Hey dan! Know that you have been impacting my life in ways you cannot imagine! Probably we will meet in the future, with me having the prospects to do so! Thank you so much!
Deeply appreciate you my friend, glad I can have an impact🤝
Wow. Very beneficial points that others will charge an arm, a leg, and an organ for. Thank you Dan 🙌🏽
Hi dear Dan
I beg your pardon for my poor English, but I try hard to write to you expressing my admiration for you and the content you provide, and you should know that I follow all your videos and wait for all your new
I hope to meet you someday
Greetings from Algeria
I was waiting for this one. Thanks.
Hey Dan--this was so helpful. I love the way you build engagement with people you want to connect with. Great info. Thanks!
Best thing about internet and social media is, there's no time period constraint over a piece of art going popular. Like in before, if a very good art couldn't just become that famous, it was gone, pressed beneath the current world scenario timeline forever, only known to some few. But now there could be just one person finding something unique which has been underrated, and upload it on the internet, and boom, it goes viral, everybody's talking about it!! The art got it's value finally!
You’ve motivated me as a TH-camr to start communicating more. I just want to create things, be with my family and sometimes study / game.
Thank you for the tips. I find real value in your method
When ever I watch your video , its like I have entered some another dimension .Thanks man!
Thank you Dan! Your simple way of explaining things that I’ve thought about in the past but could never fully understand amazes me once again. Much love❤
Dan, I am you from the past. There was no internet when I was in school. I did a summer painting franchise in the 90’s… failed miserably, but learned a lot. Seems like that would be easy today, but that’s after 30 years of experience I didn’t have in the 90’s.
I laughed out loud at the end of this because it is just so damn true. Dan Koe with absolute truth bombs again. 🔥
bro, i do enjoy watching your videos, super informative, before doing anything after i wake up, i just watch a video so ill function better throughout the day ahead
incredible video Dan! I've recently gotten a few viral reels and they've I've been engaging with everyone that's started to follow me!
You're totally right when it comes to DMs that lead with value. I start by thanking the person for the follow/engagement then ask what questions they have related to my niche. From there almost everyone replies with either just a double tap or they ask questions (thus leading me to provide more value by answering them) or even straight up they ask to get signed up to work with me!
Really appreciate all the free content you've put out!
Good example of implementing what he is talking about.
@@geoattoronto yeah man, we can all do it. Never been easier bro!
I am grateful for this straightforward insight. Too often this type of information is presented in a punching-down manner that can render some listeners deaf. The concept discussed here is one of my first and greatest excuses/stumbling blocks to growth. I've known for a long time that I need to know movers and shakers, experts and the impassioned, but my impostor syndrome b.s. always shoots it down with "What the eff can I bring to this person's life? They're literally the expert and I am the nobody. Even nobodies don't have time for nobodies, or else I wouldn't be trying to improve my situation in life." Blah blah blah. It just feels like such a Herculean task to get past that internal barrier. But nothing worth doing is easy or fast.
Hi Dan, thank you for your content. I'm building my life after a 2week coma and extensive brain damage. I started learning how to create wordpress website and I'm enjoying it. After watching this video, I have decided to get back on social media (I deleted all my accounts after my brain injury) and find friends :)
I really appreciate your content. I don’t even know how I rabbit holed to your channel, but I’m glad I did. As an introvert that does not yet have a business and also being a mother to an introvert this content is 2x the value. You’ve put me on a trajectory to map out my 12 year olds life goals working from the end in mind. We now know the lifestyle he wants means making 347k/ year. I have no idea how to do that, so here I am learning for both of our sakes. He knows he can build a dope life for himself, but that takes intention and we can start making progress towards that life now.
Powerful
What type of lifestyle does your 12yo want? I am also a single Mom to a 12yo boy, but I just know he wants to be robotics engineer. Also, I have seen him google “highest paying jobs”. Right now, I just support him as best as I know and encourage him, continue learning programming languages/ coding and to form good habits now (no procrastinating, for example). I’m curious what kind of conversations you are having with your 12yo? I have very much room for improvement and you sound like a good Mom..
If I am passionate; I am extroverted; if I am in just in my own pace of life; I am introverted ♥️ this may be helpful
Dan, discovered your channel two weeks ago. I’m wowed by the value you provide. What hit home is the Twitter info. I’ve been on Twitter since 2011, had over 2500 followers doing nothing. After hearing you, I need to jump back on it. Thanks!
I needed this paradigm shift confirmation. I'd been thinking this for so long, had my own confirmations, but you said what I needed to hear. Much appreciated.
I get more useful information in 1 minute than an entire day spending outside Dan's channel =) Thanks, Dan.
As someone who wants to be music producer i know the importance of networking i dont really use social media but i know i will use social media for the benefit of networking
Content is 🔥
Modern Mastery HQ is 🔥
Being a part of the Sprint is 🔥
Feisty Dan giving 26:24 is def 🔥
Thanks🖤for all you share man🙏🏾
Just found your channel and a lot of your life philosophies I think we share.
I’m a big proponent for people finding their purpose and passions to then use it as a gift to the world/ collective.
I’d consider myself an extroverted introvert so it’s a challenge for me to be in social situations sometimes but I do enjoy conversations that lead to inspiration and growth.
Sometimes I get so discouraged to share and talk about my podcast because of imposter syndrome and comparisons.
If you ask me what I want to do with my life it’d be that. But I have a hard time being consistent with it. I feel like I should stop doing it all together but then when I actually get the opportunity to have a conversation with my guests I get so refreshed. It’s weird. I’m kinda rambling but this comment section seems like a great space to let this out.
Pants-on-Fire inspiration...I've been on X/Twitter since 2009 and haven't done much on it lately, but now following you there (subbed here)! Thank you
The amount of value you give is astounding my friend 🔥
Hey man, yours is the finest channel i have come across with whom I resonate so much
I have started to think very profoundly of these things
You are really creating a genuine impact my friend, i really wanna see your channel grow
And i wish you a very luck.
Thank you for your content! You’ve opened my eyes to the digital renaissance. I have so much information I’ve learned over the years, and I didn’t know how to systemize the information to create profitable products or services I enjoy. Your content is gold to those who see its value. I am encouraged to develop a discipline around writing and messaging like-minded creators. Thank you again!
All of this is pure gold Dan! As a fellow introvert, it's been a growing process to get out of my shell. Wish I learned this a lot early in life :-) Thank you!
Thank you for recommending this video in your other video. I agree it is under-utilized. Great conversation!
Great video Dan , this was what I needed, I just found about your videos this morning, thanks a lot Dan.
I often come back to your content whenever I'm doubting my ability to build an audience on here. Your content is gold so its a big thank you from me man
He is ahead of his time, his advice is perfect for the next generation of content creators
yo, your content really helps a lot
I've been watching a couple videos, got so motivated to start writing more and creating content
thank you !!!!!!
big love
Completely shifted my perspective when it comes to networking. Thanks Dan
Thank you for this video: it brings more clarity for how to grow in social media and freelancing. So many of us get caught up in paralysis of analysis for the simple fact that we don't know a good strategy for getting started and therefore don't take action. I'm definitely guilty of this myself.