Khuṭbah: Coping With Stress | Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi

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  • @mizanmishu5521
    @mizanmishu5521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    The three Duaas are:
    Duaa-1:
    يَا حَيُّ يَا قَيُّومُ بِرَحْمَتِكَ أَسْتَغِيثُ، وأَصْلِحْ لي شَأْنِي كُلَّهُ وَلَا تَكِلْنِي إِلَى نَفْسِي طَرْفَةَ عَيْنٍ أبدا
    [Yaa Hayyu Yaa Qayyoom birahmatika astagheeth, ass-lih Lee Shahaani kullaahu, wa laa Takillni ila nafsee Tarfataa Ayyin abada.]
    O the Ever-Lasting, O the Sustainer and Protector of all that exists.
    I seek aid through Your Mercy; correct for me all my matters and do not entrust me to my own self even for the blink of an eye, ever.

    Duaa-2:
    اللَّهُمَّ لاَ سَهْلَ إِلاَّ مَا جَعَلْتَهُ سَهْلاً وَ أَنْتَ تَجْعَلُ الْحَزَنَ إِذَا شِئْتَ سَهْل
    [Allâhumma lâ sahla illâ mâ ja‘altahu sahlâ wa anta taj‘alu al-hazana idhâ shi’ta sahlâ.]
    Oh Allah! Nothing is easy except what You have made easy. If You wish, You can make the difficult easy
    Duaa-3:
    اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي عَبْدُكَ ابْنُ عَبْدِكَ ابْنُ أَمَتِكَ نَاصِيَتِي بِيَدِكَ ، مَاضٍ فِيَّ حُكْمُكَ ، عَدْلٌ فِيَّ قَضَاءُكَ أَسْأَلُكَ بِكُلِّ اسْمٍ هُوَ لَكَ سَمَّيْتَ بِهِ نَفْسَكَ أَوْ أَنْزَلْتَهُ فِي كِتَابِكَ ، أَوْ عَلَّمْتَهُ أَحَدًا مِنْ خَلْقِكَ أَوِ اسْتَأْثَرْتَ بِهِ فِي عِلْمِ الْغَيْبِ عِنْدَكَ ، أَنْ تَجْعَلَ الْقُرْآنَ رَبِيعَ قَلْبِي ، وَنُورَ صَدْرِي ، وَجَلاءَ حُزْنِي ، وذَهَابَ هَمِّي
    [Allaahumma innee ‛abduk-abnu-‛abdik-abnu-amatik, naaṣiyatee biyadik, maaḍin fiyya ḥukmuk, ‛adlun fiyya qaḍaa’uk, as’aluka bi kull-ismin huwa lak, sammayta bihi nafsak, aw anzaltahu fee kitaabik, aw ‛allamtahu aḥadan min khalqik, awis-ta’tharta bihi fee ‛ilmil-ghaybi ‛indak, an taj‛al-al-quraana rabee‛a qalbee, wa noora ṣadree, wa jalaa’a ḥuznee, wa dhahaaba hammee]
    O Allah, I am Your slave, son of Your slave, son of Your handmaid, my forelock is in Your hand (i.e. You have total mastery over me), Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just." I ask You by every name belonging to You which You named Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You, that You make the Qur'an the life of my heart and the light of my bosom, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety.

    • @realboy1397
      @realboy1397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks Brother

    • @Bellazme
      @Bellazme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for posting the Dua's.

    • @syedyasar100
      @syedyasar100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks brother

    • @sanjabegovic729
      @sanjabegovic729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May Allah reward you abundantly.

    • @jasminesiddique3392
      @jasminesiddique3392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for posting the duas.May Allah reward you for your good deeds

  • @LisaN
    @LisaN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I feel like this khotbah is specifically for me today. My husband and I have been experiencing extreme stress these past couple days due to financial issues due to consequences of the pandemic. I've been trying so hard to cope but it's been so painful. Just listening to this khotbah has brought ease. I will write the du'a and use them, insha'Allah. Please pray for us and all of those experiencing work, financial and housing issues due to this pandemic, and for those who have experienced any kind of loss, or worrying about potential loss. May Allah bring us all relief from our stressors and bring us all great peace.

    • @Als1822
      @Als1822 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      same...I'm looking for a job now myself. do what you can and have faith

    • @shaqkillz451
      @shaqkillz451 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      may Allah make it easy for you both inshAllah.

    • @kdinhawk1274
      @kdinhawk1274 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      aminn

    • @kawsara5366
      @kawsara5366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've heard in a khutbah Yasir Qadhi did before that you should maintain the practice of Sabr to a point where no one can see that you are stressed. In addition, you should be at a point where you are significantly greedy to have Sabr. Subhanallah you are so lucky that Allah has tested and trialled you but you are yet turning towards him. Blessing in disguise.

    • @raymondbrown5599
      @raymondbrown5599 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      May Allah swt make it easy for you and your family. ☝️🕋

  • @magevogue
    @magevogue ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful lesson Ma Shaa Allah

  • @Momin_Azam
    @Momin_Azam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I do have struggles with anxiety and stress; subhanallah for this video.

  • @TA-sv3cq
    @TA-sv3cq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you brother Yasir for another great input !
    May ALLAH SWT reward you. Ameen.

  • @TheGatewayProductions
    @TheGatewayProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nobody likes stress but we can always learn to manage it. Nice work!

  • @lajimoon
    @lajimoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ma shaa Allah.... May Allah forgive us and shower his blessings upon us all...

  • @shektarafdar7496
    @shektarafdar7496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank You DR. (YQ.)

  • @dadgetsmilk8423
    @dadgetsmilk8423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Ma Sha Allah. That voice in the beginning stunned me 😂

  • @noranurija8112
    @noranurija8112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Masha'Allah TabarkAllah thank you for this Khutba, "Moonboy" as you light up our darkest nights for many of us, Elhamdou'Allah for sharing your blessed knowledge 💚💚💚

  • @Nafshadow
    @Nafshadow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Al hamde li Allah. الحمد لله

  • @Als1822
    @Als1822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    pls give a lecture on abusive parents and childhood traumas. much needed. many of us are suffering. why everyone talks about parents rights in Islam? what about children's rights?

    • @rihamabd1661
      @rihamabd1661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Search for the video 'How To Deal With Difficult Parents in Islam? | Ask Shaykh YQ #133'.
      May Allah make it easier for parents and children to know their rights and responsibilities and fear Allah in everything they do.

    • @tala7487
      @tala7487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rihamabd1661 Amin

    • @Adamson_zero
      @Adamson_zero 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Everyone talks about parent's right, because they are the most abused. Sorry for what happened to you, but it's rare that children are abused by parents, that's why it is talked less.
      Brother gave you the keywords to search that video, however some other TH-cam speakers also have videos on this issue.
      Don't forget that, if you knew the reward of suffering in this world, standing on the judgment you'll wish that your skin would've cut off in this world.
      Peace 🙂

    • @Als1822
      @Als1822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Adamson_zero uh clearly you don't know the abuse that happens with children and young adults. Just because it's not talked about openly doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I say this as a parent myself. Many parents esp of some specific cultures seem to think emotional and physical abuse and even gaslighting is their right in Islam. We need to talk abt parenting more. About not being narcissistic arrogant people who think they can do no wrong just because they gave birth to you

    • @Adamson_zero
      @Adamson_zero 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Als1822 brother, you can't possibly know what I or anyone else knows.
      And like I meant earlier, I agree with you. But you gotta understand which side scale is weighing

  • @souadkouachi257
    @souadkouachi257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    اللهم أحسن عاقبتنا في الأمور كلها، وأجرنا من خزي الدنيا وعذاب الآخرة .

  • @QuranWorldYT
    @QuranWorldYT ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Allah ❤

  • @sarahhajarbalqis
    @sarahhajarbalqis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Al Quran has a lot of narratives about the stress and anxiety experienced by noble role models. The Mother of Prophet Musa AS. The Mother of Prophet Isa AS. Prophet Ya'qub AS.
    Tools to battle against stress.
    Our belief in predestination. Understanding qadar to console the past. Nothing is going to happen to me except by the decree of Allah SWT.
    Anxiety and stress is a means in attaining Allah's reward.
    Be patient and expect Allah's reward for the pain, anguish, grief, worry.
    Seek relief and peace, with Allah and through Allah SWT.
    Du'as.

  • @rahateliasu7085
    @rahateliasu7085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May Allah make it easy and possibly for All

  • @Hassan-hx8bc
    @Hassan-hx8bc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you sheikh especially during these trying times with less social interaction stress not being able to perform our salah stress has affected us all in different forms.

  • @najmaalikhan
    @najmaalikhan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallah khair sheikh Yasir for a very beautiful and iman lifting Kuthba and beautiful Adhan also from sheikh Sujjad, may Allah preserve you and protect you and your family and grant you Jannatul Firdose. Ameen

  • @yodasdad
    @yodasdad 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    جزاك اللهُ خيرًا

  • @revivinglegacy
    @revivinglegacy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallah u Khair Shiekh ❤️❤️

  • @RB-fr1tg
    @RB-fr1tg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    JazakAllahu khayran Shaykhna this is so poignant for these times alhamdulillah

  • @SSSAZIAH
    @SSSAZIAH 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you brother.

  • @farnaizaommal9236
    @farnaizaommal9236 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallahu khairan sheikh ❤️

  • @shakirahbintamin382
    @shakirahbintamin382 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Masha Allah Beautiful reminder to all of us. May Allah SWT bless you all Ameen

  • @bellah09
    @bellah09 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    JzkAllahu khayran

  • @aqeelahaque9668
    @aqeelahaque9668 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subhan Allah jazak Allah khair brother .

  • @munireldeeb339
    @munireldeeb339 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    May Allah bless you Shiekh professor Yaser Qadhi and increase your knowledge

  • @vvaloachi7263
    @vvaloachi7263 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a Great Khtutba !!!

  • @aqeelahaque9668
    @aqeelahaque9668 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ameen suma Aameen

  • @Salam-ng1pv
    @Salam-ng1pv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this video

  • @azeedaali3829
    @azeedaali3829 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallah aameen for this powerful beneficial lecture in my my time of distress . I agree that we worry so that we can come up with a solution. Inspirational lecture .

  • @samalmufti7219
    @samalmufti7219 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah

  • @sofiataylor67
    @sofiataylor67 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @nabeelkayanayil1630
    @nabeelkayanayil1630 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️

  • @morhaidaharun9204
    @morhaidaharun9204 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    💖💖💖

  • @Dhakir2304
    @Dhakir2304 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Powerful

  • @azraa7110
    @azraa7110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Salaam from Nottingham Uk

  • @NenEmitter
    @NenEmitter ปีที่แล้ว +1

    19:59

  • @b.ingram9176
    @b.ingram9176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💯💪♦️

  • @jubairchowdhury9430
    @jubairchowdhury9430 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very inspiring Khutbah

  • @Muffinman75
    @Muffinman75 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can someone please post a link to the three du’aa mentioned?

    • @alishah6591
      @alishah6591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Issam Hamdallah Here you are, May Allah ease all of our difficulties - Ameen.
      DUA 1:
      يَا حَيُّ يَا قَيُّومُ بِرَحْمَتِكَ أَسْتَغِيثُ أَصْلِحْ لِي شَأْنِي كُلَّهُ وَلَا تَكِلْنِي إِلَى نَفْسِي طَرْفَةَ عَيْنٍ
      O Ever Living One, O Sustainer of all, by Your mercy I call on You to set right all my affairs. Do not place me in charge of my soul even for the blinking of an eye. [Hisnul Muslim 88 sunnah.com/hisn:88]
      DUA 2:
      اللّهُـمَّ لا سَـهْلَ إِلاّ ما جَعَلـتَهُ سَهـلاً، وَأَنْتَ تَجْـعَلُ الْحَـزَنَ إِذا شِـئْتَ سَهـْلاً
      O Allah, there is no ease other than what You make easy. If You please You ease sorrow.
      [Hisnul Muslim 139 sunnah.com/hisn:139]
      DUA 3:
      اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي عَبْدُكَ وَابْنُ عَبْدِكَ وَابْنُ أَمَتِكَ نَاصِيَتِي بِيَدِكَ مَاضٍ فِيَّ حُكْمُكَ عَدْلٌ فِيَّ قَضَاؤُكَ أَسْأَلُكَ بِكُلِّ اسْمٍ هُوَ لَكَ سَمَّيْتَ بِهِ نَفْسَكَ أَوْ عَلَّمْتَهُ أَحَدًا مِنْ خَلْقِكَ أَوْ أَنْزَلْتَهُ فِي كِتَابِكَ أَوْ اسْتَأْثَرْتَ بِهِ فِي عِلْمِ الْغَيْبِ عِنْدَكَ أَنْ تَجْعَلَ الْقُرْآنَ رَبِيعَ قَلْبِي وَنُورَ صَدْرِي وَجِلَاءَ حُزْنِي وَذَهَابَ هَمِّي
      O Allah, I am your servant, the son of your servant, the son of your maidservant. My forelock is in your hand, your command concerning me prevails, and your decision concerning me is just. I call upon you by every one of the beautiful names with which you have described yourself, or which you have revealed in your Book, or you have taught to any of your creatures, or which you have chosen to keep in the knowledge of the unseen with you, to make the Quran the delight of my soul, the light of my heart, and to remove my sadness and dispel my anxiety.” The Prophet said, “If he says this, Allah will remove his affliction and replace it with joy and happiness.” [Musnad Ahmad 3704 abuaminaelias.com/dailyhadithonline/2011/12/05/dua-anxiety-stress/]

    • @mizanmishu5521
      @mizanmishu5521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Duaa-1:
      يَا حَيُّ يَا قَيُّومُ بِرَحْمَتِكَ أَسْتَغِيثُ، وأَصْلِحْ لي شَأْنِي كُلَّهُ وَلَا تَكِلْنِي إِلَى نَفْسِي طَرْفَةَ عَيْنٍ أبدا
      [Yaa Hayyu Yaa Qayyoom birahmatika astagheeth, ass-lih Lee Shahaani kullaahu, wa laa Takillni ila nafsee Tarfataa Ayyin abada.]
      O the Ever-Lasting, O the Sustainer and Protector of all that exists.
      I seek aid through Your Mercy; correct for me all my matters and do not entrust me to my own self even for the blink of an eye, ever.

      Duaa-2:
      اللَّهُمَّ لاَ سَهْلَ إِلاَّ مَا جَعَلْتَهُ سَهْلاً وَ أَنْتَ تَجْعَلُ الْحَزَنَ إِذَا شِئْتَ سَهْل
      [Allâhumma lâ sahla illâ mâ ja‘altahu sahlâ wa anta taj‘alu al-hazana idhâ shi’ta sahlâ.]
      Oh Allah! Nothing is easy except what You have made easy. If You wish, You can make the difficult easy
      Duaa-3:
      اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي عَبْدُكَ ابْنُ عَبْدِكَ ابْنُ أَمَتِكَ نَاصِيَتِي بِيَدِكَ ، مَاضٍ فِيَّ حُكْمُكَ ، عَدْلٌ فِيَّ قَضَاءُكَ أَسْأَلُكَ بِكُلِّ اسْمٍ هُوَ لَكَ سَمَّيْتَ بِهِ نَفْسَكَ أَوْ أَنْزَلْتَهُ فِي كِتَابِكَ ، أَوْ عَلَّمْتَهُ أَحَدًا مِنْ خَلْقِكَ أَوِ اسْتَأْثَرْتَ بِهِ فِي عِلْمِ الْغَيْبِ عِنْدَكَ ، أَنْ تَجْعَلَ الْقُرْآنَ رَبِيعَ قَلْبِي ، وَنُورَ صَدْرِي ، وَجَلاءَ حُزْنِي ، وذَهَابَ هَمِّي
      [Allaahumma innee ‛abduk-abnu-‛abdik-abnu-amatik, naaṣiyatee biyadik, maaḍin fiyya ḥukmuk, ‛adlun fiyya qaḍaa’uk, as’aluka bi kull-ismin huwa lak, sammayta bihi nafsak, aw anzaltahu fee kitaabik, aw ‛allamtahu aḥadan min khalqik, awis-ta’tharta bihi fee ‛ilmil-ghaybi ‛indak, an taj‛al-al-quraana rabee‛a qalbee, wa noora ṣadree, wa jalaa’a ḥuznee, wa dhahaaba hammee]
      O Allah, I am Your slave, son of Your slave, son of Your handmaid, my forelock is in Your hand (i.e. You have total mastery over me), Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just." I ask You by every name belonging to You which You named Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You, that You make the Qur'an the life of my heart and the light of my bosom, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety.

    • @Muffinman75
      @Muffinman75 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alishah6591 may Allah reward you brother and may he unite us in the highest levels of Jennah my beloved brother! Ameen!

    • @Muffinman75
      @Muffinman75 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mizanmishu5521 may Allah reward you brother and may he unite us in the highest levels of Jennah my beloved brother! Ameen!

  • @shadiaeyerinhelen3246
    @shadiaeyerinhelen3246 ปีที่แล้ว

    Three important way to overcome stress
    1.Stress, grief and anxiety is the part and parcel of our life.Not just being a Muslim but being a human.
    2.Qadr helps us overcoming the stress.
    Believe in qadr or predestination.
    Everything happens in the will of Allah and the decree of Allah.
    Nothing is going to happen to me except what Allah decreed to happen to me.He is my Maola.
    3. There is ajr or reward linked to that stress.

  • @jessicajohannarodriguezvil741
    @jessicajohannarodriguezvil741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Assalamu alaikum, is the stock market halal?

  • @nasrinakhter8008
    @nasrinakhter8008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Assalamu alaikum

  • @sincereman6939
    @sincereman6939 ปีที่แล้ว

    Plz make dua for me.

  • @maliksaifaminoden9785
    @maliksaifaminoden9785 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sheikh, it's been a while without those library chats. A lecture about Ibn Siena and Al-farabi's islamic views will be interesting.

  • @irphanmohamed484
    @irphanmohamed484 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salam,
    i’m searching for the
    verse on the people entering Janna that he used at the beginning of his speech, can anyone quote me the verse please?
    Thank you very much.

  • @Als1822
    @Als1822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    normalize seeking therapy. don't shame people with lack of eman for the same. past traumas can be debilitating

  • @dianamohamed7593
    @dianamohamed7593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    دعاء يا حي يا قيوم برحمتك أستغيث أصلح لي شأني كله ولا تكلني إلى نفسي طرفة عين
    اللهم لا سهل إلا ما جعلته سهلا وأنت تجعل الحزن إذا شئت سهلا
    اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي عَبْدُكَ ابْنُ عَبْدِكَ ابْنُ أَمَتِكَ نَاصِيَتِي بِيَدِكَ ، مَاضٍ فِيَّ حُكْمُكَ ، عَدْلٌ فِيَّ قَضَاءُكَ أَسْأَلُكَ بِكُلِّ اسْمٍ هُوَ لَكَ سَمَّيْتَ بِهِ نَفْسَكَ أَوْ أَنْزَلْتَهُ فِي كِتَابِكَ ، أَوْ عَلَّمْتَهُ أَحَدًا مِنْ خَلْقِكَ أَوِ اسْتَأْثَرْتَ بِهِ فِي عِلْمِ الْغَيْبِ عِنْدَكَ ، أَنْ تَجْعَلَ الْقُرْآنَ رَبِيعَ قَلْبِي ، وَنُورَ صَدْرِي ، وَجَلاءَ حُزْنِي ، وذَهَابَ هَمِّي

  • @abusadi4742
    @abusadi4742 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Quran can't teach people how to be witty. Rasoolullah (sallalahu alayhi wassallam) is the example to model. But reading hadith will not give any hint about it. Because he(sallahu alayhi wassallam) used very simple statements to change people's emotions. The real secret is in his emotional tone,facial expressions,body guestures, giving attention to people and physical health.
    Is the objective of your ibadah "Ya Allah, I want to be like rasoolullah" ?
    Interesting topic to research would be why are so many Muslims extremely good in understanding Quran but have acquired the manners(psychological and physical) of Shaitan?

  • @moseskibirige5577
    @moseskibirige5577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jazak'Allahu Khair Sheikh. This is the kind of sermon we need in such unprecedented times.