After marriage Bhai , behen rishteydar ban jatey hai , woh bhi kisi ke kaam ke nahi hote, woh bhi jalne aur competition karne lagte hai, trust yourself only
It is true that once school life ends, you can't find true friends. But family relations are also over-rated. Majority of abuse and cheating is done by parents, siblings and relatives, NOT friends. Also the property disputes, domestic violence, child sexual abuse, dowry happens because of family relations.
So called school true friends also betray us when we face downfall or start prosperous in academics,financially, girls bhi main reasons hoti hai. Options are always available there for them
@@ArreSidu i had one childhood friend who lived in my street,we both gone same school nursery to 5th class & 2nd school 6th to 10th class those days i spend best time ever,kai our dost bhi Bane per jab academically+ financially may down hota gya toh usne bhi chod diya, 2nd friend was with me just because he didn't own had any identity he was using my name or live with me because i was nice guy many teachers & girls knew me, i was very good in science, SST, English, drawing just because of math fobiya i feel insecure it seems like i don't know anything in math,that silently killing me inside i change tution, but I don't know what happened with me and i downfall 👎 other subjects academically, they have car cycle bike, i used to go 2km by walk for tution math, English that time my so called true friends backside me and laugh at myself,start bulling me Now they are nothing I
Bitter but 100 % Friendship is really over rated relationship and reason for suffering and Kalesh in personal relationship.This is an eye opener episode. Thank you so much Sir
Sir ur 1000% correct my husband spent all his life outside home going on with friends and giving them first preference and use to spend hours ,on working days and all his awaking hr on holidays ,never use to help in the house thoughI was a working women, now he is 67 I and the children don’t have any love or respect for him. The day he is bedridden he will be lying down there looking up the walls
Friendship is over-rated is probably an accurate statement. But friends also show their value in taking someone to the hospital or bringing someone from the station in one's absence. Such help is done without any financial expectation. The video is an eye-opener in the sense that we should be watchful of people who are agreeing to everything that we are saying. They can be a so called friend or a cunning family member.
Sir, you are a gem. You should have started to create such a Video long before... 🙂 but anyways ...just want to tell .... you are doing true service to Society .. Thankyou so much!
Absolutely correct right from the word go...as wife/husband, and Father will make you realise ground reality hence you keep them away and go into an imaginary world with friends....
I agree but I have experienced my friends giving me strength when I was. Very down. My whole office took care of me when I was pregnant, even bringing food because I couldn't cook as I was puking with every smell. And my mother in law forget it.
Most of these friends who is take up spouse's time irrationally are the ones who themselves also have a bad married life... Don't know how many will agree but just my observation..
On one side you are right that friends are just like time pass or time waste and never give us true happiness. Family is priority. But on the other side, truth is after marriage family equations get change Man is sandwiched between mother and wife and dont talk or communicate with his wife because of his parent's insecurity. Ladies makes their own kitty friends because there is no value of her at home and treated like a maid specially housewives. no one is their to listen them at home . Parents will either interfere because they have no work so either they will judge or interfere in home or they have to make their own social group. So friends are also important to keep peace at home. But as you said we should choose friends wisely and not like who ruin our relationships but work as a mentor and create more happiness and peace in our life and also they should be very minimum. Also we should not run away from our family's responsibility.
Very well said. Very few people are true friends who stand by you in difficult times. Also there are always selfish interests of many people… so one must be wise making friends…
Kuch frnds acche hote hai .. they open our eyes and pyar se samjate hai One of my frnd used to smoke .. I didn’t like it and uska adat break kar di because I cared ..
absolutely right sir…when one of the spouse starts giving more time to their friends…the other one initially feels neglected…and with time learns to live without them….this creates uneasiness and tension in their relationship…sad part is that people don’t realise where they are going wrong…
Friends are important in school and college to hang out with and have fun, go to movies, eat out etc. It's a phase. They are helpful to fill space when one is single. Once you are married priorities do change and family, spouse especially kids take over. And that is a good thing. To prioritize friendships over family is not practical and I agree with Sir 100%.
Y true h mere ghar m y hi chl ra h m bol bi na sakti chup rhne ka order h khaya karusuch sun na sakta / sakti under man Mar k batee hu y video bhej dungi pta n dekha h ya n prebhej di m t maa hu bhut badiya samjha kar Bola h apne thank you
आपके वीडियो साझा करने का मन नहीं करता, बल्कि दिल चाहता है कि इस ख़ज़ाने को किसी से न बांटा जाए। 😍 लेकिन अब कोई आपको रोक नहीं सकता। आप जल्द ही यूट्यूब पर नंबर 1 बनेंगे। 🥰
Very amazing observations !😂 and still laughing at ur examples. Really liked d differences u stated between friend , business acquaintance , spouse , sibling and why everyones reaction is different to ur statements.. How much what matters to u matters to them , will matter what they will say about matters that will matter u most in ur life.🙏🙏😀💐 Great takeaway .. Teenagers should see thee videos so that they will be aved from trouble beforehand to certain extent.
Sir I respectfully Disagree, Dost vaise hone chahiye jo apko apki galat harkato pe call out kare, time to time apka support kare. There are limitations to every relationships, kuch baate spouse ke saath nahi ho sakti you have to agree on that. instead of calling people to not be interested in friends, teach them to find better friends. Not having friends puts pressure on your spouse to fill a friends role, which is frankly impossible. Teach people a template on how to find better friends because there is one. friends that put you down when you succeed and even worse friends that downplay your loss or pain, get away from them. Don't surround yourself around yes men and have people that can call you out on your BS. Not all friends are bad. Some of my fathers friends treated us better than our own family.
Yes I agree with you.. For instance in this video he has given example of friend forcing you to drink.. How can you call sick a friend your real friend?
Pehle toh aap female frndship pe statement na de toh behtar hoga rahi baat male frndship ki toh mera bada bhai 4th year iitian h usne apne saare frnds ko sideline krdiye apne mental peace ke liye. Male frnds just talk rubbish about opposite gender teach other member smoking and drinking which is why he distanced himself. Uppar se male frndship is all about money udhar lelete h aur waps tk nhi krte ye bolke bhai se bhi koi paise Mangta h yaar. Jis wajah se mere bhai ne papa se maar khaya tha and decided to distance himself and work hard to get a job with good package. And he already had a very good package job offer and all his frnds are jealous. Rahi baat female frndship toh woh log ladke bazi nhi sikhati na hi smoking drinking. Aur rahi baat paiso ki ladkiya equal contribution krti h ye nhi ki 4 logo ka bill ek ne bhara.
There is a lot of jealousy in girls. If you do better, some girl friends will do everything to pull you down I experienced this first hand. Very disappointed, Sir is 100% right. It takes guts to make such a bold statement that friendship is over rated.
Sir, I sidelined everyone, my every friend from time to time just to give time to my other relatives But sometimes I feel lonely when they shy away from me
Where will be without friends if our partner dies ? Or we get divorced? In later life friends are our mainstay. Now a days so many people are single in older age. How do we live if we don’t have a support system of friends. You are too tightly ensconced in family. Families don’t last forever. After the “empty nest” where do we find support?
Seems like you are already preparing for their death or divorce. Make friends then when the situation arises or the situation may arise. Most of the friends these days want you to do well, but not better than themselves.
🎉🎉 No Word. Husband=Cheat Me 40 Yea's. Cold Life journey. But Enough🙏. I Accept🏆💪 Spiritual Life Way👍 Live with🛡️ Peace ful Life. U. S. Se Bat Nahin Karti Beti. Because I don't Want Send Her U. S. Thanks🙏 Sir.
It's not only friends ,it's also work. Some men keep running behind work ,using the time they should be spending with wife n children on to their work and think they are working for their wife n kids, when actually it's their career they are advancing. Then in old age they want wife to serve them . Men really need to change their mindset.
@@arpanmadrecha3013 "Time is Hero".I did my job to tell him to do the right thing but if he chooses to be with friends over family he will regret throughout life as friendship is temporary but family is for lifetime . Right decision at the right time is very important to lead a happy life .😇👍💐🙏😊
Bhagwan kare ki main ab iss dosti naamak beemari se baahar niklu. Bahut laate padi hai. aur nahi chahiye. 1-2 achhe hai par doosre cities me. Papa, Mummy sahi kehte thay. Dost wost kuch nahi hota.
After marriage Bhai , behen rishteydar ban jatey hai , woh bhi kisi ke kaam ke nahi hote, woh bhi jalne aur competition karne lagte hai, trust yourself only
Fact
Meko bhi ye kuch din phle hi smajh aaya
It is true that once school life ends, you can't find true friends.
But family relations are also over-rated. Majority of abuse and cheating is done by parents, siblings and relatives, NOT friends.
Also the property disputes, domestic violence, child sexual abuse, dowry happens because of family relations.
So called school true friends also betray us when we face downfall or start prosperous in academics,financially, girls bhi main reasons hoti hai. Options are always available there for them
@@freedom4813 you haven't find true friends.
@@ArreSidu i had one childhood friend who lived in my street,we both gone same school nursery to 5th class & 2nd school 6th to 10th class those days i spend best time ever,kai our dost bhi Bane per jab academically+ financially may down hota gya toh usne bhi chod diya, 2nd friend was with me just because he didn't own had any identity he was using my name or live with me because i was nice guy many teachers & girls knew me, i was very good in science, SST, English, drawing just because of math fobiya i feel insecure it seems like i don't know anything in math,that silently killing me inside i change tution, but I don't know what happened with me and i downfall 👎 other subjects academically, they have car cycle bike, i used to go 2km by walk for tution math, English that time my so called true friends backside me and laugh at myself,start bulling me
Now they are nothing
I
Bitter but 100 % Friendship is really over rated relationship and reason for suffering and Kalesh in personal relationship.This is an eye opener episode. Thank you so much Sir
mulga bhetel
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Make a video on this scenario : where husband and wife both work from home and social interaction is very less.
Sir ur 1000% correct my husband spent all his life outside home going on with friends and giving them first preference and use to spend hours ,on working days and all his awaking hr on holidays ,never use to help in the house thoughI was a working women, now he is 67 I and the children don’t have any love or respect for him. The day he is bedridden he will be lying down there looking up the walls
True 🤣
AAP itne bure the kyu ki AAP mein interest nahi aaya
You shouldn’t be like him, do the right thing and talk to him unless make him suffer
Absolutely, 100 Percentage Guruji. Thanks🙏 God Bless You, Me And The Whole World🕯😊People Amen🙌⭐🎉...
बहुत सही समझाते हो सर
भगवान आपको खुश रखे
Achieve great in life n 99.99% friends will get vanished in your life
Sacchi baat Guruji🙏🏻
Friendship is over-rated is probably an accurate statement. But friends also show their value in taking someone to the hospital or bringing someone from the station in one's absence. Such help is done without any financial expectation. The video is an eye-opener in the sense that we should be watchful of people who are agreeing to everything that we are saying. They can be a so called friend or a cunning family member.
Agreed keep genuine 4-5 friends is more than enough networking is not freunds .Family first 👍
These are such difficult topics and you are covering them in such a humorous way.
Very true
Same concern I am facing in my home too
Thanks for picking this topic 🙏🙏
Sir, you are a gem. You should have started to create such a Video long before... 🙂 but anyways ...just want to tell .... you are doing true service to Society .. Thankyou so much!
Absolutely correct right from the word go...as wife/husband, and Father will make you realise ground reality hence you keep them away and go into an imaginary world with friends....
Super sir
What you are saying, I am following from long time.
You are a real mentor for all
I agree but I have experienced my friends giving me strength when I was. Very down. My whole office took care of me when I was pregnant, even bringing food because I couldn't cook as I was puking with every smell. And my mother in law forget it.
Most of these friends who is take up spouse's time irrationally are the ones who themselves also have a bad married life...
Don't know how many will agree but just my observation..
Awesome topic sir..
Started agreeing on first sentence only
On one side you are right that friends are just like time pass or time waste and never give us true happiness. Family is priority. But on the other side, truth is after marriage family equations get change Man is sandwiched between mother and wife and dont talk or communicate with his wife because of his parent's insecurity. Ladies makes their own kitty friends because there is no value of her at home and treated like a maid specially housewives. no one is their to listen them at home . Parents will either interfere because they have no work so either they will judge or interfere in home or they have to make their own social group. So friends are also important to keep peace at home. But as you said we should choose friends wisely and not like who ruin our relationships but work as a mentor and create more happiness and peace in our life and also they should be very minimum. Also we should not run away from our family's responsibility.
Very well said. Very few people are true friends who stand by you in difficult times. Also there are always selfish interests of many people… so one must be wise making friends…
Sir, so true. U have been honest in ur expression. Thanks for being the guiding light. Warm Regards
Kuch frnds acche hote hai .. they open our eyes and pyar se samjate hai
One of my frnd used to smoke .. I didn’t like it and uska adat break kar di because I cared ..
Most valuable topic..true fact of present scenario.facebook , Instagram Sab time le jate hai.. family ke liye kam hi time mil ta hai..
No one ever dared that to tell . Such a beautiful n logical analysis
Bilkul sach kah rahe hai sir, maine apne ghar main hi sb dekha hai.
शादी के बाद पति को दोस्त माना
ना तो दोस्त बना ना ही पति
गलत किया।पति ही मानना था,दोस्त नहीं।
I can’t believe how I could relate to this video so accurately…
Amazing and realistic picture, well done sir
One of the Best Channels on TH-cam!
Great Sir
Difficult topic, handled beautifully. Truly eye opener
Thanks and regards
दिल की बात बेहूदा होती है... Punch line.
Jaago Mohan pyare....
absolutely right sir…when one of the spouse starts giving more time to their friends…the other one initially feels neglected…and with time learns to live without them….this creates uneasiness and tension in their relationship…sad part is that people don’t realise where they are going wrong…
Friends are important in school and college to hang out with and have fun, go to movies, eat out etc. It's a phase. They are helpful to fill space when one is single. Once you are married priorities do change and family, spouse especially kids take over. And that is a good thing. To prioritize friendships over family is not practical and I agree with Sir 100%.
Great Content with super cool messages. . Thanks so much
Y true h mere ghar m y hi chl ra h m bol bi na sakti chup rhne ka order h khaya karusuch sun na sakta / sakti under man Mar k batee hu y video bhej dungi pta n dekha h ya n prebhej di m t maa hu bhut badiya samjha kar Bola h apne thank you
True said bivi ki trha dost ko treat kr k daikho👍
सही कहा आपने.
जा रहा हूँ बीवी के साथ व्हिस्की की चुस्की लेने...
Wow, I so respect you to bring out this topic.I so understand this playing out in real lives of people around me
Aapki yeh video abhi tak ki sabse badiya n sacha content hain
Hats off ! You are a Blessing man !
Just love for this video…… i feel the same ab lga ki i m not wrong 😂 why can’t we change perspective❤️❤️
Huge respect sir
Thank u sir❤️🙏🏻😇💕
आपके वीडियो साझा करने का मन नहीं करता, बल्कि दिल चाहता है कि इस ख़ज़ाने को किसी से न बांटा जाए। 😍
लेकिन अब कोई आपको रोक नहीं सकता। आप जल्द ही यूट्यूब पर नंबर 1 बनेंगे। 🥰
सत्य वचन गुरूजी ❤❤
Wise advice in humourous way.
Sab se badi point hai - dost ko aap ka family emotion dimag me nahi rakhna parta
आपके दिल की बात बहुत बेहूदि है जी 🤣🤣🤣🤣 it's splitting me🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is really an eye opener. Liked your thought process from the bottom of my heart. You are doing an amazing work. Keep it up
Family first great understanding spouse bht jaruri h otherwise life is hell till grave
You should make a video on fake friends and real friends now that you have spoiled this relationship
Networking ko dosti ka maukhauta mt pehnaao 😂😂😂 i loved it😍😍😍😍😍
sar je jo batt kahi h door tak jaege blkul tek h ye bemari har jaghe fALL GEYI H
Sir i respect u for that.
Lord Krishna is our best friend 🙏
You are absolutely right sir an eye opener video
Great regards from dr Heera Lal dayma MBBS dausa raj 🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍👍
Very amazing observations !😂 and still laughing at ur examples.
Really liked d differences u stated between friend , business acquaintance , spouse , sibling and why everyones reaction is different to ur statements..
How much
what matters to u matters to them ,
will matter what they will say
about matters that will matter u most in ur life.🙏🙏😀💐
Great takeaway ..
Teenagers should see thee videos so that they will be aved from trouble beforehand to certain extent.
Wife is supposed to be a friend... But what happens when your spouse doesn't want to accompany your interests!!?
Excellent and new and never heard thoughts
Sir I respectfully Disagree,
Dost vaise hone chahiye jo apko apki galat harkato pe call out kare, time to time apka support kare.
There are limitations to every relationships, kuch baate spouse ke saath nahi ho sakti you have to agree on that. instead of calling people to not be interested in friends, teach them to find better friends.
Not having friends puts pressure on your spouse to fill a friends role, which is frankly impossible.
Teach people a template on how to find better friends because there is one.
friends that put you down when you succeed and even worse friends that downplay your loss or pain, get away from them. Don't surround yourself around yes men and have people that can call you out on your BS.
Not all friends are bad. Some of my fathers friends treated us better than our own family.
Yes I agree with you.. For instance in this video he has given example of friend forcing you to drink.. How can you call sick a friend your real friend?
Dost hoon zarir but family comes first
rare h ese dost .
निशब्द🙌🏻🙌🏻😊
Superb! Exceptionally Good Content Sir. True Enlightenment.. 👍
This is a wonderful video sir....
Dil ki baat behudi...😂 very well said.
Very practical
Amazing explanation ,
Your topics are different and practical.
Really appreciate 🙏
Strongly Agree with each word.
What a video sir ji !!!!👍
There is lot of jeaolosy in female friendship...this is not a case with male friends..but yeah exceptions are there
Actually men don’t show but they too are jealous. It’s human nature .
Pehle toh aap female frndship pe statement na de toh behtar hoga rahi baat male frndship ki toh mera bada bhai 4th year iitian h usne apne saare frnds ko sideline krdiye apne mental peace ke liye.
Male frnds just talk rubbish about opposite gender teach other member smoking and drinking which is why he distanced himself.
Uppar se male frndship is all about money udhar lelete h aur waps tk nhi krte ye bolke bhai se bhi koi paise Mangta h yaar. Jis wajah se mere bhai ne papa se maar khaya tha and decided to distance himself and work hard to get a job with good package.
And he already had a very good package job offer and all his frnds are jealous.
Rahi baat female frndship toh woh log ladke bazi nhi sikhati na hi smoking drinking. Aur rahi baat paiso ki ladkiya equal contribution krti h ye nhi ki 4 logo ka bill ek ne bhara.
1000 percent correct sir
Sir aapne Jo husband wife ke permanent relationship vaat ki h.. actually isiliye husbands apni wives ko for granted lete h....
Superb Amitji👌👌
Aapne dosti me darar daal diya!! 😄😄😄😄😄
There is a lot of jealousy in girls. If you do better, some girl friends will do everything to pull you down
I experienced this first hand. Very disappointed, Sir is 100% right. It takes guts to make such a bold statement that friendship is over rated.
9:37 "apke dil ki baat hi behudi hai Ji" 😂😂
Shat pratishat sateek aur sach
great video Sir.
I agree with you sir
Excellent
Sir, I sidelined everyone, my every friend from time to time just to give time to my other relatives
But sometimes I feel lonely when they shy away from me
Where will be without friends if our partner dies ? Or we get divorced? In later life friends are our mainstay. Now a days so many people are single in older age. How do we live if we don’t have a support system of friends. You are too tightly ensconced in family. Families don’t last forever. After the “empty nest” where do we find support?
Move up in life and see how your friends disappear
Correct @@doncorleone3901
Seems like you are already preparing for their death or divorce. Make friends then when the situation arises or the situation may arise. Most of the friends these days want you to do well, but not better than themselves.
@@doncorleone3901I am upper class person and rich. But alone. What do I do?
Amit ji you are geneaus.
🎉🎉 No Word. Husband=Cheat Me 40 Yea's. Cold Life journey. But Enough🙏. I Accept🏆💪 Spiritual Life Way👍 Live with🛡️ Peace ful Life. U. S. Se Bat Nahin Karti Beti. Because I don't Want Send Her U. S. Thanks🙏 Sir.
It's not only friends ,it's also work. Some men keep running behind work ,using the time they should be spending with wife n children on to their work and think they are working for their wife n kids, when actually it's their career they are advancing. Then in old age they want wife to serve them . Men really need to change their mindset.
Very true
Awesome
Great 👍👌
Dil ki baat sunaane ke liye journaling karlo
Too good
Good Morning ji
Fantastic , i told my brother the same thing when he choose to spend time with friends more than spending time with his wife and child ❤️👌😇😃
@@arpanmadrecha3013 "Time is Hero".I did my job to tell him to do the right thing but if he chooses to be with friends over family he will regret throughout life as friendship is temporary but family is for lifetime . Right decision at the right time is very important to lead a happy life .😇👍💐🙏😊
Amazing
महिलाएंज़??!!
Heard the word the first time!
Aapko bhi to humlog miley hai bakchodi ke liye , ghar pe suna ke dekho zara😂
Good morning sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sir plz make a video on - should you marry your best friend?
Very nice video
Guru Ji 🙏🏼🙏🏼 Aapne aap se hi dosti kar lo ...aapne aap ko bharo ...
Abhi tak itne drama dekh liya,end may apna haath he thamna pda
Her koi waqt ke saath or hamare waqt ko dekhkar leave kar dega
Bhagwan kare ki main ab iss dosti naamak beemari se baahar niklu. Bahut laate padi hai. aur nahi chahiye. 1-2 achhe hai par doosre cities me. Papa, Mummy sahi kehte thay. Dost wost kuch nahi hota.