One time I went out with a guy who was a professional tennis coach at a large resort near where I live. A friend of mine set us up, and yes, he was very good looking. As we were talking at dinner he turned to me and said, "I'm actually having a really nice time. This is a nice change for me. I'm used to dating women who are very attractive. That's usually my type." I looked at the guy and responded, "I totally understand what you are saying and this is a nice change for me as well. I'm used to dating guys who are really intelligent and have very intellectual jobs. That's usually my type. I don't know where that response came from or how I came up with it so quickly, but I was super proud of myself. Needless to say, that was our last date.
Sometimes we regret what we wish we would’ve said, but sometimes our brains just come out with a brilliant retort. One time the guy I talk to told me I’m a little fat. I said, well you’re a little short but you’ve never heard me bring that up. He was like 👀
I’m so glad that you thought of it in the moment, and didn’t remember later. I would’ve paid money to see the look on his face. Guys like that are not used to women sticking up for themselves
18 going out and some older guy, it old him many times I wasn’t his doll! He starting to harass me. Still going on being his doll, so I kicked right where he didn’t like it because he grabbed me. So I was at the place where I was regular and the doorman big felleas picked him up threw him out and told him don’t ever to mess with me again. Strangely I wasn’t hit on after that 😂. The doorman told me to be careful because he’s a nutcase that was trying to hit on younger girls to have them beating them up and hard to get away. I saw him again when leaving he followed me so I went up and told him if he wanted to keep his balls to leave me alone because I was used to narcissistic man and I ate them as breakfast and won’t bother to put my knife there. My friend was looking for a cop that drove around he flagged them down that dude went in prison because they found out he was drugging girls up.
Nice! Isn’t that so satisfying. A time I can recall having a good response in the moment was when I was waiting tables a million years ago and a guy told me to come sit on his lap and “ we would talk about the first thing that popped up” … I told him I wasn’t into “ small “ talk.
One time my husband and I went to a restaurant and I ordered the nachos. When the waitress asked if I wanted the small or large I said large. My husband said "no, she'll take the small". The waitress looked at him like she couldn't believe what a jerk he was. After she walked away he said that he noticed the table next to us got a large and it could have easily fed at least 3 people. He was absolutely correct, I would have never been able to eat that much. When he asked why I was giggling I told him that the waitress probably thought he was fat shaming me. I'm pretty average sized. He was so embarrassed that he felt in necessary to explain himself to the waitress when she came back with the food.
And he couldn't have just said "babe, that table over there has the large, are you sure you want that?" I mean, it could still be seen as an AH move by the server, but he could have asked. Maybe you were hungry or wanted leftovers
@@kerrysater157 He was embarrassed by the the waitresses reaction, not mine. We have been together for over 20 years so I know he would never say something like that to make me feel bad. It was just his immediate reaction. He also suffers from a stutter that comes out when he feels pressure to speak like with wait staff so he probably wasn't thinking that hard about it. I get what you are saying though.
Me and my ex-wife went to a Chinese joint one time, we each ordered something different, and when they brought it, each one was enough to feed four people.
The *ONLY* time a guy made a disparaging comment about my weight on a date I got straight up and left immediately, didn't say goodbye, didn't pay the check, just picked up my purse and walked straight out, got in my car, went home, and blocked his number. I have neither the time nor the inclination to deal with that sort of bullshit. That's why when I was dating I insisted on driving myself to my dates, cause you'll never know when you'll need to leave. You owe your date *NOTHING* not even your presence. My husband has never been anything other than complementary towards my appearance.
That's great. It seems like the lady in the video went out with the man and gave him multiple opportunities to talk about her body. That's the feeling I got from the video. I kept thinking to myself, "Why did you give him multiple opportunities to insult you?" She should have walked out the first time he said something. It says alot about her as well.
@julvwildcat190 it screamed narcissistic behaviour on his part to me sounds like you're victim blaming but that's my opinion and the way I took your comment maybe he would compliment her at other times and that's why she gave him so many chances? Some women stay with men like that when they have low self esteem etc which I can relate to
@@julvwildcat190 Sometimes when people are treated poorly they begin to believe that's what they deserve. It's possible that she thought he was "out of her league" because of her own self esteem issues, and he worked hard to reinforce that belief in her. As a child I watched my mother be positively beaten down in an abusive relationship for years, to the point where she convinced herself that she deserved it. After seeing that I knew I would much rather be alone than to ever be with someone who treated me poorly. Because I had experience with abusive situations I knew how to recognize the red flags quickly, a lot of people don't see those red flags until it's too late and they're already emotionally invested. Also abusers are *very* good at hiding their true colors and getting you to doubt your own reality. It seems like this lady did eventually see him for who he was and get out of that situation which I'm very proud of her for.
@@elizabethdarroch3000 I'm not victim blaming. But like you said some women have low self esteem and stay with men like these. In no way did I say she deserved to be treated poorly.
5:29 as a disabled person these are the easiest way for me to decorate for the holidays. I don’t have to worry about climbing a ladder, or forgetting that they’re up. I love lights, I just don’t have the energy.
The girl with the 100.000 $ question brought it to herself. He answered PERFECTLY. She implied with her question HERSELF that there is her AND another "prettier girl".
Yeah. We have to stop acting like we’re special snowflakes that Our boyfriend/husbands Think we are the most prettiest in the world. First of all that doesn’t last long and you get older. Second, unless he is a 10!himself, He isn’t getting with the hottest girl in the world. Third, there’s more attractiveness than Your looks. You could be the prettiest girl in the world and it makes you ugly because you’re a nasty person. She said her self up to be disappointed with that question, because no matter how he answered that she was going to be upset. I learned myself pretty early, and I’ve taught my children: Never think you are the absolute best always add something whether it’s looks or a talent. Even if you are the best now, it’s some thing, we get older, and our abilities get worse. Someone will end up being better than you or someone on that being better than you before that because you weren’t the best you just thought you were. Better to do your best and let that be enough. The same goes for attractiveness. Are there prettier girls out there? Probably and possibly. Again, unless your man is a high stakes number 10 in looks Department, You aren’t a 10. That is OK. If you’re six and above, you should be happy because you’re pretty enough to have most men notice you, even some really good men That was just As attractive as you are. I’m not saying It’s not reach for the best you can get, but by golly, we need to understand Men better Men can recognize a really attractive woman. I noticed that she’s one of the most beautiful minute ever seen, but understands he’ll never be with her. Don’t set your man up to be disappointing you or feel tricked into not knowing which answer is best. If he’s with you, he wants to be with you and you should want to be with him if he’s a decent enough human being. Don’t cause problems by asking stupid questions that have tricky answers.
It shows her age and insecurity that she would get upset at his answer. She isn’t the prettiest girl in the world (and she probably knows it - even someone who is really gorgeous can think someone else is prettier, because we always tend to compare ourselves) but she also doesn’t need to be, because relationships are about a lot more than looks. He’s not saying he wants to be with “the prettiest girl in the world” or that his girlfriend is not pretty, in fact he did choose his girlfriend over the hypocritical pretty girl, so clearly he is happy and in love. Those hypocritical trick questions are silly because the whole point is to trick someone. Don’t do that.
To think that your girlfriend is the prettiest girl in the world, possible. Then ask your girlfriend if she thinks she is the prettiest girl in the world, you might get a different answer. Possibly an objective answer of no. If she doesn't wear makeup to make her feel pretty then the answer is probably no. Also does she think she is prettier than ALL celebrities or models of the world.
I was engaged to a man who kept trying to make me lose weight. Once, we were at a dinner at someone's house and as I was eating, literally putting food in my mouth, he put his hand on my fork and said, "Don't you think you've had enough? ". I was mortified. I was a size 12/13 (US sizing) at the time so I wasn't skinny but I wasn't huge either. I broke the engagement after that, couldn't picture myself with a man who would embarrass me in front of people and probably pester me about losing weight for the entirety of our marriage.
I've gone from sickly thin looking (genetics, no eating disorders or anything, but had been trying to gain weight my whole life) to quite curvy/on the edge of overweight when I started my depression meds that made me gain weight. Bf never fails to compliment my new looks as well as saying I look far healthier and happier now 😊 Those little comments never fail to up my mood, gotta love a supportive king!
My grandma grew up during the depression when being thin was very out of vogue and she would often mention being too thin. It was quite a different take on body image than when she was talking about it in the 90s during the "heroin chic" era. Especially with my aunt there talking about the "diet" the ballerinas were taught in the 70s. She said coffee and cigarettes but we all know the late 70s was all about the cocaine 😅. I came out of it all figuring humans are meant to be all different sizes and are meant to change in many ways over our lives. Congratulations on finding a way to keep some healthy weight and having a partner that loves your health and doesn't fall for the bullshit either 🎉
honestly im hoping i get the gain weight side effect of my new birth control because im the exact same. no matter what, my body doesn't want weight to stick and ive got zero eating disorders. my family just reminds me its genetics, and lot of them didnt gain "proper weight" until after kids(but they were all 17-19 with their first child)/early 30s 😭😭
Congrats on a great bf! My ex-husband used to look up all the side effects of my new meds, and throw away anything that listed “weight gain.” After we broke up, turned out I didn’t need antidepressants.
King! Love it. Btw, as a guy I’ve never really thought thin was attractive. I think normal is athletic, but also attracted to curvy when younger. Hope you stay healthy too. God bless.
Boyfriend with the $100,000 test was straight up being honest. He KNOWS there are more beautiful women out there in the world, and he was basically telling her it doesn't matter if some other woman is prettier because he chose HER. You know what, bro? Good answer! Don't get roped into those trick questions.
girls like her play childish games like that because she wants to be mad at her bf and be a victim, not actually have a good healthy relationship. I hope he runs from her and every other woman that prefers mind games over a real relationship
emmanarotzky6565 I thought that too lol she never gave an option for there to be a 3rd option, so why am i think in a spilt second that she is supposed to be the $100k girl, Or I would have said “you’re not a hooker so i don’t need to take the $.” 🤣 but for real, if i ever give a compliment on beauty, it has to come out organically to work and so it’s special lol
She just wants to know that he thinks she's the prettiest girl in the world my partner does about me yet I don't see any beauty in myself so depends on your view people see beauty differently
In regards to the fat phobic story: I don't understand why a guy who CHOSE to date you will slam on you for your appearance, lifestyle, hobbies, etc. If you don't like the woman you're with or certain aspects of herself, why are you there? Go find the woman you "deserve" and leave that poor lady the hell alone so she can find a guy who actually likes HER.
They have an inferiority complex, they think they can't do better. They need an easy win. One time I rejected a "man after talking with him online for a few days. He got maaaad, insulted me, saying I should accept to have sex with him, that he was sacrificing himself by choosing me and I should show gratitude. Let's say I'm happy I rejected him!
I agree, the question should have been more specific if she wanted him to choose her. But she intentionally asked it differently to be mad at him for either answer. Like, just grow up.
@@AestheticAmbienceTV Absolutely negging. She made me facepalm so hard. I think he liked that she was thicker - most guys "negged" the things they liked most.
@@AestheticAmbienceTV Damn. My father was right, men are idiots when it comes to women. Let's show this girl how much I like her by shitting all over her figuratively and driving her off. Some men are lonely for damn good reasons.
Omg when you said "offer to the bleeding one" summoned a memory of my dad lmaooo When I had my period he would be all dramatic with slowly peeking into my room before throwing a couple of chocolate snacks and shouting "Satan has been fed" as he closed the door and running away lmaooo Best memory
My boyfriend did a very similar thing for his daughter, and my dad did for me as well. This video probably gave a lot of us daddy's girls a visceral flashback to those silly moments where even in our misery, our dad could make us laugh.
My hubby has 3 older sisters and apparently watched the plumber as a young boy cleaning out a clog. The plummer called them white mice lol. Had his dad chew out his sisters. Hes called them white mice ever since 🤣🐁🐁🐁
Can we as a group decide that tricking or "testing" our loved ones is wrong. Trapping people in a no win situation and getting mad at them because they "failed" an arbitrary test, is wrong wrong wrong.
It's toxic af and deserves to be called out. If you want reassurance, say so. Communicate like an adult. Playing mind games then being mad ppl can't read your mind is some toddler levels of delulu egocentric behavior.
TBH, I would've answered the same. I didn't expect that she's gonna flip it like that. How delusional you have to be, to think that you're the prettiest girl on earth?
also her physically aggressive response, grabbing him and forcing him back in his seat when he tried to escape the car and conversation. He seemed a little scared of her the entire time, and he seems to have good reason why.
I dated someone once who asked me why there were so many cat burglers in the past. He couldn't understand why so many people would go around and steal cats! I explained what the term actually meant. He was so embarrassed and asked me never to tell anyone. I tell everyone 😂
Agreed this must be shared all the time 🤣we have a story like this too except it’s about our mom and her ability to kick a door down and spilt it to two 😂 all us kids still tell everyone about that glorious day our mom went Jackie Chan!
“Watch out with your strong self!”😂🤣😂 They clearly have a fun relationship. I hate trick questions like this, but she’s not taking it seriously and having fun with it, and THAT I can totally get behind!😂
😂 During one flow, I was replacing my super plus every hour. I didn't text my husband all day, because I was so angry and tired. Without me asking, he brought home wings, baby spinach, and chocolate (my cravings) kissed me on the forehead, and said, 'I love you, I'll be in here.' He left me alone all day. 😊
Okay that is,,,, not normal and I encourage you to see a doctor is you haven’t already (sorry if this comes across as unsolicited advice I’m genuinely worried 😢)
Fun fact; pads come in different sizes too! I learned this as an adult from my fiancé who is a man. He learned from a lady working at the store when he was trying to find a different brand for me because they didn't have my preferred. Changed my entire life! The pads she recommended are my preferred now 😂
Yeah I had to explain it to my daughter. I use tampons, but she prefers pads. So we went and bought three different kinds and three different sizes. She chose the size 5 overnight with flex foam. They work amazingly well for her
Yeah, I had to learn the hard way😅 my mom never used them, and when I asked to get them, she said sure and bought me the regular sized and it was a mess 😅
@@erikarussell1142the flex foam ones are what I use too! I'll never switch back because they are hands down the best pads I have ever worn! So comfortable and I never have to worry about the pad adhesive failing me throughout the night. It doesn't feel like a diaper either like some of the other pads I've worn either!
As a woman, I solely use pads due to the fact that wearing tampons or period cups (or anything that goes up and in down south) makes me uncomfortable. BUT, I do know what L, R, and S represent on tampons. L is for a light flow, R is regular, and S is for super. For simplicity, it’s light, medium, and heavy flows. For pads, it’s the same thing. The size is based on the flow. Sizes are numerical, and range from 2 to 5. Pads come with and without wings. And FYI, you can also buy thicker pads for absorbancy. Thank you for coming to my TEDtalk ❤
They're different in each country... for example, in my country, the Tampax can only be found in packs of 16, and they each have 2 drops for light flow, 3 drops for regular or 4 for super... and I think there's a "super plus" version of 5 drops, but I haven't seen it in quite a while. The 4 drop version is great for heavy flow and you can comfortably sleep through the night ( with a pad for extra piece of mind), 8h of uninterrupted sleep. As for the pad thickness, not very accurate here, since those are the lowest quality in my neck of the woods, because they bunch up and then you're left with "blind spots" that link straight to your undies.
Where I am from it is like you described it but there are also 2 other special pads for night time and for after your period ends when you still have some discharge left
I so love the guy who chose “kiss you for $1000.” What a gem. 😂😂 Poor man was convinced he’d answered correctly and then he realize he’d been duped. His reaction was hysterical. 😂😂😂 And I disagree. That was absolutely a trick question, and I think you can understand that your partner is not objectively the “prettiest person in the world,” and still think they are the prettiest, most shining, most special person to you personally. We love the faces of the people we love more than we love the faces of beautiful strangers because true beauty is soul-deep. But that doesn’t mean we are all gorgeous models. I’d much rather be told “I value you more than money,” than to hear an insincere, “But you’re the prettiest person in the world!” Because -by definition- only a small percentage of people are the prettiest in the world, and I don’t think it’s insecure of me to say I’m not at that level of pretty.
Also, even if he thought she was the prettiest woman in the world, the parameters of the hypothetical specified the existence of someone prettier. By analogy, if your girlfriend asks you, "Would you fight a dragon for me?" answering "Dragons don't exist so the question is meaningless" just comes across as obnoxious and evasive. And if you answer "Yes," and your girlfriend mocks you for "believing in dragons," that's just your girlfriend being toxic (unless it's genuine lighthearted banter that's a part of your relationship). The whole point of a hypothetical question is that it involves circumstances that don't exist (there's also no one who's going to pay you $100,000 to kiss someone, unless you count acting), so people aren't expected to point that out instead of answering.
One time I "dated" (situationship) with a guy who would tell me all the time about how I wasn't his usual "type" and that usually he would go for curvier girls. He would go on and on and on about it. Men like that will use any excuse they can to tear down women they feel inferior to.
Ill tell you something hilarious: my first husband thought that if they gave me a hysterectomy ( bear in mind i was 18 at the time and already had 2 children) we wouldn’t be able to have sex anymore because a hysterectomy means they stitch your vjj all up lmao. It took me a whole month to get him to tell me why he was so upset. Its been over 40 years since i saw my ex but that still cracks me up…
😂 lol, if only we had Google back then. Although, even if it had existed I'm not sure he would've put in the miniscule amount of time & effort required to type in "what is a hysterectomy" & press search, seeing that he could've simply asked you or your obgyn but didn't. Instead, in true idiot fashion, he guessed & couldn't have been more wrong if he tried 😂 I hope for what he lacked in intelligence, he made up for in bed.
Naomi, it’s funny that you share that story. I just took a family friend to a doctor’s appointment this morning for some female issues. She is a 68 year old lesbian and was wondering why she needed an exam of THAT type since she hasn’t been with a man since her youngest was born over 35 years ago. I had to explain that other things can happen and so it’s a good idea to keep regular gyno visits even though she is menopausal, gay, and hasn’t been with a man in so long. She shared with me why she was going for the exam (which I won’t share here cuz it ain’t my story and would take too long) and said she was worried about needing a hysterectomy. She literally asked me if she could still have sex. I was surprised by her question but kept it out of my voice when I reassured her that she would still be able to carry on an active and fulfilling s e X life even if that was required. So we can all experience not knowing or “irrational fears” even if we are supposed to be the experts. 😉
This is why I’m trying to educate my teen on stuff like this. I didn’t know what a cervix was until I was in my mid-20s and had trouble getting pregnant. I started doing research into possible causes and in part of that research I learned a lot more about anatomy and hormone cycles. Tons of info that I never learned in sex ed, health, or biology in school. My kid’s school canceled sex ed entirely, so it’s up to me to teach it to him, and I’m trying to make sure he knows more than I did.
Before my hysterectomy, I only used pads because I physically couldn’t handle tampons. My mom couldn’t use tampons until AFTER she had me. Sometimes it just doesn’t work.
THANKS! I also can't use tampons them due to medical reasons, i was honestly a little bit shocked that we got pushed in the "you were pads because you think you are something *special*"-corner
I mainly use period panties( I personaly find them verry comfy) or pads. Never wore Tampons. The first time I tried Tampons I was like: What size do I get? How the f do I even use these things?? Help!😅
I have an aunt who despises the inflatable holiday lawn displays and she has a friend who hates them as well... Well they both manage to sneak one or more into each other's front yards in the middle of the night. (Plugged in and lit up.) I don't usually care for pranks and practical jokes, but I love this one. My aunt gets so mad, but I think she's thoroughly enjoying herself. It's hilarious.
Ok I can't deal with the "kiss me for $1000" girl antics. That stuff always makes me think of the girls who get mad because they had a dream that their boyfriend did something bad and they're mad. The inflatables lady was just funny!
If my bf said I was the prettiest girl in the world I’d call him a liar to his face. Like I think I’m pretty but Margot Robbie and Zendaya walk this earth, I’m not dumb 💀
as a girl who doesn't use tampons for reasons other than having a lighter flow -- there are lots of reasons that women don't use tampons from personal preference to comfort!
I don't even know what wrong with wearing pads instead of tampons or whatever you know... like it's not your business people! They wear whatever they want, like or comfortable with!!😵 (sorry, bad English!)
"I bring offerings to the bleeding one one!" just had me in tears of laughter after a long day. Thank you so much Charlotte! I love you video and after discovering your channel I watch your videos every day just to laugh. Thank you for bringing so much light and humor.
The only acceptable use of 20ft inflatable yard decor is that petty story of that woman who has a 20ft dragon for Halloween decor, her neighbor got mad and complained about it and said it was “satanic” or something, so she got another one, and she also leaves them out for Christmas as well just with a Christmas hat. So now the neighbor has to see them not only just for Halloween but from Halloween all the way to Christmas.
Id have em out all year and give them a decoration for whatever month it is. Easter? They now stoner bunny dragons. Saint Paddys? They drunk Irish dragons. Valentines? Those dragons be boning.
My husband's version of the speaker prank: In December he transferred out to a different location in the hospital system. The rest of his department was really sad to see him go...he is the person who always cracks jokes, makes everyone laugh, lightens tension...plus he has been there forever and is good at what he does. So, one of the things he is known for is making a very convincing bird sound, which he'll often do while walking down the halls, making people freak out and look around for the bird. Before he left he worked a weekend shift, meaning it was just him in the office. He bought one of those clocks that has a different bird chirp every hour. Of course he didn't set it for the hour....that would be a giveaway. Instead, he set the clock ahead so that it would go off 35 minutes after the hour every hour. Then, he hid it on some shelving behind a bunch of stuff. (He was going to hide it in the ceiling tiles but found it it works on a light sensor.) Cue his first day at the new location. At 9:35 he starts getting texts "WHAT DID YOU DO, MICHAEL?" They've realized it's gone off twice now, know he did SOMETHING, but don't know what. It takes a few hours, but they finally pick up on the fact that it goes off at one hour intervals. At 2:35, they all convene in the office, close the doors and become silent. (They've alerted him to this plan, so of course he starts calling the phones, but they ignore him.) As soon as it goes off they immediately start searching and find it. And then? They REHIDE it because two people weren't there that day. It takes those two a full day and a half to discover it. It's been just over a month now and he took some shifts back there the other week. The clock is still in the office, chirping merrily away every hour at 35 minutes past the hour.
Speaking of the giant inflatable yard decor, I used to work for a lady who loved them and would go all out decorating her house for the holidays. She was the type of lady who was everyone's surrogate grandma. While I was in highschool, every Easter, Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas, she would pay me and my sister $10 an hour to help her set up the inflatables and deck out her house in lights and other holiday decor, and then to take them down after the holiday. Edit: I personally don't like those giant inflatables either, but this lady did, and I loved her. Plus, she was paying me to help set them up.
There was a day care home that did the same thing just down the street from my high school. It was chock FULL of inflatables of every kind. Even giant ones before they made it big here in the us.
We have friends/neighbors who had a fun contest with us for decorating yearly; it got so competitive that our homes were included on the lights tour our city did. About a decade ago our neighbors decided to include inflatables in the equation, and they were super cute. But our neighbor knew from his brother who lived in a major metro area that apparently these things are prime targets for vandalism, and so he installed incredibly accurate security to protect his investments. Sadly it took less than a week before three asshats stabbed an inflatable. Armed with footage he called police and the culprits were *easily* identified and charged. When it came to court, he and his wife were in attendance and the punks were all charged the same day. Our friends asked the judge if, rather than sentencing them to something that likely has little to no impact on them, he could suggest an idea. Judge loved it and the delinquents were given their punishment of assisting with the installation and tear down of all decorations for one year for both our homes, and delivery of the canned goods collection we took up as a ‘charge’ to people coming to see the decor to the shelter, as well as assisting us at the shelter during the holidays with serving food, cleaning, laundry, etc. These 3 boys are now men; 2 have married & have little ones, one is pursuing an advanced degree, all 3 have good careers and come help us set up and tear down every year to this day because they all want to. They’re all 3 really great guys and took the lesson and used it to learn. Couldn’t be happier for them.
@@aubreycarter7624 it’s a pretty cool story we love to tell and I know the ‘offenders’ tell it often, too. No one is irredeemable, everyone has value and I’m so proud of our neighbors for being so generous and willing to give these kids another chance. Not sure I’d have done the same thing given the chance. I mean now I would but at the time? My knee jerk reaction was more or less ‘OFF WITH THEIR HEADS!!’ lol they had 10 inflatables that were really expensive and solid quality (not bought at a discount store) and were supposedly meant to hold up better- damages over a decade ago were over $3k for 5 popped so definitely not cheap. But a lesson bigger than money was learned and it honestly changed the way I looked at the world. We were all The Grinch that day lol
The guy with the tampons had me laughing so hard because he was guessing the sizes based off of his performance in the bedroom. NOW THAT’S A KEEPER! 😂😂😂
If you date a larger person, whether its a woman or man, and their size bothers you so much that you feel the need to bother them about it or body shame, just break up and move on. Don't torture someone because you have problems. The relationship won't get any better.
And those are labelled as Psychopaths, Sociopaths and Narcissists - People with BPD. It's not natural for any creature on the planet to bully another of its own kind to feel better. Survival of the fittest is to survive, not torment. It's to outlive others in extreme environments to grow and reproduce, to take and to kill if needed to survive - not to bully and humiliate others for it's own joy. @@quenoselecruzenadie
Setting up your boyfriend with a trick question that they'll almost certainly fall for just to act mad at the result is such a dick move to me. Especially when the question frames the girlfriend and the 'prettiest girl' as seperate individuals. Also its just delusional to think that you should be the prettiest person to someone just because they're dating you. If anything I would hope that her boyfriend is with her because of her non-physical attributes. But I'm autistic and overthink everything so its probably fine.
I hate that too- like I have a boyfriend and obviously he thinks I’m pretty. If he told me Margot Robbie or Gal Gadot was prettier than me, idk if I could argue that, cause I would kiss them over him for $100,000 too!
@@M_SC Australian here ... We have pretty much the same system, so it's not just them ... Tampons are easy - only we don't have "light" we have "mini" otherwise "regular" and "super" ... pads gets a little complex, there's "liners" then "regular" then "super" then "overnight/goodnight" (which is pretty self-explanatory) ... Where it gets interesting is if you want "sport", "superthin", "invisable", "maxi" (size, not flow!), "cotton" and on it goes!!! We still use the droplets system though :) I feel sorry for dudes sent on a mission for these things - give the poor boy a photo of what you want!! *I'm glad I'm nearly menopausal, except for the never knowing when it's gonna show up, it's very light and very short these days - HORAY!! I'm so over it!!!
I’ve always hated the inflatable yard decorations too! They don’t have the same “magic” as traditional lights. But….when my Bluey obsessed 1 year old, saw them and got so excited, my husband decided we were “those type of folks” now! 5 feet tall Bluey and Bingo inflatables lived on own lawn. Our baby’s face was priceless.
the fat shaming is actually really common in dating. Experienced it a lot even when I was really thin, the guy would always reference my size... Pretty fedup with it. Wouldn't put up with it now.
Dang, it's almost like that guy could never catch you if you were skinny, so he thinks he can if you're "fat". That's not a man, that's a child. I get a lot of skinny hate, and I called fat when I was 70lbs heavier. Men and women will show their true colors when they speak to you about your weight, for sure. I lost a couple friends who didn't understand I LOVED myself bigger, and I LOVE myself now. Fk them meth addicted weirdos
I’m 43. I talk to a guy, fwb. He always seems really into my body so I think he made a really bad joke (maybe he was actually trying to make me feel bad about myself, but he’s never done it before or since, so I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt). He said “you’re a little fat” while rubbing my gut (I’m not overweight, I’m on the high end of healthy weight, not that it matters) and I somehow immediately replied “well, you’re a little short but you’ve never heard me bring that up”. I never have such quick comebacks so inside I was like YES! And he was like 👀
My fiancé was always disappointed that I was so fat at size 16. He said that because I couldn't satisfy him physically, he was going to have to find a beautiful blond (I have dark hair) petite woman to have on the side. He loved my personality, and other parts of me, but just physically I didn't do it for him. After a while I was so twisted by him that I had believed him. To be honest, he wasn't my type physically as well, but I loved him for him. I would have never told him that. But he was so good at chipping away at my self esteem I lost myself. I ended up never getting married.
I am not ashamed to say that I LOVE the little pictures of random people with your face on them. I will never tire of that! Random people and, apparently, random burgers!
I asked my husband the Prettiest girl question. His reply was "according to who's perspective of pretty", and then said "I'm getting $101,000, because according to my perspective, it's you." First was the right answer. I laughed so hard.
it reminded me of that episode of That 70's show when Kitty asked Red: "Red, do you think I'm smart?" and Red was like "so that's what we're gonna do today, we're gonna fight..."😆
my husband immediately went for the $100 thousand and still didn't get it once I explained it to him. I can't blame him though, I'm clearly not the prettiest girl in the world, and he can still take me out for dinner with all that money.
If my husband didn’t answer “prettiest girl” I’d be pissed. We’ve been married 20 years and we know how we both look and I could get a new kitchen and bathroom.
using pads over tampons is not a matter of how heavy your flow is, some women have really heavy flows but prefer pads over tampons because tampons are really irritating and can dry out your vagina more and cause infections. and some prefer pads cause of religious purposes, so i really dont think we should be judging people for using whatever they're comfortable with.
I had used exclusively pads until I was 27 (just pure preference), but then, due to some health issues, ended up with a really heavy flow for a couple of months continuously (to the point I had to use adult diapers and change them every couple of hours). Once the issue got resolved, my heavy flow ended up heavier than before (I'm fine, just have a slightly different normal now), so I decided to try tampons for the first time. Still only use them if I have to be out and only on the heaviest of days. Guess I just prefer pads over the other methods out there.
I think she’s more referencing the woman who act better than everyone else bc they wear a pad. There are also women who act better than everyone else bc they wear tampons
In 2024, Charlotte has taught me that 3 days is a very long time when you're missing someone and waiting, waiting, waiting for their next video lol! I hope this year, everything she's working toward and the dreams she's balancing soar and her achievements turn to spilled glitter....bright, sparkly, all over the place, and impossible to get rid of!
I have been really feeling this too... Almost like when a close friend you spend a lot of time with moves away for something that will make their life better and makes them really happy. Like you are so excited for them and supportive, but it doesn't mean you don't miss seeing them as often.
Once dated a guy that got a flat tire, he had a full sized spare and had it put on. He then proceeded to throw the ripped flat tire still attached to the wheel in the dumpster (gone forever). It took hours of me explaining how the tire can be removed from the wheel and replaced. He had no clue they were two different things. He legit didn’t believe me until we went to Sam’s Club and I pointed out they just sell the tires and it would be insane to stock every wheel for every make and model vehicle on the road. He did other stupid mess but that one blew my mind 😂😂😂
I never thought I was an idiot UNTIL I became menopausal! Something for you young ladies to look forward to. I found my iPhone in the fridge and a block of cheese in my handbag. Also, was sat quietly thinking about 9/11 and due to UK and US people writing their dates differently I asked my husband ‘what date is September 11th?’ He was so confused!
I so understand that! Thankfully I’m through it all! I think 😂😂😂 I still lose my glasses on top of my head every day! My poor American husband of 26+ years still gets confused when I write the date so I have to put 2 January 2024, just an example, on things for him in his diary or as her calls it ‘his calendar’! 😂😂😂 he’s had to rewrite cheques so often!
Perimenopausal 🙋🏻♀️ I got mad at my husband last week because I couldn’t remember the words “ tape measure “ and he didn’t automatically know what I was saying. I also went and grabbed my sewing kit and held it up and said “ this thing “ because the measuring tape was INSIDE the box. Monday I put eyeliner on my lips. I feel like a crazy person.
I've been so stressed over the last year, because I've been having episodes of memory loss where I cannot find the name or word I'm looking for. It's happening more frequently and I was worried about dementia. Turns out I'm just perimenopausal. I also learned about sweating even when you're cold. Not all hot flashes are actually hot. Our bodies just fuck with us so hard.
My ex in all seriousness thought you had to have an accent to speak another language. We worked at a factory at the time and there was a sister plant down in Mexico that a team of engineers from our plant went down to help set up. One thing led to another and one of the team members met her husband down there. My ex was not fond of this young lady and in a fit of bad-mouthing her one evening, in all seriousness, he brought her marriage into it and said "I don't know how that even works because they don't speak the same language!" Me: "She speaks Spanish." (Which is part of why she went down in the first place, she is quite fluent) Him: "No she doesn't." Me: "... Yeah, she does..?" Him: "She can't, she doesn't have an accent!" I blew his mind when I said a few phrases in Spanish, German, and Chinese (very basic stuff, like hello and how are you). That was just one of many, many examples... 😅
If my husband did the 'SEND NUDES' roses, I think I would have an out of body experience, but from dying laughing. I think it's hilarious, but cute in the way he still went out of his way to do it. I say its a plus to the romance if both parties can have a good laugh about it!
Here’s a horror story for you Charlotte that’s only related to the first clip and when u mentioned diva cups. I don’t use tampons bc for some reason I get some kind of allergic reaction. I’ve tried different brands, different materials they’re just not for me. So I started using a diva cup and it was just fantastic. Until one day I went to remove it and it’s little “tail” snapped off. I couldn’t get a hold of the base of it and there was now no tail to pull it out. I ended up going to the urgent care room at my doctor and said “I need whoever is available and willing to fish around in there I don’t care if they’re male or female let’s do this” The only doctor available was this 70 year old Albanian guy and he listened to the problem, there was a nurse that acts as a chaperone because I’m female the doctors male it’s just protocol, she understood what the task at hand was. He pulled out a clear plastic speculum that was horribly made and cut me upon insertion. He then looked up at me and said “I don’t see the string” I looked at my friend who came with me like “is this guy serious?” The nurse had to stop the procedure and explain what a diva cup is, how you remove it and why I needed help. He had listened to the front desk nurses tell him what he was doing, he had his chaperone nurse tall him what he was doing, I had explained again when he came in the room, and he did not understand that it was not a tampon until he was elbow deep and and had to be stopped to have it explained a 4th time. Never again am I walking into a medical facility and saying “I don’t care if male or female give me who’s available” bc apparently even some doctors are just clueless men when it comes to feminine hygiene.
You’re not supposed to pull on the tail 😅 Have you been comfortable wearing cups again? PS: my Lady Cup celebrates its 10th anniversary this year !! #tmi lol
@@Jamiesonlindley Nope, it’s in great shape :) when I find it too discolored I give it a sodium percarbonate bath, then it looks new again. The medical-grade silicone has held up all this time.
I hate it when women ask these trick question of their partners for which there are no right answers. I’m a woman and I’d never do that to my spouse. I admit, though, that when I was young I did twist my former partner’s words during arguments. Once she said “ You’re twisting my words.” I realized she was right and how wrong I was to do that. I was so ashamed of myself I’ve done that again.
Good post. The person doing that was setting up the person who cared about her, in a way that only worked because he cared about her. That's not a good reason to mistreat someone. (PS - check your editing again - I am sure you lost a word on the last sentence. Cheers.)
There was a “right answer” .. it was “I would kiss you for $101,000” … but yes you are very right. It’s silly lol.. I only ask my bf these silly questions so we can laugh together lol.. regardless of the answer. Never as a real defining thing or to start an argument
I ask my fiance hypothetical questions all the time but I never get mad at his answer they're just silly questions like 1 was, if I was a cat next to a 100000000 dollars who would you pick? Obviously he's gonna pick the money but I just like to pick at his brain and see where his logic response comes in
LOL I would get mad at my hubby for NOT choosing to kiss the prettiest girl! Please do go kiss her! I want the 100K for the down payment we've been working so hard for 😂
So my husband and I have this thing where we basically worship eachother and have done so since the very beginning. As long as we both keep doing what we've been doing these past 6 years, we're golden 😂 really tho, he adores me, making it very well known, and I absolutely adore him, making sure he knows. We have a unicorn relationship, and I wish everyone could experience a relationship where both parties are 100% in! It's WILD!
I have this relationship with my boyfriend and I am so, SO grateful! It has me looking around at everyone else I know in their relationships constantly bickering & making unfair/unfavorable compromises and all I can think is …yeah, after my boyfriend, I couldn’t settle for anything less!
6:53 as a man who absolutely hated it when my ex-girlfriend pop quizzed me, this is a particularly low blow, and baby girl is insecure as all hell! You need to understand that there are always going to be better looking people than you, so to get mad at him about that says a whole lot more about you than it does about him!
And this applies to men, women, and everything in between! There are always going to be people in this world that look better than you. But for a great many people, looks aren't everything! If my girlfriend gave me that kind of reaction after such a trick question, I would have broken it off right then and there, because that is a 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@@esmooth919I absolutely agree with you! I never do these lame trick questions with my husband. Do I think I'm pretty? Yes. Do I think there are women prettier than me? yes. But he chose me and that's all that matters. I don't understand why people try to do these things to embarrass their significant other for likes on social media. It's pathetic and your spot on when u said this girl is insecure.
agreed, if its a dumpable offense, then I dont want to here how good looking some actor is when I am watching a moving with her, which lets be honest is every movie ever.
Exactly 😂 Do I think I'm prettier than the rest of the world? Absolutly not. And a couple is not together solely for looks (at least I hope so), so getting mad at your partner because you are not the prettiest girl in the world is so stupid
For the "kiss the prettiest girl" question. She didn't ask if he'd rather kiss her or who HE thought was the prettiest girl in the world. She just said her or the prettiest girl in the world. For starters, beauty is subjective so it would be impossible to pick the most beautiful. That aside, if she can't fathom that there might be other women out there more beautiful than her, then she needs a serious ego check. Your partner can think you're the prettiest, sure. But even if they don't, because they know rationally there are other more beautiful people out there, they still chose you, they appreciate your beauty AND what you contribute to the relationship. Beauty is only skin deep.
i think zendaya is the most beautiful but my best friend genuinely does not agree. so it doesn’t really matter how pretty you are because there’s always going to be other girls that are also pretty. zendaya is jaw dropping but there are still ppl who don’t think she’s the prettiest. looks shouldn’t have to matter so much anyways but i understand why they do
I was taught that pretty is as pretty does. I don't care how beautiful someone is, if they act in an ugly way they're not pretty even if they are good looking.
I started wearing tampons in high school after overhearing a bunch of guys talking about the seven step rule and what they could see. We had to wear uniforms at my high school, girls had to wear a 10 pleat skirt. The seven step rule was that if a guy was behind a girl more than 7 steps on the stairwell they could see your underwear. I heard one guy mention he could see a pad and the other guys were grossed out and said a lot of horrible stuff about the girls in my school. I wore shorts under my skirt after that.
As a dad, and a decent human being, this leaves me incoherent with anger. WHY should the girls have to fix a situation the school caused?? And then what the boys were teaching each other, because the school didn't step up for them either. Lose lose lose situaton.
I could never understand why they had girls wearing these skirts. And it felt like they were getting shorter and shorter. Especially if the goal was modesty. I'm guessing a pervy catholic priest came up with it because we only saw them in parochial schools.
That's so gross. The boys are literally one step away from up skirting which is ILLEGAL and the girls are the ones who have to worry about it rather than the boys being punished for it.
I'm just proud of any man thats willing to even talk about periods just in general, but especially if they're willing to contribute (ie: buying feminine products, cravings, and respecting their womans physical and emotional needs). There are literally grown ass men who are married, with biological children, who still believe women can turn their period on and off like a light switch. One of my exes had zero experience when we started dating. Like, had never so much as asked a girl out or held hands, etc, level zero. The first time I was on my period after we started dating, he ASKED me to take him to the store and show him what products I used so he would know where they were in the store and what to buy if he ever needed to get me products. I still miss that one. He was very attentive to my emotional needs, but we just had very different life goals, and it started tearing us apart, so we decided to split while we could still be friendly. By far, the healthiest relationship I've ever been in and we still talk on occasion.
Perfect example of why more girls and women should give the quiet guys or guys with less dating experience a chance. My husband is the quiet type with little dating experience before we met. Discovered early on in dating that he was going back to school so he could work in healthcare. Part of his early education was to first work as a CNA where he did things like help bathe elderly people with mobility issues. He now has two certifications (not counting the CNA, which is now expired), and he’s seen some pretty scary things. Now, he doesn’t flinch at a used tampon in the trash. Well… he never did. He also has a handful of sisters.
I was listening to a podcast, I think it was Sarah Silverman's (you should check it out, it's brilliant) when single mum asked how she could bring her son up to be a better man. Another listener came back and said "talk to him about periods". What amazing advice!
The question one had me rolling my eyes. It's a trick question made for people to give the wrong answer and everyone laughs and that's it. "I'm not the prittiest girl to you?" is like "would you love if I was a worm?". Stop with stupid questions if you're gonna be upset at the answerrrr
Haha, I dated a guy once who used to leave me these (unintentionally) hilarious voicemails in which he’d ask me a question… and then proceed having a convo as if id answered… ie: “hey girl, what’s up with you?…nothin’” 😂😂😂
If a guy said to me “I’ve never dated a women your size” my immediate response would be “I’ve never dated a guy your size, but you know anything for charity” 😊
You know, you make a good fucking point..if someone did that shit to me I'd feel that way. But when I watched it I just was like, ok that's funny she's fucking with him just like guys like to fuck with girls and piss them off...but honestly..it is pretty fucked up.
Agreed. It seemed like a brand thing so might be staged, but I don't get what's funny about the idea itself of modifying someone else's body without their consent and knowledge.
More than creepy it was very rude and disrespectful. Charlotte Made a good point about how he's supposed to fix it. If it was a guy doing that to her the urgent wouldn't find it funny
The speaker prank!!! I love how he had to pet the dog like the dog was scared and not him!! 😂😂😂😂 I was laughing so hard my two year old had to check on me!
I hate those relationship test questions - why do people have to be so manipulative? Firstly if I asked my husband that I would expect him to say $100,000 because it’s not believable otherwise and we could have some amazing things together for 100 grand. Also I’m not stupid enough to think I am the prettiest person in the world or that my husband is the best looking guy. It’s just weird to pretend otherwise and I hate the testing stuff.
My husband would ask me how I came to that stupid idea? Yes he looks at other woman but hey that’s why we got eyes, he asked me once because his friend got in a big argument about it, why i didn’t act like she did? So I asked him because I’m looking at other men, is she so insecure that she can’t handle her man looking around? We as a couple say often enough look this woman/ man looking good. Or he points out what he likes what the other woman is wearing and if I would try it on? We’re married for 30 years and we trust one an other. There’s no jealousy in this household.
That was me. Turned out to be endometriosis. I had to diagnose myself by reading medical textbooks and begging the doc to do the diagnostic surgery. Then took me about another 20 or so years to get a surgeon to burn off the nerve that some endometrial cells had attached to. So now I don’t have an electrical storm in my clitoris. If your flow is super heavy, even if your doc says it’s normal, it’s not. Find a holistic health practitioner who can help you get your body rebalanced. You will be much happier with your lady time. I hope you find relief.
If you ever wondered what it's like to be schizophrenic and experience mild auditory hallucinations the speaker prank is pretty much exactly like it 😂 The only difference is no matter how long you search you will never get closer to the sound, you will never escape it 🙃 Signed a bipolar schizophrenic 💀🧡
my husband has paranoia schizophrenia and damn the things he saw at night once he saw a baby crawl across the bed 😅 but he also " saves me from stuff " I just calm him down tell him nothings there and help him back to sleep
@@aussiefamily4886my 5th of 7 nephews has the same issues. He used to think ifyou pt 2 flat rocks together it would stop time. He also thought rocks were his friends. That poor baby had an IQ equal to Einstine and he got into an accident and injured is head and that sweet boy lost himself. He will always be my favorite of that sister's boys
@@aussiefamily4886 he has always been the sweetest of her boys. He is 42, but has ad it for the last 20 to 22 years. I think my 25 year old was 3 or 4 when it happened. I'm 54 and was turned 12 17 days after he was born. He always hungry on me like a monkey so I have always called him monkey boy. My oldest daughter's was like that with her dad so he called her monkey girl. My girls have always adored Mark Thomas (my nephew) and he loved the fact that Danielle was called monkey girl. My youngest daughter Caitie is extremely protective of Mark and will verbally fight anyone whom hurts him. He lives in the granny/mother in law apartment of my kid sister's home. We are 5 sister's and Mark is second son of sister 2 whom livesin another state. Mark had lived with my parents after the car crash because my sister already had her hads full with her youngest son whom is physically handicapped. My mom was caring for Mark even after my dad's battle with cancer and until her own battle with cancer took them both. Sally my kid sister is a Certifed Nurse so he was was best with her.
A family friend is working in our basement, where I am sitting and watching videos.. and I wasn't able to get to my volume in time before "FLOW! FLOW! YOUR PERIOD FLOW!" Thank you, Charlotte 🤣 You're hilarious. I love your videos 💜 (Edit: And sorry to this man 🤷🏼♀️😂)
2:26 Wait, why would using pads imply only a light flow? 🤔 _They also_ come in in Super (& Overnights, which is 1 advantage over tampons), exactly like the coochie plugs do. I'm a lifelong pad girl, & my first 4 days I always bleed like a gut-wound. I use pads bc I cannot forget them, can _see_ when they need changing, they don't put me at risk of TSS, & I just find them more comfortable (25-odd years of intermittent attempts in every position + using lube, & I _still_ can't find that mythic placement where you supposedly cannot feel it to a distracting degree; IDK, maybe I have a tilted canal or something); I only employ tampons if I'm swimming or taking a bath.
Exactly! I have never been able to um… insert them. That’s why I don’t use them. There are ultra thick night time pads too lmao it’s nothing to do with a light flow, what!? Haha
Same!!! I bleed hardcore the first ⅔ of my period and I use them overnight pads. I used to use tampons regularly but I'm bad at forgetting them (out of sight out of mind) and pads are so much easier
I’ve never used tampons in my life and kind of don’t understand how they could possibly stop those massive golf-ball sized clots that come out. The cotton can only absorb the blood, not the clots, (like with pads)so what happens to those clots? Do they just get plugged by the tampon, but not absorbed, so they all come flying out at once when you pull the tampon out? Also, what if you think your flow will be heavier than it is, but then it’s actually not, so you have a mostly dry tampon coming out? Doesn’t that hurt? That’s just one of the reasons I’ve never used them. The other reason is that I get squeamish thinking about shoving a foreign object into my body and not being able to feel it. Like if something is in my body like that, I wanna be able to feel where it is. I don’t want this piece of cotton just inside me and not know exactly where it is at all times. Does that not freak other people out? Plus, the thought of the string breaking and having to reach up their and fish it out makes me want to gag lol. If anything’s going in there that far it better be attached to something much stronger than a flimsy little string. 🤣
Same, they hurt me like heck and I have reactions to them! I have to be careful with what pads I use and was so mad when Kotex changed the material they used.
As a girlie with PCOS and had EXTREME blood flow. When you capped at super only I was like NO NO THERES MORE CHARLOTTE DONT FORGET 😭 I went through super+ in a couple hours. No wonder my teens were spent with anemia.
One time I was going to the market and I asked my mom if she needed anything, and she was really in a bad mood and gave me a five and said "Get some Maxi-pads for your father!" I laughed and thought it was a joke. When I came back without Maxi-pads she was even more angry, because it turns out he needed them while he was recovering from butt surgery.
Can’t use a diva cup, looks like a murder scene after going 9 rounds trying to pull the dang thing out, but I do recommend the period panties. They’ve been a game changer for me💖 Also, my hubby better go kiss the prettiest woman in the world, TAKE THAT MONEY AND BUY ME A HOUSE, BABY!!!🤣🤣
Holy hell that whitening one was so horrible! YOU DO NOT MESS WITH PEOPLES TEETH WITHOUT CONSENT! Now he has to either have wonky teeth or bleach them all, plus he didn't even have a say in if he wanted it, the product et.c I'd _never_ bleach my teeth at home, if even at all, I'd call the police on her if she did it to me. Unless I lost it completely.
I jokingly asked my SO, and He asked me "Are we talking globally or subjectively?" I said subjective, and He said "Oh, so I kiss you for 100k, nice." This is the correct answer XD
I personally hate those "trick" questions that set the other person up to fail, what point does it even serve? You only end up upsetting yourself as well as the other person. Why would you want to play those kind of stupid mind games with someone you supposedly love/care about?
I had to explain to my 50yo bf who has daughters and has been married that pads have wings and tampons have strings. He literally did not understand the difference 😂(ex bf)
I guess the fact that he had a wife who delivered babies and he didn't bother to find out then? Was insane to me. How can you be with a woman and be engaged sexually, and not be aware of her body functions. 😳
Sometimes i laugh just because Charlotte is laughin' too😂❤ or when she screams and makes those facial reactions, so funny...i swear is always the best part.😂❤
I won't lie, if I walked into a hotel room and saw my boyfriend had gotten send nudes written on the bed, I'd find it fricken hilarious 😂can't just be me, surely. The only other thing on my mind would be "YOU MADE SOMEBODY DO THIS!?" with a smidge of second hand embarrassment HAHA
I was an addict for 16 years. Was 5'4 110 at 36 (had 2 kids) then got Clean and was 135 after being 3 years clean. Went on a date with someone who knew me from my drug dys and his comment was " I know ppl gain when getting clean but you don't have to go obese" that comment ALMOST made me go ba k to the drugs thankfully I was proud enough of my accomplishment not to... but men..... watch WHT you say!!! Could be life or death you don't know the situation that woman is in
Pre-hysterectomy, I was a pad girlie bc nothing else would contain the blood. 😅 I had to upgrade to number 5 & 6 pads. (Thanks, endometriosis!) They're often recommend for post partum bleeding. SO much better than the typical Always Overnight pads- no more waking up to a crime scene!
I have endometriosis too, and have to use both, and still sometimes set an alarm halfway through the night so I don't ruin the bed. I have a big patch taped over the vulnerable part of my mattress too, in case I sleep through. Nightmare.
@@UsandEveryoneWeKnow Ugh, I'm so sorry. I used to do that too (although I usually would just steal a clean one of my dog's puppy pads bc the human ones are expensive). It's just the worst. Washable waterproof liners for the mattress were kind of a lifesaver. (Like, the square cloth ones) I hope you're able to find relief, whatever treatment you're pursuing! I hope your doctor is taking you seriously too- that kind of bleeding requires serious iron supplements!
I'm a pad girl because I have a genuine phobia of any kind of penetration. I physically can't bring myself to put anything up there and any depiction of- giggity- makes me squeamish and cry. I've never even had a partner or any such interaction, just the thought of it scares me too much.
Same, friend. I couldn't even get a pap smear because just the feeling made me panic. Luckily my gyno listened to me when I said it's too much and suggested I come another time.
@@GamerNerdess Not a totally wrong response, but one of my coworkers was a trauma-free virgin who refused tampons and pap smears. No drama, completely competent and balanced person. Just ... no touchee. Takes all kinds.
One time I went out with a guy who was a professional tennis coach at a large resort near where I live. A friend of mine set us up, and yes, he was very good looking. As we were talking at dinner he turned to me and said, "I'm actually having a really nice time. This is a nice change for me. I'm used to dating women who are very attractive. That's usually my type." I looked at the guy and responded, "I totally understand what you are saying and this is a nice change for me as well. I'm used to dating guys who are really intelligent and have very intellectual jobs. That's usually my type. I don't know where that response came from or how I came up with it so quickly, but I was super proud of myself. Needless to say, that was our last date.
I effing LOVE that.
Sometimes we regret what we wish we would’ve said, but sometimes our brains just come out with a brilliant retort.
One time the guy I talk to told me I’m a little fat. I said, well you’re a little short but you’ve never heard me bring that up.
He was like 👀
I’m so glad that you thought of it in the moment, and didn’t remember later. I would’ve paid money to see the look on his face. Guys like that are not used to women sticking up for themselves
18 going out and some older guy, it old him many times I wasn’t his doll! He starting to harass me. Still going on being his doll, so I kicked right where he didn’t like it because he grabbed me. So I was at the place where I was regular and the doorman big felleas picked him up threw him out and told him don’t ever to mess with me again. Strangely I wasn’t hit on after that 😂. The doorman told me to be careful because he’s a nutcase that was trying to hit on younger girls to have them beating them up and hard to get away. I saw him again when leaving he followed me so I went up and told him if he wanted to keep his balls to leave me alone because I was used to narcissistic man and I ate them as breakfast and won’t bother to put my knife there. My friend was looking for a cop that drove around he flagged them down that dude went in prison because they found out he was drugging girls up.
Nice! Isn’t that so satisfying.
A time I can recall having a good response in the moment was when I was waiting tables a million years ago and a guy told me to come sit on his lap and “ we would talk about the first thing that popped up” … I told him I wasn’t into “ small “ talk.
One time my husband and I went to a restaurant and I ordered the nachos. When the waitress asked if I wanted the small or large I said large. My husband said "no, she'll take the small". The waitress looked at him like she couldn't believe what a jerk he was. After she walked away he said that he noticed the table next to us got a large and it could have easily fed at least 3 people. He was absolutely correct, I would have never been able to eat that much. When he asked why I was giggling I told him that the waitress probably thought he was fat shaming me. I'm pretty average sized. He was so embarrassed that he felt in necessary to explain himself to the waitress when she came back with the food.
And he couldn't have just said "babe, that table over there has the large, are you sure you want that?" I mean, it could still be seen as an AH move by the server, but he could have asked. Maybe you were hungry or wanted leftovers
@@kerrysater157 He was embarrassed by the the waitresses reaction, not mine. We have been together for over 20 years so I know he would never say something like that to make me feel bad. It was just his immediate reaction. He also suffers from a stutter that comes out when he feels pressure to speak like with wait staff so he probably wasn't thinking that hard about it. I get what you are saying though.
Me and my ex-wife went to a Chinese joint one time, we each ordered something different, and when they brought it, each one was enough to feed four people.
That happens sometimes my eyes are bigger than my stomach
@@CrazyBear65 Chinese food is usually family style. That's completely normal.
The *ONLY* time a guy made a disparaging comment about my weight on a date I got straight up and left immediately, didn't say goodbye, didn't pay the check, just picked up my purse and walked straight out, got in my car, went home, and blocked his number. I have neither the time nor the inclination to deal with that sort of bullshit. That's why when I was dating I insisted on driving myself to my dates, cause you'll never know when you'll need to leave. You owe your date *NOTHING* not even your presence. My husband has never been anything other than complementary towards my appearance.
That's great. It seems like the lady in the video went out with the man and gave him multiple opportunities to talk about her body. That's the feeling I got from the video. I kept thinking to myself, "Why did you give him multiple opportunities to insult you?" She should have walked out the first time he said something. It says alot about her as well.
You go girl. If a man insinuates or otherwise says you are too much woman for him, believe that he isn't enough of a man for you and LEAVE.
@julvwildcat190 it screamed narcissistic behaviour on his part to me sounds like you're victim blaming but that's my opinion and the way I took your comment maybe he would compliment her at other times and that's why she gave him so many chances? Some women stay with men like that when they have low self esteem etc which I can relate to
@@julvwildcat190 Sometimes when people are treated poorly they begin to believe that's what they deserve. It's possible that she thought he was "out of her league" because of her own self esteem issues, and he worked hard to reinforce that belief in her.
As a child I watched my mother be positively beaten down in an abusive relationship for years, to the point where she convinced herself that she deserved it. After seeing that I knew I would much rather be alone than to ever be with someone who treated me poorly. Because I had experience with abusive situations I knew how to recognize the red flags quickly, a lot of people don't see those red flags until it's too late and they're already emotionally invested. Also abusers are *very* good at hiding their true colors and getting you to doubt your own reality. It seems like this lady did eventually see him for who he was and get out of that situation which I'm very proud of her for.
@@elizabethdarroch3000 I'm not victim blaming. But like you said some women have low self esteem and stay with men like these. In no way did I say she deserved to be treated poorly.
5:29 as a disabled person these are the easiest way for me to decorate for the holidays. I don’t have to worry about climbing a ladder, or forgetting that they’re up. I love lights, I just don’t have the energy.
I think for my relationship we are both the idiot, but at different times. It's a balance😂
Two halves of a whole idiot is how I like to describe my husband and I 😂
Balance is so important!
Same bestie 😂❤
I tell my husband all the time, we are two halves of a whole idiot. 🤣🫶🏼
@@mynameislameso9920 OMG I just posted the same Shit!!! Lmaoooo
The girl with the 100.000 $ question brought it to herself. He answered PERFECTLY. She implied with her question HERSELF that there is her AND another "prettier girl".
Yeah. We have to stop acting like we’re special snowflakes that Our boyfriend/husbands Think we are the most prettiest in the world.
First of all that doesn’t last long and you get older.
Second, unless he is a 10!himself, He isn’t getting with the hottest girl in the world.
Third, there’s more attractiveness than Your looks. You could be the prettiest girl in the world and it makes you ugly because you’re a nasty person.
She said her self up to be disappointed with that question, because no matter how he answered that she was going to be upset.
I learned myself pretty early, and I’ve taught my children: Never think you are the absolute best always add something whether it’s looks or a talent. Even if you are the best now, it’s some thing, we get older, and our abilities get worse. Someone will end up being better than you or someone on that being better than you before that because you weren’t the best you just thought you were.
Better to do your best and let that be enough.
The same goes for attractiveness. Are there prettier girls out there? Probably and possibly. Again, unless your man is a high stakes number 10 in looks Department, You aren’t a 10.
That is OK. If you’re six and above, you should be happy because you’re pretty enough to have most men notice you, even some really good men That was just As attractive as you are.
I’m not saying It’s not reach for the best you can get, but by golly, we need to understand Men better
Men can recognize a really attractive woman. I noticed that she’s one of the most beautiful minute ever seen, but understands he’ll never be with her. Don’t set your man up to be disappointing you or feel tricked into not knowing which answer is best.
If he’s with you, he wants to be with you and you should want to be with him if he’s a decent enough human being. Don’t cause problems by asking stupid questions that have tricky answers.
The perfect reply is: "I'm kissing you. That way I get $101,000!"
It shows her age and insecurity that she would get upset at his answer. She isn’t the prettiest girl in the world (and she probably knows it - even someone who is really gorgeous can think someone else is prettier, because we always tend to compare ourselves) but she also doesn’t need to be, because relationships are about a lot more than looks. He’s not saying he wants to be with “the prettiest girl in the world” or that his girlfriend is not pretty, in fact he did choose his girlfriend over the hypocritical pretty girl, so clearly he is happy and in love. Those hypocritical trick questions are silly because the whole point is to trick someone. Don’t do that.
Exactly and I know there’s prettier people out there. I’m confidant as me. So don’t need to trip my man up with this kind of thing.
To think that your girlfriend is the prettiest girl in the world, possible. Then ask your girlfriend if she thinks she is the prettiest girl in the world, you might get a different answer. Possibly an objective answer of no.
If she doesn't wear makeup to make her feel pretty then the answer is probably no.
Also does she think she is prettier than ALL celebrities or models of the world.
I was engaged to a man who kept trying to make me lose weight. Once, we were at a dinner at someone's house and as I was eating, literally putting food in my mouth, he put his hand on my fork and said, "Don't you think you've had enough? ". I was mortified. I was a size 12/13 (US sizing) at the time so I wasn't skinny but I wasn't huge either. I broke the engagement after that, couldn't picture myself with a man who would embarrass me in front of people and probably pester me about losing weight for the entirety of our marriage.
Congratulations on losing the dead weight girl! 🎉
ok 12/13 is not fat i read an average american women wears a size 10/12. i dont know why people are that way
Good for you for walking away from such a toxic man! You're right, his behavior probably won't change. 😻
Glad you kicked the guy to the kerb. He clearly didn't care about embarrassing you and himself in public. Arsehole.
@kariann430 depends on her height though... it can be normal bmi (on the higher end) or overweight, even obese if she's short.
I've gone from sickly thin looking (genetics, no eating disorders or anything, but had been trying to gain weight my whole life) to quite curvy/on the edge of overweight when I started my depression meds that made me gain weight. Bf never fails to compliment my new looks as well as saying I look far healthier and happier now 😊 Those little comments never fail to up my mood, gotta love a supportive king!
My grandma grew up during the depression when being thin was very out of vogue and she would often mention being too thin. It was quite a different take on body image than when she was talking about it in the 90s during the "heroin chic" era. Especially with my aunt there talking about the "diet" the ballerinas were taught in the 70s. She said coffee and cigarettes but we all know the late 70s was all about the cocaine 😅. I came out of it all figuring humans are meant to be all different sizes and are meant to change in many ways over our lives. Congratulations on finding a way to keep some healthy weight and having a partner that loves your health and doesn't fall for the bullshit either 🎉
honestly im hoping i get the gain weight side effect of my new birth control because im the exact same. no matter what, my body doesn't want weight to stick and ive got zero eating disorders. my family just reminds me its genetics, and lot of them didnt gain "proper weight" until after kids(but they were all 17-19 with their first child)/early 30s 😭😭
Congrats on a great bf! My ex-husband used to look up all the side effects of my new meds, and throw away anything that listed “weight gain.” After we broke up, turned out I didn’t need antidepressants.
I wonder if you were having a lymphatic isssue that the antidepressants either undid or reversed
King! Love it. Btw, as a guy I’ve never really thought thin was attractive. I think normal is athletic, but also attracted to curvy when younger.
Hope you stay healthy too. God bless.
Boyfriend with the $100,000 test was straight up being honest. He KNOWS there are more beautiful women out there in the world, and he was basically telling her it doesn't matter if some other woman is prettier because he chose HER. You know what, bro? Good answer! Don't get roped into those trick questions.
Like she's playing herself. She's the prettiest girl ro him. Give that man his 100 G's. She is really looking for a fight.
I still think the right answer is “kiss the prettiest girl and then split the money with your girlfriend”
girls like her play childish games like that because she wants to be mad at her bf and be a victim, not actually have a good healthy relationship. I hope he runs from her and every other woman that prefers mind games over a real relationship
emmanarotzky6565 I thought that too lol she never gave an option for there to be a 3rd option, so why am i think in a spilt second that she is supposed to be the $100k girl, Or I would have said “you’re not a hooker so i don’t need to take the $.” 🤣 but for real, if i ever give a compliment on beauty, it has to come out organically to work and so it’s special lol
She just wants to know that he thinks she's the prettiest girl in the world my partner does about me yet I don't see any beauty in myself so depends on your view people see beauty differently
In regards to the fat phobic story: I don't understand why a guy who CHOSE to date you will slam on you for your appearance, lifestyle, hobbies, etc. If you don't like the woman you're with or certain aspects of herself, why are you there? Go find the woman you "deserve" and leave that poor lady the hell alone so she can find a guy who actually likes HER.
negging. he probably was attracted to her but needed to find an excuse to neg her. he probably found other things to neg his exes about.
They have an inferiority complex, they think they can't do better. They need an easy win. One time I rejected a "man after talking with him online for a few days. He got maaaad, insulted me, saying I should accept to have sex with him, that he was sacrificing himself by choosing me and I should show gratitude. Let's say I'm happy I rejected him!
I agree, the question should have been more specific if she wanted him to choose her. But she intentionally asked it differently to be mad at him for either answer. Like, just grow up.
@@AestheticAmbienceTV Absolutely negging. She made me facepalm so hard. I think he liked that she was thicker - most guys "negged" the things they liked most.
@@AestheticAmbienceTV Damn. My father was right, men are idiots when it comes to women. Let's show this girl how much I like her by shitting all over her figuratively and driving her off. Some men are lonely for damn good reasons.
Omg when you said "offer to the bleeding one" summoned a memory of my dad lmaooo
When I had my period he would be all dramatic with slowly peeking into my room before throwing a couple of chocolate snacks and shouting "Satan has been fed" as he closed the door and running away lmaooo
Best memory
Haha that's hilarious!
SATAN HAS BEEN FED LMFAO
Your dad sounds absolutely precious
My boyfriend did a very similar thing for his daughter, and my dad did for me as well. This video probably gave a lot of us daddy's girls a visceral flashback to those silly moments where even in our misery, our dad could make us laugh.
😂😂😂 Your dad
Love you so much Charlotte!
👍🤣🤣🤣
I thought it was Left, Right and Senter... 🤔
My husband once forgot the word for tampons and call them plug em ins. I still haven’t stopped laughing about it 😂😂😂😂😂
My dad went to the grocery store or pharmacy and asked for 7 day plates for my mom! 😅 He meant maxi pads 🤣
My husband calls them "Stop Leak". :)
@@amandaf5664 😂😂😂😂😂
My hubby has 3 older sisters and apparently watched the plumber as a young boy cleaning out a clog.
The plummer called them white mice lol. Had his dad chew out his sisters.
Hes called them white mice ever since 🤣🐁🐁🐁
@@Vlow_vr love it!! 😂😂😂
Can we as a group decide that tricking or "testing" our loved ones is wrong. Trapping people in a no win situation and getting mad at them because they "failed" an arbitrary test, is wrong wrong wrong.
It's toxic af and deserves to be called out. If you want reassurance, say so. Communicate like an adult. Playing mind games then being mad ppl can't read your mind is some toddler levels of delulu egocentric behavior.
It’s a move that psycoes likes to pull - and the rest of us love watching the stupid drama that unfolds 😂
Yeah that gf is crazy. I hope he finds someone less insecure
TBH, I would've answered the same.
I didn't expect that she's gonna flip it like that.
How delusional you have to be, to think that you're the prettiest girl on earth?
also her physically aggressive response, grabbing him and forcing him back in his seat when he tried to escape the car and conversation. He seemed a little scared of her the entire time, and he seems to have good reason why.
I dated someone once who asked me why there were so many cat burglers in the past. He couldn't understand why so many people would go around and steal cats! I explained what the term actually meant. He was so embarrassed and asked me never to tell anyone. I tell everyone 😂
Tell everyone 😂
Agreed this must be shared all the time 🤣we have a story like this too except it’s about our mom and her ability to kick a door down and spilt it to two 😂 all us kids still tell everyone about that glorious day our mom went Jackie Chan!
That’s embarrassing but also cute though! Tell everyone!!!!! 🐱 🐱
Tbh idk what that means 😂
At least he didn’t think the cats were burglars 😂
“Watch out with your strong self!”😂🤣😂
They clearly have a fun relationship. I hate trick questions like this, but she’s not taking it seriously and having fun with it, and THAT I can totally get behind!😂
😂 During one flow, I was replacing my super plus every hour. I didn't text my husband all day, because I was so angry and tired. Without me asking, he brought home wings, baby spinach, and chocolate (my cravings) kissed me on the forehead, and said, 'I love you, I'll be in here.' He left me alone all day. 😊
Ooooooo omg I love that for u. ❤😊😊😊
Ugh, the men of our hearts ❤❤❤
Bless him 🙏🏽
I replaxe my super plus every 30 min to every hour the 1st 2 days. I Hate it.
Okay that is,,,, not normal and I encourage you to see a doctor is you haven’t already (sorry if this comes across as unsolicited advice I’m genuinely worried 😢)
Fun fact; pads come in different sizes too!
I learned this as an adult from my fiancé who is a man. He learned from a lady working at the store when he was trying to find a different brand for me because they didn't have my preferred. Changed my entire life!
The pads she recommended are my preferred now 😂
Yeah I had to explain it to my daughter. I use tampons, but she prefers pads. So we went and bought three different kinds and three different sizes. She chose the size 5 overnight with flex foam. They work amazingly well for her
The fact that he decided to go ask someone for help is impressive. Your husband is a walking green flag.
Yeah, I had to learn the hard way😅 my mom never used them, and when I asked to get them, she said sure and bought me the regular sized and it was a mess 😅
@@erikarussell1142the flex foam ones are what I use too! I'll never switch back because they are hands down the best pads I have ever worn! So comfortable and I never have to worry about the pad adhesive failing me throughout the night. It doesn't feel like a diaper either like some of the other pads I've worn either!
i always have to use large pads because my flow is too strong
As a woman, I solely use pads due to the fact that wearing tampons or period cups (or anything that goes up and in down south) makes me uncomfortable. BUT, I do know what L, R, and S represent on tampons. L is for a light flow, R is regular, and S is for super. For simplicity, it’s light, medium, and heavy flows.
For pads, it’s the same thing. The size is based on the flow. Sizes are numerical, and range from 2 to 5. Pads come with and without wings. And FYI, you can also buy thicker pads for absorbancy.
Thank you for coming to my TEDtalk ❤
They're different in each country... for example, in my country, the Tampax can only be found in packs of 16, and they each have 2 drops for light flow, 3 drops for regular or 4 for super... and I think there's a "super plus" version of 5 drops, but I haven't seen it in quite a while. The 4 drop version is great for heavy flow and you can comfortably sleep through the night ( with a pad for extra piece of mind), 8h of uninterrupted sleep. As for the pad thickness, not very accurate here, since those are the lowest quality in my neck of the woods, because they bunch up and then you're left with "blind spots" that link straight to your undies.
Can confirm if you didn't know this about tampons. Just thought you had to them often because of toxic shock. 😅
Pad girl here with zero knowledge about tampons
😂 no tampons here for 10 years..(cups are life savers)....so this was all brand New...I thought Small Regular and Large tooo😂😂😂
Where I am from it is like you described it but there are also 2 other special pads for night time and for after your period ends when you still have some discharge left
I so love the guy who chose “kiss you for $1000.” What a gem. 😂😂 Poor man was convinced he’d answered correctly and then he realize he’d been duped. His reaction was hysterical. 😂😂😂
And I disagree. That was absolutely a trick question, and I think you can understand that your partner is not objectively the “prettiest person in the world,” and still think they are the prettiest, most shining, most special person to you personally. We love the faces of the people we love more than we love the faces of beautiful strangers because true beauty is soul-deep. But that doesn’t mean we are all gorgeous models.
I’d much rather be told “I value you more than money,” than to hear an insincere, “But you’re the prettiest person in the world!” Because -by definition- only a small percentage of people are the prettiest in the world, and I don’t think it’s insecure of me to say I’m not at that level of pretty.
Exactly!!
Except I think I'd rather mine take the money lol
@@reneeharper84 😂 I was actually thinking - if he's spending the money for My benefit too, totally do the most money.
100% ! Everything you said. The moment that clip started I heard the Star Wars meme "It's a Trap!"
Also, even if he thought she was the prettiest woman in the world, the parameters of the hypothetical specified the existence of someone prettier. By analogy, if your girlfriend asks you, "Would you fight a dragon for me?" answering "Dragons don't exist so the question is meaningless" just comes across as obnoxious and evasive. And if you answer "Yes," and your girlfriend mocks you for "believing in dragons," that's just your girlfriend being toxic (unless it's genuine lighthearted banter that's a part of your relationship). The whole point of a hypothetical question is that it involves circumstances that don't exist (there's also no one who's going to pay you $100,000 to kiss someone, unless you count acting), so people aren't expected to point that out instead of answering.
❤ absolutely, agreed
One time I "dated" (situationship) with a guy who would tell me all the time about how I wasn't his usual "type" and that usually he would go for curvier girls. He would go on and on and on about it. Men like that will use any excuse they can to tear down women they feel inferior to.
Ill tell you something hilarious: my first husband thought that if they gave me a hysterectomy ( bear in mind i was 18 at the time and already had 2 children) we wouldn’t be able to have sex anymore because a hysterectomy means they stitch your vjj all up lmao. It took me a whole month to get him to tell me why he was so upset. Its been over 40 years since i saw my ex but that still cracks me up…
😂❤
😂 lol, if only we had Google back then. Although, even if it had existed I'm not sure he would've put in the miniscule amount of time & effort required to type in "what is a hysterectomy" & press search, seeing that he could've simply asked you or your obgyn but didn't. Instead, in true idiot fashion, he guessed & couldn't have been more wrong if he tried 😂 I hope for what he lacked in intelligence, he made up for in bed.
Naomi, it’s funny that you share that story. I just took a family friend to a doctor’s appointment this morning for some female issues. She is a 68 year old lesbian and was wondering why she needed an exam of THAT type since she hasn’t been with a man since her youngest was born over 35 years ago. I had to explain that other things can happen and so it’s a good idea to keep regular gyno visits even though she is menopausal, gay, and hasn’t been with a man in so long. She shared with me why she was going for the exam (which I won’t share here cuz it ain’t my story and would take too long) and said she was worried about needing a hysterectomy. She literally asked me if she could still have sex. I was surprised by her question but kept it out of my voice when I reassured her that she would still be able to carry on an active and fulfilling s e X life even if that was required. So we can all experience not knowing or “irrational fears” even if we are supposed to be the experts. 😉
Wow. Here's to another good 40 years with someone who gets it, and lots of laughter.
This is why I’m trying to educate my teen on stuff like this.
I didn’t know what a cervix was until I was in my mid-20s and had trouble getting pregnant. I started doing research into possible causes and in part of that research I learned a lot more about anatomy and hormone cycles. Tons of info that I never learned in sex ed, health, or biology in school.
My kid’s school canceled sex ed entirely, so it’s up to me to teach it to him, and I’m trying to make sure he knows more than I did.
Before my hysterectomy, I only used pads because I physically couldn’t handle tampons. My mom couldn’t use tampons until AFTER she had me. Sometimes it just doesn’t work.
My mom got hurt wearing one so she only got us pads. That is all I wear.
I stopped using them in my teens in the early 90s when I heard about people getting very ill. I still think they are the devil lol
THANKS! I also can't use tampons them due to medical reasons, i was honestly a little bit shocked that we got pushed in the "you were pads because you think you are something *special*"-corner
I mainly use period panties( I personaly find them verry comfy) or pads. Never wore Tampons.
The first time I tried Tampons I was like: What size do I get? How the f do I even use these things?? Help!😅
I’m terrified of using them, since you’re not supposed to feel them if they’re in the right spot.
11:55 😆I love how he bent down and petted the dog to comfort him self lol
I have an aunt who despises the inflatable holiday lawn displays and she has a friend who hates them as well... Well they both manage to sneak one or more into each other's front yards in the middle of the night. (Plugged in and lit up.) I don't usually care for pranks and practical jokes, but I love this one. My aunt gets so mad, but I think she's thoroughly enjoying herself. It's hilarious.
Ok I can't deal with the "kiss me for $1000" girl antics. That stuff always makes me think of the girls who get mad because they had a dream that their boyfriend did something bad and they're mad. The inflatables lady was just funny!
Exactly what I thought of too lol. The "they did this in the dream so me being mad at them in real life makes perfect sense!" thing. So stupid.
Yeah, the onlu not funny thing was wasting huge amounts of cash on a silly prank.
I see these videos and it makes being single look not so bad
@@phastinemoon Same lol
If my bf said I was the prettiest girl in the world I’d call him a liar to his face. Like I think I’m pretty but Margot Robbie and Zendaya walk this earth, I’m not dumb 💀
I agree with Charlotte. The guy wearing the high heels to hang the curtains is a genius and not an idiot 😂
And the platform shoes fit him. They were his!
And, his booty was POPPIN'!!
well, high heels is actually made by a man, for a man, until woman widely uses it and the history changed, so he's kinda not wrong to use it
@@ahha6304 weren't platform shoes made to keep people out of the raw sewage in the streets?
@@lotstodo I only know about high heels, platform I dunno
as a girl who doesn't use tampons for reasons other than having a lighter flow -- there are lots of reasons that women don't use tampons from personal preference to comfort!
True.
Ive got pads and the period underwear
Its just nicer for me
I tried tampons but I was never comfortable wearing them, so I just stuck to pads.
I don't even know what wrong with wearing pads instead of tampons or whatever you know... like it's not your business people! They wear whatever they want, like or comfortable with!!😵
(sorry, bad English!)
"I bring offerings to the bleeding one one!" just had me in tears of laughter after a long day. Thank you so much Charlotte! I love you video and after discovering your channel I watch your videos every day just to laugh. Thank you for bringing so much light and humor.
Thank you for being here!
Yes, that was the best!
That 1st husband is so precious. I love his description. His wife is so funny. Thank you.
That’s a keeper for sure. I love how he estimated the sizes based off of his experience in bed. 😂😂😂
in his defense, I didn’t know what S, R and L stood for 😂😅
The only acceptable use of 20ft inflatable yard decor is that petty story of that woman who has a 20ft dragon for Halloween decor, her neighbor got mad and complained about it and said it was “satanic” or something, so she got another one, and she also leaves them out for Christmas as well just with a Christmas hat. So now the neighbor has to see them not only just for Halloween but from Halloween all the way to Christmas.
I do love that story. They are great. I think those dragons are pretty big too.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😍
I can’t stand those inflatable lawn decorations!!! It’s so annoying and then during the day they are all deflated and just lying there! 🙄🤣🤣
Id have em out all year and give them a decoration for whatever month it is. Easter? They now stoner bunny dragons. Saint Paddys? They drunk Irish dragons. Valentines? Those dragons be boning.
Honestly, the logic the tampon guy was using was impeccable. Makes complete sense to someone who hasn't experienced a period.
My husband's version of the speaker prank: In December he transferred out to a different location in the hospital system. The rest of his department was really sad to see him go...he is the person who always cracks jokes, makes everyone laugh, lightens tension...plus he has been there forever and is good at what he does. So, one of the things he is known for is making a very convincing bird sound, which he'll often do while walking down the halls, making people freak out and look around for the bird. Before he left he worked a weekend shift, meaning it was just him in the office. He bought one of those clocks that has a different bird chirp every hour. Of course he didn't set it for the hour....that would be a giveaway. Instead, he set the clock ahead so that it would go off 35 minutes after the hour every hour. Then, he hid it on some shelving behind a bunch of stuff. (He was going to hide it in the ceiling tiles but found it it works on a light sensor.) Cue his first day at the new location. At 9:35 he starts getting texts "WHAT DID YOU DO, MICHAEL?" They've realized it's gone off twice now, know he did SOMETHING, but don't know what. It takes a few hours, but they finally pick up on the fact that it goes off at one hour intervals. At 2:35, they all convene in the office, close the doors and become silent. (They've alerted him to this plan, so of course he starts calling the phones, but they ignore him.) As soon as it goes off they immediately start searching and find it. And then? They REHIDE it because two people weren't there that day. It takes those two a full day and a half to discover it. It's been just over a month now and he took some shifts back there the other week. The clock is still in the office, chirping merrily away every hour at 35 minutes past the hour.
That's amazing!
That makes makes me smile
Speaking of the giant inflatable yard decor, I used to work for a lady who loved them and would go all out decorating her house for the holidays. She was the type of lady who was everyone's surrogate grandma.
While I was in highschool, every Easter, Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas, she would pay me and my sister $10 an hour to help her set up the inflatables and deck out her house in lights and other holiday decor, and then to take them down after the holiday.
Edit: I personally don't like those giant inflatables either, but this lady did, and I loved her. Plus, she was paying me to help set them up.
There was a day care home that did the same thing just down the street from my high school. It was chock FULL of inflatables of every kind. Even giant ones before they made it big here in the us.
I HATE any kind of plastic crap
We have friends/neighbors who had a fun contest with us for decorating yearly; it got so competitive that our homes were included on the lights tour our city did. About a decade ago our neighbors decided to include inflatables in the equation, and they were super cute. But our neighbor knew from his brother who lived in a major metro area that apparently these things are prime targets for vandalism, and so he installed incredibly accurate security to protect his investments. Sadly it took less than a week before three asshats stabbed an inflatable. Armed with footage he called police and the culprits were *easily* identified and charged. When it came to court, he and his wife were in attendance and the punks were all charged the same day. Our friends asked the judge if, rather than sentencing them to something that likely has little to no impact on them, he could suggest an idea. Judge loved it and the delinquents were given their punishment of assisting with the installation and tear down of all decorations for one year for both our homes, and delivery of the canned goods collection we took up as a ‘charge’ to people coming to see the decor to the shelter, as well as assisting us at the shelter during the holidays with serving food, cleaning, laundry, etc.
These 3 boys are now men; 2 have married & have little ones, one is pursuing an advanced degree, all 3 have good careers and come help us set up and tear down every year to this day because they all want to. They’re all 3 really great guys and took the lesson and used it to learn. Couldn’t be happier for them.
@@JumpCutThis that's honestly so wholesome!
@@aubreycarter7624 it’s a pretty cool story we love to tell and I know the ‘offenders’ tell it often, too. No one is irredeemable, everyone has value and I’m so proud of our neighbors for being so generous and willing to give these kids another chance. Not sure I’d have done the same thing given the chance. I mean now I would but at the time? My knee jerk reaction was more or less ‘OFF WITH THEIR HEADS!!’ lol they had 10 inflatables that were really expensive and solid quality (not bought at a discount store) and were supposedly meant to hold up better- damages over a decade ago were over $3k for 5 popped so definitely not cheap. But a lesson bigger than money was learned and it honestly changed the way I looked at the world.
We were all The Grinch that day lol
The guy with the tampons had me laughing so hard because he was guessing the sizes based off of his performance in the bedroom. NOW THAT’S A KEEPER! 😂😂😂
Yes, he's a keeper. But I wouldn't call him an idiot. He doesn't use those products. How is he supposed to know what the sizes are for.
I could almost never use tampons because I needed super plus, max density
technically, they aren't sizes, they are absorbancies. Calling them sizes is bound to get confusing.
@@Laura-mi3nvwell they actually are different sizes too as the tampax mini are tiny compared to super plus.
@@jessicaspecht He was an idiot because he should have said that she needs the small ones. LOL!
I love the guy who says "I'm gullible!" Over the $1000 kiss question...😅
If you date a larger person, whether its a woman or man, and their size bothers you so much that you feel the need to bother them about it or body shame, just break up and move on. Don't torture someone because you have problems. The relationship won't get any better.
Exactly. It’s completely fine to have preferences! Just don’t be mean about it.
And those are labelled as Psychopaths, Sociopaths and Narcissists - People with BPD. It's not natural for any creature on the planet to bully another of its own kind to feel better. Survival of the fittest is to survive, not torment. It's to outlive others in extreme environments to grow and reproduce, to take and to kill if needed to survive - not to bully and humiliate others for it's own joy. @@quenoselecruzenadie
"THAT'S A TRICK QUESTION, I'M GULLIBLE" is such a mood
Setting up your boyfriend with a trick question that they'll almost certainly fall for just to act mad at the result is such a dick move to me. Especially when the question frames the girlfriend and the 'prettiest girl' as seperate individuals. Also its just delusional to think that you should be the prettiest person to someone just because they're dating you. If anything I would hope that her boyfriend is with her because of her non-physical attributes. But I'm autistic and overthink everything so its probably fine.
In my answer I would first stipulate that the prettiest girl is Taylor Swift. No way she can argue with that.
I would've just said a random celebrity or break up with her insecure ass
He sure as hell isn't with her for her personality.
I hate that too- like I have a boyfriend and obviously he thinks I’m pretty. If he told me Margot Robbie or Gal Gadot was prettier than me, idk if I could argue that, cause I would kiss them over him for $100,000 too!
@@rachelsato7953 Girl yes. I might even kiss them for the 1000!
@ 2:12 "I'm a girl and I don't even know myself (I don't use tampons)" PADS HAVE THE EXACT SAME SYSTEM! GURL!!😂😂
They have sizes only small, large and extra large unless it's different per country.
I’ve never seen these sizes either. I think it’s an American thing.
@@M_SC Australian here ... We have pretty much the same system, so it's not just them ... Tampons are easy - only we don't have "light" we have "mini" otherwise "regular" and "super" ... pads gets a little complex, there's "liners" then "regular" then "super" then "overnight/goodnight" (which is pretty self-explanatory) ... Where it gets interesting is if you want "sport", "superthin", "invisable", "maxi" (size, not flow!), "cotton" and on it goes!!! We still use the droplets system though :)
I feel sorry for dudes sent on a mission for these things - give the poor boy a photo of what you want!!
*I'm glad I'm nearly menopausal, except for the never knowing when it's gonna show up, it's very light and very short these days - HORAY!! I'm so over it!!!
Yes
Most people don’t use tempons in our country..tbh i never see tempons in real life hahahhaa
I’ve always hated the inflatable yard decorations too! They don’t have the same “magic” as traditional lights. But….when my Bluey obsessed 1 year old, saw them and got so excited, my husband decided we were “those type of folks” now! 5 feet tall Bluey and Bingo inflatables lived on own lawn. Our baby’s face was priceless.
5 feet is way better than 20 feet. I could tolerate that size inflatable to put that kind of smile on my kid’s face 🥰
the fat shaming is actually really common in dating. Experienced it a lot even when I was really thin, the guy would always reference my size... Pretty fedup with it. Wouldn't put up with it now.
Dang, it's almost like that guy could never catch you if you were skinny, so he thinks he can if you're "fat". That's not a man, that's a child. I get a lot of skinny hate, and I called fat when I was 70lbs heavier. Men and women will show their true colors when they speak to you about your weight, for sure. I lost a couple friends who didn't understand I LOVED myself bigger, and I LOVE myself now. Fk them meth addicted weirdos
I’m 43. I talk to a guy, fwb. He always seems really into my body so I think he made a really bad joke (maybe he was actually trying to make me feel bad about myself, but he’s never done it before or since, so I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt).
He said “you’re a little fat” while rubbing my gut (I’m not overweight, I’m on the high end of healthy weight, not that it matters) and I somehow immediately replied “well, you’re a little short but you’ve never heard me bring that up”.
I never have such quick comebacks so inside I was like YES! And he was like 👀
@@JennRighter Well-done. Don't let it get to you. I just think it's such a clichee "toxic" guy thing that I wouldn't even put up with it once anymore.
My fiancé was always disappointed that I was so fat at size 16. He said that because I couldn't satisfy him physically, he was going to have to find a beautiful blond (I have dark hair) petite woman to have on the side. He loved my personality, and other parts of me, but just physically I didn't do it for him. After a while I was so twisted by him that I had believed him. To be honest, he wasn't my type physically as well, but I loved him for him. I would have never told him that. But he was so good at chipping away at my self esteem I lost myself. I ended up never getting married.
I'm so sorry that happened to you! You didn't deserve that
Wow, that’s the most numbing feeling in the world to have someone chipping away at your self esteem.
Please tell me he’s your ex 😮
Mine did that but I was stupid enough to marry him. Thank goodness no kids!
Oh honey! That's a very bad toxic man .. putting you down to lift himself up and give a "solid" excuse to cheat.
I am not ashamed to say that I LOVE the little pictures of random people with your face on them. I will never tire of that!
Random people and, apparently, random burgers!
I asked my husband the Prettiest girl question. His reply was "according to who's perspective of pretty", and then said "I'm getting $101,000, because according to my perspective, it's you." First was the right answer. I laughed so hard.
That’s so sweet 🥹
it reminded me of that episode of That 70's show when Kitty asked Red: "Red, do you think I'm smart?" and Red was like "so that's what we're gonna do today, we're gonna fight..."😆
my husband immediately went for the $100 thousand and still didn't get it once I explained it to him. I can't blame him though, I'm clearly not the prettiest girl in the world, and he can still take me out for dinner with all that money.
If my husband didn’t answer “prettiest girl” I’d be pissed. We’ve been married 20 years and we know how we both look and I could get a new kitchen and bathroom.
He answered me, he’s sweet.
using pads over tampons is not a matter of how heavy your flow is, some women have really heavy flows but prefer pads over tampons because tampons are really irritating and can dry out your vagina more and cause infections. and some prefer pads cause of religious purposes, so i really dont think we should be judging people for using whatever they're comfortable with.
And some people can't use tampons due to physical differences, especially after childbirth.
I’m fat and short I can’t reach to put in a tampon
I had used exclusively pads until I was 27 (just pure preference), but then, due to some health issues, ended up with a really heavy flow for a couple of months continuously (to the point I had to use adult diapers and change them every couple of hours).
Once the issue got resolved, my heavy flow ended up heavier than before (I'm fine, just have a slightly different normal now), so I decided to try tampons for the first time. Still only use them if I have to be out and only on the heaviest of days. Guess I just prefer pads over the other methods out there.
I think she’s more referencing the woman who act better than everyone else bc they wear a pad. There are also women who act better than everyone else bc they wear tampons
@@SilverwolfpriestessI use heavy flow pads. I’ll use a tampon if needed though.
I love that the guy with the speaker prank checks on the dog, that's so wholesome.
Same same.
I thought that was so sweet, too!
The dog was totally unbothered. That should have been his clue. 😂
With the amount of giggles I have per video, Charlotte is my bestie. She doesn’t know it and I’m not her bestie, but SHE IS ✨MY✨ BESTIE!
In 2024, Charlotte has taught me that 3 days is a very long time when you're missing someone and waiting, waiting, waiting for their next video lol!
I hope this year, everything she's working toward and the dreams she's balancing soar and her achievements turn to spilled glitter....bright, sparkly, all over the place, and impossible to get rid of!
This is so sweet 😭😭😭❤
I have been really feeling this too... Almost like when a close friend you spend a lot of time with moves away for something that will make their life better and makes them really happy. Like you are so excited for them and supportive, but it doesn't mean you don't miss seeing them as often.
Once dated a guy that got a flat tire, he had a full sized spare and had it put on. He then proceeded to throw the ripped flat tire still attached to the wheel in the dumpster (gone forever). It took hours of me explaining how the tire can be removed from the wheel and replaced. He had no clue they were two different things. He legit didn’t believe me until we went to Sam’s Club and I pointed out they just sell the tires and it would be insane to stock every wheel for every make and model vehicle on the road. He did other stupid mess but that one blew my mind 😂😂😂
I never thought I was an idiot UNTIL I became menopausal! Something for you young ladies to look forward to. I found my iPhone in the fridge and a block of cheese in my handbag. Also, was sat quietly thinking about 9/11 and due to UK and US people writing their dates differently I asked my husband ‘what date is September 11th?’ He was so confused!
That's like someone asking, "What's the number for 9-1-1?".
I so understand that! Thankfully I’m through it all! I think 😂😂😂 I still lose my glasses on top of my head every day! My poor American husband of 26+ years still gets confused when I write the date so I have to put 2 January 2024, just an example, on things for him in his diary or as her calls it ‘his calendar’! 😂😂😂 he’s had to rewrite cheques so often!
Hate to break it to you. That isn't menopause. It's just age - men have it as well. No-one is safe. Getting old isn't for the weak...♥
Perimenopausal 🙋🏻♀️ I got mad at my husband last week because I couldn’t remember the words “ tape measure “ and he didn’t automatically know what I was saying. I also went and grabbed my sewing kit and held it up and said “ this thing “ because the measuring tape was INSIDE the box. Monday I put eyeliner on my lips. I feel like a crazy person.
I've been so stressed over the last year, because I've been having episodes of memory loss where I cannot find the name or word I'm looking for. It's happening more frequently and I was worried about dementia. Turns out I'm just perimenopausal. I also learned about sweating even when you're cold. Not all hot flashes are actually hot. Our bodies just fuck with us so hard.
That jacked bro was about to creatine shit himself with that "speaker prank" 🤣🤣
My ex in all seriousness thought you had to have an accent to speak another language. We worked at a factory at the time and there was a sister plant down in Mexico that a team of engineers from our plant went down to help set up.
One thing led to another and one of the team members met her husband down there. My ex was not fond of this young lady and in a fit of bad-mouthing her one evening, in all seriousness, he brought her marriage into it and said "I don't know how that even works because they don't speak the same language!"
Me: "She speaks Spanish." (Which is part of why she went down in the first place, she is quite fluent)
Him: "No she doesn't."
Me: "... Yeah, she does..?"
Him: "She can't, she doesn't have an accent!"
I blew his mind when I said a few phrases in Spanish, German, and Chinese (very basic stuff, like hello and how are you).
That was just one of many, many examples... 😅
If my husband did the 'SEND NUDES' roses, I think I would have an out of body experience, but from dying laughing. I think it's hilarious, but cute in the way he still went out of his way to do it. I say its a plus to the romance if both parties can have a good laugh about it!
SAME I would be crylaughing
Here’s a horror story for you Charlotte that’s only related to the first clip and when u mentioned diva cups.
I don’t use tampons bc for some reason I get some kind of allergic reaction. I’ve tried different brands, different materials they’re just not for me.
So I started using a diva cup and it was just fantastic. Until one day I went to remove it and it’s little “tail” snapped off. I couldn’t get a hold of the base of it and there was now no tail to pull it out.
I ended up going to the urgent care room at my doctor and said “I need whoever is available and willing to fish around in there I don’t care if they’re male or female let’s do this”
The only doctor available was this 70 year old Albanian guy and he listened to the problem, there was a nurse that acts as a chaperone because I’m female the doctors male it’s just protocol, she understood what the task at hand was.
He pulled out a clear plastic speculum that was horribly made and cut me upon insertion.
He then looked up at me and said “I don’t see the string”
I looked at my friend who came with me like “is this guy serious?”
The nurse had to stop the procedure and explain what a diva cup is, how you remove it and why I needed help.
He had listened to the front desk nurses tell him what he was doing, he had his chaperone nurse tall him what he was doing, I had explained again when he came in the room, and he did not understand that it was not a tampon until he was elbow deep and and had to be stopped to have it explained a 4th time.
Never again am I walking into a medical facility and saying “I don’t care if male or female give me who’s available” bc apparently even some doctors are just clueless men when it comes to feminine hygiene.
You’re not supposed to pull on the tail 😅 Have you been comfortable wearing cups again?
PS: my Lady Cup celebrates its 10th anniversary this year !! #tmi lol
@MaeRose26 I mean I didn't die but I haven't gone near a cup since.
@@leamubiu as if it hasn't degraded!?
I was never able to pinch the bottom of the cup like you're "supposed to" it was always to... Slick
@MaeRose26 OOF yeah I stick with pads now. Just more comfortable.
@@Jamiesonlindley Nope, it’s in great shape :) when I find it too discolored I give it a sodium percarbonate bath, then it looks new again. The medical-grade silicone has held up all this time.
It was the "I'm gullible!" that had me cackling. Lmao
I hate it when women ask these trick question of their partners for which there are no right answers. I’m a woman and I’d never do that to my spouse. I admit, though, that when I was young I did twist my former partner’s words during arguments. Once she said “ You’re twisting my words.” I realized she was right and how wrong I was to do that. I was so ashamed of myself I’ve done that again.
Good post. The person doing that was setting up the person who cared about her, in a way that only worked because he cared about her. That's not a good reason to mistreat someone. (PS - check your editing again - I am sure you lost a word on the last sentence. Cheers.)
There was a “right answer” .. it was “I would kiss you for $101,000” … but yes you are very right. It’s silly lol.. I only ask my bf these silly questions so we can laugh together lol.. regardless of the answer. Never as a real defining thing or to start an argument
Some people like jokes
I ask my fiance hypothetical questions all the time but I never get mad at his answer they're just silly questions like 1 was, if I was a cat next to a 100000000 dollars who would you pick? Obviously he's gonna pick the money but I just like to pick at his brain and see where his logic response comes in
@@kissit012Then they shouldn’t get mad over the “wrong” answer like she did
LOL I would get mad at my hubby for NOT choosing to kiss the prettiest girl! Please do go kiss her! I want the 100K for the down payment we've been working so hard for 😂
Same!
Exactly! Like we could buy a lot of stuff with that lol
😂 My thoughts exactly! That's a lot of money.
Right?!?! My husband tells me this all the time! "If a rich guy wants to date you, marry him and then divorce him for half and come back to me" 😂😂😂
Same! I'd be fine with either answer! Either he's being sweet to me, or he's thinking about the nice things we could do with the cash!
So my husband and I have this thing where we basically worship eachother and have done so since the very beginning. As long as we both keep doing what we've been doing these past 6 years, we're golden 😂 really tho, he adores me, making it very well known, and I absolutely adore him, making sure he knows. We have a unicorn relationship, and I wish everyone could experience a relationship where both parties are 100% in! It's WILD!
I have this relationship with my boyfriend and I am so, SO grateful! It has me looking around at everyone else I know in their relationships constantly bickering & making unfair/unfavorable compromises and all I can think is …yeah, after my boyfriend, I couldn’t settle for anything less!
I have the same relationship with my bf, it's priceless!
OMG THIS IS SO PRECIOUS
My husband and I do too! ❤
Once dated a girl who thought the Cadbury commercials were accurate & asked why she never heard my pet rabbit cluck like a chicken
6:53 as a man who absolutely hated it when my ex-girlfriend pop quizzed me, this is a particularly low blow, and baby girl is insecure as all hell! You need to understand that there are always going to be better looking people than you, so to get mad at him about that says a whole lot more about you than it does about him!
And this applies to men, women, and everything in between! There are always going to be people in this world that look better than you. But for a great many people, looks aren't everything! If my girlfriend gave me that kind of reaction after such a trick question, I would have broken it off right then and there, because that is a 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@@esmooth919I absolutely agree with you! I never do these lame trick questions with my husband. Do I think I'm pretty? Yes. Do I think there are women prettier than me? yes. But he chose me and that's all that matters. I don't understand why people try to do these things to embarrass their significant other for likes on social media. It's pathetic and your spot on when u said this girl is insecure.
agreed, if its a dumpable offense, then I dont want to here how good looking some actor is when I am watching a moving with her, which lets be honest is every movie ever.
Exactly 😂 Do I think I'm prettier than the rest of the world? Absolutly not. And a couple is not together solely for looks (at least I hope so), so getting mad at your partner because you are not the prettiest girl in the world is so stupid
Mirror mirror on the wall.........
For the "kiss the prettiest girl" question. She didn't ask if he'd rather kiss her or who HE thought was the prettiest girl in the world. She just said her or the prettiest girl in the world. For starters, beauty is subjective so it would be impossible to pick the most beautiful. That aside, if she can't fathom that there might be other women out there more beautiful than her, then she needs a serious ego check. Your partner can think you're the prettiest, sure. But even if they don't, because they know rationally there are other more beautiful people out there, they still chose you, they appreciate your beauty AND what you contribute to the relationship. Beauty is only skin deep.
i think zendaya is the most beautiful but my best friend genuinely does not agree. so it doesn’t really matter how pretty you are because there’s always going to be other girls that are also pretty. zendaya is jaw dropping but there are still ppl who don’t think she’s the prettiest. looks shouldn’t have to matter so much anyways but i understand why they do
I was taught that pretty is as pretty does. I don't care how beautiful someone is, if they act in an ugly way they're not pretty even if they are good looking.
I started wearing tampons in high school after overhearing a bunch of guys talking about the seven step rule and what they could see. We had to wear uniforms at my high school, girls had to wear a 10 pleat skirt. The seven step rule was that if a guy was behind a girl more than 7 steps on the stairwell they could see your underwear. I heard one guy mention he could see a pad and the other guys were grossed out and said a lot of horrible stuff about the girls in my school. I wore shorts under my skirt after that.
Those guys sound like assholes ngl
As a dad, and a decent human being, this leaves me incoherent with anger. WHY should the girls have to fix a situation the school caused?? And then what the boys were teaching each other, because the school didn't step up for them either. Lose lose lose situaton.
I could never understand why they had girls wearing these skirts. And it felt like they were getting shorter and shorter. Especially if the goal was modesty. I'm guessing a pervy catholic priest came up with it because we only saw them in parochial schools.
That's so gross. The boys are literally one step away from up skirting which is ILLEGAL and the girls are the ones who have to worry about it rather than the boys being punished for it.
We were taught at school to hold our skirts tight on the back of our legs while walking up steps. I still do this.
I'm just proud of any man thats willing to even talk about periods just in general, but especially if they're willing to contribute (ie: buying feminine products, cravings, and respecting their womans physical and emotional needs). There are literally grown ass men who are married, with biological children, who still believe women can turn their period on and off like a light switch. One of my exes had zero experience when we started dating. Like, had never so much as asked a girl out or held hands, etc, level zero. The first time I was on my period after we started dating, he ASKED me to take him to the store and show him what products I used so he would know where they were in the store and what to buy if he ever needed to get me products. I still miss that one. He was very attentive to my emotional needs, but we just had very different life goals, and it started tearing us apart, so we decided to split while we could still be friendly. By far, the healthiest relationship I've ever been in and we still talk on occasion.
Perfect example of why more girls and women should give the quiet guys or guys with less dating experience a chance.
My husband is the quiet type with little dating experience before we met. Discovered early on in dating that he was going back to school so he could work in healthcare. Part of his early education was to first work as a CNA where he did things like help bathe elderly people with mobility issues. He now has two certifications (not counting the CNA, which is now expired), and he’s seen some pretty scary things. Now, he doesn’t flinch at a used tampon in the trash. Well… he never did. He also has a handful of sisters.
I was listening to a podcast, I think it was Sarah Silverman's (you should check it out, it's brilliant) when single mum asked how she could bring her son up to be a better man. Another listener came back and said "talk to him about periods".
What amazing advice!
The question one had me rolling my eyes. It's a trick question made for people to give the wrong answer and everyone laughs and that's it. "I'm not the prittiest girl to you?" is like "would you love if I was a worm?". Stop with stupid questions if you're gonna be upset at the answerrrr
Haha, I dated a guy once who used to leave me these (unintentionally) hilarious voicemails in which he’d ask me a question… and then proceed having a convo as if id answered… ie: “hey girl, what’s up with you?…nothin’” 😂😂😂
Nah - ' it's a trick question, I'm gullible ' is the perfect response 🤣🤣🤣
I really hope your nabours were home when you yelled "YOUR FLOW YOUR FLOW YOUR PERIOD FLOW HOW MUCH BLOOOOD!"🤣
If a guy said to me “I’ve never dated a women your size” my immediate response would be “I’ve never dated a guy your size, but you know anything for charity” 😊
😂
If a short guy ever hates on you, tell him “your small dick complex tells me all i need to know about how big you are..” lol or something
That’s good!
The girl whitening her boyfriend’s tooth is hella creepy. Imagine how she’d react if she found out he was doing something to her body while she slept.
You know, you make a good fucking point..if someone did that shit to me I'd feel that way. But when I watched it I just was like, ok that's funny she's fucking with him just like guys like to fuck with girls and piss them off...but honestly..it is pretty fucked up.
Agreed. Psycho territory.
She was clearly doing it for the content. Content brained individuals creep me out. Like why. You really get them serotonins from the likes huh??
Agreed. It seemed like a brand thing so might be staged, but I don't get what's funny about the idea itself of modifying someone else's body without their consent and knowledge.
More than creepy it was very rude and disrespectful. Charlotte Made a good point about how he's supposed to fix it. If it was a guy doing that to her the urgent wouldn't find it funny
The speaker prank!!! I love how he had to pet the dog like the dog was scared and not him!! 😂😂😂😂 I was laughing so hard my two year old had to check on me!
"These are for regular sized 🐈" 😂😂😂
I had to pause the video and ask my boyfriend the kissing question. His response " well then I'd get 100k just from kissing you" he's so sweet! 🥰
I hate those relationship test questions - why do people have to be so manipulative? Firstly if I asked my husband that I would expect him to say $100,000 because it’s not believable otherwise and we could have some amazing things together for 100 grand. Also I’m not stupid enough to think I am the prettiest person in the world or that my husband is the best looking guy. It’s just weird to pretend otherwise and I hate the testing stuff.
totally agree! I'd TELL him to go kiss the other girl for $100K and we can split it and have a great time! LOL
😂it is exactly what I thought!! Like come on… who are you scamming here? Most of people have eyes and common sense
Literally came here to comment the same thing. Kiss her and bring home that $100,000. We buying a house.
Sad sad woman…
My husband would ask me how I came to that stupid idea? Yes he looks at other woman but hey that’s why we got eyes, he asked me once because his friend got in a big argument about it, why i didn’t act like she did? So I asked him because I’m looking at other men, is she so insecure that she can’t handle her man looking around? We as a couple say often enough look this woman/ man looking good. Or he points out what he likes what the other woman is wearing and if I would try it on? We’re married for 30 years and we trust one an other. There’s no jealousy in this household.
I like how you say super plus is for the really bad days when you hide in your room but I'm over here needing ultra for my usual flow
Same and these Mfrs still MAKIN ME GO TO WORK!!! AAAAAAAAHHH-
Omg yes! Same.
Recently got on HRT so I ain't gotta deal with it no more but yeahhhh I was a Ultra guy and oh my god the agony 😭
Same a super last 2 hour for me and super plus like 4 hours
That was me. Turned out to be endometriosis. I had to diagnose myself by reading medical textbooks and begging the doc to do the diagnostic surgery. Then took me about another 20 or so years to get a surgeon to burn off the nerve that some endometrial cells had attached to. So now I don’t have an electrical storm in my clitoris. If your flow is super heavy, even if your doc says it’s normal, it’s not. Find a holistic health practitioner who can help you get your body rebalanced. You will be much happier with your lady time. I hope you find relief.
The guy that answered the trick question has such an amazing attitude I love him lol
If you ever wondered what it's like to be schizophrenic and experience mild auditory hallucinations the speaker prank is pretty much exactly like it 😂 The only difference is no matter how long you search you will never get closer to the sound, you will never escape it 🙃
Signed a bipolar schizophrenic 💀🧡
my husband has paranoia schizophrenia and damn the things he saw at night once he saw a baby crawl across the bed 😅 but he also " saves me from stuff " I just calm him down tell him nothings there and help him back to sleep
@@aussiefamily4886my 5th of 7 nephews has the same issues. He used to think ifyou pt 2 flat rocks together it would stop time. He also thought rocks were his friends. That poor baby had an IQ equal to Einstine and he got into an accident and injured is head and that sweet boy lost himself. He will always be my favorite of that sister's boys
@@theresaschuebel5151 I'm so sorry hes going tho that I hope you and all the people you love and care for the very best
@@aussiefamily4886 he has always been the sweetest of her boys. He is 42, but has ad it for the last 20 to 22 years. I think my 25 year old was 3 or 4 when it happened. I'm 54 and was turned 12 17 days after he was born. He always hungry on me like a monkey so I have always called him monkey boy. My oldest daughter's was like that with her dad so he called her monkey girl. My girls have always adored Mark Thomas (my nephew) and he loved the fact that Danielle was called monkey girl. My youngest daughter Caitie is extremely protective of Mark and will verbally fight anyone whom hurts him. He lives in the granny/mother in law apartment of my kid sister's home. We are 5 sister's and Mark is second son of sister 2 whom livesin another state. Mark had lived with my parents after the car crash because my sister already had her hads full with her youngest son whom is physically handicapped. My mom was caring for Mark even after my dad's battle with cancer and until her own battle with cancer took them both. Sally my kid sister is a Certifed Nurse so he was was best with her.
@@aussiefamily4886 sorry auto correct changed Hung to hungry
A family friend is working in our basement, where I am sitting and watching videos.. and I wasn't able to get to my volume in time before "FLOW! FLOW! YOUR PERIOD FLOW!" Thank you, Charlotte 🤣 You're hilarious. I love your videos 💜 (Edit: And sorry to this man 🤷🏼♀️😂)
And for the husband dealing with Xmas blow up statues in the yard , I'm stunned he isn't more worried about how much she's been spending on them !!!
🤣 Right?! That would be my husband’s first question! I kept waiting for that husband to ask her that.
I was thinking how nice to be able to spend so much money on silly things. 😏
Going by the vehicles, trailer, and property, they may have no issue spending money on those things.
I hated that "would you rather" question!!!!!!!
I fell for it like him!!!! I got you bro... 😂😂😂
2:26 Wait, why would using pads imply only a light flow? 🤔 _They also_ come in in Super (& Overnights, which is 1 advantage over tampons), exactly like the coochie plugs do. I'm a lifelong pad girl, & my first 4 days I always bleed like a gut-wound.
I use pads bc I cannot forget them, can _see_ when they need changing, they don't put me at risk of TSS, & I just find them more comfortable (25-odd years of intermittent attempts in every position + using lube, & I _still_ can't find that mythic placement where you supposedly cannot feel it to a distracting degree; IDK, maybe I have a tilted canal or something); I only employ tampons if I'm swimming or taking a bath.
Same ma'am same
Exactly! I have never been able to um… insert them. That’s why I don’t use them. There are ultra thick night time pads too lmao it’s nothing to do with a light flow, what!? Haha
Same!!! I bleed hardcore the first ⅔ of my period and I use them overnight pads. I used to use tampons regularly but I'm bad at forgetting them (out of sight out of mind) and pads are so much easier
I’ve never used tampons in my life and kind of don’t understand how they could possibly stop those massive golf-ball sized clots that come out. The cotton can only absorb the blood, not the clots, (like with pads)so what happens to those clots? Do they just get plugged by the tampon, but not absorbed, so they all come flying out at once when you pull the tampon out? Also, what if you think your flow will be heavier than it is, but then it’s actually not, so you have a mostly dry tampon coming out? Doesn’t that hurt?
That’s just one of the reasons I’ve never used them. The other reason is that I get squeamish thinking about shoving a foreign object into my body and not being able to feel it. Like if something is in my body like that, I wanna be able to feel where it is. I don’t want this piece of cotton just inside me and not know exactly where it is at all times. Does that not freak other people out? Plus, the thought of the string breaking and having to reach up their and fish it out makes me want to gag lol. If anything’s going in there that far it better be attached to something much stronger than a flimsy little string. 🤣
Same, they hurt me like heck and I have reactions to them! I have to be careful with what pads I use and was so mad when Kotex changed the material they used.
As a girlie with PCOS and had EXTREME blood flow. When you capped at super only I was like NO NO THERES MORE CHARLOTTE DONT FORGET 😭 I went through super+ in a couple hours. No wonder my teens were spent with anemia.
I used the “u” tampons which is bigger than super plus lol 😂
The tampon husband was so funny and cute. Love their relationship, she was laughing the entire time. I loved them and their energy.
You can hear the hissing from the reindeer from 40 feet away hahahah! 🦌
One time I was going to the market and I asked my mom if she needed anything, and she was really in a bad mood and gave me a five and said "Get some Maxi-pads for your father!" I laughed and thought it was a joke. When I came back without Maxi-pads she was even more angry, because it turns out he needed them while he was recovering from butt surgery.
Lmao butt surgery
They make special pads for that!
Can’t use a diva cup, looks like a murder scene after going 9 rounds trying to pull the dang thing out, but I do recommend the period panties. They’ve been a game changer for me💖
Also, my hubby better go kiss the prettiest woman in the world, TAKE THAT MONEY AND BUY ME A HOUSE, BABY!!!🤣🤣
😂❤ great response about the kiss
Agreed! We have a mortgage baby!
Omg yes! We have a mortgage. Let's get us some money!!!😅
true! cut the pretty bs, go kiss some Giselle or Bella and bring that bag 😄
Period panties??? Going in your underwear all day & not changing it seems really gross
Holy hell that whitening one was so horrible!
YOU DO NOT MESS WITH PEOPLES TEETH WITHOUT CONSENT!
Now he has to either have wonky teeth or bleach them all, plus he didn't even have a say in if he wanted it, the product et.c
I'd _never_ bleach my teeth at home, if even at all, I'd call the police on her if she did it to me.
Unless I lost it completely.
agreed, he's dating an idiot fr
I jokingly asked my SO, and He asked me "Are we talking globally or subjectively?" I said subjective, and He said "Oh, so I kiss you for 100k, nice."
This is the correct answer XD
I personally hate those "trick" questions that set the other person up to fail, what point does it even serve? You only end up upsetting yourself as well as the other person. Why would you want to play those kind of stupid mind games with someone you supposedly love/care about?
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Yeah I hate those setups. Dick move like another poster said. I also hate anything tricking kids. So stupid and really needs to be banned.
@@lunatuna79 Agreed!
I had to explain to my 50yo bf who has daughters and has been married that pads have wings and tampons have strings. He literally did not understand the difference 😂(ex bf)
Who has daughters!!!!!! The bar is on the floor honestly
I guess the fact that he had a wife who delivered babies and he didn't bother to find out then? Was insane to me. How can you be with a woman and be engaged sexually, and not be aware of her body functions. 😳
Sometimes i laugh just because Charlotte is laughin' too😂❤ or when she screams and makes those facial reactions, so funny...i swear is always the best part.😂❤
Absolutely ❤
7:38 “so I’d have $101,000?”
Dude doesn’t know how to save himself from a trap.
OMG! The remark about coming to the door with offerings 😂! So true. My husband grew up with sisters and was so patient.
I won't lie, if I walked into a hotel room and saw my boyfriend had gotten send nudes written on the bed, I'd find it fricken hilarious 😂can't just be me, surely. The only other thing on my mind would be "YOU MADE SOMEBODY DO THIS!?" with a smidge of second hand embarrassment HAHA
I recently switched to period underwear and it changed my life with my heavy ass periods 😭❤️
I wear those at night WITH my ultra tampons. So much 🩸. 😬
Ive always wondered how those work and if i should get them. Like is there something u have to insert in the underwear? Do u wash em by themselves?
I was an addict for 16 years. Was 5'4 110 at 36 (had 2 kids) then got Clean and was 135 after being 3 years clean. Went on a date with someone who knew me from my drug dys and his comment was " I know ppl gain when getting clean but you don't have to go obese" that comment ALMOST made me go ba k to the drugs thankfully I was proud enough of my accomplishment not to... but men..... watch WHT you say!!! Could be life or death you don't know the situation that woman is in
135 is still thin and that was so uncalled for regardless of how you looked or what you weighed! I can’t believe people.
Obese??? 135 is FARRR from obese. His head is SO far up his bum! That's a nice healthy weight with zero issues.
Pre-hysterectomy, I was a pad girlie bc nothing else would contain the blood. 😅 I had to upgrade to number 5 & 6 pads. (Thanks, endometriosis!) They're often recommend for post partum bleeding. SO much better than the typical Always Overnight pads- no more waking up to a crime scene!
I have endometriosis too, and have to use both, and still sometimes set an alarm halfway through the night so I don't ruin the bed. I have a big patch taped over the vulnerable part of my mattress too, in case I sleep through. Nightmare.
@@UsandEveryoneWeKnow Ugh, I'm so sorry. I used to do that too (although I usually would just steal a clean one of my dog's puppy pads bc the human ones are expensive). It's just the worst. Washable waterproof liners for the mattress were kind of a lifesaver. (Like, the square cloth ones) I hope you're able to find relief, whatever treatment you're pursuing! I hope your doctor is taking you seriously too- that kind of bleeding requires serious iron supplements!
I'm a pad girl because I have a genuine phobia of any kind of penetration. I physically can't bring myself to put anything up there and any depiction of- giggity- makes me squeamish and cry. I've never even had a partner or any such interaction, just the thought of it scares me too much.
It's okay love, you aren't the only one. Some of us do have low intimacy requirements and it's okay.
You could always talk to someone professional to hash out that trauma behind that.
Same, friend. I couldn't even get a pap smear because just the feeling made me panic. Luckily my gyno listened to me when I said it's too much and suggested I come another time.
I’m the same way I just would rather not have anything up there to catch the blood. I’d rather have it just come out
@@GamerNerdess Not a totally wrong response, but one of my coworkers was a trauma-free virgin who refused tampons and pap smears. No drama, completely competent and balanced person. Just ... no touchee. Takes all kinds.
Guy handling the trick kissing question is adorable. Okay, he got it wrong, but he’s still a keeper! (“Watch out with your strong self, girl!” LOL)
Charlotte I've been watching your videos and I just love your personality! Keep them coming!