How to accept body hair ✨unapologetically✨ even pubic hair
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
- Your hair isn't the problem, it's your mindset, on a deeper level it's societies mindset that's the issue. Truthfully it isn't something you alone can completely fix, whilst you can learn to embrace your body hair, the root of the issue is our culture/sexism/capitalism. I want to empower you, the hairy woman, because unapologetically loving yourself (and the natural state of your body) isn't always easy. Let me share the things we can do to combat the anti-hair narrative.
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Body hair is natural, healthy, feminine and beautiful
totally 💗🥰💘😘💖
No it's not both man and wemon don't need body hair
What if its on a boy 😂😂
its more natural than feminine bc every gender develops it
im only 12 but i have hair on my stomach, legs, basically everywhere and my mom wont let me shave so I have to live with it and my school has a lot of ... annoying boys who pick on me all the time and the teachers dont even care.
Hey, I know what you’re going through and it’s so so hard and upsetting, I’m sorry you’re in this situation. The boys who pick on you don’t know what they are saying (they are just copying each other), they should take the time to realise all girls have hair, it’s natural & healthy. These boys are simply clueless. I have hair absolutely everywhere! I’m so hairy - and I do shave but not often anymore. I promise you there are kind people out there who will appreciate you for you.❤️❤️
What does your mum think about the nasty boys? And body hair? I’m sure she’s had similar experiences growing up. My dad was really unhappy when I started shaving - but it was either disappoint my dad or be singled out by my classmates. It’s such an unfair pressure on us girls because either way we loose. Please know you can come to me always and ask me anything 🥰🥰🥰
@@alessiasutherberry Btw thank you so much for taking the time to reply most people dont lol
You're too young to have this pressure. I can understand your mum might feel you are too young to need to shave. All girls have body hair, some more than others. It's natural. Have another chat with your mum about the fact that you're being picked on. Maybe she would help you choose something to remove noticeable hair, if it's really bothering you (lower legs, for example). Surely boys don't need to know about any other body hair at your young age? Stay strong. You're beautiful. You're normal. 🥰
I know, I was there too 😢
you have to get through the painful experiences with these silly boys in order to experience the pure blissful men you attract when you're older that appreciate you embracing your womanhood.
I only wish as a 22 year old female that i started sooner, good luck sweetheart
thank you for this video! I'm literally hairy and I have noticeable hair everywhere. all my childhood I didn't like myself so much for this and other children humiliated me, although it's not a disease, it's just genetics from my Iranian dad, so I began to shave, but there were irritations and I began to constantly dress closed. now I'm on the path of self-acceptance, I can shave my legs, armpits and arms, but I do it intermittently and try to accept my body and appearance. your videos really help me to become more confident, I like your thoughts and your atmosphere, you're very inspiring 🌿🤍
I am so so glad to hear you are starting to accept your body/body hair. It's so difficult to do in this world! So, you are amazing for putting the effort in and getting somewhere. ❤ Proud of you! Sending a big hug your way. x
That's great to hear! I myself am on the path to self-acceptance.
tbh the sort of person whod be grossed out by my body hair isnt the sort of person id want to be with anyway; in a sense, my hair is like an easy filter!
Right!
I love this video! I personally love how I look with hair - it makes me feel more like a woman and less like a girl. But I still find myself feeling self-conscious when others can see it, specifically under my arms. I think a lot of it is in my head but I can tell when it draws people’s gaze. But I think it’s important I keep it as I do love it and the more I exist with it in public the more comfortable and confident I will become. Thank you for this video ❤️ There seems to be a sea of people saying the opposite, it’s refreshing to hear someone talk so positively about body hair!
It's totally normal to feel self-conscious about your body hair when we live in a society with unfair expectations. But your confidence in embracing it is inspiring. ❤ Thank you for sharing your positive perspective on body hair my lovely xxxx
Finding you last year was the best thing that happened to me, i lovr binge watching your videosss💕✨
As a man I love hairy women. My wife is hairy and it's such a turn on for me.
Glad you are talking about this. The reason for modern attitudes about women and body hair goes back to the 1920’s. When Old Man Gillette, realized he was only selling razors to half the population. He then created a guilt inducing advertising campaign targeting women. You can look up the advertising yourself. It was aimed at making people view hair on women’s legs and underarms as unattractive. This is the only reason women shave. It is so nice to hear a young lady like yourself talking about it. It is also nice, when I’m out in public, to see women who don’t shave. This older man loves to see women choosing for themselves how they keep their bodies. It’s not a turn off. It is how a woman’s body is supposed to be.
Practically speaking....God designed us WITH HAIR for a reason. Somewhere along the line, women ( & men) have bought into a narrative that women should be ashamed of hair in nether regions. For me.....
" Natural RULES!!!!"
walking in my OWN home in front of my OWN family without shaved legs for the first time had to have been one of the most anxiety inducing things i've ever experienced. thank you for this video, i'm trying to built up the courage to go out with friends in shorts
This was very comforting, thank you. I feel beautiful and feminine when growing out my bodyhair and am sick of people not being able to look past my decision of not shaving. I dont get why i’m told it’s ‘unhygenic’ even though unshaved men are seldom told that. This video really felt like advice from a big sister I never had, thank you!
I remember the first time I felt ashamed of my body hair. I was a teenager, and my friends would often joke about their own hairless legs and arms. I, on the other hand, had a thick layer of dark hair on my arms, legs, and even my face. I felt like a freak, like I was the only one who didn't fit in.
As I grew older, the shame only intensified. I would spend hours waxing, shaving, and tweezing, trying to rid myself of the hair that seemed to grow back overnight. I felt like I was in a constant battle with my own body.
But the more I tried to fight my body hair, the more it seemed to fight back. Ingrown hairs, razor burn, and painful waxing sessions became the norm. And yet, I couldn't stop. I felt like I had to conform to societal beauty standards, even if it meant hurting myself in the process.
One day, something inside of me snapped. I was exhausted from the constant struggle, and I realized that I couldn't keep living like this. I started to question why I was trying so hard to change my body to fit someone else's idea of beauty.
That's when I discovered body positivity. I started reading about self-love, self-acceptanc and the beauty of women's natural bodies. I saw pictures of women with hairy arms and legs, and they were proud of their bodies! They were beautiful, strong, and confident.
For the first time in my life, I felt like I could be myself. I stopped waxing, shaving, and tweezing, and let my body hair grow. It was scary at first, but as I looked in the mirror, I saw a strong, capable, and beautiful person staring back at me.
I realized that my body hair was a part of me, and it was beautiful. It was a symbol of my strength, my resilience, and my uniqueness. I no longer felt ashamed of my body; I felt proud of it.
I still have days when I struggle with self-doubt, but I know that I am not alone. I have a community of body-positive warriors who remind me that I am enough, just as I am. And when I look in the mirror, I see a person who is worthy of love, respect, and admiration - body hair and all!
Thank you for sharing your beautiful journey. It's so inspiring ❤️
Shaving or not to shave should be personal preference. No one should be forced to do either thing❤
agreed my love ❤
For thousands of years it wasn't a problem.
thank you so much for this video, i needed it 🩵
aw thank you so much for this comment ❤ ❤ ❤ I also needed it xx
A female without hair on her body and her stomach area does not look mature like a grown-up woman she just doesn't
Very important video, much needed. Your videos are so empowering. I love seeing women support each other. You are so relatable. ❤🎉
Thank you for this video, i am so much insecure cause of other people and i really look up to them cause i want them to be happy how i look etc, i wanna be pretty for others and even in relationship i have big anxiety about this
This really helped me. Thank you ❤
Aw thank you for commenting lovely 🥰💗❤️
I think it's important to trim it a bit, so it doesn't become too bushy, but it's your personal choice. Everyone has their preferences. In fact, I find it even hot, if women have some body hair, because I am into natural women. Yes, even under the arms, legs and arms. So, dear women, if you have some hair on your arms, under your arms, on your legs, and in your genital area, and you feel comfortable with it, leave it. What's really important is that you feel comfortable in your body. And the same is for the contrary. Some women might prefer shaving themselves, because they personaly love it, instead of doing it because society tells one so. Remember that it's a personal choice. There will always be people who dislike you. There is nothing disgusting or non-feminine about pubic hair, as long as you keep it clean.
I don't mind body hair on other people and I think the decision to remove body hair or not should be up to the individual.
However, I personally can't stand how my body hair feels on my own skin and my underarm hair worsens my body odor, so personally I prefer to shave.
Body hair is neither great nor glorious. It is just there. No one "lets" their hair grow, it just does. The question is, how do you justify shaving?
I think that the natural hair on women's bodies is lovely!
Im almost gonna be 12 and i have very hairy legs. Im really insecure about it. My mom told me i can shave for the first time only when i finish 7th grade. Im gonna be 6th grade this September and i just cant wait to shave. Theres girls in my class who already started shaving and i really want hairy legs to be normalized.
I don’t mind the hair but when it starts to grow too much and wearing jeans it irritates my legs so that’s when I shave them and it feels so smooth and clean but then here comes the bumps so I use the calm Eucerin which doesn’t stop the hair from growing back but who cares I appreciate my body for the way it is and if other people don’t then too bad it’s my body not theirs everyone has their own preference I think people need to stop acting childish and worry about themselves.
Nice explanation
you're so kind:) thank you lovely x
**** I love women who let their bodies be natural. I remember one time I was interested with a girl who I knew would be hairy, (hair on her arms sideburns, and thick eyebrows. When we finally got intimate, I was so very disappointed because she was shaved. What a let down.
Love just be your self enjoy your body ,do not listen to other people, they should take you as you are if they are not worth known
i love natural women! They way that nature supposed to make them! All these society standards are made up just for them to spend a fortune for something they actually don`t need!
Real men love hairy woman!
Best thing I ever did. Got myself a bf who doesn't care and I couldn't be happier. No shame if he sees me naked
I love the video!!! Also where is your top from, it’s so cute.
thank you so much my love ! You know the top is my mums! She got it years and years ago on holiday. ❤❤
My wife does not have very much hair. She does shave her arm pits but that is it. She does not have very much hair on her arms or legs. She did ask me if I want her to shave her pubic hair. I said no. I think it is very sexy and I wish she had more. Think about that. If she ever wants her pubic hair shaved I told her that will be my job. I like her just as she is. Thoughts?
I LOVE THIS AND YOU SO MUCH
I love you babe ❤ thank you:)
I genuinely have never been bothered by my body hair because it’s a natural part of puberty. Also I feel like being a lesbian helps me with it because there’s the stereotype of lesbian not shaving so I grew up with the belief that I shouldn’t shave.
Hello Alessia. I admire your courage to even talk about a topic like this. I'm a female in my upper 40s just for a little context. Would you be open to a few personal questions?
I wouldn't date any woman unless she's entirely natural. Hairy armpit, hairy body parts. Simple. In the old days, that was natural, beautiful, feminine. Unfortunately this society is really ill, and everything has become very distorted.
It is time to stop the shaving .
Do people really dislike natural women????
Or do they dislike it because of other people's opinions ????
Dont let others make your mind on this issue.
Dont be sheep !
What happened at 3:48
beautiful smile
thank you ❤🥰
Hi Alesia,
Great presentation. I’m an American who lives in Japan. I’m glad that I live in Japan because most normal Japanese girls are natural and do not shave their pubic hairs. I only prefer women with a natural bush and can never be with a woman without pubic hair.
Just a glimpse of pubic hair is exciting.
Hair on a woman, especially downstairs is a massive turn on for me. I'd rather be with a real woman than someone who's trying so hard to look like a girl.
Good answer
30 / 5 000
I love armpit hair and sticking out lingery hair. Especially when I see it on a beautiful pretty woman.
Fortunately, it can be seen on more and more beautiful women like you, but it is still very rare in everyday life..
And a man will be stoned if he likes it or asks his partner to have hair. Not excessive hair on arms and legs is also acceptable.
I would be happy if my girlfriend was like that. But I don't understand why you keep talking about it, why don't you dare show your arm hair or armpit hair?
Do you think you would get negative reviews about it?
Why "even"?
I'm a 35 year old man that actually prefers an all natural woman. Good video.
I love women with there natural body hair ! I don’t care if a woman doesn’t shave her armpits, and I like it if her legs and arms are fuzzy ! I really like a natural bush even when it’s crawling up to the bellybutton ! I think that’s sexy ! Thanks for your Great Video ! 🌺🌺❤️❤️❤️❤️🌺🌺
🎉NAWWW YOU NEED TO SHAVE THAT IF YOU ARE A FEMALE!!
Imagine the cave people men should accept and embrace whatever makes her happy more natural = more primal = more sophisticated
I think it also really depends a lot on where you're from too. My wife and I are both proud possessors of extremely thick and dark armpit and pubic bushes...both of our armpit and pubic bush growth areas are massive, probably due to both of us having strong German ancestry... and also pretty noticeable leg hair too which we both have had since we started dating in our teens in our junior year in high school. Nothing special about that since we grew up in the pacific northwest, USA where plenty of our classmates had full grown facial hair if they were guys and there were also plenty of other girl classmates who also kept their full armpit, leg and pubic hair. When we go to the beach in our local area, nobody gives us a second look or says anything negative and indeed when we go to one of the several nudist beaches around here where we can both display our full body bushes for all to see, we've gotten some pretty thoughtful, amazing and supportive comments. However, when we've gone several hundred miles down south to the beaches in California which we've done several times, and people there see our armpit bushes, leg hair and the more than obvious pubic hair growth protruding out around the edges of our bathing suit bottoms and going down the sides of our inner thighs, it's like we've both got some awful, contagious disease or something! Some of the looks and comments we've been given have been positively rude which of course is pretty annoying but the flip side of that coin is that they've also been so stupid that it also cracks us both up as much as it annoys us, lol! I think it just illustrates just how much the thinking and opinions can change in such a relatively short distance when it comes to guy and gal body hair. Thank you also for posting this video. It's very informative and inspiring without being preachy or dictating. The world needs more women like yourself who can express themselves so eloquently but also so down to earth when it comes to adult body hair.
Ladies, grow hair anywhere you want, but don't expect high-value men to find you attractive. A pubic landing strip or treasure trail is okay, but in general, no hair please below the eyebrows. If we wanted a hairy wildebeast, we'd go on safari.
Woman SHOULD NOT have hairy arm pits or legs ! Plain AND Simple.
And yet women grow hair at these places. Go figure
@@carina-nonbinary That's fine for them. Personally, I do not care for hair on a woman's legs or arm pits.
@@bigoneleesmith6969And that’s fine, but then I guess your just not for those women then. Find one that does match your preferences.
YEAUCH!!! GROSS!!! SMOOTH SHAVEN IS BEST!!!
everyone has different preferations and everyone is different.
You when humans are mammals 😮
Shave it or u desrve to be single and unhappy and childless
dude wth XD
Absolute incel. Let me guess, youre projecting and have never felt the touch of a woman?
And I assume from that comment that you have never met a woman ?
The best way to stop stigmatizing body hair is to never start shaving. Keep your daughters away from razors and don’t teach them that stuff. You wouldn’t love her less just for growing up.
This is true, I’ve never touched a razor in my life and it’s just because I didn’t want to and my mom didn’t make me.
@@odothedoll2738 HI FELLOW LESBIAN
sorry off topic
@@SlavLesbo AAAAAYYYYYYYYEEEE LEGGO
My mom never told me about shaving and never shaved but the pressure at school was enough for me to get my best friend to buy me a razor. Now i'm trying to be confident with my body hair
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@@sofiaquintieri4750 thank you so much for sharing this. I’m going to watch it later! ❤️❤️❤️