Trying On Wedding Dresses For The 1st Time! Honest Thoughts On Getting Married & Girls Day In London

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  • @Emshelx
    @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Happy Sunday my lovelies, hope you are all so well? Have an amazing weekend :) hope you enjoy this video! All items linked under the video and I've updated some recent outfits here: liketoknow.it/emshelx LOVE YOU ALL! xxxx

  • @michelleluvbeachsunsets4529
    @michelleluvbeachsunsets4529 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I have been married for almost 35 years. Don’t wait for more money, expensive wedding dress or elaborate wedding. Just make sure whom you marry is your best friend and loves you just a little bit more than you love him. It’s about being a great team and supporting each other through the good and bad.

  • @adventuresforthecurious
    @adventuresforthecurious 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Lovely day! Thanks for taking us along. You always have such a fun time, no matter what you are doing, that you really are such a positive person to start a day with. Have a wonderful week!

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! Such a lovely comment. Have a gorgeous week xx

  • @quitesimplyemma5437
    @quitesimplyemma5437 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Em you’re not annoying! You’ve apologised for being yourself so much to other people in the comments. People watch you because you’re a breath of fresh air, kind, funny and a genuinely lovely person. Never apologise for being yourself and you’re not annoying!! Be kind to yourself ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for being so kind 💗 if people want to be annoyed at me for saying the same word then honestly there are much worse things people could do! I won’t be everyone’s cup of tea and that’s totally okay! Thank you xxx

  • @JennyAmponsah
    @JennyAmponsah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know that whenever the big day comes around for you, you will look INCREDIBLE and you’ll be a true princess on your special day 😊😊😊😊😊😊 you’re a lovely girl both inside and out!

  • @myg7380
    @myg7380 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Just a word of advice, weddings are not to be compared.
    I got married in the south of France 7-years ago and people would say to me “your wedding made ours look awful”, or “urgh, you must look down at our wedding plans compared to what you had” and it honestly upsets me.
    Each wedding is unique, brings a unique group of people and vibe and whether it’s a town hall and a pub or a lavish 3-day event, it really doesn’t matter when you care about the people getting married and get to be part of their day.
    So drop the chat about your friends wedding, really, you shouldn’t care less and should concentrate on your own happiness and journey.

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! Yes don’t worry I’m just joking - it goes without saying their wedding was amazing but mine will be too, totally unique to us & individual! Thank you!

  • @georgiaemery5008
    @georgiaemery5008 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true what the people in the shop said, you think you know what your dress will be like and then when it comes to choosing it it’s the opposite!! I went in with a vision I thought I knew, and the dress I chose and got married in couldn’t have been further from what I thought and even now when I look at it I cry with how perfect it was!

  • @kaylheecarroll3186
    @kaylheecarroll3186 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Em,when you and Matt are ready for marriage, it'll be special for you both and you're going to be a beautiful bride 👰‍♀ and you look gorgeous in the wedding dresses ❤😊!👰‍♂

  • @stephaniesmith5141
    @stephaniesmith5141 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'd agree entirely in not trying them on. Yous will get married when the right time comes. No need to rush ,as yous both say yous are happy how things are atm. Enjoy living life. I've been married, I've also lived with someone, there's no difference apart from one heck of an expensive day!😂😂😂 when the times right it will happen ❤❤❤

  • @danishpastry6137
    @danishpastry6137 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so with you about big proposals - imho they are a bit tacky, especially when they happen on a big screen at a sporting event (does this even happen irl?), a big proposal in front of loads of people means its harder to say no, and makes me feel that the person asking is trying to remove that possibility.
    A small intimate proposal, with either just the couple themselves, or a few selected close friends and family is much more special and intimate, and a moment to treasure.

  • @straycat1403
    @straycat1403 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Sunday Em! Agree that you should not hurry to get married. My nephew just got married in January after being with his wife for 12 years. ❤

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Happy Sunday! Ahh that’s so lovely! 💗💗💗

  • @lisaconway2307
    @lisaconway2307 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Word of the video …. “Exciting” 😅laughing so much at how many times this is said in the first minute and a half x

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha sorry!

    • @lisaconway2307
      @lisaconway2307 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don’t apologise!! 😂❤️ I was genuinely sat laughing 😆 At least we know you’re authentic 👌🏻 xx

  • @semicountryliving3095
    @semicountryliving3095 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Em , if you wait until your marry, then you're going to be your mother's age her second time around. You two have been dating for 10 freakin' years. A decade. No ring. Just sayin!! Also, never compare your wedding to Josie & Charlie's. That was a perfect wedding for those two who have completely different personalities and who adore their home and has made it a part of them. If you two do get married, but hey, there's no rush, I mean why not wait until your 40,-- then consider what it is you two have in common and create the wedding around that. Maybe a destination wedding, or a nursing home wedding if you continue to wait! 😜 I know you will take this lightly and that's the beauty of who you are. But seriously tho, just don't wait too long, or if he's not the one, then you two should owe it to each other not to stick around with each other and lead each other on OR if you just want to live together, that's fine too but then don't even go near bridal salons.❤ I know you don't want to feel like you're pressuring Matt, but you two really need to be honest with each other. Better Help!!

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Haha thank you for this 😆 it’s not about pressuring him, I genuinely don’t want to be married (to anyone) right now. I feel too young, there’s no rush and there is something else which is huge that we’re both working on behind the scenes first. I appreciate your advice I really do but we have had lots of conversations and I really am good with where we are at 🙌💗 ps it’s been 8 years, 9 in winter - we’ve got a while before 10 x

    • @Sky47467
      @Sky47467 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why does a ring and marriage have to be the goal in every relationship? I’ve been with my partner 10 years and we have no plans to marry but we’re no less committed to each other and in it for life but we don’t need a piece of paper to tell us that.

  • @kj7634
    @kj7634 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hiya Em, lovely video😊 get married when you're both good and ready. You seem to have a lovely fulfilled life, great career, friends, long term partner and family, ignore the negative comments and keep on living your best life! Xxx

  • @tinacarrol6702
    @tinacarrol6702 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Morning Em. Loved The Lace Dress, Just Packing For My Holiday Tomorrow For 2 Weeks,Have a lovely Bankholiday Monday, Loved This Vlog. Xx 😘😊

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Have fun! How amazing! Hope yo have an amazing time and thank you so much for watching me whilst you pack lovely! Xx

  • @patw6158
    @patw6158 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    "Thou 'dust protest too much."😘

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re wrong!

  • @mrmrsc7185
    @mrmrsc7185 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stunning in the dresses,how amazing!I just wondered have you bought a Abercrombie Emerson dress before,I'm sure you mentioned or maybe I imagined it🙈trying to find it on your TH-cam,anyway I've just ordered one so hope it looks and fits nice!xx

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey lovely! I did an Abercrombie haul maybe check if it’s on there? Xxx

  • @jackharrington697
    @jackharrington697 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Happy Sunday lovely Em hope your doing well!! ❤❤

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same to you hope you’re well lovely xx

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same to you hope you’re well lovely xx

  • @deborah972
    @deborah972 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Happy sunday em great video ❤🎉😊 xx

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much xxx

  • @StayGold_MrsE
    @StayGold_MrsE 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Some people have nothing better to do than to come here and criticize you? Great Ghost of Caesar🙄 Anyway, fun video as always.... I don't watch all of your videos but whenever I do, it's always fun to go on your little adventures.... that's why I follow you because I like you and I actually enjoy it. Anyway, have a great weekend!❤

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can’t imagine being annoyed at me using a word a certain amount of times etc haha it’s not that deep haha. I really appreciate you watching my videos and supporting, thanks for being so kind. Have a gorgeous weekend xxx

    • @StayGold_MrsE
      @StayGold_MrsE 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Emshelx but of course, you make it easy, because you're so likeable! Enjoy your day!! Xo

  • @tamikajeanmarie
    @tamikajeanmarie 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Em, I'm new to your channel, and watching your videos and reading your comments has got me thinking. # One, TH-cam comments are rough; # Two, you spend a lot of time being Nice. But as someone in her mid-40s and in no way saying this to be mean or rude. I've learned that I would rather be Kind than Nice. When you are nice, you spend a lot of time trying to please others and apologize for being who you are. When you are kind, you speak the truth and have the courage to be disliked because it's for the greater good of others and yourself. Keep up the good work, and I look forward to watching future videos.

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Goodness what an amazing comment! Firstly, thank you for being here and finding me. This comment really really means a lot - I think I may need to start practicing that. It’s exhausting constantly apologising when I’m not harming anyone haha. Thank you 💗💗💗

  • @jeanettenfreeland1408
    @jeanettenfreeland1408 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Sunday fun day Em lol!!

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You too!!

  • @jennifer6833
    @jennifer6833 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I eat my steak first, combine my peas and mashed potatoes, eat the carrots separately. I eat like a child to Em.

  • @calvinliu6304
    @calvinliu6304 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Sunday!!! Looks smart for the wedding

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Happy Sunday! haha there is no wedding!

  • @susannebyrne7488
    @susannebyrne7488 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    How many times do you have to say that you are not engaged and can’t try on wedding dresses because it’s unlucky. At least 10 times.

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Just have to make it clear because I get so many messages asking if I’m engaged - it probably wasn’t ten times maybe an over exaggeration but to be honest if it was then oh well! I apologise - I’m very annoying!

    • @janaculbreth007
      @janaculbreth007 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You’re the best Em!!!! Never ever annoying!! 😘

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you lovely xxx

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@PurpleSilverLining womp womp 🤣

    • @Nickym76
      @Nickym76 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think she’s just trying to make it clear as lots keeps asking. Not insecure at all!

  • @janaculbreth007
    @janaculbreth007 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Let me say~ Matt is the one that should be honored if you ever accepted his proposal!!! ;)

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hahahaah exactly!!!

  • @sarahm6099
    @sarahm6099 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like people put too much pressure on getting married. If youre in a great relationship together and talk about growing old snd your plans, then you dont need a ring. Ive had friends get married before me and they are alteady over. If you and Matt have a good relationship then dont focus on marriage so much. Live for the moment and if it happens in 5 years or 10, then you can just enjoy it when it comes. X

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love this and totally agree! 💗

  • @lease9
    @lease9 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Em this video looked awesome
    Looked like you had fun supporting your friend by trying dresses on even though your not engaged was so kind of you.
    Sounds like your super excited for your mums wedding! It sounds like it will be amazing ❤
    You dont have to be married to be in a solid happy relationship like you guys seem to be, when your ready it will be epic no matter how long it takes

  • @KatieCollins4
    @KatieCollins4 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great stuff!

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it

  • @spiky10000
    @spiky10000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They always recommend not wearing tan when you try on dresses as they are white and it could transfer onto the dress 😢 My bridal salon asked me not to wear tan xxx

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Someone else said this to me! I guess if you have a natural tan or had a spray tan a few days before it wouldn’t transfer? 💗🤞

  • @eimeare07
    @eimeare07 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Would they not be really annoyed in the Bridal Store if you stained the dresses with makeup / fake tan?

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’d hope people wouldn’t get it on the dresses! Aka get a tan and go in a few days later so it doesn’t transfer!

  • @ClareJo2605
    @ClareJo2605 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm with Matt, not to suggest that you are weird but always when eating a meal like a Sunday dinner I eat the meat with the vegetables, never on their own or separately.

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So intrigued by this!! Thank you!

  • @drangonfliepink79
    @drangonfliepink79 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I swear thouse croissants rival tescos a crosssant there is 1.15😮

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hahaha i love this!

  • @Darkshade_01
    @Darkshade_01 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Sunday lovely

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You too lovely!

    • @Darkshade_01
      @Darkshade_01 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Emshelx I hope you have a wonderful day today 😊🥰

  • @bojan78
    @bojan78 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Em. It seems like you’re the type of person who enjoys attending and hosting events. Big events. Seems that you might want the big fabulous wedding more than the actual marriage. Maybe? As you mentioned you feel like you’re already married. You and your guy don’t appear to be on the same page. Wish you all the best.

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We’re totally on the same page, both want a huge party for everyone we love but already feel ‘married’ 💗

  • @geordieinca9834
    @geordieinca9834 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    2 words for the boyfriend, proposal planner!😂

  • @Badluckblueyes
    @Badluckblueyes 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    You said 'exciting/excited' 11 times withing the first 2m 28s. I mean, Em, youre a university educated woman, please , buy a thesaurus do us all a favour. Find some new words. And on a positive - your hair looks great tied up in the first part of the vlog.

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m going to start a game where we all take a shot every time I say excited / exciting or obsessed 😉 good counting! I may be university educated but luckily TH-cam is not me writing an essay! Sorry though haha. Thank you!

    • @Badluckblueyes
      @Badluckblueyes 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Emshelx no it's not you writing an essay, but this is your profession?! You're getting paid to do this for a living. I just think if you listened back before you posted it, surely you'd also notice it's too much. Anyway no hate, I'm a long time subscriber, just food for thought x

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I appreciate your feedback, I am a very excitable person and I’m sorry. TH-cam isn’t my job / I don’t really get paid to do it at all, I love it because it’s unpolished and fun / I can be myself - if that’s me saying excited / exciting 100x in a row then so be it! I think the fun goes if I start to second guess every word I say but I’ll be more aware in the edits and I’ll grab a thesaurus next time 😉 thanks for sticking around even though I’m annoying haha

  • @JosieIrons
    @JosieIrons 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your kind words my darling!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
    Also you’re a mad woman and eating bits separately hahahahah gotta have a bit of everything in each mouthful 😂😂

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hahahahaahhs 🤣🤣🤣 the queen has spoken!!!!

  • @Shopaholic2000
    @Shopaholic2000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    How weird to try wedding dresses when you're not even engaged whats more trying dresses you wouldn't wear!! If you fake more tan you'll resemble an umpah lumpah - not a good look😄

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeh we did say it was weird but we were invited by a friend and wanted to support her and do a girlie day, a lot of the girls there were single - who cares, life is short!

  • @RiveraLeon-pp1bq
    @RiveraLeon-pp1bq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    cool

  • @SallyAlexandriaAlexParakeets
    @SallyAlexandriaAlexParakeets 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello from California. Hair looks fantastic, Em& Emily. Congrats from our channel * Sally Alexandria & Alex * Australian Parakeets Stars 🎉

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ah thank you so much!!

  • @akilabraham2454
    @akilabraham2454 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @michellemccormack5415
    @michellemccormack5415 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    God your friend is so annoying on this vlog over talking you.just wondering who's vlog it is .

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m the annoying one! 😂 she’s great!

  • @gerk7238
    @gerk7238 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Em, you never told us about all the cute boys you smashed in LA! Did you get the full American experience??

    • @Emshelx
      @Emshelx  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nil 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @gerk7238
      @gerk7238 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Emshelx Well excuse us then..not very hospitalable of us, is it! Could you fly me out to Sri Lanka or wherever you are from.. so we can…rendezvous🤤?