life update 2023: moving on....

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  • for those that are going through it too.. I hope my vulnerability can help.
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  • @tonirojo4542
    @tonirojo4542 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I’m glad you two were emotionally intelligent enough to decide to love each other from far before things got messy. Sometimes humans get so lost in the idea of the perfect relationship we neglect our selves, we forget to live selfishly in the moment and enjoy life in every way not only romantically. I’m glad you’re on the right path to your own happiness. Good luck on your healing journey ❤️

  • @torievaz8346
    @torievaz8346 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I appreciate you always being so open and honest. Sometimes people are meant to be in your life for a short time to show you different things and learn different lessons. Everyone is an experience and she was definitely an amazing experience. ❤

  • @lassam333
    @lassam333 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Sometimes relationships are not meant to last. Wish you all the best for the next chapter of your life. I'll definitely stick around. Sending you lots of love! ❤❤❤

  • @dayanarasaltos1053
    @dayanarasaltos1053 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Are we all dealing with a breakup?

  • @sharnebennett9725
    @sharnebennett9725 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    We love a self-aware queen ❤ you got this I've watched you since day one and you've always been self-aware you can do this just take one second at a time 🌻

  • @ScarletEve00
    @ScarletEve00 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I struggle with self-love too. This video motivated me to get into that. Sending you so much love and positive vibes you ❤️🫶🏾

  • @dorabezonsky2493
    @dorabezonsky2493 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Thank you for being vulnerable, Tati! I saw your tweet a few days ago about looking for a therapist. I am an LGBT affirmative therapist and have been following you for a long time. If you want to talk or consult about therapy, I am here. Take care of yourself. You know how to show yourself love the best❤️

  • @perladelmarr_
    @perladelmarr_ ปีที่แล้ว

    awww precious ! praying for strength, & healing! you got this sis! 🙌🏼💕🥹🌷

  • @nohemih
    @nohemih ปีที่แล้ว +7

    wishing u nothing but the best in this healing journey. remember u are so strong! thank u for sharing with us

  • @soniacardona2235
    @soniacardona2235 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such a beautiful soul 🥺 you got this!!!

  • @AdrianaSanchez-es6bh
    @AdrianaSanchez-es6bh ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video hit home for me. Im currently on the SAME boat as you and it's really so important to grow outside of people. Discovering who you can be on your own is a beautiful thing, It's scary to think about but we can do this and God puts us in these positions for growth. 🤍✨We are all exactly where we need to be.✨Overall I loved this video and thanks for sharing with us. It's kinda relieving knowing this is normal stuff we go through. Much Love T💖

  • @melissalaurean4941
    @melissalaurean4941 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you for being so open and honest with us. I admire you so much! No matter what, you'll always have us, Tati. Wishing you the best in this healing journey!

  • @dianatellez2887
    @dianatellez2887 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Wishing you the best in this new chapter. I’ve been there before where you have to start all over and at times it was hard but having a support system was so important for me. I hope you continue to use self love everyday and push your self everyday to be a better version of yourself. And to those that say love isn’t real. Love comes in many forms and one love that will never fail you is the one you can give to your self.❤

  • @avyanna_p
    @avyanna_p ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Been watching you since day one Tati. Hopefully everything gets better for you. Watching you grow throughout these past years has also made me grow as a better person, so thanks for all your love and positivity 😮‍💨🫶🏼

  • @sammyluvv
    @sammyluvv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love youuuu ❤️❤️ new chapter is gonna bring so many good things, let it all in

  • @WhoIsBlazy
    @WhoIsBlazy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Been here since the beginning and you’ve came a long way for sure! Nothing but blessings & excited to see what you got in store and whatever else you learn along the way 💪🏽❤️

  • @indigo2082
    @indigo2082 ปีที่แล้ว

    i hope this new journey is so beautiful and peaceful for you! it’s hard i’m kinda still struggling with doing things alone (my anxiety makes it hard) but it’s also kinda fun. i call them cute lil solo dates and romanticize the heck out of them.

  • @agoodqualitynoodle3
    @agoodqualitynoodle3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this video. Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us! It is sacred and your boldness to do so and invite us along into your process is quite admirable. Cheering you on from VA, Tati! ❤

  • @sharonsimbol2580
    @sharonsimbol2580 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve been following you from the very beginning and I’m so impressed by your growth. Sending love and healing your way! 💐

  • @rachelcho3841
    @rachelcho3841 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heads up my g, you got this! and a whole life ahead 🤝🏻

  • @leslybatista
    @leslybatista ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve also been at a place where I’ve given so much that I’ve lost myself but I promise through your new journey you will find yourself again. It hurts but it will pass. Continue to pour into yourself and allow yourself to feel all your emotions in the wave that they come and allow yourself grace , you’re human , sending love & light your way ✨

  • @daisydetails8a837
    @daisydetails8a837 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sending you lots of love and growth 🫶🫶

  • @xPrinceRoyce98x
    @xPrinceRoyce98x ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you Tati! You’re an amazing person and I hope nothing but the best for you. I hope you get to find yourself and see your personal growth. And the gray hairs, man I feel it. Only 25 and I get gray hairs like crazy. I just embrace it at this point.

  • @stephanysaucedo4080
    @stephanysaucedo4080 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Tati , Im so happy that you’re doing okay and that you realized you had to take this step for yourself. I’ve been where you’re at , i was in a relationship for five years and i really lost myself . I had the habit of putting everyone else before myself and it came to the point where i would break down and be so stressed all the time. So one day i decided i needed help and i went to therapy. it was scary at first especially being alone and vulnerable. But it was the best decision of my life. I left my relationship, i became independent, and learned how to prioritize myself.. Here i am two years later and Im the happiest I’ve ever been. I’m doing so many things that i wanted to do in my life that i thought i could never do! It does get better with time, it’s okay to put yourself first! I really recommend this book called “The Mastery of Love” it changed my life and taught me how to love myself! Hang in there Tati we love you and we are all here with you! ❤️

  • @itsWendyPerez
    @itsWendyPerez ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hey Tati! I'm always rooting for you. Me at 29, almost 30, I'm still trying to love myself but I'm definitely doing a lot better than my early 20s. It's going take time, so don't worry or feel rushed. Life is beautiful! I'm always proud of you 🙂❤️

  • @lauraaguilera2722
    @lauraaguilera2722 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep your head up!! There’s always a rainbow after every storm

  • @april3285
    @april3285 ปีที่แล้ว

    vulnerability is strength. you got this!! sending love ❤

  • @leorousseau7263
    @leorousseau7263 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can relate to you so much. My gf and I just broke up too and it was difficult to let her go knowing I was the issue. But I hope to be a better person in the future and I’m glad you’re taking care of yourself during this time. Breakups are never easy but they teach us what we need to know and work on. I love watching you and keep up the self love I need to work on it too.

  • @laurenchacon621
    @laurenchacon621 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Lesbian relationships have so much passion it’s hard not to loose urself in eachother. Glad you guys are doing it amicably stay strong stay true to urself ❤

  • @sulianaotakilevuka6404
    @sulianaotakilevuka6404 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awww I love the “im going to continue to keep myself accaountable” I love this for you 🫶🏽

  • @emaniko
    @emaniko ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank u for being vulnerable, this is what the internet shld be about fr!!
    I am so excited for what’s in store for you and to watch you grow to absolutely love yourself!!! Wishing u the absolute best!
    I completely relate to that momentary embarrassment of moving back home. But like u said it rly is a blessing to even be able to do that:’)
    Know that you aren’t alone Tati!
    ❤️

    • @alinasperception
      @alinasperception ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The momentary embarrassment about moving back to your parent’s is so real and i feel like not really talked about. But it’s so true that we’re fortunate enough to have that option.

  • @janethorozco8586
    @janethorozco8586 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you tati! I hope you figure everything out and come back stronger with lots of self love , sometimes it’s necessary 💗

  • @jackiee3990
    @jackiee3990 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love you Tati you’re a huge inspiration to me being a masc hispanic lesbian as well. I look up to you and you’re strong I’ll know you get through this. Time will heal

  • @kaexangel
    @kaexangel ปีที่แล้ว

    in the same boat, it gets easier and it’s so amazing to finally start finding love in yourself and in how you live everyday. To wake up and be excited to see what the day brings, to look at yourself and feel peace. To feel free in your heart, it’s the best feeling. You’ll find it!

  • @alittlebraver351
    @alittlebraver351 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I don't usually write anything on comment section but I want you to know that I'm rooting and praying for your wellbeing. Heal well dear tati and rise again like you always do❤️. Sending love🌼🫂

  • @yeseniadiaz1157
    @yeseniadiaz1157 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your so beautiful! Self love yourself take it easy each day cause everyday goes so fast it’s hard to keep up so just enjoy your life with people you enjoy with ❤

  • @Sh1L0h_italia
    @Sh1L0h_italia ปีที่แล้ว

    Sending love bro ❤️❤️ hope you’re okay !!

  • @Desireree1
    @Desireree1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You’re such a beautiful person from what I’ve seen through the different chapters of your life. I’m sending you all the love and growth to become the best you!🩵

  • @allysonvargas834
    @allysonvargas834 ปีที่แล้ว

    The facetime call mention got me :,* we love youuu!!

  • @casandracardenas
    @casandracardenas ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you so much for opening up, wishing you the best on your healing journey and sending you lots of love ❤

  • @giselao.9239
    @giselao.9239 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My boyfriend of two years broke up w me due to his mental health, he needed space and time to figure out what he had going on for himself and I understood fully, we came back together after 3 months. Sometimes break ups are ok in order to keep having that healthy relationship 🤍 Gods timing is so perfect we question it so often but in the end it all makes sense. You two have beautiful souls and will come back together once you’re both ready! Love u. Sending you abrazos

  • @Aye_yo55
    @Aye_yo55 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate you keepin it real and at the same time keepin it private for yourself.. you will come out on the other side fosho.

  • @Ntobekomnc
    @Ntobekomnc ปีที่แล้ว

    Sending hugs hope you’re okay 🥹🫂

  • @marielamelesio4633
    @marielamelesio4633 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tati, te mereces mucho y mas. El undo intero. We love you ❤️

  • @dianarendon824
    @dianarendon824 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m going through the worst break up ever I was watching this bawling while trying to eat. I resonated with every word and you’re right.. it’s time to put the love and attention on ourselves 👍 if you’re comfortable please share more of your journey with us it’s helpful

  • @kawtharrk452
    @kawtharrk452 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I wanted to tell you how proud I am of you. I know you're going through a difficult time right now, but I want you to know that you have a community that loves you and will always be there for you.
    We appreciate you for who you are as a person, and not just for your romantic relationships. We love hearing you talk, learning new things from you, and we're always touched when you share your experiences with us.
    I hope you'll get back on your feet soon, and that you'll be back among us soon. We love you, and we're excited to see all that you still have to offer us.
    Take care.

  • @briannapalacio6850
    @briannapalacio6850 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Just got out of a 5 yr relationship and on my healing journey as well. Sending you love bb ♥

    • @tiarasilva3123
      @tiarasilva3123 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      how have you been doing?

  • @elisevarico3728
    @elisevarico3728 ปีที่แล้ว

    So excited to see this version of you ❤️❤️

  • @emmy.y._
    @emmy.y._ ปีที่แล้ว

    We love you tati!🫶🏻 I’m so happy for you and can’t wait to watch the next chapter of your life begin❤️‍🩹

  • @alinasperception
    @alinasperception ปีที่แล้ว

    it’s a process for sure. everything is. even if it feels like you’re going backwards i promise you, you’re always progressing and moving forward. we’re all just figuring everything out ourselves. hope you find out more about yourself and learn to love yourself. we love you. take care of yourself. feel what you need to feel🫂

  • @peterluvsem
    @peterluvsem ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i’ve been watching your journey for a few years now, you really are an inspiration, i know it’s tough but u always managed to come back better than before. we love u, take ur time. remember to always put yourself first

  • @janetluna1481
    @janetluna1481 ปีที่แล้ว

    Soo transparent and so raw!! 🥺Your journey is yours and you are okay to be selfish! Investing in you is the best form of self love! Love you Tati ❤

  • @alynacastorena1428
    @alynacastorena1428 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    everything will be okay ❤️ we love you tati!

  • @alisharamirez6046
    @alisharamirez6046 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sis you are beautiful I’m also embracing my greys

  • @lifewaileen6411
    @lifewaileen6411 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love you so much Tati, wishin you the absolute best. Here’s a quote that always helped me “if you’re going through hell, keep going. Why would you wanna stop in hell”

  • @Rooby673
    @Rooby673 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’ve been watching you for a while. I’m not that much older than you but now that I’m 28 I realized how much wisdom naturally have come my way as I get older.I guess all that to say be kind to yourself. You’re 24, you’re not supposed to have it all figured out right now, embrace every stage of your life journey. I promise you when you’re older you gonna look back and appreciate everything you had to go through. you have a lifetime to keep on learning and loving yourself and learning how to love others .

  • @Itsadrianaalfaro
    @Itsadrianaalfaro ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for posting this and we are here with you for this new journey of yours🤍✨

  • @3051107
    @3051107 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your young! Give yourself time to bounce back & be the best version of yourself ❤

  • @StillMessy
    @StillMessy ปีที่แล้ว

    Live your life and thanks for sharing🫶🏾

  • @veronicamichel294
    @veronicamichel294 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can soo relate to the last part you said 😢 I give and give and forget to pour into myself but I'm learning

  • @ivyat
    @ivyat ปีที่แล้ว

    you are loved tati!!!

  • @abraham9181
    @abraham9181 ปีที่แล้ว

    Live your life, Tati. I will always support you and show much love. It’s good you post another video❤🙂🫶🏻

  • @jannelaoropeza7
    @jannelaoropeza7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me da mucho gusto que estes bien, y es lo mejor love yourself ❤

  • @arkie_tek036
    @arkie_tek036 ปีที่แล้ว

    and just when i rmmber checkin on ur utube, this is what i saw, seem like were on d same boat again, cheers to love and life despite the pain

  • @crystalmarie8535
    @crystalmarie8535 ปีที่แล้ว

    i have been watching you for a while & i love watching your videos. sending you so much love during your healing journey. 💞💐🌸

  • @taiteconnor
    @taiteconnor ปีที่แล้ว

    will always be proud of you 🤍

  • @isabellerma2895
    @isabellerma2895 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this Tati

  • @valentinatorrento3727
    @valentinatorrento3727 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    u and lex its time

  • @ashleygarcia2371
    @ashleygarcia2371 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve watched you from the beginning from you’re first TH-cam video when you were 19-20 I believe and one thing that I know for sure is that you get back up again and you do find yourself it does take time for you but you’ll get there and we all believe in you, if you need to step out of social media for a while then do what’s best for you. Take care of yourself and we will all be cheering for you.

  • @koridennis7451
    @koridennis7451 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m heart broken 💔 so many TH-cam couples are breaking up.. I pray for strong , healing journey for you ❤️🙏

  • @MOTIVATIONBYAMAR
    @MOTIVATIONBYAMAR ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish we were friends :( I’ve struggled with this as well and I know you know but just in case, there’s a light at the end of the process. The journey is not a straight line, but as long as you keep going and work on yourself and mindset you will get closer to your true authentic self. You can do this! ❤

  • @khadijajaffer4151
    @khadijajaffer4151 ปีที่แล้ว

    First and foremost u look bomb tati ❤❤,always keep yourself priority❤❤❤ ill stick around and eagerly wait for your other video and see u smiling and happy coz u deserve happiness 😊 💖 ❤

  • @ariannalopez6162
    @ariannalopez6162 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    we love u tati!!🥹 i’ve been here since ur very first yt video before u had a solo channel and i’ve always looked up to you when it comes to having confidence and being urself. i hope ur able to find peace within urself again on ur journey to love urself more. Rooting for u forever❤️

  • @itzelsandoval4912
    @itzelsandoval4912 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You got this Tati, ánimo 💪❤

  • @cele9752
    @cele9752 ปีที่แล้ว

    Silver fox era!!! Let’s go baby

  • @ashhjai
    @ashhjai ปีที่แล้ว

    you deserve the world , I love you. ❤

  • @brianagallaga1099
    @brianagallaga1099 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything happens for a reason. Keep your head up Tati ❤

  • @amyjimenezz3673
    @amyjimenezz3673 ปีที่แล้ว

    love you tati!! 🤍

  • @Angoui
    @Angoui ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww dad we love you ❤️ we're here for you

  • @jmvvvx
    @jmvvvx ปีที่แล้ว

    you got this love:)

  • @jnabes
    @jnabes ปีที่แล้ว

    you got this 🖤

  • @emilythill6012
    @emilythill6012 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wish you all the best ❤

  • @mustachiomaddy
    @mustachiomaddy ปีที่แล้ว

    love you tati, we’re here for you no matter what 🫶🏼

  • @barnaliadhikary9421
    @barnaliadhikary9421 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are absolutely gorgeous dear

  • @naomiloveslana
    @naomiloveslana ปีที่แล้ว

    Side note all of La Roche Posay skincare products are great!! Get that skin right girl

  • @phuti5875
    @phuti5875 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you. I've been following you forever.

  • @chlarasintabenyamin3000
    @chlarasintabenyamin3000 ปีที่แล้ว

    kind person deserve the kind one. love u ❤

  • @harumivargas1299
    @harumivargas1299 ปีที่แล้ว

    You got this tati 🫶

  • @areeas8368
    @areeas8368 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me and my girl going through it lately
    I can’t imagine a break up 😞
    I’m sorry Tati
    Stay up❤️🫶🏼

  • @joannaestrada2042
    @joannaestrada2042 ปีที่แล้ว

    everything happens for a reason love u tatiii🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @allysonvasquez1862
    @allysonvasquez1862 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awwwwww tati your so so amazing and thanks for this video and thank you for sharing your feelings and valenable and love you so much tati I always support you no matter what you do your wonderful always ❤️💗💗💗

  • @seshlauren
    @seshlauren ปีที่แล้ว

    Im 26 with dirty blonde hair and have a gray strip. I get some comments about it or at the hair salon. I’m just like it’s the least of my worries 😅

  • @veronicamichel294
    @veronicamichel294 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so proud of you! Self love is a hard journey but it is possible!!!! Take it day by day ❤ I'm still on that self love journey you're not ALONE

  • @barnaliadhikary9421
    @barnaliadhikary9421 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Self analysis snd growith is important... Every experience in life is really valuable... Its alright... It shall only add on to your wisdom, gradually will make you more matured...
    Keep up with the journey with finding yourself... that's all

  • @vianeylimas1520
    @vianeylimas1520 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love youuu tati❤️❤️

  • @yeseniavigil2600
    @yeseniavigil2600 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    loving ourselves is always the hardest thing to do but it will be worth it at the end, im about to be 25 in July and due to my past i find it extremely hard to fully love myself, it's a journey and a rollercoaster all in one but if i learned anything in this life is that there is nothing more beautiful in life than genuinely loving yourself 🫶🏼 much love for you Tati, you are strong and have a beautiful soul, keep pushing and we are always here for you ❤️‍🩹

  • @gabrieladoloris986
    @gabrieladoloris986 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You’ve ALWAYS had such a pure heart. Way back from when we were in high school, you’ve remained to always be yourself. And that’s something you should always be proud of. Love you Tati 💗

  • @Itsadrianaalfaro
    @Itsadrianaalfaro ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We love you🥹❤️🫶🏼

  • @avacairns9126
    @avacairns9126 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm with you 💜💜💜💜

  • @michelleoliveros35
    @michelleoliveros35 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you tatiii 💓